Finding your coping mechanism | Joseph Lewis | TEDxFoggyBottom

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  • Опубліковано 21 тра 2018
  • People who encounter policeman Joseph Lewis are confused by his habit of smiling whenever in danger, a coping technique he developed during his difficult childhood in Liberia and homelessness in the United States. By developing genuine gratitude for others, Joseph believes we can all react more positively to fear in any form.
    Joseph Lewis is a law enforcement officer for DC Metro, a community advocate for the Lutheran Immigration Refugee Service, a seminary student, and a former refugee. Born in Liberia, he lived a normal life up until 1989, when a civil war broke out in the area. After facing multiple setbacks for the remainder of his childhood and the beginning of his adult life, Joseph migrated to the United States where he settled into a life of homelessness. Encouragement from those in his local community inspired Joseph to go to college and earn a degree. Through his experiences, Joseph has become a key community figure and source of inspiration, actively telling his story and encouraging others to do the same.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 34

  • @Butterf1y-effect
    @Butterf1y-effect Рік тому +12

    I discovered I'm not actually addicted to social media it's just my coping mechanism to avoid reality , to avoid stress ...
    But , this coping mechanism isn't good as social media gives me more stress and depression.
    I really need to find some effective and good coping mechanism.

    • @strawberribubbletea
      @strawberribubbletea 4 місяці тому +1

      I found having a routine helped me a lot. Getting up at the same time and sleeping early everyday helps a lot. Going out and doing small things you enjoy helps too.

  • @handsomelove1
    @handsomelove1 6 років тому +36

    Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. I am so proud of you Joe. Good words of encouragement.

    • @TheMailforbishop
      @TheMailforbishop 6 років тому +3

      Hey brother, much appreciation for your kind gesture. Please do not hesistate to it share it.

    • @EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher
      @EdgarFriendlysCivicsTeacher 5 місяців тому

      I don't quite understand that one, or rather I haven't felt that to be true.

  • @user-lb1fl7sh8m
    @user-lb1fl7sh8m Рік тому +1

    Fear Taught me to smile, and smile taught me to be grateful !

  • @HabitualLover
    @HabitualLover 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks so much for this Ted talk. And for continuing to cope during unimaginable hardship. I find one of the hardest things is to not look like you've ever struggled when you have and still may be struggling to the core of everything in you. So awesome for someone who looks perfect to tell such a sobering story of the reality behind the smile. So great. Big thanks.

  • @abilaremgius8590
    @abilaremgius8590 7 місяців тому +1

    You have motivated me to conquer my fears. Many thanks

  • @francoliberian
    @francoliberian 6 років тому +6

    Hey Bishop i am proud of your powerful and articulate speech.

    • @TheMailforbishop
      @TheMailforbishop 6 років тому +2

      Thanks Great Lu.... The best is yet to come!

  • @DarKNess1111x
    @DarKNess1111x 2 роки тому

    Greatest calling, greatest power. Outshine the darkness, outlove the fear and hate. Those are the greatest shows of strength

  • @HILEYWOODTV
    @HILEYWOODTV 2 роки тому

    Man that was excellent! My coping mechanism is gratitude as well.

  • @thisisntallowed9560
    @thisisntallowed9560 5 років тому +18

    I think that if you open yourself emotionally to people, people will come to you and open themselves to you too.
    ''fear itself will drive you to a greater calling'' I like his conclusion

    • @KamaloExp
      @KamaloExp 2 роки тому +1

      Yes. I think so too. We need to express our emotion necessarily.

  • @michaelbasgall8924
    @michaelbasgall8924 Рік тому

    Thank you. This helps bring peace to me.

  • @CandyAppleMomo
    @CandyAppleMomo 9 місяців тому +1

    Such a powerful message 🫶🏾

  • @ebufi7957
    @ebufi7957 10 місяців тому +1

    Great talk, very inspiring!

  • @neverendingjourneystilllea5271
    @neverendingjourneystilllea5271 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks

  • @richieduran_
    @richieduran_ 2 роки тому

    One of the better stories Ive seen

  • @gmnboss
    @gmnboss 6 років тому +5

    Excellent talk Joe. Well done!!

  • @kizzymulcaster6057
    @kizzymulcaster6057 4 роки тому +6

    Brilliant thanks for sharing

  • @user-lb1fl7sh8m
    @user-lb1fl7sh8m Рік тому

    Χαμόγελο και Προχωρούμε δυναμικά αισιόδοξα και χωρίς να παραπονιούμαστε.

  • @KamaloExp
    @KamaloExp 2 роки тому

    Beautiful

  • @itsdevgarg
    @itsdevgarg Рік тому

    Inspiring, Love from India. 🙏🤗

  • @Aeon.S.J
    @Aeon.S.J Місяць тому

    No mirror smiles first.

  • @rupandita2683
    @rupandita2683 Рік тому

    Me encantaaaaaaa 🎉❤

  • @theetamtamadun
    @theetamtamadun 2 роки тому +1

    Obsessed with his accent

  • @woodenwinds9629
    @woodenwinds9629 4 роки тому +2

    dang

  • @meetcharan4288
    @meetcharan4288 2 роки тому +1

    Drugs sare a bad coping mechanism i guess, but it do work

  • @shanalee8469
    @shanalee8469 4 роки тому +18

    Wrong title!! Absolutely nothing talks about coping

  • @KamaloExp
    @KamaloExp 2 роки тому +1

    Dang i hate auto generated subtitles 😂