Wait, so he wanted her to have the foresight to consider that he would want a meal when he came home late at night after being on a plane but he couldn’t have the foresight and consideration to think she doesn’t want to take small children to urgent care? This is really quite sad.
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Nate’s eyes when Sutton was recounting the urgent care story…. Holy shit girl are you ok?? Nate, why on earth would you not INSIST on keeping the kids so your sick wife could get help? What’s wrong with you?
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
So let me get this straight: she is supposed anticipate him wanting a hot meal at 10 pm when he gets home from traveling, but he isn’t supposed to understand he needed to keep the kids when she went to the dr??? Are you kidding me
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Sutton your hair is SO beautiful no matter what it's doing.. you could walk through a hedge backwards and you'd still be the prettiest girl in the room 😌
Nate, where was the *forethought for Sutton’s situation* when she had to go to urgent care? And you were mad she didn’t have a sandwich ready for you when you got home from the airport?
Why would you think it’s okay to not take the kids so she can go to urgent care? That is the most narcissistic behavior! What a selfish terrible husband! Sutton please leave this one sided abusive relationship! I promise you will be happier with another man who treats you like the queen you are! This man does NOT!!!
So you have to read his mind when it comes to dinner, but he can’t read yours when it comes to his kids? Grow up bro. Be better to your wife. You found an amazing woman. Treat her accordingly. And Sutton don’t let him treat you that way. He needs to watch the kids when you go do stuff. ESP going to urgent care. And the face he made when you were talking about it is terrifying. And why do I see her apologizing more or taking responsibility more?
Also let me say this, my husband is a plumber/ac tech. He works every day sometimes 80 hrs a week. But when he is home if I need to go do something or run errands he automatically offers to watch the kids at home. We have 4 kids. There is no excuse for him not to watch his own fuckin children! Like I’m sorry your husband is this way. And I hope you know that it’s not okay behavior
@@Brittanyshannon22 Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly, and she literally js explained how they miscommunication, everyone is different, he prob learned from taht mistake stop judging what’s none of your business
This is why putting women in a subservient echo chamber is so abusive to them. She thinks it’s her fault he didn’t watch the kids while she went to urgent care. No sweetie, if he cared about your well being even in the slightest he would have the care and compassion to think of someone’s needs besides his own. It shouldn’t have even been a discussion or a question. It should be a given because expecting the opposite is ludicrous. Yea take my two children to a waiting room chock full of sick ppl when they’re of the age they lick everything and can’t sit still. It’s the better option then me (their father) watching them at home. Do you see how completely stupid that is? I really hope you can find a way out someday and someone who treats you and cares for you the way a husband should treat and care for his wife.
Ugh, here from TikTok again. It's despicable behavior, frankly, if a husband doesn't just assume he will be watching the kids while his wife is at URGENT CARE. Good grief, I wouldn't even have to hint at it or be sarcastic. There is clearly some very toxic, narcissistic behavior on Nate's part and the fact that your two sit down to do marriage advice videos is appalling. My husband (of 19 years) and I are also conservative Christians, and we are far from perfect and marriage is very hard, but if I were headed to urgent care for any reason he'd drop everything to help me, no questions asked. It's sad to me that Sutton tolerates this gross behavior from her husband, and furthermore that you two think this kind of content sets a good example. What's worse, TikTokers looking to hate on Christianity are using Nate's toxicity as examples of why Christianity is bad. Gah. Stop giving them perfect content! 🤦🏼♀️
The low key satisfaction in Nate’s eyes when Sutton said yes to the muscle mass question 😂 From my own perspective, I look for guys that balance out certain aspects of my personality and complement others. I’m quite introverted so I feel like I need someone to get me out of my shell to balance that, but then I also love deep intellectual conversations so I look for someone that can complement that aspect. There’s never a one size fits all personality and the same way there’s no one size fits all body type. We’re all created unique by God’s beautiful design so guys, don’t ever be discouraged! You all have wonderful personality traits that God gave you for a reason! Use it for His glory ❤️ One thing that I personally find super attractive in a guy is when he is humbly but confidently living out his faith rooted in love… when you can tell a guy loves Jesus first… YES 🙌🏼
As a girl I totally agree with Suttons answers 110%. I would also like to add as a Christian, that a guy who clearly puts the Lord first (but not in a show off type of way) not only is very attractive, but also makes me feel more secure.
That's my prayer everyday, A man who really puts God 1st without having to even think about it bringsso much security!! I always fear of a man who is rather too logical, realistic, calculative over and above the voice of the Holy Spirit because there is just no guarantee in this earth, rather God 1st then logic.
Have you watched their other videos? Have you ever made a mistake or been inconsiderate? If you watch their numerous other videos and saw their love for Jesus and each other and the boundaries he put in place while dating, you would see he was honoring God. You shouldn’t judge someone from a short video. Further, you shouldn’t judge at all.
Whoa, why would it even be a back and forth to begin with about her going to the urgent care alone? She should just go! Those are his kids. He should think of her needs. And his comment at the end?? 😢
No I think he definitely should have used his man brain to not be so obtuse and make you take the kids to a doctors appointment. Yes communication is good, but seriously. And how many videos I’ve watched and is lack of willingness to apologize to you as a Christian man is so mind blowing. PRIDE! What I find most attractive about my husband is that when I point something out, and it’s hurt me, even if he doesn’t agree he can say “I’m sorry that hurt you, that was never my intention and I’ll try and do better and find a different way” this man… I can’t. You should pray on that Nate. Humble yourself and serve your wife like she does for you. I can’t find the air port/not eating video on here right now or the working out after the baby video But look back please. Pray and reflect. Take yourself down a peg. Yes I get she didn’t “think” that as a grown man she would have to think about your needs without you actually communicating them to you, but you are also responsible for your self and your needs. Or the fact that doesn’t matter what you meant about the work out comments. You still hurt her feeling. Of course she’s still going to love you and move on, but that doesn’t mean you can’t take responsibility or that that’s such a sensitive time in a woman’s life and just saying “you know I love you no matter what you look like and God gave me you. I love you and I’m so sorry I made you feel that way, I never wanted to do that” humble yourself. What would Jesus do. We are all wrong doers. We all should be apologizing for hurting others intentional or not. Your wife is more precious that rubies. Love her as Christ loved the church. Feel sorry for hurting her. Think of her. God first, then her, then children, self LAST! You have a huge following. Be better buddy. Show the True Christ. Not this toxic man Christian image that’s giving anti Christians room to talk about on tiktok. We don’t need any more ammo to load into their weapons.
If you (husband) were considering the "reality" of the situation, you would've been taking on your *responsibility as a parent* to take care of you kids while she went to the hospital. Why? Why would you not immediately want to take that on so she didn't have to watch the kids in the waiting room of the hospital while simultaneously dealing with a health issue???
This man is so narcissistic. I cannot believe there are so many positive comments on this video. She had to go to urgent care and he couldn't pick up on the fact that he should watch their children??? And now when they are recounting this, he once again is acting like she is in the wrong?!? "Stick to reality". The reality is that you are a terrible husband and not a good Christian. A good man wouldn't even have to think about whether or not he should watch his kids while his wife goes to urgent care.
