How to tell if a guy is playing games by asking 3 questions! Part 3

[@KevHick]

This is part 3 of a 3 video series. 10 questions total. Each set harder than the previous to answer for a game player. If you missed the other two check my uploads tab. www.Girltalkwithguys.com to book a one on one call with me.

[@crystal9823]

Would you recommend all of these questions you’ve asked in this three part series be asked on the first date or over 2-3? I’m working very hard on my communication skills and I know communication on my part was a huge problem in the past and I don’t want it to come off like a check list. I could give two fucks about a man’s money or status. I WANT to build with a man and I know I’ll have more money than him. I’m a great judge of character, but I am working on communication. Thank you for your posts! You have helped more than you know!

[@KevHick]

@@crystal9823 on date 1-3. First video first date. Second date, then after if things persist. All before sex

[@creativeraven2222]

1:46- yes! also, micro-expressions. we are likely to respond to them even if that response is subconscious or comes as an Intuitive nudge..

[@kidchocolate9253]

With a coach like Kev we are a force to be reckoned with. We have no excuse to be made a fool of. None whatsoever.

[@juneelle370]

Emotional, spiritual, logical guidance 💜 given with care for women. It’s such a beauty to listen to in itself just for that and listen again to learn! He’s good of heart and I feel he’s very guided (by Creator). I just wish more men were raised up like this… I hope men can be listening and learning from him too… not just the wisdom but also the energy/strong, loving heart lessons! It’s treacherous out there with all this red pill pornography philosophy about! Be wise as owl so that you can be safe being gentle as a dove! 🕊

[@kidchocolate9253]

@@juneelle370 Exactly! Heart felt sincere Help!

[@Sheherhis]

@@juneelle370 You nailed it. It is treacherous out in these dating streets!!! Be safe.

[@happygucci5094]

Trauma Survivor here- this info is keeping people safe and you are really protecting and validating those of us that have never been taught how to go about holding yourself with value.
May you be ever blessed Kev frfr

[@aspicegyal]

This 💗

[@allibre2670]

1. How do you act when you really care for a woman? How do you behave with her?
2. How does your perfect woman treat you?
3. How do you treat the perfect woman?
4. Since you have pursued me, what specifically do you want from me or hope to achieve in getting close to me?

[@anonymousnation5235]

"How do expect the perfect woman to treat you?" That's an excellent question. Would definitely ask the next time.

[@kokoalaska9888]

Love # 8/9 “ Observe and discern” . Recently talked to a man online ( phone/FaceTime) who basically told me hes tired of being friends( after a few weeks😂), hated that i dated white men in the past, and told me i was brainwashed by the system. I said very few words over our 2 hour phone convo. I just listened and added in a few “ Oh really? Is that so?” 🧐💭. Uncle/Brother Kev is spot on . Pay attention and STUDY a man BEFORE you choose to have him in your life. 💕

[@seabreeze4559]

it increases the potential cheating pool that's why

[@juneelle370]

Wonderful job! Vetting is an ART form! It’s a craft! It’s spiritual (discernment)! And we have to let them talk and listen with our eyes and ears turned all the way up! Being raised deep in religion taught me an almost magical thinking… being taught no strategy of protection except for prayer and also that pureness of heart is a protection-it isn’t… it’s just a start!… turn the other cheek, forgiveness 70 x 7 doesn’t make people grow or change hearts! Spirituality though is here, in the now, with intuition, logic and guidance of what to do.

[@kokoalaska9888]

@@juneelle370 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Beautifully said. You are so right June. Have discernment and faith but also logic and common sense. Listen more than you speak . Loved your comment💕🥰

[@AlainNavasDrama]

See this is why women can’t get out of there own way…..Texting for weeks? 2 hour phone call….Like dam bich get off the phone….I rarely call or text girls cause it’s 99% bullshit …There doing all these mental games…If a girl doesn’t want to hangout quickly, I’m out …Guys NEVER do this…
I would never sit around texting and texting a girl and judging her personality by the way she responds …Like meet, take a chance..
Don’t judge people by the way they respond to bullshit text messages …girls who aren’t “eager” to meet is
are a huge turn off….It’s going to be weeks off “hi” “how was your day” blah blah blah…
I’ll ask a girl once or twice to meet, if it doesn’t happen I won’t text her again…

