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Was in an abusive household, recommended to get counseling from school, traditional German therapist found me very gifted but "spoiled" and recommended MORE physical correction. Only helpful therapist told me to just survive until I was 18 and taught me self hypnosis (a precursor to my meditation years later.) Bullied at home, then bullied at school. Just happy to have survived without addiction, unwanted pregnancies, kids to pass on toxicity, a criminal record or divorces. Success can look different for every person. For me it was peace in my own home and self. Hang in there, fam. 🙏🕊️
Glad you made this far . Be easy on yourself ok. Try to heal as much as you can. And forgive yourself for your limitations. All the best for your life.
@@robynhope219 Hello, I'm a bit curious, can you tell us more? Of course we are only humans full of good and bad habit/manners. If he is arrogant, it's a bit shame. I say that cause I had the pleasure to meet by chance a singer who play in stadium but is so humble. Can you tell us how Gabor Maté behave off camera?
I'm listening to his book, "When the Body Says No: the Cost of Hidden Stress." It's so insightful and makes me reflect on my behaviors and what causes them.
@@HandsofGlory1sadly, that was written in language that my brain, affected by FND, couldn’t “access”. I’m hoping that Gabor Mate’s book might be a little easier for my brain to digest.
I had many traumatizes in my first 5 years. I was terrorized at 6 months old. I wasn't wanted by. my parents and brothers. It's amazing that I survived until now at 75.
I am so grateful for my parents the way they raised us We didn’t have much growing up in Romania but we were loved and raised in a peaceful stable home Never our parents put us down or abuse us in any shape or form God be glorified forever
I’m told I’m massively suppressing anger. I’m also told I have CPTSD. Knowing what the issues are is nice, but navigating a way to recovery is not easy.
Oh my god! Denial of reality IS a result of trauma! I have been asking myself many times how this could be the case, believing something genuinely false, for few people I met in my life! This actually makes sense!
Although it’s not an obvious trauma, and not nearly as bad as many tragic stories here, the British boarding school system - of being away from home from the age of 7, for months on end - was traumatic for me and, I genuinely believe, for all that go through it.
Yes, you are right to identify with that. I recognised this in many boarders who went from a young age. Separation anxiety from care givers is still a kind of abandonment, esp if attachment was poor. Being left or told off for crying. Being ridiculed by peers. In the adults I knew who were boarders many had addictions
It's a huge abandonment trauma. Your parents dropped you off with strangers in a weird hierarchical system where you became the lowest status individual and had your unique personality made into a weapon to attack you with. It's a big T trauma to a child. Akin to an adult being sent to prison.
Mr. Mate, thank you so much for articulating this so clearly. It fully explains the outbursts of rage I've been having in recent years. Now that I get it, I can talk about it in therapy. Much appreciated.
How I wish I had come across Dr Mate years ago, and that the people who judge me could hear him now. I have had a lifetime of physical and psychological problems. If only!
However, THE MOST CRUCIAL IMPORTANT movement forward (you)one can do in trauma healing is focus on self. Release any all ideas of these other people. Let that s go. This is where true freedom appears! 🧡🙏🏼💫🗝️
@@wellinever1558knowing ourself is a process… there are life stages too… 20 40 60 80 100 - they’re very different places to experience the world and Self.
I read Dr Mate’s book after hearing him on another podcast. One of the wisest, most compassionate, humans I have had the good fortune to listen to. I’ve learned that most people we meet have some Trauma or another influencing their personality and psychological make up. I find that simply acknowledging this pov, helps me be more considered, understanding and kinder when dealing with other people… and myself
One of the worst things is wondering for decades why your father couldn’t seem to love you and then, after his death, find out he was placed in a Catholic orphanage at the age of three where he was relentlessly abused untill the age of 14. All the things we could have done together, the conversations we could have had and all those wonderful things. And you’re left with the guilt of not having loved your dad because you thought he was such a “difficult” man. 😭😭😭
Totally, makes sense to me! Some people may wondered as to how I can stayed so strong at times and the truth is that I've never been given another choice!!! I've learned to never be expecting anything from anyone else but to provided for myself; including, loving myself and since I am not one to quit; I just refused to have any expectations of others in regards to myself or to be putting any expectations on others to do so for me. If I've ever had any expectations from others, towards me, its just; simple and common, Human respect as I always try and do for another person and I don't think that is too much to asked or be expecting from otherwise, people who are emotionally healthy. 😮
Medical trauma in infancy needs to be added to this sadly long list of capital T traumas. Spending infancy fighting for survival in NICU's or having the body cut open in surgery are traumas just as much as the others are.
