It's tough to say who is an ideal woman. She might not even exist. A Keira-like woman who is a mad scientist and into arts... They are rare jewels. I would be in paradise if I had crushes on women who I have no attraction to. Ugh. Nature's curse.
Nowadays women are dangerous. They can just accuse you and you go directly to jail. You have no choice but to stay away until civil court will not destroy your life. Women know they can destroy your life at any moment.
We men have already learned that if you start off as a friend first, you are going to remain a friend for the rest of your lives. You need to set the tone as a man that you are truly interested and you are attracted and there needs to be physical attraction as well as some sort of idea of where you would like to go, from the beginning.
I've been single since 2010 and haven't had sex since then Lol but I can tell you I am much more happier👍 spiritually want to please God more and read the Bible and learning more about Jesus. Hopefully God will send me the right one,? I don't know who? or maybe I'll die single?
I'm going to cry. I feel like such a failure because I go to target at least twice a week. I seen a girl the last time I went, she smiled at me and I smiled back and I was so suprised I couldn't think of anything to say. I just got off work and was in my work clothes. She was looking at the flowers. I could of said a thousand things lol. I have to get out of my shyness if I'm ever going to meet someone. I really appreciate your perspective.
Try to make a habit of talking to people generally as you go about your biz. Old ladies, men, whatever. It takes off all the pressure and outcome focus beyond sharing some fun thought or pleasantry. That's the mindset you need to talk to women you find attractive; no objective just a disinterested connection - very brief or otherwise. It's all practice and it all counts. Good luck buddy!
@@austintomkewitz3981 Yeah, I know. I just got off work, I really only had 2 things on my mind, eat and shower. It threw me for such a loop, I forgot what I was going to get. I walked in circles for a min trying to remember what I wanted and was trying to think of something to say to this girl. Don't worry I thought of a thousand things after I left.
1. take some melatonin 2. drink some warm bedtime tea 3. read a boring book 4. turn off all bright lights prepare to meet the ideal woman in the next 10 minutes 5. keep a dream journal
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
Setting the tone is all about the respect. Once a woman loses respect for you, especially in the beginning, it becomes really hard to get that respect back. Women want and need a man they can respect.
"Respect" for women is just a guy's job (money) and his dominance (power over others) and nothing more. It has little to do with long-term attachment. Keira is very young and she has a lot to learn about the fact that humans are merely human! There is no "vision." There is no "future." There is very little actual "togetherness." There is just decades of grinding for money and getting old and ugly together.
You're doing a great job, and I appreciate your perspective. Even though I may be a bit older, perhaps by just a couple of years, I feel it's important to share something about the idea of the 'ideal woman.' From my own experience, I’ve been through several intense relationships, many of which came with significant challenges that could have been foreseen. There’s no such thing as the ideal woman-it simply doesn’t exist. You might spend years in a relationship, convinced you’ve found the perfect partner, but how can you truly know? Have you met every woman in the world? In relationships, patience and compromise are essential. Without these, it becomes incredibly difficult to maintain a meaningful, lasting connection. To build a relationship that stands the test of time, it must have a solid, well-structured foundation. Lastly, be mindful not to confuse infatuation or a deep friendship with love. These feelings can sometimes feel similar, but they are not the same. Recognizing the difference is critical for creating a relationship that is both real and enduring.
Maybe it's not that deep, I hope so. Maybe he's curious what people thinks, I just clicked out of curiosity and not to find a tutorial. Try to ask him, or try seeing his behaviour more frequently to try to guess the reason.
Kiera, great advice for the future generation. I’m approaching the 3 generation gap (half century in age), so this info isn’t applicable to me. I’ve found that I’m more comfortable being solo. Two marriages that failed, multiple relationships that went nowhere. I’ve figured it out that I’m not good at sharing my life with a partner. I like my peace and quiet. I like my foods to be the same, week after week, year after year. I prefer to watch only the shows and movies I enjoy. Is that knowing what my personal preference’s are or is it selfishness. I can’t say but I know that after going it alone for the past 9 years, I’ve found I do not miss the added drama and stress relationships brought into my world. While this path isn’t for everyone, it works for me. Thank you for your advice and have a great day.
Great Job!! Where the heck does a 20 year old get so much straight up wisdom?!! I am very impressed, and I truly thank you and am so grateful that such a person as you exists. You are genuinely textbook wisdom. You really do deserve credit.... and in some form should receive a benefit for your wisdom... from those whom you reach. Thank you again. Keep up your great work. The world is in desperate need of more people like you. You are a great service to this falling world.
This video helped me to self reflect on this topic a lot, thank you Keira! Many men feel hopeless to find a women nowadays, I see that from many friends who want a serious relationship. Im from Europe btw and yes, it is the same everywhere, not just in the USA In my case, I met a girl months ago, who gives me mixed signals due to being scared to commit because of her past. I was starting to lose track of my self-value over hers, because of her "rejection", but after this video I came back to reality, and reminded myself I don't need to be doing all the effort always to force a relationship to work out, if the girl can see my value she should "run" after me too.
