LIVE ALONE - Beauty of SOLITUDE

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  • @ReflectionsofLife
    @ReflectionsofLife  2 місяці тому +3

    Support us in creating more films like this : www.patreon.com/reflectionsoflife
    Thank you Justine & Michael 💚

  • @rain-bender4712
    @rain-bender4712 4 місяці тому +273

    I'm 59-years-old, I'm single and I don't have any children. I'm an introvert and as I get older I find people irritate me more and more. My dog was my companion and soulmate but she passed away quite a long time ago. If & when I retire I'll probably slip into a reclusive lifestyle. I'm part-way there already. No one calls, no one phones me and I'm comfortable with that. I have friends but they're all busy with their families and I just get forgotten which I accept. Family comes first. I used to want a lifetime partner but women have given me nothing but anxiety, stress and problems and the rewards don't justify the stress. Society is horrible these days, the world is changing but I'm not changing with it. I realise I'm not going to be here for much longer in relative terms so I just want to try and live out my days in peace, comfort and contentment. We all have a path through life and this is mine. Good luck everyone.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 місяці тому +36

      Thank you so much for sharing your own views and details about your chosen lifestyle with us. Through the making of these films over the last few years, we have come to realise that we all have our own unique set of circumstances - as you say, 'We all have a path through life". And we all have the choice to follow that path. Some chose to surround themselves with a busy life, filled with social interaction. Others prefer to spend most of their time alone. What matters most is that the path that we chose, brings us peace and contentment. We hope that you continue to enjoy your solitude, appreciating the beauty in life that does surround you. Sending warm hugs. Justine and Michael x

    • @vijiind
      @vijiind 4 місяці тому +4

      ​@@ReflectionsofLifeI agree too many compromises make it a bit stressful

    • @happytraveller8953
      @happytraveller8953 3 місяці тому +22

      I think there may be more of us like-minded people in the world than is known about...may you find peace with your journey.

    • @jasonlowe8545
      @jasonlowe8545 3 місяці тому +9

      Whatever path you choose is perfect.

    • @teachershifa7120
      @teachershifa7120 2 місяці тому +19

      You just made someone feel better by sharing your thoughts. Thank you

  • @JohnDoe-vy5hh
    @JohnDoe-vy5hh 10 місяців тому +700

    Being around people who are fake and insincere or where you feel out of place is so much worse than loneliness.

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat 10 місяців тому +9

      30+ years of it. But because of this, I accomplished a lot due to my own personal training, hard work, resilience, intelligence, and inability to allow others to disrespect me for more than a moment.
      Besides... what is most important is none of this terrestrial, non-sequitur nonsense. When you're about to cross beyond the void veil--when that moment surely arrives... Reflect carefully.
      "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad)
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +4

      Thank you for watching and sharing this thought. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Walid.Hammas
      @Walid.Hammas 9 місяців тому +2

      Agree

    • @DeportillegalAliens
      @DeportillegalAliens 9 місяців тому +4

      That's pretty much the whole world

    • @VânAnhĐặngNgọc
      @VânAnhĐặngNgọc 9 місяців тому +4

      I couldn't agree more with this.

  • @fearthehoneybadger
    @fearthehoneybadger Рік тому +1296

    Periods of solitude help me recover from the madness of the crowd.

    • @simplybeingme
      @simplybeingme Рік тому +25

      Me too

    • @Rufio1975
      @Rufio1975 Рік тому +29

      I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it's just too much.

    • @TJ-kz1ul
      @TJ-kz1ul Рік тому +47

      I understand completely. Actually, I need so much solitude just to feel like myself. I feel more alone when around most people than I do by myself.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +24

      So important to have solitude in between. So glad the story resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @vintagebeliever5023
      @vintagebeliever5023 Рік тому +18

      Agree especially if one is an introvert as myself.

  • @Gail-ux2ly
    @Gail-ux2ly 10 місяців тому +1002

    I would much rather go home to an empty house than to someone I wish weren’t there.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +21

      💚

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 10 місяців тому +27

      Agree 100%😊

    • @willeton
      @willeton 10 місяців тому +61

      this is why I am not renting out my spare bedroom. Prefer to live a frugal life than have some stranger sharing my space.

    • @garychristopher5480
      @garychristopher5480 10 місяців тому +20

      Could not agree more

    • @Danuxsy
      @Danuxsy 9 місяців тому +22

      with me you would love to get home everyday cuz I'd be making you coffee and food and all kinds of good stuff!

  • @paulheffron4836
    @paulheffron4836 10 місяців тому +625

    This reminds me of a great quote from Blaise Pascal....."All of man's troubles stem from his inability to sit quietly in a room alone."

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +8

      Thank you for sharing this quote - very fitting. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @rollandjoeseph
      @rollandjoeseph 10 місяців тому +6

      I guess we can update that to include " humans problem" with tech today.

    • @deepfocusinside4685
      @deepfocusinside4685 10 місяців тому +6

      That is one of my favourite quotes for a long time.

    • @andrewharris9105
      @andrewharris9105 10 місяців тому +4

      What a wonderful channel. Stillness. Being. It’s all we need and are.

    • @cat_lover007
      @cat_lover007 10 місяців тому +3

      bravo!!

  • @anthonydavies6021
    @anthonydavies6021 Рік тому +1076

    I identify with Johann. I believe we are ultimately alone in life, especially as we contemplate its end. I live on my own through my past choices and decisions. But when I experience something beautiful in Nature and I long to share that joy with someone else, that is when I feel lonely. I just have to say to myself "Be thankful for this moment, for the incredible opportunity to join in the dance of the Cosmos, and be a living thing among the countless others our precious Mother Earth supports". It's enough.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +41

      We are glad his message resonated with you Anthony. May there always be a way to appreciate moments of joy where you can "join in the dance of the Cosmos..." , find comfort in your surroundings, in nature. Wishing you well. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @lshwadchuck5643
      @lshwadchuck5643 Рік тому +39

      I also live alone in nature. Wanting to share it got me into more than one messy predicament. Now I'm enjoying a thunderstorm in the screen porch. Sending video clips to my sons. The worst loneliness is with someone there. Being at the far end of life, as our artist says, is worth regular contemplation.

    • @JB-pd3ir
      @JB-pd3ir 11 місяців тому +33

      You can share those beautiful moments in nature with others through the internet (pictures, film, writings) and move many souls (especially important for those who would not be able to go out in nature for varios reasons (too poor to travel, ill, etc.)

    • @anthonydavies6021
      @anthonydavies6021 11 місяців тому +12

      @@JB-pd3ir Of course you are right. Unfortunately you become very insulated in your "bubble" perhaps as a way to cope, so less willing to reach out. But thank you for the thought.

