How forgiving my father liberated me | Agon Hare | TEDxNTU

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  • @ProjectNightfallSTORIES
    @ProjectNightfallSTORIES 2 роки тому +135

    Wow watching it after two years, this truly was one of the most important moments of my life. The journey of forgiveness changed everything. I hope you find strength to be on your own journey. You deserve it!

    • @fonsie_games
      @fonsie_games 2 роки тому +2

      Oh hi!

    • @fordee.alternative
      @fordee.alternative Рік тому +1

      you are one of my favourites!

    • @ZuroPL
      @ZuroPL Рік тому +1

      Wstrząsające. Szczególnie końcówka. Jesteś postacią strasznie inspirującą. I pomyśleć że człowiek z zapyziałej mieściny w jakiejś Polsce, mógł zrobić naprawdę wielką karierę w anglojęzycznym internecie, będąc jednocześnie anonimowy w swoim kraju, wow.

    • @imberrysandy
      @imberrysandy Рік тому

      love project nightfall :) thanks for being an inspiration and a messenger for ethical beliefs

    • @sandraburgos5590
      @sandraburgos5590 Рік тому +1

      I am so proud of you! Life is so hard I lost my dad to covid and my health but I am in recovery and falling in love with myself. Thank you so much!

  • @isqueakifyousqueeze4714
    @isqueakifyousqueeze4714 3 роки тому +231

    I forgave my parents not for their sake but for my own, so that I could move forward with my own life. And I understand now more than ever that they were just people who were abused too.

    • @ablan8801
      @ablan8801 3 роки тому +3

      God Bless You Brother ♥️♥️

    • @tochie-ugorji2021
      @tochie-ugorji2021 3 роки тому +2

      That's true. Forgiving actually says and does more about you than the person who wronged you.

    • @joannasun9921
      @joannasun9921 2 роки тому +2

      im happy for you but them being abused doesn't excuse abusing their own child

  • @StanzinPadmaSelakui
    @StanzinPadmaSelakui 4 роки тому +610

    He has deep emotions in his voice 😭

  • @AKILABOSE
    @AKILABOSE 4 роки тому +348

    In my case my parents don't talk to each other since my birth and now I'm 22, still I haven't seen my parents talking to each other by living in same house. This hurts a lot. They have ruined my happy childhood n teen also. But Agon ur video changed my perspective towards them. It's hard feeling, that having parents and feeling like an orphan. Proud of you and hats off Agon.

    • @herbertant4096
      @herbertant4096 3 роки тому +3

      God Bless you and your family 😇

    • @ViktorCaine
      @ViktorCaine 3 роки тому +1

      They haven't talked even once!? How do they even do the groceries??

    • @Trisin-m3i
      @Trisin-m3i 3 роки тому

      @@ViktorCaine yeah ikr

    • @tanishqsuryawanshi1276
      @tanishqsuryawanshi1276 3 роки тому +1

      @@ViktorCaine and you thought about making a joke on this😑

    • @ilove6x673
      @ilove6x673 3 роки тому +2

      I really good know how it fells.Just stay strong.

  • @udas_aayush_
    @udas_aayush_ 3 роки тому +65

    "Everything changes the moment when you start seeing forgiveness as not just something for the other person, but also something for you"
    -Agon Hare

  • @MangiferaIndica918
    @MangiferaIndica918 4 роки тому +1007

    Agon is really underrated.

  • @joshua_dlima
    @joshua_dlima 3 роки тому +112

    He deserves some more attention on UA-cam

    • @joshua_dlima
      @joshua_dlima 3 роки тому +4

      @Carlos Basulto he had like 150k that time... he deserves much more popularity on this platform... and he's growing exponentially too

    • @f1ybo1
      @f1ybo1 2 роки тому +2

      He reached 2M+

  • @murderthemassacre
    @murderthemassacre 2 роки тому +14

    I was drowned,beaten,severely abused and maltreated by my father. Physical child abuse really hits different to be honest,it ruins you but im glad you had your grandparents.

  • @cartman7570
    @cartman7570 3 роки тому +2

    Forgive people not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.

