Me neither, 78. He's a good storyteller. But these UA-cam videos alone don't give a fuller view of his character in such respects. We're all online and this is someone's vlog, of sorts.
78sound it's good to be sceptical. But today we need strong male rolemodels, more than ever. A man with a good heart and discipline is able to correct himself and evolve into a better man. That's where a better family a better world all starts in my opinion
The last two times someone challenged me to a fight, after I turned age 18, I found ways to de-escalate the situation. But I know that this isn't always possible to do. In the martial arts I learned the "arm's length" rule. Meaning you don't let someone come within touching distance. To do this you hold up one or both hands as a warding and calming gesture -- it's both a warning and an appeal for peace while at the same time preparing you for any incoming strikes. I combined that gesture with talking to them calmly and telling them I didn't want violence but if we had to fight I would -- I gave them enough room to save face and they decided not to take it further. Had they come closer I would have been forced to strike or grab them.
If forced to strike you would have struck like a Cobra. Like a giant Kung-Fu snake. You would have been greased lightening, man. You would have been a maximum action Jackson throw-down artist. You would have been a juke box hero. You would have been super duper spectacular. Like an octopus with tantacular tentacle action. You would have an old school gangster fury about you. But, as luck would have it you de-escalated the Karate action with a few waves of your fists of fury and common sense. Be saluted sir. You are free and not in jail. You have lived to fight another day...
Before i was working 1 block away on 48th between 5th and 6th ave. I wrote in another video about how youre an inspiration and i know how hard being open and telling your dark stories on UA-cam. Much respect like always brother. 1 love. Like i said on the other video where u talk about sociopaths u got a fan
One decision , one choice.It really is a miracle you are here.Thank you Aboud for what you are doing to help people consider what one decision can do. God bless you Man.
I felt the same way you did playing the waiting game when I was facing 3-5 years for various thefts that I wasn’t proud to say I committed. I was so fortunate enough that my parents helped me get a decent lawyer and managed to get into a diversionary program. I was nearly one month away from completing my 1 year long probation and then my case would be sealed for good, but I stupidly went and got myself arrested for getting into a fight. Luckily I managed to keep my diversionary program, otherwise I would have still been going to court for the theft charges as well as the assault charges they slapped me with. I thank God every day that He allowed me to continue with my life and receive no jail time. I could have easily spent the last 3-5 years in prison.
Aboud... I started recently following you. Incredible content you are posting up. I dig your transparencies and realness. In addition, you are kicking a ton of knowledge. The video you spoke on about raising your daughters with respect and values. After watching a few of your videos, I embrace and appreciate your character. But ofcourse you've gone to the school of hardknocks. Nevertheless, you've made it through the trenches, blood sweat tears and grimey slimey nightcrawlers. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
@14.20..I understand the rage you express, that is the saddest part, you were brave to fight your own battles against coward bullies yet the system turns against the warrior. Seems like you've been through alot of bad shit that got out of control. Always found it's best to keep to yourself as you get older, alot of damaging cowards around that close ranks. God be with you
There's no doubt in my mind that guy was a bully. He messed with the wrong one - that time. What happened to you happen to brothers all the time. My cousin was 5' 7" 130 pds. He got into a fight with four guys in a garage who were trying to beat his ass. He got the best of them and was charged with attempted murder, aggravated assault, etc .. offered him 20 yrs.
Seems like a clear case of self defense. I understand you may have "taken it too far", but if it happened the way you said the girl should've been evidence of that.
It sounds like you were struggling from anxiety or something like that when you didn’t want to socialise, stayed home a lot etc. I’ve had 36 operations including 33 knee operations, a spinal operation called a spinal cord stimulator and an op to put the battery pack for that in my belly. For about 5 or so years I’ve been mostly housebound and now I really struggle with anxiety. Have you got any advice about starting to get my life back on track? I know it’s different circumstances but I was just hoping for a bit of advice. I had my most recent knee operation the end of March and it seems to be doing good for once. I’m currently doing as much physio as I can to get that strong enough so I can physically get out. But the other piece of the puzzle is anxiety. Sorry for my life story but I thought it might help when replying lol. I also have depression but I’m already feeling better and I think when I get a life then that should disappear. I hope you have a great weekend. Messaging from the UK 🙂. Sorry for the essay lol.
