Enough said. So true. Real Talk... He only wants you back for you to entertain him. He hates he lost you. So Ladie s, please think with your head and not with your heart.😊😊
Ladies, whether he is speaking about himself, you’re still hearing him out and he’s talking about nothing but the TRUTH! I will keep listening to him because the TRUTH he is speaking makes me stronger and open my eyes more and more. No one is perfect Thank you BIG BROTHER! ❤️
My internet Brotha!!! I am tearful... This expression was so Sincere... Heart felt... And moved me to tears therefore I am letting go & healing the hurt... Thank you for speaking your truth so your internet Sistas can receive the clarity needed for healing the past and setting boundaries for growth and forward movement towards higher love and peace within 🙏
I am definitely guilty of the reacting part. I had never been so angry in any relationship in my life. I never put hands on him, but found myself being verbally abusive at times, which isn't any less hurtful, and feeling terrible afterwards. Emotionally and physically. I was becoming someone I didn't like. He had to go.
Yeah, this fella Love Bombed me , talked TRASH about his EX, then Dismissed me & tells me He loved his Ex dearly - so I was just a HAPLESS REBOUND Victim. Great video- he SABOTAGED OUR RLSHIP & LED ME TO GO OFF on him , he needs to grow up and become ACCOUNTABLE!!! OMG , HE MADE ME QUESTION MY SANITY ! 😢I put him in the FRIEND ZONE UNTIL HE MANS UP !
Well your Ex is not miserable without you. Especially after the video I saw this morning. You need to be looking in the mirror speaking these facts to yourself instead of your viewers.
Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I enjoy your videos very much more than you know thank you for helping me from day one as I was going through the pain and suffering from this narcissistic person who constantly lied, gaslight breadcrumb, and just used me for my empathy and loving heart, thank you
I wish everyone was more into healing themselves and depending on them self and if something is out of your life just let it go and pray for the best for them .
It's my situation. You are speaking truthfully about my ex. But I have made no contact after he dumped me. He spoke about me on FB, to the whole world, spoke against me to his female friends and took a picture with her when she treated him out in his birthday to make me jealous. So, yeah , it's me
That is so true...I felt it and was always telling him that something dont feel right while in the relationship but I just could not tell what.Thank you
Was married 23yrs, found his phone of text msgs to several women telling them he loves them, but now he's sending me msgs saying he didn't realize how much he missed me, till he seen me in passing ..😮
Me and my ex had been together for nine years and doing that time he slandered his baby mama name the whole time .. she was every kind of slut…you name it and as soon as we were on bad terms he went right back to her… she put him out and tried to come back to me…
I really needed to hear this. Mostly everything you said felt like you knew what was going on with me and my husband whom I have been separated from 2 to 3 years on and off. I'm just fed up and want to be healed, healthy, whole and at peace while moving on! Thanks Derrick!
So true they was about that bullshit mad because they can't control like you're thier children how could you have sex with someone that can't give or show you love i tell them all don't bring out the worst in me because i will never allow anyone to treat me bad and i will be second best to anyone
He’s truly falling apart now. While I feel sorry for him, I am tremendously pleased at my progress and the space I have created for myself; and I clearly stated that in no uncertain terms. Thank you for emphasizing the wisdom in acknowledging what happened, working through the emotions, and then rising above it. I did!!!
Wow, he's the perfect example of what he is speaking of, i guess that is why he's so convincing.
Exactly!
How do you know?
Some ex's are coming back 😮 for revenge
Don't give them no chance. Go heal work on urself cause there's nothing like self ❤
Enough said. So true.
Real Talk... He only wants you back for you to entertain him. He hates he lost you. So Ladie s, please think with your head and not with your heart.😊😊
You have to use both. Especially since relationships are heart felt and emotions.
It’s amazing that he speaks on himself to these women and they still follow him
Literally. It’s mind boggling
Smdh
Is he not speaking facts?
Do you deliberately ignore truth because it's spoken by someone who did wrong? That in itself makes no sense.
I agree with you.
No, women are attracted to power no matter who its attached too.
