5 SIGNS He's Keeping You as an Option!🚩🤷‍♀️

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  • @sonjacox4874
    @sonjacox4874 5 місяців тому +125

    I have constantly been the option way too many times until i realized im better off alone.

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom 5 місяців тому +69

    Your precious TIME is your greatest asset. Let nothing or nobody waste your time and energy. ⏰

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 5 місяців тому +46

    *Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.*

  • @andreakeener6378
    @andreakeener6378 4 місяці тому +30

    Labels gives it Identity
    Identity gives it Structure
    Structure gives it Security.

  • @fly_girl
    @fly_girl 5 місяців тому +49

    People can only do what you allow them to do!! I have TOO MUCH respect and love for myself to be an option. 👸🏽🐝

    • @PreciousMethodMan
      @PreciousMethodMan 5 днів тому +2

      True fact. FlY grl
      WomaN knw what u worthy SET BOUNDARIES

  • @jackuemcintyre8970
    @jackuemcintyre8970 5 місяців тому +33

    Say that again it's better to be with a empty bed than having the wrong sprit in the same bed wow

    • @ashleyburris7417
      @ashleyburris7417 2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly wasted time for the wrong one but the right journey

  • @anndewar4400
    @anndewar4400 5 місяців тому +28

    I wish I had a brother like you.

  • @SophiaParker-mc3kg
    @SophiaParker-mc3kg 4 місяці тому +25

    He is 41 and still has not put a ring on it! 23 years gone, I can not get back! 😢

    • @made432
      @made432 3 місяці тому +7

      These men never grow up. Move on and put yourself first!

    • @lauraperkins6437
      @lauraperkins6437 3 місяці тому +6

      Mine left me after celebrating our 23yr anniversary. The discard has been extremely painful. I understand the feeling. I pray for your healing.

    • @made432
      @made432 3 місяці тому

      @@lauraperkins6437 I am sorry you went through that and I pray for you

    • @ebonylo.
      @ebonylo. 4 дні тому

      Wow

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 5 місяців тому +36

    I Dropped him and have PEACE 😊❤

  • @marlenamcghee
    @marlenamcghee 5 місяців тому +59

    I was dealing with my ex on and off for years wasted my time years I can not get back..

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 5 місяців тому +62

    I'm not anybody option there is something I want but I shouldn't have to ask all I'm saying if you don't want me let me go

  • @user-zq5sz4km8n
    @user-zq5sz4km8n 2 місяці тому +6

    THANK YOU! OUR RELATIONSHIP JUST ENDED!

  • @user-hv7rk8vk4v
    @user-hv7rk8vk4v 5 місяців тому +44

    U. Have. Old. People in there 60s. Playing. Games. To

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 4 місяці тому +6

    Thank you brother, I am so grateful to have found you to listen to. I was adopted by evil people. 😢

  • @ChereseElaine_Officially
    @ChereseElaine_Officially 5 місяців тому +18

    Right On Point..The gift of discernment is priceless.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому

      Hey @GracefullyDriven_Officially, I just wanted to commend you for sharing your story and being vulnerable. It takes a lot of strength to open up like that. Remember, healing is a journey, and it's okay to have ups and downs along the way. You're not alone in this.
      If you're looking for more guidance and support, I just released a new master class that addresses some of the topics you touched on. You can find the link in the description below. Keep pushing forward, you are stronger than you realize. Take care.

    • @ChereseElaine_Officially
      @ChereseElaine_Officially 5 місяців тому

      Thank you for the words of encouragement. I’ve learned a lot from the men in my family by asking relationship questions at a very young age. I agree, experience is the best teacher. Will check out your masterclass. Take care 😊

  • @janicetorto887
    @janicetorto887 2 місяці тому +6

    Right now, I thought I wasn't good enough, I am worth so much now,

  • @livia1174
    @livia1174 3 місяці тому +5

    I gave my best! Lost everything... now i just want peace of mind!!!

