3 ways women turn men off and don't even know it until it's too late
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- 3 ways women turn men off and don't even know it until it's too late
women turn men off by doing things that display big ego. Often times they don't even know they are turning men off.
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@KevHick I really have no time for men, period !!! I just get my dildo out then talk to my brick wall.
Ugh...if the female is soft she's considered weak. If she defensive she's considered egotistical. If she displays her personality she's seeking attention. We can't win for losing. I'm over it.🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Yeah, it feels like too many hoops. Plus, in my experience, the men I know (yes, upstanding men) tend to choose catty rude women who aren't modest. These women he described are last to be picked.
@@jennatalks967 I'm 43. I strongly feel....,either take me as I am or leave me where you found me. What you see, is what you get. Love all of me or love none of me. I'll make some adjustments as needed, but I'm done a full blown makeover for a dude. I'll happily stay single where it's safe and sound.😉
@@ginmaria117 I agree and I always do. 😉
Men sure do have a LOT of rules!!!Too bad we can't as women require THEM to give what they get....!
Funny I was thinking the same thing. if you notice most men choose/marry women they’re attracted to..needless to say most women have a big mouth or like to voice their opinions. Love Kev but can’t really get down with about 40% of this message.
When a man tells you that you're "too independent," just ask him: "What would you like me to depend on you for?"
Genius!
Nooooo...
That attitude will keep you miserable, booboo.
Imagine having good conduct and thinking you married a good man...just to realize it was all a game. Lessons learned and I am now I'd rather walk alone than with someone who thinks his judgment matters more to me than my truth. But this video was very valuable.
I'm sorry you had to go through stuffs like that. on the behalf of that man i apologise.
You say Men are more than just sex and are not looking at just sex when it comes to loving you. women having a hard time taking statements like this seriously when men still will entertain women they dont like or respect just for sake of sex. It's not a real win for me when you run me this line I'll sleep with her but I'd marry you. Ladies often times confuses this to be a compliment when actuality it's a demonstration of his lack of self discipline and blatant disregard for his legacy, finances or sexual health. If you are truly aren't one dimensional, raise the bar by not offering your body as well if you believe she isn't worthy of your love.
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I agree.
I definitely used to be very defensive toward men when I was offended. Saying things that didn’t need to be said. I didn’t know that was ego thing. I thought I was standing up for myself, but I realized it’s a way you do it. You don’t always have to prove a point to them by verbally getting riled up. I know now. I did this when I was younger, very triggered when I didn’t get what I wanted. It’s much different now
Hmm. What if the man is everything he described women shouldn’t be? That’s a double standard
@@bricevanderwoodsan2433 No it’s not. If a woman doesn’t have standards it doesn’t mean a man who does is having a double standard. Just because some women don’t have similar standards as men doesn’t make it misogyny or a double standard. You all are free the judge and I would encourage it. Every video on this channel is dedicated to helping you women lift the standard. No one has a problem with it. The one time I speak on men’s standards everyone is upset. That’s a double standard
@@bricevanderwoodsan2433 I disagree. To add on to what Kev Hick said, there are some standards I wanted for my husband that I did not meet and could never meet (6 ft tall or taller, strong, muscular, computer hacker, leader, wanted to be a father, car mechanic, etc.) They weren't deal breakers for me (I had more important standards that I exceeded and wanted hubby to meet at a minimum as well) but if they were, I could have dumped him without shame.
My now husband met and exceeded my important standards and only some of what I listed. I don't know what his standards were when he met and decided to marry me but he chose me for me and I chose him for him. Neither of us expected the other to change.
Being with my husband, I have traits that I meet that he could never meet in a million years and some of the traits I listed that he does have I could also never meet in a million years. Our roles, responsibilities, and desires compliment each other.
It's ok to want the woman (man) you choose as your wife (husband) to meet specific traits you can't or won't meet as long as both persons in the spousal relationship accept eachother without trying to change one another.
Choose wisely.
I still get triggered...but it's after being a doormat for 1.5 years. Now I speak up...and explode if he doesn't let me express myself. It's not how I want to behave but better than repressed emotions that make you sick. I rather explode at him when triggered multiple times than be his doormat
@@taghazoutmoon5031 true but you should end it!!!
