The 6 Micro Signs a Man Will Show When He REALLY Likes You!

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  • @marta967
    @marta967 5 місяців тому +2239

    I’m here because I’m delusional

  • @TahoeSnowbird
    @TahoeSnowbird 3 місяці тому +879

    My husband and I met at the office. I was a junior computer programmer and had to share an office with another lady and a row of filing cabinets. He was a senior system analyst and had his own office. He used to pretend to come to my office to look for something in the filing cabinets so he could talk to me. We ended up being assigned to the same project and found out we were so compatible. We started dating 2 months after that. He proposed 3 months after we first kissed and got married 5 months later.

    • @ankitmahto5323
      @ankitmahto5323 2 місяці тому +12

      Amejing.

    • @bluliite
      @bluliite Місяць тому +32

      You don't know somebody like you do when you work with them.

    • @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth
      @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth Місяць тому +8

      aww❤

    • @audrablue515
      @audrablue515 Місяць тому +34

      This is the kind of experience that I would love for myself. When you meet someone lovely and you click and it’s easy and there’s no fear or gaslighting or hard work. It just happens and you feel like you’ve won the lottery

    • @Beccanator007
      @Beccanator007 Місяць тому +8

      Wait- where’s the dating apps full of attractive shirtless vikings?!? I haven’t seen that one. 😂

  • @ruthresetar5940
    @ruthresetar5940 Місяць тому +285

    "A man will do astonishing things for a woman he is ardent about."

    • @FarawayWanderer-sr5xf
      @FarawayWanderer-sr5xf 21 день тому +7

      Very true , they would climb up to your balcony even if it is on 3rd floor.

    • @Danielle-eb2zh
      @Danielle-eb2zh 20 днів тому +9

      Mine travelled illegally 2000 km to me even after i rejected him 😮😮
      Now he is my ex btw.

    • @user-pe5xv4ev7d
      @user-pe5xv4ev7d 12 днів тому +7

      @@Danielle-eb2zh 🤣🤣

    • @irenemorley75
      @irenemorley75 7 днів тому +2

      @@FarawayWanderer-sr5xf With Milk Tray🤣🤣🤣

    • @ricshonclayton3232
      @ricshonclayton3232 7 днів тому

      Don’t got a man yet but I feel like this info is good to know. Def side eying my imaginary boyfriend right about now

  • @pamelab7235
    @pamelab7235 3 місяці тому +634

    My dad taught me that if a guy is interested in you, you'll know it. You dont need to call, plan dates, pick you up, etc. When you make it too easy they soon lose interest. Took me a long damn time to realize it too. Finally wised up, and are celebrating 21 years married this month.

    • @bellavita3441
      @bellavita3441 2 місяці тому +12

      Amen to you .. wish I was taught this ❤

    • @ankitmahto5323
      @ankitmahto5323 2 місяці тому

      Amejing.

    • @CrossedSwords1818
      @CrossedSwords1818 Місяць тому +3

      Congrats ❤❤❤❤

    • @Sopra555t
      @Sopra555t Місяць тому

      My Dad said the same thing.

    • @yuppers1
      @yuppers1 Місяць тому +11

      Yes my Dad says even if they're shy they'll ask you out. He was very shy when he met my Mom but he made it happen anyway. She was worth it to him.

  • @michellecremers361
    @michellecremers361 23 дні тому +61

    A guy I used to date asked me once, about a problem he had; 'You're good with kids... What would you do if I were a kid?' I started having alot of compassion for him, but then I felt like.. I don't wanna be his mom. I want a man, not a little boy

  • @christinebee9781
    @christinebee9781 2 місяці тому +143

    A good movie to watch is “He’s Just Not That Into You.” Great advice.

    • @alaska2026
      @alaska2026 Місяць тому +1

      Thanks

    • @annalisamoreno7745
      @annalisamoreno7745 Місяць тому +8

      I was thinking the same thing! And the movie is also pretty good and it's really worth it to watch it

    • @aliciaayala6650
      @aliciaayala6650 7 днів тому +1

      Great book

    • @LorrieIrbyJackson
      @LorrieIrbyJackson 7 днів тому +1

      Never get tired of the book or the movie! 👊🏾

  • @Peacepeacelovelove
    @Peacepeacelovelove 6 місяців тому +1372

    If he doesn’t approach, ask you out, or continues a strong connection, ladies don’t waste your time. STOP hoping and let go of the Luke warm guys who just don’t have the guts to move forward. It only puts you in the drivers seat begging for attention.
    So many men get away with very low effort while women are out here improving our looks and our lives only to settle for a guy we feel sorry for. If you can’t take rejection, and if you’re not willing to put yourself out there and get hurt, dating and marriage is just not for you. I love this channel, but I’m really starting to notice that the only thing that is ever discussed is how women should contort themselves to appease men, when the sperm always chases the egg, it’s the law of nature🙏🏾

    • @louisasmiles
      @louisasmiles 6 місяців тому +63

      So true. Its all about appeasing and changing for men.

