This video is the holy grail of break up management. You have to look at it that way because your heart and mind are in chaos. Don’t believe your whirlwind mind that you “need to do something now “ - IT IS THE OPPOSITE. Withdraw back to yourself, leave them be, and honestly address what you did to contribute. Then work on improving yourself as well. Your ex will NEVER come back or give you a SERIOUS chance if they believe it will be the same old BS dealing with you. Change yourself and use social media to ensure they see it. They will see it. It will impact them. And you have a great advantage - they already know you and once trusted you deeply. This can’t be emphasized enough. You just need to do the hardest thing possible for a human post break up - 1) actually change, 2) no contact. Good luck.
After 12 years of marriage we have divorced on 2018. On that time I have found this channel and followed the advices and within 3 months we were together with my husband again. But after my mother passed away a few months ago, I have lost my control and became grumpy. We started to have problems and after an argument my husband left the house. I am very sorry and I am not sure if we will be together again. I am very alone and watching these videos just gives me hope and cools my heart. So thank you for everything. You are the best coaches❤
Going through a nasty break up where i lost my job and my confidence, thought she would be there for me, the moment i let my gaurd down she dumped me and hasnt reached out once since. Its broken me but these videos do help me deal with it daily
Great advice, but it seems to assume that your ex is within the physical vicinity. What happens when the two of you are in completely different locations and you are completely blocked out on all possible platforms?
2 years trying to fix him without fixing myself. No doubt we loved each other. We both have childhood trauma and at the end I was triggered by his lies and I acted again to hurt him thinking that would change him. Wrong!! Over two weeks of not contact and I know I have to fix myself without expecting he will come back. It hurts so much I cry every day I know I have to take the steps to change all of me. Emotionally and physically. It’s so hard.
My ex has become so arrogant and over confident since he got his hair transplant done. It has given him a more better look and now he feels that he needs to keave his options open.
So crazy…mine has left all the peace n privacy n freedom and went to his moms lately n says he’s not coming back but left things at our apt. He also claims he lost his key to the apt n came twice since he said that n since no contact n got ONE thing each time. But still left the few things he’s left there at home. I’ve just been giving him space n time while still hoping he comes on back home very soon 🥺✨
Thank you for this sir! Im really trying my best to be the best of myself again. Yes it was hard. Everyday I would cry blaming myself, belittling myself for what happened. Yes I admit that even until today I still think of him but I can feel that I am slowly recovering from the pain. Btw, its only 1 month since we parted and here I am now regaining myself again. Im doing a no contact strategy and Im not hoping that he would still contact me. Its better though so that i can fully move on with myself.😊More advices to hear from both of you. Its really helping.
I wish i knew about these guys before my gf broke up with me... Ive been recording and posting my journey with alcoholism, sobriety, and the struggle with regaining her trust, love.... all she keeps saying is she needs distance... . It's only been a bit, but she's blocked me now and im pretty sure seing someone from work... w.e idk, i understand why she did it. we drank everyday with big arguments and started distencing ourselves from each other. I stopped drinkinking nov 1 2023. Relapse when i found out certain info. As of this video im 6 days sober from alcohol and 10yrs from drugs. I messed up for sure in our relationship and afterward, cause here's me reaching out like its a radio stations call in contest.... Ive definitely been annoying her. I finally spoke to her today and still she refuses to say she done with everything and just saying she needs distance but having sleepovers. I get it, we all have needs but like fml... I need these guys on another level...
I need your help, lm not doing to well with my current situation - l can't sleep or function as normal - lve searched everywhere and l don't see a video on the situation l am in......is there anyway l can contact the coaches by email? As right of this moment my assets are locked due to my personal situation l can't afford to book the coaching session. But lm hoping to explain my financial situation via email if you can please hear me out on a payment arrangement l can suggest. Please coaches to anyone please help 😢
You can’t make someone do anything. people have free will and manipulating someone it’s coming back isn’t good either even if it works it won’t work for long and it will be toxic.