1. Huge display of ego.
2. Overdress/Underdressed and flirting in a cheap way.
3. Performing for a crowd or showing off.
I feel like everything you said, is everything men do 🤷🏾♀️ it comes off as hypocritical for men to not like women having a huge ego, but most of the time a man's ego will overshadow a date in a second.
I just don't like it when men think women get dressed up for them. Women 9/10 times, we get dressed up for ourselves. It boosts our confidence when we look good. When we look good we feel good. Just saying. Thanks for sharing I always appreciate your videos 🙏🏽
exactly! Everything this guy says is coming from a place of how women should act or be more subservient to men. God forbid if a woman displays her ego, its only the man can do that. idk why any woman would take him seriously.
He didn't say that men are being fair or reasonable because they are not lol. They never have. He is just stating their preferences.
@Elzibab Morac I know, I am simply calling out the fact of hypocrisy when it comes to men not liking women with a huge ego, when those same men are egotistical 🤷🏾♀️
@@itzmeashleymock1 what is there about men that isn't hypocritical lol. Especially when they are judging women on our conduct..as if theirs is something to apsire to :D
You said it all ,facts!!!
I've never seen a video so concisely deconstruct our thoughts...
This man is psychologist
I think there is no real way to just cut those behaviors out. We need to deal with the underlying issues... That way, we naturally behave differently.
Point number 1 can also be trauma based than actual ego.
Men are too complicated. I tried normal relationships and it just isn't possible. I give up. Deep down in my heart I know that I hate them because of terrible experiences. And yes, I ave big ego because i stand up for myself. I suppose that I'm the problem but i don't have enough willingness and energy to give a new chance.
I'm with ya. What happened to "just be yourself (your true self) and the right one will come along?
Men are not complicated. That’s a projection because of your misandry.
Exactly, if they were so simple, we wouldn't have these millions of videos on how to deal with them
Keep standing up for yourself. Real men will respect it and you will keep your self respect. Keep an abundance mindset. There are plenty of men out here for you.
@@amerokeewiya1320 so men don't lie to women?
So men don't s3x women they don't plan on marrying?
Men don't fake relationships?
Sounds like men are complicated to me.
Sounds like 'neediness', which I understand as the ego looking to be catered to.
I appreciate how you explain the masculine and feminine behavior. Have you thought of adding visual examples of what the behavior looks like for context?
Maybe for later videos?
I always learn something new from every one of your videos. Such wise words. Thanks Kev.
I'll have an ego when it's a man who is disrespecting me. I can and will if you're married.
You know that’s not what he means lmao
@@illegallygorguz I know that. I just saying I have a problem with men who are married not taking no for an answer. I'm dealing with one now and I am mean as I can be he has dragged my name through the mud. He spread rumors about me and told men I took him to the office. I dealt with him at work and I never did that but I liked that one. It got men off my back for a few weeks. I know for a while men were hitting me up for hookups and I am sure he had something to do with that. I really appreciate your attitude and your smart remark.
Flirting: my husband alerted me to some of my personality traits and habits to be friendly with everyone being taken the wrong way as flirting. He trusts me fully even though it looks like I'm flirting. With him, I banned sex before marriage and spent a ton of time with him without making out. He's my only and I'm his only. I trust him completely as well.
So true, when I used to be friendly to everyone it was taken as flirtiing too! 😒
You just had to add that last part in. Who cares? Sounds like you’re trying to convince the audience that you’re not a ho3 just because you’re “friendly” 😂😂😂😂
This. I am a friendly person, and I had to check my "too friendliness" to others especially to males. I'm generally even-keeled and attaining goals.
This is something that I am trying to work on. I would get offended or always had something to say or felt the need to defend myself because I don’t totally trust men. My problem was that I talked to much, wasn’t always in defense without graciously being in disagreement. One guy was honest with me and told me that I was aggressive and judge mental. He moved on but I took heed to that.