This was a super fun video! Several of the things you guys talked about were exactly what I found so amazing about my husband. At the end of our first phone call (we met online) he asked if he could pray over us and it blew my socks off! He wears his heart on his sleeve and is never shy about saying how he feels. And the most important character trait was I wanted someone who loved God more than he loved me. I knew if he loved God more than me, he would resect and love me, and always follow Christ's lead in our lives. I knew there would be an incredible amount of safety in that. And now we're celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary next month!
Girl, are you okay? Everytime these videos pop up, the husband is throwing how heavily toxic and somewhat scary vibes. He looks like the type to slap a woman around, and say he does it because he loves her so much.
In the 3rd question Mr.Nate made a pretty good example of "when is leading a relationship too much" cause iv'e seen some friends say "lets go to here" and they will say "no no lets go here! trust me" almost every time. and that's what (sometimes) ends the relationship. also Nate, and Sutton love you guys so much! as a young and fellow christian i love this channel for the tips that i can take and use in my daily life, and i believe that god has blessed me along with every other person with you guys! thank you, and have a blessed day!
The fact that that movie showed more than needed to and that was just from watching the trailer put me off the entire thing and you confirmed it. It should not matter how nice the story line is, either make a Christian movie that's a safe space to minister to people or don't bother at all. Putting all that in there would cause believers to stumble or give them an excuse to think that "it's a Christian movie so it's ok".
I totally agree with you. I don't think it is appropriate whatsoever. The screen is a window and the movie is clearly showing real people doing real ungodly acts.
The book of Hosea is not about a girl sold into sex slavery and rescued out of it but a picture for Israel to see their wilful, repeated, unrepentant rebellion against Him. This movie misses the entire point of what God is saying in this book.
Marietta Van Middelkoop From my understanding neither the movie nor the book was meant to copy the book of Hosea, it’s very clearly said that it’s LOSELY based on the story of the couple in it, they literally say it inspired this story so you shouldn’t be going into it expecting that exact same theme or accuracy considering that’s not what the authors intent ever was.
That face you make Sutton at 14:00 (after you guys made the cut) speaks volumes. The fear, confusion, and hurt you’re expressing is typical when being gaslit and mentally abused over time. It’s an insidious sin that can wreck havoc on everything the Lord calls for you as His Daughter. Bring it all to the light and model for your children God’s truth. I recommend individual therapy to find your voice and learn to take up room in this relationship. You are partners and not made to worship at the alter of a man’s ego.
@New Soul.9 I meant the character qualities of a man that are masculine according to the Bible, not the physical qualities that are masculine according to the world, which would be height.
@New Soul.9 Masculine or feminine can be applied to both behavior and physical qualities. In my comment, I was praising Sutton's preferences because she prefers the qualities of a masculine man, according to scripture. The world praises the physical qualities of what is masculine or feminine. Using that world's definition then yes, a flat chest and booty are not considered feminine and a short male isn't considered masculine. So you're right, that definition is stupid, but it's not the definition I am using. Being feminine or masculine means something different in the Bible. It's based on character not physical.
@New Soul.9 Every human is loved by God no matter how masculine or feminine they are. No matter how tall, how skinny. All individuals are created and formed by the Lord. We all have preferences in significant others and both Sutton and I were expressing our opinion. And you are too. So let's just leave it at that and all get along. 😆
my husband is a few inches shorter than me. i always invisioned a guy who was taller than me cuz i am tall but God sent me the best guy and he has never been worried about being shorter than me cuz he just loved me for me! been together 14 years and married 8 years. its natural for woman to like a guy taller as we see them as protectors and comforters, luckily my husband fills that for ne regardlesa of our height difference.
Isn't Redeeming love like soft porn though? Don't you guys think it is being used to slowly incorporate some worldliness and lukewarmness to Christianity? Would anyone recommend to read the book to a girl in her twenties who has struggled with lust in the past? I would love to order it but I am quite hesitant because it seems to be getting mixed reviews.
I 100% agree on being VERY careful about this title in particular along with some of the author’s other books. It is def on the side of soft porn (didn’t see the movie) and I would argue it is not necessary to “entertain” Christians with romantic novels that include worldly lusts and fleshly desires so explicitly. I am a woman who struggles with lust/mental purity and I’ve not allowed myself to read this book because I don’t want to support romantic novels or to dwell on anything of this nature even if it is based on a biblical story. I wouldn’t let my kids read it if I had any. My 2 cents
I agree the book definitely has some definite descriptive scenes however, the book is fashioned from the book of Hosea in the Bible. If you read the book of Hosea before or after reading this book, you may see the story in a different light.In the book of Hosea, you will see that God ked Hosea to take a wife (not a pure wife) and the issues he experienced during his marriage. If you really think the story of the book through, one will see themself as the Harlot, in need of a savior. We, like Angel have many sins yet God loves us anyway and desires for us to turn to him and allow him to give us a better life. Yet, we just can’t comprehend his love and often turn away from him.
@@sandracrig378 Then I'll just read Hosea. The author of Hosea didn't see ot fit to describe Hosea and Gomer's intimate moments and even song of songs isn't explicit.
In the NT God tells us not to be unequally yoked, and the book romanticizes being unequally yoked. They try to put a Biblical spin on it by saying that it is based on Hosea. God commanded Hosea specifically to marry Gomer to image God's faithfulness to His bride despite His bride's unfaithfulness toward Him. Hosea had a direct command from God, the unequally yoked command was only given in the New Testament, therefore Hosea did not sin. However, God established the terms for marriage clearly in the NT by telling us not to be unequally yoked. You do not marry a person in order to evangelise them, or to help them out of bad circumstances. Marriage is nog a charity case, you have to think about your children.
@@sandracrig378 i agree with you. i've never read the book, but since the trailer of the movie came out i wanted to read first. i definitely feel like this history have some biblical things, but even if not, i will still recommend to us, christians, exam everything and absorve what's good to us, and if you can't do that, so don't watch or read that thing cause you know it's gonna lead to the sin that you're dealing with
Imagine a 16 year old boy whos a Christian and has stayed away from the temptation of pornograohy and goes and sees this movie.... he might see what he is missing and go down a very dangerous road... I am so passionate about this because pornograhpy has hurt my relationship with my husband tremendously.. bottom line is that a "Christian" movie should never have scenes where you have to turn and look away.... thats ridiculous and I'm so disappointed that you guys are promoting it..
So funny the whole time I've watched the video I thought about how beautiful you look Sutton and how great the hairstyle is, so no reason to be worried!
Best part… “oh my gosh my hair” 😂😂😂😂 I don’t think anyone was paying attention on that Sutton but that was a funny ending to the video. You guys are great 🙏🏻
I just read a really detailed review about the movie and am honestly shocked that you guys are promoting it. It sounds terrible especially for couples dealing with or previously dealt with pornography addictions...
I read the book many years ago and it was good, but the movie is made from a worldly view I would say (from what I saw from the trailer and the review Paul and Morgan did).
