Twin Flames Part 3: Attachment, Separation, & Union
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- In part 3 of my Twin Flame series, I answer questions about separation and attachment in the twin flame dynamic.
I answer these 3 questions/comments I received on the twin flame connection:
→ “Am I diminishing the importance of a twin flame connection if I live in a non-attached way?”
→ “Is it possible to have other romantic relationships with other people if I am separated from my twin flame?”
→ “Can union occur if one of the partners is unconscious of the nature of twin flame connections?”
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We don't need our twin and our twin doesn't need us. If we want and desire each other then that's wonderful. The codependency has to be removed
Being in love with someone does not necessarily imply a "co-dependency". Love, by nature, requires a natural merging of two souls.
@@edriley2703 thats not what he said or implied. Codependency has to be gone First
I agree
@@HueManConsciousness 👍
@@edriley2703 But I do agree with your statement. In a loving relationship we do depend on one another. I understand what you mean.
Physists tried sooo hard to separate a whole energy but the energy always finds each other. I don’t think you can get rid of your twin flame yet you can keep denying it just won’t do us any good
Does anyone else feel intense physical pain in the chest when thinking of their twin flame for more than 5 minutes?
bro I do, bad
Yes yess
Whew yah said it
Absolutely. The heartache is excruciating 💔
NEFER PITOU yes it’s awful and I feel like my heart is being tugged on.
My twin flame is my child's father, we had a very deep, firey, intense push-pull relationship. We met each other as young teens. We even had energetic sparks that flowed between our hearts that caused little shocks. He was very damaged from his childhood, and he sabotaged our relationship. I left him; he got on drugs and stayed on them his whole life. I didn't see him for over 30 years. He died a violent death, and I felt the moment of his death. Three months after he died he came to me in my sleep and apologized for hurting me, he said that he didn't know who I was but he knows now that I am his soul love. He said he loved me deeply and intensely, but he was too immature to handle that level of intensity. He told me he saw that I was sick and asked "them" if he could cross me over when it is my time. He said we could be together over there if I would have him, and he said it is my choice. He told me a lot of personal things and some things about the other side. This was so profound and beautiful and powerful. It brought up a whole lot of pain for me because I saw how deep he really did love me, and I was saddened that we couldn't have worked it out here in this realm and in this incarnation. I write this post to let people know that even if it doesn't work out here, you can still be with your twin flame on the other side. I will listen to Christina and not be attached to that invitation I got from my "soul love," and I will just wait to see what is going on when I get over there with him. It is all good no matter what happens, because I truly see real love never dies.
wow. Thank you for sharing this....
Wauw, thank you so much for your story. So beautiful to here❤
I got shown by spirits who my man was before it happened and they said she will remember soon and I did I remembered everything and we have been together for 7 lifetimes
@@coolchoicebro1988 How did they "show" you? Was it a vision or a dream?
@truthseeker5941 he even feels when I take my Xanax. He can feel every emotion I have, one day he said WHY DO I FEEL EMBARRASSED WTH IS GOING ON. I SAID ITS ME YOUR CATCHING MY EMOTIONS IM SORRY AND WE BUSTED OUT LAUGHING, NOW we can tell who's emotions are who.
We can move on but we can’t forget our Twin flame so having a relationship with others is impossible . You can’t allow other guys or girls to touch you because you can’t feel anything . I’m moving on and I’m independent now but just thinking that other someone is holding my hand I can’t deal with that. Relationship will be just a lie if if I try on having a relationship with others ,this will be unfair to that person because I can’t love him unconditionally just like how I love my twin.
I’m glad I’m not the only who has felt the way you do. It has been 25 years now for me. But I’m really okay with it. May your cup’s always half full x
... even with absolute soul-mates, that love us to death, it's just not the same! it's true!
I Think JUST LIKE YOU
OMG ! Well said....incredible
well said.
i really wanna get rid of the attachments so bad. having attachment is tiring, means you keep holding on something that is unsure. like she said have an open heart, welcome any relationship coming into your life
when I met my Twin Flame I began writing poetry, completely out of nowhere but it was effortless and just flowing through me. I wrote this before understanding what a Twin Flame is and now that I understand, it resonates so much
Well to be honest I think that part of the test of a twin flame relationship is that non-attachment applies to all relationships and the healing aspect that our souls need is to open our hearts to self love and try to overcome the need of co-dependency. One has to ask themselves if part of their challenge is to tolerate NOT getting involved with someone else if they are in the process of separation because part of the separation is to heal the codependent aspect of the ego and become stronger in our own company. When one has a twin flame and we are not with them the abandonment or depression or loneliness wounds will surface in full force and that is WHY the separation is there to heal that pain so there is just room for pure love without pain. To replace them or fill the gap is not really a wise divine move and if part of your journey is to gain strength through independence or to tolerate frustration or learn patience why would you want to fill the void. My advice would be to think very carefully about Your emotional state. The twin flame connection is a spiritual and unbreakable bond whereby the two trigger each other's wounds but the point is as each wound heals you come together that is the point of the separation phase -- usually the twins are in contact anyway and in the last phase they are preparing for Union and purging the last bits of ego identity or wounds or false beliefs in preparation to come together in a pure bond. If one of the twins was to pick another during the separation it would trigger the other so it could only mean that there was healing needed in the other twin in regards to what would do to the twin experiencing being replaced. If that is the case it would probably be the earlier phase of the journey. As the journey progresses the bond becomes purified and cleansed and even stronger and the connection is not a game and certainly not something that warrants substituting during the wait. The separation phase shows strength of character and substance to be able to let go of the need for anyone and to focus on self love and no signs of neediness- being alone is one of the tests and the twin flame journey has spiritual challenges and tests and you will know these and usually not be interested in replacing the person you are divinely connected to. Peace and blessings
ᴛʜᴀɴᴋ ᴜ ғᴏʀ ᴛʜɪs ɪɴsɪɢʜᴛ. ᴛʜɪs ɪs ʜᴇᴀᴠʏ
This is exactly where I’m at in this. This twin was so familiar, comfortable instantly. Yet, I have deep childhood wounds that were surfacing keeping us from really connecting. It’s been a year and I’ve been working on those wounds that were surfaced and what I have been discovering is they heal slowly and my attachment to this flame is relaxing. Whether we come back together remains to be seen. But what I’ve learned about self love in the meantime has been more valuable to my spiritual growth and wouldn’t trade for anything
Tania Gauci very well spoken!!! Why would you want to replace your twin for someone else!!! Doesn’t make sense!!! The lone state is for you to love yourself unconditionally so you can love your twin unconditionally!!! There will always be attachment also not the story she spoke about but spiritually; and once you experience it; there is nothing to compare to it!!!
