10 Things Elegant Ladies NEVER Wear In Fall!
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- Опубліковано 9 жов 2021
- These are the items that an elegant lady would NEVER Wear in Fall as they are sabotaging the elegant personal brand. If elegance is your goal, get rid of these things asap! Make style changes you’ve been wanting to make with my FREE workshop: nothingtowear.me/
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Thank you for watching! ❤️ Which is your favorite fall wardrobe piece that you wouldn't change for the world? And to learn which fall items are elegant, watch this video next: 7 Elegant Items You Must Own In Fall ua-cam.com/video/6_wJsajqf0E/v-deo.html
Trenchcoat
Cashmere turtleneck
My leather jacket
Shell-coloured sweater, it goes with everything!
Cashmere turtleneck ☕❄
One of the things that makes a woman truly elegant: Books, self confidence, being musical, articulate, knowing social graces and being kind and generous. These are rules for elegance that people dont mention and should mention regularly!
What you said. Elegance also involves naturalness and simplicity. Not trying too hard. There's a certain refinement that is subtle and understated. You can't quite figure out what it is about the woman that makes her so elegant because there's nothing obvious or flashy about her. Think Audrey Hepburn visiting impoverished parts of the world with Unicef. Or Michelle Obama facing rabid critics and haters with grace and intelligence. True elegance depends both on outer things like understanding the cut of a garment, and inner things like composure, grace and dignity. And it will all fall apart if the person is self absorbed, conniving, or unkind. ETA: I didn't actually see anything about "elegance" in the video.
@@IvyRoad I agree with you! It reminds me of Belle (or really any of the disney princess cartoons) from beauty and the beast, how she handles the beast and the way she is so kind and loving to her father...she is extremely elegant in the kind of woman that she is even if shes just wearing a blue peasant dress. It's a lesson that elegance comes from the heart and soul. It is easy to spot but difficult to master.
@@OpiumBride Yes, this influencer is very clear that her goal is to teach women how to land rich men. She's been interviewed about it and that's what this is all about. It's not about elegance at all, it's about dressing yourself to be the woman a rich man wants to have. I can respect her honesty, but let's face it, that is not the same thing as dressing or being elegant.
@@IvyRoad trying too hard could be having 3 bags of bleached hair on your head.
@@IvyRoad yes it’s more advice for call girls probably very useful in that case.
Like others have said, this would be soooo much more help if you provide alternate looks to the bad look.
EXACTLY 💯
She does in the other videos. Check the description of this video
right!!!!!
'Plade' shirt ? Class...
Who care what this diva said , wear what you think is better for you and yours wallet
I live in New England farm country so I'm not giving up my 1940s Woolrich plaid jacket! It's great for pumpkin festivals and trips to the farmers market. I think the secret to elegance is to wear what is appropriate for the occasion, and HOW something is worn is just as important as WHAT is worn
Well said. Fashion sense is very personal.
Fall is Plaid shirts, T shirts with Fall scenes, Jeans. And if you live in the Southland or the West, Western cowboy boots. Great for Fall festivals & bonfires. Anna Bey wouldn't like this. LOL!
Your absolutely correct.
@@moontrucker8939 yes --I just discovered plaid jackets--my first one is SO warm. I look like a pumpkin in it, but I don't care because it's sooo warm
I think class means more attitude than wardrobe. Looking down your nose at people is not classy, it is snobby.
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It is about clothes and attitude. Both.
I totally agree with your comment. This lady have something against people who is not skinny. Watching this video was a totally waist of my time.
Switching off after 10 mins each to their own I guess I wouldn’t wear that lilac knit she has on but I don’t look down on her like she appears to do to others in some of her examples! Bloody rude!!!!
Clothes are meant to express one's attitude
It still boils down to how you carry yourself. I’ve seen very classless women in Gucci and Prada.
Exactly...
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Very true
Hi I'm Loretta De Los Rios using Frank's account to make this comment with his permission .
Karman Jane, that is not the point Anna Bey is talking about. Look at the point..🙏🤲⚘🎶🎷😊
Personality , self esteem and body language speaks volumes regardless of what you wear.
As for the long knitted top/dress, I’m reminded of Tim Gunn saying on Project Runway, “if you have to ask if a clothing item is a dress or a top, it’s always a top.”
lol thats great!
That's good advice!
DESIGNERS!
@@mindy561 😆
That's a great thing to keep in mind, thank you :) I have a long knitted top, but I don't know how to style it elegantly. Do you happen to have one more advice by any chance?
I'm from the UK. Every single thing you've said not to wear, I actually love. I say, wear whatever you want.