    • @katiakay
      @katiakay 5 місяців тому +84

      So true. Please him, be perfect, be this, be that, dont express yourself, ....

    • @amymayrose6210
      @amymayrose6210 5 місяців тому +78

      I totally agree it's ridiculous that we should just nod along, always agree, atching what we say so we don't hurt their ego. Though they can ignore all our efforts. Dont notice my nails or hair done and new clothes. No wonder I'm exhausted and I'm only 42. I'm yet to meet a man under the age of 65 who means what he says and has manners. Oh and dosnt jump on me presuming that I'm wanting to have sex with him immediately. No I'd like to get to know you but not after that! What is wrong with men these days? Where are all the decent men Brian talks about.. personally I dont think they exist 😂 however, i can find liars and cheaters 🙄

    • @spiritoftheforest6204
      @spiritoftheforest6204 5 місяців тому +99

      Look at nature and how much effort the males put in to winning the female. We have made it to easy for them.

    • @deed.3230
      @deed.3230 5 місяців тому +81

      It used to be a two-way street, ‘courtship rules’. Men were expected to be showered, shaved and dressed neatly, with good manners and a bit of chivalry when appropriate. They were supposed to know how to give a sincere compliment to a woman, always offer to pick up at least the first check and demonstrate appreciation for her efforts to look good and to be good company. This rarely happens now.

  • @dollyrama1132
    @dollyrama1132 Місяць тому +238

    A man that likes or loves you will NEVER EVER mistreat you. No more no less

  • @crystalheart9108
    @crystalheart9108 20 днів тому +21

    Not me watching this video to see if this guy in my art class likes me 🤣

  • @cheryl71000
    @cheryl71000 5 місяців тому +268

    If a guy asks me out, and he is pleasant and i can ask him lots of questions. I know he likes me.
    If he does not ask me out, i dont bother him. Why would i. One thing i have learnt never bother a guy unless he first shows interest in you.

    • @nichellecashe5456
      @nichellecashe5456 5 місяців тому +14

      Yes ma'am...wise advice

    • @nonyobisniss7928
      @nonyobisniss7928 4 місяці тому +10

      Lots of guys learnt that lesson about women too, and we actually have a good reason for it. Women treat men they're not attracted to like dirt on their shoe if those men ever dare to approach. Men are massively more likely to respond positively to a woman making an advance, so I'm going to ask: How many times have you actually "bothered" a guy who didn't first show interest? Let's see if you've got any anecdotal evidence at all to back up your policy.

    • @InternetNonsense
      @InternetNonsense 2 місяці тому +1

      @@nonyobisniss7928 Women risk everything in a relationship and now are expected to chase it too? Why? If a man is not giving (attention and interest included), there is no point to "fight" for him because that's not our role, we are more vulnerable, naturally giving and risk pregnancy. If we have to pry our way out of being ignored and neglected in his eyes, that's dead end relationship already. We're not on the same page from the first chapter. What sort of clown family is that gonna be? A woman just carrying weight of the world on her shoulders? Sure we know men enjoy getting our attention, but what's in it for us? The men who "settle" for us just because we're there tend to be not so stoked on the relationship and just be there because it's comfort and easy access. That's just unnatural. Look at other species and their males, they try to impress, bring nuptial gifts, show off their mating prowess. That's male role. Sometimes they get rejected sure, but that's only making them evolve for the better.
      Princess men who want to receive, receive, receive are just not it. Sorry, but these "lots of guys" might just go extinct. You fear rejection? We fear murder when it comes to opposite sex mistreating us. We are not the same.

    • @priyankajaiswal7756
      @priyankajaiswal7756 29 днів тому

      Agreee

    • @moreamour2869
      @moreamour2869 4 дні тому

      @@nonyobisniss7928 sorry but that’s just a small percentage of women.

  • @sgtmian
    @sgtmian 3 місяці тому +171

    why would you want to read micro signs someone likes you? if they don’t want to shout it from the rooftops you’re with the wrong person. you will know when someone likes you and cherishes you because you will feel it. never settle for anything less.

    • @c.w6593
      @c.w6593 Місяць тому +35

      Yeah but life also isn’t some fairytale.

    • @yuppers1
      @yuppers1 Місяць тому +30

      Unfortunately not all of us are so in tune with our intuition. I'm incredibly oblivious and need all the help I can get to know if he's interested.

    • @sgtmian
      @sgtmian 23 дні тому +4

      @@yuppers1 it’s not really about intuition, do you feel wanted? do you feel seen? do you feel heard. i mean from the get go. if not, let it go.

    • @mgoncalves5596
      @mgoncalves5596 15 днів тому +5

      That's not how it works, what works for you may not work for me. Everybody is different. Some people have fears and difficulties expressing their emotions. Don't throw everybody in the same basket

    • @xeternalflowerx1978
      @xeternalflowerx1978 15 днів тому +4

      It’s easy if someone likes you they’ll make excuses to see you or talk to you.