Perfectly said! I cannot replace him.he is part of me and I of him. There are no substitutions. That doesn't mean I didn't meet others during our separations and enjoy my life. But he is my divine partner. Our separations were so necessary for both of us to grow spiritually and rid ourselves of ego and co dependency issues we both had. We are together once again and both have transformed immensely during our last separation. Who's to say we will not separate again if there is still more growth needed. But that's okay because we are soul bonded and will always come back to each other and then remain together in final union once we both are healed enough to complete our soul mission together.
@@DivineGuidanceTarot Do you have any advice on how to deal with separation. I get so triggered like a spoilt child. then i settle down and then it happens again. I cannot control my emotions and i cannot see anything past my twin flame. I cannot even think of moving on without him.
I watched part 1 and 2 and now this one. I completely understood what you meant by no attachment. I'm 62 my husband is 46 and we are twin flames. For YEARS we were so unhappy because I was so attahed!! When I woke up and had my awakening, it was then that we became so happy and I no longer have attachment issues...I love that we both have our own "hobbies" and we love spending time apart and together! We have now been married for 24 years..2 daughters together 23 yrs and 21 years and 2 sons from my other 2 marriages! My eldest son is only 5 years younger than my husband. My sons adore my husband too! This was so amazing! Thank you for explaining my whole life to me! 😭😚💝
I just want to ask if one of the members of your family same birthday as your twin flame? Or vice versa?
Hi Christina! I just found your UA-cam channel and I am absolutely thankful about it. 😊 I have met my Twin Flame almost 7 years ago. We fell in love at that time and we had an amazing romantic relationship for almost five years. One day we experienced a energetic separation and the romantic relationship ended. We where apart for one year and a half. It was a period of intense spiritual awakening and personal growth for both of us. Both of us had other relationships in that time, but none of them felted right. Now we are together again! The separation was a period of intense pain for us. It felted like we have dive into the dark waters of our soul... But it made us grow immensely. Because of this connection I have experienced telepathy and many other forms of non verbal communication. I can feel him, I sense when he is near, I feel when he is sick, when he is in danger... It is like I could see beyond any veil of the 3D reality. Now that we are together again and very tuned, I feel that we are meant to work together for a higher porpoise. It is clear to me that we have a mission to fulfill together related with the awakening process of humanity. Your videos enlightened me and inspired me to keep up with this life changing plan. Thank you very much and a lot of love from Portugal.🙏😊
Christina Lopes Obrigada pelas palavras! Assim faremos! Ambos estamos a trabalhar para trazer um pouco mais de luz e de amor incondicional ao mundo... Agora estamos finalmente libertos do medo da separação porque percebemos que a dualidade é uma ilusão... E aconteça o que acontecer no futuro, nunca deixaremos de nos amar profundamente porque somos incapazes de negar a força da ligação que nos une e que mudou as nossas vidas e as daqueles que nos rodeiam. Um grande abraço e que continues o excelente trabalho no canal.👏❤️
Marisa Cardoso Such a beautiful story! Live it to the max!
Thank you for sharing Cardoso. It amazes me how many times my twin flame and I have separated, yet our souls keep reaching out and finding each other again. Yes, like Christina said, we have a job to do for evolution...and if we are whole and living consciously, we can find each other, love each other and work together. It's such a deep and beautiful connection, i sometimes have no words to explain them. Love and light
Do you have a contact ?
At least now i understand why we repelled each other even tho we were so attached, it'll probably take years for us to meet or talk again. He's probably getting married next month, but knowing that this connexion was something so strong, so meaningful on a spiritual level just warms my heart. Now i can love him, wish him the best of luck and focus on my own evolution for the sake of our connexion. Our souls will meet somewhere sometimes. Until then i'll always love you ❤
Ouch 😢
Do you still love him? I hope you found someone else...
Did he marry?
Great insight, and that fact you are wishing him well is evidence of your healing.
