5 Ways to Embrace Living Alone
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- Опубліковано 20 січ 2024
- Do you live alone? In this video I share my own experiences and discuss how to embrace the beauty of solo living with these empowering tips! In this video, we explore 5 heart warming ways to celebrate your independence and find joy in every moment of living alone.
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I’m 64 and have been divorced since my husband ran off with another woman in 1999. A few years later there were a couple of short lived and failed relationships (not marriages). Being divorced and alone certainly wasn’t my first choice for my life. My daughter moved away at 18 and my son lived with me until recently but moved away as well. So I’ve just become a full fledged empty nester living alone and it’s quite an adjustment. I’m so grateful for your UA-cam channel. It’s very helpful in navigating life alone. Thank you so much. Connecting with you and this community of single ladies is my saving grace. It helps me so much to know that I’m not “really” alone because there are so many others out there that are like me.
BRAVO 👏 for keeping a positive attitude through the changes and seasons of your life. I appreciate your post 😊
I love me and seek a path I can afford...any suggestions,?
After my divorce it was an adjustment for a year being on my own. I had to learn to cook and make decent coffee. I initially got a Saturday job for fun. I met a wonderful circle of new friends and renovated an old house. I reconnected with a wonderful woman. My one take away was to focus on things I enjoyed doing. My wonderful woman and I enjoy estate sales and “treasure hunting” on Saturday’s. We both turned 70 this year and treasure our non martial bliss. Peace
Wow you lived my life!😄 My son just left some months ago also...it is an adjustment but it's become actually nice. I changed my place a little and made my bathroom yellow😁 it's peaceful. I work still so that's good but sometimes I'm glad when I'm off to get away from that atmosphere. You'll slowly get on with life and be alright. Go with the flow🥰
Thank you so much for your lovely comments. I’m very happy that the UA-cam channel and my videos are giving you some strength and focus. Thank you for sharing your creative ways of finding peace and navigation this time of your life. ❤️
I'm 63 years young. Live alone but never feel lonely. Having God in my life helps me to be positive.
Many times it's great to live alone. I find difficult when I' m sick. I really feel afraid being alone and feeling unwell.
Hi your never alone , we are here for you much love xxx
Yes, that's really a challenge but there are many people around that are so nice and will help you, even though they are not very close. But you must shout out, ask for small things. People are eager to help.
I agree. I've lived alone out in the country steadily now for about 8 years. It's good to have other people in a support system in case of illness or emergencies. There are people nearby and we help each other out in these cases.
I understand. Do you have any friends you can connect with. Perhaps that’s a priority for the next few months. Try to find some people you can call when you don’t feel well or even join our Patreon supporters group for some company.
Having a pet has been the very best company for me when I lived alone because then I wasn't alone. They're the best!
Pets are wonderful.
I rejoice living alone (divorced). I feel totally relaxed in my peaceful haven & when I got up at 5 the other morning & made a cuppa I didn’t have to explain myself to anyone. Bliss 😊.
Simple things mean even more as one gets older, having the abiity to do as one wishes when one feels like it is a total gift!
Thanks for sharing!
I did laundry at 4AM cause I could !
I am 68 years old, twice divorced, and have been living alone since 1999. Completely content and happy. I've never been lonely in my life. I've been traveling (alone) quite a bit since I retired, and it's been great. I do have children and grandchildren that I speak to often, although I don't see them often. I'm not quite a hermit....lol
I do have 2 cats and a dog that share my life.
I enjoy living alone most of the time. The challenge is of wanting to go out and not having someone to go with!
A few years ago, after 2020, I went to see the Doobie Brothers by myself. I had such a great time that I decided to go to more concerts in the future. I've seen some great comedians and musicians by myself. Since I just need one ticket, I usually have my pick of seats! Don't wait to have fun!
Me too!
I'm the same! Quite accustomed now to living by myself, but don't know anyone who would like to go with me to jazz venues for instance. I've dragged a friend along before to a few things but our tastes are just too different for her to really enjoy it. I do miss my ex husband in this respect because he really did love the same kinds of music. Oh well ... what will be, will be.
