This might be the most upsetting story yet. Richard survived the unimaginable only to be further plunged into a dystopian nightmare by the medical system. May the poor man win every suit.
I see a brave young man. Intelligent and well spoken who will hopefully make the best of his life from here on in. He was horribly treated both by his family and his “affirming team” and he deserved none of it. He deserves so much better. I hope he makes a good life for himself.
Once he said Nigerian, I knew. I have Nigerian parents too that are Christian and believe in witches and wizards. It’s a total mindfuck living with them. I hope this young man is able to heal.
Yeah, I’m sure it was the Christianity cause his older brother molesting him as a child and his therapist encouraging him to transition had nothing to do with it.
A great step Richard to confront your own self with all the past pain and trauma still present, to build an identity true to your undamaged interior. 🧡 Undisputed mistake to take a boy with that history of submission to look like a woman, with surgery!! 🔪what an insult!!
@@HeathenGranny Define the word "woman". Are you satisfied with men dominating women's sports? Are you satisfied with men invading women's prison cells and domestic abuse shelters? Because those are "the results of gender affirming care".
5 minutes in and my heart is broken for Richard. He was failed by so many over and over again. I truly hope he can manage to find healing and peace after enduring so, so much that nobody should ever have to endure. He is so strong for being open about his experiences for such a large audience. This interview will save someone’s life. Thank you for telling your story, Richard.
@@HeathenGranny NPCs truly exist in this world, thanks for being an example. If you don’t go through puberty, your brain never fully develops. You’re an advocate for creating children in stunted adult bodies. Puberty does a lot more than mature the reproductive system. Moron.
@@HeathenGranny this comment speaks volumes about your current mental state. I'm truly sorry that Richard's story evoked some kind of anger & insecurity within yourself. Hope you heal, man!
Nigerian males, from many tales I’ve heard, do seem to have big issues with “toxicity”; it’s a pattern. I thank the guest for his honesty. Many claim CPTSD, but he definitely has it. With the many guests who mention sexual abuse or molestation, I wish they’d be more specific; I think a lot of people who are being abused, need specific examples, because they don’t realize that they are being abused.
Especially since many of the predators who abuse and exploit them as minors behave in such "compassionate" ways and fill a void that is not beong filled by their parents so the victim believes they are responsible for trusting the predator. Its very convoluted and needs to be explained better.
Bless this sweet person. I heard Dennis Prager say once, "If pain were water, the world would drown". The world is so fallen. Humans are so vulnerable, yet it amazes me how we have the capacity to overcome. Please have hope! I too had terrible struggles. I'm doing OK. Hope everyone here is doing OK. 🙏 ❤
I think we have been really shaken by the loss of faith, it provided a framework to contextualise suffering, gave us strong families and community. You don't have to believe in God to see it has left a hole that as yet we have found nothing to adequately fill. I'm glad you're doing ok. ❤
Benjamin, it must have been a very tough decision to release this video. I hope Richard's ability to now separate himself from the treatment he has received from his family is a toe hold for him in the real world that the rest of us take for granted.
Richard's life story is so heartbreaking to hear, probably one of the most tragic ones I've heard so far... He was failed so many times by institutions and society despite the many red flags. I wish him all the best in life ❤The road to recovery will be hard and take a lot of time but if you put your mind to it anyone can accomplish astonishing feats. It's interesting to hear Benjamin be extra soft spoken and clear in this interview, so much care and empathy directed toward Richard via screen to screen.
Man, Richard has been through …. more than most people could ever survive. He’s definitely an important voice to have in the world and I hope he is able to internalize how much he matters.
I'm so glad you talk to detransitioners - you have a really fantastic way with your interviewees: calm, kind, gently probing, unpicking the whole story in a really humane way and never judgemental. These testimonies are so important and they are going to be key to helping more young people avoid these awful procedures. Another great one, Ben X ♥
Richard, you are definitely not alone in having trauma inform your decision to transition. You have a place in this world. Your life is as valuable as any other human life and you have much to learn and teach and enjoy waiting for you. Sending wishes for peace, freedom and love your way.
Very upsetting My heart brakes for him May all of Gods love shine upon him And thank you both for doing this so others can hear the truth behind all of this
I'm amazed at the self-analysis and clarity that Richard has now. Truly, I pray for the healing he needs from all of this trauma. Brave soul to share his story so candidly.
