7 Reasons You Should Quit Facebook | Negative Effects Of Social Media

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  • @RealMenRealStyle
    @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +131

    If you're not paying for the product, you are the product.
    facebook.com/help/delete_account - #QuitFacebook Here
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    Video Summary:
    1:49 - Disable Notifications
    2:25 - Maximize Your Privacy Settings
    3:00 - Unfriend Useless Friends
    3:47 - Get Rid Of Useless Information
    4:44 - Change Your Password Frequently
    5:16 - Delete The App From Your Phone
    5:50 - Outsource Your Page Management
    7:07 - Quit Facebook

    • @sujayc27
      @sujayc27 7 років тому

      Real Men Real Style love watch ur vdo....

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +1

      Thank you Sujay!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +1

      Awesome!

    • @suhilkoul4850
      @suhilkoul4850 7 років тому

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    • @5easy
      @5easy 7 років тому +13

      but im not paying you either

  • @SergioTheGreat100
    @SergioTheGreat100 7 років тому +1229

    I quit facebook three months ago and it really made my daily life lighter and happier

    • @NwoduTochi
      @NwoduTochi 7 років тому +7

      Sergio welcome on board

    • @JRSnyderJrAZ
      @JRSnyderJrAZ 7 років тому +36

      I quit 7 years ago and I haven't missed it. You won't either.

    • @eyeheartsushi2212
      @eyeheartsushi2212 7 років тому +33

      Sergio I quit FB almost 3 years ago. Figured real friends could always reach me by phone or text. No regrets.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +31

      Glad to hear that!

    • @jordanaragon3732
      @jordanaragon3732 7 років тому +33

      AON2013 I quit life 15 years ago and now I watch youtube videos

  • @steviewondoo9275
    @steviewondoo9275 7 років тому +665

    One good friend is better than the hundred fake ones

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +52

      Precisely!

    • @jahjoeka
      @jahjoeka 7 років тому +14

      Steven Remias but if u lose that good friend you're fucked.

    • @besana8452
      @besana8452 7 років тому +28

      Dalmain J He is more fucked with hundred fake ones.

    • @susanfeldstein8960
      @susanfeldstein8960 7 років тому +8

      Steven Remias Also, if you lose that one good friend, that "good friend" wasn't a good friend at all. I've deleted my facebook account 3 times over the past 4 years and have stayed off for months at a time. Definitely great advice. Second best advice aside from deleting your account is turning off notifications!! Those are seriously annoying.

    • @susanfeldstein8960
      @susanfeldstein8960 7 років тому +8

      Dalmain J Wrong. Just shows the person wasn't such a great friend after all. Social media is far from what it's cracked up to be! It can ruin more than friendships especially when you can't do anything without the need to constantly check your phone. I grew up without all this technology and because of what I see it doing to people, (i should say, what I see people letting it do to them) I think it would be great for all of it to automatically shut down and only go on for an hour or two a day, everyday. I'd be willing to bet that people would go back to real humanity and be "real" again.

  • @lilacdreamstation
    @lilacdreamstation 7 років тому +308

    I have no social accounts besides UA-cam. I used to have a Facebook and Instagram but I deleted both of them since they caused a lot of stress and I have a bad habit of comparing myself to others. I've never viewed social media as a godly thing so I really don't care if I have a social media account or not. I've been a lot happier since I've deleted all my accounts besides this one ♡

    • @eddiem4868
      @eddiem4868 6 років тому +5

      Julia Renee constant fight with my wife about dropping social media. She is beyond programmed at this point to leave

    • @desertodavid
      @desertodavid 6 років тому +11

      Julia Renee Bravo! I was off social media totally for almost 2 years because my computer was down and I didn't have an iPhone iPad or any other eye thing. When I got back online I found I had not missed one single thing. As king Solomon said there is nothing new under the sun.

    • @THEBalckOrchid
      @THEBalckOrchid 6 років тому +4

      UA-cam is a social media tool also.. they data-mine also. Just say'n! Just watch vids without logging on if you want to be free completely..

    • @unicorntomboy9736
      @unicorntomboy9736 6 років тому +8

      Julia Renee I am thinking about deactivating my FB account soon

    • @zinsy23
      @zinsy23 6 років тому

      Do you have Google+ still?

  • @sweetheartmegz
    @sweetheartmegz 7 років тому +55

    I quit Facebook a year ago & haven't looked back! I felt so much better & still try to convince my family they are better off without it

    • @CologneXCandles
      @CologneXCandles 6 років тому +4

      Mae Michelle I tried to convince my girlfriend so many times, 😂 but she isn’t seeing it how I am. O well!....people gotta learn the hard way.

    • @teccash3507
      @teccash3507 3 роки тому

      True indeed

    • @spiritman8888
      @spiritman8888 3 роки тому

      Good work

  • @Mark-sn6kh
    @Mark-sn6kh 7 років тому +168

    Deactivated mine almost 2 years ago now. No regrets. Everyone I care to talk to are people who I have phone numbers for. Realized I was spending time reading about people's lives from high school that I haven't seen in years. Huge waste of time.

  • @Thomas8892Q
    @Thomas8892Q 7 років тому +178

    I quit FB years ago. It created such negativity in my life.