Been living my best life since I got a divorce 40 years ago
I want to add that I wasn’t aware before a neighbour pointed this out to me (she & her husband, after a long marriage, can’t separate due to financial situation, now live together like siblings😮) that many people are forced to stay together for financial reasons. So I am very grateful I can manage money-wise alone. We must squeeze out gratitude wherever we can 😂.
I love living alone
I’m in a fitness program 4 days a week and I’m passionate about eating healthy and staying fit
There are times when living alone seems lonely but the good outweighs the bad
This is always my kinda topic. After losing my wonderful husband in 2009, I finished raising our two kids and have never remarried or lived with anyone. It was an enormous adjustment and took a long time to get back on track. I now feel content and so grateful to have had him for the time I did and for our two kids who are thriving thankfully. I love to travel and overall feel incredibly fortunate.
So sorry to hear about your husband. And how fortunate for you to have a thankful heart for those years together. What a role model for you kids, as well 👏 shari t.
What a lovely comment. Thank you Shari:)). @@shallimolinda
I was just saying to my daughter this morning, how I love living alone. I have a cat that puts her little face up to me in the mornings and gives me a kiss. Yes of course I have had men in my life who would obviously do thatand that was fine at the time but now its just me and my 2 cats. I am contented and happy with that. I am a reader, you learn so much from books. But that is something I started doing at 7 years of age. I love the simple things in life, with maybe a little bit of travel thrown in. I think all us women of a certain age just want to feel contentment, wherever that may come from.
Hi Margaret until I got into my apartment I rented several rooms in others homes It was a nightmare most were so rude some even yelling and abusuve. I would cry . I am no sooooo blessed and grateful to be in my own place with myself and I love being to myself doing whatever whenever I please. I don’t know if I could ever be in a relationship again as the freedom is so wonderful. Just writing this affirms my happy place ❤️
Enjoy Your Happy Pl., Nancy. You deserve it.
I usually dont mind being alone. But as legs get worse, it can be scary. You think of what may happen.
Thank you, Margaret, for another important topic. I just erased a long litany of woes since I’m a fairly recent widow after 55 years of marriage, but realized I don’t want to dwell on that very difficult time in my life. This moment is the only one we have and I am going to make the most of it. Thank you again for being here for us.
What a wonderfully inspirational phrase, “this moment is the only one we have!” And so true, . . Always.
Hi. Have been for 8 years. I’m almost 65. Divorced. Content. Working part time. Having some fun. Not in any hurry to live together with anyone. Gets easier each year. O do have some anxiety about 75 plus. My Dad and his girlfriend 88/84 have a nice relationship. Living together for 10 years. Keeping each other alive.
Hello Margaret, there are many positive aspects to living alone, but still there is a stigma placed upon some of us. Many people are quick to claim that to be healthy, and live longer one must live with others and share large portions of life in social situations. Personally, I never feel alone, especially when surrounded by the beauty of nature. Senior Centers are not my cup of tea! Surely it is better to be alone, than spend time with people one has nothing in common with. Financially, living alone can be challenging, but living with someone who likes to spend can be too. I love the companionship of pets, and being able to live life in harmony with my values. Being resilient is so important to me, and I have had to deal with a couple of serious medical issues with only very minimal support from family who do not live close. Excellent topic Margaret, and as well beautifully navigated. You always look so lovely!
I agree. As an introvert, being around people I don't know well for to long can be exhausting and unpleasant. As for the trope that living alone is unhealthy thats not true for everyone. For me, toxic relationships are more unhealthy.
Thank you so much for your lovely comments. I honestly don’t think you need to worry about what anyone else thinks at all. Just live this life for yourself and love your pets and being harmony with your values. I love that statement so much take care.
I’ve lived alone for about 12 years and never felt lonely until I was laid off during COVID. It was a bad time to “retire” by force, but I got over the loneliness quickly and started really enjoying living alone. I worked on my house and started painting. The downside is being sick and having to take care of myself and my dog. My kids are close and certainly would help, but it’s not the same as having a person living with me. When as soon as I am over any illness I’m super happy to be on my own! Three things I like about myself are my independence, my creativity, and my sense of humor!