[@AlainNavasDrama]

I’m not defending this guy, he sounds lame …All I’m saying is you texting a man for weeks, having two hour phone calls before actually meeting, is already a red flag for me…
I wouldn’t even entertain a girl who’s putting up that many hoops …a truly confident woman would never put up hoops cause she know she’s the shit and that guys will adore her cause why wouldn’t they, she’s the shit …See the difference ? Between that and girl who puts up the hoops, expects you to text her 5,000 times before meeting up…Just full of fear and indecision …

[@janellinell4552]

That body language and energy shift when they answer those questions are REAL

[@juneelle370]

Ethical strategy is what women need most! I’ve been in women’s groups with so many women crying… we have good brains but it’s our emotions/hormones that bad people use to control/manipulate/lie to women who truly want a loving relationship. We have to understand our own personal vulnerabilities in order to protect ourselves! Men are now taught strategies on how to manipulate and lie. Women have to learn ethical strategies to weed them all out! Vet like your LIFE depends on it (it does-the quality of your life or your life itself)!!!

[@seymorepencilart]

These questions should evoke a conversation that is fun. It tells a man you are smart and paying attention, which is very attractive to a man who takes himself seriously. To a man who takes himself and the person who asks these questions seriously, it won’t feel like an interrogation because he won’t be irritated or feel judged by being asked these types of “hard” questions. They’re only “hard” questions to people who’s goals and intentions are not lined up with the questions being asked.

[@tammerry9496]

Thank you Kev. Ladies let's set boundaries, let's have standard, ask alot of questions and put ourselves first! Nomore damaged men.

[@seymorepencilart]

🎉🎉

[@MsTwiththeTea1980]

Most definitely, we need standards and care about ourselves. Totally agree 💯

[@Handmadebyadwoa]

I hope everyone realizes how profound this information is. I asked a simple question and watched his reaction and knew my time would be wasted. 😆 Thank you for giving us the blue print and for saving my time!

[@s4hg663ws]

This video is a straight up public service and I am taking NOTES. Thank you, Kev!!!

[@jayc5756]

All Great Tips!
I hope All the mature women here apply these tips and ask these questions...so they can weed off the wrong men from them...and start attracting the Right Men for them. 🙏

[@seymorepencilart]

Amen.

[@MsTwiththeTea1980]

Yes indeed

[@uncamenone6026]

Hey Kev! You always bring it. Keeping it real. Ladies ladies ladies. Again I stress. Please share this content with your girlfriends, best friends, neighbors, co-workers, and the ladies at Salon. (Chat this up!) Keep sharing this with every woman who is open to receive it. We have to pass this message on to the next generation. 4Real 4Real Beautiful Queens.

[@seymorepencilart]

How does the perfect woman treat you. I asked myself a similar question after a heartbreak and before starting up dating after that breakup. It’s such a great question and the more I considered it the more I realized how many standards I lacked as a man; standards for how I showed up, as well as for how I was treated as a person inside a relationship.

[@anonymousnation5235]

The last question is the winner. I wished I had asked this 🙌.... Though finding it out is very easy because no matter how clever a man is, it's not hard to catch his lies.

[@Rosariaissa]

You're like my elder distant bro lol😂 I've really improved on how i handle my relationships since i discovered your videos. We thank the universe for you.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@geminimoon8716]

I’m not trying to move too fast but I have asked these questions and I agree wholeheartedly that this works. I’m so thankful for this man being in my life, first night he tried and I said no and I thought it was over but he then planned a date for us fr and is planning more. When I asked him these questions he gave answers that are in alignment with his actions. He hasn’t tried me anymore and is even keeping serious boundaries with me but we communicate everyday and he’s taking time (slowly) to invest in me. So basically thank you bc I feel alot of us women want to ask this but your helping us how to got about it. I’m scared low key bc I’m realizing that I’m being judged in every interaction bc he’s so serious. Thank you!