    • @ujjwalbisht.8539
      @ujjwalbisht.8539 7 років тому +10

      Jason Blackwood good decision friend

    • @Thomas8892Q
      @Thomas8892Q 7 років тому +7

      Ujjwal Bisht it was. FB is imho very evil. It's too big brother.

    • @freesaxon6835
      @freesaxon6835 7 років тому +1

      JoJoe MC hmmmm ironic comment ?

    • @aqua0811
      @aqua0811 7 років тому +16

      Kudos to you. Same here... I was like asking myself "Why the heck am I reading other people's crap" when I already had so much to deal with...

    • @Thomas8892Q
      @Thomas8892Q 7 років тому +7

      ***** totally agree. I don't miss any of the drama FB creates

  • @DaveBeutler
    @DaveBeutler 6 років тому +35

    I quit years ago. It was very liberating.

  • @carolinej267
    @carolinej267 7 років тому +34

    I Quit Facebook last November after wasting 9 years using the site. It is truly a cess pit of the worst of human behaviour and I am so happy to no longer be part of the charade! Leave the site and be free people :)

  • @anthonycamacho9194
    @anthonycamacho9194 7 років тому +127

    I quit facebook 1 year ago and it really made my daily life happier.

  • @erminaimamovic7917
    @erminaimamovic7917 7 років тому +117

    I quit facebook a few months ago. Don't miss it at all. I'm at peace! Feels amazing 😊

  • @emperorreign6154
    @emperorreign6154 7 років тому +15

    Gave up almost a year ago. Best decision I ever made. Since then, I've managed to improve so much of my life, and have even managed to get into college to study law. Something I didn't even know I was passionate about nor even know I wanted to do until I quit it. Trust me, it's more than worth getting rid of.

  • @brinsonharris9816
    @brinsonharris9816 6 років тому +4

    I lost a friend to a heart attack last year. She was 57 and had been in declining health the last few years, and had been hospitalized several times. Her daughter notified me first because I was the only one of her friends to actually visit her in the hospital. The rest sent fb notes or texted, and she had over 400 fb “friends.” I quit fb in 2013. I miss my friend, but not fb. If your friend is in the hospital, go visit them and leave fb and texting out of it. Miss you, Lydia.

  • @SeVinKru3ger
    @SeVinKru3ger 7 років тому +172

    I got off Facebook 6 months ago, I regret nothing...... I hated seeing peoples children, food they eat, where they are at & seeing their shitty opinions on everything, plus I didn't like how people thought they knew me because we were friends on FB. I don't care to see most people I knew in elementary school or any of my ex-girlfriends lol, I feel free'r since I left.

    • @kjsfl386
      @kjsfl386 7 років тому

      Julie S And that's important?

    • @kjsfl386
      @kjsfl386 7 років тому +3

      Julie S ohh. lol. I hate Facebook too.. I never saw the point.

    • @SeVinKru3ger
      @SeVinKru3ger 7 років тому +1

      I knew you were being sarcastic LOL..... Grilled Cheese, I'm the master at those, I don't need FB for that lol.

    • @paulh7589
      @paulh7589 7 років тому +1

      Some relationships belong in your past.

    • @beautifulwonderful4391
      @beautifulwonderful4391 2 роки тому

      But if you didn't care to see those people you didn't have to have them all your friends list. You could have had Facebook and still not see those people.

  • @MrJ3
    @MrJ3 7 років тому +224

    The worst part is, Facebook actually cuts your ties with the people you don't agree with FOR you. It takes into account how much you interact with your friends, and filters out those who you seemingly have nothing in common with. This leads to people only being spoonfed the same old thing over and over from friends with whom they share similar ideas. It leads to a climate where people's perceptions are never challenged or questioned, and people become worse critical-thinkers.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +50

      Solid comment Eeriewolf!

    • @Sercil00
      @Sercil00 7 років тому +18

      I also think it's a problem being constantly showered with praise for everything you post.
      It's proven that echo chambers like these slowly shove people across the political spectrum towards the closest extreme position. And we are in desperate need to stop this.

    • @TigerTT
      @TigerTT 7 років тому +2

      Facebook and common core both aim for the same result: To limit peoples thinking lol

    • @mohammedalfqe7417
      @mohammedalfqe7417 7 років тому

      Eeriewolf 👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @gladysgardiner3340
      @gladysgardiner3340 7 років тому

      mohammed alfqe

  • @brunettesweetie21
    @brunettesweetie21 7 років тому +54

    I haven't had facebook for a few years.. not sure why I would want people i'm not even friends in real life with anymore to know so much about my life?

    • @antoniovelazquez6021
      @antoniovelazquez6021 6 років тому +1

      Cuz they like stalking you!

    • @carmelitagood3384
      @carmelitagood3384 5 років тому +1

      You have a good point there but my own relatives don’t bother with me in person nor on FB. What’s with that? I am a very nice person to know.

    • @ForEver-pd5uk
      @ForEver-pd5uk 3 роки тому

      At the moment 2021💯

  • @erakkovaatainen148
    @erakkovaatainen148 5 років тому +2

    I had over 50 friends at a time on my Facebook. Year ago I deleted it and ended having just one real life friend, and we made our friendship stronger than ever, because I no more waste my precious time on Facebook, but improving me and my life. This way all relationships becomes stronger, like never before, walk out from social media. Nothing to miss!!!