I've seen this comment in a lot of videos like this one and as much as I understand where you're coming from, I slightly beg to differ. First of all, you can't compare a woman to a fish. A fish does not have a choice in the matter because it's just a fish and you can do anything you want with it. If you think a woman's opinion about what women want is invalid, then how else can you know and understand what they want?
You are so conscious at such an age. I'm glad you can understand and convey the subtleties of relationships to your audience. That's important today. Keep doing it!
When i clicked on this video, i thought this was gonna be full of biased or one sided opinions and perspectives. But oo lord, i found the most helpful video ever for the specific topic i wanted on the first day of the year 2025. You have one of the most practical opinions and advices. Thanks alot Keira and a Happy new year.
Yeah, the distance between me and the one, is literally bigger than the diameter of planet Mars. We met on a comment section years ago just like this one. Can't wait to bridge the gap...
That is a good point. Why would that be? Even then do they really want you or is it a monetary advantage they are looking for. Like getting something new. Dopamine is firing on all cylinders. At some point the dopamine isn't as potent. I think it boils down to appreciation so if you want to find someone, look for someone who is appreciative of things. Usually the ones who appreciate the most are the ones who have lost and actually learned the lesson that comes with loss.
The way it immediately cut to a commercial after she revealed "Target", I thought it was the end of the video, and I was like, PUR_FECT_ENDING to this! haha But then there was still 20 more minutes of awesome advise.
this is by far the best video I have seen for months... thanks for being so directly. I was nodding so many times. You are doing a great job, keep it up! greetings from germany
@@Rick_Cleland this is an odd messed up world. A 20 years old with no experience and college degree is giving lectures on love, ideal women, relationships and how to manage finances. We expect her to start political lectures about post-election analysis 😊😊
For me, I want a woman who's truly friendly, honest, determined, sharp, confident and loyal. I also want her to be gym-driven, like me. I'm 28, by the way. I'm also doing my very best not to be insecure, blind and lustful whenever I'm around them.
" friendly, honest, determined, sharp, confident and loyal." That pretty much covers every personality trait. i.e., you want an ideal woman. Are there any things that you're willing to actually overlook?
Gym is boring. Weight training is a crashing bore. Like going to work and earning money, the gym isn't something to be "into", it's something to TOLERATE in order to be more attractive (or realistically, less UNattractive.) People hit the gym to lose blubber and get in shape. I have no idea how anyone could be "into" something so devastatingly tedious and mundane. Weight training is good for you but it is one of the absolutely shittiest and most fucking tedious activities ever invented.
You have some good points here, but at the last parts I disagree with a few things. As men we fight for a woman if we see goodness in her. We don't do it to feel worthy. As you said, we give the relationship. So in the end it is women that need to be worthy of us. And yes we don't need 50 partners. Just a few to find our ideal.
I've built multiple relationships out of friendship first. Once you get to know each other then trust each other, feelings usually follow in my experience.
Amazing video! The wisdom i was looking for! This girl i was talking to just threw everything away cuse she saw i watch videos like these (she felt SUPER betrayed/jealous). i was truly blown away. Thanks for the insights. 😊
Key is to make sure her energy is not in her head, for there is only past preceptions of past relationships in there. The energy mustbe focused on the relationship at hand. Decernment not fear must be her choice of defence from scammers and scemers, trophy hunters, freaks, and geeks.This shows her confience in her choice making not easily infleunced by people, reliegion,tradition,etc. But one who stands for what they want in there god givin freedom of free will. Thats the one i want. KING 👑 THALT 🌹
Her interest is what i look for. For me enjoying life with someone , being the one they know is there in their corner, during this journey of life. A trusting energy, with the overstanding of this is now. No matter of the truth of historys unhealthy relationship concepts and numbers.
I like how you said, don’t match a woman’s energy. I get what you’re saying. My workplace is where I generally meet women (coworkers). There are two coworkers I get along super good with. The light flirty vibe flows. Our energy level is matching and that is where I want it to remain. Because they are coworkers, I will not up my energy to have a mutual beginning leading to friendship outside of the workplace. Friendship that may lead to a relationship. On two occasions, I was thinking about one of my coworkers while working. Doing my thing but the thought of her was like, is she here today. Nothing more. She pops out of nowhere, like she usually do haha. Taps me on the neck or back then says something silly, but in a way that scares me in a playful way. She basically loves to scare me while I’m concentrating. After she play scared me once, I told her while laughing, I was just thinking about you. She looked at me with her pretty eyes and says, so, I’m on your mind? aww. Then that long stare of hers ahh. Twice this happened and I never tell her, yeah, l was day dreaming about you. Can I have your number? * No. I just look back at her and smile. Laugh as well but never say anything in response to her. Sadly, keeping my energy level equal with hers is a must. One rule I keep solid with is, never pursue a coworker. That has been the downfall for both men and women in the workplace. My main objective is to focus on my work. Thereafter, go home and work on my purpose. Love your videos. It’s what the world needs right now.
All my life I searched for the ideal woman. Finally when I found her I was saddened to discover that all her life she had been searching for the ideal man.