  • @Cityweaver
    @Cityweaver 2 місяці тому +58

    To be perfectly honest, a man's willingness to tell stories about himself sounds like a great barometer to use. I hate, hate, hate it when guys ask me 21 questions in rapid succession with no interest in even answering their own questions. Those guys are just qualifying me like they are checking my credit for a loan. "You got kids? How old are you? What do you do?"

    • @Cityweaver
      @Cityweaver 10 днів тому +3

      @@obe3690 I'm glad you got that out. Being an adult involves issues, heard.

    • @Cityweaver
      @Cityweaver 9 днів тому

      @@obe3690 Heard, heard, heard, heard... Thanks for sharing.

  • @VoiceoverMomentum
    @VoiceoverMomentum 4 місяці тому +71

    Shirtless men on dating apps are a turn OFF to most of us.

    • @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth
      @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth Місяць тому +6

      Agreed!

    • @kaoutar6921
      @kaoutar6921 7 днів тому

      Not really it's just not appropriate for me it's like coming for the first date shirtless hhh kinda weird ​@@obe3690

  • @caterinadelgalles8783
    @caterinadelgalles8783 5 місяців тому +82

    He has zero interest. It has been two years of chasing him.
    Pathetic.
    I can laugh at it now.
    I wish him the best.

    • @yuppers1
      @yuppers1 Місяць тому +8

      Please don't pursue. It will never work out long term. He needs to love you more than you love him or he'll lose interest or not put in effort after you're married

  • @jessiejohnson1208
    @jessiejohnson1208 5 місяців тому +232

    I'd like see a video on how to stay happy being single, without panicking about the need to be in a relationship. I want to meet a man, but don't want to feel desperate and rush into a bad relationship.

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 24 дні тому +14

    Most of these can be due to sexual interest. That's the easy stage, the more complex issues arise deeper into a relatiinship

  • @katpoohtoo
    @katpoohtoo Місяць тому +18

    When I was young, I was suspicious of men who would ask me for my number when we first met or who didn't even introduce themselves. Why would I rick my safety or risk being harassed by giving them my number? Some people move too fast. What aggravated me the most though, was when some males (especially when I was a teenager) assumed that I should have sex with them and they'd get angry when I refused. They would say, "If you love me, you'd have sex with me." [really?? Like how would I "love" him that soon?]. But truly if he "loved" me or even just respected me, he would not put me in a compromised position where I would lose my virginity for him when he hasn't even earned that important loss, or get pregnant (and then he would casually expect me to get an abortion so that he wouldn't have to deal with it). When a guy who isn't your husband expects you to have sex with him, he doesn't love you anymore than he would a prostitute. Except he would have to pay a prostitute.

  • @sabrinem.3836
    @sabrinem.3836 5 місяців тому +100

    Now I know that he doesn't like me!!

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino 5 місяців тому +23

      😂😂😂
      Maybe not the information you wanted, but the one you needed! ❤

    • @lv6871
      @lv6871 Місяць тому +1

      Me too

    • @JustSoph11
      @JustSoph11 Місяць тому +6

      Me too but instead I confirmed that the crusty kid at school that I thought likes me 100% does

    • @TeeAhhhna
      @TeeAhhhna Місяць тому

      Same😮

    • @makiiKu
      @makiiKu 25 днів тому +1

      Same 😂

  • @PinkWytchBytch
    @PinkWytchBytch 6 місяців тому +65

    This really put into perspective who is showing signs they truly find me interesting versus who doesn’t. This was very insightful and gives me a few things to consider

  • @chrissythecrafter3972
    @chrissythecrafter3972 4 місяці тому +11

    I really like this video. I’ve been getting all of these from a gentleman. Showing off on a regular basis. I didn’t look at these signs the way you explained them. Paying attention to all of the attention I get from neighbors. That’s exactly what he’s doing. Thank you

  • @vartikaguleria5752
    @vartikaguleria5752 6 місяців тому +31

    Sticking around till the end of your videos is the best thing I can do on this UA-cam platform !...My heart thanks you everytime you post these authentic knowledgable videos :)

  • @LuLu-kz4pv
    @LuLu-kz4pv 5 місяців тому +71

    This was good! I love when a lot of examples are used to get a point across.. like scared of rejection, friend liked u 1st, coworkers, etc. The coming up with common interests point I've witnessed and I think it's adorable unless someone is going over the top because we don't necessarily want to be w someone who is just like us. I'm taken (and loyal) but I've experienced it and it's flattering and sweet. Major turn off though if he is telling you things he thinks you want to hear instead of being himself.

  • @chinynwosu
    @chinynwosu 6 місяців тому +19

    Thanks, Brian! Love your videos and this one had the right amounts of quirks and wits infused in it. Appreciate!