you have been through a lot. For me I was much more damaged than just having anxiety. Severe depression and suicidal thoughts plagued me. I felt like I didn't fit in anywhere. It's tough for me to give advice on this because I am still messed up in many ways but i will try. Start by reading and listening to motivational people. Think about what your life has been and what you want it to be. Make the decision that this part of your life is over and that you are ready to move on. Don't worry about what others think, Be yourself in every way and get out there and live life. It is passing us by so quickly and you have already lost years because of circumstance..To lose more by choice is a sad thing. Focus on rebuilding your body while trying to socialize with people who are like minded and not likely to bring you down in anyway. And if you ever need feel free to reach out to me. I will always try to help if i can.
ABOUD Thank you so much for replying Aboud, you seem like a nice guy no matter your life story/your past. I was out today with a guy who struggles with anxiety and lives round the corner. We’ve made the decision to try to help each other and to get out there but not push each other before we’re ready. He’s 33 and I’m 27 soon and he seems like a great guy. Hopefully we can both be that little push the other one needs. Yea it would be sad to miss out on more. I need to not give myself the chance to make excuses not to do things, just say yes and do it 🙂. I’ll look into the motivational books, do you know any good ones? You should do a book on your life, it would probably do well. I’d buy it lol. Either do it as factual or do a book on a character that is based on you and make it seem fictional even if it’s not. Just be careful if you did it as fact if those dirty cops are still trying to pin things on you! I just think your story could help people in that position and as a motivational story to help just anyone. Jadewelch22@gmail.com feel free to reach out if you want. I’ll always be myself, not the most confident person but even I know I’m a great person... Sounds big headed lol. Keep up the great videos and work 🙂.
Jordan Cooke I read that and wasn’t sure if you was being serious or taking the piss lol. I hope you have that saying from where you’re from/live... The thing with UA-cam you could be talking to someone from another continent and not know, unless they tell you lol.
Thanks for the great content brother I think we're brothers from another mother. You cant predict life don't matter how big or small don't disrespect.. We can figure out a way to fuk u up... Be safe bro
Dear Sir...given the circumstances, I'm not sure the situation could've been avoided. The only "mistake" was stopping to "stand your ground." No doubt these were the lessons needed so you can reach the rest of us out here and inspire us to not give in to the destructive invitations of the Devil. Even though I do not know you, I have tremendous respect for you and your journey... And the fact that you're a Christian brother even ignites a tinge of bro-love for you. Keep up the good work, dear Sir. Blessings to you and family. ICXC NIKA
New Jersey is the worst state... For gun laws, self defense laws, etc etc. The worst! Happy he didn't die, however in the heat of the moment when a young alpha male is being tested, instincts take over and sometimes you can't control yourself whether you think you can or not. When adrenaline is rushing through your vanes its like no other feeling. I bet if you we're in Texas or somewhere it would have still been bad on your part but not as severe as if you were here. Jersey needs to change ASAP. This story is one of those fucked up situations where one person was initially defending himself from someone who instigated the problem and the instagater ends up cathing the worst of the beating and the defender catches the worst of the legal ramifications. 😔
Ain't it crazy how they can spin any story anyway they want? You were a 20 yr old kid. I had a similar encounter right across the bridge in philly at a hs party ended up getting drunk & beating up a cop's kid (unbeknownst to me). That shit still affects me to this day with employment shit I can't even chaperone at my young girls school because I have a violent past. I'm 38 today. Hope some young guys can get something from this because it's really not worth it unless your life's in danger.
Great Video Man. I was Born and raised in Newark NJ...."One wrong action can cost you your life"... I really appreciate the reminder. ?..... What would you advise another man to do when faced with disrespect in public? I recently had a confrontation while driving. Dude said to me "I thought so" after making threat from his car. We came to a red light, I said fuck it, got out the car, my girl tried to stop me, but I was like fuck that, started to approach his car, he sprays me with mace while sitting in his car, got me right in my eyes............ What man carry's mace. But after calming down and able to fucking see again, I realized that could have went so many other ways. He could have had a gun. Ect.... But I as well have a hard time with random disrespect. I want to avoid all drama.