I love my twin beyond attachment,I have fallen in love with self !
you are a gem Christina, it has been a year since I met her the other end of the world.those few weeks together changed my life forever,you are so right ( Heaven and earth will move to bring twins together if for our highest good ) perhaps some day i will look into her eyes again if not thats ok I have a mirror at home.
thank you christina..rob x
@@dubinatub1 Did you find her again?
@@sirprize5191 yes and no.she is very sick last two years,living Hawaii.I went to her but she refused to see me.I stayed but a 30 min drive from her home.she was to sick to see me.that was a nightmare.however a opportunity to work with the island energy's to connect and send her healing.love etc.am told by spirit she is passed the exit stage and recovering.no word in 7 months.However my guides say I will hear from her end of year.I broke contact to allow final resistance to complete between us before union.
That's what I say; "If I wish to see him, I just look in the mirror"
Thank you for sharing Robert. This gives me so much hope
My twin flame past away actually back in 2019. I had an awakening after he passed and I went through ascension and experienced all the symptoms but I never knew what it was until now HE HELPS ME AND GUIDES ME ! Especially through my spiritual journey and my tarot !
That's interesting. My twin flame is still alive but he's getting pretty old and I wonder what our connection will be like when he's nonphysical. Thank you for sharing that.
I really hate the contradiction between defining that profound kinetic like no one else connection and yet we must detach. I am a modern woman of 70 yrs. I have spent my Life being strong and independent so I don't need to cling like a 22 yr old. But we are still in human form and to stop desiring connection makes Life miserable.
I am in re-union w/ my twinflame after years of seleration.
I will integrate this lightness, non-attachment amd letting go. You are freedom. Focused on self- yes! So helpful.
I relate all this to my Buddhism & spiritual meditation practice. I love him dearly.
I know now that the twin flame relationship is designed to challenge our self-concept as ego identified individuals. The Course in Miracles hints at this without calling it a twin flame relationship. The text uses the term "Holy Relationship" and I interpret that as referring to the twin flame relationship. The twin flame relationship isn't some romantic notion. It's a tool to make us aware of who we really are.
I easily let him go but inside my heart was so broken as if its teard. Cried a lot but i never said you should stay with me coz i trust universe .. he will back to me.
The😢❤ sweetest thing
I have ever heard
even without words, the telepathic connection is strong. you can never escape the bond and the more you try to resist the louder the presence of the other is felt as a reminder you cannot deny or suppress the connection exist esp if you try to walk away and not face what needs to be faced. the intensity is what is great and what curses you. the intensity gets too much you need to get some distance in order to rebalance and to sustain the connection. You will go back to each other once contact has been made. it is the best and worse thing to encounter but the growth is profound. nothing like the romances in the movies or books. it tears you apart in order to guide you to be whole again and your TF is designed to do that each time you feel close to complacency and attachment.
I hear you. This is such an enormous lesson in unconditional love, for Self and therefore for Other. I have told him that I see him better with my eyes closed. And that I hear him better in silence. But this is not about him and me. This is about learning our life’s lessons. And if union is ment to occur, it will happen. Not in the interest for our little personas, but for the greater good of all. And if it doesn’t happen in this lifetime, I just know that the connexion will always be there. As ultimately we only meet up with aspects of ourselves all the time☺️. A course in miracles says that Specialness in relationships is a form of separation-consciousness. Preferences are formes of attachment. And attachment equals suffering. Sometimes I think I finally grasp this. Before replunging in désires in particular outcomes. Wow, what a ride!😬🥴😌☺️💫
I have been in separation with my twin for over 2 years now. I just recently found out he’s currently together with my old best friend who is exactly like me (looks like me too). It is the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced. It drives me crazy every single day. I feel like I need therapy cuz it truly is all I can think about all day every day. I’ve been in quarantine alone for months working so hard on myself and finally feel like I’m starting to realize my purpose and work towards my life goals and im finally getting to some real spiritual work and healing. After all this time trying to work on myself and that’s what he’s been up to. I trust the universe though I know everything’s in the greater good and he needs to be free and the story is no where near over and I know I’m on my right path. Just so. Much. Pain. I appreciate the opportunities the pain has provided me to grow. And I am still grateful for the journey. What a blessing to have met him in this life time. May he be happy and free
♥️♥️♥️♥️. Feeling for you. Hang in there. I believe You will connect with him or better!!!!
many beautiful and handsome faces in the whole world but it wont satisfy you...
but if the soul is inlove only one will satisfied you... and you will no longer seek for another the one... real flame is only one... i am polygamous type but when i found my flames, everything changes...
Same i was polygamy and I want to convert to monogamy after meeting my TF
I used to have an open relationship, I dont want anything to do with that for myself. My twin is in one now, we changed stories ;)
finaly someone with great wisdom and knowledge!.
Absolutely agree with you Christina has so much wisdom and insight
I met my twin in 1984. We were 14 years old. I felt the need to walk away from him because I was deeply in love. We both were. Deep down I knew that our timing was not right.
We have since been reunited, in 2015. We were both married. My marraige(s), except one, have all been shams. My marraige was basically over. He was a narcassist sociopath.
My twin & I have a very GOOD relationship. I am friends with his wife and children. My children love him too. Yes, there is always that deep seeded love but...we have learned to live without attachment. We both know that expectations come along attachments. We're always there for each other when needed, along with our families.