Thank you. My cousin was 2 months older than me and had brain surgery at 1 week old. It was incredible what she had to endure in her life, so much fear and low self esteem.
I agree, when I done some regression, I was in hospital alone after an asthma attack. I felt terrified and like I was being smothered. I was 3 years old at the time.
I knew poverty and extreme wealth as a child, in my family, then in my adopted family, and I can say poverty was better for me, than the sickness and depravity, and denial of kindness and reality I felt in the wealthy family set up. I escaped at age 40. and chose poverty, and homelessness twice, to get away from the so-called wealthy. Spiritual Poverty is the real issue. I am sending everyone very big beautiful love to inspire your own inner light to shine and clear away the pain, wreckage and nonsense that may have hurt you, with trusted supporters. Trust yourself. You can heal anything.
Thank you for the hug, it’s most welcome. My Traumas are many and complex, and I’m now disabled as a result of my brain finally saying “no more” and partly shutting down! I have a functional neurological disorder, which is a broad umbrella diagnosis for a huge range of “things that have gone wrong with the brain’s wiring that manifest themselves physically”. I wish you inner peace.
Never heard of this man before and I almost skipped over it because of the photo click bait that absurdly implies that the reason a man looks worn out at age 45 as compared to age 12 is because of trauma. I'm glad I didn't skip over it.
I definitely have pent up rage about Big T traumas from my family of origin and domestic violence in my former marriage. I’m trying to find constructive ways to release it. Dance is helpful, as is writing and talking openly about things I had kept hidden because of shame.
In therapy, I came upon an inner OCEAN of bitter, murderous RAGE & fortunately was led to a book which taught me how to SAFELY discharge or vent most of that ocean of bottled up, DANGEROUS RAGE/HATRED. I still need some therapy or resolutions but the horrifying level of anger and hatred is no longer so serious. WHEW!!!!
my fATHER GREW UP IN EXTREME POVERTY, FOOD INSECURITY AS IN FULL BORE STARVVATION MAINLY AND THEN @ 17 HE ENLISTED IN WW ii. HE WAS SHOT, BLOWN UP, ETC. HE NEVERGOT OVER THE DAMAGES. HE LIVED HIS ENTIRE LIFE IN SHELL SHOCK. NEVER DRANK OR USED DRUGS JUST LIVED A LONELY DESPERATE LIFE UNTIL HE DIED. ACTUALLY HE EMOTIONALLY DIED LONG, LONG BEFORE HE REACHED TEENAGED HOOD.
@@robynhope219 I am so sorry. That is so sad. I send you love, and hope, robynhope219. Love is a miracle we can access, no matter what we endured. I pray you are well supported.
I grew up in a very large Irish Catholic family, regular spousal physical abuse - alcohol related at weekends, during the week, calm! And, then because mother was abused, she didn't safeguard any of her children from that same abuse either, especially her only male child - father hated that she treated him differently to all female children. These weren't invisible effects BUT, being exposed/witnessing this behaviour in childhood has defo affected all my relationships throughout my life, especially romantically. I much prefer to live alone these days but I absolutely love my only son.