  • @ElleRoers
    @ElleRoers 5 місяців тому +13

    This is so good and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you! 💖

  • @macLoscope
    @macLoscope Місяць тому +42

    About the "talking about himself", when this happens I sometimes feels like it means the opposite ; because he's talking himself up when he is with me it probably means that he wants attention/validation, whereas if he was with a girl he really liked he would want to know more about her and get to know her
    This makes me rethink ^^

    • @JustanotherYoutuber771
      @JustanotherYoutuber771 29 днів тому +10

      I thought the same thing but see it this way: If he already knows he likes you, he might prioritize getting you to like him too over asking you more about yourself. He already thinks you’re interesting and wants you to think the same about him.

    • @macLoscope
      @macLoscope 28 днів тому +4

      @@JustanotherUA-camr771 Oh yeah that really makes sense actually! Thanks

    • @Melinda.S.
      @Melinda.S. 17 днів тому +1

      I think a man shares about his life,if he feels in secure".

    • @kcloveonaleash
      @kcloveonaleash 4 дні тому +1

      ​@@JustanotherUA-camr771ank u! So many men always talk non stop about themselves! It turns me off but i never looked at it that way! However, going into detail about health issues and surgeries still make me run!!! FAST

  • @emilyc9380
    @emilyc9380 5 місяців тому +54

    Oh Lordy he loves me but tries so hard to not😂 and I’m the same. It’s cute and sad. Sweet but sour. I cry a lot.

  • @cecelicai2842
    @cecelicai2842 6 місяців тому +41

    I think I was fortunate enough to experience couple men that do this. It always came as very fond memories. Loving the explanation

    • @ruthresetar5940
      @ruthresetar5940 Місяць тому +1

      Yes, I, too, have fond memories of such two such men.

  • @charlinka1285
    @charlinka1285 3 місяці тому +4

    What an awesome video!
    So helpful. You just cracked the case.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 my guy that I adore is crazy about me too!☺️

  • @mirjamforster5432
    @mirjamforster5432 3 місяці тому +85

    I don't know about other parts of the world but this is strange to me (an European). I recognized the behaviour of men who were attracted to me, there wasn't so much hiding, I felt it when it happened. Especially if it was one-sided.
    The harder part is dealing with men I'm attracted to, it always seams to go wrong when I took the action OR tryed to hide it.
    Liking someone who likes you back is so very rare and special in my experience.

  • @jackiandre4894
    @jackiandre4894 6 місяців тому +64

    hahaha! Loved this one! I don't have a lot of experience with men/relationships and I found the "he will want to impress you" part particularly helpful. I was chatting with a guy online. We like the same band. He follows me on UA-cam and is well aware of the extent of my fandom for this band. Nonetheless, he was telling me all these things, like "I've seen them xy times" (well I've seen them xyz times) or that he's met the lead singer twice (I have literally dozens of photos with the lead singer). I was puzzled that he seemed to be trying to one-up me when it had to be clear that it's impossible to one-up me on this particular point. hahahaha! I understand now! Thanks!

  • @sidekickster8917
    @sidekickster8917 6 місяців тому +92

    HAHA! I am in EXACTLY this scenario RIGHT now! I noticed he's doing the EXACT things you've described in this fun video. He found ALL kinds of things (still does) that we have in "common". or he can "help me" with. He REALLY built himself up saying things like "I own a house etc.."
    I'M the 1 being VERY cautious bc I SERIOUSLY cannot afford to make another wrong decision. I look at it as if he loses interest before I KNOW in my "KNOWER" that He's the 1, then he's NOT the right 1. (No, I don't intend to lead him on, or take forever. I was VERY upfront w/him as to where I'm at. He accepted it)

    • @kattell5183
      @kattell5183 4 місяці тому +2

      yes, seriously can not afford to make another wrong decision

  • @sterntaler64
    @sterntaler64 6 місяців тому +13

    This was very helpful...and funny 🤩 Thank you 🙏☺️

  • @sandracid4987
    @sandracid4987 5 місяців тому +12

    OMG!!! YOU'RE VERY WISE!

  • @theprincessthepea441
    @theprincessthepea441 6 місяців тому +10

    You're hilarious. Great information. Thanks.

  • @ellengrace4609
    @ellengrace4609 6 місяців тому +264

    I always stick around until the very end because every second of your videos are worth listening to. Always informative and upbeat. Thank you for all that you do! ❤

  • @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth
    @SusanAnnePowerOfTruth Місяць тому +1

    Omgsshhhh... Brian you are SO funny!!! I love the way you sneak in these jokes without batting an eyelash!

  • @laurenhoelle7726
    @laurenhoelle7726 5 місяців тому +22

    "After the awkward staring phase" ha so true.

  • @JoleneLin78
    @JoleneLin78 26 днів тому

    Gosh some guy did this to me recently and I am totally oblivious- clarified things and he does indeed like me- will see how things will go. Super helpful video!! 👍

  • @DelsieMilton-wy4co
    @DelsieMilton-wy4co 5 місяців тому +27

    Thank you! I realized a guy I just met and liked, actually likes me too!

  • @zia238
    @zia238 5 місяців тому +6

    I love your videos! So sincere and lovely. Thank you.

