How to Get Rid of This Crush on a Married Man

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  • @DatingLogic
    @DatingLogic  3 роки тому

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  • @Luna-rf2nz
    @Luna-rf2nz 5 років тому +69

    Im crying. Nah i don’t want to date this married man, but he still comes into my mind

  • @hcristal01
    @hcristal01 7 років тому +139

    I'm so annoyed with myself I just want to get over this married man . I haven't seen him in 2 months or talked to him and I still think about him all the time

    • @EvanNDoan-ry8vf
      @EvanNDoan-ry8vf 7 років тому +2

      I'm there nkw

    • @amandazara3678
      @amandazara3678 6 років тому +4

      Same here

    • @Kemi116
      @Kemi116 6 років тому +23

      Same honey, same. I'm experiencing the same thing but I haven't seen this dear beloved married man of mine in 11 months :(( I spoke to him on the phone briefly like 4 months ago but I can't stop thinking about him. I love him so much that I tend to cry quite frequently over him due to these intense feelings of mine. I received such a powerful feeling of love from this man and connection that I've never experienced before and I know he felt it too, which is why the connection established between us seems to be so strong that I'm struggling very much to get over him.

    • @shawnreed4425
      @shawnreed4425 6 років тому +27

      I work with mine everyday. But this too shall pass.

    • @leoqueen8437
      @leoqueen8437 6 років тому +11

      Mine's keep coming back but why I don't know I love him but over 20 plus yrs it's time for me to LET GO 😢

  • @Goarmy808
    @Goarmy808 8 років тому +108

    Great advice! Got my head clear. I'm in the process of still having a crush on a married guy. I just need time to let it go and accept its not going to happen.

    • @solaprose5042
      @solaprose5042 7 років тому +14

      Alona Templo The same thing for me too. It makes me sad when I think about it, so I try not to.😔😖

    • @cynthiaashworth496
      @cynthiaashworth496 4 роки тому +8

      Same here, gotta let go. The crush hurts. I guess that's why it's called a crush. Because you are left feeling crushed. What is worse is him flirting and getting close to you not telling you he is married. Oh but then you find out and get crushed.

  • @tandrewsbliss745
    @tandrewsbliss745 7 років тому +123

    Time to delete my browsing history

  • @Boitumelo789
    @Boitumelo789 3 роки тому +26

    I wish I had a father figure like you in my life. I can see your a great dad

  • @iknowwhatsup2880
    @iknowwhatsup2880 4 роки тому +28

    So, you have a crush, keep it in your head. ts perfectly natural to be attracted to people.

  • @jennylindberg1123
    @jennylindberg1123 9 років тому +32

    The best advice i ever heard about this. Thank you alot! A girl doesn't need a married man, he can never fulfill her, she needs to build up her life and self esteem as you said, then the true love will come.

  • @theloverevolution_
    @theloverevolution_ 2 роки тому +6

    All the things you think you are lacking that make you attracted to this married man “you can create this for yourself” yes!

  • @stephchan86
    @stephchan86 9 років тому +59

    Thank you for your advice, I actually don't want to have a relationship with him, I really don't want him to leave his wife and 2 kids. I feel tremendously guilty for liking this man. I have thought maybe if we just get together for a touch and go everything will be fine but I also think I might fall more in love. It's also hard to stay away when he looks for me....*sigh* again thank you for your advice :)

  • @Scavenger82
    @Scavenger82 8 років тому +105

    Dude, you should be a therapist.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 6 років тому +3

      MasterQ 19. Probably he is. 😊😊

  • @pinkoptics3
    @pinkoptics3 6 років тому +35

    Thanks for this. I unknowingly got involved with a married man...he didn't even tell me he was married until after we've gone on dates, held hands and shared passionate kisses. Even after he told me he was married, I stuck around for some dumb reason. But this is really messing with my conscience. This goes against my morals. So lately, I've just been distant toward him. I just started nursing school and have been focused on that. The communication between us has dropped and it makes me sad, but I can't be involved with him anymore. I deserve to be a man's priority and I can never be as long as he's married. So I'm taking the advice in this video and moving on with my life. It won't be easy but it's something I have to do for my own sake and sanity.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 6 років тому +6

      royal storm so, you learned the lesson: in any possible future relationship, the first thing you must inquire is about his civil status. 🤔

    • @pinkoptics3
      @pinkoptics3 6 років тому +2

      Absolutely.