Very wise words, Benjamin! *We get healed by helping others!* It's _mystery_ how it works, but it _does._ By going outside of ourselves and being enclosed in our own pain, in order to help others deal with theirs and help them heal, something happens in this process, that we get healed ourselves! That's very true. You also gain maturity and emotional stability through this, by helping and serving others. Again, it's 'magic'. Or grace, rather. But it works.
Thank you for having the courage to share your journey. I am deeply moved by your willingness to not only help yourself but also others along the way. You are deserving of love, care, compassion and nurturance🙏
Stay strong Richard. You can heal and be the person you want. Benjamin, it just hit me, you may be one of the people that saves the world. Keep up the work! 🙂
Great to hear another perspective on the trans activist cult, but is also sad to hear another perspective on the trans activist cult😿 PS> I do not yet know when transition was sought as a "cure" for what Richard was experiencing, but likely when still a minor. Lawsuits are the ONLY way I can see this trans mutilation machine stopping!
@@helenablavatsky9136 ... Brittany's? I Know who that is, but drawing a blank. Not _actually_ drawing a blank, as it is not really possible to do that, unless maybe you are using an invisible ink pen 😸Of course, how do you even know that such a pen is not out of ink? 👀Imagine how much money one could make by selling invisible ink pens and never put any ink in them 💲I mean, that stuff has GOT to be really expensive, right? If you _do_ fill it with ink, how do you know when it is full? 😿You could spill a ton of it all over the place and you would literally not even know. Come to think of it, If I was to buy, let's say 5 gallons of invisible ink, how do I know the guy is not ripping me off? 😼 . That's it... now I'm pissed!😾
@Richard, thank you for your courage in coming out and disclosing your very tragic private story. I'm at a loss for words for all that has befallen you in your life. I pray for the healing of your body and mind. Bless you for speaking out in spite of the pain you suffer. It will help others.
Oh wow! Thank you for having Richard on. I've been watching his streams with Shape Shifter. Richard is an absolutely beautiful soul and I hope things get better for him.
Richard, you are stronger than you know. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I am hopeful your life, along with so many others, will bring down this very corrupt medical system. Also, I hope you will help.others find and accept themselves for who they truly are and not depend on "experts" or external sources to realize your own worth.
Richard, your story is very moving, distressing, traumatic and massively important for people involved professionally in child services, education, mental health etc. to hear. It's so important that people understand what can be going on in a child's background to influence their behaviour, mental health and development.... My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing this. I really hope you can get the support and resources you need to recover fully from this and know what a beautiful valuable human you are and fully deserving of a long and fulfilling life. I have my own experience of childhood trauma and know how hard it is to advocate and fight for yourself and to believe in yourself and properly love and value yourself, but I promise it can and will get better, you just keep searching for the right support and keep letting go of the negative stuuf and the nay sayers... it's a long road, but there are so many who will help and support you. Stay strong, be you, love you. All respect, all love, you are amazing ❤️
The lack of sensitivity for this man’s ordeal is breathtaking. He’s brave for sharing his harrowing story. But yeah, the light on the ceiling is annoying. Sure.
From what I'm hearing from Richard and other detransitioners, gender "therapy" is geared toward rationalizing and justifying the true goal: surgery. Money money money! Even when it's paid for by "Medical" which is the California version of Medicaid for lower income patients, which is by the way, not always top notch.
I remember when the Baltimore riots occurred, and it was discovered and reported on that the place had generational truancy at the third-grade level. Meaning that, the parents could in no way...help the kids with the common core math that was delivered at that time. And someone commented on that and getting help for that generational 'back to school' for the parents and got pilloried on Social media. And the solution went nowhere. I was very moved and very sad by that display of hatred by its politicians who ruled the area. I think he is dead now.
Richard, I can tell that you are INTELLIGENT, OBSERVANT, and WELL SPOKEN. A therapist with the right skills could do a lot to help you as a patient. I hope the right person finds you. I can see why you’d wish to re-set your life. I wish it for you too, in the healthiest way possible. May you truly find your own POWER and your own PATH. I will pray for you.