Thank you Margaret for creating this amazing channel for us aging beautiful people ❤
Independence, creativity and a sense of humour are SO important. Even creating a good plan for the day is fulfilling. We may end up stronger than married people who often have their decisions made for them.
Thank you so much for your lovely comments and glad that you made it through a difficult time. Happy to be here for you and you are for me.
I will be a widow woman til the day I die..
But,,
I do have a man friend..
When I need company..
After my daughters were in their twenties I moved 100 miles north to the country and the sea. I’m a carer for my daughter and speak to her every day. I absolutely love living alone. I never feel lonely unless someone tells me I’m should be. I love to ride on buses especially the ones that run along the coast.
You can also decorate your living space to make you happy and comfortable. I get my hair done, dress nicely to feel better. It helps my self esteem.
Great idea!!
I totally agree. Make yourself happy.
Been alone since 2010. Am loving it. The freedom of it. Keep myself busy with crafts and family and friends.
I live alone and one activity I really enjoy is to do adult coloring while listening to podcasts. It is creative as well as informative. I have a beautiful picture when I finish and I learn new things when I listen to the podcasts. Adult coloring is very calming as well, a great stress reliever.
Margaret, I absolutely love you! I don't know HOW I'd navigate this period of my life without you and our community family. Having said that, I've been single for over twenty years..first widowed. Then, I had a fiance, but, things didn't work out, and, he is also deceased now. I live in a small apartment upstairs from my son and his family (wife & child), yet, often feel terribly lonely. It may sound silly, but I'm the type of woman who liked being part of a couple. I have only two friends.. both live in FL, and, I'm in NY. No social circle..the bingo thing is NOT for me. Reading used to be more for me, but having to wear readers and even then, my vision isn't as sharp, has made it less enjoyable. Yes, I tend towards depression and anxiety. I see little of my daughter and her family; unfortunately, she is estranged from my son. I know things could be a lot worse, but I'm finding it extremely difficult to enjoy this last segment of life. Sorry for the rant. I want to express so much love and appreciation...you are a lifeline! Thank you for addressing this very relevant topic and always being there for us. Rosemarie ❤❤❤
Hang in there Rosey. Love from Linda from Australia.
Hi Rosemarie. Thank you for sharing your story. I do understand what you’re going through a choice, but how are you going to spend this last segment of your life. I hope you can choose for a happier direction. You’ve got nothing to lose to be happy. Leave behind the things that have made you sad. You have no control over that now. But you do have control over the next few years of your life, it’s your life make it beautiful and happy please 🌺
Hello Rosemarie, I too encourage you to make the best of your time. Perhaps you can find a new leisure activity, like yoga, walking, bird watching, writing, something like that. Travel if you can! Get yourself out of your home! You will find happiness in the little things. You are not alone!
Hi Margaret! I didn't marry Until age 36, and my husband died suddenly at age 53, almost 22 years ago. We were childless by choice, and so at almost 74 Ive lived alone for a long time now. Both my mother and husband were difficult to be around at times, and very demanding. So, I have to admit I really enjoy living alone and want nothing to do with controlling people. This life suits me! Of course its lonely at times but the alternative does not appeal to me. I do what I want when I want and am dependent on no one. 🌺
Well said. thank you for sharing.
I love living in my apartment with two feline roommates ❤️ I’ve taken care of others all my life, so at nearly 60 being alone is my reward and relief!
Living alone is definitely a learned skill when you are an empty nester. And actually, just yesterday, I was thinking that now might be a good time to relearn playing my guitar. I am already studying a different language. We do have lots of options when we open ourselves up to them.🌹
And hello, Margaret!😊💕
That's a fantastic idea. I would enjoy getting out my guitar again, but probably need some new strings 😂
@@shallimolinda Yep. I learned to always keep an extra set of strings available! And we shouldn’t be too hard on ourselves as we rebuild those calluses on our fingers. LOL. Let’s just have fun with it! 🎸😊🩷
I love that comment so much. The opportunities will arise when we open our heart to them. Good luck with the guitar sounds wonderful.