    • @joannedibben2352
      @joannedibben2352 10 місяців тому +5

      That's lovley what you said🌈

  • @stratomix333
    @stratomix333 Рік тому +826

    There are just too many of us all around the world and sometimes...sometimes we all gather here in the comments, like around a fire (the video) and we become a part of this same story, all togheter.
    Even if for some brief moments, we share something, all of us.
    Best Regards to all from Portugal.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +30

      Wow, what a lovely comparison, thank you for sharing this thought with us all. Sending you warm hugs to Portugal, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Alexwill-g8h
      @Alexwill-g8h Рік тому +7

      Truly. From Florida.

    • @Godisgreat-777
      @Godisgreat-777 Рік тому +5

      ❤️

    • @zdcruz0514
      @zdcruz0514 Рік тому +3

      Indeed 😘

    • @jacquelinedonath4605
      @jacquelinedonath4605 Рік тому +5

      Indeed, thank you for sharing this 😍

  • @wildewildestrawberries
    @wildewildestrawberries Рік тому +230

    "Be good to yourself. Be kind to yourself." Yes.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +3

      Glad these words resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @CarolFremel-my4hs
      @CarolFremel-my4hs 9 місяців тому +2

      Be your own indulgent mummy - treat yourself to an ice cream cone

  • @christinebeames712
    @christinebeames712 10 місяців тому +292

    Some of my happiest moments are in my greenhouse alone, no music with a bag of potting, compost and seeds to plant and plants to prune just the sound of the birds and the company of my cat., absolute bliss

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +5

      Sounds heavenly! Enjoy these precious moments of peaceful solitude. Warm hugs. Justine and Michael. x

    • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
      @TheFriendlyPsychopath 10 місяців тому +6

      That’s exactly how an old woman should be, old, alone, with a bunch of cats.

    • @rollandjoeseph
      @rollandjoeseph 10 місяців тому +1

      Sounds delightful, one of my goals for my later yrs

    • @deepfocusinside4685
      @deepfocusinside4685 10 місяців тому +2

      Same here, after a long day work in the garden, looking at the beautiful sunset and sitting on the terrace like in this film.

    • @tiger100ss3
      @tiger100ss3 10 місяців тому +1

      You,ve got it exactly right Christine….my garden planting seeds,taking cuttings and watching them grow…nowt better lass!

  • @deborahcavenaugh8478
    @deborahcavenaugh8478 10 місяців тому +335

    Thank you, sir, for your most needed video. I too am a full-time working artist, 71 years old, and recently told I won't walk again. I live alone and am isolated. Working through all of this I am walking the path with you. I just appreciate your honesty. It was a gift to me today. All the best.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +12

      We are glad that you found some comfort in this story. And we're sorry to hear about your health - we do hope that you are ok. Sending much love and care to you. Justine and Michael. x

    • @phillipgriffiths9624
      @phillipgriffiths9624 10 місяців тому +7

      Have you got a dog? This can be the best company.

    • @juliaa1617
      @juliaa1617 10 місяців тому +8

      May God give you all the strength and love that you need. We are never alone, God is with us, all the time… Sending you my warm wishes 🙏💖🌹

    • @rollandjoeseph
      @rollandjoeseph 10 місяців тому +1

      Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do anything. Even paraplegic people have devices now to keep them Mobil, don't give up!

    • @TheOriginalMrBadaBing
      @TheOriginalMrBadaBing 10 місяців тому +3

      I’m wishing you the best in a tough situation. I hope your spirits are not crushed, and you find renewed purpose, happiness and connections.

  • @alexandermikhailov2481
    @alexandermikhailov2481 10 місяців тому +107

    Enjoying the life alone and not feeling lonely and not needing much is the ultimate wisdom.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +2

      Glad his message resonated with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @SuperKandibar
    @SuperKandibar Рік тому +325

    And most of the people sharing their stories have pets with them through thick and thin. Animal are wonderful ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +10

      Yes, absolutely right. Unconditional love. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @frankclements1431
      @frankclements1431 10 місяців тому +9

      yes, except for for the drawn out period of their old age, decrepitude, suffering and one's own impotence in helping the beloved pet.

    • @happygrandma2732
      @happygrandma2732 10 місяців тому +14

      The best friend a person could have .

    • @randolphpinkle4482
      @randolphpinkle4482 10 місяців тому +6

      If you have a pet, then you're under the illusion of being alone. Most people cannot tolerate the transcendental awareness of true solitude.

    • @Loba89
      @Loba89 10 місяців тому +13

      Yes! Animals are the best! I love my dogs and they are my best company. I occasionally meet with friends, but I love my own company more than anything else, and the older I get, the more I enjoy being on my own. I am in my late 60s and never feel lonely! I am still very energetic, independent and very grateful for everything I have had in my life.

  • @fluffer4049
    @fluffer4049 Рік тому +222

    Many individuals in these stories have animals surrounding them. Love is abundant with these companions.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +11

      We agree, animals make such a difference in our lives. And they always share love. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @louisianarainwater
      @louisianarainwater Рік тому

      💚💚💚

    • @memyselfandiamangel2006
      @memyselfandiamangel2006 Рік тому +13

      I noticed that too! I have 3 dogs they remind me of unconditional love.

    • @rupalipatwardhan7789
      @rupalipatwardhan7789 Рік тому +19

      True....I am never lonely with my 4 cats around me. They are magical.

    • @n2daair23
      @n2daair23 10 місяців тому +12

      My doggies have given me reason to live, love, and forgive. Dog isn’t God spelled backwards by coincidence. The ultimate partner in life, IMHO❤️

  • @beachrose88
    @beachrose88 10 місяців тому +118

    alone IS NOT LONELY..ITS WONDERFUL SPACE TO BE ONESELF

  • @carolinecarter6874
    @carolinecarter6874 10 місяців тому +181

    There is no lonelier place than being with people who don't appreciate you! Five years of living by myself, seeing myself, and embracing the resulting peace as truly opened my mind! I've learnt so much of this Earth and its workings .. I saw nothing until i was at one with myself! We are here to live and learn....there is no set way. I share my life with few, help where i can, and enjoy my pet companions!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Nice that you are feeling ok living on your own. Wishing you all the best for every day, and happy living and learning. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @pawansaxena5150
      @pawansaxena5150 10 місяців тому +3

      There's a long long way to go still. Don't worry my friend, One good day, you will find what you're looking for? The other group of rest of the world doesn't realize that fact because some of them are living in a deep sleep state and some of them are enjoying life like living in a dream state. Everyone on the planet is alone and lonely in fact but few have been awakened from sleep state and do feel themselves misfits in the fake world around them. This might be the purpose of living a spiritual life but the process of awakening is very painful. Only few can hold the courage to choose. In the end they are the lucky ones. Thanks if you understand my point of view.

    • @aaronjennings8385
      @aaronjennings8385 10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly.