    • @carried1676
      @carried1676 2 роки тому

      I'm in the exact same situation. It's so painful. 😥

  • @lieutenantdan7326
    @lieutenantdan7326 5 років тому +8

    I got involved with a married man did not turn out great. The karma of it all still haunts me.

  • @cosmicwoman8044
    @cosmicwoman8044 8 років тому +32

    Even if he marries her he might date secretly another lady later on

  • @musicgirl999
    @musicgirl999 4 роки тому +6

    This applies to men who crush on married women too.

  • @Jeng4280
    @Jeng4280 6 років тому +21

    thank you...:) Found out my crush is married today. Broke my heart. But, right now I'm the most relaxed I've been in two weeks. I love him too much to get in the way of his happiness. I can't interfere. The pain has eased somewhat at the moment and I'm not that upset. I honestly think I can do better. Maybe someone will come my way..the man of my dreams. The one who will sweep me off my feet.

    • @evileye1
      @evileye1 3 роки тому +3

      Please how did you get through this? It just happened to me. I cant imagine someone better than him ever showing interest in me

    • @notsomuchhere1387
      @notsomuchhere1387 3 роки тому +1

      @@evileye1 Omg same, I met a guy who is literally the male version of me but he told me he is married, I have a gut feeling he will be in my life and I don't know why...I sense that he is separated from his wife but for right now I have to stay away and it is so hard because he is on my mind all day

    • @evileye1
      @evileye1 3 роки тому +2

      @@notsomuchhere1387 we deserve better than mental torture. I just realised today that everyone around me are just People...whether its a close relative, friend, colleague or crush. People who deserve us will make the effort. I believe this . My faith in God outweighs my faith in people. I've literally had enough of living my life to help other people, to love people, to do things out of love for people.I'm human too. I deserve love. We all do. So let's just forget about people who waste time in our head

    • @notsomuchhere1387
      @notsomuchhere1387 3 роки тому

      @@evileye1 I love your comment

    • @evileye1
      @evileye1 3 роки тому +1

      @@notsomuchhere1387 Agree. Keep your mind focused on yourself. I want to be in a place where I m strong enough to walk away from any guy who can't commit to only me. As loving and charming as they may be....believe me we deserve pure love and it will come🙏 keep me posted...Nice to connect to others who get it xxx

  • @newleaf4732
    @newleaf4732 2 роки тому +5

    This was exactly what I needed to hear. I figured out what I was getting out of my attachment to this man and just knowing what it is (or was) has set me free of the preoccupation. And it helped me understand his attachment to me as well, and now I won't be influenced by his attention so much because we've both just been compensating for something we're lacking. Even though neither of us would act on it, it was really starting to get in the way of working together. It's totally neutralized so now we can just be colleagues, and I can be free and open to meet someone who's available. Thank-you.

  • @sazanazez179
    @sazanazez179 5 років тому +6

    THIS GUY KNOWS WHAT HES TALKING ABOUT 🙌🏻🙌🏻 He speaks the FACTS

  • @lisaamram5890
    @lisaamram5890 5 років тому +4

    I stayed away from him for 3 years and did the right thing. He recently text and said hello. We had an exchange of texts and now he's started the silent treatment with hot and cold. Why would he get in touch again after so long? Just to mess with my head? He's not happy with his wife and wants to start again with me? Why didn't he just leave well alone? I feel like all the hard work I did to stay away is broken and for what?

  • @Awoman-ty7qh
    @Awoman-ty7qh Рік тому +1

    im a italian girl and I constantly watch your videos. thank you for being so chill and helpful.

  • @mekfluffypingmccabe1492
    @mekfluffypingmccabe1492 Рік тому +2

    I have been asking God to help me stop thinking about him because he's married and have children and I have a huge crush on him. And this has been going on for months.. Please dear God help me.

  • @msvouge1
    @msvouge1 9 років тому +42

    this video was made for me..thank u

  • @annabanana9000
    @annabanana9000 6 років тому +3

    I know a lady she lives in Canada ...she was married happy ..with kids ...rich independent... her husband left her for his mistress in California . he left her house ...he never came back to his wife ...