I’ve been abused by my family my entire life, I became their slave, I wasn’t allowed to date , I didn’t go to high school because mom thought I was going to be a hooker, I got married at 17 years old, tried to escape from it, the reality was that I took all the wounds with me, I have 4 kids and later my daughter became my bully inflicted, she ashamed me in front of everyone, all instructed by my sister… I’m in a later stages of gastric cancer, I’m in bones, I begged my family for help because I lost my job, I needed treatment for the cancer, my daughter told them that I was fine, that I was perfectly fine to get a job, my wealthy family denied the help. How can I heal from all this? How can I die in peace? ❤
I’m so sorry. So what he also says is that illness derives from the inability to express healthy anger, or anger in a healthy way. So maybe if you could find a way to express all the anger that you have to be holding in for your family and your daughter. Curse them out tell them what assholes they are. They’re not helping you anyway.
@@betsyc6055 😂 I love the way you tell me how to express my anger! Right now, I have no more anger, I have pain physically and emotionally I’m completely drained, I feel sorrow. Thank you for making me laugh! Have a blessed day!
I believe we come into this world to gain wisdom. I've dealt with enormous amounts of physical pain in my life. Nobody ever cared about my situation. We both know what love ISN'T. I send you my best wishes for peace, and deliverance from your torments. My heart is with you. You have a beautiful smile.
I’m hoping that I am wrong but I’m concerned about the next 10-20 years with the current situation of the family dynamics inside the home. I heard that 3 out of 5 children are being raised in a fatherless household. What is the impact of this on their lives? I’m not sure what the effects will be but I’m concerned.
1 Nov 24, this is so random why it popped up. Never heard of this man. The young man looks familiar. Not sure who he is. Or the other man. Got to go to bed now. I read and replied to a comment below. I'll watch tomorrow. Think it will be intresting. Check out how am at. Have I healed my trauma wounds ❤
I like Gabor Mates Trump portrait. With the current demonisation of him, it is helpful to see that Trump has been a victim of his family and he is essentially not a morally flawed individual, but acting out his childhood trauma. He really behaves just like a kid many times.
False memories is such a ' over used expression by lazy therapist '. Get a 2 nd an 3 Rd opinion please. It can be reabuse to have real memories be discounted as false.. don't ask ' anybody _ go to person's that know their stuff ...😊
U win the ability to know what NOT to be and hopefully become what you needed 😊 especially if you have children.. I hope you're doing ok now and trying to heal..you survived through it all, you're stronger now I'm sure
The way you describe trumps trauma and his response and behaviors/delusions/believing his own lies point him out to have Narcissistic personality disorder ?
Abused from 4 until weeks before my ninth birthday by a priest in Toronto Archdiocese. He came for dinner monthly for years after. Despite wearing a Roman collar, the church says he wasnt their problem, as he taught . Mom let a priest through our door, not a university prof. It's not helpful.
He didn’t say Trump was a perpetual liar. I didn’t like the host was leading the audience to assume Trump is a perpetual liar because he experience trauma. Sometimes trauma makes people exceptional at handling chaotic situations. You can still have trauma and it can make you hyper vigilante and other behaviorsl, but it doesn’t mean you can’t be a productive member in society. Not every trauma survivor should be assumed to be a perpetual liar. The host shouldn’t have made this political.
FUN FACT, look at the age, speech, accent, and racial profile of the two people in the video...What does that tell you? I look honest, I sound exotic, many clinic experience and findings must be true, and applicable to all that listen to the video..😂😂 Hollywood never loses❤❤
Up to now, I have respected Dr. Gabor Mate’s professional opinions; however, as a clinician, he should know better than analyze someone who is not his client or patient. Also, for fair balance, if he chose to go against his professional ethics and analyze one political candidate, he should have equally analyzed the other. Don’t we want equality after all? Regrettably his approach was redolent of someone trying to use this platform to influence others in favor of his political choice. Frankly, I expected better from Dr. Mate.
I don't think it was political at all , rather Trump's behaviour ' stands out ' very publicly and Trump brings his behaviour very public so it's a obvious person ...
Doesn’t seem like it mattered one bit, they’re speaking about people not politics. You’re the one reacting as if they offended your god…you should look into that.