    • @sharan4700
      @sharan4700 8 місяців тому

      Precisely !😅

  • @susancazier8244
    @susancazier8244 4 місяці тому +16

    Im 74 and have come to love my solitude. After nurturing others my whole life, i now choose how i spend my time. Now i do art, garden, take care of my animals and on occasion meet a friend for lunch. Thats it, no more trying to prove how much i can accomplish every day.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing a bit about your life and experiences. We are glad you are content with life. Enjoy it. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @patriciahutson
    @patriciahutson Рік тому +122

    I have lived alone since 1996. I view the outside world as something I once swam in. Now I am content with my library, music and memories

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +2

      We are glad you found your happy place, that's the most important thing. As long as you are content where you are. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @patriciahutson
      @patriciahutson Рік тому +4

      @Green Renaissance I am aretired NZ Army Veteran with 20 yrs service hence my decision to view the world on my terms.

    • @armchairzen
      @armchairzen 9 місяців тому +1

      I love the metaphor of swimming in the world. I embrace my alone-ness because so much of the world was a cesspool in which I was mired. There are crystal streams to be witnessed if you look for them. But I am a terrestrial creature. From the Earth to which I will return. All things outside of my body are not part of me, but the universe which surrounds me. It is like looking up into the starfield of the galaxy. Beauty to behold and befriend, but we will never touch.

    • @antoniocarlosrodriguescamp1497
      @antoniocarlosrodriguescamp1497 6 місяців тому

      The point is: people are different, have their own needs and their individual ways and abilities to fight loneliness and depression. Some feel happier in society living among the ' benefits' of their money. And I'll be arrogant saying that money really helps; unless there is any mental disease involved_ depression, maybe. In the very end money 'buys' companionship. And It is possible to make choices... Being able to choose_ the most important thing.

    • @angelikastocker4855
      @angelikastocker4855 4 місяці тому +1

      I can feel every word of him. Being alone -I do everything alone-to be alone in nature with my dog is one of the most beautiful things in my life ❤

  • @SharonG-ip3ll
    @SharonG-ip3ll Рік тому +408

    I've never been lonelier than when I'm surrounded by people.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +14

      Yes, there are many people that feel that way - you are not alone, Sharon. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @charlynehill5999
      @charlynehill5999 10 місяців тому +1

      I hear that!

    • @maryboyer9355
      @maryboyer9355 10 місяців тому +6

      Johann, a pleasure to listen to you speak on living alone,
      I live alone too, although i had a husband and our family once,
      my husband got sick and passed away, our boys grew to men, with their own lives, but i am content, i like my own company, life is good to me, but i take care , in every way.

    • @sarahjones-jf4pr
      @sarahjones-jf4pr 10 місяців тому +1

      @SharonG-ipII have not heard this old saying for such a long time.

    • @ENIGMAXII2112
      @ENIGMAXII2112 10 місяців тому +10

      Understood....
      When I walk into the woods, no one is about.
      Oddest thing, feel very happy, NO loneliness, none...

  • @terryklinger1648
    @terryklinger1648 Рік тому +143

    "What you have acquired in your soul is wealth". "Realize that there is an end to your journey". Wise words from a wise man.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +2

      We are glad his words resonated with you Terry. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @mahersaber6381
      @mahersaber6381 Рік тому +1

      Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older

  • @ailaranta2606
    @ailaranta2606 10 місяців тому +80

    Who is this man with such a quiet wisdom, so beautifully offered?

    • @haid9063
      @haid9063 10 місяців тому +8

      He certainly read a lot. There are some Buddhist philosophies in there " you are born with nothing and leaving this Earth with nothing."

    • @dominiquesmith7178
      @dominiquesmith7178 10 місяців тому +11

      A wonderfully wise south african for sure...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +5

      We are glad that you enjoyed what he shared. His name is Johann Moolman. You find more info and his website link in the write up below the video. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @GordonSou
      @GordonSou 8 місяців тому

      ​@@haid9063When he said "naked I was born..." he was quoting from the book of Job 1.21.
      When he said "Do to others as you would have done to yourself" he is quoting the Gospels (the so-called golden rule) and when he says love is the bottom line he is qoting the great commandment from the gospels and that great hymn to love - 1 Corinthians 13.
      His idea of renunciation as we age certainly echoes the Hindu Sanyasi and his love of solitude the eremetic life of the desert fathers.

  • @vintagebeliever5023
    @vintagebeliever5023 Рік тому +226

    Most of these people seem to be so calm with their lives. Something we could all learn from.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +5

      Lovely thought. We are so glad we can share this calmness with all our viewers. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @rochellea9652
      @rochellea9652 Рік тому +6

      Its because they go to a peaceful ,quiet enviroment and reflect. Escaping the chaos of what is pushed down our throats to think one must believe.

    • @1Thedairy
      @1Thedairy Рік тому +6

      They live in SA in the most beautiful environment

    • @kimsherlock8969
      @kimsherlock8969 Рік тому +9

      When you are in the last stage of life.
      Energy is conserved for living

    • @vintagebeliever5023
      @vintagebeliever5023 Рік тому +5

      @@kimsherlock8969 I like that Kim 😊

  • @jenna2431
    @jenna2431 Рік тому +89

    7 years widowed and loneliness is a thorn piercing my heart that sometimes sits kindly and quietly, and sometimes wiggles further in and I cry in pain.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +16

      So sorry Jenna, we understand. It's not easy to have lost a loved one /the partner. Sending you many warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @judyneville616
      @judyneville616 Рік тому +8

      Beautifully said

    • @normanmacfarlane6724
      @normanmacfarlane6724 10 місяців тому +11

      My heart feels the same.
      Broken hearts , denied of love
      I am 66 and I am slowly coming round to the idea this is my life and I must embrace my life.
      Thank you for your post.
      I understand

    • @joyceconnolly1065
      @joyceconnolly1065 10 місяців тому +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. 🙏💖

    • @mariehaverty8209
      @mariehaverty8209 10 місяців тому +2

      Have been here, this to passes in its own time. Everything does somehow❤

  • @newearth2920
    @newearth2920 Рік тому +292

    Another excellent documentary. What an articulate person. This man has such a gift with words. Thank you, GR. You are definitely making the world better.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +5

      Wow, thank you! Such encouraging and kind words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Janeva08
      @Janeva08 Рік тому +3

      I love everything you share to me with your Chanel❤Love Jannike Sweden 🇸🇪

    • @mahersaber6381
      @mahersaber6381 Рік тому

      Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older

    • @anitavirginillo
      @anitavirginillo Рік тому

      @@mahersaber6381 there are zero guarantees

    • @donnaknepper3821
      @donnaknepper3821 Рік тому

      You are making each day better ❤️

  • @OpsKing574
    @OpsKing574 Рік тому +49

    "solitude is for me a fount of healing which makes my life worth living. Taling is often a torment for me, and I need many days of silence to recover from the futility of words"- Carl Jung

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing the quotation with us. Certainly words one can ponder on. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @jf8461
    @jf8461 8 місяців тому +7

    If you can be truly happy while alone, that is true strength, and a great advantage in life!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Qlimex
    @Qlimex Рік тому +65

    There is nothing more relaxing than quiet place

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +3

      Well said, glad this video resonated with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @poacher7805
    @poacher7805 10 місяців тому +110

    The scene where he is walking along with the four dogs I pray that is what heaven will look like for me

    • @CarsFromOz
      @CarsFromOz 10 місяців тому +5

      I hope it does for you ❤

    • @sstolarik
      @sstolarik 10 місяців тому +11

      Then I live in Heaven now. I live with my my partner and her seven big dogs and three big cats. It’s Heaven (til it’s time to cleanup the yard! LOL).