Why do you refer to anyone as person of colour? How is that not just saying coloured people, it’s weird to refer everyone who’s not white as that. It’s designed to create a huge us vs them in both sides. Making a wide range of different cultures and races one grey blob of “others”. This isn’t meant to be rude towards you, just a critique of the term and it’s usage.
Poor guy! Of course he tried to get away from himself, having such an awful start in life! He's obviously clever and has a lot to offer the world, I hope that he can find purpose and happiness.
FYI - Richard already lost his case in October 2022 when Kaiser successfully compelled the case into binding arbitration and got the civil case dismissed. Not a single detransitioner has ever won their case in a court of law.
Are you uninformed? Arbitration isn't losing! Their lawyers know what they are doing. This is the fastest way to get them financial compensation. Trials are lengthy and the pharmaceutical companies have a ton of money. They want to hush these up ASAP. These detransitioners will make out pretty good
@@Connie-ty5zb If thats true than why did Richard's attorney state in the opposition to Kaiser's petition to compel binding arbitration they filed that: "Binding arbitration substantially impacts Mr. Anumene's rights in a negative way."? All you have to do is read that filing to understand how screwed this makes Richard. He's basically going to be forced to pay an arbitrator to tell him he has no case. Best case scenario for Richard is to get out of arbitration without owing Kaiser for legal fees.
@@Connie-ty5zbBut a win would be better surely? Because other ppl could then sue with better chances on that precedent? I'm not very clued up on the law.
@@Dreyah-ix5jrcomputer is analogous with the brain- so mental health care may be required. Whereas A plumber works on pipes - so it is analogous with genital surgery.
@Gingerblaze I think some people are helped by transition such as Buck Angel, but I think if Buck had received counselling that was directed more toward accepting the female body and loving the body he was born with life for Buck might have been a bit better without all the medical interventions and hormone treatment.
Seriously, light bothers you? Of all the comments one might make regarding this tragedy, you complain about the lights? Let’s celebrate your victimhood!
Heart breaking. Please dont try to heal yourself through your kids. Its takes a lot of hard work to conquer the abuse from your parents. But, you have the potential to do a lot of good. You would be especially good fostering.
I wonder if the brother who abused him was himself abused. Kids typically don't do this on their own, because they needed to get this idea somewhere, usually by themselves being abused and then acting out on those weaker around him, because can't protect themselves against the adult abuser. It's a common 'chain' of violence/abuse.
@@877swissmiss Yes. But he is also putting forward the idea that any pushback and he would not have gone through with this. I do not really believe that.
@@chaucerianfraud6767 Maybe not,( maybe it wouldn’t have made a difference, that’s possible, we don’t know and he will never know for sure I guess), but most of us were like that as teens! One more reason to make these med trans interventions illegal for minors!!! ( by „we were like that“ I mean that we wanted what we wanted 100% and instantly and nothing else as teens, I definitely was like that🤣)
@@877swissmiss So we agree. My point is he needs to take responsibility in making that choice that a simple "are you sure? maybe you aren't." would not have dissuaded him.
Someone with so much untreated mental and physical trauma while growing up in isolation and neglect, that time and time again went undetected by several sectors of authority for decades. It should be an obvious case for anyone working in psychiatry and cosmetic surgery that informed consent can't be accepted from a patient with such history without proper long-term therapy.
I’ve had non-gender related surgeries. We have free healthcare and I had all my surgeries in day surgery and went home the same day without anybody assisting me. (I’ve only had various internal things removed or cauterised) I removed my own staples because I couldn’t be arsed to go to the doctor for it and they were pinching me at work when bending down, so they had to go. It’s not that big a deal. Yes I have scars from the incisions and staples. Also pretty normal. I would definitely not subject myself to vaginoplasty though. That’s too high risk and I have a vagina already. I hope you get the therapy you need to reorient your focus and live a fulfilling life! I don’t think it’s helpful to ban elective surgery for people with mental health diagnoses or without a home care plan, because then people with gender dysphoria will just not seek mental healthcare and they will have to lie about having a home care plan. I know, because I lie about not going home alone after surgery 😅 It may just have to be a personal responsibility if you are an adult with adult rights and responsibilities.