  • @brentcenencalong1165
    @brentcenencalong1165 3 роки тому +8

    "If you want to forgive somebody the best way of doing that is understanding them"

  • @soulpure8663
    @soulpure8663 4 роки тому +101

    I cried a lot of reflecting your words. Your truly an amazing...with a pure heart. Same here. I was so cruel and hard headed child...but when I realized that I have to use my intellect and compassion I was changed of it...itself....

  • @UlmOst92
    @UlmOst92 4 роки тому +40

    I wished I could forgive father, but he died in 2010 😔
    So please, forgive your parents no matter what you experienced. Even if they will not accept it. Just for your inner peace. May god bless you all. And thanks to Agon for the words, which touched me deeply.

    • @RiyaArtZone
      @RiyaArtZone 2 роки тому +2

      NO! Im not forgiving my mother for abusing me since age 7!

    • @karl817
      @karl817 2 роки тому

      Condolence

    • @tanvikittur7352
      @tanvikittur7352 2 роки тому

      @@RiyaArtZone Exactly

    • @Jay-pc2fp
      @Jay-pc2fp 8 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry you've gone through that pain. but you're only hurting yourself by holding onto that.@@tanvikittur7352

  • @ulooketmeh9961
    @ulooketmeh9961 3 роки тому +43

    the man who made Project Nightfall.

  • @ErenYeager-vk1hz
    @ErenYeager-vk1hz 3 роки тому +2

    His mom will be proud of him, seeing him from heaven. Even his father.

  • @timothybanks7689
    @timothybanks7689 3 роки тому +14

    This message helped me call my father and forgive him. Man keep doing this. I don’t know your beliefs bro, but you are doing Godly work. Christ preached forgiveness, because it’s so important to moving forward in a healthy way. I pray God continues to shower you with blessings.
    Thank you,

  • @sonalpatel7741
    @sonalpatel7741 3 роки тому +17

    Yes forgiveness is the hardest thing to give

  • @cookingworldworld3405
    @cookingworldworld3405 4 роки тому +34

    This was hard to watch 😢.I had to pause a couple of times to cry my eyes out.But I am glad I watched it.

  • @dvnajoy
    @dvnajoy 3 роки тому +18

    I feel like crying while watching him. Not because I feel bad about what happened to him but because of happiness. He found the courage to forgive and now he is free from the baggage that he was carrying from his childhood. I hope that someday I will have the heart to be as forgiving as Agon. 💙

    • @CedricKarlFonk
      @CedricKarlFonk 3 роки тому

      Me too. I agree with you. I'm not that forgiving. I'm struggling to find it in me to forgive those who hurt me both mentally, emotionally and physically.

  • @judedevera5137
    @judedevera5137 4 роки тому +45

    Agon is indeed an inspiration to out generation. All of his videos are worthy to get viewed and shared.😘😘😘❤❤❤

  • @eanwood
    @eanwood 2 роки тому +2

    "Forgiveness is something I deserved." GOLD. Great talk.

  • @cg.man_aka_kevin
    @cg.man_aka_kevin 2 роки тому +2

    He has a lot of pearls of wisdom... Love from Indonesia!!! ❤️❤️❤️🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩

  • @atiyamina1922
    @atiyamina1922 3 роки тому +20

    How is it POSSIBLE for a person to be this much inspiring to you even though you're only hearing his beautiful words through a screen!
    I mean this is the definition of Legendary to me! ❤️

  • @soulpure8663
    @soulpure8663 4 роки тому +21

    When you Forgive, First you Forgive and liberate yourself....then, things around changes into positive..clear understanding and wisdom goes into your inner dept..and change the way who you are.

  • @ttttttttttttttt5525
    @ttttttttttttttt5525 4 роки тому +380

    Agon! U r really an amazing person...I love ur accent...I learned a lot from ur video... those videos are very inspiring...may Allah bless u

  • @yabourtaipodiatatin9724
    @yabourtaipodiatatin9724 3 роки тому +3

    Lotus bloomed amongst dirt.beautiful man 👍❤️

  • @stellamaryjose5794
    @stellamaryjose5794 4 роки тому +30

    My dad left me wen i was 5 he was lyk a nightmare in my lyf a person tortured me nd my mom later he married another women he never tried to contact us never helped us other side he took care of his new family well my mom raised me alone later I fell in love my luvlyf turns to be another nightmare in my lyf I
    left everything now happy being myself I never heard sorry from both of them not even once they never felt sorry fr der actions my forgiveness doesn't matter fr them maybe I will be able to forgive my dad nd my ex in future whatever lyf goes on