So what type if situations did you feel you were being defensive in? Can you give me an example I wanna see if its the same as me cos i can become verbally aggressive when i feel someone's playing games or lying too me etc
@@nadineelizabeth195 The playing games part was definitely where I would get defensive and start calling him out. For example, the in and out of your life. Spending time with you one minute and the next, gone for a month or two. When I spoke up about it and start setting boundaries and getting to the bottom of things, I was called aggressive and pushy. Typical of a narcissist.
@@Stormy867 its disgusting. It's typical behaviour
@@Stormy867 I've had this happen too me before
@@nadineelizabeth195 exactly! Watch out for those kinds
More content like this please. I’m tryna be a wife & this was very thought provoking. Thanks for your time 😊
Reluctant to watch this. If he’s turned off those feelings are 💯 his responsibility. Why blame the other person, Women.
"The war is won & lost with conduct."
If thats really true then men lose every day, because their conduct is horrible
I don’t do any of these things. All the things you mention sound like things that superficial, selfish, and probably immature women and men for that matter, will demonstrate. I like the lion in the background by the way.
Exactly. I don’t do these things either. It’s funny how men do this almost all the time though. 🤦🏼♀️
Thank you very much, Kev Hick I needed to hear this advice because I have been doing one or two things you mentioned☺️. I have been dating my man for a while, and he definitely sees me with him in the future. He is a typical African King, and he claims I am his queen. I have been a little rough with him to say it politely. He has been patient and understanding, and I believe this came in a timely manner because I was now on my 9th life line. I prayed to Yahweh to help me with wisdom and knowledge before I sabotage myself. I am now going to turn it down to keep my man, I hope he has not checked out. We serve a faithful father to us.🙏
Great video appreciate you thank you for sharing. Turn off your Ego and switch on your Soul. EGO= Edging Goodness Out. Growing spiritually I gained Love,Wisdom, and Beauty my beauty comes from within. I spread nothing but Love,Peace,Joy, and Harmony. Sending Love and Beautiful Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🙏🕊💙💥❤️💥💜💥
We women had quite valid reasons to have these aggressive behaviors. Overreaction and aggression develop as survival mechanism.
What we need to realize is the point where such behavior is not helping anymore and it's time to change. For example, I became aggressive when I was bullied by other girls in the school. I had to be a walking danger so no girl would harm me.
Though somehow this behavior stick with me and I didn't realize it until a guy actually became a victim of my aggression. He mistreated me first but still I didn't need to be verbally aggressive towards him. It's one of biggest lessons I learned this year.
He mistreated you....but you dont think you had to be verbally aggressive with him in response? Sis let me save you from Pick Me land. You absolutely should have gotten verbally aggressive with him. Don't think responding with niceness is the way to deal with jerks. They will back the car up and run over you AGAIN.
This is brilliant advice. Very wise. Everyone needs to hear this when they're young. Before dating.
I understand the whole put your ego aside and the attention seeking thing. However, if I’m a naturally nice person who enjoys smiling, dressing nice and having a good time, why would that be considered a “No No” in dating? It’s very confusing. I’m almost guaranteed that’s the reason I’m with dude anyway because he saw something he liked or vice verse. One minute it’s be a confident QT and smile. Then it’s well don’t be to confident or smile to much because it causes men to loose interest 🤦🏽♀️. Women are being treated like we have no value or place “UNLESS” ….. that’s it “ UNLESS” it’s all exhausting and in some cases unnecessary. If he wants to he will… no sooner or later.
Girl there’s no manual to this relationship thing. Just go with someone who love you for who you are. We women always make the wrong choice the one loves u maybe u don’t love me back but u go for the one that love you less
Women have to set our egos aside so that the men's can take up the space. How regressive is that?!
There isn't a single man in my town that hasn't married/had kids with an arrogant, self centered, caked in make up witch with a capital B!
Not one!
I'm the one who didn't wear make up and got abused by men AND their women for it.
Of course, always followed by "are you gonna let her talk to me like this?".
Don't throw it if you can't catch it!
I've even had some coming up to me saying "why not I'll try, might as well" or "The good looking ones are not interested so..."
They're all divorced/single now and yes, penny less but I'm supposed to give them a chance now because they can kind of see they made the wrong choices????
They can Foxtrot Oscar!