  • @sandy-k1n
    @sandy-k1n 7 років тому +150

    I quit Facebook 2 years Ago and is the happiest person! Facebook is really Fakebook!

    • @Swingman30
      @Swingman30 6 років тому

      sandra kitwana Facts

    • @ranee5019
      @ranee5019 6 років тому +4

      Same here. Quit Facebook 2 months ago and I don't even wanna go back

    • @mikec360
      @mikec360 6 років тому +1

      Real talk!

    • @dylantrott18
      @dylantrott18 6 років тому +4

      UA-cam is happiness

    • @inyaface3145
      @inyaface3145 6 років тому

      Ill try that :) thanks

  • @18ormorexox
    @18ormorexox 7 років тому +120

    I haven't had Facebook for about 5 years. I'm proud ✌🏾

  • @SeanDaWhiteBoy
    @SeanDaWhiteBoy 7 років тому +36

    I left Facebook 2 years ago, the only benefit I've noticed is my phone battery lasts a day now.. lolll

    • @christinemalary
      @christinemalary 3 роки тому

      Haha! I didn't even think about it, but I don't have social media either, and my battery lasts all-day 🤣 my phone used to die at least twice a day.

  • @TheThinkerBodyMindSpirit
    @TheThinkerBodyMindSpirit 6 років тому +6

    When I deleted my facebook years ago.. I felt like I am Free.. so much happiness and innerpeace..until now ..

  • @FrancoisEdmondOfficial
    @FrancoisEdmondOfficial 7 років тому +15

    I deactivated my account and I must say, it does make a huge positive difference in my life. Seriously!
    500+ friends, 90% strangers? My true friends have my phone number and I have theirs. I keep it simple, no social media at all. No Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat...

  • @MrTehoTeho
    @MrTehoTeho 7 років тому +69

    I quit Facebook already in 2009. Best decision ever.

  • @livercat8817
    @livercat8817 7 років тому +41

    i remember the miserable facebook days. Waste of time and energy..but great for advertisers.

  • @Satan97458
    @Satan97458 6 років тому +28

    I just left Facebook yesterday and deactivated my account. And I couldn't feel any better it made me less focus on work and life and now I'm more focus is my life and work.

  • @kermit1
    @kermit1 7 років тому +206

    I think you should have titled this '7 reasons you should quit social media'. I find Instagram far worse than Facebook due to all the people putting up fronts like their lives are perfect when they're not.

    • @slimb0b
      @slimb0b 7 років тому +14

      I agree. Social can be a consuming disease and especially for young people / young minds who are still developing. Its created a new angle to old mental health / social problems (peer pressure, identity issues, anxiety etc).

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +44

      I wanted to pick on Facebook - but yea, could have applied to any!

    • @Flascoexp
      @Flascoexp 7 років тому +3

      kermit1 I have seen people constantly post about bad things in there lives which causes people to ignore. I believe there should be a balance between the two, shows that you go through hardship but, you find the best in it as well.

    • @NTGNatural
      @NTGNatural 7 років тому +24

      All social media is bad but at least IG is kinda just pictures... FB is nothing but drama filled statuses from miserable baby mamas

    • @alexthomas7556
      @alexthomas7556 7 років тому +12

      Totally agree, I quit Facebook 2 years ago and Instagram 2 years ago but was on and off until I deleted it 3 months ago. I was addicted to both for years and realised that I missed out on so much. Took me 2 years to kinda catch up to my friends.. I'm still slightly behind but maybe in 3 - 5 years I'll be ahead of them.

  • @Salsa-Lizano
    @Salsa-Lizano 7 років тому +54

    Glad i quit social media 7 years ago.
    You realize who's real and who's not so quick. People really think they have over 100 friends who care about them but they really don't.

    • @feedyourfaith7392
      @feedyourfaith7392 7 років тому +12

      Lizano right Fake book fake friends fake prayers and a lot of sad news and the devil is using it as a play ground

    • @Jaihanumanjikijai706
      @Jaihanumanjikijai706 6 років тому

      Very true

    • @nicholasw49
      @nicholasw49 6 років тому

      Lizano p

  • @moxie997
    @moxie997 7 років тому +6

    Wow this is good! I quit Facebook a few weeks ago for 18 days, then reactivated my account. It was so worth it. Now I am attempting to only use it to connect with my Groups once a week. These hacks are very helpful, thank you.

  • @64maxpower
    @64maxpower 7 років тому +65

    but how will everyone know what I ate for lunch. if I don't post it on Facebook???

    • @streetlight2089
      @streetlight2089 6 років тому

      Whelp you can mail um some dirty toilet stinky stool and let them fight over it and they will make you a hero on fb

    • @alexanderbhartley5549
      @alexanderbhartley5549 6 років тому +2

      HA!HA!Ha!ha!!!

    • @paladindragoongirl18
      @paladindragoongirl18 4 роки тому +1

      Danny Gomes I never understood why people check in on Facebook at all. I’ve done it once or twice, but are people stupid? Does it ever occur to them that there might be others who are tracking down their every move? For all they know, someone out there is stalking them. People on Facebook are making themselves EASIER TO TRACK DOWN.
      DON’T CHECK IN! End of story.