We always make alone time for each other but neither of us will disrespect the other or the fact that he is conventionally married. That line is never crossed.
We go places together. Enjoy the time we have. On the same side, we still enjoy each other's time with our families together.
It is an amazing relationship to have.
He is my best friend, my partner in crime, my confidant, he is my "brother from another mother". 😉
We both highly value and appreciate the relationship we have and are very happy with things just the way we are. As perfect as they CAN be. ❤
Thank you for making these three beautiful videos. Before watching these videos I was wondering what the hell going in my life. Just want to share some important highlights of my life with you. Because seriously these three videos changed my view completely whatever happened, happening and will happen in my life. When I was 19 I met a girl and I don't know what happened at that time. I started to push myself to grow. I started learned new things just to match her level. I was not understanding what's happening. I never talked to that girl. We just used to look at each other and while looking at her the connection was something I can't explain. I never felt that we are missing words. Whatever I wanted to say. I always said through my eyes. And whatever she wanted to say. She used to say through her eyes. The bond was something I can't explain. But after three years in 2002, My father died. My life changed completely. My all dreams, wishes were falling apart in front of my eyes. I was broken in peace those days. But still, I was fighting and wanted that person in my life so badly. But due to my conditions, I knew I will never able to give that person the life I want to give. So, I decided to let her go. I just wanted to tell her once that I love her so much and I did that. I never asked her to understand me or my feelings. It's just that the feeling I was going through that let her live the life she wants to live. After telling her about my feelings not completely but just a few of the main ones. I started my life once again. She asked me to promise that I will not spoil my life and I promised that. I saw your one video why we disconnect ourself. Same happened with me. I disconnected myself with all the negative energies were around me. I broke the relation with all my relatives. Started my new life. After all the struggles or you can say going through that process as you mentioned. I started to know my powers, my weaknesses. And today I am a self made man. I have everything which is required to live a respectful life. I always believed that the person I was in love with. If we are meant to each other. she will come in my life again. She went away to a different city after her marriage. And After 13 years journey, She came back. I got to know by someone that she is back again in the same city. But I didn't know where she is living or working. But again my faith helped me to believe that if she is back for some reason. She will meet me one day. One day the temple I go every Tuesday. I saw her mom there. She told me about her. Where she is working and where she is living. But still, I never pushed myself to reach out to her. My faith again stopped me doing that. You won't believe that after a few months I saw her in that same temple. I don't know she was coming there regularly or because her mom told her that I am going there every Tuesday and that's why she started to came there. But finally I found her and the connection was the same when I saw there. I still love her and I feel she feels the same way. All this happened one or two weeks ago. I was wondering what should I do now. Because she is married now and I am also. But as you said this twin flame connection is meant to be made unconventional relationships. I found the way how we can move further. I am glad that I visited your channel and these three videos just changed my view of how I was seeing the situation before watching these. There are so many things I would like to share with you. But that's okay. Just shared a few important things happened. Hope you understand. If there is a way I would like to share my full story with you. But for now thanks once again. Keep doing the great work you are doing.
Yes. A little embarrassed about this topic. But, why is there a constant state of desire (sexually)? I am quite overwhelmed by it. Does this happen to all women experiencing a twin connection?
the connection is so deep and intense that sexual energy is very powerful because with your twin you are going to be able to express yourself with out judgement, conditioning, attachment it's freedom and trust.. something that can't be described in words... and specially nothing to be embarrassed about, instead explore more about because is teaching you how to express yourself , how to bring your sexuality a live :)
Yes!
yes sexual chemistry is very strong in the beginning of the journey for me. my twin and i have been in separation for 6 months and i no longer have those feelings....first in separation all the time and vivid dreams. i'm quite sure if my twin and i saw each other again in the 3D that chemistry would return. the intensity can be scary but experience the feelings.
Bc sex b/w the Twins is more spiritual than physical.
I am experiencing this as well. It hurts to not be able to truly share this part of ourselves but it's ok.
You are THE FIRST to make Full sense when explaining this topic to me. Thank you. You've helped me TRULY.
I believe that if you're truly on a TF journey, you will take the time to look back on Christina's wise messages only to better understand, resonate with the message of that time.
You truly have to detach and embrace self love - this is what your true TF wants for you, wants for themself.
Thank you, Christina ❤🙏🪶🕊️👑🦃🐪
I got all hyped over hearing that I have a twin flame these past few days from multiple readings and intuitions and signs from the universe and now I’m like well ‘what do I need the twin flame for’ if it’s something I’m not supposed to be attached to ? If the goal is work on myself then are twin flames real ?
This comment! ❤
I agree with you. We don't need someone to be completed. If you need someone to be whole you are incomplete as a person and need to work on yourself more.
I had him on a pedestal for a whole year and it has been so painful the he was still gonna stay married after dating he was gonna to divorce this autumn . So I let him go for good, I deserve to be with someone else and not waste my time waiting for him. He had what he wants even though there is no love. I even blocked him on the social media , no point of letting him see me on my social media.