@@elizeviktoria How is it that 20 years ago secular movies were made with no Christian aspect at all in them and they were 10 times cleaner than a movie like this? I think that really says something....
I think ppl shouldn’t listen to other ppls opinions before they see it (it just seems like u didn’t see it and watched a review to base ur opinion but correct me if I’m wrong) cause that had been proven psychologically to skew ur own bias since you haven’t formulated ur own opinion yet and are more susceptible to catering towards others esp if what they say you already agree with. I think it’s important we watch it ourselves and formulate our own opinions, there’s ppl who loved it and ppl who’ didn’t so it rlly is subjective
I love your content so much!! One thing I just wanted to note. I've heard mixed reviews on Redeeming Love, and I want to encourage everyone to look at the criticisms, and decide if it really is of benefit or not. I look forward to seeing more of your content.
Omg I feel like the passive aggressive, not saying what you mean thing is completely flipped for me and my husband!😂😂 I do NOT pick up on hints or sarcasm AT ALL so I’m always just like say what you mean and mean what you say lol
The last minute was super! I was thinking about the 1 or 2 hairs in front...that would tickle me and I'd have to blow them out of the way. I thought that Nate hurt Sutton's feelings after the sarcasm question.
On dates before being married I think it was always well received if I prayed before the meal. If they didn’t like it, it would make me wonder what was the reason behind it? Now being married it’s just our normal routine to pray before our meals. God provides, the least we could do is thank him!
Sutton, hahahahahaha, the end with the hair catastrophe.... 😂 I did think something looked different about you, I didn't know it was that bad to you!!😂 We love you anyway!!
Please watch Alisa Childers video called "Here's Why I am NOT going to See Redeeming Love". Read the comments also before you make the decision to watch it. I haven't seen it myself, I've just been hearing different reviews both good and bad. But her take on it made me 100% make up my mind to not watch it.
Sutton seems to want everything : humor, height, muscle, introvert, extrovert, humility, confidence, drive, great teeth/smile, etc. Glad you found him. Just don’t want guys to feel discouraged. I think everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Just find someone you care about that you are willing to commit to for the rest of your life.
This is very thoughtful! Just keep in mind, she did say this was all her opinion and everything she said was her husband which I personally found kinda cute :) I think that’s what guys should take away, there’s a girl who’s ideal type is/will become you and everything you are. She’s also married now, her opinion as a single woman likely isn’t the opinion she had now that she’s married w the love of her life and that’s what is important to remember
I think we are passive-aggressive because we think that guys’ gestures/kindness/etc. towards us are more genuine if it was their idea, rather than something we just came out and told them to do?
You should listen to the most recent podcast on Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer, about Redeeming Love. I love you guys but I strongly encourage you to reconsider your endorsement of this movie!
Can y’all be more understanding?!?!?! Stop hating! Marriages have their share of mistakes and it’s for the benefit of both. Just because they were transparent about a past situation doesn’t give you the right to anyone to lash out like that!!! First take out the log from your own eye 👁️ Plz show love and Biblical advice! Thank you
I love the book Redeeming Love and happy that the movie is true to the book. I am from Europe and just watched the movie recently. There was apparently so much debate going on in the Christian US about nudity and intimate scenes (it is covered) in the movie, and some youtubers basically telling Christians not to go. I find your positive short review refreshing and at the same time letting people know to be cautious of some scenes. I understand that for some people who are struggling with lust it might not be good idea to watch, but let it be their own conviction. Sometimes US christianity is standing so much for what they are against of and not what they are pro of, that they are turning non-Christians away. So thank you for your positive review! ❤
Almost every single one of these, o was thinking "I would say the same thing." Except I would take it farther and say I would be disappointed if the guy didn't pray on the first date, and I don't think shorter girls care about height very much as long as the guy is still taller than us
I also liked taller guys until i fell in love with my best friend who was shorter. Was with him for years and i never thought man i wish he was shorter. I thought man i wish he was nicer and thats y we broke up 🤣 maybe its better to do a poll of many women people change their minds when they fall in love so really none of this stuff matters in the end. We fall for the heart.
Just to add, about flirting, I had a guy who every now and then when talking he used to touch a girl and I really got bored and we broke up. Honestly I think its wise to know when to stop touching anyhow
Like the Kelly Clarkson song says, pick the weeds but keep the flowers. When I met my ex he prayed for the food because we went out to eat when we met.
Sutton- “Oh shoot my hair. Did it look like this? Oh my gosh, you gotta watch that!” Lol this was great! Sutton you’re too funny and I thought your hair looked cute!
Hmm I don't think Sutton is aware that Nate left that last part of the video in there. Nate is being sneaky! Although, I mean, Sutton you did say you have to watch that...lol
Ohhh I can’t wait to watch Redeeming love too it was also my fav novel but I have noooo idea when it’ll come to Australia 😭😭 … hopefully sometime soon 🤞🏼
It seams like the red pill community is still right in many ways, you can put on the “goody Christian” facade, but the reality of social behavior is still there behind the scenes.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
With the being straight toward thing I think it definitely depends on the girl. Growing up in church I feel like it’s a taboo thing for girls to make it known that they like someone because guys are supposed to be the pursuer. I don’t think it’s wrong for a girl to pursue also.
Me too, esp cause I’ve heard (esp recently) from guys that they encourage girls to do the persuing cause even if it doesn’t work out it feels good to know someone is interested in you or compliment you
I agree and also Charlotte as a Christian guy myself it will just make me assume #1 she's not interested, #2 she's fearful to be vulnerable in her interests of me out of fear I'll later reject her, #3 she's too prideful and feels she deserves to be chased because she's the prize and people need to overly exalt her value. So yeah overall I'd see the spirit of confusion over a women like that and would have no more interests because my father comes with clarity and a sound mind😇
Could you guys maybe do a review or talk about the book & movie Redeeming Love? The new Christian movie based off the Hosea in the Bible. ❤️ there are Christians on both sides and I just went through another believer trying to convict me almost that I shouldn’t have read the book etc.
Yes please 🙌 I heard about it from Chad and Tori Masters. Had never heard of the book before then but seeing the movie I could relate so much because I had struggled with things in my past that like "Angel" made me feel disqualified from having better and struggling to receive God's love and understanding that He loves me in spite of all of it. I just felt so loved after watching it because in reality that's the situation for a lot of people, even the children of Israel. That's the whole reason we needed a Savior to come to our rescue. I don't know the arguments you've heard though I am curious, but that's my perspective.
I really do love your perspective and that gave me encouragement & as I’ve felt so much judgement in this one Christian saying I shouldn’t have read it basically. And to pray for wisdom & discernment before seeing the movie. She hasn’t read the book, but referenced a Christian podcast Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer. Only listened to about 20 minutes before they related this book to soft porn. I thought that was absurd personally. Been praying about it a lot.