ABOUD crazy shit. When you think about it, that guy probably deserved to die. But at the same time thank god he didn’t. I feel your life, these stories and your personality can eventually create something bigger than a UA-cam channel. A book. A movie. Something along those lines
That's crazy.. Just had my first fight (got beat up) as an adult and I'm 36 years old. Literally was just walking into the Post office and some Huge Black dude walks up to me and asked him why I squirted him???? I tried to tell him It wasn't me but he said I don't play that, and he blocked me so I pushed him and punched him... then I don't know what happened next. I just put my Guard up. Lucky for me he stopped. But I knew he was going to do something, and I wasn't going to win by any means so I got mines off first. LOL
Hey bro, you mentioned in other vids how upsettting it is to lose pets, but do you consider fish on the same depths? I havent had fish sincei was a 8 yr old, had him fir a few weeks and cried my ass off, i loved to feed him andtake care of him. Im sure its much more devastating when you keep fish as large and smart as yours. Thoughts?
It is devastating to me to lose any pet. I have had some fish for many years and it always hurt when they died. For me it was worse with my dogs and cat because the interaction was so much stronger. All my pets are my family though.
I kept getting recommendations to watch your videos. Alot of interesting topics you discuss. As a fellow nj native, did all this shit go down in Passaic and mostly north jersey area?
Can you do a video on being sued by the guy? Also, would the girl you were with testify on your behalf? Surely you'd have had a good case with a witness on your side vs this guy on his own.
interesting story, caught between a rock and a hard place. I was robbed and jumped at my house. i fought back.. i fought back hard.. too hard. the dude ended up looking way worse than me so the cops sided with him even though i had video footage of him punching me first several times mounted on top of me.. apparently once you get up from underneath someone you are no longer within "self defense" hell ya im gonna beat his ass once i squirm out from under him after hes attacked me haha.. did 5 days whatever system is wack and jury people are swayed by D.A's.. luckily the judge had my back was looking at 6 months at first...
I don't know if this is a coincidence or what hell I don't even know if you will read this but your doing the same thing as 23 and one I find that quite interesting
Hey bro just out of curiosity all the fights you been in... has you been , or have gotten beat? There’s always someone w more skills, bigger and stronger?
ABOUD I just saw it man , karma is a bitch they will get there’s . Keep uploading your videos are really good and interesting man. Congrats on doing well for yourself
Speaking of "implausible" concerning charges, I know what you mean. I was charged with "Burglary" of my own home, lol. Talk about some stupid shit, the Cop got mad at me because I said "F*ck you" and that was it. He looked at me, said "you're under arrest", and I said "For What!!?" He said "Burglary." I said "how the hell can I burglarize my own home!?
Western Kratom I’d definitely go to the vet, yes it costs but you can’t get in trouble for killing it then (I’m from the U.K. so the laws may be different where you are) also I’d hate to worry if my animal was petrified in those moments before you kill it. Just hold him/her, stroke them and tell them you love them. My dogs our family’s baby. Kind of like a cute, crazy little sister in a furry costume lol.
Western Kratom I forgot to say I’m sorry you’re faced with this decision! If there’s something they can do and you can afford it, I’d personally go for it so I know I did everything. But if it’s a choice between keeping them alive longer but them struggling or dying peacefully, I’d go for the latter.
My 2 cents. In the 90's I had a loyal dog I should have been put down. I couldn't do it. Well,one day at work wife called crying that Roxie (my sweet loyal dog) was crying and screeching in pain. She finally died in agony right in front of my devastated wife. It was all my fault,I should have had her put down. I will always regret not doing it earlier.She deserved better. Dont wait if it's time. My 2 cents.
I'm confused here. Why wasn't the girl involved in testifying or even pressing charges on the dude? She got hit by the guy initially. I'm really not understanding that part. When the cops showed up they had to see her. Do you guys know?
She panicked and put her head down and stayed in the car. She gave a statement saying we were attacked and I got out and she didn't see anything more which was true.
