I just got out of the same situation. Keep your held held high and remember your intrinsic worth. He can't take that away from you! My ex has been begging non-stop, and I just roll my eyes bc now I outearn him by 20Gs.
Keep everything that you have planned between you and God with prayers to him through his son Jesus Christ, and then you can be rest assured that nothing will be impossible with him.💝
Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.
A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me." The End
A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮
If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️
Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅
*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*
Until you show him by your actions that this is no longer the case. That’s why you block them and give them them no contact. Forever. He can’t know what’s going on in your life if he can’t access you in any way shape or form.
Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman. Thank you Derrick! Great video!
If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.
So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.
This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏
I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️
I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.
Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥
ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering
I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister. I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊
I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.
Or it's face. There are more creatures than men and women. They have a ton of friends they hide behind. They watch who you talk to so they can twirl and gain access to their phone, tap the line to listen in on the plans. Then show up on accident but on purpose. It not sorry.
I absolutely gave him every opportunity to meet my needs. He told me 3 times he was coming tto my home for us to discuss our future and he didn't show up. Your video is Spot On.
He can’t come back, I blocked him on all platforms for my own peace, my healing and my financial peace. Clean and very painful cut that was needed. When you show up for 7 years in every way, every day and get betrayed and discarded for a quick fixes, so many chances I gave him, so many and still adored him and wanted to marry him, caused me much hurt, you can’t come back from that. I don’t go backwards.
He back begging after 2yrs but he doesn’t know I moved on in silence, even tho he kept contacting me, He will never get another chance. I found my Husband!!
Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯. Stay blessed Derrick ❤
She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎
Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.
Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤
Wow, that was so awesome 👌🏾 all I can say is thank you for being so authentic!!! My cousin has always told me that they always return to the scene of the crime. Thx again
Dear Sir Your videos are an extreme help for me. I sincerely appreciate your time on these issues. The only part I am not sure could apply is the part about him coming back. Nonetheless thank you and please continue. Respectfully submitted Devi Lamart
I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!
My husband broke me down to nothing, I couldn't even work for 3 years because I took care of our son who was born 1lb and came home from the hospital with a trache and on a ventilator. I had very little to no help from him.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this right now. My bf asked me to move in and then "got scared" and ran. Im devastated and have been circling the drain.
Single Life is sounding really good right now I don't like all the mind games
Oh yes doesn't it sound good . I'm getting to that point .and it's kinda feeling refreshing
Exactly 💯!!!!
As soon as I get my finances fixed it's over,I won't be controled,there will be someone out there who will appreciate me.
Omg, I felt this! I’m in the same situation and can’t wait until my time comes.
I just got out of the same situation. Keep your held held high and remember your intrinsic worth. He can't take that away from you! My ex has been begging non-stop, and I just roll my eyes bc now I outearn him by 20Gs.
Same here❤
Keep everything that you have planned between you and God with prayers to him through his son Jesus Christ, and then you can be rest assured that nothing will be impossible with him.💝
Exactly 💯 !!!! Love yourself......
I am a once in a lifetime woman 😊❤, there is someone out there,who will love , respect, and appreciate me , aameen
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Rejection cannot devalue you if you know who you are.
Rejection will measure your self love.
Absolutely!💯
I like that. ❤
Thank you so much. My daughter came to me one day and said Mommy, you are beautiful and amazing, men are intimidated by you, they are not ready for you. Says I give off , you either come right or don't come at all. I hugged and thanked her and told her how amazing she was because I really needed to hear that, that day.
I call that big T*tt energy.
Kids know what's going sometimes more than us She's a blessing ❤❤❤😢
Men are not intimidated by women they just don’t want you
AWWW
....MEN ARE READY. A REAL ONE. ONE THAT LOVES N SETVE GOD. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️💜🎈🎈🎈🎈🙏🏾✍🏾
Thank you BBLESS ❤
absolutely work on your self ladies and keep that door closed ✌️💕
Yup! He left twice and keeps coming back. I used to love him, but now I’m starting to find his behavior boring.
User and abusive
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A partner who ran their "one" off ~ due to toxic-control issues ~ then returned years later, out of the blue, with "I never shoulda let U go. Would you accompany me to Las Vegas for a (romantic performer's) sold-out concert?" The answer was "Ask my spouse." The answer from my spouse was - "It's not up to me."
The End
A lot of men leave or push you away because they don’t feel good enough. They say I can’t handle her and that means people have been telling him she’s out of your league.😮
That's true or his own personal self esteem is too low to think he deserves you. My ex is "spinning the block now". I'm about to see what happens....
If he adds no value then subtract. His loss is your gain. Great message. Women need to do the rught thing for themselves. Leave if youre not treated as you deserve. Youre worth more than that. ❤️
Great message, "If he adds no value SUBTRACT," I love it !