  • @rosehiver6262
    @rosehiver6262 6 місяців тому +128

    Actually it’s not that difficult to notice a man who falls head over heels. The problem is the reciprocity. There are plenty of topics that interest me and I can easily be amazed by what a man does (a job, a hobby, sport…). So when I get a conversation with a man and ask many questions or give my opinion or boost him because he’s having a bad time, I can see after a while that he’s got plenty of stars in the eyes when he looks at me and wants to see me again and stares at me like a fish in a bowl, etc… It’s quite scary. I just want to run away. Because I was just talking. I don’t want more, I’m not sexually nor emotionally attracted.
    That happened many times in my life. 😄

    • @invincible_souls
      @invincible_souls 5 місяців тому +5

      HAHA I totally get it. That has been me, too, in my life I just put it down to being marriage material lol

    • @mysticmay129
      @mysticmay129 5 місяців тому +5

      "Like a fish in a bowl" 😂 Omg, I know what you're talking about. I think it's cute but I also felt those internal sirens going off right after also. Gotta listen to that intuition. 😅

    • @Mssbeti
      @Mssbeti 5 місяців тому +1

      Im 35 and I'm still looking for my soulmate. This story always happens to me....on and on...

    • @sidekickster8917
      @sidekickster8917 5 місяців тому +20

      HA! Yes me too! Ive gotten so misunderstood many times simply because I can hold down a conversation, be funny etc.

    • @lisamoag6548
      @lisamoag6548 5 місяців тому +1

      Yup

  • @lalisa488
    @lalisa488 6 місяців тому +95

    I find it very rewarding watching your series "how men secretly love you" because I can fantasize that some guys around me may love me hahaha :)))) while I'm single af and no one approaches 😂

    • @nonyobisniss7928
      @nonyobisniss7928 4 місяці тому +8

      I'm a guy who usually watches videos aimed at men, but this was pretty enlightening so will check out that series. Speaking for myself I've fallen in love with thousands of women. It's fleeting, but only because I never see them again or approach them. It's not so much that I fear rejection, but that there are so many horrible women who would make me feel ashamed for even looking at them, never mind approaching them. It's just hard to want to approach someone who can make you feel like a piece of dirt with a nasty look.
      I feel like if I'd got over some of these things as a young child, I could have really flourished, but for whatever reason I never felt able. I think part of it is the oppressive judgemental environment we grow up in, where at school we are tarred with all sorts of brushes every time we raise our heads above the parapet.
      I guess I went off on quite a tangent there, but you really should consider approaching a guy if there's one you like. You can be subtle, if you're more comfortable with that. Just having a girl show interest in us, even if we weren't necessarily interested in them before that, is a rare and special experience for many guys. If you hit it off, and find you have some shared interests, you could probably suggest spending more time together with that interest as the 'excuse'. If they like you I'm pretty sure they'd be thrilled.

    • @lalisa488
      @lalisa488 3 місяці тому

      @@nonyobisniss7928wow thank you for taking time and replied sincerely on my comment. I watch this series for entertaining and am not seriously seeking for romantic relationships. I find contentment and serenity in being single 😄
      But i get what you're saying. I used to do so and they were thrilled, truly. Thanks again and wish you all the best!

    • @elizabethwitt2621
      @elizabethwitt2621 3 місяці тому

      ​@@nonyobisniss7928Honey, you don't fall in love thousands of times in a whole lifetime. You'll see the difference when when the right one comes along. Sending positive vibes your way. 🙏🌞

  • @AnnaSwed
    @AnnaSwed 4 місяці тому +6

    Thank you, Chris. You're a much better and more credible news anchor now than on CNN, in my opinion.

  • @mariaansola6649
    @mariaansola6649 3 місяці тому +5

    I am listening to you Sir, I have met someone I felt in love with deep down I cam feel this connection I no he has feelings for me I feel everything he does for me he helps me, emotionally, spiritually, physically, shows me lot of love,my heart is ripping out for him but deep down I feel I am to older for him and I walk away to let him enjoy someone younger ,I love his energy I appreciates his efforts , my Gratitude go out to him for sharing love for me, and I am forever grateful I will never forget what we shared I really wish him all the happiness in life, I love him soooooo deeply I think it's my last lesson I will ever learned, Tha nk you Sir because all that you have said is True.

  • @dawntie
    @dawntie 6 днів тому +2

    You are a breath of fresh air in a stale and jaded culture.

  • @bevsalo9783
    @bevsalo9783 4 місяці тому +5

    Thankyou, for all of your helpful relationship advice! 😀👍♥️

  • @ladybyronpoe9954
    @ladybyronpoe9954 3 місяці тому +9

    Laughed so hard when you said rental lamborgini 🤣🤣😂😂😂👌

  • @clairexxx0405
    @clairexxx0405 6 місяців тому +4

    Always appreciate youre videos & really love it when you stay right to the very end too.... Thank you for all you're great advice sent with fantastic humour always makes youre videos fun to watch and learn from.🤗

  • @AnnaNolan-ey8yn
    @AnnaNolan-ey8yn 3 місяці тому +5

    Haha I love this! You're so funny and correct!