@@Layla-hg4uxyou don’t need closure from anyone. You give yourself closure. You don’t need to know why they left because they did what was best for them and you need to do what’s best for you and cut them off. That’s true closure.
Coaches please help me out,we breakup with my boyfriend for one year and I dated other guy after doing that I realized. That my ex was the one meet for not the one I found while I was in heart break,, please keep me I need him back and am extremely sorry 😭 😭😭 but we do talk , chat and meet with him but still the interest seems not to be okay with me
Hello, may you please add some concepts of when we contact with our Ex, about the child we have? what are the facts to direct a better way of communications between oneanother. Thanks
Me and my GF broked up 3 weeks ago and still communicating to each other. But always hurting me only evertime i saw her messages. I am supporting her on her financially. I love her so much and she told me, we are just a friend now and nothing more than that. Is thwre any chance she change her mind and come back to me?
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Please I want some advice... I went on no contact myself, I told him not to contact me and I blocked him on all social media... But all I want is him to reach out.. well after 1 months I unblock him (we brake out 4 month ago) and what to do now? by saying goodbye to me I can't reach out to him first.. what to do? :( Please someone give me an advice ,I want him back P.S. He broke up with me because of another woman.but she broke up with him aftre a month
So why take him back after the one he left you for doesn't want him baby tell him to kick rock's I been there and one thing it's going to keep going on and on ...
Coaches I have changed.. my ex wife has not.. I came back saved the house.. we have 3 children.. and yes I do love her and it hurts.. she want to coparent in the same house.. but don’t want a relationship.. I don’t know if this will work for me…
You know Alex you mean I will give him $25,000 just he be back to me , that’s the money he is asking which I know the money he will use is a lied . He said he will used to pay a Lawyer but i give him lawyer but he don’t . What he like is really money . And the US consulate said about his problem is lied so don’t give him money . And I don’t want my money is to be gone . Thanks Alex
Thank you,you were send by God almighty 🙏 to my life because it been 2 weeks now he is not talking or answering my sms. I tried after few days not to talk to him but it was not easy, After i got your videos i am healing i am having confident now.Thank you 🙏
I was the one who ask for break up. Three months since then NC for 30 days. Since then I was the only one RO but he response positively. What be the best next to do I reach out every one to two weeks only
I’ve been needy and control hungry (subconsciously) since our separation. Separation feels more like break up she began growing distant and angry immediately. We’ve began testing lightly time to time and now that I understand the dynamic of power, and losing empathy as of today I will allow her time to explore this new life and new world and better myself for my son and the respect he will have for me. I wanted her back but now I don’t, I want her in a new form because she’s getting me at a new form. Even when I was being needy I hit the gym daily, became an armed guard on side of my career for extra money, and to stay busy an not spend time with women like she said I would in the past. Those were physical and financial changes now I’m working on the mental which is EVERYTHING! My happiness is in my hands no one else’s. After all this, I believe losing the love she “owns” will be the only factor to make her chase me. I don’t want chasing I want open communication with my soul mate.
Thanks for your content! I was double billed for the same content I purchased from your website. I sent the invoice numbers to your customer service team, but have not heard back. This was 3 days ago. Can you help?
I bought a one on one session over a month ago for Alex, never got anything to schedule it..called customer service, still NOTHING!! Its very frustrating. I love these videos, but hope to get my one on one session soon!!!😢
My ex and i just finished a 3 month no contact period. It was her idea. I tried talking to her but she didn't want to. Im completely heartbroken. Do i keep waiting for her to reach out?
Hi there, Our coaches would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with them using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
If you wat to know doin like tody nails done again I put blouse silk dark lady sain Tesco I look nice I felt better for if u want to know then it not space u block me u were fine sunday then u change ur mine again goin see about t.v spindryer I ask painter I waiting price him ur so changeable u dont like me strong in u want be ill ??????
Hi my ex went to the police to get a restraining order but it’s not enforced by a judge I haven’t seen or heard her for 3 months should i reach out to her or leave her untill she reaches out because when i try to reach out she goes to the police or just ignores me
Leave her alone. What you are doing is stalking and it is illegal. If she is ignoring you, she does not want to heat from you. Leave her alone or you will be in jail soon!