I’m 56 Margaret and I enjoy your channel and I love the newsletter that has my name on it…like you are telling me hi, personally. I love my solitude and independence. I have more fun nowadays learning new things without a timetable. I love being unique in my own skin. I love being an adult and making coffee for myself. Simple things make me happy. Thank you, you are wonderful❣️🙏🏽🙋🏻♀️👍🏽Mia
I love this. Giving yourself permission to live in your own natural patterns. Yes! That’s it. It’s such an adjustment to focus in on just yourself after a lifetime of focusing on others. But I find I’m starting to love it. I was divorced, then widowed, but now I’m settling into my new family: Me Myself and I. LOL! Thank you for that insight today as always you make my life a little bit better with each visit!
Pets are a blessing ❤
I haven’t got a lot of friends, so I often feel alone and sometimes lonely!
Days go by without seeing a living soul except from my dog.
The silence is a blessing most of the time, but I miss people to experience new
things with, to travel with. I have always lived with other people throughout my life.
A partner, my kids, so I guess it takes some time getting used to living alone.
I’m working on it but not quite there yet after two years! 🤔😊
Have you thought about joining the community group? We’re looking on meetup.com for some activities in your area area that you can find a way to at least talk to one person every day :-)
@@sixtyandme Thank You! I Will look into it! Didn’t know that there was a community group!
I’m really trying to find new friends, but nothing seems to happen! 🤔
This time off the year people cuddle up in their houses. I live in Denmark! 🥶
❤️
Learning to find the positives in living alone after my husband passed away! Some days are hard but I soldier through and look for the little instances of joy along the way! I admire you Margerite, because you make a point of traveling. I have never traveled alone, and I worry that I will never travel again. My husband was the adventurous one & he taught me that there was a world out there waiting to be explored. The secondary loses are staggering sometimes. I’m grateful for your channel. I found you soon after my husband passed & you have been such an inspiration to me! Thank you! 🇨🇦
Bless you GN. You miss him, of course you do. But I think you Will Travel again, and I bet he would want that.
@@doloresaquines1529 ❤️
I absolutely love living alone- only difficult when I have a two person renovation job to do ( or when I have to shovel snow)
'Taking pictures': yes. I love to take pictures of places and especially the people I'm friends with. We appreciate you Margaret. God[Bible] Bless you.
Home is where the heart is. I think making our living space as comfortable as possible helps a great deal when those "lonely" moments come. I enjoy lots of books, plants, art work on my walls, a large herbal apothecary, outdoor garden, sewing room and art supplies. I live in a small mobile home. Sometimes when I go out to run errands and I come home I feel a total sense of privacy and relaxation when I enter my place. I make it a sanctuary from the world. And, I don't have a lot of money. I love to hunt swap meets, garage sales, and thrift stores for unique things for my space. I go for walks often too. This is how I comfort myself and maintain my physical and emotional health.
Inspiring. Thank you.
Love everything you said. I also see my home as a sanctuary.
What a beautiful life you have created. I love the word sanctuary. I truly believe that our home should make us feel. Thank you so much for sharing.
3 things that keep me going....looking outwards, and GOING outside to appreciate God's creation. It is awesome. Giving yourself regular mental challenges, especially creative ones.(Drawing, sewing, painting, whatever, they renew your mind and spirit). And appreciating the people you DO have in your life, even if you don't see them as often as you'd like to. The more you appreciate them and the relationship, the better your life will be. Lots of married people would love the freedom we have.
So true 🌺
Really relevant points raised Margaret. Three things I like about myself:
I care about others.
I love to be physically active.
I like to absorb new information.
Most of us are good about taking care of others, but especially if one becomes ill it is even more important to focus on self-care, and doing what makes one happy as a means of increasing joy.
Thanks for sharing!!
Hi Margaret. Just bumped into your channel. I’m a 72 yr old recent widow. First time living alone and feel a mission coming on for widows. Thanks for your channel.