I can see how over-reacting can look like ego but I don’t think that’s always the case. Sometimes it’s our unhealed wounds that get triggered. I was an over reactor until I worked hard to heal some trauma. I see my old behaviour in other unhealed women.
Definitely same. However, boundaries are boundaries because they protect you, and not the other person. If I've done the work or am doing the work, and I'm asking questions, placing the proper boundaries in place for me, in a relationship but the other person is telling me that I'm being xyz, when o know that I am protecting myself, why is it over-reacting?
That sounds like unrealistic expectations from the other person.
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 agreed. Sometimes people don’t like what they hear and like to label it as overreacting. But when you know your communication came your healing (healthy boundaries) rather than your wounds and triggers - you have peace about it. Sounds like you know!
Always the best advice and insight Kev. The Holy Spirit speaks through you 🙏
Can I challenge the thought? Because everyone has ego....women can't just abolish ego....just like ego runs rampant in men....some men will take offense to their ego if you challenge their thoughts even if they are wrong....so the solution is to date men with ego in check? Because I don't see women not displaying ego even if it's done lightly some guys are so egotistical they get mad
Yea to some degree our ego actually protects us. Also I refuse to be a punching bag for a man verbally, emotionally, mentally and psychologically. You get what you get if you come at me wrong then imma make my exit and never deal with you again. Suppressing how you feel and not communicating creates blockages in one's life. Also you could be so nice and polite and respectful in your delivery and these men STILL WILL NOT take you seriously. Damn if you do and damn if you don't
@@Mindful.Movement.01 misogyny, misogyny, misogyny
Your voice is so soothing, i love you so much
He's handsome but I get tired of seeing grown men with the caps on. It's a childlike look.
This is hands down the most valuable advice I've ever received from a man, Life changing thank you🙏🏽
Thank you! I was wondering where the disconnect was. I’ll admit that I LITERALLY just posted to my story that I’m learning to let go of my pride/ego then get on UA-cam to see this video… confirmation
Girl; keep your ego/ pride. If a man wants theirs to take up the space, then they can happily get that alone.
This goes both ways; honest conversation and talking about what you like, don't, and what's acceptable. If someone doesn't respect your feelings they will continue to behave like a child. We are complex and what appease one may not appease another; nothing to do with low behavior. Example, you tell someone that you don't like chocolate cake but they buy it for you any way. Small example but the idea is we are complex
There are 3 ways. I mixed a point or forgot a point. I don’t know y’all 🤷🏽♂️
You're good! Lol
its okay we got you, btw your videos are great always on point and very striaghtforword, i like how you explain it very respectfully and with honesty ! thanks for making these videos kev hick
Is real talk I have three brothers and I have a lot of uncles in my dad so I understand what you’re talking about I got it I’m still waiting on the lord so my spouse I’m not tripping I’m focusing on myself my health in the Lord and what I’m doing for God blessings to you brother Kevin you’re absolutely right sir this is real talk😂😢❤🙇🏽♀️🧕🏾🙌🏽📣📣📣💃🏻🙌🏽💪👑 Yeah my pastors they counsel to yeah yeah Counseling awesome job I’m proud of you brother give me an example is needed out here in this world blessings my brother shalom
Some things you said made sense to me, but some don't! So, a woman can't go out and have fun at a party? They can't smile or dance?? Men are going to look, I know, but when i dance, it's to have fun and express myself... Also, i freacking love to dance, if a man can't respect that, then he's the one who's not good enough...
Amazes me, your capacity to one up your content!😊
Cute lion picture in the background! I ❤️ it!
I stole a miniature ion skillet off the table at the restaurant on my last date now I'm still single 😭 I'll do better thanks Kevin
Lol😂😂😂 u silly
🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for your honesty.
Most women dressing up nice and going out isnt to attract male attention. Many women dress nice and dress up for themselves because it gives women confidence. Should women dress in a burka so she doesnt attract the wrong male attention? And women smiling and talking to everyone is because shes having fun. Why should women just sit in a corner and be afraid to make eye contact and smile because she is coming off as an attention seeker? Women just want to go out and have a good time like everyone else. Let that happen. If a guy gets turned off with it then hes not the guy for you and likely wants a submissive stay at home baby maker sex maid while he goes out and cheats on her.