[@roseq536]

I chuckle-snorted when I heard “how far away is he from the Red Pill spectrum” bc I honestly don’t even have time to entertain those types. those Kev Samuels and Andrew “Taint” fans can all fall off a cliff.

[@jayc5756]

4:27 Most probably won't lie about this 1. We most likely will take this moment to tell you what it is and what we expect of you here.

[@pearlsb45wine]

Thank you for this series & all of your no BS content. 🖤🙏🧿

[@ms.shortcake8259]

AWESOME QUESTIONS KEV! Your content is amazing to the ears and eyes of so many individuals that is trying to figure it all out. These questions really set the foundation for creating accountability upfront for both the female and the male. The female if observant enough, can cut down time and a broken heart quickly as she see rather the words matches the actions to these questions. Thank you again for always serving!

[@pattysicilia]

I have a good one for you beautiful soul.
I always ask a man if he loves himself in a healthy way for 100%
If he says no then he is not ready to give love to a woman 🙂
I like your energy ☯️🧡

[@superpoodlehead]

Thank you for speaking straight and never adding fluff! Brother Kev, you’re the best! ❤

[@lovelyempress7481]

That last question was so valuable

[@MiishaH]

I asked a guy how does the perfect woman treat you and he just said loyalty and respect. He felt that those two words covered everything and I'm just even more confused lol smh

[@oluwadamilolaoriade5426]

I love the energy you put on this video 👏👏👏😇😇

[@CourtneeG]

I truly truly appreciate this series! Thanks !

[@FirMoje]

This videos are very helpful. I'll be using this, I even took notes

[@jayc5756]

I forgot which eye roll is lying and which is trying to remember. Left or right? I've been meaning to look that up again. But let me know Kev...if you know. Thanks!

[@CanIgetanAwoMen]

Wise beyond your years! Thank you Kev 🙏🏾❤️

[@anitapius6225]

This was amazingly put together. Thank you.

[@kellymills8779]

GREAT questions, Kev!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿

[@candy5742]

Does anyone know think or feel that WOMEN the WOMAN Has to ( MUST ) initiate the BREAK UPs . Men when they decide you not GF material will keep you around because they Say At least she has a 🍑 and they string you alone while still searching because he know your NOT the one but he decided he DON’T want to hurt uou PLUS he get something 🍑.

[@shettikkawoods]

I love ❤️ mufasa in the back... strength ❤️ leadership ❤️ King 👑❤️proud ❤️stature 👍🏽

[@lemonsa1804]

THIS IS SO VALUABLE!!!! Thanks!

[@adwoacooper7493]

Excellent as always! Thank you!

[@kettlydesir2042]

Thank you Brother God Blesses you 🙏🙏

[@whatisthis1715]

Lol, the last question you gave is usually my first 😆

[@kawaiisrs07]

some guys want your mind more than they want sex. its an ego thing and they enjoy the control

[@vbrown7530]

When should we ask this? Like how soon into the dating phase Or relationship should this be asked?

[@Lynnsayne]

These were so awesome. Thank you!!

[@tawnimarie1402]

Good stuff!!! Thank you 🙏🏾

[@KDP7777]

I cant wait for my next date! Thank you Kev ❤

[@tatisloveoth]

Great content, keep up the good work!

[@kailakatsaidthat9130]

Loving this series Kev:)

[@mariaathena7910]

i show you to all of my friends, you are amazing love from Athens, Greece

[@MYSTERIOUSasLOVE]

Once again, great advice.

[@Daughter777_]

Whoa…that’s pretty darn good.

[@milenghirmazghi9133]

Is it problematic if he’s never been in love?

[@jennifermartin4505]

Watch blinking also . You can tell if someone is lying if they blink a lot

[@Sheherhis]

Or they stutter. Swallowing a lot, and looking to the left alot while answering.

[@CC-kr3mr]

This is GOLD 👏👏👏

[@sovereign.spirit]

Thank you 💜

[@brahman-atma8839]

This is hella good!!! 💞

[@jenniferdawn6593]

Thank you!!