    • @Andrea-kx6dc
      @Andrea-kx6dc 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes❤

    • @poacher7805
      @poacher7805 10 місяців тому +1

      @@sstolarik lol

    • @JustDontMove111
      @JustDontMove111 10 місяців тому +1

      You literally do live in heaven. Heaven is here and Now. Only a thought makes you think you don't ❤​@@sstolarik

  • @rubberbiscuit99
    @rubberbiscuit99 Рік тому +80

    In recovering from trauma, I recently came to understand what this man said about accepting the reality of loneliness. He has a concise way of speaking about complicated things. Thank you for sharing this.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +3

      Wonderful that his words are so meaningful to you. We hope you are doing better, wishing you all the best for the road ahead. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @rubberbiscuit99
      @rubberbiscuit99 Рік тому +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife Yes, I am. Thank you for your kindness. ☮️

    • @amandalynngibson8332
      @amandalynngibson8332 Рік тому +5

      I live close to hermit life. Totally surprised, unplanned, but sequalae from brain injury and fatigue, headache, vertigo, blah blah.
      I was such a "people person" !
      I enjoy my own company.
      Amen.
      I love your films.
      Every
      Single
      One.

  • @Elizabeth-de1uv
    @Elizabeth-de1uv Рік тому +78

    These films have been instrumental in my reshaping my life in more peaceful and joyful ways the last few years. I am more grateful than I could ever say. Thank you to all involved.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +3

      We appreciate your kind and encouraging words so much. So wonderful to hear that our videos are so valuable to you. Good to have you with us on our journey. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @donnaknepper3821
      @donnaknepper3821 Рік тому +1

      Same❤️

  • @judeirwin2222
    @judeirwin2222 10 місяців тому +43

    “It’s what you’ve acquired in your soul that is wealth.” This man understands. So few do, and for many, it is too late to change the selfish, superficial, materialistic habits of a lifetime.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому

      We are glad his words resonated with you. Thank you for watching. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @juanrivera9328
      @juanrivera9328 9 місяців тому

      My soul was lost, scared, confused & in darkness my whole life. I decided I needed to do some DEEP SOUL SEARCHING & IMPROVE MYSELF in every way possible. I’m so proud of myself….i started when I was 24 and something in me sky rocketed when 26 and now at 28 my soul is free and I set up my life in a certain way that allows me to have a car, studio apartment, dog, food, everything I really need and some extra for life. Thing is, to everyone around me im a loser…but to me….im my own hero. I beat this thing that kept me trapped in myself. No one understands. I’m incredibly resilient to the opinions of others but at times it takes its toll. I may not have a lot of money but I’m pursuing art to become an artist and develop a clothing brand that speaks to people’s souls and help them like I helped mine. Idk. May be stoopid but my heart says this is it. Just full throttle ahead. Worse comes to worse, we’ll pick up a trade job and have a family later on in life or maybe a realtor but Idc about money. I care about life. I finally got mine back. A lot of trauma as a kid. Idk where I was going with this. I guess I’m just venting. Peace & love from a human in NY, JR

    • @l.w.paradis2108
      @l.w.paradis2108 8 місяців тому +1

      He has enough money. I'm six months away from not having enough money to eat.
      Needless to say, no restaurants for me: cook everything I eat.

  • @spmoran4703
    @spmoran4703 Рік тому +147

    There is a ocean of difference between solitude and being lonely .
    No one is an island
    No one stands alone
    Each ones Joy's are joys to me
    Each ones needs are my own
    We need one another
    So I will defend
    Each one as my other
    Each one as my friend .

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +4

      Beautiful words, thanks so much for sharing. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 Рік тому +3

      @@ReflectionsofLife we used to sing it at my school.

    • @brucedownunda7054
      @brucedownunda7054 Рік тому

      ....provided you mix with the right people

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 Рік тому +1

      @@brucedownunda7054 The right people . How hard it is to find them. So, I live a almost hermit like life and hope for the best. So, the majority of people discover the right mind.

    • @brucedownunda7054
      @brucedownunda7054 Рік тому

      @@spmoran4703 Not difficult, You simply have to look under the Right Mushrooms. " Don't Stop nelieving" Journey

  • @Jamie-mt2vb
    @Jamie-mt2vb Рік тому +67

    A kind, wise, gentle and loving human being. Thank you for being you and sharing your wisdom.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for taking the time to listen. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @mahersaber6381
      @mahersaber6381 Рік тому

      Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older

  • @PeloB
    @PeloB Рік тому +155

    .. let's all agree that this was a beautiful documentary, so soul soothing.. powerful words indeed.. 🥰 truly, I can relate

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +3

      Thank you Pelo, so glad it resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @carolynek1875
      @carolynek1875 8 місяців тому

      I agree totally

  • @cindyoverall8139
    @cindyoverall8139 8 місяців тому +14

    I live in solitude. I am a painter. I paint everyday and enjoy my animals. I am not lonely.
    To be a true artist, it is necessary to be alone so that the magic of creativity can come
    mysteriously. It is a great honor to be in that realm, but one has to give up human drama.
    Quietude, peace and nature are the ingredients.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 місяців тому

      So wonderful to read of the life that you have created for yourself. May you continue to use the solitude to craft the magic of your creations. Sending hugs. Justine and Michael. x

  • @GraziNovais
    @GraziNovais 8 місяців тому +9

    I'm 19 years old and no one older has ever sat down, looked at me and told me about the pains that life has and how painful it can be. I learned from life experiences. This video seemed like a comfort to me from someone teaching me and telling me how I should act when faced with loneliness. Thanks!

    • @hihatjas9477
      @hihatjas9477 8 місяців тому

      You seem wise beyond your years. No matter what comes your way always know that you are loved and that YOU are a child of God.

    • @GraziNovais
      @GraziNovais 8 місяців тому

      @@hihatjas9477 What a beautiful comment! Know that you made me feel joyful for reading. And yes! If I have enough wisdom to deal with the pains of life, it is thanks to the goodness of God in my life. Thanks again! I'm even going to take a screenshot of your comment to remember it and smile every time I read it :)

    • @hihatjas9477
      @hihatjas9477 8 місяців тому

      Be blessed 😇🤗

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 місяців тому +2

      Your words touch us. So glad Johann's words were so valuable and meaningful to you. May his message help and inspire you as you walk through life. Wishing you all the best in all situations of life you face. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Amazon-zj8eb
      @Amazon-zj8eb 6 днів тому

      ​@@GraziNovaisHello ,how are you?