  • @RandomPerson-hd6wr
    @RandomPerson-hd6wr 2 роки тому

    You know what they say... "The people with the biggest smiles have the biggest struggles"

  • @kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505

    "❤BEST WAY TO FORGIVE SOMEONE IS TO UNDERSTAND THEM!❤ Thank you Agon. I needed to hear this because I need to be truly free! I have been binge watching many videos today trying to understand myself, my family, the dysfunction, the pain and then I thought to myself, why not start searching for videos on "Forgiveness". This touched me, THANK YOU!🙏

  • @kat9587
    @kat9587 2 роки тому +3

    You have truly taken your power back 🙏🏻

  • @roseh1132
    @roseh1132 3 роки тому +8

    The wisdom & kindness you have at such a young age is other-worldly. 💓 expanding!

  • @diaaa1309
    @diaaa1309 3 роки тому +9

    this guy is a legend

  • @jubaerahmed1992
    @jubaerahmed1992 3 роки тому +11

    Agon, you're an icon ❤️

  • @virginiacajano1507
    @virginiacajano1507 4 роки тому +30

    I love you Agon! ❤ I'm inspired by your story and I love all your videos on Project Nightfall..👍
    Your power of forgiveness will take you to much brighter future and Godbless you Agon.. 😊❤❤❤👐

  • @rier7998
    @rier7998 4 роки тому +7

    Agon's story is so inspiring. It can touch many hearts and enlighten lots of people about making yourself free from all the heartaches and pain because you forgive.

  • @galaxystudios5822
    @galaxystudios5822 2 роки тому +2

    Watching this as part of the nightfam, I'm so proud

  • @JB-pk4ck
    @JB-pk4ck 7 місяців тому

    People who have hurt you either dont know or they dont care. They don;t care about yoru forgiveness. That is why enlightened forgiveness to release yourself from bitterness or anger is so important. Believe me. i had so much anger in me towards someone i had loved and who betrayed me. it gave me a hiatus hernia. The solar plexus is where you feel it. This guy is very wise.

  • @riamichellequiliope3725
    @riamichellequiliope3725 4 роки тому +3

    I've already watch this video but I'm watching it again, he's accent and the way he tells story has always amaze me.

  • @CedricKarlFonk
    @CedricKarlFonk 3 роки тому +4

    What an amazingly powerful and beautiful speech! He touches millions. Agon, you are a hero!

  • @farismohamed7897
    @farismohamed7897 3 роки тому +2

    Agon ....you are so great.....forgiven to a person who spoiled your beautiful childhood....you are a little batman❤️

  • @shahdaniel741
    @shahdaniel741 4 роки тому +7

    Agon is a very great person. I love how he could forgive himself. Now it changed my point of view to this world, Im happy to see the outside world, people smiling. And that could make me even happier than what I would have now. Thanks Argon, thanks people. 😊 love from Malaysia

  • @Bhavya_2000
    @Bhavya_2000 2 роки тому +3

    You're such an amazing person Agon❤️you never fail to inspire me⭐

  • @EnglisholicExpressions
    @EnglisholicExpressions 3 роки тому +4

    He gives me good vibes nice kind hearted guy God bless him..

  • @borsharahman6879
    @borsharahman6879 4 роки тому +4

    Agon you are amazing. You have a pure beautiful heart...!! I love your videos it has change many peoples life's.. you are a real superhero...!!

  • @MuhammadAli-jd2ut
    @MuhammadAli-jd2ut 2 роки тому

    I didn't know these things about him. He has such a strong personality. More people should watch this.

  • @riceball4047
    @riceball4047 4 роки тому +11

    This lesson going to my mind forever,AGON.

  • @boosuartistry4080
    @boosuartistry4080 3 роки тому +1

    His accent make him and his works unique and more intriguing i love it.😊

  • @kahinaharrache5026
    @kahinaharrache5026 3 роки тому +3

    Hi cracked voice made me cry from the beginning till the end and i'm quite surprised because my tears don't flow easily ..

