5 Things Your EX Thinks During NO CONTACT!

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  • @MommieLoves4
    @MommieLoves4 10 місяців тому +141

    Their not worried about us, they just go with the next weak one who doesn't see the bullshit at first.

  • @monicalacy6622
    @monicalacy6622 8 місяців тому +11

    Anger and blame is ridiculous when he was the problem. That just keeps you gone, ghosted, poof. Figure it out.

  • @donnamaniscalco
    @donnamaniscalco 10 місяців тому +145

    I just started no contact. I feel a wave of relief at not having to listen to the misery, be put down and blamed for everything. After 3 years, I am done. Taking care of myself now!

    • @iammarycarter
      @iammarycarter 9 місяців тому +6

      I love this for you

    • @JadaGates
      @JadaGates 9 місяців тому +7

      Same!!!!! I feel so good today! Still hurting but getting back to me…

    • @donnamaniscalco
      @donnamaniscalco 9 місяців тому +2

      @@JadaGates ❤️♥️

    • @JadaGates
      @JadaGates 9 місяців тому +3

      @@donnamaniscalco we got this!! We deserve so much better

    • @RoseTheQween
      @RoseTheQween 8 місяців тому +1

      Congratulations ❤

  • @karynmartin2141
    @karynmartin2141 10 місяців тому +232

    That's not for all men. They just move on to the next toxic, unemotional relationship.

  • @deborahleetalo6708
    @deborahleetalo6708 9 місяців тому +69

    I doubt he'll ever contact me. He probably moved on. Im fixing up the broken pieces he left behind and im staying strong. I pray for better days to come🙏🏻💯.

  • @cookiesmom584
    @cookiesmom584 10 місяців тому +124

    You empower me to continue NO contact, love myself by giving him the gift of my absence!

  • @cindysantos9300
    @cindysantos9300 10 місяців тому +37

    He disrespects my standards after i told him to dont do it again.
    And now i am out.

  • @Janis-ge5ni
    @Janis-ge5ni 9 місяців тому +39

    Sometimes you have to adjust to their absence rather than adjust to their disrespect!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️you are amazing Big Bro 💋
    Thank you

  • @mandisanqini3132
    @mandisanqini3132 10 місяців тому +53

    You're absolutely right, its me vs me now. No more.

  • @melissachristian2739
    @melissachristian2739 10 місяців тому +43

    This is a men loving world these guys are confused,, they don't know if they want a men or women,real talk 💯

  • @griselda425
    @griselda425 10 місяців тому +46

    You’re so right. This pain was starting to break me but he’s not worth it… thank you!!

  • @paradise3529
    @paradise3529 5 місяців тому +8

    I walked away for Good Yesterday!!! Not ever Looking Back 🔙✍🏿✌🏿

  • @Dreacali26
    @Dreacali26 10 місяців тому +40

    I wanted peace so I changed my number!!!!❤

  • @AnastaciaRose-di9nl
    @AnastaciaRose-di9nl 10 місяців тому +32

    ❤ It's time to get back to me😊

  • @GG-cl9ww
    @GG-cl9ww 7 місяців тому +12

    Consider lesson and learn. Just move on. Life is too short to wait for somebody to act right. And never ever accept a disrespect because you love someone. Give it to god. Move on is not worth it.

  • @ivetteortiz5543
    @ivetteortiz5543 9 місяців тому +19

    I need him to go through this. He hurt me to much.

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  9 місяців тому +6

      Hi Ivette, I want to acknowledge the strength and courage it takes to share your story. It's important to remember that healing is a journey, and it's okay to have setbacks along the way. Remember to be kind to yourself and know that you are not alone in this.
      If you're looking for additional support and guidance, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with helpful tips and tools to help you navigate through this difficult time. You can find the link in the video description. Sending you love and support on your journey towards healing. Take care. ✨

  • @beverleyboateng566
    @beverleyboateng566 10 місяців тому +30

    I’m absolutely shocked that I’ve invited him to come to church, he chose to try to manipulate me otherwise; I’ll remain no contact, you are sooo right!!! He never knew me , he thought he did ! Thanks keep up the great work.