This was awesome and so on point as usual!!!
Sounds like insecurities
Well I wish I never got married and lived a boring life for 19 years.
I don’t agree with you on the social media thing. I’m a musician 👩🏾🎤 and we have to post certain content.
I don’t care what men are turned off about. I don’t want to be with anybody. Sounds like this typ of guy is truly insecure. This is how my ex husband was. Almost destroyed my career.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS Kev to you and your family.
Women fall for words, energy and actions matching. Swoon** Men rating conduct highly is because they don't like to be embarrassed by their lady's way or attitude. Some folks act a fool. Birds of a feather*
I think people have become programmed to be easily offended. I don't need a bloke. At 50 I am doing fine. Me, myself and I.
Yep!
The Bible says we are not to be easily offended.
I’ll never get a man then
The only time I have ever felt my “ego” briefly take the stage in conversation was when the MAN first showed HIS ego and I was immediately turned off. Then he deserves my ego right back. 🤷🏼♀️
Tit for tat is childish and unnecessary. The moment you were turned off you could have blocked him and kept it moving.
@@illegallygorguz that's not tit for tat. that's protecting oneself.
@@Heyu7her3 girl you could have done that by hanging up 🤣
I like that last 30 seconds. That makes total sense. Cause most of our attraction is in the physical...so a ton of women we may be attracted to...but when you get to know them and see how they move, you be like ehh...Nevermind. Lol
But on the flip side...on paper, with me being a tall dark n handsome man, some would think that I would get women's heads turning all the time...but thats not how women and their attraction work. Why Terrence J looked like Trey Songz...but Terrence don't get the same attraction of women like Trey do. Cause the physical doesn't do it for them like that...like us guys.
And everything you're saying on how we pick women based on her character and how she behaves and presents herself.
I disagree. That physical is very important to me. It for sure “does it” for me. It definitely doesn’t sustain me but to even be attracted to a man, he has to have certain physical attributes.
Listen Im a Nyer. Enough said. Men will never control me. I dont care if I die with my cats. I feel the power struggle when I talk to some guys. Men have VERY fragile egos. Im not going to tap dance for them just to say I have a man. Where are the strong men at??
Damn, I feel like Kevin just 'Read Me Down' I need to make some changes, asap
What are examples of women having ego?
Big facts ! I don’t like seeing it in woman as a woman myself 💗
Wisdom right there
Ouch.. that was painful 😅
i am from europe and warching the news they say its cold in ohio and there is lots of snow and a traffic accident. I hope you and youre family are ok
So in other words " Be a College professor instead of a bartender" ?
You're always so awesome Kev xxx
Very interesting concepts because I find Cardi and Nicki very much opinionated women and very much married.
Married to hood or dusty men. Is that your desire?
@@MT-yx5cu So you think those are your only options if you are opinionated? Smh my point is to chase authenticity, not a man's wish list.
@@mzbrown6969 i could care less about the validation of a man. Being in a relationship is NOT a goal of mine or something that I am pursuing at all at the moment. However, no one, not just a man, wants to be around someone 16 hrs a day, 7 days a week who has something to say about every and anything. Having opinions is not the issue, it's the way the opinions are expressed and how often. And yes, let's be honest, most hood guys or guys who don't have much going on in life will put up with mouthy, opinionated women because they have the same energy or needa place to stay. If you'll notice, even those relationships don't last long or they are hella toxic. I prefer to be around someone, like myself, who is balanced, intellectual, and knows how to "pick their battles".
@@MT-yx5cu You said I could care less about the validation of a man yet then turn around and say, However, no one, not just a man, wants to be around someone 16 hrs a day, 7 days a week who has something to say about every and anything. So which one is it, are you looking for validation or not? Again my point is, there is no generic way to be that is acceptable to everyone. Even if you were to become all those things, it doesn't guarantee you a partner or a lasting relationship. The goal is to be authentically you rather than a prescribed list of behaviors that someone else favors.