  • @manuelraposo1405
    @manuelraposo1405 4 роки тому +4

    Agon you are a true kind human being,you changing so many peoples lives and making a world a better place, love your videos,keep up with your great deeds in serving the world community...❤️😊🌏

  • @dianamalfoy4173
    @dianamalfoy4173 3 роки тому +2

    Agon is super underrated how is he not on like 10 million????

  • @sonyrhr
    @sonyrhr 3 роки тому

    every human should hear this. he will help a lot of people and get them out of their hardest times. he should be more recognized in the eyes of the world.

  • @Gyanwdshorts
    @Gyanwdshorts 4 роки тому +8

    Life teaches us everything and you carried it really well. Proud of you

  • @pasqualepalena2556
    @pasqualepalena2556 Рік тому

    I left home mainly because of the fights between my parents. Insulting each other, never a smile, they hated each other. I hoped that the arrival of my daughter would change them but nothing happened. In my hearth I forgave them both but I know that we cannot recover our relationship (if one ever existed). I would go and hug them both but I know that it's a version of them that exist only inside my head, better than the real one.

  • @ayanakhtar5226
    @ayanakhtar5226 4 роки тому +5

    @Project Nightfall ❣️❣️❣️

  • @muhammedalsabith6030
    @muhammedalsabith6030 4 роки тому +3

    We appreciate you Agon! You have set a beautiful example for every one of us! God willing, you will get more recognition worldwide and God Willing, You will become a very busy man, May God Help you through this journey
    You have been a very inspiring person always, May God lighten your path to success,
    With so much love,
    Your Biggest Fan

  • @highagain4278
    @highagain4278 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much Agon♥️♥️

  • @Zotal-xc8vd
    @Zotal-xc8vd Рік тому

    You're my inspirational Agon 🔥💪♥️

  • @sprakleec5404
    @sprakleec5404 4 роки тому +4

    The story is so touching and sad. I can feel you.

  • @mhk9734
    @mhk9734 4 роки тому +1

    Forgiveness is very important.. To forgive yourself is the first step and then it carries on

  • @finmat95
    @finmat95 3 роки тому +1

    To all people i CANNOT forgive for what they've done: "May God forgive you but i won't"
    I have been, am and always will be faithful to justice

  • @slzvq
    @slzvq 2 роки тому +1

    I love how Agon talks!

  • @andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045
    @andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045 2 роки тому

    just recently discovered this guy. now i’m addicted to his videos

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney 2 роки тому

    That is a supernatural work of God.

  • @mariafilipinawrites4384
    @mariafilipinawrites4384 4 роки тому +4

    Agon, you’re really a blessing ❤️

  • @marichespi8092
    @marichespi8092 Рік тому

    Now that he’s dad is old he wants to talk to him. So now can take care of him when he’s old.

  • @nicoleallen9221
    @nicoleallen9221 2 роки тому

    The name Damen is cursed name..Good changed it..Great info..I will be sending this to others..God bless you and keep u in perfect peace🙏😇

    • @patrickhamilton7849
      @patrickhamilton7849 Рік тому

      That is my nephew's first name. I adress him by his middle name (Jonathan).

  • @sherryhtoon
    @sherryhtoon 3 роки тому +1

    I love you so much Agon (in an admiring way) and I'm only youthful so I don't know how it feels to hate yet but I am certain that I will always be reminded of your words... You deserve the world.

  • @yusvarietytv6876
    @yusvarietytv6876 3 роки тому +1

    Agon you really made my day and change my whole life, you are truly an example and inspiration of young people.! keep up a good work...! love

  • @sanjidameem2737
    @sanjidameem2737 3 роки тому +1

    Agon your voice almost made my cry!

  • @elliotglickman4599
    @elliotglickman4599 4 роки тому +1

    Once you forgive yourself, you are feel free to accept yourself. And once you forgive another, you are free to accept them.

  • @enno927
    @enno927 2 роки тому

    Ayyyy Project nightfall

  • @edteddysheerios8051
    @edteddysheerios8051 4 роки тому +2

    I am a big fan of Agon Hare💜

  • @telgend
    @telgend 3 роки тому +1

    *Project Nightfall* ❤️

  • @anthonysturdivant2971
    @anthonysturdivant2971 2 роки тому

    Mr. Hare, your videos are making a huge difference. Wishing you prosperous success & happiness.