@@theDurgaLoveshe’s probably had it and gets it…we all should be working on ourselves, unfortunately people like Trump, Putin etc aren’t humble enough to look inward. As human beings, they’re not very redeemable
Trump is a good man altho hurt and flawed as we all are to varying degrees. But his survival defenses are what made and will make him again an excellent, well respected, world leader. 🇺🇸
I don’t take everything these guys say to mind they have too many influences (that’s the problem with so-called education in which it worships warped egos of the past and men especially have a bad habit of dragging those egos with them and in public space out for a long time) and not enough of their own life experience. This one promotes psychedelics so the intelligence is highly questionable
@@Thailandfc24 But you are a male from Thailand, and Thailand is famous for having outdated and backward thinking when it comes to subjects like this. For this reason your opinion is understandable. EDIT: August 2024: Glad to see you deleted those hateful posts.
Watch the full episode here - ua-cam.com/video/uPup-1pDepY/v-deo.html
@TheDiaryOfACEOClips
Jesus Christ, the interviews on your channel are fascinating.
I am a subscriber and I 👍🏼every episode and clip I listen to. I will work on creating a habit of leaving a short comment. Algorithms are a big part of UA-cam. Algorithms need data inputs. Excellent content creators generate input. I enjoy your channel‼️
Nonsense
Was in an abusive household, recommended to get counseling from school, traditional German therapist found me very gifted but "spoiled" and recommended MORE physical correction. Only helpful therapist told me to just survive until I was 18 and taught me self hypnosis (a precursor to my meditation years later.) Bullied at home, then bullied at school. Just happy to have survived without addiction, unwanted pregnancies, kids to pass on toxicity, a criminal record or divorces. Success can look different for every person. For me it was peace in my own home and self. Hang in there, fam. 🙏🕊️
Similar story❤
Me 2
Glad you made this far . Be easy on yourself ok. Try to heal as much as you can. And forgive yourself for your limitations. All the best for your life.
@@lulumoon6942 yes, indeed...the fact I survived this hellhole of a childhood is itself an accomplishment.
Gabor Mate is a living legend.
Living legend. I love his humility and awareness!!!!
@@ClaireCelticMystic his humility is an act.
@@robynhope219so he has no humility?
@@Fleckscity god, no!! He's arrogant off camera.
@@robynhope219 Hello, I'm a bit curious, can you tell us more?
Of course we are only humans full of good and bad habit/manners.
If he is arrogant, it's a bit shame. I say that cause I had the pleasure to meet by chance a singer who play in stadium but is so humble.
Can you tell us how Gabor Maté behave off camera?
I'm listening to his book, "When the Body Says No: the Cost of Hidden Stress." It's so insightful and makes me reflect on my behaviors and what causes them.
Thank you for your comment. I love it.
Take care, 🙏🏻
J
I am listening to it also. He has a lot of videos that are also helpful.
Also check out the book.. The Body keeps Score by Dr Bessel Van Der Kolk. He's also a top trauma specialist too.
@@HandsofGlory1sadly, that was written in language that my brain, affected by FND, couldn’t “access”. I’m hoping that Gabor Mate’s book might be a little easier for my brain to digest.
I had many traumatizes in my first 5 years. I was terrorized at 6 months old. I wasn't wanted by. my parents and brothers. It's amazing that I survived until now at 75.
Congratulations 🎉
Blessings🙏🏽💜💜
Good for you.
❤❤❤
❤️🙏🏼❤️
I am so grateful for my parents the way they raised us
We didn’t have much growing up in Romania but we were loved and raised in a peaceful stable home
Never our parents put us down or abuse us in any shape or form
God be glorified forever
Wow. Got me daydreaming about what that would be like.
And yr pt is ?
I’m told I’m massively suppressing anger. I’m also told I have CPTSD. Knowing what the issues are is nice, but navigating a way to recovery is not easy.