  • @ronnietoni819
    @ronnietoni819 3 місяці тому +7

    This one hit home, made me tear up 😢

  • @genetterichard9934
    @genetterichard9934 5 місяців тому +7

    Yesssss😊 very true my brother,63 and loving it being single is beautiful. Yes you are making sense😊

  • @heatherlynn3438
    @heatherlynn3438 3 місяці тому +14

    I refuse to be part of the harem 🤢

  • @MG-gq2rs
    @MG-gq2rs 5 місяців тому +20

    OMG!!! You just gave me so much clarity!!!
    Thank you!

  • @sherithapatton321
    @sherithapatton321 5 місяців тому +22

    No one has ever heard this information and I’m 60 yrs old in June I needed to listen to this really a lot of your talks has helped and I wish someone had told me this before I was 30 yrs old

  • @sarrahfiler5993
    @sarrahfiler5993 5 місяців тому +29

    Current situation!! And it sucks!! I am being ridiculous and not letting him go!!

    • @joanjohnson9821
      @joanjohnson9821 5 місяців тому +8

      Please reevaluate this situation. I’ve been in the same boat for too long. It’s hard to brake free, but you really are strong enough.

    • @MG-gq2rs
      @MG-gq2rs 5 місяців тому +7

      You can do it!!! Girl power 💪🏼

    • @moniamonia5396
      @moniamonia5396 5 місяців тому +4

      He pushed me away but I still crawled back

    • @amykohn8405
      @amykohn8405 5 місяців тому +4

      I'm right there with you

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 5 місяців тому

      @@moniamonia5396
      Emotional thinking is a powerful drug! Work on your (E.I.) emotional intelligence and restore your personal power, energy and peace. Blessings 🌸

  • @maggiewanjiru2807
    @maggiewanjiru2807 5 місяців тому +10

    I love listening to your amazing topics. However, relationships aren't for the faint. I think you only get stuck when you think somebody other than yourself can make you important to them. Thank you, Derrick.

  • @user-ml8vo2hc1n
    @user-ml8vo2hc1n 5 місяців тому +6

    Keep on preaching Big Bro because you are telling us what our intuition tells us, but somehow we just give these guys the benefit of the doubt!!!Now l have been given the tools to know how to still be loving, nurturing, understanding, while being awake to the games that might be played and how to navigate so that l know when to be on Super Protect Mode while still being kindred!

  • @b.tilson5198
    @b.tilson5198 Місяць тому +2

    Lord help me be strong and set my boundaries strong!
    Thank you for being a great brother and speaking the truth. I understand now. I just need to get it into my thick skull that there is no future with him.

  • @SmashMaster
    @SmashMaster 5 місяців тому +8

    Truth hurts because I’ve wasted 20 years on players 😢

  • @user-gi3ri7it1d
    @user-gi3ri7it1d 5 місяців тому +7

    I really have never had a good male role model who would have a girls back You are special to share this light for protection and peace I have been healing and trying to learn

  • @carolynfields434
    @carolynfields434 2 місяці тому +3

    I am 62 years old . And yes they are men out there use you and your an option.

  • @pt5594
    @pt5594 4 місяці тому +5

    I protected toooo many men with my loyalty

  • @Anitajonse
    @Anitajonse 5 місяців тому +73

    I came to know Christ in jail in 2013 by reading a book, "Overcoming spiritual blindness" by James P. Gills MD. The veil was taken off my eyes. Heaven came through for me in my finances too, getting $25,000 monthly. I can support God's work and give back to my community. God is absolutely more than enough!

    • @harlenajones5721
      @harlenajones5721 5 місяців тому +1

      Same here, with my current portfolio made from my investments with my personal financial advisor I totally agree with you

    • @JacobMuhammad-fe6nq
      @JacobMuhammad-fe6nq 5 місяців тому

      Elizabeth Ann has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in the UK as she has been really helpful and changed lots of life's

    • @andymclain2117
      @andymclain2117 5 місяців тому

      I use to work 3 jobs, full time at Walmart, a server at night and Lyft on the weekend, untill Elizabeth Ann graney change my story.