  • @FidaAifiya
    @FidaAifiya 7 років тому +539

    i quit facebook and started youtube addiction

    • @steveeab2364
      @steveeab2364 7 років тому +8

      same

    • @xpx390
      @xpx390 7 років тому +18

      I'm addicted to UA-cam as well.

    • @FidaAifiya
      @FidaAifiya 7 років тому +2

      COOKIE what's your favourite channel?

    • @victorcousin8059
      @victorcousin8059 7 років тому +5

      same here. I'm a UA-cam fan

    • @victorjo7918
      @victorjo7918 7 років тому +41

      UA-cam is useful at least,watched a lot of tutorials that helped me and a lot of other things like listening to a good song from time to time for relaxation.Everything on Facebook seems fake.

  • @claytonbryan6257
    @claytonbryan6257 7 років тому +152

    I can't stand Facebook removing it from my life best thing ever

  • @user-or1ye3iz6d
    @user-or1ye3iz6d 5 років тому +3

    I got so disgusted by the endless narcissistic selfies certain "friends" would post. It bothered me so much! I noticed that I didn't really feel good on fb. It caused anger, low self esteem, jealous tendencies, fake surface relationships, addiction to checking notifications which fed my own self-centeredness. I just deactivated my account tonight. I know I will go through a few days of withdrawals after all these years. But I really look forward to healing from all that negativity in my life. It's not who I really am. I look forward to being so much more present and actually living my real life. Not the fake BS on fb. Yay!!! I feel free already.

  • @godstomper
    @godstomper 7 років тому +61

    ill give you one reason, no privacy

  • @cameronalexander359
    @cameronalexander359 7 років тому +19

    Nothing will make you more unhappy than comparing yourself to others. Just do what makes YOU happy.

  • @rifatrichie10
    @rifatrichie10 7 років тому +364

    Life was good back in early 2000s, Now everything sucks. I'm 26 but i think i should've born in the 70s

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +47

      I know what you mean...

    • @duanebarry2817
      @duanebarry2817 7 років тому +24

      I wouldn't go that far. People have many more choices today on how to spend their time and energy. Unfortunately, most people spend their free time staring at a 5"x3" screen.

    • @thawtar682
      @thawtar682 7 років тому +16

      Yeah, I am also 26 and I know how funny and interesting life was, during 2000s. Old golden ages.

    • @ghenulo
      @ghenulo 7 років тому +2

      Ich wurde in den 1970ern geboren. Ich habe ein Facebook-Konto.

    • @jimini1976
      @jimini1976 7 років тому +21

      I'm almost 41, The 80's were the best. My dad would say the 60's were the best. :) I stopped social media 10 yrs ago when everyone was on myspace.NO facebook etc. I only watch youtube and rarely leave comments.

  • @Mrbb33399
    @Mrbb33399 7 років тому +68

    Great job everyone for quitting Facebook! keep this movement going! Why stop there? I might even toss my phone in the garbage! Get rid of everything that's annoying..... I wish.

    • @Jaihanumanjikijai706
      @Jaihanumanjikijai706 6 років тому +1

      Me too

    • @AC-ny1di
      @AC-ny1di 6 років тому +2

      Reaper 999 Dear Everybody. If anybody breaks into your house, goes through you personal details Family friends children.Your sensitive data.Well this has been done online Now would you approach the court or the police station.Common sense

    • @AC-ny1di
      @AC-ny1di 6 років тому +1

      manekk m Dear Everybody. If anybody breaks into your house, goes through you personal details Family friends children.Your sensitive data.Well this has been done online Now would you approach the court or the police station.Common sense

    • @brentjames6410
      @brentjames6410 5 років тому

      They disabled my Facebook account ppl are so sensitive online

  • @rang123yea5
    @rang123yea5 7 років тому +35

    ever see a table of four people out to dinner all on their phones? Nothing today makes someone more antisocial than social media!!

  • @Yassss-rj9zf
    @Yassss-rj9zf 7 років тому +63

    I got on FB on 2015...stayed on for 6-7 months...too negative for me...I hated it!!

    • @lisafransis5005
      @lisafransis5005 7 років тому +2

      Jennifer Allen You're so right

    • @anonb4632
      @anonb4632 7 років тому +4

      Jennifer Allen It polarises people.

    • @loursfloral5409
      @loursfloral5409 7 років тому +17

      Yes same for me. It's dangerous for privacy, it changes your priorities, it creates an insane competition mood, and you loose true values of true relationships.

    • @lisafransis5005
      @lisafransis5005 7 років тому

      le melomiel. Exactly

  • @oneyedjake4768
    @oneyedjake4768 7 років тому +47

    I dumped FB in 2011, have not missed it all.

  • @MsDianneMaryWilkerson
    @MsDianneMaryWilkerson 5 років тому +3

    I quit periscope for a year and did not go back it was addicting. I then stop going on social media which took my anxiety away. I do not watch TV at all and I go on You Tube once in a bit. I do not go on Facebook at all since 3 years. I have notice more people that quit social media started to not have depression and anxiety. I read the bible which has changed my life and I have learned that I can live without many things that I thought I needed. I also lost 45 lbs my life has changed for the better since I go online less.
    True at first it is painful like an ache but it goes away eventually. I now help people quit social media which now most of them started offline businesses.