This might be the most upsetting story yet. Richard survived the unimaginable only to be further plunged into a dystopian nightmare by the medical system. May the poor man win every suit.
I see a brave young man. Intelligent and well spoken who will hopefully make the best of his life from here on in. He was horribly treated both by his family and his “affirming team” and he deserved none of it. He deserves so much better. I hope he makes a good life for himself.
Once he said Nigerian, I knew. I have Nigerian parents too that are Christian and believe in witches and wizards. It’s a total mindfuck living with them. I hope this young man is able to heal.
Yeah, I’m sure it was the Christianity cause his older brother molesting him as a child and his therapist encouraging him to transition had nothing to do with it.
I want so badly to hug Richard and tell him there is a whole galaxy of us who WILL love him no matter what. Childhood trauma is absolutely evil.
Another victim of medical LIES. Wonderful bravery sharing this story 🖤🖤🖤
A great step Richard to confront your own self with all the past pain and trauma still present, to build an identity true to your undamaged interior. 🧡 Undisputed mistake to take a boy with that history of submission to look like a woman, with surgery!! 🔪what an insult!!
@@HeathenGranny Define the word "woman". Are you satisfied with men dominating women's sports? Are you satisfied with men invading women's prison cells and domestic abuse shelters? Because those are "the results of gender affirming care".
5 minutes in and my heart is broken for Richard. He was failed by so many over and over again.
I truly hope he can manage to find healing and peace after enduring so, so much that nobody should ever have to endure.
He is so strong for being open about his experiences for such a large audience.
This interview will save someone’s life. Thank you for telling your story, Richard.
@@HeathenGranny NPCs truly exist in this world, thanks for being an example. If you don’t go through puberty, your brain never fully develops. You’re an advocate for creating children in stunted adult bodies. Puberty does a lot more than mature the reproductive system. Moron.
@@HeathenGranny this comment speaks volumes about your current mental state. I'm truly sorry that Richard's story evoked some kind of anger & insecurity within yourself. Hope you heal, man!
Nigerian males, from many tales I’ve heard, do seem to have big issues with “toxicity”; it’s a pattern. I thank the guest for his honesty. Many claim CPTSD, but he definitely has it.
With the many guests who mention sexual abuse or molestation, I wish they’d be more specific; I think a lot of people who are being abused, need specific examples, because they don’t realize that they are being abused.
Especially since many of the predators who abuse and exploit them as minors behave in such "compassionate" ways and fill a void that is not beong filled by their parents so the victim believes they are responsible for trusting the predator. Its very convoluted and needs to be explained better.
These victims are not being fully informed before going down this road. It’s tragic.
Even worse, they are deliberately being MISINFORMED and deprived of proper therapy.
Yes, unfortunately that is true.
Bless this sweet person.
I heard Dennis Prager say once, "If pain were water, the world would drown".
The world is so fallen. Humans are so vulnerable, yet it amazes me how we have the capacity to overcome. Please have hope! I too had terrible struggles. I'm doing OK. Hope everyone here is doing OK. 🙏 ❤
I think we have been really shaken by the loss of faith, it provided a framework to contextualise suffering, gave us strong families and community. You don't have to believe in God to see it has left a hole that as yet we have found nothing to adequately fill.
I'm glad you're doing ok. ❤
Benjamin, it must have been a very tough decision to release this video. I hope Richard's ability to now separate himself from the treatment he has received from his family is a toe hold for him in the real world that the rest of us take for granted.
Richard's life story is so heartbreaking to hear, probably one of the most tragic ones I've heard so far... He was failed so many times by institutions and society despite the many red flags. I wish him all the best in life ❤The road to recovery will be hard and take a lot of time but if you put your mind to it anyone can accomplish astonishing feats.
It's interesting to hear Benjamin be extra soft spoken and clear in this interview, so much care and empathy directed toward Richard via screen to screen.
If anyone thinks that evil is not a force in this world, just listen to this.
Man, Richard has been through …. more than most people could ever survive. He’s definitely an important voice to have in the world and I hope he is able to internalize how much he matters.
I'm so glad you talk to detransitioners - you have a really fantastic way with your interviewees: calm, kind, gently probing, unpicking the whole story in a really humane way and never judgemental. These testimonies are so important and they are going to be key to helping more young people avoid these awful procedures. Another great one, Ben X ♥
Richard, you are definitely not alone in having trauma inform your decision to transition.