  • @PopFizzPaperDani
    @PopFizzPaperDani 6 місяців тому +26

    Someone I know does this and it’s adorable. Just waiting for him to ask me out. 🤗

  • @swapnanilkar4786
    @swapnanilkar4786 6 місяців тому +5

    Really very nice session. 🙂.

  • @ninajones6622
    @ninajones6622 6 місяців тому +4

    Amazing as always xx

  • @SirenaSpades
    @SirenaSpades 4 місяці тому +4

    Vikings without a tshirt on! lol This made me laugh so much :D But I get what you're saying.

  • @sumayanasrin390
    @sumayanasrin390 4 місяці тому +4

    O my !!! The last time I met my crush, he kept staring at me and looking into my eyes , even asked me some questions out of nowhere.

  • @znightglow
    @znightglow 6 місяців тому +19

    You keep mentioning the Viking... the guy I met last year, said he's a Viking. I'm kinda reminiscing how he was at the beginning while watching and listening to you coz everything you said is 💯 he did them all. I think he liked me last year. This year, I've no idea, maybe not anymore 😅😝

    • @Trinket2022
      @Trinket2022 Місяць тому +1

      Saying he's a viking might mean he is a neo-nazi. I dated a guy who talked about being a viking...and having viking friends..that seemed ok to me since he was nordic....but then I noticed an ss pin...and we had a chat about it...done!😮

  • @sandramist8408
    @sandramist8408 Місяць тому +2

    I really love your sense of humor 😅

  • @jessicadventuresvlog970
    @jessicadventuresvlog970 6 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for sharing this. i hope i find someone like that❤😊

  • @ViWiHH
    @ViWiHH 5 місяців тому +15

    Honestly i tried to understand if he is interested and was looking for signs. Yes there were signs but i realized he was just playing around to get my attention and feel good. He is not really interested.

  • @yiselvega759
    @yiselvega759 2 місяці тому +3

    My man is the most respectful person and caring in this earth. I'm latina .I call him my sweet gringo .......we show interest from each other since first date.

  • @madamedelorsagne3899
    @madamedelorsagne3899 3 місяці тому +2

    First time YT sent me to your videos and Oh my! best 11 minutes and 28 seconds of my day!! SUBSCRIBED! 🤗

  • @estelladog1
    @estelladog1 12 днів тому

    You are so awesome and so fab at explaining! Quite humorous!

  • @ba8501
    @ba8501 4 місяці тому +2

    This is helpful. Thanks!

  • @zasanz
    @zasanz 4 місяці тому +9

    Thankyou so much,
    I feel I have met the most wonderful man, but I have c-ptsd, and even though I have been in treatment for years now sometimes my brain likes to throw me curveball's and i start worrying about stupid non-existent stuff
    Listing these signs has helped me look back on when he does these things and I can reassure myself that my doubts arn't warranted, but better than that, this video could have been describing him exactly.

  • @dishappywithlife2556
    @dishappywithlife2556 2 місяці тому +34

    I stopped dating Canadian men 🇨🇦, the mind games, the lack of honesty regarding feelings, too much!! My Chilean 🇨🇱 man has opened a whole new world of LOVE!! He tells me how he feels all day long, the affection and PDA, romantic words and care is amazing!!!

    • @didikennedy9079
      @didikennedy9079 2 місяці тому +4

      How do I find one? lol

    • @loyduncan3728
      @loyduncan3728 Місяць тому

      How dis you meet him?

    • @6703445
      @6703445 Місяць тому

      I’m so happy for you! Sounds like you’re in love!

    • @NoraZiehr-ei3gn
      @NoraZiehr-ei3gn 25 днів тому +5

      Not all Canadian men are like that. Everyone is an individual with different strengths and weaknesses.

  • @lauriebrown7446
    @lauriebrown7446 5 місяців тому +7

    I love the whole Viking thing....

  • @nabacov
    @nabacov 3 місяці тому +9

    I wanna leave this here for the ladies.
    Guys are afraid/fearful of the rejection. Its true, especially if the guy knows he doesn't look very good or makes crazy money etc etc, for such an average guy, after a couple of rejections could make him feel like he'd never be desired. He might give up if it keeps happening & crush his confidence. So if you reject a man, be gentle about it. So he'd still have some confidence left in him to try again.
    That being said, some men fear he'd be rejected when the girl doesn't know how amazing he can be or how much he adores her. So he'd bid time till he thinks he had made his case, may it be via just casual talking or whatever.