@@mzbrown6969 your comprehension skills seem to be lacking so our interaction will end here. I will leave you to read my comment again so that you may possibly understand my point was not solely about pleasing someone of the male gender. It's the holidays. Spend time with your family and not arguing in the comment section. Take care and I hope the man you deserve finds you.
I like your channel -it's a good one
Awesome dialogue!
00:50 mark🎯
I will get dressed up. That's because I liiiiike flair...renaissance...the whole "Harlem Nights" vibe of when a woman gets dolled up.
However? All that other stuff Kev Hick is talking about? I don't do all that. In fact, the way I dress up, if I were to step inside of a night club or a lounge, the females would look at me as if I were not "dressed appropriately,"....the guys wouldn't even give me a 2nd look (I would presume because I'm not inside of the club looking like a "video vixen," a "Barbie," a Kardashian/Jenner look~a~like, with my breasts and behind all on display like the Macy's window (trust~I've witnessed this...where guys ain't really checking for me, but damb sure is checking for the chick who is leaving NOTHING to the imagination as far as attire goes).
You’re also making his last point very clear. Lmao bashing other women. Worrying about them looking like Barbie’s and defending that you don’t do all that shit is redundant to most men.
@@illegallygorguz I don't worry about the next chick. I am merely speaking upon what I've seen as far as the women species when I have been to clubs and parties. As long as I look classy? Whatever! Do what you do. Hunt for what you hunt for.
@@QueenUglyDuckling alright maybe you aren’t worried but you are judgemental af. Lol
@@pisces9071 you can vent about an experience without tearing down others. She could have said she didn’t get chose based on her preference of attire without talking trash about the other women. Those women aren’t responsible for men liking them because their style was more preferred lol. It ain’t what you say it’s how it’s said.
So you look like you’re going to church? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great post!!
Great analysis
Thank you
Women these days are turned off by marriage in general tbh
I’m definitely not
@@amerokeewiya1320 I didn’t say all women lol jst saw ur reply btw
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While i appreciate this and feel like this should be true i know an awful lot of men that are married to some stank a$$ women. Women with bad attitudes, condescending mouths, and all around unpleasant to be around. Not sure how they got wifed up but I steer clear of them and look at those men with several side eyes. Meanwhile some of us out here are being the best version of ourselves we can be yet are still single. Which is fine because I'm not looking to settle when I have done so much work on myself!
Their women probably have some resentments for how they're being treated privately. I'm sure they weren't combative in the beginning when they were treated well.
So true
I really like you! Thank you
I'm really into fashion and have a distinct sense of style that would make me stand out in a crowd more often than not, does that mean that men will think I have a huge ego just because of that?
That got me to. I have a city style in a casual college football town. I dress for myself to make myself feel good. 🤷🏽♀ No ego in that.
I love clothes that are fun and make me happy! Sometimes they are a bit hippie-ish, childlike, or colourful. It has been a great way to screen out men - guys who find it important to stick to the status quo will not look for my company, and the confident, imagination-admiring ones will.
If he is able to make a snapped judgment of you based on what you are wearing, would that even be the type of man you want? He's not for me because I would think he would lack an intellectual depth
@@mzbrown6969 You're right! He's just not the one for me.
@@AliseSloan exactly and more than likely its not you but the stylish eye-catching girl from the 4th grade that broke his little heart and made him think never again lol.
Could you please advise on men with kid and falling in love with older women. 10 to 13 years older. I’m 36, divorced, I have 1 kid and I love a woman who is 46. I’m afraid to tell her how I feel.
Do you want children? Because you may like her but your lifestyle may not fit and it’s going to be a slim chance of her having children. It’s been a good few months then just be honest and tel her but make sure it’s not lust and the older woman attraction may run out as she ages.
Do you want more children -*
Also having a children won’t be a turn off for her usually being a woman.
My husband is younger than myself double digits… real Love does not fade away… I was 51 when he asked me to marry him … I asked him why don’t you marry someone your own age .. his response was he feel in love with my heart.. we’ve been married 3 years now and he treats me with more love and respect compassion than any man I have ever dated.. and of course some ppl had things to say about our age difference… but the only people that matters in this marriage is us…Hey Mr. Whyte 💝😘😘
@@harliemccarthy5485 Thanks for sharing your insight. I already have a child of 6.