@@hazeldunson7258 Thanks Lovely. It makes total sense. Seasons Greetings! 🎄🫂
Derrick has this power to make me laugh and heal at the same time. Bless him 💛
Totally agree 💯
Yesss! He is a blessing. Really grateful to come across his channel and videos 🤗
Ohhh yess!! I’m soo glad I found him during this time of my breakup… he makes me feel soo validated ❤ Thank you Derrick!!
His voice 😍
Repeat after me “NOT MORE CAPTAIN SAVE A BRO”. He dropped the bag with me and I picked myself up. The only thing I can do now is thank him for getting out-of-the-way for my real future husband to come on through.💪🏾🎯💯✅
Exactly 💯 !!!!
Absolutely, stand your ground 👏
Wish I'm strong enough to feel this way too.
They always circle back. Once that door is closed, it stays closed.
Thank you for the reminder.
Pissing in his own yard that is golden.
He can’t handle his own frustrations is so damn accurate
*He also comes back because he thinks you're convenient. He thinks he has it like that with you and you would rather be alone than give someone else a chance. Men know how to wait it out.*
Until you show him by your actions that this is no longer the case. That’s why you block them and give them them no contact. Forever. He can’t know what’s going on in your life if he can’t access you in any way shape or form.
They can't wait me out. They've tried, yet failed MISERABLY.
Wow! What an awesome pep talk and it couldn’t have come at a better time. My ex is trying to weasel himself back in. I can see all the regrets of his past actions on his pathetic face. Well too bad… he indeed lost a good woman.
Thank you Derrick! Great video!
I feel like I could’ve wrote this myself!
Left me tweve years now ..he never got married again
If he was ‘running through women’ as a means to cope, before he comes back to you, why the hell would any woman want him back? Please have self-respect ladies! We are worth more than that.
So true! He has tried spinning the block. Why? It's not worth it, he just keep complaining that I am unreasonable. I feel like it's reasonable for me to expect for him to give me what I gave him. Respect, love, and some freaking appreciation.
He says he will never chase. He has a huge ego. 😢
You are absolutely correct. I'm looking better, feeling better, and doing better W/O him.
This is what I needed to hear. I needed that shake. It was things that GOD had told me, had shown me, and I still kept fall back into that same rut. Thank you Derrick for the words of love that you have shown us.🙏
Oh he's gonna learn
He can beg all he wants, Ain't no going back to that POS EVER, EVER
NEVA!
Factz....this is exactly what happened to me 3 yrs later right now he tryna come back smh
“Spin the block” 🎯 great parable …
I’ve given him chance after chance even after a very deep betrayal. I’ve made crystal clear what I need from him and he’s refused to give me what I need. I’m out! ✌️
I am a once in a lifetime woman…
This was the only message I needed to hear so I can officially go on with my life. Thank you so much!!! ❤
I feel like your the older brother I never had, thanks a lot I've been through a lot in life and I am making a conscious effort to make the right moves.
I know I'm a once in a lifetime woman! There's a few men feeling the loss of me. Thankfully my guard is up, thank you for the reminder to keep it up.
Wise words. Thank you for helping women to see when they are being played, and how to deal with it in a mature way. Much needed, especially in these times.♥
I'm that woman you have to come prepared for.....yes I'm her...thank you D👏
Me too
me too
Me too 😊😊
ex-husband who left me wanted a second chance, I ended my most recent relationship with a boyfriend because he was just another version of ex-husband trying to hide that fact, ex boyfriend is hovering
I'm 50 now, and darn, I wish you existed back in the days I've had those types of men in my life Mister.
I'm also happy I've build myself up, healed and have enough self love, worth and values to say Na Ha today. 😊
We are not emotionally compatible, he is emotionally selfish!! there is no coming back to me!!
You just make me feel so much better about myself.
Thank you Derrick. I needed this message!❤
I’ve been single for a long time after my divorce and I am very secure in my finances and my emotional being. I’ve tried dating sites a few times and some authentic dating with people I’ve met the old fashioned way however, it’s just brutal out there. I’ve chosen to stay single and keep my sanity. But from time to time I wonder if there really are any good men left out there. As I get older now the pool gets pretty small.
“Glo up” thank you baby❤
The devil will drag you down and come back to finish you off slam the door in his face
Or it's face. There are more creatures than men and women. They have a ton of friends they hide behind. They watch who you talk to so they can twirl and gain access to their phone, tap the line to listen in on the plans. Then show up on accident but on purpose. It not sorry.
Thank you Jesus. So powerful!!
That's me right now... I've told him again and again.... Now I'm out the door.
All the best to you. Shoulders back, chin up, you got this! 💪✌️
Wishing you: Eyes in the back of your head, too ~ for the best 360° view on the High Road ~ where Love.Honor.Cherish thrives.
Same 🙏🏻 grieve in peace
Yesss!! I can FULLY RELATE!! THANKS DERRICK!
I really don't mind him fumbling tha ball,I can hold my own he thought I was completely broken but now he don't know my strength.
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Yep that was me he'll need me before i need him
Date on your level ladies. A great lesson to learn!