    • @marthamalcom604
      @marthamalcom604 5 місяців тому

      Such a genuine personality!!, Sincerely speaking. I will continue to trade and stick to Elizabeth Ann daily signals and guides as long as it works well for me.

    • @WillSmith-or6uy
      @WillSmith-or6uy 5 місяців тому

      This sounds so good and I would like to be a party to this, is there any way I can speak with her?

  • @user-ml8vo2hc1n
    @user-ml8vo2hc1n 5 місяців тому +6

    Come on you are giving to us as REAL DEAL HOLYFIELD!!!

  • @sonjacox4874
    @sonjacox4874 5 місяців тому +11

    So right on brother!!

  • @pamelabeaton6667
    @pamelabeaton6667 5 місяців тому +11

    I'm tired of being a shack up honey as Dr Laura would say no more of that for me I'd rather be single

  • @christinesimon7392
    @christinesimon7392 3 дні тому +1

    I'm understanding , you help me let go , I'm happy and feel like myself again❤

  • @kimaskew6904
    @kimaskew6904 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for the clarity. Everyone needs to listen to this.

  • @ebonyhill8266
    @ebonyhill8266 5 місяців тому +6

    I wish I had seen this 5 years ago! All facts!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому +1

      Dear @ebonyhill8266, I can sense that you're going through a tough time right now. It's important to remember that setbacks are a normal part of life and can actually lead to growth and self-discovery. Keep your head up and stay positive - you have the strength to overcome this!
      If you're looking for support and guidance during this challenging time, I would recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link in the description below the video. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Keep moving forward and never give up. You've got this!

  • @camillemcconnell8504
    @camillemcconnell8504 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes!. thank you for the specific age time frames for a monogamous relationships, so that we protect ourselves fr the option category and helping us discern.

  • @ValerieJames-yk6pr
    @ValerieJames-yk6pr 4 місяці тому +3

    Thats very important to know if he's wanting to be on the same level as you being serious about where things are going or wants it he needs to know that security is Real yeap LABLES DOES MATTER GOT IT YES THEY DO MATTER!!

  • @nadiaconseillant8616
    @nadiaconseillant8616 5 місяців тому +3

    Thank God I am not dealing with anyone. Until I get what I want my set goal is my weight. And I am waiting as well

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu1053 4 дні тому

    You are right in every way, everything you say resonates.
    Stick with me big bro ❤

  • @azmaritafari
    @azmaritafari 5 місяців тому +3

    You are definitely making sense to MI!!! Thank you!!!

  • @ninashirley432
    @ninashirley432 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you brother, sometimes I enjoy listening to give me peace of mind. Amen

  • @lydiachavarria9596
    @lydiachavarria9596 3 місяці тому +1

    You’re making sense. Thank you.

  • @sheilamohammed8306
    @sheilamohammed8306 5 місяців тому +4

    Say it! Nothing wrong with the Truth!

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 5 місяців тому +5

    I have made it happen for years. I did it out of love

  • @danaford-soares2521
    @danaford-soares2521 4 місяці тому +1

    This class is bomb loving your intensity

  • @Saylerk9
    @Saylerk9 5 місяців тому +22

    Honestly this is depressing to hear. Wth is wrong with men?! Just be honest. Chickens.

  • @jalisas.698
    @jalisas.698 Місяць тому

    I love this! Yes you make sense. Thank you for the honesty.

  • @nedailic2139
    @nedailic2139 2 місяці тому +1

    Damn youre so convincing D.
    I just left him for real 😅😅😅
    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @jp-ov1sv
    @jp-ov1sv 5 місяців тому +3

    You laid the law down! You should write a book!!