@@taylorhedrick2999 I would say like I say for everything, follow your peace. For some it may pose a problem because of background, history, mindsets, etc; but for others it's not an issue. Like how for some, Starbucks may be addicting while for others (like me who don't care for coffee) there's no desire or temptation there whatsoever. The Holy Spirit speaks to every believer individually and He can lead and guide better than anyone. If the book/movie didn't cause lustful thoughts in your mind or breed any form of temptation for you and you only saw the actual biblical message it offered then it's fine for you. For those who only saw it as a book with sex in it, that's something they need to take to God regarding their own hearts because they're clearly focused on the wrong thing. The movie also had profanity and violence in it as well but no one seems to be talking about that like they harp on the sex; she was a prostitute after all and furthermore Christian couples DO HAVE SEX after marriage as portrayed in the movie. The issue with religion is that it tends to find fault more than finding the love of God. It focuses on rules and judging what it deems to be right vs. wrong instead of focusing on close relationship with God and letting Him be the only righteous judge to correct you if need be, and to do so in a way that gives grace (unmerited favor and the ability to do live how He calls you to live) instead of condemnation.
Truly loved everything about your reply / response. Will be referring back to this! Truly spoke to me on just how Christianity, Church, Religion can focus on the bad & the rules. I felt a lot of that which I never have and it really rubbed me wrong the way, so I’m praying peace over that, because I see how people can be “hurt by the church.” Again, thank you for your well written response - means a lot
James 3:15 “This wisdom decendeth not from above, But is earthly, sensual, devilish.” What is sensual? Redeeming Love movie is devilish. When is it ok for Christians to promote sensuality? Never. It’s not of God. Nate and Sutton, where is your fear of God? Don’t sell out for a brand deal. God will not be mocked. God chastises His own. Galatians 6:7
I’m Catholic, not practicing and in general very far from church as I think its ridiculous, but i mostly agree with what Sutton says. I do believe man doesn’t lead, we both lead. But teeth, heights, posture (although I’m dad bod girl). I wouldn’t mind a guy praying before a meal, as long as his not religious in a way that he forces me into his beliefs, as for example I’m pro choice. I completely with money question, as I want to make a career and I need someone who’s as ambitious as I am. I hate games. I also date to marry, as I want to have a family one day. I’m in a long distance relationship right now and we set things straight before and I do believe this is what makes us strung 🖤
@@cbentler4528 because I’m baptized and was raised in that religion. I even went to Catholic school for 9 years, where I experienced bulling coming from teachers and sexual harassment coming from headmaster who was a priest. So technically I’m still Catholic since I’m in the books. I do believe there’s something and I call it God. What I don’t need is church and blindly believe in what they say. I will never do something that is not aligned with my beliefs. To give you ab example (I don’t know if you’re Catholic or not) Catholic Church doesn’t agree with birth control, premarital sex is obviously a no. Whereas I am pro choice, which involves also me being on birth control as I don’t want to have children for now and I enjoy sex. Regarding abortion, even if woman’s life is in danger, she still have to give birth according to the church etc.
@@Alinasinging its not the Catholic Church that says that premarital is sinful, its God Himself in the Bible. In fact, Paul wrote (under the influence of the Holy Spirit) in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 « 9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. »
@@apracity7672 well, first you have to believe that Bible isn’t written by people being high, because it’s not normal when someone talks or “influences” you and you don’t see him/her. That’s called schizophrenia 😅 I have my own theory about Bible, same with 10 Commandments
I don't get girls who do not like guys who are polite, respectful, and considerate. Maybe they just don't think we are out there so they settle for everything less. I am waiting for a gal who likes this and is attracted to it.
I think it's simply that often times the nice ones arent physically attractive to us. It's almost like we're expected to just accept a nice guy because he is nice but physical attraction (whether it comes after getting to know them and you have thst switch-flip moment or you like them off the bat) is very important. Not highly, but substantially enough because attraction is the only thing that distinguishes that person from any other brethren in Christ. So it would be extremely dishonouring to lead someone to believe you are attracted to them by agreeing to a relationship with them and that aspect is not there.
Sutton, please, your hair was fine. For the sake of all of the cancer patients, old ladies who have lost hair, people with medical or medicinal issues of hair loss, please just be happy with whatever your hair is doing. You are beautiful! Don't you know that you are beautiful?!😀 God bless!
Hello Nate, I’d like to address you with a question, “what do you think of Sutton’s favorite surprise phrase [ oh my gosh]?” I don’t expect you to reply . But if you do take a moment to comment on this phrase , that’ll be greatly appropriated!
I must admit as a non-believer I am just genuinely surprised at how superficial many christians seem to be... I mean if female body hair or skinny men are such a turnoff for you, that's up to you, I just honestly thought that most Christians would strive to see what is on the inside and accept that God created everyone differently (and the vast majority of women with body hair, I'm sorry)
Wait, so he wanted her to have the foresight to consider that he would want a meal when he came home late at night after being on a plane but he couldn’t have the foresight and consideration to think she doesn’t want to take small children to urgent care? This is really quite sad.
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Nate’s eyes when Sutton was recounting the urgent care story…. Holy shit girl are you ok?? Nate, why on earth would you not INSIST on keeping the kids so your sick wife could get help? What’s wrong with you?
Ick, he is so cringe. I bet she really got it off camera. He is such a narcissist. Makes my skin crawl.
He messed up, but she didn't communicate clearly. Shouldn't you be more encouraging to him and give some constructive criticism in this comment
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
So let me get this straight: she is supposed anticipate him wanting a hot meal at 10 pm when he gets home from traveling, but he isn’t supposed to understand he needed to keep the kids when she went to the dr??? Are you kidding me
Literally. Trash.
This was exactly what I was about to comment. He’s a terrible person.
Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly
Sutton your hair is SO beautiful no matter what it's doing.. you could walk through a hedge backwards and you'd still be the prettiest girl in the room 😌
Haha omg you are so sweet!
@@nateandsutton girl. Get out. This guy is a huge narcissist. Go on TT and see what all the therapists are saying about his behavior.
Nate, where was the *forethought for Sutton’s situation* when she had to go to urgent care? And you were mad she didn’t have a sandwich ready for you when you got home from the airport?
Why would you think it’s okay to not take the kids so she can go to urgent care? That is the most narcissistic behavior! What a selfish terrible husband!
Sutton please leave this one sided abusive relationship! I promise you will be happier with another man who treats you like the queen you are! This man does NOT!!!
So you have to read his mind when it comes to dinner, but he can’t read yours when it comes to his kids? Grow up bro. Be better to your wife. You found an amazing woman. Treat her accordingly. And Sutton don’t let him treat you that way. He needs to watch the kids when you go do stuff. ESP going to urgent care. And the face he made when you were talking about it is terrifying. And why do I see her apologizing more or taking responsibility more?