I’m 72 and a recent widow as well and trying hard to adjust
Wonderful! So happy that you found us :-) take good care of yourself and hope you enjoy the content. Don’t forget we’re on UA-cam and the website we’re on Facebook and Twitter and TikTok and Instagram :-) were everywhere for you
I love Sixty and me - you and this channel really are wonderful Margaret. Thank you for providing such a depth and breadth of quality content with your inimitable warmth. So glad you've hit over 250k subscribers, so deserved
I am learning a new language. German just for the fun of it. I was studying Spanish and liked it. I think it’s good to push your self to try something that interest you. For me that is languages. I also hope start to learn to play the piano. All of these things I did when I was younger but am trying to relearn and expand my knowledge. Very fun for me.
Guten Tag😅
Sounds great!
Wie geht es Dir?
Gruesse aus Washington State!
I'm not living alone, but, I need to think about the possibility of it coming in the future. I often talk to my husband about the possibility that either one of us may be alone in the future. Not fearfully, but, realistically. The more we can calmly prepare ourselves; the better off we might be. Thank you for this video, Margaret!
I have my gorgeous staffy life is great just him and me living the dream. Have wonderful family and friends but love it just being alfie and me. Love and blessings to you all xxx❤
I do live alone, but I’ve never been lonely. I was an only child, but married onto a very large family.
Only child here too and after my wonderful husband passed away in 2009, I've been on my own but he was one of eight which was such a nice bonus.
That’s funny - I’m an only child too and my wife was one of eight! After she died, I adjusted to living alone quite quickly. I enjoy it now and I do wonder if being an only and growing up being able to amuse yourself helps with that?! 🤷♀️
Always liked the notion of “The Golden Girls”. But as it turns out I’m just “A Dull Girl”. But I’m actually ok with that. As been said, no one to answer to, no basic restrictions. It does get lonely. But that is only a state of mind, you have to amuse and think for yourself. However, the human touch is a key component and that is something we all need. Sometimes just connecting from some random interaction is good for the soul.
Three things I love about myself. I am content within myself and I enjoy my life. I accept my shortcomings and I enjoy my own company. I find great interest in most everything.
Well said!
The average age to become a widow in the US is 59. So there will be lots of women living alone for perhaps many years and this is a wonderful topic to discuss. I remember my aunts and grandmothers living alone as widows for 40+ years and they were always busy and seemingly happy. They cooked for others, traveled, belonged to organizations, churches, had hobbies, attended school programs, etc. They just kept busy and none remarried!
Hello Margaret, been alone for over ten years. I eventually adjusted and would never remarry. I have a lovely male companion.
I decorate my house and garden as I wish. My house is an extension of the outdoors which I change slightly with seasons.
I started journalling which brings out creativity.
This years goal is to continue yoga and walking. Enjoy good company and to continue to make a difference to needy animals.
Love you tube lectures on subjects I enjoy. One can get a PhD in a subject with no tests or papers. Love comparitive religion too !!!
Thank you for sharing ❤
Once again Margaret,your such an awesome, inspiring lady ❣️
Keeps me 😊and awakens the new me inside...you really are a breathe of fresh air 🪟
You are so welcome. Thank you for your beautiful comments. I really appreciate it.🌺
Hi Margaret! I was married for 55 years to a wonderful man. He died 7 years ago of cancer. I live alone. It has been lonely, a very hard adjustment for me but I have my family, friends, and my church family. I am blessed.
This is such a cheerful channel! I have been alone for 13 years since my husband died. I love having only myself to attend to, unless I choose to involve others. Just go out when I want, come home on my own schedule, it's lovely. The last nine years of his life I was a full-time caregiver, rarely getting out for longer than a brief break. I did it gladly, but I love the ease of my present life.
Thank you so much Liza for that lovely comment. I love being referred to as a cheerful channel :-) we need a smile now again have a wonderful weekend and take good care.