No, she's right. I knew exactly what I wanted. Setting boundaries and for me no tattoos, no piercings, no plastic.. The more natural, the better. Feminity, behavior, language, kindness, respectful, smart, genuine... So you don't find these women in clubs. By nature, I am genuinely confident, masculine, and protective. Once you know what you want, it becomes way easier. Looks is for me less important. (Meaning no specific type, but not anything crazy like green- red hair) I had no problem to tell them. This is not going to work because...no matter her looks. Oh my girlfriend tested it me. In the beginning she said "What would you do if I would let a tattoo put on my ankle" I looked at her and said "I don't like tattoos at all" "So if you wanna get rid of me, go for it" She "I was only joking" She never did that.
"Looks for me is less important." As you describe a hair style (unusual color), tattoos, piercings, and plastic. That negates a majority of western women these days in the *looks* department.
Exactly, my friend. Forgot an important one, those with the long crazy plastic fingernails. Ignore them at all cost!!! 1st selection is on her looks. 2nd selection is how she behaves, no attitude and language.. respectful, manners... If she passes that 3rd you spend more time to get to know her better and test.@pace1195
Depends on who you ask, I'd prefer a woman that was never a mother and would prefer to never be one unless I figured out how to become wealthy. I'm 47 so that probably ain't happening :)
I haven't had a woman since 2010 each one was the wrong one!! I finally learned love Jesus first then myself then I can love others unconditionally.. I wasn't perfect in the past relationships by no means!! That goes for the other person the woman I don't expect them to be perfect!! But when they cheat on you and I spend thousands of dollars on them!! I had to draw a line!! I can tell ya I got to know Alex myself and I'm more peaceful being on my own no worries of getting hurt no more 😊 Maybe God will send me the right one? One day? I don't know? I'll let God to be in control My ways doesn't work!!
"He who seek perfection must present himself with perfection". This line is a methaphor for idealism, we all know that the ideal only exist in ones mind.
honestly, i'm amazed by your honesty and wisdom on the topic in question. thank you for sharing it, it helped me. your are an amazing young woman, i wish the best for you.
Pour everything you have into that book. Emotions on pages can be revisited again and again, as moments in time we cherish or rage over. I hope your book is awesome.
Wow, you're amazing. Especially being so young &genuine, and seeing so clearly through the bs. you've got more balls than 10 men put together, and definitely more sense than a lot of women.
@@Ross_Will funny , but not actually true, most just want someone they can relate too, at least the good ones, but yeah it seems like you gotta go though alot of trash, i think its a fake ego.
As someone well beyond his 20's, I love your insights and perspective. Here a re some suggestions on where to meet "the ideal woman": Toastmasters, Outdoor Club, any club of whatever you like to do, grocery store, Plenty of Fish (to fish around if you enjoy online stuff). The "ideal woman" doesn't exist, but as you mention, you can "set the tone" and have fun with someone, without necessarily committing, as long as you're respectful and honest.
I am not American (thank goodness) but I would hazard a guess that most of the posters on here are and I am laughing hard that you Yanks are emailing Keira questions about finding the ideal woman. Really guys Grow Up? Keira is not a matchmaker & this is not a dating website! Get out of your mums basement & go out into the fresh air - the streets, shops, parks, cafes, bars, malls, clubs, colleges, gyms, libraries, bus & train stations are full of women so try striking up a conversation with them - who knows you might find the ideal woman for you or at least one who is pleasant to be with.
Just hang around in ordinary places full of ordinary people living their mundane lives? Not much point in meeting anyone at the dull places you just described. That stuff is all menial everyday drudgery, the only reason any woman would notice you there is if she knows you're rich.
This is a great video. The biggest trap us guys fall into is giving too much energy to the women who don't want us. If you just pay attention to the women that want you and just watch that caliber improve as you build the life you want for yourself you will be amazed!
Lust will blind the strongest of men. I've dated many women that were spectacular to look at and even better in bed, but they were ugly on the inside. As you get older, you descover what really matters.
Most men cannot be strikingly handsome, ultra-wealthy, and the all-dominant all-powerful omniscient Uber-Alpha that makes all the other chicks jealous. Guys like that have little time for women outside of sex anyway.
Don't make it concrete. Change it. You see with time, life teaches you through experience the things that no longer server your ideals. Yesterday you wanted a cute girl with curly hair, well today you just want her to be patient with you. It's okay to change. Just make sure it serves a purpose that is healthy for you and your partner.
!!! Remember: there are no perfect people, we are all living individuals, everyone has their own preferences and character traits, and it's good that we are not perfect, the main thing is to see the positive sides in a person and not criticize them for their shortcomings, we are all here on earth to love ❤️ each other
Thank you for the video. It's not easy finding companionship these days, ideal or even just acceptable. It's a lonely world for many people. I rely on God for direction and comfort, and I trust I'll find someone someday. Your advice is appreciated.
I just subscribed to your channel. You are an ideal woman for most guys. Great advice coming from an ideal woman. I am sure you have heard thousands of dudes tell you this, you are beautiful.