  • @heleenabilling9614
    @heleenabilling9614 Рік тому +27

    Life plays no favourites, we are in this journey together! Find your passion.... find your love.... find your soul tribe! All roads lead home but somewhere along the way you need a helping hand! Take time to enjoy the sunrise, the sunset and don't be scared to step out of your comfort zone and learn love! Smell the roses! This wonderful man is very wise and very uplifting! Thank you Green Renaissance for another magical ride into the journey of life!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      You are welcome Heleena. Lovely to read all your thoughts, ideas,... We are glad we could share the video with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @heidi1651
    @heidi1651 Рік тому +77

    Beautiful man and words. The calm in and around him seem to offer a deep place of reflection and insight. In the end it is all about love. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +4

      Happy you enjoyed it, Heidi. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @unknown81360
      @unknown81360 Рік тому

      It’s hard if you don’t know love

    • @coralgallagher3376
      @coralgallagher3376 Рік тому +1

      Yes it’s all about love,love everything and just live in the now ,don’t worry about what happened yesterday or what may happen tomorrow love this very moment and enjoy your life

  • @jedics1
    @jedics1 9 місяців тому +9

    Ive been solo on and off through out my life, as I get older its more on than off because I simply enjoy the lack of drama that comes with it. I have my interests, and enjoy the company of others occasionally, thats enough for me.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing. Glad you found contentment now. All the best further. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @catedennis41
    @catedennis41 Рік тому +39

    Wow! I could listen to him for hours - the calmness of his voice, wisdom of his words, kindness of his heart. Thank you again, GR.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +2

      You are welcome Cate. We are glad you enjoyed listening to him. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @frednorman1
      @frednorman1 Рік тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife Is he an artist?A sculptor?

  • @damianmcdonagh7908
    @damianmcdonagh7908 8 місяців тому +10

    I absolutely love being alone. I'm never bored. I love hiking and biking throughout the west of Ireland 🇮🇪 In October 2022 I did a two week self drive camping safari in Namibia in southern Africa. I've travelled all over the world solo. I never feel alone.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 місяців тому +1

      Wonderful to read that you are content being on your own. Your travels sound wonderful. Enjoy every new adventure. Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lindaetue87
    @lindaetue87 5 місяців тому +14

    I was conceived thru rape. I was never aloud to fit in. It's taken me 61 years to see l am the one that is blessed. I've always had complete compassion for people because l know what it's like to suffer. I now see that l was the lucky one. All those who threw me away have to live with that. I may not have had people but l was surrounded by Angels and always felt loved. I have my lonely times but l have more peaceful moments than most.
    🙏💕

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your story, so much to think about... We are so grateful that you realized after all these years that you are blessed. And that you always felt angels around you, felt loved and looked after. Wishing you all the best, much joy and peace. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @lindaetue87
      @lindaetue87 5 місяців тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife Thank You so very much!!💕

  • @celticmugwump
    @celticmugwump 10 місяців тому +18

    The Beatles nailed it with Eleanor Rigby, all the lonely people where do they all belong. A beautifully sad song.

    • @FighterPilot1945
      @FighterPilot1945 10 місяців тому +2

      Agree a great song sad too I remember it well ❤ spelt Eleanor 😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +2

      What a beautiful reminder of a beautiful song. We'll be listening to that this weekend. Hugs to you. Justine and Michael 💚

    • @celticmugwump
      @celticmugwump 10 місяців тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife hugs in return 🤗

  • @sabinamock4799
    @sabinamock4799 Рік тому +27

    So much wisdom from this gentleman. Feel connected to everything he said. Thank you for bringing this beautiful video to us.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      We are so happy that we could share this video with you Sabina. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @prairiesky1144
    @prairiesky1144 Рік тому +14

    Even though he speaks of loneliness, the strongest impression I felt while watching was quiet, restful, restorative solitude.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +2

      Wonderful that it could be felt by you through the video. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @LarryDickman1
      @LarryDickman1 8 місяців тому

      Exactly how I viewed it. Peaceful solitude knowing that the quietness is restorative to the soul.

  • @illuminatedsoles331
    @illuminatedsoles331 Рік тому +14

    Two of the things I notice in all of the people in their videos are a sense of humor and a sense of appreciation

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Lovely observation. So positive. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @scottfranklin1324
    @scottfranklin1324 Рік тому +13

    Very wise words. Listen to the heart and not so much the head. Love and kindness will work wonders for us all.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      So glad his words resonated with you Scott. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @anjou6497
    @anjou6497 Рік тому +14

    As i am watching this i was thinking about the little flame in me that keeps burning, hell or highwater. How he explains our mental awareness, our fragility; "adrift on the ocean, there's land ahead.." i love that. He says he has reached an age, i am 65 yrs & feel sorrow that, right now, i 'm not sharing my life , and years of questioning wisdom that could help a male partner, an ageing man full of life's experience. He gives us a truly wonderful attitude to life, very honest and gentle, which is a quality that draws me to a man. Men can be just as caring, loving, nurturing, joyful, sweet, scared, self-doubting as women.
    Thank you, i loved listening to him. Sending love. 👍💕🌈🌱🦋

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +3

      So wonderful that his words, his thoughts were so meaningful to you Anjou. Thank you also for sharing your thoughts. And keep that flame burning, no matter what. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @raindrops95
    @raindrops95 10 місяців тому +16

    .. and I thought I was one of only very few people who spend lots of time alone...Thanks for the video

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat 10 місяців тому +1

      Time is the only resource. When you're about to cross beyond the void veil... Reflect carefully.
      "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge, hope's strength resteeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, we must see all in nothingness... before we start again." --Diamond Dragons (Armageddon's Ballad)
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 місяців тому +1

      You are welcome. Glad the video helped you, resonated with you. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @thehikingmonk.1164
    @thehikingmonk.1164 Рік тому +2

    Love your content. Genuine people stories. Very authentic.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      We appreciate your encouraging and kind words. Thank you too for your contribution towards our project, it means so much to us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @thibally2085
    @thibally2085 Рік тому +10

    Merci pour ce merveilleux partage.
    Grâce à vous je me sens privilégiere d'avoir la possibilité d'écouter toutes ces personnes d'une si grande sagesse..
    Mille pensées célestes 🙏💫

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      It's a pleasure. Such a privilege to share all these stories, to share hope and positivity with so many people. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Arnold-e3z
    @Arnold-e3z 7 місяців тому +5

    At 67, I am living by myself. I have the love of my children and grandchildren. I choose to let them live their lives and leave it to them when they want to share their lives with me. I also treat people the way they treat me. I don't go out of my way to push my belief that they should treat me in a certain way when they have their own beliefs. I love solitude ❤.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and views. Nice that you are content living on your own but that you still have family that is part of your life. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @davidalexander2167
    @davidalexander2167 9 місяців тому +10

    Loneliness is not the absence of people it's the loss of one's self

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 місяців тому +2

      Deep words, thank you for sharing. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @TinaSkrutti
    @TinaSkrutti Рік тому +35

    Thank you for this heartwarming words. I love this non-bullshit and naked approach to what life is really about.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      So glad you enjoyed the video Tina. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @mahersaber6381
      @mahersaber6381 Рік тому +1

      Most disgusting feeling to be alone that talk all nonsense .. life to make real big family alot of sons be around you live care about each other the will care about you when being older

    • @TinaSkrutti
      @TinaSkrutti Рік тому +1

      ​@@mahersaber6381 I couldn't have children in this life. I have learned to enjoy spending time with myself. I'm not afraid of being alone, because I'm not lonely.
      I guess you say that you only want sons to take care of you when you get old?