Someone please guide me... I Cheated my wife iam extremely sorry for that... But now i want her back... What shall i do??? Her family also against our marriage...
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If my ex is too concerned about what others think or too prideful..no. I want a humble and kind man. A Godly man.
Bad times don't last forever, Don't lose hope. Someday everything will be okay.😃👍
True. You cannot attract anyone with the mindset of desperation and weakness. You MUST change. Best for Yourself. All other will be extra beneficial😊
This video is the holy grail of break up management. You have to look at it that way because your heart and mind are in chaos. Don’t believe your whirlwind mind that you “need to do something now “ - IT IS THE OPPOSITE. Withdraw back to yourself, leave them be, and honestly address what you did to contribute. Then work on improving yourself as well. Your ex will NEVER come back or give you a SERIOUS chance if they believe it will be the same old BS dealing with you. Change yourself and use social media to ensure they see it. They will see it. It will impact them. And you have a great advantage - they already know you and once trusted you deeply. This can’t be emphasized enough. You just need to do the hardest thing possible for a human post break up - 1) actually change, 2) no contact. Good luck.
Im hoping like hell it will change in time and she does come back, we were married 18 years
Makes so much sense how you broke it down in that way!
Another epic session,
Very well put,
Every time we hear it, it gets clearer and always helps everyday to watch your videos gentlemen!!
After 12 years of marriage we have divorced on 2018. On that time I have found this channel and followed the advices and within 3 months we were together with my husband again. But after my mother passed away a few months ago, I have lost my control and became grumpy. We started to have problems and after an argument my husband left the house. I am very sorry and I am not sure if we will be together again. I am very alone and watching these videos just gives me hope and cools my heart. So thank you for everything. You are the best coaches❤
Did you all work it out again?
😊
Update?
You both need Christ in your lives. It's that simple.
We are waiting for the update! 😂@@Xile179
Going through a nasty break up where i lost my job and my confidence, thought she would be there for me, the moment i let my gaurd down she dumped me and hasnt reached out once since. Its broken me but these videos do help me deal with it daily
I'm glad we can help you!
I just purchased a sticker with this saying “Mindset is everything” and IT IS INDEED as you say guys🔥
Be a better person 🎉
Great advice, but it seems to assume that your ex is within the physical vicinity. What happens when the two of you are in completely different locations and you are completely blocked out on all possible platforms?
Thank The Universe for you guys!!! your work is awesome and has helped tremendously!!
2 years trying to fix him without fixing myself. No doubt we loved each other. We both have childhood trauma and at the end I was triggered by his lies and I acted again to hurt him thinking that would change him. Wrong!! Over two weeks of not contact and I know I have to fix myself without expecting he will come back. It hurts so much I cry every day I know I have to take the steps to change all of me. Emotionally and physically. It’s so hard.
My ex has become so arrogant and over confident since he got his hair transplant done. It has given him a more better look and now he feels that he needs to keave his options open.
He sounds like a teenager. God is going to open up a big can of whupass.
Midlife crisis. Sorry.
You guys are great.☺very helpful.
I set my 5 goals today and completed 4. 2 were big so I'm happy. I did this in spite of tears and heartache!
God will see you through,, my heart is shattered too, but i believe we will be fine one day
Weve been in a relationship for 7 years. Its been ups and downs but ive always ahown her that im the person she could depend on
Thank you for the advice 🙏
You're welcome!
Thank you guys it really works for me ❤
So crazy…mine has left all the peace n privacy n freedom and went to his moms lately n says he’s not coming back but left things at our apt. He also claims he lost his key to the apt n came twice since he said that n since no contact n got ONE thing each time. But still left the few things he’s left there at home. I’ve just been giving him space n time while still hoping he comes on back home very soon 🥺✨
Thank you for this sir! Im really trying my best to be the best of myself again. Yes it was hard. Everyday I would cry blaming myself, belittling myself for what happened. Yes I admit that even until today I still think of him but I can feel that I am slowly recovering from the pain. Btw, its only 1 month since we parted and here I am now regaining myself again. Im doing a no contact strategy and Im not hoping that he would still contact me. Its better though so that i can fully move on with myself.😊More advices to hear from both of you. Its really helping.