I often say that it doesn’t make sense to me that we should meet someone who awakens these feelings in us only to have to deny them to prove we can love ourselves more. It seems sadistic. At first, I had a heart full of gratitude for the experience and what appeared to me to be connecting to myself. But my inability to move on from him has created a deep resentment to where I regret this whole experience. I don’t feel I have more clarity (which I thought I was gaining in the beginning). I don’t feel I understand things better (which I thought I was in the beginning). I am more confused than ever and it’s not just confusion about myself or my path - that I could probably handle if it weren’t coupled with the feelings of failure for not being able to move on from him. I wish I had been given this lesson attached to an illness and not a person. At least my growth and appreciation for myself and my life would come from inside of me and not from another. So, whereas I spent months in this place of lightness and gratitude, I am now in a place of bitter resentment that I was ever “guided” to a person to get me to love myself, and I have been in this place for a couple of years now. It also makes little sense that I would be asked to love myself irrespective of “him” when he was the lesson that sparked this in the first place.
I'm glad you said this honestly the whole " Twin Flame" doesn't make sense
I feel unconditional true luv isnt bout taking or receiving otr expecting bout any material or physical contact its more bout accepting the journey in the now an wats to come im on seperation with my flame an i accept all my circumstances thank u for ur guidance u r doing great
Imagine you are swiming under water. You are tired, you want to swim upwards to see sun and have a fresh doze of air and just relax on surface of this water and have sunshine moments by just relaxing. Now think that you have swim up, seen the sun, have this fresh air and then you attach you create this attachment that you want this forever. What happens is that your attachment creates a heavy anchor and what happens with anchor in the sea? It drowns. And you stick to that anchor you will drown deeper and deeper untik you wont see sun no more. So release your self from anchor and very soon you will be enjoying your fresh air and doze of warm sun light up there above surface of the water.
Unattachment is important on any level; I say that because any body that enters your aura for any reason effects if not changes one's perception in that moment. Pick and choose what you allow in. One's twin flame same apply that's how the triggers spark. I have learned controlled detachment. I'm a long distant love lol . thanks for letting me vent although your insight was confirmation to me that I'm on right path.
I really needed to here this today. Can you do a video on the sexuality aspect of twins?
Yes, please!
Ooh yes, it was too good and I he put huge impact on my wants 🤠😂
Right cause its crazy!!!
Honestly, sexual aspect concerns me. I really don't want to complicate this amazing love unless her drive is equally as strong. Then, how would you know?
Yes!
the way you put it ... it is a matter of perception ... anyone is a twin flame to you as long as you've chosen to believe it so
Thanks again Christina...I have only just opened my eyes, heart and soul to the realisation of my twin flame connection. I've always wondered why I felt so so deeply connected and rooted in my twin flame and yes, unable to live without...We repel each other, yet we keep finding each other again and again. I'm now going through a conscious change and truly want a union with my twin flame. Thank you so much for sharing your videos. Living wholely can create a beautiful union...Yet setting free can too...I know and truly believe that our deep soul incarnated connection is so beautiful and that we will always have each other. Peace and light
it has to be practical , if there's been cheating and rejection , it makes it hard to be light and airy
Yes,yes,yes!!! Exactly ,i agree!!
I just found out who my twin flame is. I am finding myself struggling because the connection is so strong right now. I don’t know if they know we are. I was told that everything I am feeling, they are feeling. Also I am married to one of my soulmates. I am not supposed to end up with my twin flame in this life. For some reason I am having what feels like memories rising of me with my twin flame so I am making “stories” in my head. The more I try to ignore the pull to my twin flame the more stressed and anxious I get. I’ve been on the verge of panic attacks. My husband can tell something is up but I was informed not to tell him and I’m not to tell my twin flame as they will come to me.
just happened to come across your videos this morning....the day of my TF's birthday no less. we have been in separation for 6 months, separated due to intensity of repelling as you put it in another video, and now i've gotten to the point of feeling more at peace with this dynamic than when we were together. we communicate at times in the 5D. regardless, i love my TF unconditionally and i know they are with me at all times which is comforting and vice versa. i've become more loving towards my family, friends, and am now open to making new friendships with lots of personal healing projects i'm now involved with pursuing. let go let God.
Thanks so much. You HAVE helped me with this. Your core work of letting go of attachment is particularly helpful. I have put too many labels on, worried about outcomes, had fears of losing him, even though we are not together. This series has really helped me put this into perspective. I thought I was living in total denial when I would put our love on a "shelf". I can see now, that in doing that, I really am letting go of attachment. I only want happiness for him, and for myself, so at this point in our "lives", "you are free" is the most loving thing I could possibly do/say. We both KNOW this is an eternity thing, and we are here to learn, so go learn we will! And in doing so we will fulfill our purpose of bringing a new concept of relationship and love to this world. It IS unconditional. Thanks again!!
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
I've met my twin just several months and we felt strongly drawn to each other without knowing why even though we are not usual favorite type of each other. We opposite outside but somehow same inside, so ridiculous. I can see the wildest dark side of me through this person and he can see the brightest side of him through me. We reflect the deepest hidden desire of each other that's why we wanna run away but also wanna be near each other, too exhausted. I try to meet others just to forget about this twin connection but still can't and it isn't fair for others. If don't see or hear about my twin, I feel peaceful but everytime seeing or just thinking about, I feel headache and heartache. Never felt such weird connection like this.Don't deny that this connection awaken my spiritual awareness to seek for life purpose and find back my passion for life. Maybe I just can escape it only when I "graduate" all lessons need to be learnt - accept and love my trueself - to be the best version of myself.
Yes, you will!