  • @ELCNUmorFnaMehT
    @ELCNUmorFnaMehT 7 років тому +8

    I tried Facebook for a week a couple of years ago and then swiftly deleted the profile. The idea of 'friending' people, liking comments and splashing photos of myself on the internet never really held any appeal, plus I've seen first hand how toxic the website can be with friends and family.
    Unfortunately, because I don't like to advertise my life to everyone society has now branded me a weirdo as a result.

  • @saggre
    @saggre 7 років тому +63

    I never quit facebook, I just kind of gradually stopped using it.

    • @pesiuber
      @pesiuber 7 років тому +3

      Irving MacBrynleigh Jr. me 2

    • @GilbertDenila
      @GilbertDenila 7 років тому +3

      Cool.I changed my settings to notifications; I whittled down friends from 600+ to just about 100 and these are ONLY professional colleagues and family members, the people I know one-on-one. I visit the page once in a week.

    • @sheltered_k
      @sheltered_k 7 років тому

      Irving MacBrynleigh Jr. same here.

  • @CelticSemperTyrannis
    @CelticSemperTyrannis 7 років тому +108

    deleting the fb app from my phone was the best thing I've done

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +9

      Great to hear!

    • @headofthetable5369
      @headofthetable5369 7 років тому +1

      Celtic704 That's what I did

    • @beanzz786
      @beanzz786 7 років тому

      I did that and substituted it for something else

    • @nguyenbinhphuong1491
      @nguyenbinhphuong1491 7 років тому

      Celtic704 me too

    • @tomthomasjohnpaulmooremawr3014
      @tomthomasjohnpaulmooremawr3014 7 років тому +2

      hello. i use the web browser on my phone in computer mode.. much more contol over menus + no notification.. good day and sorry if you now know you can still acces that facebook hype.

  • @IsaacLarrier
    @IsaacLarrier 6 років тому +3

    I've been through hard times, coping with depression, and as a part of my therapy I decided to deactivate my accounts. I will reactivate them someday, but I was really needing a timeout.
    And just as you said, people who really care about me are always reachable on the phone, so no big deal!

  • @ananimity7332
    @ananimity7332 7 років тому +7

    I left FB almost 3 years ago and I don't regret it in the slightest. It's just a gossip, drama and vent board. I don't even think about it now. I'm happy I did it.

  • @poolboyinla
    @poolboyinla 7 років тому +184

    Truly one of the most valuable videos you have ever done. 👍🏻

  • @oscardavila8653
    @oscardavila8653 7 років тому +32

    I haven't actually quit facebook yet, but I log in only like once a month or once every two months and I have been doing this for the past 4 years or so. I only have like 50 friends most of them are family members. I have a twitter account but I never use it. I don't have a snapchat, instagram or any of all that crap that most people my age use all the time. All these social media is just not for me. The only one I use is YT. I must be weird.

  • @TheScoutPlay
    @TheScoutPlay 7 років тому +16

    I quit Facebook because it really doesn't have anything useful for me, especially regarding the comments. It seems that Facebook creates this illusion that you can take part in actual online conversations and debates. However, anything you write will be subject to temporary public attention, no matter if it's positive or negative, and since it's all quite accessible, and programmed and designed for you to continue reading, any comment you might read or post will not add anything new, or help you understand things better, no matter what it is, mainly because Facebook is a very personal space, and people want to feel at home, or at least comfortable enough to say whatever they want, which might include politics, entertainment, personal life, or whatever, which makes "conversation" and "debates" tremendously difficult to go on without a troll or simply a very stupid person who doesn't understand the shit he drops on his toilet to butt in and change the course of what could be a good time. When that doesn't happen, people fill the section with ridiculously large comments, which nobody will be able to read and process, since there are so many of them (and let's face it, you're doing it for the likes, and nothing else).
    My point is: I quit Facebook because it's not social, and neither is it fun to use. It's a waste of time, it lessens the value of real sociability, and makes you think you're part of something bigger than yourself, and that is clearly no the case. Think I'm wrong? Just take a look at the comments, especially in pages directed to politics, and then you'll see what I'm talking about.

  • @rahultandukar
    @rahultandukar 7 років тому +404

    says quit fb.
    and links their fb page 😂😂

    • @BigChrisENT
      @BigChrisENT 7 років тому +3

      RahulTandukar Official lol

    • @KeyJM
      @KeyJM 7 років тому +5

      RahulTandukar Official buuaahhahahaaaa

    • @conchaquat6277
      @conchaquat6277 7 років тому +9

      RahulTandukar Official The irony is strong... I DETECT IT!

    • @rahultandukar
      @rahultandukar 7 років тому +1

      NeonExtraSir Ahahaha

    • @rahultandukar
      @rahultandukar 7 років тому +8

      Lol Scroll down in the description, 'it says "LIKE US ON FACEBOOK"
      U Dumb?

  • @andyhoffman8384
    @andyhoffman8384 7 років тому +5

    I stopped using Facebook a number of months ago and I've seriously never felt happier. One of the best decisions I've made! Now I don't have to read about people my age complaining about how hard or unfair life is and doing nothing about it!

  • @reem_obaila
    @reem_obaila 7 років тому +4

    I actually deactivated my account a while ago and i'm so relaxed from peoples lives. Now i sticked on youtube lol though it is much useful ^_^

  • @J3551CA
    @J3551CA 7 років тому +15

    I quit like 4 years ago... I only talk to like 10 of my old fb friends now lol. Ppl honestly think you are shady af if you don't have fb tho.. it's annoying.