  • @justatouchofblush-velma
    @justatouchofblush-velma 7 років тому +6

    I usually do NOT fall for it... I have never... but you make so much sense.....

  • @kk92922
    @kk92922 2 роки тому +1

    Everyone here, y’all some real ones. Proud of y’all💕💕💕💕

  • @dawnhenry9872
    @dawnhenry9872 5 років тому +7

    All I can say what goes around comes around. And it always come back worse. I don't care what a marry man have to offer me. He can keep it ,o dont want no destruction to follow me for committing am adultery with a married man knowing he is married....

  • @BabyBee31338
    @BabyBee31338 Рік тому +1

    Currently trying to get over a concoted romance in my head that I made. I have a crush on a married man and i have to stop i now. I appreciate this video.
    Healing and self love wishes to you all in the struggle.

  • @missbubblemaker26
    @missbubblemaker26 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you, thank you. I have to build myself up, focus on myself and fill up my life rather than waste time talking to this married man I am attracted to. FULLFILL MY LIFE... this is not about him, it is about me.

  • @XSweetxcheeksX1
    @XSweetxcheeksX1 9 років тому +15

    I met this guy and he was separated from his wife for quite sometime. But then after we started dating he told me he couldn't move on and he wanted his wife back. 😔 so I'm stuck now because I fell in love with him.💔

    • @shilpakrushna4813
      @shilpakrushna4813 6 років тому +2

      Mallory Padilla hope you came out of the situation now. Thank God he didn't realised after you both gt married. Cross your mistake & move on. All the best

    • @aasmshsohbat1873
      @aasmshsohbat1873 6 років тому +8

      Walk away. Trust me I was in a similar predicament. The children and ex wife always will be a priority. You can do better. Be with someone who can give you the love and time you deserve. It will make you stronger.

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 6 років тому +4

      Mallory Padilla that was cruel and not too manly. As a man, I'd bever do that to a lady.

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 4 роки тому

      Omg so sorry 😢

    • @bindukurian2562
      @bindukurian2562 3 роки тому

      Pls come out of it....they will spoil our happiness by talking about their wife all the time.....and make us feel guilty...i myself going thru it.....

  • @TheJaiNetwork
    @TheJaiNetwork 6 років тому +23

    Don’t we fall in love with ppl, not their status? What if you liked him instantly, found out he was married, then fell in love because you work together? I fell for a man who happened to be married, the same way we can fall for a man who is a father or a cook (insert any title). To fall for any person who you’ve never kissed or touched is like the ultimate love, because you genuinely like them as a person. I’m falling hard and it seems like we are both fighting the urges for the greater good, but then you will always wonder what if. Isn’t it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?

    • @priyaray4239
      @priyaray4239 4 роки тому +3

      Omg my favorite phrase...,
      It's better to b loved and lost then never to b loved at all

    • @anneroarty6473
      @anneroarty6473 3 роки тому

      Yes I am involved with a married man. He comes and visits me twice a week after work. He only stays 1hour we have a cigarette together and then he asks me for a cuddle which leads to touching never engaging in sex. I want to end it but I do not seem able to do it. Please give me advise. I was in an abusive relationship for 40years so most probably o have low self esteem. My husband was a narcissist. I really want to break away as I know he is only using me.

    • @nakiyacooke8840
      @nakiyacooke8840 3 роки тому

      Exactly! 🎯🙌🏽💯

    • @nakiyacooke8840
      @nakiyacooke8840 3 роки тому +1

      @@anneroarty6473Just enjoy the moment for what it is! When you really think about it the time spent is more than enough!

  • @lovelyheart8010
    @lovelyheart8010 5 років тому +1

    YOU ARE WONDERFUL! AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT!!!!! YOU BETTER PREACH THIS!!!!