  • @bredaspacapan6118
    @bredaspacapan6118 Рік тому +16

    Great man, to admire. I live a very solitary life, mostly by choice. It makes me feel calm to hear and see this man, since i crave meeting, being with people like him, but i still havent met them where i live. I am thankfull to know and see, they exist. It takes the loneliness that i feel at times, away.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +4

      We are glad you enjoyed watching this video. We hope his story inspires you. And we hope you can meet like-minded people at some stage. Stay positive. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @bredaspacapan6118
      @bredaspacapan6118 Рік тому +2

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you for your kindness ❤️

  • @E-Kat
    @E-Kat Рік тому +14

    I'm never lonely when all by myself, even for long periods of time.
    I'm never bored if forced to wait in the waiting room and I don't need magazines or my phone!
    I just use this time to think and that's so good not to feel guilty about not doing anything, and just thinking, travelling in my mind wherever my mind takes me! 😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +2

      We are glad you feel comfortable and happy when you are by yourself. Nice that you can let your mind travel in these times. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @E-Kat
      @E-Kat 8 місяців тому

      @@ReflectionsofLifeThank you so much. My apologies for taking so long to reply but I must've missed the notification.
      Warm wishes to you both too❤

  • @charlesmiddleton3247
    @charlesmiddleton3247 Рік тому +13

    When one finds themselves... loneliness becomes only a shadow of one's past. Finding yourself in everything there is... will bring forth compassion, love and connection to all that is... Thank you for this gentle soul of a spiritual being! Love your videos and your compassion:-).

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Thank you Charles, we are glad our videos mean a lot to you. We also appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @sunshinecreativity01
    @sunshinecreativity01 Рік тому +10

    Great message. Being alone is the place to find peace. And peace is vital.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      So glad this message resonated with you. Yes, we all need these times and places to recharge. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @tarotducheneblanc
    @tarotducheneblanc Рік тому +20

    Such a soulful and kind man. I could've kept on listening for hours! Soothing and so grounded in truth. This world needs more perspectives like his. I had to go through loneliness when the father of my children left 10 years ago. They were 3 and 1. The loneliness was unbarable and hurt like nothing I've ever felt before. I was terrified of it for so long that it became my reality. I've now reached a point where being alone is my sacred space. I cherish it and love it with all my heart. I sometimes wish I could be on an island. But then, he says it's not the answer. I appreciate this message. It's what I needed to hear. Guess I have more to learn on this crazy beautiful journey! ☺️✨

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Sorry to read about your sad experiences. But we are so happy this video resonated with you so much. May his words inspire and help you to find the right path through life, times for being alone and to be with people. Sending you many warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @coolhand1964
    @coolhand1964 9 місяців тому +23

    I've lived with chronic depression for 20 years as a result of experiences from a career in forensic science/law enforcement. There is a difference between solitude and being content, compared to being alone with an empty life. I can manage the dark times due to the company of my labradors. They are more human than dog, they sense my feelings and moods, they treat me better than most humans have. Their love and loyalty knows no bounds. They taught me patience, the simple pleasures of life and to be at peace with myself. I now enjoy pursuing my interests and always have them by my side. Life is what you make of it. Do the things YOU enjoy, everything else falls into place.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. So glad you found a way to deal with your depression, that you have your furry friends by your side. Yes, dogs have a wonderful way to love and support us. Wishing you all the very best for every coming day, enjoy the company of your Labradors, enjoy life. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @ADDYsunshine
      @ADDYsunshine 8 місяців тому

      I love the last sentiment you said. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, I needed to hear that today. And you do not carry your struggle alone. Wishing you love and comfort and peace in where you are.

    • @coolhand1964
      @coolhand1964 8 місяців тому

      @@ADDYsunshine Thankyou.

  • @shre9
    @shre9 Рік тому +14

    I’ve been lonely all my life and I’ve started to accept it in past few years. It’s still painful but it is what it is. Loneliness is one thing I don’t wish upon even on my worst enemy. Thank you for this beautiful video ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +2

      Glad we could share it with you. May you have peace in your heart regarding your situation. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @cazpk6840
      @cazpk6840 Рік тому +2

      You are not alone we are all right here with U 🥰

    • @anainmexicocity
      @anainmexicocity 10 місяців тому

      You have yourself, a beautifully honest human being. I love you. Ana in Mexico City!❤

  • @michaelcase8574
    @michaelcase8574 Рік тому +8

    Solitude and your favorite pipe. It doesn't get any better than that.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Glad you enjoyed this, Michael. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @marietjievanwyk5969
    @marietjievanwyk5969 Рік тому +14

    Wow, just beautiful and truthful. Thank you for bringing beautiful people out of the crowds to share their "talking from the heart" with us. 🌱🌳⭐

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      You are welcome Marietjie. We are so thankful all the people allow us to share their stories. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @mariavaleria2257
    @mariavaleria2257 Рік тому +15

    Muito inspirador ! Obrigada por nos mostrar seres humanos tão especiais .. from Brasília- Brasil 🇧🇷

    • @joanholland3438
      @joanholland3438 Рік тому

      Beautifully said❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      You are welcome, thank you for watching, Maria. Sending you warm hugs to Brasilia, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @danielcomella9301
    @danielcomella9301 Місяць тому +2

    This man has such knowledge

  • @suzystone244
    @suzystone244 Місяць тому +1

    Johann.
    I personally am comfortable in solitude. The healing. The quiet. The slow down.
    I was married a decade. A dark time. Loneliness was the daily. Since the divorce a year ago, had to serve me again. Search my truth.
    Your story touches me❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Місяць тому

      We are thankful that his story meant much to you. May his words carry you, wishing you all the best. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @jennyjenny3531
    @jennyjenny3531 Рік тому +48

    I enjoyed listening to his man speak about the important things. If I may share my humble opinion, I think this could have been much more powerful if you had included his personal story (where did he come from, what has his life been like? married? kids? etc) to add the story element that really brings the spark of relationality to the philosophical musings. Perhaps a follow-up video with this man? That would be wonderful!

    • @joyslove3858
      @joyslove3858 Рік тому +9

      The power of his words apply to any and all life statuses. So while I agree it may be interesting to know, none of those details matter. Fill in the blanks with anything...🙏

    • @marianfrances4959
      @marianfrances4959 Рік тому +2

      Try reading "The Pursuit of Happiness" by Bertrand Russell.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +9

      @jennyjenny3531 - Thanks for the thoughts and suggestion. While we do agree that there is always value in knowing more and understanding more - there is also a beauty in a degree of anonymity about lifes personal details - without knowing too much about his personal story, it allows us to all see a bit of ourselves in him, so regardless of my personal situation and how it may differs to his, the story still carries relevance, without letting the details get in the way. But I do also see your point of view - so to include a little more personal info is something that we'll consider going forward :) Warm hugs and best wishes to you for a happy week ahead. Justine and Michael.