  • @deloresstigger3605
    @deloresstigger3605 10 місяців тому +37

    Thank you so much and I hope your sisters that hear this take it to sincere deep heart because you are definitely telling them Right. First of all the woman needs to know to love God, then she needs to know her woman's Worth. And love her self.

  • @jasminebranygift468
    @jasminebranygift468 8 місяців тому +5

    Mine reached out after 4days after breaking up with me, with excuses of checking up on me if I am ok and well……
    No contact all the way 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @Mrsmismikimimi
    @Mrsmismikimimi 10 місяців тому +15

    Been through the last disrespect and left.... He wanted to show up at my job with a puppy. "Wooow, good luck" was all I said and carried on with my work task.
    "See that I'm just done, sir."

  • @summmer77
    @summmer77 10 місяців тому +12

    Thank you Universe for this ego death that is coming for him. Amazing divine timing❤

  • @YeseniaCasiano-c2f
    @YeseniaCasiano-c2f 10 місяців тому +22

    I'm going through this now, and I agree with everything you say. You are absolutely right. All four!

  • @anitawilson8634
    @anitawilson8634 8 місяців тому +8

    Going through this situation now!! Glad I heard this video today, and hopefully I can move on from this situation with prayers and the Lord 1st in my life!! Thank you

  • @sharondafields3518
    @sharondafields3518 9 місяців тому +5

    I had to choose me after 4.5 years. No contact for me was blocking him on everything. I can only imagine the rage that lurks within. Complete lack of access to his supply? Oh, well. We reap what we sow.

  • @claracruz9066
    @claracruz9066 10 місяців тому +10

    I told him twice to stay away...He was in denial that I cut all access to me.

  • @RooJohnson00
    @RooJohnson00 9 місяців тому +16

    I don't know, I doubt he's going through any of this.... he's probably soooo proud of himself, talking ish to other females (yes plural-more than 1 female).... anyways none of my business. I blocked "it" - no access is self care too.

  • @patsyhampton3698
    @patsyhampton3698 9 місяців тому +6

    I love that-selfish season! ♥️

  • @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
    @BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 10 місяців тому +7

    IAM Better Alone and Happy

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 10 місяців тому +22

    U can't carry a relationship by urself i been talking to my friend girl about what she going through

  • @farahbashir7526
    @farahbashir7526 7 місяців тому +1

    No contact is the best I have ever done for myself.
    You are so right about everything.
    I was alone but never felt lonely. But in all the years with him I neverr felt so lonely in my whole life.

  • @Pharmacycenter
    @Pharmacycenter 10 місяців тому +17

    Wisdom. God bless you

  • @amyrowe8014
    @amyrowe8014 7 місяців тому +5

    Silence Speaks VOLUMES JUS KNO THAT

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 7 місяців тому +2

    Damn I'm so glad I never contacted him I'm glad you said that GOOD for me!

  • @marthadzimega1957
    @marthadzimega1957 8 місяців тому +2

    Very insightful

  • @tracywright1640
    @tracywright1640 10 місяців тому +10

    You are so on point!!! ❤

  • @JackieAusley
    @JackieAusley 7 місяців тому +1

    I’m crying listening to this. I know this to be true. I’m in the selffish season challenge

  • @dianafisher-greene7360
    @dianafisher-greene7360 10 місяців тому +9

    I really needed to hear this today thank you so much ☺️ ❤

  • @antoinettebulatao2299
    @antoinettebulatao2299 10 місяців тому +10

    This is a great video. Makes so much sense

  • @teresastocker9938
    @teresastocker9938 9 місяців тому +4

    I was very lonely he was still with his Baby Mother he lied he use me disrespect me I bought value to his life
    Now I now very depressed lonely I need get out have fun

  • @ayotfreda5536
    @ayotfreda5536 10 місяців тому +5

    6:44 yes the first time I went quiet he could send brief texts. Now I am going no contact again. And it's for good.

  • @kurtrinamckinnon4214
    @kurtrinamckinnon4214 10 місяців тому +4

    Yep!! Everything you saying true I broke up with him first of year he was very angry when I did glad it was via telephone

  • @tiwanwilliams5342
    @tiwanwilliams5342 День тому

    Thank you! You hit it on the mail! Just what I needed to hear.