Such wonderful comments on here. Positive and hopeful
Thank you, I just recently started living alone after leaving a bad marriage of 35 yrs and health issues. I figured it's better to live alone than live in a bad marriage, it hasn't been that long yet, only a month but for the most part I feel better living alone but it's also still fresh and a big adjustment for me because it's also the first time I've ever lived alone and I'm in my mid 50's now. I have my sister and her family close by (my family are all in another province) so I'm thankful to at least have my sister and her family (which is my family as well lol). I'm so grateful for coming across your video and reading the comments below has been helpful as well. Thank you❣
I have been living alone forever actually I had a live-in partner for about a year and when he left I decided that was it no more levins. I dated after that but no more living. I am actually quite happy with my own company and I always have been. I'm just like my dad in that respect we have never ever needed needed another person's company to be happy it's not that I don't like other people I just don't need them with me all the time when I was working sometimes I just wanted to run and hide people just irritated me to no end and I was a medical professional so I couldn't very well do that. I had to be present in my job I mean I wasn't always wanting to leave but there were times I was almost happy when I became disabled in 2018 I had thought I could work until I was 70 nope didn't happen I am only 66 and I've been disabled since I was 60. Margaret I just absolutely love your channel. I love listening to you and I love your jewelry. I just think you're awesome. Thank you so much for everything you have done. I lost a couple years in there I don't remember why but there was a while that I think I didn't have internet or something or maybe I was just too busy moving and that type of thing because I moved from town in Michigan to another and then I moved to Missouri my home state and I have never been happier. I am saddened because I left behind in Michigan my very best friend. We do get to talk on the phone occasionally but I miss her so much.
I love when people wear hats I'm fascinated with hats I also love when people put unusual decor in there yard that's the things I notice 😊
If you live alone it's very important to get a fixed routine going that occupies most of your time, err on the side of having too much to do rather than too little. Once you introduce structure then you have less time to focus on your loneliness... this takes some time but nowadays with meetup groups etc. it's easier than ever to have something to do.
I’ve been an empty nester for a long time. I enjoy living alone. I find things to do like my puzzles, cleaning and, go out sometimes for dinner or activities.
I have my faith that keeps me grounded, oh and a cat.
Thanks for sharing!!
Thank you for the encouragement! I've been an empty nester for the last 2 years and it is so much harder than I anticipated. It is hard when you don't have a partner to focus on --- but it is a great gift to explore just being in my own company. Still trying to get this figured out-- I'll keep watching your channel for more tips and thoughts :)
Living alone is unique, as is each one of us . Fill in this chapter with what makes you happy. Helping others brings joy and peace into one's life.
If you are a pet lover, have the pet you dreamed about.
Being still and looking around your space brings gratitude , inspiration, innovation, and so much more. .
Thank you , Margaret, for all your inspirations and kindness .❤
You are so right. I am 83 years old but I’m a positive person. I was lucky to have had two good marriages, sadly I lost my second husband only 20 months ago. However although I don’t have any children, my step children are so supportive. I travel as much as I can abroad as well as on buses, as I don’t drive. Just today I went on another little adventure. I am obviously concerned about the future, but I try to take each day as it comes.
Thanks for sharing!!
Thank God... for my children and friends ❤
Hi Margaret. I don't spend a lot of time on my cell phone, but I'm so happy that I can come here and see your pretty face and listen to your kindness and caring. It means a lot to me.
I'm 68, married for 40 years to my husband who is 14 years older than me. He's really slowing down and I'm aging backward. (Healthier and happier than I've ever been due to healthy diet and exercise.)
So I worry about feeling trapped....made to feel guilty if i leave him alone or go do the things he can't physically do anymore. I haven't had any real friends that live close to me but a year ago a 72 year old woman and her husband built a house and moved in right down the road. She's fun, she's in good shape....smart, (ex-FBI). I enjoy her company and intend to do more things with her if i can. Her husband's not in the best health, so I guess we're on a journey together in a way.
I'm the kind of person who doesn't mind being alone though. As a matter of fact my husband retired 20 years ago and I've never had the opportunity to spend days alone since. I feel guilty about missing any kind of alone time, but I sure could use some.
Catch 22 I guess.
Thank you for sharing. It’s lovely you have a friend to be with you on the journey. Wishing you all the best.
@@sixtyandmeThank you. I hope she and I can become really good friends.