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I like cargo jackets but she’s right in terms of elegance it’s not it and sandals in the winter yeah not a good idea But yeah look bulky in a housecoat if you want it’s all up to you you’re the leader of your style choices
That’s exactly women in France , Italy and Switzerland look elegant and the ones from UK don’t
She says all that while wearing a purple sweater with her bright red nail polish 😂 I can tell this lady is the type to judge people as she walks down the street lol
A Malik, you think our Princess of Wales isn't elegant?
For any ladies watching, "basic" is actually a style aesthetic (also mine) so definitely don't feel discouraged. It also depends on how old you are, where you live, what the "style culture" is like there, etc. For instance, the skinny jeans and Chelsea boot combo is my go-to church outfit; it's comfortable, casual yet classy, not crazy and not lazy, and it makes me happy, which is all that matters!
It’s been a classic look for 10 years for a reason.
It is not a classy look! Not for the middle classes.
I wear dresses or skirts to church, I developed a great passion for vintage clothing and the music, so slowly started collecting here and there 30s-50s it’s like playing dress up but it’s not costume just part of my style!
I wear skinny jeans, a blouse, and a moto jacket for Devil worship. It's a dressy casual look that works!
Yes, I'm basic. With inflation and job losses, I'm happy just to have old basic clothes to wear. I mean I would like to get some new pieces, but food and shelter has to come first.
Look appropriate for every activity...My Grandma used to say this and now Mom preaches this.
Couldn't have said it better!
Those were the days!
Wow, you're gorgeous 😍😍😍
How true
Until "every activity" becomes me wanting to snatch off my heels so I can do sporty stuff lol
I would really like these videos to be more like: what NOT to wear in/on ____ and what to wear INSTEAD. ALL in 1️⃣
She does have a what to wear or what elegant ladies wear in fall video. But I would love an updated version. 😍
watch till the end, she said that now that she touched on what not to wear, she'll talk about what to wear in the next video
@@user-ix4nq9yz8k Yes. I saw that. But I prefer these 2 videos to be in 1
@@YACABE I've watched that one. But I would prefer these 2 videos to be 1.
@@heliana25 understandable
The Teddy coat is great for a cozy look. I will never give up mine
You do you girlfriend 😘
I love mine too! It feels like I’m wearing a cloud. I don’t really care what people think, as long as I’m comfy and feel good. ❤️😍
I love mine too, it keeps me warm 😃
@@christinecho779 don't improve yourself
Good for you!!
I love mine too!
Elegance is not about the clothe you wear or how you wear it, its all bout attitude, personality, respect to yourself and others
Wrong, buy yourself a dictionary lol. This video is about how to dress elegantly, not about your personality etc.
...and I'm sitting here, in my cargo jacket, knitting my big scarf 😂
And guess what it’s ok. I love cargo jacket , leggings, and booties. I think some of her rules are unrealistic
@@fashionandluxury101 It also depends where you live. If you live in a large city, those clothes would look out of place but are perfectly fine in the country or in a small town. Cargo jacket is good for hiking so you can keep your hands free but bring little things you will need.
You’re going to look fine, and those clothes make you happy, I think most things she says are ridiculous…she forgets we wanna be comfy and happy even if we’re not Elegant or on trend…..
😂😅Knit away!
@@artwithmamafairybreadd You seem to be on the wrong channel, dear. This is for women who want to be elegant and upgrade their lifestyles. You might prefer the prepper and survivalist channels.
Wear something practically affordable, comfortable, made you feel special and beautiful in your own eyes.
right! even just to be clean is enough
@@lilinew9453 yes, but not enough to be considered elegant. Elegant requires more than just a bare minimum of being clean.
Bingo
@@NATE2905 Not really. Audrey Hepburn is a perfect example of just to be clean cut and simple.
@@irinaivanovic9792 elegance is clearly a subjective matter
As a Canadian, I will never not wear plaid in fall.
Then this channel is not for you my dear
@@EccoLivingLife no need to be extreme. They can follow other rules
same its part of our culture
As a Canadian, I will never ever wear plaid in fall, winter, spring or summer 😅
@@jennv1376 noone says you have to- fellow Canadian here🙂😎
Im short, petite, slim and curvy.
I love a teddy coat and the boxy shape and feel good in clothes that dont hug my shape. If I feel good thats all I care about.
I think your videos are more about attracting a man with feminine attire rather than wearing what you want and making it work for your body.
I think all clothes can work and if you feel good you walk confident and that is then projected.