Also let me say this, my husband is a plumber/ac tech. He works every day sometimes 80 hrs a week. But when he is home if I need to go do something or run errands he automatically offers to watch the kids at home. We have 4 kids. There is no excuse for him not to watch his own fuckin children! Like I’m sorry your husband is this way. And I hope you know that it’s not okay behavior
@@Brittanyshannon22 Girl obviously they both were stressed, yes he made a mistake, don’t judge ppl for that, we live and we learn, you’ve made mistakes before, would you like an entire comment section talking abt that even if you slightly brought it up, be better honestly, and she literally js explained how they miscommunication, everyone is different, he prob learned from taht mistake stop judging what’s none of your business
“Stick to reality here” high-key gaslighting and weaponizing his incompetence. Your wife needs to go to urgent care, take care of your kids dude
“Stick to reality here” but you think it’s realistic to ask your wife to watch your kids while she needs medical attention 🤡 makes sense
This is why putting women in a subservient echo chamber is so abusive to them. She thinks it’s her fault he didn’t watch the kids while she went to urgent care. No sweetie, if he cared about your well being even in the slightest he would have the care and compassion to think of someone’s needs besides his own. It shouldn’t have even been a discussion or a question. It should be a given because expecting the opposite is ludicrous. Yea take my two children to a waiting room chock full of sick ppl when they’re of the age they lick everything and can’t sit still. It’s the better option then me (their father) watching them at home. Do you see how completely stupid that is? I really hope you can find a way out someday and someone who treats you and cares for you the way a husband should treat and care for his wife.
Also, the was he was seething as she explained that was terrifying.
Ugh, here from TikTok again. It's despicable behavior, frankly, if a husband doesn't just assume he will be watching the kids while his wife is at URGENT CARE. Good grief, I wouldn't even have to hint at it or be sarcastic. There is clearly some very toxic, narcissistic behavior on Nate's part and the fact that your two sit down to do marriage advice videos is appalling. My husband (of 19 years) and I are also conservative Christians, and we are far from perfect and marriage is very hard, but if I were headed to urgent care for any reason he'd drop everything to help me, no questions asked. It's sad to me that Sutton tolerates this gross behavior from her husband, and furthermore that you two think this kind of content sets a good example. What's worse, TikTokers looking to hate on Christianity are using Nate's toxicity as examples of why Christianity is bad. Gah. Stop giving them perfect content! 🤦🏼♀️
This is toxic as hell! Who is listening to these people?!
What's it like being a married single mom of 4 kids?
The low key satisfaction in Nate’s eyes when Sutton said yes to the muscle mass question 😂
From my own perspective, I look for guys that balance out certain aspects of my personality and complement others. I’m quite introverted so I feel like I need someone to get me out of my shell to balance that, but then I also love deep intellectual conversations so I look for someone that can complement that aspect. There’s never a one size fits all personality and the same way there’s no one size fits all body type. We’re all created unique by God’s beautiful design so guys, don’t ever be discouraged! You all have wonderful personality traits that God gave you for a reason! Use it for His glory ❤️
One thing that I personally find super attractive in a guy is when he is humbly but confidently living out his faith rooted in love… when you can tell a guy loves Jesus first… YES 🙌🏼
Yes! Love this! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Nate is nothing but a giant red flag. Wow
As a girl I totally agree with Suttons answers 110%. I would also like to add as a Christian, that a guy who clearly puts the Lord first (but not in a show off type of way) not only is very attractive, but also makes me feel more secure.
That's my prayer everyday, A man who really puts God 1st without having to even think about it bringsso much security!! I always fear of a man who is rather too logical, realistic, calculative over and above the voice of the Holy Spirit because there is just no guarantee in this earth, rather God 1st then logic.
LMFAOO
Why does this man act like he absolutely despises this woman? He loathes her and she can’t even see it. I think he needs therapy.
Have you watched their other videos? Have you ever made a mistake or been inconsiderate? If you watch their numerous other videos and saw their love for Jesus and each other and the boundaries he put in place while dating, you would see he was honoring God. You shouldn’t judge someone from a short video. Further, you shouldn’t judge at all.
Ladies, if you meet a man like this, run like hell. He's totally just into himself. He's a child. Blech.
Whoa, why would it even be a back and forth to begin with about her going to the urgent care alone? She should just go! Those are his kids. He should think of her needs. And his comment at the end?? 😢
“Do girls think it’s odd if a guy prays for the meal on a first date?” Are you kidding me?! If he doesn’t, I’m walking right out of the restaurant!! 🤣
Amen! "Don't waste your time playing games." You better PREACH Sutton! Love you guys!😁😁😁
Dude why make your wife go to urgent care with two little ones? So disrespectful
No I think he definitely should have used his man brain to not be so obtuse and make you take the kids to a doctors appointment. Yes communication is good, but seriously. And how many videos I’ve watched and is lack of willingness to apologize to you as a Christian man is so mind blowing. PRIDE! What I find most attractive about my husband is that when I point something out, and it’s hurt me, even if he doesn’t agree he can say “I’m sorry that hurt you, that was never my intention and I’ll try and do better and find a different way” this man… I can’t. You should pray on that Nate. Humble yourself and serve your wife like she does for you. I can’t find the air port/not eating video on here right now or the working out after the baby video But look back please. Pray and reflect. Take yourself down a peg. Yes I get she didn’t “think” that as a grown man she would have to think about your needs without you actually communicating them to you, but you are also responsible for your self and your needs. Or the fact that doesn’t matter what you meant about the work out comments. You still hurt her feeling. Of course she’s still going to love you and move on, but that doesn’t mean you can’t take responsibility or that that’s such a sensitive time in a woman’s life and just saying “you know I love you no matter what you look like and God gave me you. I love you and I’m so sorry I made you feel that way, I never wanted to do that” humble yourself. What would Jesus do. We are all wrong doers. We all should be apologizing for hurting others intentional or not. Your wife is more precious that rubies. Love her as Christ loved the church. Feel sorry for hurting her. Think of her. God first, then her, then children, self LAST! You have a huge following. Be better buddy. Show the True Christ. Not this toxic man Christian image that’s giving anti Christians room to talk about on tiktok. We don’t need any more ammo to load into their weapons.
If you (husband) were considering the "reality" of the situation, you would've been taking on your *responsibility as a parent* to take care of you kids while she went to the hospital. Why? Why would you not immediately want to take that on so she didn't have to watch the kids in the waiting room of the hospital while simultaneously dealing with a health issue???
This man is so narcissistic. I cannot believe there are so many positive comments on this video. She had to go to urgent care and he couldn't pick up on the fact that he should watch their children??? And now when they are recounting this, he once again is acting like she is in the wrong?!? "Stick to reality". The reality is that you are a terrible husband and not a good Christian. A good man wouldn't even have to think about whether or not he should watch his kids while his wife goes to urgent care.
This was a super fun video! Several of the things you guys talked about were exactly what I found so amazing about my husband. At the end of our first phone call (we met online) he asked if he could pray over us and it blew my socks off! He wears his heart on his sleeve and is never shy about saying how he feels. And the most important character trait was I wanted someone who loved God more than he loved me. I knew if he loved God more than me, he would resect and love me, and always follow Christ's lead in our lives. I knew there would be an incredible amount of safety in that. And now we're celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary next month!
Girl, are you okay? Everytime these videos pop up, the husband is throwing how heavily toxic and somewhat scary vibes. He looks like the type to slap a woman around, and say he does it because he loves her so much.
He is scary!
Girl. YOU NEED TO RUN. For the hills.