How do I get her to initiate contact if I’ve been fully blocked after I messaged her best friend for advice.
Good advice ! Thanks😊
Glad it was helpful!
I wish i knew about these guys before my gf broke up with me...
Ive been recording and posting my journey with alcoholism, sobriety, and the struggle with regaining her trust, love.... all
she keeps saying is she needs distance... . It's only been a bit, but she's blocked me now and im pretty sure seing someone from work... w.e idk, i understand why she did it. we drank everyday with big arguments and started distencing ourselves from each other. I stopped drinkinking nov 1 2023. Relapse when i found out certain info.
As of this video im 6 days sober from alcohol and 10yrs from drugs.
I messed up for sure in our relationship and afterward, cause here's me reaching out like its a radio stations call in contest.... Ive definitely been annoying her. I finally spoke to her today and still she refuses to say she done with everything and just saying she needs distance but having sleepovers.
I get it, we all have needs but like fml...
I need these guys on another level...
Keep it up, you’re doing great man
I love the I dears.
What if I’ve been blocked on everything?
I need your help, lm not doing to well with my current situation - l can't sleep or function as normal - lve searched everywhere and l don't see a video on the situation l am in......is there anyway l can contact the coaches by email? As right of this moment my assets are locked due to my personal situation l can't afford to book the coaching session. But lm hoping to explain my financial situation via email if you can please hear me out on a payment arrangement l can suggest. Please coaches to anyone please help 😢
;Coach alex- what if i dont have and dont social media? How she will see changes any positive attraction ?
You can’t make someone do anything. people have free will and manipulating someone it’s coming back isn’t good either even if it works it won’t work for long and it will be toxic.
💯 Too much of manipulation!! Just give the closure and leave us alone!
@@Layla-hg4uxyou don’t need closure from anyone. You give yourself closure. You don’t need to know why they left because they did what was best for them and you need to do what’s best for you and cut them off. That’s true closure.
Coaches please help me out,we breakup with my boyfriend for one year and I dated other guy after doing that I realized. That my ex was the one meet for not the one I found while I was in heart break,, please keep me I need him back and am extremely sorry 😭 😭😭 but we do talk , chat and meet with him but still the interest seems not to be okay with me
But he ended things by a text. That’s what I’m so disappointed. Did I ever ment anything to him?
For some people it's easier to text, that doesn't mean he never liked you.
Hello, may you please add some concepts of when we contact with our Ex, about the child we have? what are the facts to direct a better way of communications between oneanother. Thanks
Thanks for the video!
Good advice
My ex says I cause her massive anxiety idk what to do
Me and my GF broked up 3 weeks ago and still communicating to each other. But always hurting me only evertime i saw her messages. I am supporting her on her financially. I love her so much and she told me, we are just a friend now and nothing more than that. Is thwre any chance she change her mind and come back to me?
Stop paying her bills. She’s using you. End the supply and the demand will return.
Why did you guys break up?
Thank you sir.. We had a broke up but i love him so much n i want him back.. As of now he want to be friend for now.
What if I’ve been blocked on everything?
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Did you two ever get your ex back and marry?? or still with
I feely ex will reach out only when she has to fill her IRS 😂
Please I want some advice... I went on no contact myself, I told him not to contact me and I blocked him on all social media... But all I want is him to reach out.. well after 1 months I unblock him (we brake out 4 month ago) and what to do now? by saying goodbye to me I can't reach out to him first.. what to do? :( Please someone give me an advice ,I want him back
P.S. He broke up with me because of another woman.but she broke up with him aftre a month
So why take him back after the one he left you for doesn't want him baby tell him to kick rock's I been there and one thing it's going to keep going on and on ...
Best advice 👏🏼👏🏼 Alex you are the best!
