Trauma, Relationships and VOICE. How do I Develop My Voice? PLUS: What is the purpose of VALIDATION?

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  • Опубліковано 13 жов 2024

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  • @WulfpakDrums
    @WulfpakDrums Рік тому +2

    You are about the only person I've come across who can explain the intricacies of this multifaceted condition we are facing off with. Every single video I am like holy shit someone out there gets it! Validation is huge, I am trying to help my partner see that this is all I need, I don't need a massage or reiki session or all of their free time, just a hug and a loving 'I see you.'

  • @claird6477
    @claird6477 2 роки тому +1

    I get anxious just watching this and thinking about it. my heart starts thumping..

  • @nicolaimartin3803
    @nicolaimartin3803 3 роки тому +5

    I am so glad I found your channel. My life is starting to make sense

  • @raccoola5089
    @raccoola5089 3 роки тому +2

    Wow this video was packed with a-ha moments for me. I also thought the dam-river-delta-ocean metaphor was really beautiful. Thank you

  • @joanomahony5199
    @joanomahony5199 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Karuna thank you for your videos, they are very informative. Could you cover the topic - reasons why children of controlling parents find it difficult to regulate their emotions. Thank you.

  • @sydney.josieee
    @sydney.josieee 2 роки тому

    This is amazing thank you so much🙏🏾

  • @iantaylor5746
    @iantaylor5746 3 роки тому +1

    'how can you possibly know how to skillfully share your voice when youre older?'
    Simple, with extreme prejudice
    '... we will then feel guilty for sharing our voice as an adult'
    Yeah, that makes sense. More often, I'd speak out as an act of rebellion or confrontation with perceived misdoings. Which, of course, resulted in much violence.

  • @blondiex3308
    @blondiex3308 3 роки тому +3

    This is lovely information, unfortunately for me it is hard for me to gather it unless I keep rewinding because there are no pauses or moments where you take a breath on video.
    I am sure I am not alone in this feeling/opinion. Please, for someone who is easily responsive off racey energy, allow there to be space and moments of peace between your explanations/sentences so one can have a moment to gather and process the depth of what you just said.
    Thank you 🙏🏻💜

  • @a_diamond
    @a_diamond 3 роки тому +2

    Validation.. our voice being "heard".. I don't get everything you are telling us, but I think this one clicked..

  • @lindalevy396
    @lindalevy396 11 місяців тому

    What about when you’re approaching the third stage but you’re still being shut down by parents or people who can’t handle normal communication

  • @parkerwonser
    @parkerwonser 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️

  • @a_diamond
    @a_diamond 3 роки тому

    Okay, so I found this one next.. xD There is a relief in irony isn't there? :)