You have a place in this world. Your life is as valuable as any other human life and you have much to learn and teach and enjoy waiting for you.
Sending wishes for peace, freedom and love your way.
Beautiful. I agree.
Very upsetting
My heart brakes for him
May all of Gods love shine upon him
And thank you both for doing this so others can hear the truth behind all of this
I'm amazed at the self-analysis and clarity that Richard has now. Truly, I pray for the healing he needs from all of this trauma. Brave soul to share his story so candidly.
Very wise words, Benjamin! *We get healed by helping others!* It's _mystery_ how it works, but it _does._ By going outside of ourselves and being enclosed in our own pain, in order to help others deal with theirs and help them heal, something happens in this process, that we get healed ourselves! That's very true. You also gain maturity and emotional stability through this, by helping and serving others. Again, it's 'magic'. Or grace, rather. But it works.
Indeed. Ppl scoff at such ideas, but it works.
Thank you for having the courage to share your journey. I am deeply moved by your willingness to not only help yourself but also others along the way.
You are deserving of love, care, compassion and nurturance🙏
Stay strong Richard. You can heal and be the person you want. Benjamin, it just hit me, you may be one of the people that saves the world. Keep up the work! 🙂
I’m so sorry for the people who have been cruelly fooled by evil, evil medical personnel. I’m praying for you.
I'm sending Richard lots of love ❤️ May you heal well and fully ❤️ You're loved unconditionally ❤️
Great to hear another perspective on the trans activist cult, but is also sad to hear another perspective on the trans activist cult😿
PS> I do not yet know when transition was sought as a "cure" for what Richard was experiencing, but likely when still a minor. Lawsuits are the ONLY way I can see this trans mutilation machine stopping!
He was just on Brittany's a couple of weeks ago. Lots of audio problems.
@@helenablavatsky9136 ... Brittany's? I Know who that is, but drawing a blank. Not _actually_ drawing a blank, as it is not really possible to do that, unless maybe you are using an invisible ink pen 😸Of course, how do you even know that such a pen is not out of ink? 👀Imagine how much money one could make by selling invisible ink pens and never put any ink in them 💲I mean, that stuff has GOT to be really expensive, right? If you _do_ fill it with ink, how do you know when it is full? 😿You could spill a ton of it all over the place and you would literally not even know. Come to think of it, If I was to buy, let's say 5 gallons of invisible ink, how do I know the guy is not ripping me off? 😼
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That's it... now I'm pissed!😾
@@NinjaKittyBonks Oh kitty, are you Ok?
@aslightlytwistedfemale is Brittany's channel
@@Cladina_Green .. Yes. That was how I was thinking, but could not get the name. I was too pissed about getting ripped off on my pen 😾
@Richard, thank you for your courage in coming out and disclosing your very tragic private story. I'm at a loss for words for all that has befallen you in your life. I pray for the healing of your body and mind. Bless you for speaking out in spite of the pain you suffer. It will help others.
This was a very raw interview.
He wants normal. He wants to be what he never had
Praying for you. May you find your identity in Jesus Christ and his salvation.
Oh wow! Thank you for having Richard on. I've been watching his streams with Shape Shifter. Richard is an absolutely beautiful soul and I hope things get better for him.
Richard, you are stronger than you know. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I am hopeful your life, along with so many others, will bring down this very corrupt medical system. Also, I hope you will help.others find and accept themselves for who they truly are and not depend on "experts" or external sources to realize your own worth.
Dear Richard sending you lots of love from the UK. You are a true survivor, always hold onto hope ❤
Richard, your story is very moving, distressing, traumatic and massively important for people involved professionally in child services, education, mental health etc. to hear. It's so important that people understand what can be going on in a child's background to influence their behaviour, mental health and development.... My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing this. I really hope you can get the support and resources you need to recover fully from this and know what a beautiful valuable human you are and fully deserving of a long and fulfilling life. I have my own experience of childhood trauma and know how hard it is to advocate and fight for yourself and to believe in yourself and properly love and value yourself, but I promise it can and will get better, you just keep searching for the right support and keep letting go of the negative stuuf and the nay sayers... it's a long road, but there are so many who will help and support you. Stay strong, be you, love you. All respect, all love, you are amazing ❤️
The lack of sensitivity for this man’s ordeal is breathtaking. He’s brave for sharing his harrowing story. But yeah, the light on the ceiling is annoying. Sure.