I’ve been married for almost 30 years to a good man. I fear the day that I find myself alone. I hope we both live long lives together until the end. My 91 year old Mom just lost my Dad after 67 1/2 years married. I put her into a luxury senior living with many other 90+ year olds. She loves being around the other residents. The dining room is a great place where they all talk about their lives and share stories. So many activities and happy hours with live music too. You could never be lonely there.
You are one of the greatest lights in my life. Your videos are always interesting and relevant for me. Thank you.
You are so welcome
We love you too 🫂
First of all 😍 beautiful 💄 lipstick color, I like living alone because I find most people are exhausting, some how different kind of 🌍 world now, that is why I 😍 loved the 70's so much, people were different then more real. Now you can put yourself first and chose what makes you comfortable❤❤
Couldn't agree with you more Sandra. Love from Linda from Australia.
Thanks for sharing!!
You look fabulous, Margaret!!
Another great video as usual. Thank you very much xxx
Loved it just what l needed on a cold cloudy winter day 😊
Margaret- You are a joy and your beautiful outlook shines into our lives.
I’m 64 and live alone. It’s a difficult time and I wish that it wasn’t. I’d like to just be enjoying my life now. I have some anxiety and depression and I live life with that hanging over me like an unwelcome house guest. I often wonder how I’d be different without that hanging around. Feels like it has stolen my life to some degree. I’m not sure what this time in my life will be all about because I’ve done most of the things that I wanted to do. I don’t think I want a serious live-in boyfriend, but it would definitely be nice to have a life partner. It would have to be a loving person. My past relationships have been unhealthy and I’m very done with that. Sometimes I wonder what the point of life at this stage actually is.
The point is you are alive. It's your time. It's time to make yourself happy. Wear nice clothes that you like. Don't let anyone dictate to you.
Look at the beauty of nature. Appreciate the little things like the shape of a leaf or the magic of a new season. You really are worth it.
Smile and appreciate your freedom to please yourself.
@@suzettecooper382 thank you!!!🙏🏻 😊❤️
@@judiruthmeredith6427 you are very welcome.
Keep going forward not to the past.
I was very guilty of that in the past.
Thank You.
I guess "the cheese stands alone".... 😊 I've been living alone for about 8 years since my last relationship broke up... And frankly I'm tired of it. There are definitely benefits to living alone, for sure. But sharing my space, even if only part-time, would be nice too. Living alone can be very lonely.
Well said, Lw. Having one's alone time is great, and of course if someone absolutely chooses to live alone, that's fine too. I understand What you mean.
I totally understand. Have you thought about looking at a home sheriff situation? They’re quite a few companies now where they will match you with someone where you can rent a room and someone else’s house. If it’s really something you want I’m sure there are some ways you can move forward to find the right situation, wish you well
I love love love your channel Margaret, inspirational, relevant, so important to all of us. ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!
Beautiful coloured sweater...really suits you 😍
Love your posts. I am going to retire soon. -- and your posts are encouraging and helpful.
Hello Margaret and friends,
Thanks for the content. It is much needed 🙏
I turn to your channel often because I feel like you all that life is short and we must live it the best way for ourselves as long as we do it with kindness and respect for others.
I too have bad days, but I try to allow that for a short time then quickly move past it.
Sending support to you all.
Best wishes ❤️
you are a blessing to my life thankyou very much
Happy to help
Thank you Margaret for this video.
You are so welcome!
Thank you Margaret. ❤️
You are so welcome
I LOVE TO GO GROSERY SHOPING @6 AM THEN CAME HOME &COOK GOURMET FOOD TO SHARE WITH MY FRIENDS LOVE THE FREEDOM BUT STILL MISS MY BELOVED HUSBAND LOST HIM 18 YEARS AGO RSP TO LOVE OF MY LIFE.BUT LIFE IS GOOD, GOD IS GOOD, I SEND BLESSING TO ALL OF YOU
Thank you so much for your very kind words. And sharing your story. And by the way, you don’t have to put all the words in full capitals it makes people think that you’re shouting at them :-) but I love your message and I’m so grateful that you reached out.