I hope you get back with me. We can work together. Here is my website. At least look me up. You have a lot of potential. I might even be able to get you in some movies, if you can act. Something tells me you can
I checked out your website and some videos. Congratulations on being able to turn your life around the way you have. That's a great accomplishment in itself and it looks like you have so many more great things coming your way soon. I'm happy to see anyone be able to come out of one life and change enough to make it in another. Most people can't. I can tell you are a solid person and someone I share a lot in common with. I haven't really been doing anything on here lately because of health issues but let me know what you have in mind.
ABOUD you know, I watched one of your videos and it just resonated because you’re one of my tribe bro. I can just tell. I’m from Detroit but you can always recognize a standup guy. You seem solid as it gets. Broke my heart to see how the system fucked you. I was a bad dude and pretty much deserved what i got. But you got fucked. Are you Chaldean? We should talk. Maybe we can do a show. I have you on mine, you have me on your channel. I’m trying to build subscribers. You’re a natural storyteller like me. And there is a market for that here in youtube. You have the look ladies like. You’re very articulate. Smart. I’m sure you have many more stories you could share for your followers. You need to capitalize on that. My novels are all fiction but... obviously some of my real life made its way into them. I’m not sure how much you know about me but I’ve had quite a journey. So thank you. I’d love for you to read my work. I’ll leave a link to my shorts. 3 million reads and growing. They’re not nearly as complex as my novels, but people love them. We are working in selling them as a scripted TV series to the likes of Netflix and HBO. This virus fucked everything up. I was supposed to co-hosting Mob Movie Con/Awards this months. It’s pushed till August now. No Productuon companies are shooting. But my books are doing well. Everyone has time. You should checkout my books. You’d love them. Check the reviews. They’re being called “the next Godfather.@ I tell people no, “It’s the first To Be A King.” But of course it’s an honor to be compared to The Godfather. Send me an email and we should work on a zoom show. Whats yo with your health? You okay? You look healthy. But I understand if you want to keep it private
you said you could be facing 30 years. At such a young age. did you ever think about running to Mexico or another country or was that just never a thought ?
Aboud stated he was really drunk coming out the club and he drove home. Maybe the attacker was road raging because he sensed that Aboud was driving all over the road. Maybe the other driver premeditated it all.
I never found out. And she could only say that he broke my windows and started the whole thing. She put her head down and stayed in the car. The fight happened behind my car where she couldn’t see.
I did get charged with that. Ended up beating it because they strapped me down and took blood forcibly without my consent. Nothing fishy about my stories. Everything is on paper and can be verified.
She went into shock..put her head down and stayed in the car while the whole thing was happening. She gave a statement about how things started but with the cops lying about things it was not enough.
You're one of the few people God can work with, Aboud. You're a man of honor, self respect and discipline. Thank you for the video
I know what I think I know, from instinct only. maybe a little ear too. What do you know, Cool Whip?
Me neither, 78. He's a good storyteller. But these UA-cam videos alone don't give a fuller view of his character in such respects. We're all online and this is someone's vlog, of sorts.
78sound it's good to be sceptical. But today we need strong male rolemodels, more than ever. A man with a good heart and discipline is able to correct himself and evolve into a better man. That's where a better family a better world all starts in my opinion
Sure, that's a good point as well, Robin.
Robin de Valk. Thanks. I always appreciate the support
The last two times someone challenged me to a fight, after I turned age 18, I found ways to de-escalate the situation. But I know that this isn't always possible to do. In the martial arts I learned the "arm's length" rule. Meaning you don't let someone come within touching distance. To do this you hold up one or both hands as a warding and calming gesture -- it's both a warning and an appeal for peace while at the same time preparing you for any incoming strikes. I combined that gesture with talking to them calmly and telling them I didn't want violence but if we had to fight I would -- I gave them enough room to save face and they decided not to take it further. Had they come closer I would have been forced to strike or grab them.
If forced to strike you would have struck like a Cobra. Like a giant Kung-Fu snake. You would have been greased lightening, man. You would have been a maximum action Jackson throw-down artist. You would have been a juke box hero. You would have been super duper spectacular. Like an octopus with tantacular tentacle action. You would have an old school gangster fury about you. But, as luck would have it you de-escalated the Karate action with a few waves of your fists of fury and common sense. Be saluted sir. You are free and not in jail. You have lived to fight another day...