From what I'm hearing from Richard and other detransitioners, gender "therapy" is geared toward rationalizing and justifying the true goal: surgery. Money money money! Even when it's paid for by "Medical" which is the California version of Medicaid for lower income patients, which is by the way, not always top notch.
"Top notch" surgeons would be ethical and therefore would never perform SRS
This is one of the most tragic things I’ve ever heard. I’m so sorry
Sad. Thank you for sharing Richard.
Keep on keeping on. We all have a purpose. Stay true. 🐿
He is so well spoken for all the crap he went through and for suffering with severe mental health disorders. This person is exceptional.
I remember when the Baltimore riots occurred, and it was discovered and reported on that the place had generational truancy at the third-grade level. Meaning that, the parents could in no way...help the kids with the common core math that was delivered at that time. And someone commented on that and getting help for that generational 'back to school' for the parents and got pilloried on Social media. And the solution went nowhere. I was very moved and very sad by that display of hatred by its politicians who ruled the area. I think he is dead now.
Boyce dude you...like rock totally!
Very nice & very important to see a POC detransitioners story - thank you @Benjamin A Boyce, for all your work with this topic!
Voodoo is typically a mix of Catholic/Christian traditions with “witchcraft” or “black magic”.
Richard, I can tell that you are INTELLIGENT, OBSERVANT, and WELL SPOKEN. A therapist with the right skills could do a lot to help you as a patient. I hope the right person finds you. I can see why you’d wish to re-set your life. I wish it for you too, in the healthiest way possible. May you truly find your own POWER and your own PATH. I will pray for you.
Color does not matter. Stop already
Stop this racial crap
Why do you refer to anyone as person of colour? How is that not just saying coloured people, it’s weird to refer everyone who’s not white as that.
It’s designed to create a huge us vs them in both sides. Making a wide range of different cultures and races one grey blob of “others”.
This isn’t meant to be rude towards you, just a critique of the term and it’s usage.
Everyone, keep liking.
24:00 internet addiction, anti social behavior. Also coorelated strongly with the trans cult.
Social atomisation, isolation, reducing social contact to internet access. (God, that's me!)
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My heart goes out to Richard, bless you ❤
You are a beautiful soul, all the best in your future
Poor guy! Of course he tried to get away from himself, having such an awful start in life! He's obviously clever and has a lot to offer the world, I hope that he can find purpose and happiness.
Bloody Hell That's all I have to say
All the best to you Richard❤.
FYI - Richard already lost his case in October 2022 when Kaiser successfully compelled the case into binding arbitration and got the civil case dismissed. Not a single detransitioner has ever won their case in a court of law.
Are you uninformed? Arbitration isn't losing! Their lawyers know what they are doing. This is the fastest way to get them financial compensation. Trials are lengthy and the pharmaceutical companies have a ton of money. They want to hush these up ASAP. These detransitioners will make out pretty good
@@Connie-ty5zb If thats true than why did Richard's attorney state in the opposition to Kaiser's petition to compel binding arbitration they filed that: "Binding arbitration substantially impacts Mr. Anumene's rights in a negative way."?
All you have to do is read that filing to understand how screwed this makes Richard. He's basically going to be forced to pay an arbitrator to tell him he has no case. Best case scenario for Richard is to get out of arbitration without owing Kaiser for legal fees.
@@Connie-ty5zbBut a win would be better surely? Because other ppl could then sue with better chances on that precedent? I'm not very clued up on the law.
@@littleboots9800 maybe but with arbitration, he is sure to be compensated and not dragged through hell in a civil suit.
Alice through the looking glass.
Dorothy in Oz and
Reynard the fox.
So if you have a computer problem do not go to a plumber and talk about plumbing issues and then wonder why the computer is not fixed.
What?
Great analogy. Many who are deep into the trans ideology will fail to comprehend
@@Dreyah-ix5jrcomputer is analogous with the brain- so mental health care may be required. Whereas A plumber works on pipes - so it is analogous with genital surgery.