In the 3rd question Mr.Nate made a pretty good example of "when is leading a relationship too much" cause iv'e seen some friends say "lets go to here" and they will say "no no lets go here! trust me" almost every time. and that's what (sometimes) ends the relationship. also Nate, and Sutton love you guys so much! as a young and fellow christian i love this channel for the tips that i can take and use in my daily life, and i believe that god has blessed me along with every other person with you guys! thank you, and have a blessed day!
The fact that that movie showed more than needed to and that was just from watching the trailer put me off the entire thing and you confirmed it. It should not matter how nice the story line is, either make a Christian movie that's a safe space to minister to people or don't bother at all. Putting all that in there would cause believers to stumble or give them an excuse to think that "it's a Christian movie so it's ok".
I totally agree with you. I don't think it is appropriate whatsoever. The screen is a window and the movie is clearly showing real people doing real ungodly acts.
I mean the story it’s based off of in the bible is apparently also pretty if not even more explicit than the movie…
The book of Hosea is not about a girl sold into sex slavery and rescued out of it but a picture for Israel to see their wilful, repeated, unrepentant rebellion against Him. This movie misses the entire point of what God is saying in this book.
Marietta Van Middelkoop From my understanding neither the movie nor the book was meant to copy the book of Hosea, it’s very clearly said that it’s LOSELY based on the story of the couple in it, they literally say it inspired this story so you shouldn’t be going into it expecting that exact same theme or accuracy considering that’s not what the authors intent ever was.
That face you make Sutton at 14:00 (after you guys made the cut) speaks volumes. The fear, confusion, and hurt you’re expressing is typical when being gaslit and mentally abused over time. It’s an insidious sin that can wreck havoc on everything the Lord calls for you as His Daughter. Bring it all to the light and model for your children God’s truth. I recommend individual therapy to find your voice and learn to take up room in this relationship. You are partners and not made to worship at the alter of a man’s ego.
Girl i think your husband is a narc🥴
I like how Sutton prefers men that are masculine and have masculine qualities. Yes girl!!
@New Soul.9 I meant the character qualities of a man that are masculine according to the Bible, not the physical qualities that are masculine according to the world, which would be height.
@New Soul.9 Masculine or feminine can be applied to both behavior and physical qualities. In my comment, I was praising Sutton's preferences because she prefers the qualities of a masculine man, according to scripture. The world praises the physical qualities of what is masculine or feminine. Using that world's definition then yes, a flat chest and booty are not considered feminine and a short male isn't considered masculine. So you're right, that definition is stupid, but it's not the definition I am using. Being feminine or masculine means something different in the Bible. It's based on character not physical.
@New Soul.9 Every human is loved by God no matter how masculine or feminine they are. No matter how tall, how skinny. All individuals are created and formed by the Lord. We all have preferences in significant others and both Sutton and I were expressing our opinion. And you are too. So let's just leave it at that and all get along. 😆
Sutton nobody would have noticed your hair until you mentioned it. lol I enjoyed Sutton's perspective! Tfs
My god, is this woman okay? She really deserves better than this entitled prince :( hope she sees that one day
I can’t believe Sutton is saying that all girls do these things….
HAHAH just kidding 🤣🤣😉
I didn't even notice the hair falling until she mentioned it in the last clip.😅You look amazing Sutton (as always😊)
my husband is a few inches shorter than me. i always invisioned a guy who was taller than me cuz i am tall but God sent me the best guy and he has never been worried about being shorter than me cuz he just loved me for me! been together 14 years and married 8 years. its natural for woman to like a guy taller as we see them as protectors and comforters, luckily my husband fills that for ne regardlesa of our height difference.
I love the ending!! Def worth watching for that!😂😂
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I completely agree with you Sutton! Everything you said, spot on! Love these videos!!
The gaslighting
I didn’t even notice the hair till after Sutton said something lol
Isn't Redeeming love like soft porn though? Don't you guys think it is being used to slowly incorporate some worldliness and lukewarmness to Christianity? Would anyone recommend to read the book to a girl in her twenties who has struggled with lust in the past? I would love to order it but I am quite hesitant because it seems to be getting mixed reviews.
I 100% agree on being VERY careful about this title in particular along with some of the author’s other books. It is def on the side of soft porn (didn’t see the movie) and I would argue it is not necessary to “entertain” Christians with romantic novels that include worldly lusts and fleshly desires so explicitly. I am a woman who struggles with lust/mental purity and I’ve not allowed myself to read this book because I don’t want to support romantic novels or to dwell on anything of this nature even if it is based on a biblical story. I wouldn’t let my kids read it if I had any. My 2 cents
I agree the book definitely has some definite descriptive scenes however, the book is fashioned from the book of Hosea in the Bible. If you read the book of Hosea before or after reading this book, you may see the story in a different light.In the book of Hosea, you will see that God ked Hosea to take a wife (not a pure wife) and the issues he experienced during his marriage. If you really think the story of the book through, one will see themself as the Harlot, in need of a savior. We, like Angel have many sins yet God loves us anyway and desires for us to turn to him and allow him to give us a better life. Yet, we just can’t comprehend his love and often turn away from him.
@@sandracrig378 Then I'll just read Hosea. The author of Hosea didn't see ot fit to describe Hosea and Gomer's intimate moments and even song of songs isn't explicit.
In the NT God tells us not to be unequally yoked, and the book romanticizes being unequally yoked. They try to put a Biblical spin on it by saying that it is based on Hosea. God commanded Hosea specifically to marry Gomer to image God's faithfulness to His bride despite His bride's unfaithfulness toward Him. Hosea had a direct command from God, the unequally yoked command was only given in the New Testament, therefore Hosea did not sin. However, God established the terms for marriage clearly in the NT by telling us not to be unequally yoked. You do not marry a person in order to evangelise them, or to help them out of bad circumstances. Marriage is nog a charity case, you have to think about your children.
@@sandracrig378 i agree with you. i've never read the book, but since the trailer of the movie came out i wanted to read first. i definitely feel like this history have some biblical things, but even if not, i will still recommend to us, christians, exam everything and absorve what's good to us, and if you can't do that, so don't watch or read that thing cause you know it's gonna lead to the sin that you're dealing with
That ending though 😂😂😂
I love your sweater Sutton!!
Thank you!
Imagine a 16 year old boy whos a Christian and has stayed away from the temptation of pornograohy and goes and sees this movie.... he might see what he is missing and go down a very dangerous road... I am so passionate about this because pornograhpy has hurt my relationship with my husband tremendously.. bottom line is that a "Christian" movie should never have scenes where you have to turn and look away.... thats ridiculous and I'm so disappointed that you guys are promoting it..
I agree
So funny the whole time I've watched the video I thought about how beautiful you look Sutton and how great the hairstyle is, so no reason to be worried!
Best part… “oh my gosh my hair” 😂😂😂😂 I don’t think anyone was paying attention on that Sutton but that was a funny ending to the video. You guys are great 🙏🏻
I just read a really detailed review about the movie and am honestly shocked that you guys are promoting it. It sounds terrible especially for couples dealing with or previously dealt with pornography addictions...
I was shocked too..
I read the book many years ago and it was good, but the movie is made from a worldly view I would say (from what I saw from the trailer and the review Paul and Morgan did).