That's what happened to me
I met my twin flame in 1980 we parted ways shortly afterwards. He passed away in 2006, after I realized he was gone recently, I felt his presence and he's still here waiting, I've had a lot of readings and he'll described this personand that were supposed to have a life together but just didn't work out at the time, but that he's hanging around waiting so he doesn't miss me again next time.
I just can’t handle it, those emotions had me crying out of nowhere and it’s a new thing for me
Before i watch this third video, right after the first two hahah, i just wanted to say how thankful i am to have found your videos tonight. They have been very wonderful and helpful. Lots of love ❤️
Thank you thank you thank you for addressing the core issue I’ve been dealing with, which is ATTACHMENT! No one got down to the bottom of it in a way i could understand like you did. Wow, i feel like this realization has just lifted incredibly heavy shackles off me. It will take some time to get used to, but this is the true path to happiness - it stops external things from knocking me off center so easily.
I have to say it again, THANK YOU!
This is more healthier talking about Non attachment than attachment 💯💯. Trust the universe and God. If its meant for you its for you no matter what.
he was the reason of my awakening and now i just cant handle to hear anything on this topic because of the emotion purge being so strong but thanks to your videos i am trying to be resilient! thank you a lot!!!!
I really connect with your videos about Twin Flames, there is so much information out there and none of it really connected. Thank you so much for sharing!
I felt a strong need to come to this video and now I think I know why. I chatted with a psychic medium who literally was telling me this same thing. The pill that’s hard to swallow is knowing that perhaps you’ll never be with who you’re meant to be with but to take away lessons from it. But what she stressed was looking at how you grow out of those moments and approach it from different angles and perhaps they will grow with you. I consider it adapting. I understand it’s painful but in the end, if you’re both not on the same page, is it really worth the struggle of feeling tortured? I’m just talking out loud but you explained this in a way I’ve never heard of before until recently and it’s making me rethink a lot of things so thank you!
Through meditation and satori I have fallen in love with my soul. I don't need anyone to love me. The journey within is what I have discovered. Totally mind-blowing (of course!) So I have found my way.
Kindness is free hugs one size fits all. Share the world. Peace to all.
Divine timing I trust in 🙏😇🌈
Thank you Christina, your videos are so genuine and grounded and I can tell your motive is to enlighten and spread love. I'm 56 and have been a mental health professional for 30 years. I met my twin flame a year ago and our flame burned passionately for 4 months then she left. For 2 months I was in pain and wanted her back so badly. Then my adult son was suicidal and I left my job to spend time with him. He found some healing, then I made the choice to look inside. My life is now so different. I joined a spiritual community and began to see my own attachment issues. And at 56 I began to love myself. Then out of the blue she called me, and slowly we have built a friendship via monthly calls, just to check in. Meanwhile my work is changing from mental health to more holistic and healing centered. My life is so changed. Your videos are such a blessing! I love the encouragement to tell her she is free. I continue to grow and heal. I have projects emerging with focus on helping others experience connection to oneness. I share my spiritual gifts now, not caring if people see me as crazy. Your teachings are a blessing. You are a blessing. I felt compelled to say thank you. Please continue to provide the direction and encouragement that you do.
Steve
🙏 thank you! really can resonate wd no attachment, just pure unconditional love.
I completely understood about non-attachment. I am living this. I am purposefully living it. And I feel safe and just fine with this.
I didn’t feel you diminishing the TF attachment at all... those people probably weren’t TF’s.... this is actually the most practical realistic advice I’ve come across. Thank you!
You are so right. When I met my twin we hardly talked at all but were still deeply connected on a soul level. Such a beautiful and concise series. I shall be checking out more of your vids because you have a rare wisdom and clarity of expression so often lacking in the spiritual 'community' Thankyou so much. 💖
I have this connection. It took 4 years for me to recognize it because we are 30 years apart. I just released that attachment to the idea of being connected in this way. From watching these videos. In the situation we are in he is with someone else but we are deeply connected. His partner completely relates to him through possession and the way I dealt with that was saying "There will be nothing physical." No one can tell me I can't love someone. That's insanity. They can dictate the form of that but that's about it. We competition sail together and he pushes me further than any other person, I have done things well beyond my capacity. His dedication to making me stronger is something I will always be grateful for.
But no one can stop this or tear it asunder. He has referred to me as the missing piece of himself. When you let go of this thing being necessary to have a form, you simultaneously realize it is indestructible. We know what each other is going to do and think and say before we do it. It translates all the way to down the team and makes for a great Foundation.
I was reading a book he wrote and it had a picture of him in the introduction as someone in his twenties and I recognized him. Not just the face as it has changed over the years, but the face done. I had seen it before. That's when I knew. I just sat there and stared at that picture for 2 hours. It was the first time I had ever experienced anything outside of time as I know it in this life.
I know this is for me because I just met my twin flame. Everything you said in part 1 is did on. Out children from day one treated each other like siblings
The wholeness that you spoke of is exactly what was told to me by the angels. After I found out that he sleep with a women that we both knew
We will go through our process but ultimately it is my choice. You where confirmation. Thank you
I choose to live and love with the the open hand anology.... open heart mind and soul.