@@robertgrace6182 GM won't help u navigate...for that u need to go to Dr.Bessel van der Kolk.
Oh my god! Denial of reality IS a result of trauma!
I have been asking myself many times how this could be the case, believing something genuinely false, for few people I met in my life! This actually makes sense!
Although it’s not an obvious trauma, and not nearly as bad as many tragic stories here, the British boarding school system - of being away from home from the age of 7, for months on end - was traumatic for me and, I genuinely believe, for all that go through it.
Yes, you are right to identify with that. I recognised this in many boarders who went from a young age. Separation anxiety from care givers is still a kind of abandonment, esp if attachment was poor. Being left or told off for crying. Being ridiculed by peers. In the adults I knew who were boarders many had addictions
It's a huge abandonment trauma. Your parents dropped you off with strangers in a weird hierarchical system where you became the lowest status individual and had your unique personality made into a weapon to attack you with. It's a big T trauma to a child. Akin to an adult being sent to prison.
Such an important topic. Great that this important subject is getting airtime!
Mr. Mate, thank you so much for articulating this so clearly. It fully explains the outbursts of rage I've been having in recent years. Now that I get it, I can talk about it in therapy. Much appreciated.
You can also write pen on paper …
Thank you Steve for a great show and great questions you ask. Dr. Mate' is a legend - it's a privilege to hear him speak so calmly and so incisively.
How I wish I had come across Dr Mate years ago, and that the people who judge me could hear him now. I have had a lifetime of physical and psychological problems. If only!
The worst is when your family dont understand you.
However, THE MOST CRUCIAL IMPORTANT movement forward (you)one can do in trauma healing is focus on self. Release any all ideas of these other people. Let that s go. This is where true freedom appears! 🧡🙏🏼💫🗝️
@@wellinever1558knowing ourself is a process… there are life stages too… 20 40 60 80 100 - they’re very different places to experience the world and Self.
I always appreciate your interviews with Gabor Maté. Always insightful and thought provoking.
I read Dr Mate’s book after hearing him on another podcast. One of the wisest, most compassionate, humans I have had the good fortune to listen to.
I’ve learned that most people we meet have some Trauma or another influencing their personality and psychological make up. I find that simply acknowledging this pov, helps me be more considered, understanding and kinder when dealing with other people… and myself
Dr. Mate' is awesome, I see a therapist almost every week and have for years. He is brilliant and his kids seem to be pretty well adjusted I must say.
@@talesfromthetarheelstate351 you don't know that!!
What you see in others is a reflection of you. You are brilliant 💫✨✨✨✨🤍🙏🏼
Thermal shouldn't last for years
One of the worst things is wondering for decades why your father couldn’t seem to love you and then, after his death, find out he was placed in a Catholic orphanage at the age of three where he was relentlessly abused untill the age of 14. All the things we could have done together, the conversations we could have had and all those wonderful things. And you’re left with the guilt of not having loved your dad because you thought he was such a “difficult” man. 😭😭😭
Totally, makes sense to me!
Some people may wondered as to how I can stayed so strong at times and the truth is that I've never been given another choice!!!
I've learned to never be expecting anything from anyone else but to provided for myself; including, loving myself and since I am not one to quit; I just refused to have any expectations of others in regards to myself or to be putting any expectations on others to do so for me.
If I've ever had any expectations from others, towards me, its just; simple and common, Human respect as I always try and do for another person and I don't think that is too much to asked or be expecting from otherwise,
people who are emotionally healthy. 😮
This presenter starts off with a simple perfect question. Good job.
The is world renowned Doctor and speaker Gabor Mate.
Medical trauma in infancy needs to be added to this sadly long list of capital T traumas. Spending infancy fighting for survival in NICU's or having the body cut open in surgery are traumas just as much as the others are.
Yes, including trauma in the womb, being delivered (forceps), arrival with crazy mother who can’t or won’t hold baby …. 🙏🏻
Thank you. My cousin was 2 months older than me and had brain surgery at 1 week old. It was incredible what she had to endure in her life, so much fear and low self esteem.