So you Hold your hands out in front of you?
I appreciate the honesty and integrity of your being bro...KEEP IT ROLLIN
New subscriber here.. crazy stories..i don't understand how you don't have more subscribers..
Before i was working 1 block away on 48th between 5th and 6th ave. I wrote in another video about how youre an inspiration and i know how hard being open and telling your dark stories on UA-cam. Much respect like always brother. 1 love. Like i said on the other video where u talk about sociopaths u got a fan
One decision , one choice.It really is a miracle you are here.Thank you Aboud for what you are doing to help people consider what one decision can do. God bless you Man.
I felt the same way you did playing the waiting game when I was facing 3-5 years for various thefts that I wasn’t proud to say I committed. I was so fortunate enough that my parents helped me get a decent lawyer and managed to get into a diversionary program. I was nearly one month away from completing my 1 year long probation and then my case would be sealed for good, but I stupidly went and got myself arrested for getting into a fight. Luckily I managed to keep my diversionary program, otherwise I would have still been going to court for the theft charges as well as the assault charges they slapped me with. I thank God every day that He allowed me to continue with my life and receive no jail time. I could have easily spent the last 3-5 years in prison.
30 years down to 3...amazing
You had the berseker rage! Praying for yea and, tough lessons learned.
Aboud... I started recently following you. Incredible content you are posting up. I dig your transparencies and realness. In addition, you are kicking a ton of knowledge. The video you spoke on about raising your daughters with respect and values. After watching a few of your videos, I embrace and appreciate your character. But ofcourse you've gone to the school of hardknocks. Nevertheless, you've made it through the trenches, blood sweat tears and grimey slimey nightcrawlers. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
BROTHER YOU ARE HELPING MANY YOUTHS TODAY with these videos KEEP IT UP and keep it POSITIVE!
@14.20..I understand the rage you express, that is the saddest part, you were brave to fight your own battles against coward bullies yet the system turns against the warrior. Seems like you've been through alot of bad shit that got out of control. Always found it's best to keep to yourself as you get older, alot of damaging cowards around that close ranks. God be with you
Your very very blessed God always seems to have your back! You do have a higher purpose
Good life advice, thank you!
Thank you for sharing .. lots of times our pride and egos we get in the moment .. idk but he attacked you first ... but like you said God looked out
Bro another great story thank You,that's the story of my life some dochebag starting shit with me and me finishing it and then me getting arrested.
And All Praises to The Most High that you evolved into the Man you are today! 💕
There's no doubt in my mind that guy was a bully. He messed with the wrong one - that time. What happened to you happen to brothers all the time. My cousin was 5' 7" 130 pds. He got into a fight with four guys in a garage who were trying to beat his ass. He got the best of them and was charged with attempted murder, aggravated assault, etc .. offered him 20 yrs.
Seems like a clear case of self defense. I understand you may have "taken it too far", but if it happened the way you said the girl should've been evidence of that.
Your a good man I like your vids no BS real talk you do God Bless
It sounds like you were struggling from anxiety or something like that when you didn’t want to socialise, stayed home a lot etc. I’ve had 36 operations including 33 knee operations, a spinal operation called a spinal cord stimulator and an op to put the battery pack for that in my belly. For about 5 or so years I’ve been mostly housebound and now I really struggle with anxiety. Have you got any advice about starting to get my life back on track? I know it’s different circumstances but I was just hoping for a bit of advice. I had my most recent knee operation the end of March and it seems to be doing good for once. I’m currently doing as much physio as I can to get that strong enough so I can physically get out. But the other piece of the puzzle is anxiety. Sorry for my life story but I thought it might help when replying lol. I also have depression but I’m already feeling better and I think when I get a life then that should disappear. I hope you have a great weekend. Messaging from the UK 🙂. Sorry for the essay lol.
you have been through a lot. For me I was much more damaged than just having anxiety. Severe depression and suicidal thoughts plagued me. I felt like I didn't fit in anywhere. It's tough for me to give advice on this because I am still messed up in many ways but i will try. Start by reading and listening to motivational people. Think about what your life has been and what you want it to be. Make the decision that this part of your life is over and that you are ready to move on. Don't worry about what others think, Be yourself in every way and get out there and live life. It is passing us by so quickly and you have already lost years because of circumstance..To lose more by choice is a sad thing. Focus on rebuilding your body while trying to socialize with people who are like minded and not likely to bring you down in anyway. And if you ever need feel free to reach out to me. I will always try to help if i can.