My email is Lhotankeira@gmail.com so don’t mind the subtitles it’s misspelled
damn girl, it's nice to see that you can use the emojis anymore
must've been a ton of work doing subtitles for a 30-minute video damn. i appreciate that
@@williamevincent im obsessed now i need to add MORE!!!!!
It's tough to say who is an ideal woman. She might not even exist. A Keira-like woman who is a mad scientist and into arts... They are rare jewels. I would be in paradise if I had crushes on women who I have no attraction to. Ugh. Nature's curse.
@@keiralhotan For an Obsessed lady there can be only one signature perfume - Obsession by Calvin Klein
Men have a checklist that fits in a post-it note pad.
Women have a 5-page laundry list.
Apparently that's a red flag. I've seen women say they want men to have a long list
@@Josh-sz8ip They already don't fit the short list, why do they want more requirements they aren't gonna meet?
mine's written on a postage stamp with a very blunt pencil :)
Actually ideal women have a shorter list compared to that in my opinion as a male.
if you're looking for an ideal woman, you are lost already
If you’re lost don’t you need to see where to go? Look where you’re going??
@@keiralhotan by lost I think he meant "lost the game". There ain't no such thing as the ideal woman.
For sure well-said. Crazy in the sheets crazy in the streets.
Nowadays women are dangerous. They can just accuse you and you go directly to jail. You have no choice but to stay away until civil
court will not destroy your life. Women know they can destroy your life at any moment.
an ideal women is one who tolerates you
Not on dating aps. I met my wife at a grocery store- cold approach
im happyy 4 you i could never have that.
check out girl scanning the frozen peas? nice.
lier!
you also have good genetics. which is the whole point.
Impossible. They always say: "I hava boifren!"
We men have already learned that if you start off as a friend first, you are going to remain a friend for the rest of your lives. You need to set the tone as a man that you are truly interested and you are attracted and there needs to be physical attraction as well as some sort of idea of where you would like to go, from the beginning.
Yes!!
@@keiralhotan I think you really try to understand things.
@@keiralhotan 💌
@@keiralhotan Would you like to go out with me?
@@ThomasMcKeon1easy buddy...
be with a woman who has accepted you fully, the way you are. your nature. the core of you. and vice versa
Exactly that, my woman has accepted all of me, even the bad, and the worst, and I did the same with her.
@@Nibskywhere did you meet her?
@@dark_nightwing_xl2797 In Uruguay
Do you only want her to accept you as you are
Or you'll accept her as well
@@Emaryam1748 of course I will accept her. it must be reciprocal. otherwise it won't work
I still remember how happy I was when I was single
Slavery is a choice. You can always let her use someone else.
Having trouble keeping your lady happy, are you?
Been single for 10 years it sucks. Lmao.
@thorbeorn4295 bang and go bud. Being locked down is slavery. Death by 1000 cuts
I've been single since 2010 and haven't had sex since then Lol but I can tell you I am much more happier👍 spiritually want to please God more and read the Bible and learning more about Jesus. Hopefully God will send me the right one,? I don't know who? or maybe I'll die single?
I'm going to cry. I feel like such a failure because I go to target at least twice a week. I seen a girl the last time I went, she smiled at me and I smiled back and I was so suprised I couldn't think of anything to say. I just got off work and was in my work clothes. She was looking at the flowers. I could of said a thousand things lol. I have to get out of my shyness if I'm ever going to meet someone. I really appreciate your perspective.
Try to make a habit of talking to people generally as you go about your biz. Old ladies, men, whatever. It takes off all the pressure and outcome focus beyond sharing some fun thought or pleasantry. That's the mindset you need to talk to women you find attractive; no objective just a disinterested connection - very brief or otherwise. It's all practice and it all counts. Good luck buddy!
She was probably taken anyway.
Who are you buying flowers for? Easy peezy cmon man couldn't think of anything???
@@austintomkewitz3981 Yeah, I know. I just got off work, I really only had 2 things on my mind, eat and shower. It threw me for such a loop, I forgot what I was going to get. I walked in circles for a min trying to remember what I wanted and was trying to think of something to say to this girl. Don't worry I thought of a thousand things after I left.
@@Josh-sz8ip She probably was, but I'll never know now :(
1. take some melatonin
2. drink some warm bedtime tea
3. read a boring book
4. turn off all bright lights
prepare to meet the ideal woman in the next 10 minutes
5. keep a dream journal
i love that!
I dream a person with a Y chromosome did not write this ridiculous post.
Glad we all think a like.
😂😂😂😂😂😂, so creative.
I don't have dreams anymore; just *_horrific_* nightmares.
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
I will look into this specifically as you mentioned it but I believe your talking about the hearts bioelectrical magnetic energy field
@@austintomkewitz3981you're talking to a bot
i appreciate a woman's perspective on this topic. great video as always.
Setting the tone is all about the respect. Once a woman loses respect for you, especially in the beginning, it becomes really hard to get that respect back. Women want and need a man they can respect.
"Respect" for women is just a guy's job (money) and his dominance (power over others) and nothing more. It has little to do with long-term attachment.