Elegant ladies in the southern hemisphere watching this and taking notes : ✍👁👄👁
lmaooo
I haven't seen those hideous teddy coats in New Zealand, thank goodness. They look to be made from synthetic fabric which doesn't tick the sustainability box.
Girl 😂 we'll look elevated next autumn
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@@denisegore1884 we've got plenty of other hideous things women wear here though!
I don’t think any clothes can make a person can look elegant. Either you are or you’re not. It’s a soul thing. It comes from inside. Try to match your wardrobe to your personality instead or it will look off. If you’re the girl next door be that a 100% wear jeans and a t-shirt you will be authentic and you will be respected.
I guess her content is not for everyone. It is for people who need to look polished in their workplace or what is more controversial the ladies who want to attract 'affluent men'.
It does not suit my lifestyle either, I love and will wear a lot of the things mentioned in the video but dress elegant when I need to (which for now is rather rare). I pop in here from time to time but I really dislike how she mispronounces some words lmao.
Yes, the right close can make you look elegant. Trust me ;). Anyone can look good 👍.
@@anetabrlikova8454 it depends what each person thinks is elegant… your dress in your picture would not pass elegant for me.
Also Anna’s clothes, for instance I don’t fancy jumper she is wearing in this video. So to say what is elegant and what is not is not that clear cut.
For sure, too revealing clothes are not elegant for me, nor are too flashy, like big brands, visible logos..
So to each their own, even when it comes to elegance.
@@adk5997 Of course, I knew someone is going to comment my profile picture with something bitter hahaha. I only said, that right clothes can make you elegant. 😏
Read again what I said, if you still don't get it.
I did not say : " I think I look elegant in my profile picture"( Although, I think I look great there, ;))
Please, do not misinterpreted my comments.
Have a great day!
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It really depends on the area you are from that affects your style. For example, in the southern part of the US it is VERY hot during the spring, summer, and fall (especially the summer). That's why, if you go there during this time of the year, you will see a lot of people wearing not very "fashionable" clothing. We are literally MELTING from the heat! We tend to lean towards your basic styles, because they tend to be cooler and easier to wear in sweltering temperatures.
Thank you. Yes. It can be humid and almost 90 in November in Texas. I’ve even worn shorts on Christmas Day.
Dracula wants our minds,bodies and souls too. I'm running as fast as I can from this nutty woman.
Reminder : don't compare yourself with others, each of us have our own time on our own phase. We will achieve great things too, but first we have to accept that we're unique in our own way and most importantly we should stop comparing ourselves because it just slows down our process and stops us from really fulfilling our own true potential. Let's keep working hard and take a break too! ✨🦋
Beautiful thought❤️😊
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All your words is so amazing... 😇
Beautiful comment and reminder to celebrate where we are at and embrace out past, present and future as best we can so we can look back three years from now with tears of joy, not regret! 🌞💕
I'm so basic with my Chelsea booties , but the teddy jacket?
Lol I see those boots everywhere, even in my closet
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😂😂😂😂😂sooo funny
I got so mortified when I saw them 😱. Because I just got a pair myself. Makes me just want to go return them tomorrow hahahaha…
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@@Voidzlover no! YOU like them and that’s the ONLY advice you should take.
"You're gonna look short."
I AM short. And I don't really appreciate that being used as a synonym to "unflattering." Or whatever.
I'm short. I'm 4'11. I don't mind looking short because I am. Short shouldn't be an insult.
At 5'3 I agree
Wait a minute... She's trying to say that if you break off the end of your legs and pair with the booties, that it will make you look even MORE SHORT than you already are. You can just look at it and see that it makes sense.
People get offended by everything these days.
Tip #2 is so spot on. I bought this coat a few months ago, wore it to dinner, but didn’t realize until looking at the single photo of the night: I looked three times my size. I have not worn it since.
Thanks for the smile 🤗
They look like the coat ate you!
Only Carrie Bradshaw could wear a coat like this contrasting with the naked dress, so everyone looking at her would not think of the coat. And it’s a fairy tale, in reality, not so many women are Carrie-shaped and Carrie-perfect so as addition of a size or a two won’t mess up the impression.
I just KNOW this one is going to call out my high school stuff. The American rural south can be brutal with the cheap-looking trends at times.
When I was working with the public, I noticed that there were different popular styles for different social classes.
Yes, like the cold shoulder look done present day is an example.
@@mmthomas3729 Absolutely yes. After watching the video, I realize that I didn’t fall victim to as many of these trends as I thought. I guess I was always anti-trend in high school and wanted everything to be “normal” so I don’t look ridiculous in any of these items but I also don’t stand out.