I just pray the TRUTH is revealed
Your a damb duck
Ladies, whether he is speaking about himself, you’re still hearing him out and he’s talking about nothing but the TRUTH! I will keep listening to him because the TRUTH he is speaking makes me stronger and open my eyes more and more. No one is perfect Thank you BIG BROTHER! ❤️
DAM U NAILED THIS ONE!!! THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED
You articulated it very well!!! That was my ex’s behavior point by point that you made.
Wow- Blk women worship for Blk men never cease to amaze me.
My internet Brotha!!! I am tearful... This expression was so Sincere... Heart felt... And moved me to tears therefore I am letting go & healing the hurt... Thank you for speaking your truth so your internet Sistas can receive the clarity needed for healing the past and setting boundaries for growth and forward movement towards higher love and peace within 🙏
I am definitely guilty of the reacting part. I had never been so angry in any relationship in my life. I never put hands on him, but found myself being verbally abusive at times, which isn't any less hurtful, and feeling terrible afterwards. Emotionally and physically. I was becoming someone I didn't like. He had to go.
Same! Everyone says I'm extremely sweet and kind.
Mine never came back. He went right back online dating.
Lucky you honestly
I had an ex that was married and wouldn’t leave me alone years after we split. I blocked him
Your the gradifaction woman ... 😮😅
Damn you nail this topic
My story and you just told on him!! I pray “he’s HAPPY with the woman he left me for”. Jokes on him now. I’m at peace ☮️
This was awesome you hit it right on the head!!! Wow!!!
He slanders my name every day every day he has a new partner.
HE CAN STAY WAAAAAY OVA THERE WITH THAT TOXICITY 😢 6 in a half yrs 4what.
Men are hard to read and us woman really beleive they have no feelings..this shows & helps us see they do thanku❤Derrik
He's tried to come back but I have not entertained it and won't. He needs someone on his level and me on mine. Enough said.
Amen!!
The best part is the rebound girl she's the one who finish him!! I love it!
I sent this to my sister cause she needed this
She started dating and her ex husband was pissed he called my mom in a rage but he left her. So I thought she would want to see this
His videos are always on point 👏👏
I just broke up with my ex because he was still dealing with his (ex)!!
They love having strings attached to others especially Xs
❤❤❤
So glad I found your channel! You’re preaching sir! 🔥
A criminal that tells folks how to prevent the crimes he commits. I guess, if it’s effective.
You know the saying, "set a thief to catch a thief"
What do u mean I'm not clear
Out of all the people on the net I fully listened to a full video of yours yesterday and it truly helped me. Thank you
This video is on point!!!
Yes he won’t leave me alone or give me time to heal
I feel like I just went to church! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yes girrrl 🙌🏾
Yeah, this fella Love Bombed me , talked TRASH about his EX, then Dismissed me & tells me He loved his Ex dearly - so I was just a HAPLESS REBOUND Victim. Great video- he SABOTAGED OUR RLSHIP & LED ME TO GO OFF on him , he needs to grow up and become ACCOUNTABLE!!! OMG , HE MADE ME QUESTION MY SANITY ! 😢I put him in the FRIEND ZONE UNTIL HE MANS UP !
Derrick telling on himself again… 🫨
And y'all STILL listening to him???!!!!
@callaspadeaspade, exactly
Thanks for.posting this Derrick. I appreciate you.
I love the fact that Derrick just gets into it. Relevant and TRUE ❤❤❤
He gets into a lot of things 😐
He should be able to, he's talking about himself....
Oh you're referring to our men I thought u were referring to DJ.😊
Well your Ex is not miserable without you. Especially after the video I saw this morning. You need to be looking in the mirror speaking these facts to yourself instead of your viewers.
He kept me secret so it don't even matter
Ir does matter. Sometimes what appears to be a secret thing is actually a private one instead.
Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I enjoy your videos very much more than you know thank you for helping me from day one as I was going through the pain and suffering from this narcissistic person who constantly lied, gaslight breadcrumb, and just used me for my empathy and loving heart, thank you
FACTS!!! FOR REAL!
Why do y’all still listen to this Narcissis
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He's telling the truth..