Keira is very young and she has a lot to learn about the fact that humans are merely human! There is no "vision." There is no "future." There is very little actual "togetherness."
There is just decades of grinding for money and getting old and ugly together.
@@devilsoffspring5519it’s 2024 wimmin need to start bringing more than just looks to the table
You're doing a great job, and I appreciate your perspective. Even though I may be a bit older, perhaps by just a couple of years, I feel it's important to share something about the idea of the 'ideal woman.' From my own experience, I’ve been through several intense relationships, many of which came with significant challenges that could have been foreseen.
There’s no such thing as the ideal woman-it simply doesn’t exist. You might spend years in a relationship, convinced you’ve found the perfect partner, but how can you truly know? Have you met every woman in the world?
In relationships, patience and compromise are essential. Without these, it becomes incredibly difficult to maintain a meaningful, lasting connection. To build a relationship that stands the test of time, it must have a solid, well-structured foundation.
Lastly, be mindful not to confuse infatuation or a deep friendship with love. These feelings can sometimes feel similar, but they are not the same. Recognizing the difference is critical for creating a relationship that is both real and enduring.
Yeah, a real man is going to set the tone every single time so I do agree with that
You are very brave to say this. Men needs women as women needs men. We complement each other
Finally someone who gets it
I'm sick of these young men filled with venom who hate women and say they're gonna be alone forever
What's about women who thinks all men are same and hate men without any reason?@@solidbase777
How do women need men?
3 feet tall, with a flat head so I can rest my beer on it. 😂
I found my dad watching this, he is married with two kids
Maybe it's not that deep, I hope so. Maybe he's curious what people thinks, I just clicked out of curiosity and not to find a tutorial. Try to ask him, or try seeing his behaviour more frequently to try to guess the reason.
@ Alr
now why the fuck would he marry two kids?
@@xdavidseral24xor he found the ideal woman
Kids, listen to this girl. She is amazing, and she is telling the truth.
- Not obese (can be chubby)
- Listens to rock'n roll
- Play video games or at least doesn't hate it.
- Not a feminist
No tattoos, no ghetto-style fingernails, and has never slept with a black guy.
bingo!
i dont know dude.. that's a lot, u know...
Youre basically looking for a guy. You can't expect a woman to like things that man like.
- not obese
- not on drugs
- no tattoo criminal record or extreme sports
- likes making out 😂
Kiera, great advice for the future generation. I’m approaching the 3 generation gap (half century in age), so this info isn’t applicable to me. I’ve found that I’m more comfortable being solo. Two marriages that failed, multiple relationships that went nowhere. I’ve figured it out that I’m not good at sharing my life with a partner. I like my peace and quiet. I like my foods to be the same, week after week, year after year. I prefer to watch only the shows and movies I enjoy. Is that knowing what my personal preference’s are or is it selfishness. I can’t say but I know that after going it alone for the past 9 years, I’ve found I do not miss the added drama and stress relationships brought into my world. While this path isn’t for everyone, it works for me. Thank you for your advice and have a great day.
Great Job!! Where the heck does a 20 year old get so much straight up wisdom?!! I am very impressed, and I truly thank you and am so grateful that such a person as you exists. You are genuinely textbook wisdom. You really do deserve credit.... and in some form should receive a benefit for your wisdom... from those whom you reach. Thank you again. Keep up your great work. The world is in desperate need of more people like you. You are a great service to this falling world.
ok calm down simp
This video helped me to self reflect on this topic a lot, thank you Keira! Many men feel hopeless to find a women nowadays, I see that from many friends who want a serious relationship. Im from Europe btw and yes, it is the same everywhere, not just in the USA
In my case, I met a girl months ago, who gives me mixed signals due to being scared to commit because of her past. I was starting to lose track of my self-value over hers, because of her "rejection", but after this video I came back to reality, and reminded myself I don't need to be doing all the effort always to force a relationship to work out, if the girl can see my value she should "run" after me too.
I got a free therapy session and all the mental support I needed, thank you so much Keira! God bless 🙏🏼😊❤️
Like that girl. She is so smart and genuine
this felt like the bigger sister ive never had. thank you so much
Dont ask a fish how to fish.
That's an interesting way of putting it :)
too bad most of her viewers are men
I've seen this comment in a lot of videos like this one and as much as I understand where you're coming from, I slightly beg to differ.
First of all, you can't compare a woman to a fish. A fish does not have a choice in the matter because it's just a fish and you can do anything you want with it. If you think a woman's opinion about what women want is invalid, then how else can you know and understand what they want?
Lol
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 By observing their actions, which almost 100% of the time belie what they say.
You are so conscious at such an age.
I'm glad you can understand and convey the subtleties of relationships to your audience.
That's important today. Keep doing it!
This is gold! And you are such a gifted speaker!
I love the compassion in your voice you meant everything.
i appreciate the passion, wholeness & balanced vibrations to you, yours & ours beloved💐
When i clicked on this video, i thought this was gonna be full of biased or one sided opinions and perspectives. But oo lord, i found the most helpful video ever for the specific topic i wanted on the first day of the year 2025.