  • @MsknowledgeseekerNecole
    @MsknowledgeseekerNecole 10 місяців тому +3

    This was deep❤️

  • @NNV337
    @NNV337 9 місяців тому +3

    Empowering video 💯✌

  • @Salexander50
    @Salexander50 10 місяців тому +7

    My current situationship

  • @cathywilliams662
    @cathywilliams662 10 місяців тому +4

    On Point👏👏👏

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks again
    That's so true!

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 5 місяців тому +1

    SO TRUE 😮

  • @ranawinfield5110
    @ranawinfield5110 9 місяців тому +4

    All true I thought he was crying on the phone I said I gotta GO 🤷

  • @Niadrawalker
    @Niadrawalker 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Derrick my Big Brother this message was very help and very well needed to hear.

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 5 місяців тому +2

    Amen!

  • @teresastocker9938
    @teresastocker9938 9 місяців тому +4

    That how did meI thought I was being there I was just a place holder for her 😢

    • @deborahleetalo6708
      @deborahleetalo6708 9 місяців тому +1

      😢. It's ok. You are the most valuable 🙏🏻

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 5 місяців тому +2

    Realtalk

  • @michellesweazy4493
    @michellesweazy4493 5 місяців тому +1

    Ive been physically and mentally abused by men since i was 16, my first destroyed a healthy women i could have been. I settle for less, im and empath and have alot of compassion for people that treat me pooryy, i always see the good in people. Im 42 and realize im better alone. Even if im the reason i attract these men, i can take that. But im done with manipulation.

  • @ameliareaves2381
    @ameliareaves2381 10 місяців тому +3

    Oh, what you said...yes...yes.

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 8 місяців тому +1

    I felt lonely I'm wonderful and happy !

  • @michellesweazy4493
    @michellesweazy4493 5 місяців тому

    You're so powerful and motivating to me, I listen to your videos a lot when I'm going through it. Thank you!

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 10 місяців тому +2

    Yes yes brother ❤️

  • @Emily-ed6ed
    @Emily-ed6ed 10 місяців тому +2

    Great message❤

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd 8 місяців тому

    Absolutely can by with " I'll do ANYTHING" to come back. Straight up narcissistic!

  • @suzettewalsh2854
    @suzettewalsh2854 8 місяців тому

    Yesssss desperation! Spot on with all the stages!

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 8 місяців тому

    You're right about that no more disrespect ok !!!

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 7 місяців тому

    I'm so proud of myself he never got him to reduce me I never fn let him He even said "what are you going to do without me? I answered I supported you for 2 years I can manage without you since you are here and refuse to pay for anything even though you have a job.

  • @adriennelarkin8188
    @adriennelarkin8188 9 місяців тому

    Hello Derrickyou always on Point, Telling it Like Truth Be told, Yes Backbuner part!

    • @JaxnVideos
      @JaxnVideos  9 місяців тому

      Hey Adrienne, I really appreciate you sharing your struggles with us. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal challenges. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times but it's important to also take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. You're not alone in this journey and there are people who are here to support you.
      If you're looking to delve deeper into managing relationships and personal growth, I invite you to check out my new masterclass. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you navigate through difficult situations. Just click on the link in the video description to access it. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help. You've got this!

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 7 місяців тому +1

    OMG he did try to use all kinds of excuses to talk to me and I told "you're on your own now I won't help you translade for you, handle USA all by yourself with your influenced friends"

  • @rachelhopson2342
    @rachelhopson2342 10 місяців тому +11

    Yes ....😢 no contact for ever

  • @preetsrivastava7970
    @preetsrivastava7970 6 місяців тому

    Derrick, respect. I'd love to hear what your thoughts are on dating w an age difference.

  • @mariaamaya4495
    @mariaamaya4495 8 місяців тому +1

    Yup you are right 💯🙃

  • @cynthfusion5681
    @cynthfusion5681 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you….I needed this!!!

  • @TammyMoore-g4b
    @TammyMoore-g4b 29 днів тому

    I needed this thank u so u have anything here t goin on now meaning classes

  • @trinajettelson7569
    @trinajettelson7569 7 місяців тому

    Thank you
    You have helped me heal 😊

  • @firebird3639
    @firebird3639 7 місяців тому

    You just answered my question thank you.