You Margaret. You give me strength to live this life on my own. Widowed for 9 years this month. Such a struggle to just function let alone cope with the loneliness. But with time and giving myself a lot of patience it’s working out. Of course there are still moments but they get less and less. I figure I am here for a reason and so I carry on. Listening to your thoughts and words are important in my daily routine. Thank you for that. Good friends can be best.
Hi Debra. I am so happy that the articles inspire you and give you some strength. You’re going through a difficult time now but you’re going to be OK. Thank you so much for your wonderful support.
Margaret you are so beautiful and my inspiration. Thank you!
You are so welcome
You talked about reading… I am reading An autobiography of a yogi by yogananda. It is excellent. Some parts I find difficult. I have renewed it twice online at my library. I do want to finish it, but I am struggling…
Loved "learn new material." Current research promotes this for postponing the onset of dementia.
I just love that i found you! What a blessing you are to me! I don't live alone, i live with my 92 y/o father..he is in good shape pretty much and doesn't need a lot from me although it is getting to be a bit more as time goes on. I would so love to meet you one day! If its through the Internet then that will be fun as well! You give me a lot of hope and things to look forward to!
Hi Nancy. Thank you so much for sharing your story and happy that I can be an inspiration to you a wonderful weekend with your dad.
Thank you, Margaret - I am possibly soon to be living alone after about 18 years. While I enjoy my own company it is a bit daunting and your blog is inspiring.
It sounds like you’re in a big transition and I totally understand your hesitancy. We’ve written quite a few articles on living alone, so I hope that you take a moment to look at them and feel prepared. Take care.
Thank you so much for your perceptive comments. I shall be looking up your articles, very best wishes@@sixtyandme
I love your colorful beaded necklace Margaret! I am a Margaret too, I go by Maggie though. I have been living alone for about 5 years now and I am quite content! I to like to come home and lock everyone out 😊 I adore my time to myself and the company of my cat. I just celebrated my 64th Birthday on 1/22 🎉 I live in northeast CT, also known as the quiet corner. I am rich in friendships and I am grateful for that!
Thanks for sharing!!
I like how look when you giggle
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❤ love ya Margaret, I live with my ex husband as a housemate,, temporarily ,in a few months I'll be back by myself and want tips for being alone happily, 🙏
I feel remarriage or living together would be taking in another part time job ! 😂😂😂😂
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Oh boy I do agree that living alone can be wonderful but I've had several surgeries over the last few years and I am grateful for the help of my boyfriend of 20 years although he has his own place. I just found out I need my gallbladder removed so that will be another hurdle to get over. I would appreciate any recommendations you would have for that healing process ❤
Hi Kathleen. Well, as you may know, I had my gallbladder removed last year. The actual recovery was very straightforward, although my liver enzyme levels did go up and so for several months. I was very careful about what I ate, and that in fact, did bring things down to the right level. I think I have been eating a little too much fat :-) so I think that will be the most important healing process for you to take on. What’s your diet, exercise, work with your doctor to make sure your liver enzymes are OK and for me losing a bit of weight help too it will be fine. This is a very straightforward and common operation and I think you’re healing will go very well. Wishing you the best.
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No, not yet. Live with two adult children. I look forward to the time when I can do what I want to do when I want to do it. I am still always waiting for the proverbial "other shoe" to fall. Any help on how to make the transition without alienating them completely would be appreciated.
My daughter and granddaughter (age21) live with me. The way I manage is to go away on mini vacation...started with a few days, and now go for up to 3 weeks. I combine staying with friends and staying at Airbnb. It has been very restorative. I've been separated from my husband for 2 years.. married for almost 40. So I consider being in transition now. All the best.❤
I am 67year I live alone i have Jesus i enjoy being alone ❤❤❤
You make the best girlfriend…thanks for all your love and support❤
What if I need to retire but cannot afford it
It’s a challenge. But you can do it! You are working now so start to look for a way to transition to a part time job that you can do from home to supplement your social security or other pension. How can you cut costs? Do you have a house that you can sell for a less expensive place? What skills do you have? There are so many work from home options. Best to speak with a financial advisor or life coach. Hope you find a way.
This is all I can give you! Given to you in the spirit of love 🩷 🤗🤗🤗