  • @jacquelineward7421
    @jacquelineward7421 4 місяці тому +1

    You’re are making the whole world of sense to me.

  • @ruthrnk3826
    @ruthrnk3826 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for this recording. It's an eye opener.

  • @ValerieJames-yk6pr
    @ValerieJames-yk6pr 4 місяці тому +1

    Woww I got that and you are speaking Truths DANGGG!!

  • @jp-ov1sv
    @jp-ov1sv 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you soooo much for you information. You have really made me look at my dating life differently.

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 5 місяців тому +3

    OMG SO ON POINT ❤

  • @tiffanyjohnson4271
    @tiffanyjohnson4271 5 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for the info Big Brother!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому +1

      Hey Tiffany, I hear you and I understand how tough it can be to navigate relationships. Remember, you are worthy of love and deserve to be with someone who appreciates and uplifts you. Keep your head up and trust that the right person will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, why not check out my new master class on relationships? You can watch it by clicking the link in the description below. Take care of yourself!

    • @JanetTuttle-cb3xx
      @JanetTuttle-cb3xx 2 місяці тому

      God Bless you, you have made points no one has mentioned before, dating is a nightmare as their are so many dishonest men out there, I would rather be alone than wast my precious time at 67 yrs, too much time has already passed.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊

  • @araceliscollazo5067
    @araceliscollazo5067 5 місяців тому +2

    God bless you Derrick! Thank you!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  5 місяців тому

      Hey @araceliscollazo5067, I can sense the pain you're going through and I want you to know that you are not alone. Remember, it's okay to feel hurt and lost after a breakup, but it's also important to focus on your own healing and growth. Take this time to rediscover yourself, build your confidence, and prioritize self-care.
      If you're looking for guidance and support during this difficult time, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. You deserve to be happy and loved, and I believe in your ability to create the life you truly desire. Stay strong and keep moving forward, you've got this. 💪🏼
      (PS: You can find the link to the master class in the description below)

  • @mariaare9023
    @mariaare9023 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you !!! U are enlightening me!!!!😮

  • @Paulaemk4
    @Paulaemk4 Місяць тому +1

    I just went through this i honestly didnt think he was like that 2 years i gave him i did not know .

  • @jenniferworth6156
    @jenniferworth6156 3 місяці тому +2

    Been there! We would be out together he qould get up and go talk to another woman he did not know and leave me by myself

  • @cynthiataylor5793
    @cynthiataylor5793 5 місяців тому +2

    Your hitting the Nail on the head!

  • @EC-yl7xk
    @EC-yl7xk 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much Derrick, where were you when I needed you years ago? I am new to your channel, glad I found you.

  • @MaDameBeloved
    @MaDameBeloved 3 місяці тому

    Thank you this game my own father should have given me. You truly are my big brother in Christ! I appreciate all that you do🙏✅💯🌹❣️💋💓💕🥲Thank you Thank you so very much. God bless you!

  • @almaelyesthergarcia4060
    @almaelyesthergarcia4060 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for keeping it real with me

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield5110 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you kind soul♥️🌹♥️👁️

  • @lindahamilton935
    @lindahamilton935 3 місяці тому

    I promise you this, the few videos that I've recently watched, I swear you are describing me and how I've been treated and all I've been through with ALL MEN every Husband n boyfriend I've had. I'm literally going through it this exact moment

  • @michellewilson851
    @michellewilson851 5 місяців тому +2

    Yes you're making perfect sense.

  • @user-iq5lr8ii5j
    @user-iq5lr8ii5j 3 місяці тому +3

    T H A N K Y O U !