    • @marianfrances4959
      @marianfrances4959 Рік тому

      @@SonicFields Oh I guess I did! And, I am!

  • @soniatriana9091
    @soniatriana9091 Рік тому +6

    This gentleman has a calm spirit & a very high intellectual level that causes you to listen carefully to each & every word he says!! He’s full of true wisdom!! What an amazing heart felt presentation, this man!! Thank you!!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      You are welcome Sonia. So glad you enjoyed listening to him. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @TheKoopaClown
    @TheKoopaClown Рік тому +16

    I'm at a point in my life where I'm constantly surrounded by people. More than ever before. Yet I have never felt more alone

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Interesting, thank you for sharing. We hope you can find a space and place again where you can feel belonging, where you can be at peace and content. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @sivaprakash3652
    @sivaprakash3652 Рік тому +2

    Thanks

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Thanks a lot for your contribution towards our project. It means so much to us. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @KumLife
    @KumLife Рік тому +42

    This is my most favorite UA-cam channel. His words are just like the message that I need today. I felt like I am reading a book about how to live life and what is life. I deeply appreciate you for making this film.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      It's a pleasure. How special that you could watch this video on a day when you needed it. Always so heartwarming when this happens. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @jindih
      @jindih Рік тому

      Mine too ❤

    • @mrjohncharlesbrown
      @mrjohncharlesbrown 9 місяців тому

      We recently adopted a cat, he is like no other cat we've had, he is laying on me in bed after being fed, and staring at me intently, I'm stroking him as I write this, of all the things we pocess, we have the most satisfaction connecting with this little critter, there more joy and laughter from him, than anything else, we are at one with him, cats are good for the soul and mind

  • @zedzed2936
    @zedzed2936 Рік тому +21

    حقا الثروة الحقيقية هي ما تكتسبه روحك ❤

  • @lindadoyle525
    @lindadoyle525 10 місяців тому +10

    I agree that there is a difference between being alone and lonely. I am 69 years old, semi-retired, living in a very rural farming state and community. I moved from California 25 years ago, missed the bullet on that. LOL. I no longer hear traffic but nature. My neighbors are friendly but we all like our privacy. Great video.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +1

      So happy his message resonated with you. Nice that you have a place where you are happy, you are lone but not lonely. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Originalman144
    @Originalman144 9 місяців тому +9

    Big difference between alone and lonely. No great man was ever made without solitude.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 місяців тому +1

      💚

    • @alexwholeness
      @alexwholeness 9 місяців тому +1

      That's a great truth. Like me, I love when I being alone. But those times ,I have chosen- I could meet with other fellows - but it's beautiful. So I'm myself ,Emptiness within. Perfect.

    • @johnjones99124
      @johnjones99124 9 місяців тому +1

      been alone for 5 yrs its better but it has increased social anxiety as well ,no choice as we are social animals.

    • @Originalman144
      @Originalman144 8 місяців тому

      @@johnjones99124 Can join a gym, or something like a coffee roasters club, car club, or beer brewing club. Meet once or twice a month to stay social.

  • @johndorney4888
    @johndorney4888 10 місяців тому +27

    No person is ever "alone", there is always one with you. Call upon that one and enjoy his company

    • @kenjileach
      @kenjileach 10 місяців тому +2

      My inside ferals and outside colony fill my single life with Heaven. Animals and Nature will Heal you of your lost connection to creation.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому +3

      We send you much love - thanks for taking the time to enjoy this film. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Loba89
      @Loba89 10 місяців тому

      I am with you in this thought. I do not live alone and I am never lonely. I live with God and my two amazing, beloved dogs, and I AM HAPPY! I go by the saying: the more I know people, the more I love my dogs!@@kenjileach

  • @atopimmigration
    @atopimmigration 9 місяців тому +3

    I was standing on the crossroads for the last 3-4 years was not able to make a way , this movie gave me an answer to understand what the life is ? I hope at this age of 58 I would make most of it.
    Sincere thanks for this gift .
    Love you all .

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 місяців тому

      We are so glad that this video was so valuable. This touches us. Wishing you all the best for your life's journey. Sending you warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @behall464
    @behall464 Рік тому +4

    Thank You So Much !!!!! For reminding and confirming my own personal Journey and Luminous Moments. Moments when Divine Truth is revealed and you now KNOW it is Absolute Truth. "The bottom line is Love"
    Even if there may be times you can't touch it, in your lostness . . . You KNOW it is Ever Present! Easing the lonely days and moving forward in Life and Your Soul's Journey

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      It's a pleasure, glad his words resonated with you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @papabear2515
    @papabear2515 Рік тому +5

    Yet another moving and stunningly beautiful video - thank you each and all. When we see a video has been uploaded by GR, our hearts soar and we settle in to what we know will add to the quality of our lives and our growth as individuals. Such gifts you capture and share with us.
    We were moved by this man’s simple but powerful phrase …. “We each feel loneliness.” And in our acceptance of that reality, there is an ironic beauty of found-togetherness. We are grateful for this reminder. Even in our moments and times of feeling abject loneliness, we can reflect on our shared loneliness and let that be like many warm arms to embrace us.
    Thank you so much. Kathleen and Justin, Idaho, USA

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Thank you Kathleen and Justin, always lovely and interesting to read your thoughts, how much the videos mean to you. So glad we can share them and read about your excitement when they are released. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @jenniferkesler1832
    @jenniferkesler1832 Рік тому +4

    I love Green Renaissance, such an amazing gift for all.of us. Thank you to all the people who have shared their knowledge and experiences and thank youbto the producers who have taken the care to share these gifts. Bless you all!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Our pleasure Jennifer, we are glad you enjoy these videos so much. Your message is a great encouragement. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @dotpeat1372
    @dotpeat1372 6 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful.upload, having daid that, loneliness I see as a human construct, as in Nature, alone doesn't exist. Nomatter one tries to disappear, disengage, separation is impossible, there is always a reflection. Ones strength(weakness) lies in the interpretation and that by default needs an input beyond oneself. Next, life, lies, what would one like to do with it, share or barter it with what Nature provides. I came across a lovely partner, just lucky created choice. Open your heart and your reflection will be seen, you are master of how much you share/barter. Nature is endless, it doesn't have to be another spiritual human...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  6 місяців тому

      Glad you liked the video. And thank you for sharing your thoughts, quite a bit to ponder on. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @alejandroosorio6405
    @alejandroosorio6405 Місяць тому

    I hope all these people find a good life, and feel happy with whatever can make them happy. I have no words. It seams to me they are missing something.