@@nancydegrassi5151 I hate cutouts of any kind but especially on the shoulders or on the waist of skater dresses
“A woman with class is timeless.”
Anna, your videos always bring a smile to my face and it feels like you always bring something I was waiting for. Thank you! ❤️
Wear this not that Anna reid
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I bought a ivory color teddy coat from aritzia and I got it tailored and now I’m obsessed with it. I didn’t want to get rid of the coat because it was boxy because it’s so practical for winter weather in New Jersey.
She is completely wrong on the Teddy coat!!! I've had my Max Mara since 2014. It's alpaca and silk. So warm. Indestructible! It's an icon! That's why it's been a staple of the house since 2013. Shearling dominated the runway this fall. Coats shoes and bags.
I do the boot and skinny jeans outfit a lot with a nice chunky sweater or a nice jacket or cardigan. Men still approach me left & right - and I’m no supermodel but I could give one a run for her money! I feel that as long as your hair is done, your makeup is good, your nails are neat and 🧼 clean, you smell good, and you smile...you will radiate a sensual, feminine aura that men cannot resist even if you’re wearing a trash bag. 😉😉😉
Who has ever met a man in a trash bag? That's what I want to know. 🤦♀️😂
I would not think this way or dress up to look just a sex object to attract opposite sex for sex . In fact I dress up to look good, to feel good. It's about me just myself. Sadly many woman only think sex object about themselves. We should value ourself.
Agreed 👍
@@manikchand7385try it though it’s fun.
Totally agree about the Teddy coat being incredibly unflattering - cozy yes but does no one any favors!
Anna actually says what our mothers used to tell us all the time, I think these advices are universal across time, culture, religion and race. My Asian Indian mom wouldn't approve of all that she doesn't approve of as well! I used to hate her advice, accuse her that she is making me look like grandma. But I think she only was making me look graceful and I was trying to pull off signature looks which was at the end making me look uncultured!
Yes. And it's tricky because we want, when we're young to strike out on our own and be supported while still be given distance and if there's any trauma then that throws off everything.
@@danielleleclair7506 can you explain What do you mean?
I swearr i said the same thing!! And i used to think my mom had no clue of what she was saying
Exactly!
Ikr!
I love plaid in the fall! It is a perfect pairing. I wait for the fall to wear plaid!
Then this channel is not for you my dear
@@EccoLivingLife Apparently Kate Middleton isn't elegant, she loves plaid shirts.
Agree, I too have a fondness for plaid as an accent in fashion. A feminine woman can really pull it off and on the right occasion can look delightful.
Ps Anna's channel is for everyone. It's up to the individual to choose which advice is best for us, we have minds after all and the responsibility to use them.
@@EccoLivingLife Stop putting Anna on a pedestal she's just a human being at the end of the day and tbh I don't find her taste in clothes that great
Living in a warmer climate, where we have a warm or hot Fall season, we do not wear many of the cold weather items. It's a "one season" climate -- warm and humid most of the year. But, if you're traveling or visiting a cooler Fall climate, I wholeheartedly agree with the tips given by Anna.
Certain types of sandals look terrible and flip flops 🩴
@@lmusima3275 - Yes; flip-flops are more appropriate for pool & beach wear (or when gardening). Also, I think open-toed shoes should never be worn unless the feet have been tastefully pedicured.
Anna can you please make us a video how to dress for fall/winter the proper way? Like an updated version. Especially how to combine ankle boots and overknee boots. Footwear during fall/winter in general. Really need this! Thank you for your great videos! You are a true inspiration
There is one already! Posted last year
She said at the end of the video that is her next video
@@vanessajayde she didn't make any such videos.
@@intika4530 I know I have been waiting for it :(
Short sweater dress: “I forgot to put my trousers on” 😂
The funny thing is that I've seen numerous fast-fashion sites showing models wearing sweater dresses that look exactly like a sweater that should be worn with pants.☹️
@@amandazplace5663 that’s the trick- eeverything looks good on models, damn
I truly believed that long sweater, skinny jeans trends died in the 1990's.
That's what I was thinking!
I just tested out one of Anna's thoughts about pinterest, and sure enough when I looked up fall fashion 2022 I got the skinny jeans and booties, the big scarves, the monster boots, the plaid, the oversized coats and sweaters etc.. these super tired looks have been around for over half a decade! So boring and cheap looking! Anna is so right!
I am happy being “basic”, lol!
“No open toe shoes in winter” Us year long flip floppers on the central California Coast…
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My mom is from Southern California and she said she didn't even own closed toe shoes besides her work shoes when my dad moved her to NC 33 years ago. 🤣🤣
Yes!! Exactly.