You have one of the most practical opinions and advices.
Thanks alot Keira and a Happy new year.
Easy to find... Just usually a few countries away... Or on another continent...
@gerharddeusser9103 For sure. Women are Insufferable here in the west. 80 percent are on antidepressants
Yeah, the distance between me and the one, is literally bigger than the diameter of planet Mars. We met on a comment section years ago just like this one.
Can't wait to bridge the gap...
That is a good point. Why would that be? Even then do they really want you or is it a monetary advantage they are looking for. Like getting something new. Dopamine is firing on all cylinders. At some point the dopamine isn't as potent. I think it boils down to appreciation so if you want to find someone, look for someone who is appreciative of things. Usually the ones who appreciate the most are the ones who have lost and actually learned the lesson that comes with loss.
No it's not... gimme a break... 🤦
@movement2contact fat clapped out angry women here in the west for sure. Insufferable
It’s not about what you WANT but about what is truly GOOD for you.
If you truly know yourself.
I absolutely LOST IT at “Target” 💀 that’s so fucking true tho
The way it immediately cut to a commercial after she revealed "Target", I thought it was the end of the video, and I was like, PUR_FECT_ENDING to this! haha But then there was still 20 more minutes of awesome advise.
@ No way lol that’s good timing
@@DallasMcGregorNO WAY it happened to me too right there just now😭😭
this is by far the best video I have seen for months... thanks for being so directly. I was nodding so many times. You are doing a great job, keep it up! greetings from germany
That seems like a very odd question to email a woman in her twenties.
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@@Rick_Cleland this is an odd messed up world. A 20 years old with no experience and college degree is giving lectures on love, ideal women, relationships and how to manage finances. We expect her to start political lectures about post-election analysis 😊😊
@@HasanPulur-mk3it That is an "ad hominem" argument. I am 65 and read thousands of books. But I listen to this girl.
You fixed today's relationship issues in one bar. You a real one 👏
Wow Keira you are so wise. I really appreciate your input and clarity around these topics. Keep going!!
I dunno, any girl can talk your ears off but how does Keira earn a living?
@@devilsoffspring5519 At least she isn't on *_OnlyFans._*
Watching Keira's videos are like listening to voice notes from an authentic friend
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Checklist
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Haha Soo funny...not
A lot of people get sarcasm nowadays😂
thanks for the laugh hahah
Can't be too picky these days
Joking aside, what she speaks resonates. so young. I have faith.
For me, I want a woman who's truly friendly, honest, determined, sharp, confident and loyal. I also want her to be gym-driven, like me. I'm 28, by the way. I'm also doing my very best not to be insecure, blind and lustful whenever I'm around them.
" friendly, honest, determined, sharp, confident and loyal." That pretty much covers every personality trait. i.e., you want an ideal woman. Are there any things that you're willing to actually overlook?
@penultimateh766 come to think of it, I don't think there's any that comes to mind.
@@kenrickbautista6141 I see. Are YOU completely without fault then? Why would such a woman be interested?
@@penultimateh766 just want her to see I'm real great to be around and that she knows I really care about her, despite our ups and downs.
Gym is boring. Weight training is a crashing bore. Like going to work and earning money, the gym isn't something to be "into", it's something to TOLERATE in order to be more attractive (or realistically, less UNattractive.)
People hit the gym to lose blubber and get in shape. I have no idea how anyone could be "into" something so devastatingly tedious and mundane.
Weight training is good for you but it is one of the absolutely shittiest and most fucking tedious activities ever invented.
Your the ideal woman ❤😊
You have some good points here, but at the last parts I disagree with a few things.
As men we fight for a woman if we see goodness in her.
We don't do it to feel worthy.
As you said, we give the relationship. So in the end it is women that need to be worthy of us.
And yes we don't need 50 partners. Just a few to find our ideal.
Can't stop laughing, your subtle humor is great!
= a beautiful woman with same values and same feelings.
Marry Christmas to the most genuine and call it like it is lady.
I found one already… she owns this channels
Creepy comment bro
Bro she don’t even know you 😂
@@AceMaxhina damn I was making a joke I didn’t think I pull out all the jealous redditors lol
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 this is the greatest comment of my life. I’ve never had so many replies lol
@@johnhollywoodcarflippingar8234 not as creepy as your UA-cam name. Seems kinda stalkerish. It’s giving serial killer
Hearing that I have the right to have my own checklist was something I didn't know I needed. Thanks.
I've built multiple relationships out of friendship first. Once you get to know each other then trust each other, feelings usually follow in my experience.
"Multiple"?
@penultimateh766 More than one
clearly they all worked out for you 🙄
If it's multiple, it wasn't ideal for both of you clearly. Everything would come naturally
Amazing video! The wisdom i was looking for! This girl i was talking to just threw everything away cuse she saw i watch videos like these (she felt SUPER betrayed/jealous). i was truly blown away. Thanks for the insights. 😊
Key is to make sure her energy is not in her head, for there is only past preceptions of past relationships in there. The energy mustbe focused on the relationship at hand. Decernment not fear must be her choice of defence from scammers and scemers, trophy hunters, freaks, and geeks.This shows her confience in her choice making not easily infleunced by people, reliegion,tradition,etc. But one who stands for what they want in there god givin freedom of free will. Thats the one i want. KING 👑 THALT 🌹
Her interest is what i look for. For me enjoying life with someone , being the one they know is there in their corner, during this journey of life. A trusting energy, with the overstanding of this is now. No matter of the truth of historys unhealthy relationship concepts and numbers.