[@RRthee1]

Amazing. 🔥🔥🔥

[@catchcourtcourt]

I wanna know how many women have invited Kev and his wife to their wedding. He’s helped so many of us women navigate this dating world

[@SanctifiedLady]

I met some real tetarts!! I asked “How would your ideal relationship be like? “ duuuuh…we connect and get to know each other….”My question is like 4-5 months in what does that look like?” u duuuh, communicating and getting to know each other….” RUN! Dead rock! He’s not going anywhere! “Why did you break up with your last gf?”…him: “We were together 5yrs and we talked about buying a house and the houses she showed me I didn’t like…one day she showed me a house and told me she bought it without me”, “My family said it’s a bad idea and I agreed….then I moved in with her for a year and a half paying half because it wasn’t my house…I bought my own”
Took no responsibility or accountability in leading this woman on…making her step into a masculine to lead. Nope!

[@angelar921]

Could I still ask these questions after a month of dating? No he hasn't had any from me as of yet

[@Yogistevecrush]

Do we have to ask the questions in that order?

[@alicemahomes6976]

I ask my man do you want me to love you. 😅He smile and say yes and hug me tight. 😮

[@jayc5756]

All Great questions...but I gotta admit...some of these questions...based on how women are...you answer all of these good, we will be labeled boring and predictable. Cause most women love and want mystery. Wanna be curious about you...curious on your intentions and stuff like that. So yeah, idk. But in a perfect world, yeah this is very good. I dig it.

[@Halifax839]

You've been watching too many YT channels that give men this false narrative that women like mystery. Women like up front and honesty. And if you're trying to bring doubt and instability with being mysterious then you will lose her sir. Women like stability and someone she can trust and depend on. Not a mystery man. Don't believe the hype bro

[@kristingregorsky5675]

I think you might be missing the point.... when asking these questions, pay attention to his body language as well as his words and it's a bad vibe, then who cares what he wants to label you. If he's a person who labels, then why would we want to be with him anyways, right? If he tells others info, so what. If they think like him, and side with him, then they aren't worth our time either! Walking away is what we should all be doing, me included...

[@KevHick]

This isn’t wrong for a lot of women. I’m here to help women who don’t need that type of build up. A lot of women have learned and are really ready for something real instead of just being excited by a guy with little potential. Men need to avoid women who need so much mystery that he’s not allowed to openly want them. I did. As soon as I caught that need for anxiety (mystery) in a woman, I dropped her. The greatest gift a woman can give a man is permission to want her without labeling his interest as something negative. Being capable of accepting love is a huge mark of maturity. It was a non negotiable prerequisite for me.

[@jayc5756]

@@Halifax839 Idk. But ok. I wish it was like that...but im just talking based on experience...mine and COUNTLESS OTHERS. So it is what it is

[@jayc5756]

@@kristingregorsky5675 I agree....but im a man...I was talking about from the man's perspective...on trying to attract these women and don't risk losing our attraction in them.

[@cherylmorgan5300]

YEP! THEY NEVER
TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES ONLY
TRYING TO GET INTO
YOUR HOUSE OR FINDING OUT WERE YOU LIVE?
THEY ARE SO BIG!
LIER'S!!!!! 🤨 NO PASSION
NO INTEREST? JUST
WORDS! REAL! REAL!
EMPTY! LIKE👎 SO
I TOLD THE GUY ABOUT WHY I WANT A HUSBAND
AND SLAMMED HIM TO
THE FLOOR!!!!!!
BEFORE I KNEW IT!

[@MeghanDonnellyIPY]

How'd you get so wise?

[@TAMMYVANCE205]

❤

[@someonespecial581]

How does the perfect treat you

[@fiercedivaty]

❤❤❤❤

[@miss_bb2]

Is it ok to ask these questions over text

[@silversmith7430]

Can I ask via text 😅

[@candy5742]

Does anyone know think or feel that WOMEN the WOMAN Has to ( MUST ) initiate the BREAK UPs . Men when they decide you not GF material will keep you around because they Say At least she has a 🍑 and they string you alone while still searching because he know your NOT the one but he decided he DON’T want to hurt uou PLUS he get something 🍑.

[@tracyguliford1688]

Can you ask these questions to a incarcerated man? Before you get socially involved in with him