Oh Ghad. I fd up already
The first one is absolute garbage. I have seen too many openly opinionated and down right openly nasty (in terms of what they say about people) women who are married. It really depends on the male partner because not all of them are spineless either.
Funny thing is I judge men for these same things 😂
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I asked him to remove some girls from his social media that he met at hotel he works at because they show off bikini pics...he blocked 🚫 me instead on his social media. Do I block him from calling?
He’s showing you the women on his SM are more important to him then your feelings. What response do you think he deserves?
Thanks 🙏🏽
100% true
Men usually go exactly for these types of girls. Egotisical sassy rude full of themselves. Nice girls always finish last.
As a man I totally agree ✌🏼👌
I usually love your content but this one seems a like it deserves little more attention. This seems like a nuanced topic. It seems kind of misogynistic to say women can’t act or dress a certain way because it turns men off. Some women do dress for attention but other women don’t and they might be wearing the same exact outfit. Sometimes women just want to act wild with their friends but that doesn’t mean they wouldn’t make a good wife. Men act foolish too and are forgiven sooo this seems hypocritical.
I was looking for a word myself, misogynistic was too strong for me to use. As a woman, we know that some of the behaviors described are just intrinsic to who we are as women. At one point in time, women were to be seen and not heard, now that has been replaced with be friendly but not too friendly. So, it's like asking us to recreate ourselves into a version that is most pleasing to men, and even if you did it will rank as the second objective after sex. No wonder women are opting out of marriage
Women can do what they want. I’m telling you what men are looking for and how men judge. It’s not for you to understand or agree with but to navigate. The trend of calling women’s preferences preferences but calling men’s preferences misogynistic may serve women’s in the comment section but not in real life. I’ve just given you the answers to the test. Do what you will with the information. And why don’t women judge foolish looking men? That’s not a double standard. It’s each individual woman’s failure who does it. If you all judged men as harshly as you are being judged instead of just judging the message, channels like mine wouldn’t need to exist. Of course their is nuance. Nothing in the 500 videos on this channel is absolute and definitely not misogyny. With love.
@@KevHick I get what you mean. A lot of women dress provocative but secretly men who have substance aren’t looking for women like this as a wife. My father told me this years ago lol.
Wait. Russell Wilson said when he seen Ciara's " Ride" video he knew he wanted to be with her and one day marry her. 🤔 her conduct in that video lol was on another level. But it was still sexy.
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He's just talking about a pick me girl
Yeah and the comment section is brewing with them. All the “i don’t do any of these things, and I’m not like most women” is the most tired and replayed line all men hear from a pick me.
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I do put other people down, tear them apart piece by piece. People sometimes are too toxic they affect the children. So yeah ill talk bout women my ex going out i dont want them as an example to my children. Taking drugs, drinking setting bad example. Im good with my skin always am. Im not gonna leave my kid to any women who got toxic traits. Ill tear them apart. So in this part i disagree. And im not planning to be with anyone not dating at all so i can do whatever i want. I am focus with my kids. My focus is me and my children and what surrounds them. 😊😉*tips hats*
What he said wouldn’t apply to you anyway. You’re talking about a situation that involves your children. You know that’s not what he meant. He’s talking about the typical basic women that compare themselves to other women by ripping them apart to appear superior as if the man is going to magically say “yeah i need this woman cuz she said she ain’t like the rest” and it’s cap.
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I don't do any of these the only time you will hear my mouth is when your blurring the lines of infidelity.
Thanks God we are going to start looking for a Woman. Mens Are just Not something I will love to deal again. I do witch my girls find good loving Mens the right way like the ones I have raise.
Can you pls do a video on guys watching porn? This is a common issue, and I'm sure many women feel some type of way about their man doing it. It's just, we don't know what to believe if they say they don't anymore or stopped.
When you say smiling, are you talking about that fake smiling? Genuine smiling, or anyone with the D??
Thank God I’m a proverbs 31 woman virtuous woman thank God blessings my brother shalom good night🧕🏾🤫🤗
Thank God im not dating 😁
Kevin seems kind of depressed.
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