I live in the south and I never wear flip flops in public unless I am at the beach.
„And we continue to plain Jane land..“ hahahaha that was a good one 🤣🤣🤣 I just love her!!
I love it when you say “it looks weird”. You can’t completely describe what makes it weird but we know it when we see it.
Me..thinking that most of these outfits look super cute 😅😆
Major side note: Anna, have you ever thought about doing a funny story time series or perhaps reacting to fashion faux pas? You are HILARIOUS without even trying to be 😂
Her pretension is always hilarious! Be true to yourself. Life's too short to do anything else.
Agree 🤣🤣🤣🤣
YES I would love to see this!!! She really is effortlessly hilarious! Her reactions always make me laugh. She has so much knowledge, so we'd learn while getting entertainment! ❤
Anna can react to my fashion faux pas. I'm imperfect and have lots of them. I'm unemployed and overweight too, so she can tell me how my look is cheap and what a fashion and body wasteland I am. There's nothing like women supporting women! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
At 7:32 is where she totally had me 😂😂😂
I love how she emphasizes on dressing for your body type, ❤️❤️
I've lived in both warm and cold climates and depending on the weather it also dictates what's needed. If you're going to be outside in 30 below weather making sure your jacket isn't bulky isn't always an opion. And when you live where it's around 80 F in the winter and you're on a beach you're not going to wear closed footwear.
She’s such a character. Love her spunkiness. I agree on all these points.
Me who couldn’t afford clothes “Yeah that looks cheap”.
Hey, I hope thrifting is an option to you. There you can find new looking elegant clothes. I work in an office and all my office attire is thrifted but noone can tell.
@@margaritavalcheva i am wearing a gorgeous vintage thrifted dress right now! You can find wonderful thrifted clothes, even stuff that is normally really expensive. I love the treasure hunt too. 🥰
@@margaritavalcheva No we don't have any thrift stores :(
@@TheAmna_Penguin I am sorry then. :( I understand your struggle. I hope things will get better! ❤
You can try searching the internet for that :)
"Is no bueno!". You got me!
I loved this. It helped me with the fact that I need to get rid of my cheap looking scarves.
And you’re funny Anna😊.
I did the same myself.. the cheap look faux pashminas. Donated!
I have no idea how I ended up on your channel. I had a 2 year old and 9 year old and a husband in the military. If I have time to change my underwear everyday it’s a win lol
I feel attacked with this video 🤣❤️
Elizabeth Young, good evening how are you doing?
Plaid shirt worn under a denim jacket is a good, causal weekend look especially on an autumn trip to the Alps.
Kay Getaway, good evening how are you doing?
agreed. it’s very cute.
Oregon vibes. I love Oregon's forests
The ideal outfit to go outside and chop some wood!
Looks very cheap
Oh my, I love rider boots with tights and plaid shirts. I feel this is more about demeanor. I want to point out some "elegant" women come off basic. People always tell me I'm elegant but I am pretty sure it is because of my mannerism. I sometime go basic but prefer the creative/ cultured splash. It's the personality for me.
And you're totally right ✅️
I am still wearing my Plaid Shackets but thanks 🤣🤣
OMG THE TEDDY COAT IS A CRIME 😂
Really 😁🤣😂🖐️😂
looks like a skinned labradoodle
Finally! Someone was brave enough to say it!
It should be banned along with leggings!
It looks so comfy though 😅
I love cargo in Autumn at the park, walking my beagle on the grass, with a big check scarf, feeling Queen Elizabeth in one of her huge properties 😁
It’s fine if you like basics. Wear what you like and if others don’t like it oh well. As long as YOU feel beautiful in it. This world is forever judging anyway, people wear what you like. We are not all suppose to look alike. Fashion and Style are two different things.
I agree with all....but I still love my plaid shirt so much. So I add a nice belt on it, et voila!
The thing is that most of these clothes are ok for your high school and univercity/college years and the remain in our closets because they're comfy , plain and easy
They are perfectly fine but they dont show any progress
It has to be practical. College professor or college students won’t be wearing Balmain jackets everyday. It’s not practical. ❤️
Its ok to go with child to playground,walk dig,work in garden,run for quick shop for groceries, sit next to fire. For the rest activities, NO
Love your candor and humor. Love how you can laugh at your past mistakes and share your successes. Remember ladies - Auntie Anna is going to be worried for you! 😆
So.... My entire wardrobe?