Thank U for being so Wonderfull clear & wise on the Twin Flame Connection. My Love for my Beloved One is beyond words & attachments & very much in the Here & Now .I Am Love & So Are U. When we dare to surrender to That what Is & go with the flow, the Universe will Always give us exactly what we need. I Am Living in Joy & ever so Gratefull. Namaste
after I met my twin flame, I tried to love someone else, but I just can’t. I can’t feel anything. I can like someone , but loving someone other than him is impossible ...
what if your twin dies? How/why are you connected in this separation?
Comment 203.. Was very nice getting to know you Lady Christina.. Thank-you yet again for walking sown this path.. Beautiful is the closest I can come.. Will most likely never touch the Umbra of my hearts and it is a beautiful thing too. I had never even heard of such a thing.. but she found me.. tears in my eyes that now can see.. there is always hope
Thank you. You have amazing knowledge I am grateful for your amazing wisdom. I am an old soul myself and recently met an amazing person and you have just gave me clarity on that I am my twin flame
YES, this series on Twin Flames has helped me understand what I was/am going through. I totally get it now! I understand what you are saying. Some people are just not there yet. I love listening to your videos. Thank you for sharing.
Well as for other relationships for me it's not happening maybe for others my twin connection is so Strong it's unbelievable he knows everything that I do he also have special ability and yes we are in Separation but he can see what I do the scent my eyes my skin .
I really love your teaching on non attachment. So vital for simply living in this world. Many world religions teach this concept- it’s even a concept in the Star Wars movies!
Whether or not a person wants to have relationships with another while in separation from their TF depends on the person. I am a senior citizen and would probably not want to have a relationship with anyone else. I don't mind being alone. In fact, I was not looking for a relationship when I met my TF. It just happened. Not all people have to be in relationships, especially if intimacy is involved.
But if as you say, we must learn to be whole and happy ALONE , isn't that feeding into the illusion of separation? If the goal was for all to feel happy and satisfied alone, then why would creator source energy have ever separated into so many souls and come to earth to relate to one another? These teachings are quite contradictory. It is a proven fact that humans die earlier and have poorer health without love connection and physical affection. Babies with no bonding or physical affection do not thrive and grow to have severe mental problems. If the goal is for everyone to be happy alone, then why are we all here together, why would there even be romantic love and bonding?
@@ChristinaLopes thankyou for taking the time to reply. In fact since my tf journey and spiritual awakening, and dark night have started 2 years ago, I have finally begun to set healthy boundaries and cut out all toxic people from my life, I have learned to love myself and honor myself. For the first time in my life I prefer to be alone most of the time. However I would be lying if I said that there isn't a deep longing for my twin, even though I feel connected while apart. Truthfully, I have learned to be content alone OFTEN, but if that meant a life without the romantic love and connection with my twin or even a soul mate, then I would rather be dead, seriously. To me a life without love and bonding is not worth the hardship of living in this realm. Facts. Ask nearly anyone if they would be perfectly content living their life alone without ever experiencing true love and intimacy, and I bet 99 percent would see no point to this existence.
@@ChristinaLopes one further point i Would Like To make is that you are teaching from a place where you are currently in physical union. I am willing to bet that if your divine counterpart chose to permanently walk out of your life for good tomorrow, you would not feel content, you would plunge right into the dark night. Please don't take offense to this but I wouldn't believe you if you told me different. I am sure you would have the grace to let them go and love them still unconditionally, but you would go through a whole nother dark night.
@@j.sony. I Apsolulty totally know and believe that what you're saying is 100% truth
That's really deep come to think about it
I❤ love you're comment
Woooow .. how are you now ?
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Yep this is so true I also had False Twin & now I feel strong attraction towards someone I think he is my True Twin
You never “miss” what is meant for you.
You have the best twin flame vids!!
My twin ended up being someone I met in 2010 and I knew there was something about her. 8 years later the exact date I contacted her as I heard she was a therapist and than it began
I’ve questioned my sexuality. I understand attachment theory and the healing of twin flame but there’s more than the psychology to this connection. It is so spiritual
#2: The other reason why you should be open is because the Divine is giving you an opportunity to learn from a new relationship, possibly to find out what your boundaries should be, what you will accept for your highest good and what you will reject, or maybe something else about yourself that you need to heal from.
Being fulfilled with my own self what is not here. Is yet to come. It's not in my hands anymore. Right now I decided to watch this video, I read the comments too. Some people do not get it. I am Reconstructing living my own life using my tools keeping things simple. I used to be codependent it's all having to do with what I see and pick up what is useful to me and what is not. Basics. Thank you for the friendly reminder by the way. I appreciate your feedback.
Our Highest good should be the focus this has no space for attachment only growth individually or collectively....🙏🙏🙏
I met him, it was wonderful connection really. 💙 thank you!
It's not easy to let go!
I think anyone that really has met their twin flame and the connection is activated and flowing freely would understand the importance of detachment and resonate with everything you said in Part 2. Thank you so much for all the wonderful information and positive reinforcement you share. It is so helpful! Regarding the twins flames I think it seems like maybe the people that don't resonate with this information may not have really met their twin flame. For me everything makes perfect sense, fills in the puzzles pieces of understanding and is so helpful. Thank you so much for sharing :D
Follow your inner self. And you intuitions
I use this which help's me alot to feel free ' be open to everything but don't be attached to anything'
In any relationship, there's nothing you need from outside yourself that's not already within yourself.
Hi Cristina, all the things I’m learning watching your videos are helping my ego to fall apart and expanding my mind so wonderfully (to the point that I feel some kind of headache!)