ABOUD Thank you so much for replying Aboud, you seem like a nice guy no matter your life story/your past. I was out today with a guy who struggles with anxiety and lives round the corner. We’ve made the decision to try to help each other and to get out there but not push each other before we’re ready. He’s 33 and I’m 27 soon and he seems like a great guy. Hopefully we can both be that little push the other one needs. Yea it would be sad to miss out on more. I need to not give myself the chance to make excuses not to do things, just say yes and do it 🙂. I’ll look into the motivational books, do you know any good ones? You should do a book on your life, it would probably do well. I’d buy it lol. Either do it as factual or do a book on a character that is based on you and make it seem fictional even if it’s not. Just be careful if you did it as fact if those dirty cops are still trying to pin things on you! I just think your story could help people in that position and as a motivational story to help just anyone. Jadewelch22@gmail.com feel free to reach out if you want. I’ll always be myself, not the most confident person but even I know I’m a great person... Sounds big headed lol. Keep up the great videos and work 🙂.
This was a great exchange
Jordan Cooke I read that and wasn’t sure if you was being serious or taking the piss lol. I hope you have that saying from where you’re from/live... The thing with UA-cam you could be talking to someone from another continent and not know, unless they tell you lol.
Jade Welch Im being serious. You both seem nice and genuine and positive
Thanks for the great content brother I think we're brothers from another mother. You cant predict life don't matter how big or small don't disrespect.. We can figure out a way to fuk u up... Be safe bro
Thank you for sharing!Also,what about the statement of ur friend? I would assume her side of the story would be of huge importance @ABOUD
Dear Sir...given the circumstances, I'm not sure the situation could've been avoided. The only "mistake" was stopping to "stand your ground." No doubt these were the lessons needed so you can reach the rest of us out here and inspire us to not give in to the destructive invitations of the Devil. Even though I do not know you, I have tremendous respect for you and your journey... And the fact that you're a Christian brother even ignites a tinge of bro-love for you. Keep up the good work, dear Sir. Blessings to you and family. ICXC NIKA
Bro, we have so much in common. When I went on my crime spree, I ended up with over $5.75 million in bonds.
New Jersey is the worst state... For gun laws, self defense laws, etc etc. The worst! Happy he didn't die, however in the heat of the moment when a young alpha male is being tested, instincts take over and sometimes you can't control yourself whether you think you can or not. When adrenaline is rushing through your vanes its like no other feeling. I bet if you we're in Texas or somewhere it would have still been bad on your part but not as severe as if you were here. Jersey needs to change ASAP. This story is one of those fucked up situations where one person was initially defending himself from someone who instigated the problem and the instagater ends up cathing the worst of the beating and the defender catches the worst of the legal ramifications. 😔
Thanks sir for everything. May God continue to bless you.
Amazing story. Your should speak to kids in schools. Def could be a movie
that's what that guy gets acting tough
You the man Aboud. Keep up the good work
sean henry Is that an attempt at implying I am middle eastern?
You said it all Bro,,, God had your back,,,, 😁🖒✌🕇⚘
Ain't it crazy how they can spin any story anyway they want? You were a 20 yr old kid. I had a similar encounter right across the bridge in philly at a hs party ended up getting drunk & beating up a cop's kid (unbeknownst to me). That shit still affects me to this day with employment shit I can't even chaperone at my young girls school because I have a violent past. I'm 38 today. Hope some young guys can get something from this because it's really not worth it unless your life's in danger.
Corruption is the scurge of the earth.