Anna, when you said, “she’s going to get a bladder infection!” I could not stop laughing! It is so true and awful
When I see this dress I cringe! Especially, on very young girls. Thanks for the information! I’m not sure I can give up the skinny Jean Chelsea boot just yet, I live in the mountains and that’s all ladies wear!
Lots of American middle aged women getting ready to be mad 😂😂🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Middled age here 🤣
Why do you say that? What's middle aged anyway? A lot of women (keyword is women) get complimented all the time on these wardrobe pieces. It's probably just the other way around because they aren't the ones who are mad. =)
💯 😂😂 I’m from America and thought the same thing. 🤣🤣🤣
@@irinaivanovic9792 middle age is from 40 to 65
@@drkufdrahrepus2868 *middle age is from 40 to 65* 65?!?! How many 130 year old women do you know? Average life expectancy for women is 82. She is middle aged at 41.
I even dont watch TV because I learn more from youtube. You are like a bigger sister for me who gives advices that I need❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Ana for the reality check ! We are all guilty of becoming too invested in a look which we convince ourselves looks great, but lacks alternative perspective... I'm tall and slim but am long-waisted and have learnt the hard way to keep the bottom half consistent when wearing black tights.
I’m always trying to level up my image but my husband LOVES when I wear plaid shirts and the all American sort of casual look🤷♀️😂
Plaid shirts are great if worn right. Very American
I have upgraded myself & life SO MUCH since I started binge watching your videos (it was much needed I do so).
1) I invested in some beautiful quality garments, 2) I decluttered my house, 3) I got rid of a man that was wasting my time & energy, 4) I'm loving myself & doing self care again. This is just the beginning, I have long ways to go. But I am confident that by upgrade my life, my inner world and the way I present myself and show up in life, I will attract a great man who will respect me, be proud of me and take good care of me (I do have my own business that i am passionate about and I continue with it). Thank you Anna. You were the boost I needed. This is so much more than just living an affluent life, it's a self care and regeneration from head to toe, and inside out ! Plus the finer things in life 🙏❤ I'm thankful and grateful ❤💕💕
Can I ask why he was wasting your time and energy? Was he not serious about you?
I agree with almost everything here- with 1 exception- open Toe Shoes 🙂 I was born and raised in a cold country, where open toe shoes are a novelty for only a couple months out of the year. Now I live in South Texas. It’s sunny and warm here most months of the year, and I celebrate my open toe shoes as often as possible. With a little thought, and the appropriate climate, they can work in any season❤️
Same in South Florida
I can see how that makes sense, in such a warm place. I'm Canadian, I live on the freezing cold Canadian prairies, where open-toed shoes would only make sense in the summer, but in a warmer place, I can see how it makes sense pretty much year-round.
Well Hello my Fellow Canadian! The 'cold country I was referring to in my OP is Canada! I was born and raised in Alberta! Lived on Vancouver Island before moving down here to South Texas many years ago! I love my open toed shoes, but I do kindof miss wearing boots for longer than a day or 2 in February! You have that advantage for sure! Stay warm my friend! @@Julia-nl3gq
Not with the flannel or plaid. I love it. It is cozy and just good, especially if the cloth used is good
People should give others confidence to be themselves and feel confident in anything they wear. Feeling beautiful comes from within. I’ve seen women wear all these outfits and look absolutely stunning because they radiate beauty from within. Style is an attitude.Let’s not bully people . People should be able to make they’re own fashion choices and have fun with it. It’s not that serious
I agree
I agree. Making fun of others while showing pictures of people wearing these items is a type of bullying and is not elegant at all.
Oh pleeeze! Stuff it!
You have the Elegant Ladies permission to look as fUGLY as you want.
@@zippetydodahday I'm not sure why this came on my feed or why I chose to watch it... I guess because I had never saw anything like this before, but it's shocking to me that people would want fashion advice on what to wear from someone else!? I can't imagine anyone thinking other people's opinions or being stylish is that important!
It'd have been better if the alternatives were concentrated more. Because we can focus on the better outfits and get inspirations too🥰
Agreed
Doubly agreed
true!!!!
Agreed and she never made the video she promised for alternatives even though she said it would be her next video.
Omg, Anna’s thought comment “she’s going to get a bladder infection” when seeing women wear sweater dresses that are inappropriately short. 😂😂😂
this channel cracks me up......I watch it occassionally because it is an entertaining oxymoron
I had flashbacks to my mother when Anna talked about getting a bladder infection 😆
I...i had this feeling too. When i was a student and i was going to supermarket i saw a woman wearing nude tights with somewhat medium length dark blue dress and i thought shes insane man, it was freezing february...!!