@@Norton57 You mean the brain surgery caused low self esteem and fear? There must've been another reason.
I agree, when I done some regression, I was in hospital alone after an asthma attack. I felt terrified and like I was being smothered. I was 3 years old at the time.
@@BLAB-it5un most certainly...anytime a child has to fight for survival is HUGE trauma.
I knew poverty and extreme wealth as a child, in my family, then in my adopted family, and I can say poverty was better for me, than the sickness and depravity, and denial of kindness and reality I felt in the wealthy family set up. I escaped at age 40. and chose poverty, and homelessness twice, to get away from the so-called wealthy. Spiritual Poverty is the real issue. I am sending everyone very big beautiful love to inspire your own inner light to shine and clear away the pain, wreckage and nonsense that may have hurt you, with trusted supporters. Trust yourself. You can heal anything.
Thank you for the hug, it’s most welcome. My Traumas are many and complex, and I’m now disabled as a result of my brain finally saying “no more” and partly shutting down! I have a functional neurological disorder, which is a broad umbrella diagnosis for a huge range of “things that have gone wrong with the brain’s wiring that manifest themselves physically”.
I wish you inner peace.
I needed to hear this. Going to look up the full interview now.
Gabor is absolutely the best.
Never heard of this man before and I almost skipped over it because of the photo click bait that absurdly implies that the reason a man looks worn out at age 45 as compared to age 12 is because of trauma. I'm glad I didn't skip over it.
I definitely have pent up rage about Big T traumas from my family of origin and domestic violence in my former marriage. I’m trying to find constructive ways to release it. Dance is helpful, as is writing and talking openly about things I had kept hidden because of shame.
In therapy, I came upon an inner OCEAN of bitter, murderous RAGE & fortunately was led to a book which taught me how to SAFELY discharge or vent most of that ocean of bottled up, DANGEROUS RAGE/HATRED. I still need some therapy or resolutions but the horrifying level of anger and hatred is no longer so serious. WHEW!!!!
my fATHER GREW UP IN EXTREME POVERTY, FOOD INSECURITY AS IN FULL BORE STARVVATION MAINLY AND THEN @ 17 HE ENLISTED IN WW ii. HE WAS SHOT, BLOWN UP, ETC. HE NEVERGOT OVER THE DAMAGES. HE LIVED HIS ENTIRE LIFE IN SHELL SHOCK. NEVER DRANK OR USED DRUGS JUST LIVED A LONELY DESPERATE LIFE UNTIL HE DIED. ACTUALLY HE EMOTIONALLY DIED LONG, LONG BEFORE HE REACHED TEENAGED HOOD.
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Applies to my father as well. He had an awful life and horrible death. He actually died from not wanting to live anymore
My heart breaks for these men and for their children. Even those who are full of compassion like you, as they too were wounded.
@@robynhope219 I am so sorry. That is so sad. I send you love, and hope, robynhope219. Love is a miracle we can access, no matter what we endured. I pray you are well supported.
I can't stand my father, without anything in particular I am triggered by his voice and. Acts, mere presence.
Ditto for my mother, and now she is dead, and it took me years to get her voice out of my head.
I can't stand your father either.
Me too!!! Just seeing his face in pictures triggers me.
I grew up in a very large Irish Catholic family, regular spousal physical abuse - alcohol related at weekends, during the week, calm! And, then because mother was abused, she didn't safeguard any of her children from that same abuse either, especially her only male child - father hated that she treated him differently to all female children. These weren't invisible effects BUT, being exposed/witnessing this behaviour in childhood has defo affected all my relationships throughout my life, especially romantically. I much prefer to live alone these days but I absolutely love my only son.
Thank you for this video
Great talk but the backdrop is like black metal cage door or dark jail bars. Let there be light!!