  • @leonita2252
    @leonita2252 Рік тому +9

    Thank you Johann Moolman : words of wisdom 🤎 , Thank you Green renaissance: for spreading the light 💚

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      You are welcome Leonita. Always a pleasure to share these stories. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @leonita2252
      @leonita2252 Рік тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife 💚💐

  • @julieflandez163
    @julieflandez163 Рік тому +5

    I love the solitude. The one that teaches and makes us grow inside. That allows us to leisurely enjoy our surroundings. Whether with family or nature. Where time doesn't matter more than on the clock.❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Beautifully written. May you enjoy lots of these times Julie. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @dogsontherunproduction
    @dogsontherunproduction Рік тому +7

    Magnificently filmed with a message of such depth. Thank you GR for giving the story space and the silences to process the words. Loneliness is one of the major causes of depression, life does have many thorns but we need to be reminded that it's ok and all things pass. Nothing stays the same.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      We appreciate your kind and encouraging words, and sharing your thoughts. Glad you enjoyed the way it was filmed. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Cynthiab59
    @Cynthiab59 Рік тому +1

    The answer is LOVE and doing to others as you would have them do unto you. Loneliness within a crowd is the most lonely place to be. Depression is part of it. Life is about realizing situations and walking through it. That he's aware of his aging and material things are not important. Wealth is in the soul and its the heart develops the spirit within the soul. What profound statements! Than you for this film. It and the others forever changed my soul and spirit. Bless you all!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      We are touched by your words. Glad you enjoyed this video and also others, that they have a positive impact. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lisamarielindenschmidt649
    @lisamarielindenschmidt649 Рік тому +3

    Just stunning. I found myself reveling in watching him smoke. Just the sweetness, the serenity of that action reiterated his attitude on life. It's those moments of quite that I, personally, have found such deeper meaning. I love that GR is able to capture those.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Wow, thank you for your encouraging words, Lisa-Marie. We are so glad there was so much in this video for you. Wonderful that can are also able to experience these quiet and peaceful moments. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @zeldadedekind6473
    @zeldadedekind6473 Рік тому +6

    The unconditional love of our animal companions is the gift to us from the eternal I AM.. this man fully embrace and gift it to his own soul 🧡💚beautiful!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for these lovely words, we are so glad you enjoyed his story Zelda. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ericamac3525
    @ericamac3525 10 місяців тому +3

    Johann is only discussing the difference between being alone and being lonely. This doesn’t mean that he himself is alone. Both he, his life partner Justine & their pets live together. It’s an important topic to discuss & many of us have appreciated both Johann’s & Justine’s time & effort in sharing this enlightening video with us👍🏼😎👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for sharing this here. And yes - to see how many hearts and minds have been touched by this film, giving food for thought to the very big difference between 'being alone' and 'being lonely' - that makes us smile. Sending you warmest of wishes. Justine and Michael x

  • @roamingqueen
    @roamingqueen Рік тому +6

    Oh, you made my weekend again like so many times before, Justine and Michael! I could watch this stunning video on repeat rejoicing whenever the sleepy dog is shown or the head sculpture that is kissed by the sun. Visual nourishment that is so you!
    And it's so important to highlight the difference between solitude and loneliness. The first one is vital to figure out if you are truly your best friend as you should be.
    Aloha from Berlin ❤🧡💛💚💙

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      We are so glad the video had a positive influence again on your weekend. Thank you for mentioning the special little things of this video. Sending you warm hugs to Berlin. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @roamingqueen
      @roamingqueen Рік тому

      @@ReflectionsofLife ❤️

  • @totalityfilms4400
    @totalityfilms4400 10 місяців тому +2

    Such a beautiful film. And such warm lovely comments from everyone. A deep empathy and humanity. Thank you

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for these lovely words, we are glad you liked this video. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @MitziHart
      @MitziHart 10 місяців тому

      I couldn’t agree more 🫶🏼

  • @christinanavarre8389
    @christinanavarre8389 10 місяців тому +7

    I felt it necessary to Thank You Kindly for this, on this specific day. I am Blessed today to have come across this space on UA-cam. I am 66+ been alone for the last 10 years. I too am on the final walk, vision, hearing, smelling, tasting and mostly the feeling of Awakening of this vapor and whisper of my being. Comfort in surroundings are not vast...but a blessing. Life is a challenge for each of us in the paths we've chosen. Not where I imagined I might be in my late stroll in life. I am positive, however, it is Exactly where my Creator GOD knew I would rest. In that I find Peace...Faith...Beauty...a Divine Warmth I would say. Good Journey You❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for your kind words and sharing your thoughts. We are so glad that you discovered our channel. Nice that you are in a place where these is peace, beauty,... Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @WorldWideWebObserver
    @WorldWideWebObserver Рік тому +4

    Beautiful man in a beautiful place with all he needs to live fulfilled. Thanks for making videos that touch our souls and hearts.🌹

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Our pleasure. We are glad we good share Johann's story with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @nell8170
    @nell8170 Рік тому +4

    What a lovely man, wise words, beautiful smile.....TFS

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you kindly Nell. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @PDogB
    @PDogB Рік тому +6

    "It's your state of mind which determines loneliness." Just when I needed this reminder, thanks again.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      So wonderful that it came at the right time. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @soloh5843
    @soloh5843 14 днів тому

    Hiking alone with just my dog and nature is the most fulfilling experience. The rare times I feel alone they pass because I feel at peace hiking.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  12 днів тому +1

      Beautiful, thank you for sharing. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @vrkstudios5715
    @vrkstudios5715 Місяць тому

    Inspired by his gentleness, I looked him up and learned he just past away in September 2024. I best he's had a remarkably gentle passing, full of awareness and joy. And that his dogs are ok.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks so much for caring and for your message filled with such kindness. Johann leaves a big hole with his passing. His wife remains in their home, caring for their dogs. Thank you again for your concern. It means so much. Justine and Michael. x

  • @franciscawrites8972
    @franciscawrites8972 Рік тому +7

    Thank You for this🌻...everything (everything!) you said has been in my head for so long and when I heard this, tears of relief came forward. Often, society is not prepared to talk about the inevitability of death. I think of it and believe I want to prepare for the event in the same way I prepared for the birth my children. It seems both are connected and sacred. Listening to this helped me realize it is not odd to feel a sense of joy about Death. For now, I am well...more than well after watching this; whenever and until my time comes...I will keep this to watch and enjoy later...and later....and later....until "my boat reaches land".

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      Beautiful message Francisca, interesting thoughts you mention, thank you for sharing. We are glad his message resonated and helped you so much. And you can refer to it again and again, as you say. All the best on your path through life, enjoy every day. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @scraps270
    @scraps270 Рік тому +9

    If you're lucky enough to get old you might understand your place in the world. Be it alone or with a partner.

  • @shantiprem1
    @shantiprem1 Рік тому +9

    So perfect. A great humble soul...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Рік тому

      We are so glad you enjoyed his message. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @profundus8946
    @profundus8946 3 місяці тому

    "If you take a trick as a solution, you're tricking yourself. You have to solve problems in a real way."
    that's spot on