  • @TMillerm16
    @TMillerm16 2 роки тому +1

    I ended this stupid and toxic circle yesterday, he cried while holding my hands and i didnt shed a tears. I wish him well with his wife (cuz he told me many times during the relationship that she will leave him and he and her havent got any sexual activity for about a year). I was stupid enough to believe that, so i waited and waited until i heard he went on a vacation with her. I decided its time to end this

  • @noda2ful
    @noda2ful 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you! You are correct.. me lacking something is the reason i'm attracted to that married man but it's not easy but I'll overcome it as usual

  • @tonzowall9210
    @tonzowall9210 7 років тому +6

    Thank you so much for this video. I needed to hear this.

  • @Revengestar
    @Revengestar 5 років тому +2

    Amazing advice. Indeed, everyone is much more attractive when you cannot be with them. Also, if a man goes through a divorce once and sees that he got out of it relatively easily/ok, it's easier to divorce the second time! That's why the divorce rates for a first marriage are 50% and for a second marriage rise to 70-80%. Check it out online if you want more info. Many mistresses who managed to get the married guy to leave his wife and married them, ended up dumped later for a third woman.

  • @gelena5232
    @gelena5232 8 років тому +7

    I'm going through his right now. I am a college and have a crush on my professor. He insinuated many things and he made me feel special, he honestly did. Then I find out he's married, throws it in my face that he's married and has a child. I'm stuck right now...I know it's wrong but I try to push away but he always finds a way to pull me in.

    • @JewelWood16
      @JewelWood16 7 років тому

      HI! if you see this, please message me. we have a lot in common lol

    • @becker2278
      @becker2278 6 років тому +4

      Gelena. I am a man. But if he slapped you on your face that way, and concealed his marriage from you, that's not a man .... that's a bug. 😠😠😠

    • @comentadoraification
      @comentadoraification 5 років тому +5

      He's playing with you, you're a puppet and an ego boost for him. Been there too. Move on and shout Next !

    • @bink865
      @bink865 5 років тому +3

      In my experience, professors can be the worst. They know they have a new crop of young females each year. You are not special, alas.

  • @pamelaclary6805
    @pamelaclary6805 Рік тому

    Those are the same ways the married man feels.

  • @aidahabdghani3173
    @aidahabdghani3173 6 років тому +4

    Good information and reminder!

  • @kattmilk
    @kattmilk 8 років тому +4

    I know that this video is very old, but I just had to comment. I've never intentionally messed around with a married man, and have no intentions on doing so. But I met & fell in love with a guy who was single at the time, but married someone else about 3 months later. Even though he loved me & always said that he didn't her, a "difficult situation" pressed him into marrying her anyway. Even though he still reaches out to me, I ignore him because I was raised with morals. But I still love him though & it hurts.

    • @catherinehogan8962
      @catherinehogan8962 6 років тому +1

      I've let him go and it's heart breaking over 5 and a half years , both of us are AA members
      On phone most nights catching up .. my heart broken , but I promised myself I'm not sharing him with his wife

  • @rereraira4863
    @rereraira4863 2 роки тому

    Just heard the first 50 sec and my God I agree 100% this man knows his stuff

  • @pearlgenuine
    @pearlgenuine 6 років тому +4

    Thank u sir for making this video. You make plenty sense!

  • @misskazza785
    @misskazza785 7 років тому +3

    wow, that the best advice i heard on youtube

  • @Lifeishard237
    @Lifeishard237 2 роки тому +5

    I think most people over think love. If you love someone tell them. If you’re not interested tell them. It’s not that hard or complicated. Marriage is a piece of paper and a man made concept. I think it goes against human nature to deny ourselves of love that is reciprocated and genuine. I love someone who is married and it’s platonic but I don’t feel guilty or hurt or longing for something more. I enjoy it for what it is.

    • @Lifeishard237
      @Lifeishard237 2 роки тому

      A passionate friendship

    • @JESUSLOVESYOU219
      @JESUSLOVESYOU219 Рік тому +2

      Totally inappropriate. Think about how you would feel if your husband had a “passionate friendship” with another woman.

    • @toabettertomorrow7949
      @toabettertomorrow7949 Рік тому +2

      @@JESUSLOVESYOU219 Exactly. That is just ignorant and she sounds like she has broke a few homes. How silly and selfish.