@@elizeviktoria How is it that 20 years ago secular movies were made with no Christian aspect at all in them and they were 10 times cleaner than a movie like this? I think that really says something....
Yup, I was shocked to see that
I think ppl shouldn’t listen to other ppls opinions before they see it (it just seems like u didn’t see it and watched a review to base ur opinion but correct me if I’m wrong) cause that had been proven psychologically to skew ur own bias since you haven’t formulated ur own opinion yet and are more susceptible to catering towards others esp if what they say you already agree with. I think it’s important we watch it ourselves and formulate our own opinions, there’s ppl who loved it and ppl who’ didn’t so it rlly is subjective
I love your content so much!! One thing I just wanted to note. I've heard mixed reviews on Redeeming Love, and I want to encourage everyone to look at the criticisms, and decide if it really is of benefit or not.
I look forward to seeing more of your content.
Love Sutton, she is the most sincere person in UA-cam!
Thank you 😭💛💛
Sutton that cracked me up 😂😂😂 you’re beautiful!
Reading the review on Focus on the Family, that movie is more than concerning...
Omg I feel like the passive aggressive, not saying what you mean thing is completely flipped for me and my husband!😂😂 I do NOT pick up on hints or sarcasm AT ALL so I’m always just like say what you mean and mean what you say lol
My mum doesn't always get sarcasm and when she doesn't I'm like 🤦♀️😂
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@@CrypticHowl hahah people probably feel the same way about me but it just goes over my head😂
@@RosyCheeksBoutiq is that sarcasm? Jk lol yeah same actually 😂
The last minute was super! I was thinking about the 1 or 2 hairs in front...that would tickle me and I'd have to blow them out of the way.
I thought that Nate hurt Sutton's feelings after the sarcasm question.
I’m not touchy so when I flirt I get kinda scared about that 🤷🏻♀️😂 I also ask random questions and sometimes tend to be a little bit more shy.
Can somebody please tell Sutton...."Ain't nobody noticed your hair was down gurl". It looked so lovely.
On dates before being married I think it was always well received if I prayed before the meal. If they didn’t like it, it would make me wonder what was the reason behind it? Now being married it’s just our normal routine to pray before our meals. God provides, the least we could do is thank him!
Sutton, hahahahahaha, the end with the hair catastrophe.... 😂 I did think something looked different about you, I didn't know it was that bad to you!!😂 We love you anyway!!
Sutton you look so pretty!!🌷
Please watch Alisa Childers video called "Here's Why I am NOT going to See Redeeming Love". Read the comments also before you make the decision to watch it. I haven't seen it myself, I've just been hearing different reviews both good and bad. But her take on it made me 100% make up my mind to not watch it.
The ending of Sutton about her hair is Me😅😅
Sutton seems to want everything : humor, height, muscle, introvert, extrovert, humility, confidence, drive, great teeth/smile, etc. Glad you found him. Just don’t want guys to feel discouraged. I think everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Just find someone you care about that you are willing to commit to for the rest of your life.
This is very thoughtful! Just keep in mind, she did say this was all her opinion and everything she said was her husband which I personally found kinda cute :) I think that’s what guys should take away, there’s a girl who’s ideal type is/will become you and everything you are. She’s also married now, her opinion as a single woman likely isn’t the opinion she had now that she’s married w the love of her life and that’s what is important to remember
I'd say it's kinda hot if the guy prays before the meal lol.
Yes l love the perspective y’all offer on these videos! I love them!
I think we are passive-aggressive because we think that guys’ gestures/kindness/etc. towards us are more genuine if it was their idea, rather than something we just came out and told them to do?
You should listen to the most recent podcast on Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer, about Redeeming Love. I love you guys but I strongly encourage you to reconsider your endorsement of this movie!
Yes!! Amen!!! I LOVE her and I listened to it!! So so good.
Do you have a link?
Can y’all be more understanding?!?!?! Stop hating! Marriages have their share of mistakes and it’s for the benefit of both. Just because they were transparent about a past situation doesn’t give you the right to anyone to lash out like that!!! First take out the log from your own eye 👁️
Plz show love and Biblical advice! Thank you
Muscle mass doesn’t matter to me at all. I prefer intelligence and sense of humor the most.
Love that u both are so openly vain!!
I love the book Redeeming Love and happy that the movie is true to the book. I am from Europe and just watched the movie recently. There was apparently so much debate going on in the Christian US about nudity and intimate scenes (it is covered) in the movie, and some youtubers basically telling Christians not to go. I find your positive short review refreshing and at the same time letting people know to be cautious of some scenes. I understand that for some people who are struggling with lust it might not be good idea to watch, but let it be their own conviction. Sometimes US christianity is standing so much for what they are against of and not what they are pro of, that they are turning non-Christians away. So thank you for your positive review! ❤
Really agree on the passive aggression for me😁
I actually thought the hair was meant to be like that. It looked great 👍
Almost every single one of these, o was thinking "I would say the same thing." Except I would take it farther and say I would be disappointed if the guy didn't pray on the first date, and I don't think shorter girls care about height very much as long as the guy is still taller than us
I also liked taller guys until i fell in love with my best friend who was shorter. Was with him for years and i never thought man i wish he was shorter. I thought man i wish he was nicer and thats y we broke up 🤣 maybe its better to do a poll of many women people change their minds when they fall in love so really none of this stuff matters in the end. We fall for the heart.
Just to add, about flirting, I had a guy who every now and then when talking he used to touch a girl and I really got bored and we broke up. Honestly I think its wise to know when to stop touching anyhow
Like the Kelly Clarkson song says, pick the weeds but keep the flowers. When I met my ex he prayed for the food because we went out to eat when we met.
It's so cute that Natan still blushing after hearing your affirmations/compliments about what u like in him and why. Just love you guys💙🙏🏽🙌🏽
Sutton- “Oh shoot my hair. Did it look like this? Oh my gosh, you gotta watch that!” Lol this was great! Sutton you’re too funny and I thought your hair looked cute!
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Hmm I don't think Sutton is aware that Nate left that last part of the video in there. Nate is being sneaky! Although, I mean, Sutton you did say you have to watch that...lol
Ohhh I can’t wait to watch Redeeming love too it was also my fav novel but I have noooo idea when it’ll come to Australia 😭😭 … hopefully sometime soon 🤞🏼
I really want it to come to Australia too! 😭
Ok kinda shocked you guys watched Redeeming love especially since there’s sexual content that really should be rated R.
The flirting thing was on point! Lol touching is totally the tell!
It seams like the red pill community is still right in many ways, you can put on the “goody Christian” facade, but the reality of social behavior is still there behind the scenes.
I didn't even notice your hair was falling until you mentioned it lol don't worry about it. Love the vid!
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
With the being straight toward thing I think it definitely depends on the girl. Growing up in church I feel like it’s a taboo thing for girls to make it known that they like someone because guys are supposed to be the pursuer. I don’t think it’s wrong for a girl to pursue also.