You're listening to him too because you're here
He telling the truth
been there with this ex trying to win be back but hidden his feelings i done with them kind of immature games
My Ex is still knocking on my door it has been 4 years.
Thank you so much for this video very much needed keep speaking the truth
Thank you for this 😊
Your "thoughts" are spot on !!! Thanks again Derrick ❤
I wish everyone was more into healing themselves and depending on them self and if something is out of your life just let it go and pray for the best for them .
Yes yes and more yesss this is on point and I sure can relate to this Thank you for another great video
Some people have hearts of stone , some people are up to no good , I love that song by the Dramatics true story
Y’all still rocking with him ladies?
Yep, rather hear it from the horses mouth🤷♀️
Profound. Truly enjoyed this explanation! “I”
ABSOLUTELY TRUE!!! I've done this , and he did have the same BEHAVIORS!
Damn. That's some deep points. Are you talking about my ex?? Good job
It's my situation. You are speaking truthfully about my ex. But I have made no contact after he dumped me. He spoke about me on FB, to the whole world, spoke against me to his female friends and took a picture with her when she treated him out in his birthday to make me jealous. So, yeah , it's me
This video was so on point thank you for this 👍👍👍👍
That is so true...I felt it and was always telling him that something dont feel right while in the relationship but I just could not tell what.Thank you
Was married 23yrs, found his phone of text msgs to several women telling them he loves them, but now he's sending me msgs saying he didn't realize how much he missed me, till he seen me in passing ..😮
Me and my ex had been together for nine years and doing that time he slandered his baby mama name the whole time .. she was every kind of slut…you name it and as soon as we were on bad terms he went right back to her… she put him out and tried to come back to me…
❤great message
I really needed to hear this. Mostly everything you said felt like you knew what was going on with me and my husband whom I have been separated from 2 to 3 years on and off. I'm just fed up and want to be healed, healthy, whole and at peace while moving on! Thanks Derrick!
I love this
Message because so true ❤
You need Jesus
I love the fact that your so transparent
Thank you so much for speaking truth. You are brave and bold and exactly the validation I need. 🙏
Oh you know me, better than anyone else. Thank you. ❤
Hugs from Germany. 🇩🇪
Wasted 5 yrs 😢😢😢
Some of the scenarios happened to me by my ex by his sabotaging of our relationship from the jump! ✨
Nailed it 👌
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Before he got engaged to her he doubled checked if I'd take him back. That was a no.
This can't be real life!!! This has to be a joke right ???? You all should be ashamed! HAHAHAHA
Keep it moving
He IS that ex
What do you mean?
Spot on 💯
Thank you 😊
So true they was about that bullshit mad because they can't control like you're thier children how could you have sex with someone that can't give or show you love i tell them all don't bring out the worst in me because i will never allow anyone to treat me bad and i will be second best to anyone
This is so good. Thank you 💜
Omg you are so on point
Many tnks....its so true 👍🏾 😮
This is on fire 🔥
And ask for an engagement ring. I can buy my own engagement ring and I have peace
Wow. It's like you've been studying my ex husband. ALL OF THE ABOVE😑
Thank you!
Ur right on point!
He's good at telling half-truths
Yep my ex slandered me & 17 years later still try’s to get me bk offered marriage…
I experienced these traits never thought of it in that view thank you for the lesson
Very accurate
He’s truly falling apart now. While I feel sorry for him, I am tremendously pleased at my progress and the space I have created for myself; and I clearly stated that in no uncertain terms. Thank you for emphasizing the wisdom in acknowledging what happened, working through the emotions, and then rising above it. I did!!!
You on it!!!!!!
This is so true.
I know you are saying "He" the entire video. But, does this apply to ex gf as well?
You learn something new Everyday
I have definitely been there talking about me to who will listen to him
Facts so true
Why do they have to slander you to other people??Why not just on with his filthy life??
Awesome..thank you 💖
He was one-sided enough!!!
Thank you ❤️
Yes apparently I was the one crazy yet he STILL wanted me
This sure did hit home with me.
Good Evening Derrick
So on point!