  • @Ahmad-cj4ef
    @Ahmad-cj4ef 7 років тому +25

    I never created a Facebook ID because I see people addicted to it and don't find it good

  • @AlluringSpy
    @AlluringSpy 7 років тому +235

    As a 17 year old, people my age ask for my facebook and when I tell them I have no account they look at me like I'm retarded. LOL
    However I do notice girls find me more interesting...

  • @RichytonOfficial
    @RichytonOfficial 7 років тому +24

    i read through ALOT pf these comments, and it is safe to say 99.9 percent of us agree that facebook is a waste of time which is the most valuable thing we have. which leaves me to believe that if 99.9 percent of us here are in agreeance this video only attracted people who have already quit fb or rarely even use it. which means a main fb user has no idea and is blind to the fact of all the negative effects it has on their lives and their communities in general. so therefore they read the title and wouldnt even think about clicking on the video to watch it and instead ignoring it and keep on poisoning their lives with the toxic that is fb. i myself quit a year ago and id just be repeating all of these comments if i said how much better off i am now. good job everyone. boycott that bs outta your lives

  • @YankeeTM
    @YankeeTM 7 років тому +58

    Facebook? get a life

  • @pperezmartinez151
    @pperezmartinez151 7 років тому +64

    Just quit Zuckerberg .

  • @gusherfelter1068
    @gusherfelter1068 7 років тому +24

    Very well. This part of being a real man, thus videos like these are necessary. Thank you!

  • @wicqedeyebot5631
    @wicqedeyebot5631 7 років тому +7

    I quit using smartphone a few years ago because its distracting me whenever I am doing something and not only when I am trying to have a good sleep. There are so much things I couldn't concentrate on, so I stop using the smartphone to see if its make any difference. I quit everything like social media including facebook. I could see so much different than before and I could have a good sleep. My concentrations were a lot improve. I could focus on things better and I see my grade were higher than before. Now I am completely free from social media and will continue to stay away from them. This is my experience that I had and If you don't believe you could try one.

  • @willzville1988
    @willzville1988 7 років тому +8

    I left FB and all other social media apart from instagram (no notifications) and now I have so much LESS STRESS. Too much negativity and the politics is just too much, people only want to hear things that confirm their existing beliefs rather than anything that proves otherwise. Next move is to stop paying attention to the news and anything political and social-justice related.

  • @TheBulzie
    @TheBulzie 7 років тому +123

    These are the exact reasons I never got Facebook in the first place!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +56

      It can be addicting to use it but it's a great tool to stay connected with people around the world.

    • @littlemanhuerta4442
      @littlemanhuerta4442 7 років тому +1

      Real Men Real Style dude I agree with you on that

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 7 років тому +2

      John Smith you were very smart. I'm still on it but never go on it. I don't even have the app for it on my phone.

    • @teazy7468
      @teazy7468 7 років тому +1

      John Smith With u

    • @robertmcintosh8978
      @robertmcintosh8978 7 років тому

      John Smit
      pheraiya

  • @rafiq6521
    @rafiq6521 7 років тому +60

    Never had a fb, insta, twitter account. I'm still up to date and happy :)

    • @marceloflores5544
      @marceloflores5544 7 років тому

      Rafiq up to date? With news? What's your source to get info?

    • @rafiq6521
      @rafiq6521 7 років тому +7

      Well there are other ways besides using those platform. I prefer human to human interactions, with quality in depth conversation. When conversations between friends take place, naturally, you will be up to date with the current social updates. Selective interaction and updates, in my opinion, are more important as they are more sincere and genuine As for current news, i prefer to get my them from relatively credible sources. Obviously, critical thinking and skepticism skills should apply when necessary.

    • @qoeek629
      @qoeek629 6 років тому

      you had a yt acc...

  • @areacode3816
    @areacode3816 2 роки тому +2

    I quit fb and news feeds over a year ago after my mom died. I saw how bad it was on my mental health. It destroys relationships, causes anger, depression. What we put in our minds absorbs into our hearts.

  • @6lu5ky86
    @6lu5ky86 7 років тому +1

    It's strange, whenever I saw the title to this video I realized that I can't remember the last time I was on Facebook. I can tell you that it's been beneficial to my productivity.

  • @daddyscrapes
    @daddyscrapes 7 років тому +49

    I hate every social media especially SnapChat I had no wifi for 3 months then I realized I was addict but thanks for those months without now I can live without it all

  • @beavis4763
    @beavis4763 7 років тому +106

    I need to get some friends so I can unfriend them.

  • @richardfry8561
    @richardfry8561 7 років тому +27

    I never realised how 'toxic' my Facebook feed was until i stopped using it for awhile then going back on it. Then I stopped going back on it. My most used 'social media' is UA-cam. Because some videos help me academically.

    • @mauricecardinal6352
      @mauricecardinal6352 6 років тому +4

      Yes, I find UA-cam can be very informative, on almost any subject. Vehicle repairs, recipes, home remedies, health. Instructive music, etc.