  • @TheSexy1049
    @TheSexy1049 3 роки тому +3

    Been single and celibate for 6 years, I met a nice, handsome guy. We have great chemistry. We went on two dates.Then I found out he’s married.😏 We kissed yet we never had sex and I’m so thankful. Love myself too much to be number two on purpose. Back lonely and waiting..🤔

  • @MultiMimulus
    @MultiMimulus 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for your advice. It will be hard but. I will do it.

  • @cannabiskid
    @cannabiskid 6 місяців тому

    This was very helpful. Thank you

  • @winlyn_leonor
    @winlyn_leonor 5 років тому

    It helps to know such things like narcissist. Im angry for my situation but knowing about narcissist it keeps me happy Im not in the wifes situation and that he didnt manage to groom me in. And im a firm believer in Karma, I wouldnt want that happening to me or my children.

  • @54321liz
    @54321liz 10 років тому +5

    Youre the best dude

  • @EloraSelah
    @EloraSelah 9 місяців тому +1

    Yes i m annoyed with myself too 😩 . Why do i even think about them. Like i didn't even like him in beginning. When n how it creeped in like a curse.

  • @zoesmith5687
    @zoesmith5687 6 років тому +2

    Thank you for your advice your a very nice clever man

  • @mileyroe4877
    @mileyroe4877 2 роки тому

    I liked him, found out he likes me, he asked me out then I found out he's married so I said no...he's also my boss.

  • @user-lb3up4rq2i
    @user-lb3up4rq2i 5 років тому +2

    Solid advice

  • @wandasanes
    @wandasanes 8 років тому +3

    THANK YOU I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT..... THANK YOU

  • @marcycardoso6282
    @marcycardoso6282 4 роки тому

    He doesn't know that I've found out he's married yet. It has been less than 24hrs. Just waiting on that call SMH.

  • @gingerlemon865
    @gingerlemon865 4 роки тому +2

    breaking news.. i have a crush on my married boss who has a daughter with the same name as mine. 💔

  • @kissinkatebarlow3882
    @kissinkatebarlow3882 9 років тому +3

    You're amazing!

  • @qokoon
    @qokoon 9 років тому +5

    How can I private message you about this topic?

  • @hwd71
    @hwd71 4 роки тому +1

    Tell that to the married women that flirt with me.

    • @JESUSLOVESYOU219
      @JESUSLOVESYOU219 Рік тому +1

      You need to be straight up and firm with them and tell them the way they act around you isn’t appropriate.

  • @ifycaz
    @ifycaz 7 років тому

    I love you and you're awesome 👏🏾 thanks for this advice 🔥🔥🔥
    You've just helped me 😐

  • @misspineappleangel
    @misspineappleangel 5 років тому

    Thank you this video has saved me!

  • @jammyjay917
    @jammyjay917 3 роки тому +1

    I think I'm bored....how sad is that... I need to do other things but it's not possible at the moment with covid unfortunately!

  • @Sheilamaizi
    @Sheilamaizi 7 років тому +1

    By the way. He has no children.

  • @katherinelong8180
    @katherinelong8180 8 років тому +2

    I have a crush on a married man and I feel like he's uncomfortable how can I tell if he is

  • @becker2278
    @becker2278 6 років тому +1

    Solid gold! 😊

  • @goddessvibes08
    @goddessvibes08 6 років тому +2

    You rock.

  • @groovemachine3512
    @groovemachine3512 7 років тому

    Great video.

  • @youngthrilla
    @youngthrilla Місяць тому

    I like a married coworker & it’s like impossible to get over him/not think about him because I have to see him everyday. I really don’t think I can get over it unless I leave my job or he does. I need to get out there and start going on dates but….I don’t want to lmao.

  • @cyndiet4960
    @cyndiet4960 3 роки тому +1

    Actually it was a lust thing and not some insecure thing but i was lacking one thing
    I got over it without some werid affair thing .always remember if he cheat on his wife, he will also cheat on u and u guys will get caught .i know noone wants to hear that but think about it.

  • @Bintang221
    @Bintang221 8 років тому

    Beautiful! So true! Thanx

  • @priyamalhotra5794
    @priyamalhotra5794 4 роки тому

    Great video... subscribed to ur channel...thanks♥️

  • @goodminion9320
    @goodminion9320 2 роки тому

    Crystal clear!