Great Video Man. I was Born and raised in Newark NJ...."One wrong action can cost you your life"... I really appreciate the reminder. ?..... What would you advise another man to do when faced with disrespect in public? I recently had a confrontation while driving. Dude said to me "I thought so" after making threat from his car. We came to a red light, I said fuck it, got out the car, my girl tried to stop me, but I was like fuck that, started to approach his car, he sprays me with mace while sitting in his car, got me right in my eyes............ What man carry's mace. But after calming down and able to fucking see again, I realized that could have went so many other ways. He could have had a gun. Ect.... But I as well have a hard time with random disrespect. I want to avoid all drama.
Intense story. But I’m left with a major question. What was the guy’s motive for attacking your car with a bat out of nowhere?
I've never known the answer to that. I never saw the guy before.
ABOUD crazy shit. When you think about it, that guy probably deserved to die. But at the same time thank god he didn’t. I feel your life, these stories and your personality can eventually create something bigger than a UA-cam channel. A book. A movie. Something along those lines
Thanks for the video real life lessons
That's crazy.. Just had my first fight (got beat up) as an adult and I'm 36 years old. Literally was just walking into the Post office and some Huge Black dude walks up to me and asked him why I squirted him???? I tried to tell him It wasn't me but he said I don't play that, and he blocked me so I pushed him and punched him... then I don't know what happened next. I just put my Guard up. Lucky for me he stopped. But I knew he was going to do something, and I wasn't going to win by any means so I got mines off first. LOL
You told the same story in another video but I love your stories an point of you , keep it up
Hey bro, you mentioned in other vids how upsettting it is to lose pets, but do you consider fish on the same depths? I havent had fish sincei was a 8 yr old, had him fir a few weeks and cried my ass off, i loved to feed him andtake care of him. Im sure its much more devastating when you keep fish as large and smart as yours. Thoughts?
And thanks fir the responses man, ik i been asking you a lot of shit for a while lol
It is devastating to me to lose any pet. I have had some fish for many years and it always hurt when they died. For me it was worse with my dogs and cat because the interaction was so much stronger. All my pets are my family though.
I kept getting recommendations to watch your videos. Alot of interesting topics you discuss. As a fellow nj native, did all this shit go down in Passaic and mostly north jersey area?
I had cases in Bergen, Passaic, Hudson, and Middlesex counties.
Its good to see you turned your life around. Your stories really engage the audience and have valuable lessons for those who listen. Keep it up man.
Wait, you said the diamond district. Isnt that the guy called trax on UA-cam?
Tri-State issues.....
Love the New York accent!!
cool story bro
Can you do a video on being sued by the guy? Also, would the girl you were with testify on your behalf? Surely you'd have had a good case with a witness on your side vs this guy on his own.
With perfect hindsight how would you handle this if you had a do over? Knowing he's a buddy of the cops etc...
why did the guy come at you in the 1st place?
probably said something to him at the club tbh
Never know.
interesting story, caught between a rock and a hard place. I was robbed and jumped at my house. i fought back.. i fought back hard.. too hard. the dude ended up looking way worse than me so the cops sided with him even though i had video footage of him punching me first several times mounted on top of me.. apparently once you get up from underneath someone you are no longer within "self defense" hell ya im gonna beat his ass once i squirm out from under him after hes attacked me haha.. did 5 days whatever system is wack and jury people are swayed by D.A's.. luckily the judge had my back was looking at 6 months at first...
I don't know if this is a coincidence or what hell I don't even know if you will read this but your doing the same thing as 23 and one I find that quite interesting
Did u ever find out who this guy thought u were or what set him off to begin with???? Wtf
Hey bro just out of curiosity all the fights you been in... has you been , or have gotten beat? There’s always someone w more skills, bigger and stronger?
I made a video on the time I got beat up in juvenile detention. Wasn't a fair fight though.
ABOUD I just saw it man , karma is a bitch they will get there’s . Keep uploading your videos are really good and interesting man. Congrats on doing well for yourself
Speaking of "implausible" concerning charges, I know what you mean. I was charged with "Burglary" of my own home, lol. Talk about some stupid shit, the Cop got mad at me because I said "F*ck you" and that was it. He looked at me, said "you're under arrest", and I said "For What!!?" He said "Burglary." I said "how the hell can I burglarize my own home!?
If you knew your dog was suffering, would you put it to peace on your own, or take it to the vet and let them do it?