I’ve been abused by my family my entire life, I became their slave, I wasn’t allowed to date , I didn’t go to high school because mom thought I was going to be a hooker, I got married at 17 years old, tried to escape from it, the reality was that I took all the wounds with me, I have 4 kids and later my daughter became my bully inflicted, she ashamed me in front of everyone, all instructed by my sister…
I’m in a later stages of gastric cancer, I’m in bones, I begged my family for help because I lost my job, I needed treatment for the cancer, my daughter told them that I was fine, that I was perfectly fine to get a job, my wealthy family denied the help.
How can I heal from all this? How can I die in peace? ❤
I’m so sorry. So what he also says is that illness derives from the inability to express healthy anger, or anger in a healthy way. So maybe if you could find a way to express all the anger that you have to be holding in for your family and your daughter. Curse them out tell them what assholes they are. They’re not helping you anyway.
@@betsyc6055 😂 I love the way you tell me how to express my anger! Right now, I have no more anger, I have pain physically and emotionally I’m completely drained, I feel sorrow.
Thank you for making me laugh!
Have a blessed day!
My heart hurts for you.
Pray about it 🙏 🙌 ✨️
I believe we come into this world to gain wisdom. I've dealt with enormous amounts of physical pain in my life. Nobody ever cared about my situation. We both know what love ISN'T. I send you my best wishes for peace, and deliverance from your torments. My heart is with you. You have a beautiful smile.
thank you
I’m hoping that I am wrong but I’m concerned about the next 10-20 years with the current situation of the family dynamics inside the home. I heard that 3 out of 5 children are being raised in a fatherless household. What is the impact of this on their lives? I’m not sure what the effects will be but I’m concerned.
They miss out a lot on having a male mentor; 15:28 mothers can do but so much, it's a very sad situation 😢
I love his voice and the way he speaks.
1 Nov 24, this is so random why it popped up. Never heard of this man. The young man looks familiar. Not sure who he is. Or the other man. Got to go to bed now. I read and replied to a comment below. I'll watch tomorrow. Think it will be intresting. Check out how am at. Have I healed my trauma wounds ❤
I am intrigued now… who was this “calm guest” on your podcast … please share few hints?!
Gabor Maté
DR. GABOR MATE
How can you tell someone that they are suffering from trama wounding?
This is amazing! I definitely don’t feel alone ❤ God bless us all. Thank you for this Doc 🙏🫶
I like Gabor Mates Trump portrait. With the current demonisation of him, it is helpful to see that Trump has been a victim of his family and he is essentially not a morally flawed individual, but acting out his childhood trauma. He really behaves just like a kid many times.
Is it possible to have ptsd types of behaviour from false memories? In particular addiction?
Yes
Cptsd
False memories is such a ' over used expression by lazy therapist '. Get a 2 nd an 3 Rd opinion please. It can be reabuse to have real memories be discounted as false.. don't ask ' anybody _ go to person's that know their stuff ...😊
Abuse, addiction, parental violence, divorce, poverty, improper nutrition... Bingo! What do I win?!
Hopefully a good sense of humor and perspective, if you're going to survive
U win the ability to know what NOT to be and hopefully become what you needed 😊 especially if you have children..
I hope you're doing ok now and trying to heal..you survived through it all, you're stronger now I'm sure
The way you describe trumps trauma and his response and behaviors/delusions/believing his own lies point him out to have Narcissistic personality disorder ?
Abused from 4 until weeks before my ninth birthday by a priest in Toronto Archdiocese. He came for dinner monthly for years after. Despite wearing a Roman collar, the church says he wasnt their problem, as he taught . Mom let a priest through our door, not a university prof. It's not helpful.
I'm so sorry and what a horrible betrayal.. heal and reclaim yr life 🎉
He didn’t say Trump was a perpetual liar. I didn’t like the host was leading the audience to assume Trump is a perpetual liar because he experience trauma. Sometimes trauma makes people exceptional at handling chaotic situations. You can still have trauma and it can make you hyper vigilante and other behaviorsl, but it doesn’t mean you can’t be a productive member in society. Not every trauma survivor should be assumed to be a perpetual liar. The host shouldn’t have made this political.