  • @earleenGreene
    @earleenGreene 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your input ❤

  • @paulaford8658
    @paulaford8658 8 місяців тому

    I'm happy now !!!

  • @NickiFranklin-w6j
    @NickiFranklin-w6j 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much I needed this today

  • @simpleliving4205
    @simpleliving4205 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you❤

  • @Harry-o6g
    @Harry-o6g 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this one... ❤

  • @DM-dl6lv
    @DM-dl6lv 7 місяців тому

    You are spot on!

  • @Gods_earth_warrior_7
    @Gods_earth_warrior_7 10 місяців тому

    Thank you!! Definitely going to check that group out

  • @CarlethaHenderson
    @CarlethaHenderson 6 місяців тому

    I stay my ground.

  • @romelliapattillo4681
    @romelliapattillo4681 6 місяців тому +1

    He’s been blocked…NO CONTACT!

  • @sashaquinones7289
    @sashaquinones7289 5 місяців тому +1

    YES 😮

  • @jensanders8990
    @jensanders8990 6 місяців тому

    Yep ,all valid

  • @earleenGreene
    @earleenGreene 4 місяці тому

    You are so right on

  • @debraharris6350
    @debraharris6350 6 місяців тому

    Yes, "I'm NO CONTACT, BLOCKED, SILENTS" in this situation n Father God Devine Timing n Jesus Christ Mighty name Amen 😇😅😇🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯👏👏👏💞💞💞

  • @sylviehoude3640
    @sylviehoude3640 7 місяців тому

    yes you right he tried to get my attention by using the car that I own bought for him to drive as an excuse I told him what was what " take it or leave it" He was furious who cared

  • @shantellegrimes6090
    @shantellegrimes6090 10 місяців тому +1

    This so true

  • @stephaniebenoit788
    @stephaniebenoit788 10 місяців тому

    I needed this!!!!

  • @transformationsbeautylounge
    @transformationsbeautylounge 10 місяців тому +1

    Yep this happens ALLLLL the time 😅😅😅😅😊😊😊

  • @alicemahomes6976
    @alicemahomes6976 8 місяців тому +5

    I blocked him

  • @carolyncanady8268
    @carolyncanady8268 10 місяців тому +1

    Total truth

  • @NA-xi5hj
    @NA-xi5hj 10 місяців тому +1

    Ive recieved it all, yea

  • @kathynohl6213
    @kathynohl6213 8 місяців тому

    So so true I just let my person go. He ran 3 times. No no more!!!!

  • @vernasmith1108
    @vernasmith1108 8 місяців тому

    I didn't have any status that was suitable for his family and him. I wasn't articulating my words enough. In other words, I wasn't good enough. I was more than enough, I was his blessing, and he didn't see it.

  • @centrerandom5640
    @centrerandom5640 10 місяців тому +13

    Women do this to, i tried to talk to someone i hadnt spoken to in 6 years. I never forgot about him but life got in the way. He was rude and basically ignored me and then i saw he was married. We were never together but we could of been if i didn't take him for granted. I made the biggest mistake of my life not choosing him but there's nothing i can do about it now. Let me tell you it hurts like hell 😢

    • @DubaiiMakavelii
      @DubaiiMakavelii 10 місяців тому +10

      Don’t regret nothing he wasn’t for you

    • @susanhampton9671
      @susanhampton9671 10 місяців тому +6

      Take the positive. There is someone who is better for you. Please stop beatting yourself up.

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 10 місяців тому +6

      Forgive yourself and move on. It wasn't meant to be

  • @michellejames6372
    @michellejames6372 5 місяців тому

    That's me Right

  • @mcm6563
    @mcm6563 9 місяців тому

    True❤ tkank you 💯

  • @Paulaemk4
    @Paulaemk4 6 місяців тому

    So true i went through this

  • @brendaadkins7082
    @brendaadkins7082 9 місяців тому

    Everything you're saying is TRUE! I've experienced all of what you're saying with my Ex.

  • @jodie853
    @jodie853 10 місяців тому +4

    🎯 💯