Thank you so much for this message. I needed this!❤ God bless you Sir!
Thank God for my blessings
I already have my guard up.
Like the song “IF YOU LOSE HER “ from Joe says he’ll feel a hole in his soul . Walk away !!!! It’s his problem
Amen 😮😢😊
You’re restoring my faith in men.
Thank you for bringin the truth🔥
Thank you for being an added blessing in my life. I appreciate your support and mentorship.
She was younger, and that’s about it…Spin the block is an understatement!!!😘
Thank you, I need to be strong
Thank you. This message has helped me realize what i need to do to begin my healing and glow up.
Yes! Yes! Do it! 🎉
I absolutely gave him every opportunity to meet my needs. He told me 3 times he was coming tto my home for us to discuss our future and he didn't show up. Your video is Spot On.
Wow!!! He didn't even show up hein ?!
What a jerk. He showed you he is not the one.
Boom! Facts and thank you so much. I pray all the blessings for you and your loved ones.
He can’t come back, I blocked him on all platforms for my own peace, my healing and my financial peace. Clean and very painful cut that was needed. When you show up for 7 years in every way, every day and get betrayed and discarded for a quick fixes, so many chances I gave him, so many and still adored him and wanted to marry him, caused me much hurt, you can’t come back from that. I don’t go backwards.
He back begging after 2yrs but he doesn’t know I moved on in silence, even tho he kept contacting me, He will never get another chance. I found my Husband!!
This has to be my fave of yours ....There's so much truth in this ... its almost soothing ! Thank you ❤
Blessing Blockers !! I heard that loud n clear
Self love is everything
Thank you Derrick for imparting your great knowledge with us women. I love watching your clips because it's always on time, just like God's word, to keep me on the straight and narrow 😊🙏💯.
Stay blessed Derrick ❤
Derrick. It’s good to see you still doing what you love to do. Be blessed.
Thank you! Best answer now will be silence❤
She watched one of your videos yesterday. She was interested and paying attention. 'If he wanted to he would '...hopefully between the video and her being honest I'll get my chance! Thanks for making the video. 😎
Wow! Wow! Wow! This is everything I needed to hear! Thank you for this encouragement! I appreciate the content you post.
I LOVE YOUR TRANSPARENCY! THANK YOU!!
He came back around the block, and I told him I love myself now so I can't go back to him. 😊❤
I see this 💯, straight facts. He's without a single excuse...tik tok. Im Glowing up. And will continue to do so. 😎 thank you!
Thank you for the power as you speak to me, Derrick. I am listening. In a short while he has to be prepared for me after listening and evolving. THANK YOU for the love.
I gave my all, I was there for him, financially, mentality , wasn't enough
Yep, he left, ghosted me. Came back. I let him back twice. Smh
Appreciate your mentorship. Full of wisdom. Wish I have known you before i could have save so much heartache. Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping a lot of women. Im very Grateful ! God bless❤
This was just what I needed, THANK YOU 🙏🏼🙏🏼
TEACH BROTHER. THIS IS GREAT TEACHING.🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️✝️🍂🍁🍂🍂👩🏼❤️👨🏼🍂🍁
Thank you for the excellent presentation on these topics. I’m a survivor and still learning. 👍
Im a once in a lifetime women ❤❤
Derrick thank u u dont know how much this video helped me 😢😢😢
Thank you I needed to hear this 🙏🏾💕
You are on point 💯 it’s so true! I am glowing nowadays! 😊
Wow, that was so awesome 👌🏾 all I can say is thank you for being so authentic!!! My cousin has always told me that they always return to the scene of the crime. Thx again
Message received ❤
Thank you, Derrick. Bless you and your family🥰😇🙏
Dear Sir
Your videos are an extreme help for me. I sincerely appreciate your time on these issues.
The only part I am not sure could apply is the part about him coming back.
Nonetheless thank you and please continue.
Respectfully submitted
Devi Lamart
I gave him support strength encouragement and would say I don't deserve you. You're a good woman. He's so full of anger from his ex and had a wall of steel. His loss. I am a great woman and he's an idiot!
Thank you!!! I needed to hear this.
Im a once in a lifetime woman.Ive been the one who walked away from all the relationships after giving so many chances.ive never looked back.
Brilliant, just brilliant
PUT THIS ON REPEAT!!!
Thank You. Healing. 🎀
Please let me know when you have that webinar you were talking about….I need it!
Definitely guard your heart the word of God says that everything flows from it
Yasssss! This is truth - he is feeling it now.
My husband broke me down to nothing, I couldn't even work for 3 years because I took care of our son who was born 1lb and came home from the hospital with a trache and on a ventilator. I had very little to no help from him.
Hi! Your shirt and all your muscles .. it’s a lot! 🙏
All of it blessed me! Thank you!
I am so blessed that l stumbled across this message. She is me! MoViNg FoRwArD.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this right now. My bf asked me to move in and then "got scared" and ran. Im devastated and have been circling the drain.