    • @PaperclipProphets
      @PaperclipProphets 15 днів тому +2

      Great insight and compassion is always key in any situation 🙏

  • @faith2691
    @faith2691 3 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the laughs. 😊

  • @lolasaysyes
    @lolasaysyes 6 місяців тому +15

    I have experienced a lot of this and can confirm it’s totally true. However, those guys are usually firmly in the friend zone and for good reason. Unfortunately, awareness can just make the recipient feel kind of uncomfortable. It was easier when I was ignorant to just keep treating them as bros! 😂

  • @juliek.2400
    @juliek.2400 4 місяці тому +13

    You know what, a man who does those things you just described in this video actually sounds super cute to me 😆 Hopefully I’ll soon meet my man, soon.

  • @rebeccarich7112
    @rebeccarich7112 13 днів тому +2

    "You have a ca..I love cats, I'm totally not allergic to them" hahaha too funny

  • @Shyragirl80
    @Shyragirl80 6 місяців тому +5

    Hahahahah you are fun to listen to at the same time im learning a lot thank you

  • @EllieM_Travels
    @EllieM_Travels 6 місяців тому +61

    What I went through with this guy, Omg. I made my interest known and he was kind of stand offish, so I left. Then he started calling me. We got close via phone, and when I went back to visit family where he lived, he reluctantly hung out with me 3x in four months. Again, I left. Years later he came back around when he was engaged to someone else! I said yeah back then why didn’t we ever get together? He said “because you left.”🤦🏻‍♀️ Honestly makes me want to pull my hair out. The man I’m with now asked me out and said what he wanted. The other man told me afterwards that he just wasn’t ready. I really never understood what he meant by “ready.” Do you have to be ready to hang out with someone and get to know them better? I will never understand this.

    • @Deb_deCoder
      @Deb_deCoder 5 місяців тому +7

      for men being ready means being financially ready.. he has financial pressure now.. you never understood this because you know that your finance does not matter to him, but his finance does matter to you

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino 5 місяців тому

      @@Deb_deCoder😂👈🏼

    • @cobyleebrooks
      @cobyleebrooks 4 місяці тому +11

      some people are future trippers. they will never be ready. if you do get into a relationship with them, it will be push/pull

    • @dreamer75438
      @dreamer75438 4 місяці тому +2

      @@cobyleebrooks lol....yes!!! They have to do the work on themselves to be ready!

    • @loyduncan3728
      @loyduncan3728 Місяць тому +1

      He probably will never have a lasting relationship. It's not you, it's him. He doesn't know what he wants.

  • @Psyque-ok6vq
    @Psyque-ok6vq 27 днів тому

    I like the way ideas were presented , funny and 😀

  • @kierapotter2893
    @kierapotter2893 Місяць тому +1

    thanks for keeping me delulu xoxo

  • @cieliahatch3353
    @cieliahatch3353 3 місяці тому +5

    I also love when a man drops something around me. There is some kind of disconnection between brain and hand when they have a bit of a crush :)

  • @greenentrepreneurs
    @greenentrepreneurs 4 місяці тому

    Delightful. Thank you.

  • @tauroruby2894
    @tauroruby2894 2 місяці тому

    Simply liked your video. Rather watching it for the 1st time.

  • @arigato22
    @arigato22 6 місяців тому +74

    The notion of a guy who would think I'm out of his league or could reject him is out of this world to me! I don't think there are any men who like me; that's probably the hardest challenge for me. Guys never talk to me and never approach me. I don't think I've ever seen that level of attitude so I suppose I could assume no man is ever interested in me! I, on the other hand have been interested in various men but I don't show it as I'm trying to look for signs first. Hearing you talk sounds more like me than guys.... I'm more likely to ask guys about themselves etc. However, the older I get, the more I'm looking for someone with intelligence and hobbies. I find a lot of men are not interesting because they're not very bright. But I believe you about giving guys opportunities to "help" you; a male friend did say that. But right now, I think if a guy chats me up, he's probably looking at the woman next to me!

    • @HopeUnquenchable
      @HopeUnquenchable 5 місяців тому +15

      I full-on relate to this, Sister 😂

    • @kiaraeijo
      @kiaraeijo 5 місяців тому

      Sadly, like Harry said in When Harry Met Sally “Men are not friends with women that they don’t find attractive”

    • @fridacano14
      @fridacano14 2 місяці тому +1

      I feel the same

    • @loyduncan3728
      @loyduncan3728 Місяць тому +1

      Know the feeling

    • @yuppers1
      @yuppers1 Місяць тому +1

      Same

  • @anamarie1402
    @anamarie1402 5 місяців тому +27

    My problem is I cannot read a guy's mind, not even his metacommunicative signs. I do not even know what I think is true. I get what I hear when he says what he feels. I'm not confident enough. Seeing is misleading. I may misinterpret the "signs".

    • @nonyobisniss7928
      @nonyobisniss7928 4 місяці тому +1

      It's hard for guys too. At least as a woman you have the advantage of the status quo being for the guy to make the first overt move. At least as a woman it's very unlikely you will be publicly shamed for approaching a guy who isn't interested.

  • @hannahchristo8214
    @hannahchristo8214 6 місяців тому +5

    He's the funniest guy I've ever known with brains😂😂😂

  • @ellenkno5233
    @ellenkno5233 Місяць тому

    You are hilarious! Thank you.