@@virginiacharlotte7007 unfortunately the "computer techs" are trained in applying plumbing "solutions".
Anyone understand why a doctor would preform this surgery?
I liked the comment. People should get help to accept themselves for who they are. Transitioning should be the very last resort.
There is no evidence it resolves anything long term at all.
@Gingerblaze I think some people are helped by transition such as Buck Angel, but I think if Buck had received counselling that was directed more toward accepting the female body and loving the body he was born with life for Buck might have been a bit better without all the medical interventions and hormone treatment.
The light on the ceiling is very annoying
Don’t be petty
Seriously, light bothers you? Of all the comments one might make regarding this tragedy, you complain about the lights? Let’s celebrate your victimhood!
Heart breaking. Please dont try to heal yourself through your kids. Its takes a lot of hard work to conquer the abuse from your parents. But, you have the potential to do a lot of good. You would be especially good fostering.
Seems like dissociative identity where you take on the alter as the hosts main personality rather than intermittently
Oh another quack diagnosis that half of the professional don't even believe exists.
I wonder if the brother who abused him was himself abused. Kids typically don't do this on their own, because they needed to get this idea somewhere, usually by themselves being abused and then acting out on those weaker around him, because can't protect themselves against the adult abuser. It's a common 'chain' of violence/abuse.
I think this dude needs to take at least some responsibility for his position. For his mental health at least.
He‘s facing his mental issues now, so he started to act responsibly for himself I would say.
@@877swissmiss Yes. But he is also putting forward the idea that any pushback and he would not have gone through with this. I do not really believe that.
@@chaucerianfraud6767 Maybe not,( maybe it wouldn’t have made a difference, that’s possible, we don’t know and he will never know for sure I guess), but most of us were like that as teens! One more reason to make these med trans interventions illegal for minors!!!
( by „we were like that“ I mean that we wanted what we wanted 100% and instantly and nothing else as teens, I definitely was like that🤣)
@@877swissmiss So we agree. My point is he needs to take responsibility in making that choice that a simple "are you sure? maybe you aren't." would not have dissuaded him.
Someone with so much untreated mental and physical trauma while growing up in isolation and neglect, that time and time again went undetected by several sectors of authority for decades. It should be an obvious case for anyone working in psychiatry and cosmetic surgery that informed consent can't be accepted from a patient with such history without proper long-term therapy.
did he have orcheictomy? if not he can still father children
How did he get enough money to fly to Hawaii? I can't afford the airfare. That does not make sense.
If only his family had chosen Texas, not California, to migrate to
Feminism has infected the entire psychology and medical professions. There is no safe state from this nonsense
I’ve had non-gender related surgeries.
We have free healthcare and I had all my surgeries in day surgery and went home the same day without anybody assisting me. (I’ve only had various internal things removed or cauterised)
I removed my own staples because I couldn’t be arsed to go to the doctor for it and they were pinching me at work when bending down, so they had to go.
It’s not that big a deal.
Yes I have scars from the incisions and staples. Also pretty normal.
I would definitely not subject myself to vaginoplasty though. That’s too high risk and I have a vagina already.
I hope you get the therapy you need to reorient your focus and live a fulfilling life!
I don’t think it’s helpful to ban elective surgery for people with mental health diagnoses or without a home care plan, because then people with gender dysphoria will just not seek mental healthcare and they will have to lie about having a home care plan.
I know, because I lie about not going home alone after surgery 😅
It may just have to be a personal responsibility if you are an adult with adult rights and responsibilities.
Isn't this conversion therapy of the worst kind?
#MHLivingHell 💔 💔 💔
#BeingSaneInInsanePlaces
#WallStreetBigPharmaResistance
"I did very poorly academically" big surprise there
Racist much.
Go look up how nigerian immigrants to america compare to the average... big surprise for you.
Race isn't a factor for to my opinion
Rude, cruel, unnecessary.
@@intersexional I do not believe you.
He was caught up in his feelings
These stories make me 😅😂 now
Bring back insane asylums
This America 😅😮😢😂🎉❤
He should have stuck to cross dressing 😅😂🎉
You have to 😅😂😅 at this insanity