Thank you Zeli
Coach Alex
What if there very stubborn and prideful and there who most likely won’t ever believe she feels something
Coaches I have changed.. my ex wife has not.. I came back saved the house.. we have 3 children.. and yes I do love her and it hurts.. she want to coparent in the same house.. but don’t want a relationship.. I don’t know if this will work for me…
You know Alex you mean I will give him $25,000 just he be back to me , that’s the money he is asking which I know the money he will use is a lied . He said he will used to pay a Lawyer but i give him lawyer but he don’t . What he like is really money . And the US consulate said about his problem is lied so don’t give him money . And I don’t want my money is to be gone . Thanks Alex
How can I get a one on one coaching with you
Thank you,you were send by God almighty 🙏 to my life because it been 2 weeks now he is not talking or answering my sms.
I tried after few days not to talk to him but it was not easy, After i got your videos i am healing i am having confident now.Thank you 🙏
I was the one who ask for break up. Three months since then NC for 30 days. Since then I was the only one RO but he response positively. What be the best next to do I reach out every one to two weeks only
I need to get a call with you guys
What do I have to
Please help me
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Good evening
Thanks for Watching!
Coach Adrian
I’ve been needy and control hungry (subconsciously) since our separation. Separation feels more like break up she began growing distant and angry immediately. We’ve began testing lightly time to time and now that I understand the dynamic of power, and losing empathy as of today I will allow her time to explore this new life and new world and better myself for my son and the respect he will have for me. I wanted her back but now I don’t, I want her in a new form because she’s getting me at a new form. Even when I was being needy I hit the gym daily, became an armed guard on side of my career for extra money, and to stay busy an not spend time with women like she said I would in the past. Those were physical and financial changes now I’m working on the mental which is EVERYTHING! My happiness is in my hands no one else’s. After all this, I believe losing the love she “owns” will be the only factor to make her chase me. I don’t want chasing I want open communication with my soul mate.
You aren't married, your vulnerable to demonic attack. It won't work without Christ as your foundation. Life won't work without Jesus.
Iam enjoying this
Need help with ldr ex not sure what to do
Thanks for your content! I was double billed for the same content I purchased from your website. I sent the invoice numbers to your customer service team, but have not heard back. This was 3 days ago. Can you help?
I bought a one on one session over a month ago for Alex, never got anything to schedule it..called customer service, still NOTHING!! Its very frustrating. I love these videos, but hope to get my one on one session soon!!!😢
My ex and i just finished a 3 month no contact period. It was her idea. I tried talking to her but she didn't want to. Im completely heartbroken. Do i keep waiting for her to reach out?
Hi there,
Our coaches would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with them using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
No. You turn your heart, your life over to the Lord.
Hello i would love to talk to you
So what about gf?
Thank you Karol
We can help, consider 1:1 session
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Adrian
How about if after a coaching session im at the same point it kinda went nowhere should i get another session..
Ummm… no. Its the same mentality as going back to your ex. It didn’t work for a reason. Move on. You deserve better love ♥️
Let it be, by the time they return your heart already heal and you not interested in them
Why dio i find it get to
If you wat to know doin like tody nails done again I put blouse silk dark lady sain Tesco I look nice I felt better for if u want to know then it not space u block me u were fine sunday then u change ur mine again goin see about t.v spindryer I ask painter I waiting price him ur so changeable u dont like me strong in u want be ill ??????
Hello
Hi my ex went to the police to get a restraining order but it’s not enforced by a judge I haven’t seen or heard her for 3 months should i reach out to her or leave her untill she reaches out because when i try to reach out she goes to the police or just ignores me
Leave her alone. What you are doing is stalking and it is illegal. If she is ignoring you, she does not want to heat from you. Leave her alone or you will be in jail soon!
Um….
Lol 😂.
Nononono❤❤❤❤❤
“Remember we went to Jamaica together!”.. We def. Kno who their most watched demographic is!.. 😆
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Someone please guide me...
I Cheated my wife iam extremely sorry for that... But now i want her back... What shall i do??? Her family also against our marriage...
🙏
We broke up because of age difference so how would you advise that we would come back again
I really want to know this slso
He does not call back me he ignore me some time
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