  • @starflight4842
    @starflight4842 5 років тому +4

    Tomorrow I'm quitting Facebook, it's too much of a obstacle now, time to find my place in the world

  • @36nick4truth
    @36nick4truth 7 років тому +30

    I've never had a social media account. I call text and email my friends. Sometimes we actually see each other in person. Im totally normal. You cant even tell I dont have a facebook account.

  • @4GUESTS
    @4GUESTS 7 років тому +55

    How about do as the title suggested 'QUIT' ...rather than changing settings and such.

    • @Ben-fg9wy
      @Ben-fg9wy 6 років тому

      Which is told in the video.

  • @BeatBum805
    @BeatBum805 7 років тому +12

    Get off Facebook, and come to UA-cam!

  • @skul1276
    @skul1276 7 років тому +1

    I quited FB abt 2 years ago. Still, I have the account, but learned to live without it. FB SUCKS YOUR LIFE OUT. It's totally, absolutely POSSIBLE to live without it and continue being in touch with those who really care abt you.
    I FOUND THIS, ONE OF THE MOST HELPFUL VIDEOS IN UA-cam, I WISH IT WOULD BE SUBTITLED TO SHARE IT WITH SOME FRIENDS.
    THANK YOU FOR CREATING THIS AMAZING VIDEO!!!!!

  • @jainaik7241
    @jainaik7241 7 років тому +4

    love you Antonio!
    I had quit Facebook 2 years ago and I was about to open a new account tomorrow..........you helped me think once more about it and saved me from doing so.........now I'm never getting back to Facebook.........thanks a lot Antonio........love from India!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +2

      Appreciate the love - thanks Jairaj!

    • @jainaik7241
      @jainaik7241 7 років тому +3

      Real Men Real Style Love your work.........wish you good luck for the future!!

  • @fengib90
    @fengib90 7 років тому +66

    I quit facebook, Instagram, and all social media. I just use Whatsapp and UA-cam. Its the best think i have done in years. Better use le muy time, i have done new real Friends, my anxiety levels are lower. I really mean that my life is better now.
    Thanks for this video Antonio!

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +4

      Super - glad it worked out for you.

    • @fengib90
      @fengib90 7 років тому +2

      Note: I did that about a year ago.
      Great videos Antonio. Thanks for your help.
      Greetings from México.

    • @blasito278
      @blasito278 7 років тому +1

      Elvin Escobar i am just like you on this

    • @jillpole2686
      @jillpole2686 7 років тому +1

      Elvin Escobar same here. I am keeping viber for my family and friends and youtube for learnings.

    • @nakkiewildvangst2656
      @nakkiewildvangst2656 7 років тому +2

      same here...youtube+viber/whatsapp

  • @gabriele.gonzalez2699
    @gabriele.gonzalez2699 7 років тому +7

    Exactly, If your not paying for the product, you are the product.
    Let me give you an example
    If your not paying to watch this video, RMRS is making a business ~$1000 per video or more from just us watching his videos.

  • @garagedancer122
    @garagedancer122 7 років тому +13

    Vicarious crap about where people go, what they did, what they ate and their kids. I don't give a F!

  • @oliverwestcott7022
    @oliverwestcott7022 7 років тому +39

    Cant' believe you don't care about cats... you monster.

  • @slippin_jimmy
    @slippin_jimmy 7 років тому +46

    I avoid Facebook, like Facebook avoid taxes!

    • @CungDuongTamBao
      @CungDuongTamBao 7 років тому +4

      VR lol, true that. A lot of big corporations do that.

  • @mpoole75mp
    @mpoole75mp 3 роки тому +1

    I only deleted my facebook account yesterday because it was having a negative impact on my mental health. I'm obviously having second thoughts, but watching this video has just helped me to reassure myself it was the right decision to make. Thanks. 👍

  • @rosshealea
    @rosshealea 6 років тому +2

    Absolutely. Quitting facebook has been groundbreaking for me and I wish I would of left the platform sooner than I did. Leaving helped me focus and get in touch with the present moment. When I was on facebook, I was so disconnected from everything that I might as well of been going through my life with a blindfold on.

  • @arsenioseslpodcast3143
    @arsenioseslpodcast3143 7 років тому +9

    I have Facebook (pages), twitter and Instagram for business purposes. Also, my profiles have only positive news on it. Disabling notifications and hiding people you don't like to see are essential. I had a friend who loved phishing for compliments and I literally unfollowed her and never saw her again. You'll ultimately weed out the bad if it's too distracting. All about evaluating your feelings. If you don't feel right after seeing a friend's post, there's a problem that needs to be handled. That's the personal FB, but I just send messages and done for the day.

  • @pkhuang
    @pkhuang 7 років тому +15

    quit facebook and instagram cold turkey 2 years ago and it's probably one of the best things i've ever done

    • @eyeheartsushi2212
      @eyeheartsushi2212 7 років тому +4

      huangsta I quit cold turkey in 2014. Don't miss it.

    • @bonanzatime
      @bonanzatime 7 років тому

      huangsta no offense, but you haven't done much. have you?