After several different and new things such as clear and confirmed intuitions happening in my life the past two weeks, I had a incredibly deep experience last night while meditating.
My twin flame and I live over 7 thousand miles apart, in different countries, and after two years repealing each other and coming back for the power of our connection, we’re finally planning to live together, but suddenly, I felt completely disconnected to him... while I was meditating last night we have suddenly met and had a such strong telepathy connection, but there was so many more things going on!
I don’t wanna ask you if you believe in that actually because I am 110% sure of what happened and the things I’m being taught by that (and it has everything to do with detachment).
I just really wanted you to be able to tell me something about it if you think you can help me go through it, since I feel this connection has come to me to burn some of my deep carmas from past lives.
I really appreciate you for being such a teacher to me this times
E eu posso explicar melhor em português caso não tenha ficado muito claro.
Thank you so much
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"Jesus said to mary, “Do not cling to Me, for I have not yet ascended to My Father; but go to My brethren and say to them, ‘I am ascending to My Father and your Father, and to My God and your God.’ ”.... John chapter 20 nkjv
🥺 this is the most comforting twin flame video i’ve seen. you are truly inspiring Christina 🫶🏽
I love you videos and how you speak it’s so peaceful. My wife is Ronda she’s is my twin flame 🔥 and hoping for my twin flame to come through for me. Our manifestations..
This is true. False Attachments. You are explaining all very well. Thank you. You are so wonderful. Life is wonderful. I wish you happiness and health and all the best... you are blessed.
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I had a relationship with my twin flame. It turned out that we weren't meant to share this lifetime together, at least it doesn't seem so at this point in my life. Of course, I won't fully and truly know that until the end of this life. That love is true and complete for this life regardless and I am so thankful that I got to share that experience in my life and feel completely fulfilled with what life has given me
Full detachment may be the goal, but you understand that may be fully impossible. Love isn't detatatchment. Detachment to the outcome, sure. Not detachment to your Twin Flame. That is the opposite of love. My Twin Flame connection is promised to result in union, 10:01 and it is part of our purpose. We have had romantic involvement since ancient times. We are one, in two bodies, and truthfully the safest person to love.
Twin Flames very much interest me. I don't understand the need to be avoidant about the topic... We are listening to your video because we are all interested in this topic.
if you accept another romantic connection it means that your not satisfied and you really didnt found the real twin flames... because if it is real twin flames you will not desire for another connection..
fuckin right she's dumb as hell I'm sorry and my twin and I are married and has twin boys looking like us we don't want anyone else. .that's no ego
I dated other people after meeting my twin and it's because I had more lessons to learn. When I met him I intuitively knew I needed to do a lot of inner work and be a better version of myself in order to be with him ( I had no idea what a twin flame was at this time and wasn't looking for a date or anything). Since I didn't do the inner work and kept doing what I was doing I kept attracting lessons to myself.
Being with another may be part of the journey. We can't sit and hope for our twins because they will only elude us. We must let them go and grow
I agree from my own experience - the twin flame connection transcends physical reality - often life situations prevent them from coming to fruition - the knowing is at the soul level - not everyone needs or desires a substitute - the twin flame is a Spiritual connection - let's not forget this - Spiritual does not mean 'flesh' tho it it can manifest to that if/as it is allowed - many who claim to have a twin flame experience are the typical karmic playback variety and that is why they are able to pursue other options
I wish you the best .You are wonderful...
Thank you 🙏. That’s what I was looking for. You helped me a lot to understand many things about TF
I understand what you mean by nonattachment. The ego uses the fear of loss as a tool to keep us identified with it. It says, "stick with me and I'll protect you from emotional pain." Which is really funny because it's literally the source of all pain. Anyway, regarding nonattachment, we are eternal beings connected with God who is love. We are love. Loss is impossible. Attachment is of the ego. The twin flame connection is eternal so why is ego attachment even necessary? Isn't there really a fear with attachment that loss is possible? Even if you're not physically together, there is no loss. This is only one of many lessons the twin flame relationship teaches us.
I interpret attachment as a desperate kind of clinging based on insecurity which comes from ego identification.
You said this perfectly! Thank you!
You are amazing. I felt so peace by watching 4-5 videos. Light flows through your words. Thank you. God bless you.
I agree with non attachment. Whether twin flame or not. We suffer when we attach and lesson our freedom to love openly. It’s difficult because our culture has programmed us to attach and control another
best put is we dont belong to anyone and no one belongs to us.
Thank you for your inspirational comments and advice on twin flames. I am very grateful for your clarity on this topic.
Me and my twin flame didnt know wth a twin flame connection was and we ended up in union. We were both physically dying bc we didnt know. We did know we had some intense feelings for each other but didnt know why but the time wasnt right so i left and 9 years later at our worse we united!!!! Nothing but good is happening now!
Thanks for these 3 twin flame videos, sooooooo helpful xxxx 🙏♥️🧡💛💚💙💜💕🌈🌠
Thank you Christina, your teaching of attachment is on point. We have natural attachment to tangible items, life. I've hit rock bottom to the point of willfully wanting to detach my remaining mortality did I experience my spiritual awakening. Just as you teach, attachment is what keeps us from transforming. Detachment is everything. Thank you for the video
very beautiful message from Christina, thank you!