  • @darlenecallins4513
    @darlenecallins4513 Місяць тому

    Yesss! Totally making sense! & thanks my big bro.😉

  • @carolynfields434
    @carolynfields434 2 місяці тому +1

    Amen thank you

  • @spankynbossycompton
    @spankynbossycompton 13 днів тому +1

    I gave my baby daddy 12years of myself n on the first time he chose to entertain another female he up n left me n everything I did didn't matter

  • @pk9096
    @pk9096 5 місяців тому +5

    Im not anybodys option,that is bs i tell you..too good,responsible,wise,, hardworking,beautiful, and i decserve the best not second hand whatever that doesnt know ehether hes coming or going

  • @sherrymiguel7052
    @sherrymiguel7052 5 місяців тому +1

    You are making perfect sense

  • @user-ji1cs5ee8e
    @user-ji1cs5ee8e 5 місяців тому +1

    ON Point Mr D IAM GOOD WORKING ON ME AND MY PEACE AND STAY CLOSE TO THE LORD ❤😊

  • @JanetTuttle-cb3xx
    @JanetTuttle-cb3xx 2 місяці тому

    Definitely makes sense about his self awareness.

  • @savannahkat-ls9zq
    @savannahkat-ls9zq 5 місяців тому +1

    Your honesty is awesome

  • @mattiegrant54
    @mattiegrant54 5 місяців тому +5

    Been there did that yes that was me

  • @RenataRath1983
    @RenataRath1983 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, that was very helpful!!!

  • @crymymindcruz8704
    @crymymindcruz8704 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you brother 😊

  • @user-mq6zn9pc8o
    @user-mq6zn9pc8o 4 місяці тому +2

    Thats mean to do🙏men to whom ever it may concern 🙏

  • @PrincessJOwens
    @PrincessJOwens 4 місяці тому +2

    I now be concerned with me now.

  • @wenyaknowbetter
    @wenyaknowbetter 5 місяців тому +2

    I hope you’re on the Hardly Initiated Podcast!!!! 🙏🏽

  • @sybilamuta6417
    @sybilamuta6417 Місяць тому

    God bless you Derrick.

  • @user-el6cz5po1u
    @user-el6cz5po1u 3 місяці тому

    You are absolutely right 💯

  • @maryjom7261
    @maryjom7261 5 місяців тому +4

    Truth!!!

  • @UYLhealth
    @UYLhealth 5 місяців тому +2

    So good thank you!!🙏🏻 labels absolutely matter! Is this bleach or lemonade?!

  • @figs0775
    @figs0775 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this video

  • @KarenOverton-lw4if
    @KarenOverton-lw4if 3 місяці тому

    Hey Brother everything you have said on this video, I been thru!

  • @yolandasession8158
    @yolandasession8158 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you❤ Iv wasted 8 years.. only for him not to marry after living together.. Made the decision not to continue living together unmarried.. .. slowly growing apart

  • @user-pg9sl4bt6b
    @user-pg9sl4bt6b 5 місяців тому +3

    You are so right

  • @Kellycampitelli
    @Kellycampitelli 4 місяці тому

    Thank you. I hear you loud and clear

  • @jessicad9526
    @jessicad9526 4 місяці тому

    Very insightful, thank you!

  • @StephanieThompson-hr6mv
    @StephanieThompson-hr6mv 5 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @Queen-sw8zp
    @Queen-sw8zp 5 місяців тому +2

    Speak it my dear speak it.....⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🔥

  • @user-on4zq1xm3h
    @user-on4zq1xm3h 5 місяців тому +2

    Yea you are making sense

  • @a1goddesss
    @a1goddesss 5 місяців тому +1

    Love your content ❤️ From Russia w Love

  • @ValerieJames-yk6pr
    @ValerieJames-yk6pr 4 місяці тому +2

    I DONE!!

  • @marcelinaun3304
    @marcelinaun3304 5 місяців тому +3

    Ty big bro

  • @suzannecermy3700
    @suzannecermy3700 2 місяці тому

    And we are both in our 60s!! I am ready for more,but he has not made a move,he flirts,gives me sexual overtones, but,avoids alone like the plague!