Me too, esp cause I’ve heard (esp recently) from guys that they encourage girls to do the persuing cause even if it doesn’t work out it feels good to know someone is interested in you or compliment you
I agree and also Charlotte as a Christian guy myself it will just make me assume #1 she's not interested, #2 she's fearful to be vulnerable in her interests of me out of fear I'll later reject her, #3 she's too prideful and feels she deserves to be chased because she's the prize and people need to overly exalt her value. So yeah overall I'd see the spirit of confusion over a women like that and would have no more interests because my father comes with clarity and a sound mind😇
A new video… my day is now complete :-) Thanks, y’all! I took notes too.
I just bought Redeeming Love and am getting ready to start it! Francine Rivers is an incredible author.
Could you guys maybe do a review or talk about the book & movie Redeeming Love? The new Christian movie based off the Hosea in the Bible. ❤️ there are Christians on both sides and I just went through another believer trying to convict me almost that I shouldn’t have read the book etc.
Oh wow I commented this before you guys said you were sponsored by them!!! Answered prayer!!!
Yes please 🙌 I heard about it from Chad and Tori Masters. Had never heard of the book before then but seeing the movie I could relate so much because I had struggled with things in my past that like "Angel" made me feel disqualified from having better and struggling to receive God's love and understanding that He loves me in spite of all of it. I just felt so loved after watching it because in reality that's the situation for a lot of people, even the children of Israel. That's the whole reason we needed a Savior to come to our rescue. I don't know the arguments you've heard though I am curious, but that's my perspective.
I really do love your perspective and that gave me encouragement & as I’ve felt so much judgement in this one Christian saying I shouldn’t have read it basically. And to pray for wisdom & discernment before seeing the movie. She hasn’t read the book, but referenced a Christian podcast Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer. Only listened to about 20 minutes before they related this book to soft porn. I thought that was absurd personally. Been praying about it a lot.
@@taylorhedrick2999 I would say like I say for everything, follow your peace. For some it may pose a problem because of background, history, mindsets, etc; but for others it's not an issue. Like how for some, Starbucks may be addicting while for others (like me who don't care for coffee) there's no desire or temptation there whatsoever. The Holy Spirit speaks to every believer individually and He can lead and guide better than anyone. If the book/movie didn't cause lustful thoughts in your mind or breed any form of temptation for you and you only saw the actual biblical message it offered then it's fine for you. For those who only saw it as a book with sex in it, that's something they need to take to God regarding their own hearts because they're clearly focused on the wrong thing. The movie also had profanity and violence in it as well but no one seems to be talking about that like they harp on the sex; she was a prostitute after all and furthermore Christian couples DO HAVE SEX after marriage as portrayed in the movie. The issue with religion is that it tends to find fault more than finding the love of God. It focuses on rules and judging what it deems to be right vs. wrong instead of focusing on close relationship with God and letting Him be the only righteous judge to correct you if need be, and to do so in a way that gives grace (unmerited favor and the ability to do live how He calls you to live) instead of condemnation.
Truly loved everything about your reply / response. Will be referring back to this! Truly spoke to me on just how Christianity, Church, Religion can focus on the bad & the rules. I felt a lot of that which I never have and it really rubbed me wrong the way, so I’m praying peace over that, because I see how people can be “hurt by the church.” Again, thank you for your well written response - means a lot
So glad the hair piece was in there.
Loved your hair Sutton! 💕
James 3:15 “This wisdom decendeth not from above, But is earthly, sensual, devilish.” What is sensual? Redeeming Love movie is devilish. When is it ok for Christians to promote sensuality? Never. It’s not of God. Nate and Sutton, where is your fear of God? Don’t sell out for a brand deal. God will not be mocked. God chastises His own. Galatians 6:7
Your hair is totally fine! I would watch your videos no matter how your hair is because of the content:)
I’m Catholic, not practicing and in general very far from church as I think its ridiculous, but i mostly agree with what Sutton says. I do believe man doesn’t lead, we both lead. But teeth, heights, posture (although I’m dad bod girl). I wouldn’t mind a guy praying before a meal, as long as his not religious in a way that he forces me into his beliefs, as for example I’m pro choice. I completely with money question, as I want to make a career and I need someone who’s as ambitious as I am.
I hate games. I also date to marry, as I want to have a family one day. I’m in a long distance relationship right now and we set things straight before and I do believe this is what makes us strung 🖤
Just curious, why do you say that you’re Catholic if you don’t actually practice Catholicism?
@@cbentler4528 because I’m baptized and was raised in that religion. I even went to Catholic school for 9 years, where I experienced bulling coming from teachers and sexual harassment coming from headmaster who was a priest. So technically I’m still Catholic since I’m in the books. I do believe there’s something and I call it God. What I don’t need is church and blindly believe in what they say. I will never do something that is not aligned with my beliefs. To give you ab example (I don’t know if you’re Catholic or not) Catholic Church doesn’t agree with birth control, premarital sex is obviously a no. Whereas I am pro choice, which involves also me being on birth control as I don’t want to have children for now and I enjoy sex.
Regarding abortion, even if woman’s life is in danger, she still have to give birth according to the church etc.
@@Alinasinging its not the Catholic Church that says that premarital is sinful, its God Himself in the Bible. In fact, Paul wrote (under the influence of the Holy Spirit) in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 « 9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. »
@@apracity7672 well, first you have to believe that Bible isn’t written by people being high, because it’s not normal when someone talks or “influences” you and you don’t see him/her. That’s called schizophrenia 😅
I have my own theory about Bible, same with 10 Commandments
@@Alinasinging what is your own theory about the Bible and the 10 commandments?
I don't get girls who do not like guys who are polite, respectful, and considerate. Maybe they just don't think we are out there so they settle for everything less. I am waiting for a gal who likes this and is attracted to it.
Yes. So many girls are lowering their standards because they think it’s normal for guys to be rude and disrespectful:(
I think it's simply that often times the nice ones arent physically attractive to us. It's almost like we're expected to just accept a nice guy because he is nice but physical attraction (whether it comes after getting to know them and you have thst switch-flip moment or you like them off the bat) is very important. Not highly, but substantially enough because attraction is the only thing that distinguishes that person from any other brethren in Christ. So it would be extremely dishonouring to lead someone to believe you are attracted to them by agreeing to a relationship with them and that aspect is not there.
Your weaponized incompetence is showing bud.
Sutton, please, your hair was fine. For the sake of all of the cancer patients, old ladies who have lost hair, people with medical or medicinal issues of hair loss, please just be happy with whatever your hair is doing. You are beautiful! Don't you know that you are beautiful?!😀 God bless!
Hello Nate, I’d like to address you with a question, “what do you think of Sutton’s favorite surprise phrase [ oh my gosh]?”
I don’t expect you to reply . But if you do take a moment to comment on this phrase , that’ll be greatly appropriated!
I must admit as a non-believer I am just genuinely surprised at how superficial many christians seem to be... I mean if female body hair or skinny men are such a turnoff for you, that's up to you, I just honestly thought that most Christians would strive to see what is on the inside and accept that God created everyone differently (and the vast majority of women with body hair, I'm sorry)
Same I thought that too even admired it about christians! Now I don’t know what to think 🤔