If it's hurting your feeling you can always vote for Trump..... that's the beauty of democracy. 😂😂
@@dihydrotestosterone I said I was annoying. I don’t expect Kamala supporters to know how to read or contribute to a conversation.
What caused Kamala to become a narcissist/sociopath?
@@dihydrotestosterone It didn’t hurt my feelings. What a weird response to my response. Kamala voters are so creepy.
Trump scores very high in narcissism, whether you agree or disagree with his policies.
FUN FACT, look at the age, speech, accent, and racial profile of the two people in the video...What does that tell you? I look honest, I sound exotic, many clinic experience and findings must be true, and applicable to all that listen to the video..😂😂 Hollywood never loses❤❤
What’s your problem?
@@sVVsamright?
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Up to now, I have respected Dr. Gabor Mate’s professional opinions; however, as a clinician, he should know better than analyze someone who is not his client or patient. Also, for fair balance, if he chose to go against his professional ethics and analyze one political candidate, he should have equally analyzed the other. Don’t we want equality after all? Regrettably his approach was redolent of someone trying to use this platform to influence others in favor of his political choice. Frankly, I expected better from Dr. Mate.
Then vote for your orange Jesus 🍊
That's the beauty of democracy. 😅
He also analysed Hillary Clinton, what are you on about???
You don’t have respect or capacity for grasping psychology
I don't think it was political at all , rather Trump's behaviour ' stands out ' very publicly and Trump brings his behaviour very public so it's a obvious person ...
Bad move to make this political
Doesn’t seem like it mattered one bit, they’re speaking about people not politics. You’re the one reacting as if they offended your god…you should look into that.
What in speaking about a person's behaviour ( very public behaviour is policial ???
Trump needs therapy!
Most people need therapy.
@@svenskanorsk true 😉
So does Kamala. Wake up
@@theDurgaLoveshe’s probably had it and gets it…we all should be working on ourselves, unfortunately people like Trump, Putin etc aren’t humble enough to look inward. As human beings, they’re not very redeemable
Holy crap. I feel bad for trump ??
Yes. Everyone is just reacting from their childhood even the narcissist. They are driven alot of times
Don't feel bad for Trump. While it's not his fault he has a cluster b personality disorder, he's still in control of his actions.
VOTE FOR HIM!
Trump is a good man altho hurt and flawed as we all are to varying degrees. But his survival defenses are what made and will make him again an excellent, well respected, world leader. 🇺🇸
I hope ur joking.
Started the downslide, by saying "this is not political" and then went totally political Gabore you let yourself down....
No. You didn't understand
Mate is not an expert on Donald Trump.
He never said he was. Duh
What????
That Trump's bullying, cruelty and utter disregard for anyone else, it's OBVIOUS he experienced TRAUMA as a child---and has never dealt with it
No, he’s an expert on human behavior. Trump is human right?
I don’t take everything these guys say to mind they have too many influences (that’s the problem with so-called education in which it worships warped egos of the past and men especially have a bad habit of dragging those egos with them and in public space out for a long time) and not enough of their own life experience. This one promotes psychedelics so the intelligence is highly questionable
there is one visible effect of childchood trauma - you join canadian asociacion of psychologists 😅
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As if not every politician is a pathological liar 🫶 let's not play games.
More excuses for ppl that’s all
NO!
@@lindanorris2455 excuses excuses -
@@Thailandfc24 You sound emotionally immature so I'm guessing you're young. When you are older you'll understand.
@@helenaville5939 I’m 35 - everyone soft especially in America
@@Thailandfc24 But you are a male from Thailand, and Thailand is famous for having outdated and backward thinking when it comes to subjects like this. For this reason your opinion is understandable.
EDIT: August 2024: Glad to see you deleted those hateful posts.
This is amazing! I definitely don’t feel alone ❤ God bless us all. Thank you for this Doc 🙏🫶