I love the life poetry that flows out of your mouth. Thank you! ❤
I like how you said, don’t match a woman’s energy. I get what you’re saying. My workplace is where I generally meet women (coworkers).
There are two coworkers I get along super good with. The light flirty vibe flows. Our energy level is matching and that is where I want it to remain.
Because they are coworkers, I will not up my energy to have a mutual beginning leading to friendship outside of the workplace. Friendship that may lead to a relationship.
On two occasions, I was thinking about one of my coworkers while working. Doing my thing but the thought of her was like, is she here today. Nothing more.
She pops out of nowhere, like she usually do haha. Taps me on the neck or back then says something silly, but in a way that scares me in a playful way. She basically loves to scare me while I’m concentrating.
After she play scared me once, I told her while laughing, I was just thinking about you. She looked at me with her pretty eyes and says, so, I’m on your mind? aww. Then that long stare of hers ahh.
Twice this happened and I never tell her, yeah, l was day dreaming about you. Can I have your number? * No. I just look back at her and smile. Laugh as well but never say anything in response to her.
Sadly, keeping my energy level equal with hers is a must. One rule I keep solid with is, never pursue a coworker. That has been the downfall for both men and women in the workplace.
My main objective is to focus on my work. Thereafter, go home and work on my purpose.
Love your videos. It’s what the world needs right now.
@Inkironnrum oh boy don't Sh!t where you sleep. Dating a coworker. Pure insanity
@@Ross_Will💯
All my life I searched for the ideal woman.
Finally when I found her I was saddened
to discover that all her life she had been
searching for the ideal man.
No, she's right. I knew exactly what I wanted. Setting boundaries and for me no tattoos, no piercings, no plastic.. The more natural, the better. Feminity, behavior, language, kindness, respectful, smart, genuine... So you don't find these women in clubs. By nature, I am genuinely confident, masculine, and protective. Once you know what you want, it becomes way easier. Looks is for me less important. (Meaning no specific type, but not anything crazy like green- red hair) I had no problem to tell them. This is not going to work because...no matter her looks. Oh my girlfriend tested it me. In the beginning she said "What would you do if I would let a tattoo put on my ankle" I looked at her and said "I don't like tattoos at all" "So if you wanna get rid of me, go for it" She "I was only joking" She never did that.
"Looks for me is less important."
As you describe a hair style (unusual color), tattoos, piercings, and plastic. That negates a majority of western women these days in the *looks* department.
Exactly, my friend. Forgot an important one, those with the long crazy plastic fingernails. Ignore them at all cost!!! 1st selection is on her looks. 2nd selection is how she behaves, no attitude and language.. respectful, manners... If she passes that 3rd you spend more time to get to know her better and test.@pace1195
Relationship are so rare if you find the one you are lucky enough to be with them 😊 😅❤❤ thank you Keira for your video
Went to Target and nothing. Stopped by the home Depot and got hit on twice. How funny.
Men at home depot huh...
Whoever gets the keys to your heart is a very wise man.! That’s really just how it is.
The ideal woman must love God more than yourself.
that's disgusting
@@IbnElKhattabfy
@@ahmed-qz5cw you just insulted me without reason
Girl you are killing it! So on the spot and so funny sometimes too. 😄👍 Now i guess i should go and get my shit together.
Being single sucks, being in a relationship sucks something is not right here😂
TARGET.... my new favorite store to go to all the time
The ideal woman is a good mother.
Depends on who you ask, I'd prefer a woman that was never a mother and would prefer to never be one unless I figured out how to become wealthy. I'm 47 so that probably ain't happening :)
From the vids of you I've seen so far this one probably is your best of 2024. 👍👍
Why would any guy ask you this? That's like asking "how do I be happy?".
So many spot on comments. Men are so aware now. Truly love it. It's about time
There are so many different layers on top of layers when it’s just as simple as not wanting to be alone anymore
I haven't had a woman since 2010 each one was the wrong one!! I finally learned love Jesus first then myself then I can love others unconditionally.. I wasn't perfect in the past relationships by no means!! That goes for the other person the woman I don't expect them to be perfect!! But when they cheat on you and I spend thousands of dollars on them!! I had to draw a line!! I can tell ya I got to know Alex myself and I'm more peaceful being on my own no worries of getting hurt no more 😊 Maybe God will send me the right one? One day? I don't know? I'll let God to be in control My ways doesn't work!!
"He who seek perfection must present himself with perfection". This line is a methaphor for idealism, we all know that the ideal only exist in ones mind.