Oh man, in the pacific northwest of the U.S. you can see all these in one look.
I agree with most of what she says, but I'm never giving up my skinny jeans and booties!!
about the plaid shirts: some people, including myself, like wearing them for a casual and comfy look. and we like how it’s a little more masculine. masculine isn’t the bad thing, it’s the expectation how women are expected to wear one thing and men another. clothes don’t have gender and a women looking more masculine isn’t a bad thing. people who don’t always try to look elegant like these plaid shirts because they are easy to throw on and can be dressed up a little :)
I love how Anna just said no to the whole american conservative pumpkin spice fall season outfit
😂 I just spit my pumpkin spicy latte! jK, will never drink that aberration of a drink.
I noticed that 🤣
@@morenia20 Just think about how lame it is that you judge someone based on what they like to drink 🥴
I find it so odd that this woman makes videos of how to look elegant yet her hair screams cheap, outdated, overtly bleached early 2000s style. I just want to give her hair a complete makeover to make it look more natural. Nothing screams trashy like bleach blonde hair. The tight curls at the bottom are also terrible and old fashioned.
@@morenia20 You are so different. Not like the other girls🙄
✍️ Point no. 10 - When going outside, don't forget to put on pants . Got it 😅 In these post lock down times you never know actually, I might need a reminder
@@edennis8578 I was horrified to discover that I wore my slippers to a doctor's appointment!
I LOVE LOVE LOVE this woman!! In today’s world where SOOOO many people are afraid of offending others, they dim their opinions and don’t let their individuality shine. This woman right here is 110% her and some people will love her and some won’t. I have a feeling she does not care. She is 110% a FANTASTIC role model for girls and women. Do I agree with her all the time, no. But I would never want her to change. Keep being you Anna!
Happy to see your success Anna. I have learnt so much from your channel. I find I need to come back for a top up and refresh of your good advice and other tips every few months! Keep doing you!!
Some people prefer to look casual and it’s intentional. It’s how they feel, but comparing to celebs and rich rich people ?
Her channel is about looking elegant, not living on a farm. Do as you please.
I know right? the whole sausage legs comment was bitchy
So basically, I’m a basic B because I wear most of this 😂😂
I'm from Mexico and I loved the "Is no bueno"
Anna you're definitely such an inspiration for me, I appreciate all of your teachings with all my heart!
Teddy coat is all what I need for winter. 😁 I'm not a lady, I'm a boss
My Max Mara coat is a classic! I will never stop wearing it! You are a boss!
As someone with a Max Mara Teddy in beige for apres-ski purposes…. Oh, well 🤦🏼♀️
I find I can make it look almost elegant if I pair it with my usual classic style. It’s all in the styling and colour.
Unfortunately, wool/cashmere coats just don’t cut it in -40 degree weather for me, even with layering.
P.s. North American ladies, if you’re looking at Max Mara (The Manuela is really quite elegant), try either buying it yourself in Europe or having a friend do so… excellent quality that lasts a lifetime for almost 3/4 of the NA retail price. 💕
exactly! in places like Canada or Norway chic goes out of the window but warmth is essential
I think the teddy coat can look sooo chic! Definitely didn’t agree with a lot of Anna’s points in this video.
Best place is to buy it is Switzerland where its warm enough for Swiss weather. Max mara coats in the UK are ridicously thin. But agree, they are three times the cost in Australasia!
I also own a Teddy coat, and I find it very elegant when styled appropriately ... I think it’s way better then a puffer and it a great alternative for people ho don’t want to wear fur jackets or puffer jackets when it’s very cold. I agree whit Anna that a very difficult piece to style an the quality counts because it might look very cheap but I think I will keep being elegant event with my teddy !!! I just try to style it as a fur coat and it works!
I love the Teddy coat! I did a winter coats video styling it and in my opinion it looks very elegant. As you say when worn in a classic way x
Anna, that lilac shade from your sweater looks so gorgeous on you!!! It's such a beautiful color .
Omg, so relieved there was a caveat for the bootie w/skinny jeans!
As someone tall, with long, slender legs, I’m going to keep wearing mine all through Winter 😂
I wish my mom taught me some Basic rules for styling. But I am so glad I have all od these videos to go to 💗💗 thank you for all of your hard work, and making us look elegant 🌹
I hate going to find fall outfit inspo bc these looks are flooded on social platforms. Do you have a list of feminine ladies you’d recommend for style inspo? Thank you Ana
Look for shirinatra, maybe is not your style but you can still give it a try
Highlowwlux is great
@@fers4822 jumping in and saying thank you for this suggestion. I subscribed to her youtube.