  • @natalipo806
    @natalipo806 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤ Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼☺️

  • @reetsrituals4348
    @reetsrituals4348 6 місяців тому +7

    So happy to see you … was waiting for the new video to come desperately….. please please come more often 🥹

  • @latortuenoir
    @latortuenoir 3 місяці тому +1

    Rental car 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😅 I like you... and your information is verry useful, thanks à LOT!!

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 6 місяців тому +87

    When I was young, back in the 1970s men did approach with "I'd like to get to know you. Can I have your number?"
    Why don't they do that anymore?
    What happened?

    • @Deb_deCoder
      @Deb_deCoder 5 місяців тому +25

      they don't because of the fear of getting jailed for harassment and online dating was not available back then so asking phone number directly was the only option

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino 5 місяців тому +1

      Modern feminism happened.
      It is doingmore harm to women than most are even aware of…

    • @velvetpanther7032
      @velvetpanther7032 4 місяці тому +14

      Because they’re chickens.

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 4 місяці тому +30

      @@Deb_deCoder Nobody gets jailed for politely and decently asking for a phone number. It's stalking, grabbing and lewd remarks that are a problem. Pity that men can't see the difference.

    • @Deb_deCoder
      @Deb_deCoder 4 місяці тому +5

      Wymn decide whether it is harassment or flirting based on the quality of the man perceived by her.. if the man has looks, mony, status, personality then it is termed as flirting.. but if she thinks the man does not have any of those attributes then it is harassment and the man may face the music.. that's why men are afraid.. they do not know how the wymn will perceive them.. plus it is not worthy to get insulted in public which can be done secretly in inboxes

  • @rosagoglia4649
    @rosagoglia4649 4 місяці тому

    Thank you…….. good video!

  • @SalamSinjab
    @SalamSinjab 6 місяців тому +5

    Useful

  • @razarraz8276
    @razarraz8276 3 місяці тому +7

    You say about "tracking" and i instantly thought of this girl i really liked in my last job!
    I we all had a work uniform so we all looked similar especially when we wore our rain coats, but i could spot her almost instantly most of the time from the other side of site where you couldn't make out people's faces because we were that far. I know it sounds weird but i knew what her walk and posture where like so it was easy to spot her

  • @FaithIsokenEkhator-vs9yu
    @FaithIsokenEkhator-vs9yu 7 днів тому +1

    Rental car😂😂😂...that got me lol !!

  • @jessicamckeever8471
    @jessicamckeever8471 20 днів тому

    This is even harder when meeting on line ! 😩😩

  • @renchemarais8419
    @renchemarais8419 6 місяців тому +5

    GREATEST ADVICE👭👫 APPRECIATES GERT 🍷🍷

  • @_d.i.n.i_
    @_d.i.n.i_ 5 місяців тому

    2:26 and 3:00 ahh that makes sense now mkay.. yep everytime I walk pass by lol and he got my number in a subtle way too😆

  • @jollysharma300
    @jollysharma300 2 місяці тому +1

    Wowww... So beautifully explained 😅

  • @lauracristina2773
    @lauracristina2773 4 місяці тому +5

    When I like someone, I like to place mind boobytraps in order to find out who he really is. I'm not doing it to harm him but to understand him and make a choice. Often, I am teasing them and treating them with mild jokes. If he's joining my little game, I'm in. I like to be mentally challenged, and I prefer the mind muscles. So, I will test that and his compassion and collaboration instinct first before I go further. Most of them are intimidated by my way of being, unfortunately, so I have to quit the process and lose interest. 😊

    • @nonyobisniss7928
      @nonyobisniss7928 4 місяці тому +3

      Can you give an example or two of "mind boobytraps" you'd place? And what you think his response would tell you exactly?

  • @innajoy6508
    @innajoy6508 4 місяці тому

    Cool, it was funny and useful 😅❤

  • @shrividhyap3893
    @shrividhyap3893 5 місяців тому +2

    When I came to this video I saw 111 comments with 3.3 likes.univers blessed me❤🎉😊

  • @lafemmesanspseudo7840
    @lafemmesanspseudo7840 6 місяців тому +21

    Isn't it part of seduction too ? I get the fear of rejection but on the other side, if you were sure of everything from the start, how would desire build ?

  • @deed.3230
    @deed.3230 5 місяців тому +14

    What about an online acquaintanceship? What signs to look for when the person would like more but doesn’t come out and say so?

    • @teddslens
      @teddslens 4 місяці тому +3

      He is not that into you!

    • @yuppers1
      @yuppers1 Місяць тому

      He would find an excuse to meet you in person.

  • @Momo79woke
    @Momo79woke 6 місяців тому +4

    😂 ouch, that dang Viking…😂🤙

  • @wolfymewmew
    @wolfymewmew 2 місяці тому +2

    i clicked like because you said faster than a squirrel chasing a nut and it made me laugh.