I had to make that decision with my cat and took him to the vet and held him in my arms as he was injected and died...very difficult thing to do.
I did the vet thing. I cried like a baby (not ashamed to say).
Western Kratom I’d definitely go to the vet, yes it costs but you can’t get in trouble for killing it then (I’m from the U.K. so the laws may be different where you are) also I’d hate to worry if my animal was petrified in those moments before you kill it. Just hold him/her, stroke them and tell them you love them. My dogs our family’s baby. Kind of like a cute, crazy little sister in a furry costume lol.
Western Kratom I forgot to say I’m sorry you’re faced with this decision! If there’s something they can do and you can afford it, I’d personally go for it so I know I did everything. But if it’s a choice between keeping them alive longer but them struggling or dying peacefully, I’d go for the latter.
My 2 cents. In the 90's I had a loyal dog I should have been put down. I couldn't do it. Well,one day at work wife called crying that Roxie (my sweet loyal dog) was crying and screeching in pain. She finally died in agony right in front of my devastated wife. It was all my fault,I should have had her put down. I will always regret not doing it earlier.She deserved better. Dont wait if it's time. My 2 cents.
New Jersey doesn't have self defence laws? Thats got to be unconstitutional some how.
I'm confused here. Why wasn't the girl involved in testifying or even pressing charges on the dude? She got hit by the guy initially. I'm really not understanding that part. When the cops showed up they had to see her. Do you guys know?
I did that to 5 guys one night with a 36” aluminum pipe wrench ended with attempted murders, aggravated assault, assault with a deadly weapon.
Sure kid,whatever you say....lol
Nowadays winning a fight is called assault. There would be less dickhead troublemakers if self defence & provocation were considered.
I agree.
Did you ever find out why the guy attacked you?
And beating his ass sounds like the appropriate response to me.
Why did he target you in the first place?
I still don’t know.
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Was the California girl not a witness for you?
She panicked and put her head down and stayed in the car. She gave a statement saying we were attacked and I got out and she didn't see anything more which was true.
Bad buzz. Great videos lad, keep them coming!
Thank you for the support
Thanks
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you said you could be facing 30 years. At such a young age. did you ever think about running to Mexico or another country or was that just never a thought ?
what did your wife ever say about the other girl that you had visit you?
She didn’t say anything. She ended up meeting her and driving her to the airport to catch a flight back to LA.
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I can identify
You never said what was the reason he attacked..
Probably mafia hit. They always hire junkies to do the dirty shit.
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Meth and road rage
I still don’t know.
I'm also wondering about that.
Aboud stated he was really drunk coming out the club and he drove home. Maybe the attacker was road raging because he sensed that Aboud was driving all over the road.
Maybe the other driver premeditated it all.
Why not say you took the chain to pay for the damage to your car?
Did you find out why he even chased you down and bashed your window? And did it matter that the girl was a witness??
I never found out. And she could only say that he broke my windows and started the whole thing. She put her head down and stayed in the car. The fight happened behind my car where she couldn’t see.
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Aye brah what nationality is u
Syrian and Peruvian
I see some ameridian blood in him he definetly an Israelite
crazy story
It was God, brother.
Did you ever find out why he was chasing you?
No
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Sounds fishy to me......cops moonlighting as bouncers, night clubs, violence......and 💎💎💎💎
HOw did it get from 140 years to 3?
I was sentenced to 20 years total for all the cases I had. Watch my other videos where I explain how it happened. It’s a long story.
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You're lucky they didnt nab you fir DUI.
Your stories sounds madd fishy. 1st thing cops asks at that time a day is if you had anything to drink....
I did get charged with that. Ended up beating it because they strapped me down and took blood forcibly without my consent. Nothing fishy about my stories. Everything is on paper and can be verified.
So your lady friend with cuts all over her and a witness bugged out on you ???
She went into shock..put her head down and stayed in the car while the whole thing was happening. She gave a statement about how things started but with the cops lying about things it was not enough.
Maybe if you weren’t drinking and driving this wouldn’t had happen
You are right. I definitely wouldn’t have lost control the way I did if I wasn’t so drunk.