@@mzzzd818 thank you, I loved this one too. I subscribed.
Style Pantry is my go-to.
This video could also be titled “How not to be basic in fall”. I love it 🥰
I’m not necessarily elegant, but I hate being basic
Agreed I am guilty of the knee highs with jeans/leggings. When I am trying not to be basic i switch it up add a belt and nice high heeled knee high boots. I don’t feel basic anymore. Always add some pizazz if you don’t want to look basic. Plus if your hair, nails are done in an elegant way you are already not basic. It’s the whole vibe y’all you can bring elegance to any style it’s how you carry yourself. Have fun with your clothes just have elegance as the underlying theme.
I looooove your NB profile pic
She knows nothing about style. Look at that hideous purple sweater.
@@TrumpyBooden Thank you!!! Looks like it came from K-mart.
@@AccessoriesAddict5528 that color is not it 😆
Haha she basically said every item that exists in my wardrobe and my whole style is "not elegant" :D
I feel that way as well.
I have a very diminutive stature, and I'm lucky if I can find clothing outside of a children's department much less flattering & elegant!
You just described 90% of what is sold in American shopping malls. Add to that the hundreds of casual shirts with logos and graphics plastered all over them.
I don’t think those are Chelsea boots, they’re booties and they’re out of fashion in that style, anyway. I love actual Chelsea boots! :)
When I think of Chelsea boots, I think of a sleeker boot with a flatter heel.
Me too! I love Chelsea boots! 💖
Yes me too!
This lady does not know what chelsea boots are but is trying to lecture people on what to wear and what not 🤦🏼♀️
@@SimpleeKomplex exactly
It is hard sometimes to follow her advise , I am a salon owner cosmetologist and barber, but I still try, and I love her !
That's when we take her advice to dress appropriately for the activity we are apart of. But outside of your work be that elegant sophisticated lady you know you can be. ❤
OMG! Love this video. I am getting back into the workforce and want to look more elegant and feminine. The struggle is real. I hate plaid, shorts etc. All of these things made perfect sense for me because I am short and curvy. So, seeing these inspiration images on pinterest is frustrating. 😂
You are so entertaining, Anna! Love how you infuse humor to your content, while still being super informative.
She is rude and judgemental!
Your comment is exactly what I also think! I am never offended by Anna! 😊
I would love to see images on how to wear items in a better way. Like the booties in number one. Do you mean wide leg trousers? What about with skirts?
She shows us in her other fall video!
Booties aren't flattering with skirts because they visually chop your leg. Better hidden under long trousers.
Anna, can you please do a video on how to be elegant while living an active lifestyle? What clothing is appropriate in the gym? What types of fitness or activity-related photos are flattering to post on social media? Is it worth it to attend an elite gym?
Yes please!!! Need some guidance on this!!! Hate tacky workout clothes!!
To be fair, those pumpkin spice latte girls are usually well taken care of, either by parents or their husbands. 😆
That lifestyle is actually more obtainable by Anna’s following/students than dressing like an elegant 30 year old at 19 at the junior college.
Yes! I asked my guy friends about the basic leggings look and each one loves it. Guys (American) aren't really going for overdressed girls. I've had men approach me when I'm wearing a sweatshirt and jeans.
@@bamafencer12 Ikr? Men approach when I think I m on my worst day it's interesting 🙃
I am learning so much Ana but here in Texas, it is really hard to do classy fashion especially in fall and winter. lol
So true! Lived in Texas for most of my life and now am in Oklahoma, so I get it. We had a nice cool down earlier this week but now it’s back in the 80’s. 🙄
My goodness, I leave YT for a while, return, and Hurrah!! - Anna has 1 million subs!! Congratulations Anna!! This is a testament to all your hard work and excellent content.
Personally, I have loved watching your personality shine through more and more over time. You prove that one can be elegant, yet still be themselves. Thank you!
I noticed the same. She’s glowing with confidence and happiness.she’s her own business card.
I had a the teddy bear coat in brown in winter 2019 I brought at Target for the company holiday party and I took a picture with my co-workers and I was horrified on how I look! Everything you stated on the teddy bear coat is true and sold it on Poshmark. I was trying to look like a Max Mara ad and it failed
I sold my too.. useless too big and not comfortable and giving 20 kg more
I feel ya...it looks so bulky too
Because Teddy is for skinny people only
😂 awwww
I love Max Mara Teddy, but I am not so skinny anymore I used to be. So I don't use it anymore.
I'm so relieved to hear your opinion on the "Teddy" coat. I have always thought it was just an excuse for some women to wear their robe all day.