  • @anitharaj6581
    @anitharaj6581 3 роки тому

    Don't have any crush on anybody only on husband.... There's no week mentality here ...I just watch video for to know the information how the way there are in my life thas it ....

  • @priyaray4239
    @priyaray4239 4 роки тому +1

    Even I have crush on divorced man,
    He keeps staring at me but never try to speak r text me, even though I text him on messenger,
    Then I too avoided him as iam too not so cheep and I too don't want to chase him, love and likings should on both the side...,
    But even iam not able to come out of it

  • @busembertiz7372
    @busembertiz7372 6 років тому +2

    How about if he is gay :(

  • @annabanana9000
    @annabanana9000 6 років тому

    my boos was married with 2 kids ...he was cheating. .he left his wife ..married his mistress ...they were happy ..they bought house ..vacation. . until he died couple years ago I was at the funeral she was broken.. devastated. . they been together many many years ...working together. . he died in age 55 Brian cancer I know sikh girl she was married ...she met someone else and better guy ..she divorce her first husband. ..now she is happy with 3 kids . still married

  • @Anttv33
    @Anttv33 Місяць тому

    Women getting with married men is crazy I never thought women will go this low it’s millions of guys that is not married

  • @virianelui8628
    @virianelui8628 Рік тому

    I know it's not right but i feel like i really need him so bad but I think something is not right with me

  • @joshaunhughes4552
    @joshaunhughes4552 4 роки тому

    Wow he's good love it

  • @mildredroldos1601
    @mildredroldos1601 2 роки тому

    I'm not lacking but this man is gorgeous professional and an extreme athlete so his body is fire!!! But it's true everything you say. I would never want to be in the middle. There's always a chance he will go back

  • @nakiyacooke8840
    @nakiyacooke8840 3 роки тому

    First time I didn't agree! #LovenotLack

  • @michellerae535
    @michellerae535 9 років тому

    Thankyou

  • @taz12184
    @taz12184 7 років тому

    thank you x

  • @victoriaoncescu653
    @victoriaoncescu653 3 роки тому

    If ist just an instant strong chimistry that you run olredy 2 years?????

  • @barbarawright4717
    @barbarawright4717 6 років тому

    Understandable

  • @MySweetAriane
    @MySweetAriane 4 роки тому +5

    It's a freaking piece of paper lol society is so brainwashed

  • @michelleloke71
    @michelleloke71 8 років тому

    you r really amazing, i fell in love with a married man for two yrs but i was cheated by him in the first place. He said he was divorced but after few months dating, he felt guilty. He told me he lied to me but it was me that made him know what true love is. Now He cant leave his family and i cant live without him.. what should i do?

    • @shilpakrushna4813
      @shilpakrushna4813 6 років тому +7

      Michelle LFY Hope you came out of the situation now. He can't leave his family. What he can do it's not in your control. But what you can do is upto you. Don't be a option in someone's life. It's all about priority. His family is his priority, & not you... He priority is his family over you. Action speaks more than words.... try to understand... the one who loves you will take a stand for you... another who pretends he loves you is using you & playing with your emotions..... It's hard to move on... but not impossible... you deserved to be loved, deserved to have a happy family... All the best

  • @nikisimonegene5808
    @nikisimonegene5808 6 років тому

    Papi, pls give explanation. Before i say , my friend told me , my crush is divorce but have a kid 😵 wtf, hope u do 😌😌😌

  • @anonnymous6490
    @anonnymous6490 5 років тому

    He is married but separated. Aaargh.

  • @icyflower100
    @icyflower100 6 років тому +2

    .I Disagree, This Happen In My Family, That Man Started Dating, During His Marriage, He Had Kids Too, He Then Divorced His Wife And Remarried Back To The Other Woman, He Is Still Married To That Woman Till Today, As I Am Here Telling You This, That's Why I Disagree With This What You Said.

  • @Jennifr1966
    @Jennifr1966 5 років тому

    My question is, how do I get the other woman to leave your spouse alone. And how to help him get over her.

  • @leavemealone5242
    @leavemealone5242 5 років тому

    He gone back to his girlfriend. Why they have use you.

  • @victoriaoncescu653
    @victoriaoncescu653 3 роки тому

    I d ont date him .....the chimistry is. ....like nothing i lived before........