    • @feedyourfaith7392
      @feedyourfaith7392 7 років тому +1

      huangsta and cigarette smokers thought they had it hard😂

  • @Hadhoudtn
    @Hadhoudtn 6 років тому +5

    Tip number 3 is my favorite one ! I always do it ! Every 2 or 3 Years I clean my "friends" list. I actually do the anniversary test and I was feeling bad about unfriending people that "forget" to write something in my profile for my birthday. After that video I feel like I've always made the good thing ;)
    Think about it : Facebook always notifies us for birthdays (EVERYDAY) and A LOT of people check facebook daily on their mobiles...So there is no way they forgot to wish you a good birthday (which is a simple thing to do) but they intentionnaly chose to gnore you! They totally deserve the "unfriend" :p

  • @oddlyozel
    @oddlyozel 7 років тому +1

    I love Facebook but I use it so much different then most people, it's an amazing way to find people with common interests and find communities who are based around skills. I've improved my sewing and knitting a lot through crafting groups, and am constantly inspired to do more DIY home decor, clothing, and prop building. Also a great way to find local events that interest you.

  • @gavfitzpatrick
    @gavfitzpatrick 7 років тому +15

    I quit LifeInvader years ago. Got sick of pretending to have a life

  • @iNeeos
    @iNeeos 7 років тому +23

    Old news, left Facebook 5 years ago.

  • @totallyexplored
    @totallyexplored 7 років тому +1

    Awesome tips. I quit facebook almost 2 years ago. and my life's quality improved very very much.

  • @-.-_123
    @-.-_123 6 років тому +5

    Facebook has us trapped like Pavlovs dogs clicking bait to get treats.

  • @nezeljoykrmela8988
    @nezeljoykrmela8988 7 років тому +28

    I never had facebook, instagram or any other social media and I don't want them. But I have youtube channel and I am thinking that without those social media it would be much harder to get people to watch my videos... I will appreciate any advice.

    • @surfinmuso37
      @surfinmuso37 6 років тому

      Nice one-i have never twittered as it is merely for twits. But do u really want people of that quality watching your vids?

    • @rubydoesgaming3434
      @rubydoesgaming3434 6 років тому

      UA-cam is a violent-free social media
      i am really happy that youtube made us happy.

  • @pamelawestenbarger2945
    @pamelawestenbarger2945 7 років тому +6

    I quit Fakebook. a long time ago, and all notifications on all my devices are on silence. And I wont date anyone who wont turn their phone off during the date.

  • @PMAUSMedia
    @PMAUSMedia 4 роки тому +2

    GREAT VIDEO‼️ I am an entrepreneur with several businesses and I REFUSE to open FB because 9 years ago I did not have this info and started a “business page” for my talk show and have (3years ago) deleted it and it is still there😡 so I’m so glad I found you and thank you for the link that will finally help me GET RID OF FB‼️‼️‼️

  • @leahhayes8323
    @leahhayes8323 7 років тому +7

    Very good video, I quit last year and feel so much better for it. REAL friends message or call me instead and I don't have to face everyone's ridiculous political views! Win win!

  • @JawJX
    @JawJX 7 років тому +14

    I think social media is dragging you down. Instead of checking it all the time you could be doing much more meaningful things. So social media is the key to failure. And you don't need Instagram or Facebook or WhatsApp or Snapchat all in your phone since they all have shitty stories which are all the same lol..

    • @feedyourfaith7392
      @feedyourfaith7392 7 років тому +2

      JJ 86 you can't even go on a real date anymore without everyone having their phone in their hand

    • @JawJX
      @JawJX 7 років тому +2

      Margaret Wilson if you are interesting enough he/she will put down their phone cause you are too awesome ayyee

  • @jordanaragon3732
    @jordanaragon3732 7 років тому +13

    I quit life 15 years ago and now I watch youtube videos.

    • @RealMenRealStyle
      @RealMenRealStyle  7 років тому +18

      Impressive --- I don't see it as a waste if you're watching to learn.

    • @kenpurplish
      @kenpurplish 7 років тому +1

      Jordan Marshall me too ha!

  • @GiovanniGaldamezH
    @GiovanniGaldamezH 7 років тому +25

    I advice you to quit Facebook. For more advices, follow me on Facebook.

  • @Elohimless
    @Elohimless 5 років тому +3

    Facebook is very TOXIC and such a huge waste of time! I deleted my Facebook account (along with Instagram, Twitter & Snapchat) cause they were affecting my Mental Health in a very negative way!

  • @germ_line4775
    @germ_line4775 7 років тому +33

    I only use youtube. never had a facebook or twitter

    • @cherylcopes04
      @cherylcopes04 6 років тому

      Facebook ain't bad. It's just worst.

  • @mustdie27
    @mustdie27 7 років тому +40

    I've quit Zuckerbook long ago.

  • @SJonathanGarcia
    @SJonathanGarcia 7 років тому +1

    I personally believe you're doing quite impressive job providing relevant information for who ever it may be in need. !!

  • @Wooperplus
    @Wooperplus 7 років тому +1

    I deleted my Facebook several months ago (in November). It feels great to have left it. It doesn't feel like a Social Media. No one wants to socialize unless you're agreeing with them on a political level. Fair discussions don't happen. People just want their minutes of fame and quips.
    Also, it's weird how I would unsubscribe to several friends spamming how Clinton is great or boatloads of pictures that mean nothing - and over several days they come back. I tried disabling EVERYONE and that didn't help either since I was curious if the same thing happened.
    The good thing is, I can still contact people through Facebook through Messenger. They'll always have a way to reach me. And vice versa. Though, I wish my friends would ditch Messenger for a better option like Telegram.