  • @pennibarnett1222
    @pennibarnett1222 4 роки тому +3

    Beautiful and full of truth.

  • @ct626
    @ct626 3 роки тому +2

    To be honest my grandmother ,my cousins and my aunt uncle destroyed my childhood ....Now I am trying to forgive them 4 me

  • @utuberhere
    @utuberhere 4 роки тому +2

    Wow! You are the real deal, Agon!

  • @justbluemartin9346
    @justbluemartin9346 3 роки тому

    The world needs more Agons😎😎🙌🏾🙌🏾✌🏾

  • @shinihahaha4142
    @shinihahaha4142 2 роки тому

    He's literally impacting the world ToT so lovely

  • @tanishaafneen3233
    @tanishaafneen3233 4 роки тому +2

    Love you Agon, more power to you

  • @omega_6926
    @omega_6926 3 роки тому

    Let's goooo project night fall

  • @mrunknown2787
    @mrunknown2787 3 роки тому +1

    I have never thought he speaks in Ted Talk Thank you UA-cam

  • @mrdevil848
    @mrdevil848 2 роки тому +1

    this is the project nightfall guy

  • @itzme.7389
    @itzme.7389 3 роки тому +1

    Love you project nightfall

  • @VarshaSharma-nn7sq
    @VarshaSharma-nn7sq 4 роки тому +2

    You're truly amazing, Agon....Love from India

  • @DitechGaming
    @DitechGaming 4 роки тому +4

    Nightfam here

  • @swatighosh_9978
    @swatighosh_9978 3 роки тому +1

    Good evening!
    Argon,
    I have been looking for you, your name as I liked a quite a few videos of yours.
    Finally, I could place you by searching your video on your grandparents.
    Also, I am so happy to see this video of yours.
    Forgiveness actually is a miracle ....
    It helps us heal our self ....
    And find a new self and better soul .... mind and heart.
    Best Wishes

  • @samvadivelu4316
    @samvadivelu4316 3 роки тому

    ITS PROJECT NIGHTFALL!

  • @mariawright5139
    @mariawright5139 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! I'm struggling to forgive the people who have hurt me. I'm getting counseling and it's one of the hardest thing.

    • @Hi-jx5oe
      @Hi-jx5oe 2 роки тому +1

      I've been there but remember forgiveness doesn't mean reconcile with all. You just have to get to place where you are no longer angry with your past experience with those individuals.
      Pray for them and keep moving on with your life.

  • @nahidchowdhurysonik7440
    @nahidchowdhurysonik7440 4 роки тому +4

    HAYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA❤️❤️

  • @joan_007
    @joan_007 3 роки тому

    To tell you how difficult it is to forgive, Gahndi said that it is only STRONG PEOPLE who can forgive

    • @joan_007
      @joan_007 3 роки тому

      But, we make mistakes all the time and expect to be forgiven all the time.
      The least we can do is to forgive all the time.
      ....even though it's hard...

  • @himanshu816
    @himanshu816 3 роки тому

    I am inspired by agon and nussier(NAS) these people are awesome

  • @eunicemanalastas5461
    @eunicemanalastas5461 3 роки тому +2

    Night fam hello. ☺️
    "I have to leave the past behind to move forward" 🧡

  • @NOT_EZEKI
    @NOT_EZEKI 3 роки тому +1

    Project nightfall!!!

  • @illeyan8098
    @illeyan8098 3 роки тому +1

    NIGHTFAM STAND UP

  • @jyotiyadav-rx5wd
    @jyotiyadav-rx5wd 3 роки тому

    not now but maybe don't know but your words make me strong. thank you

  • @okedoom7158
    @okedoom7158 2 роки тому

    Its project nightfall!!!

  • @Michael01OnRBLXmore
    @Michael01OnRBLXmore 3 роки тому +1

    Its project nightfall!!

  • @cheriomerun
    @cheriomerun 3 роки тому

    This guy deserves everything

  • @chinmayanagesh3634
    @chinmayanagesh3634 4 роки тому +3

    Argon, Your video really works. I hope I will be able to do this sometime in life.

  • @uswahefatima104
    @uswahefatima104 3 роки тому +1

    Here for agon 🌻