My pet dog is loyal to me
That's why people like dogs. They're also a lot cheaper than women.
honestly, i'm amazed by your honesty and wisdom on the topic in question. thank you for sharing it, it helped me. your are an amazing young woman, i wish the best for you.
There are maybe 1 ideal woman in half a million (age 18-35 in 2024)
Keira is becoming my best coach on the Internet.
I dumped my boyfriend, and now here I am, writing a book about the whole mess . . .
Pour everything you have into that book. Emotions on pages can be revisited again and again, as moments in time we cherish or rage over. I hope your book is awesome.
@@Darkmattermonkey77 texasholdemhaze.blogspot.com/2024/10/unheaven-vol-1.html
@@Darkmattermonkey77 She wanted a better looking guy, a guy with more money, or both. No reason to write about it.
Not a lot of good men out there so I feel you
You know her? @@devilsoffspring5519
I like the motivating energy you brought to this video. And everything you said. I think this was helpful for me. Thanks, from TX.
I'm shopping at Target from now on.
Yeah, it's a huge step up from Value Village ;)
Let us know how many women you ask out before being escorted out by security for being "creepy" to fellow customers.
Wow, you're amazing. Especially being so young &genuine, and seeing so clearly through the bs. you've got more balls than 10 men put together, and definitely more sense than a lot of women.
They want a simp or they can not destroy your life.
correction, they dont want someone whose always simping, but if you simp for 10 minutes a week, it goes along way.
@angleofelevation8759 it's a wild ride. When they are in heat they want a stud. Otherwise they want a doormat. It's a moving target.
@@Ross_Will funny , but not actually true, most just want someone they can relate too, at least the good ones, but yeah it seems like you gotta go though alot of trash, i think its a fake ego.
Not true,
@Milesmorales14x Man I get some replies on this topic. It depends if they are in heat or not. Afterall we are animals that evolved.
Finally find woman who can tell us what woman’s thinking and what they expect.❤
my ideal women is the money.
What, you want a rich wife? Yeah, me too, like every other guy :)
As someone well beyond his 20's, I love your insights and perspective. Here a re some suggestions on where to meet "the ideal woman": Toastmasters, Outdoor Club, any club of whatever you like to do, grocery store, Plenty of Fish (to fish around if you enjoy online stuff). The "ideal woman" doesn't exist, but as you mention, you can "set the tone" and have fun with someone, without necessarily committing, as long as you're respectful and honest.
inb4 people say "Keira is my ideal woman"
She's cute, young and hot. Of course tons of guys will dig her. Big deal :)
The friend zone is cliché. Some woman ones u get in that friend zone you’re stuck in that friend zone smh
I am not American (thank goodness) but I would hazard a guess that most of the posters on here are and I am laughing hard that you Yanks are emailing Keira questions about finding the ideal woman. Really guys Grow Up? Keira is not a matchmaker & this is not a dating website! Get out of your mums basement & go out into the fresh air - the streets, shops, parks, cafes, bars, malls, clubs, colleges, gyms, libraries, bus & train stations are full of women so try striking up a conversation with them - who knows you might find the ideal woman for you or at least one who is pleasant to be with.
Just hang around in ordinary places full of ordinary people living their mundane lives? Not much point in meeting anyone at the dull places you just described. That stuff is all menial everyday drudgery, the only reason any woman would notice you there is if she knows you're rich.
@@devilsoffspring5519 you seem to have a low opinion of women
This is a great video. The biggest trap us guys fall into is giving too much energy to the women who don't want us. If you just pay attention to the women that want you and just watch that caliber improve as you build the life you want for yourself you will be amazed!
How did your fasting day go?
Oh, the weather outside is frightful
But the view is so delightful
And since we've no place to go
Let them show! Let them show! Let them show!
excuse me i got in a silly poetic mood ...
*_Die Hard_* is a Christmas movie.
Ideal woman is an oxymoron
So true
Much love, that's what I needed to hear.
Lust will blind the strongest of men. I've dated many women that were spectacular to look at and even better in bed, but they were ugly on the inside. As you get older, you descover what really matters.
Post nut clarity boys. Be smart.
Great video Keira. We need a part 2.
Become their ideal man.
Most men cannot be strikingly handsome, ultra-wealthy, and the all-dominant all-powerful omniscient Uber-Alpha that makes all the other chicks jealous. Guys like that have little time for women outside of sex anyway.
Thank you so much Keira. As always, you don't disappoint :)
You should marry Gerbert Johnson.
Don't make it concrete. Change it. You see with time, life teaches you through experience the things that no longer server your ideals. Yesterday you wanted a cute girl with curly hair, well today you just want her to be patient with you. It's okay to change. Just make sure it serves a purpose that is healthy for you and your partner.
!!! Remember: there are no perfect people, we are all living individuals, everyone has their own preferences and character traits, and it's good that we are not perfect, the main thing is to see the positive sides in a person and not criticize them for their shortcomings, we are all here on earth to love ❤️ each other
I guess you're the goat of finding the idea.
You're a good answer to a projection.
Thank you for the video. It's not easy finding companionship these days, ideal or even just acceptable. It's a lonely world for many people. I rely on God for direction and comfort, and I trust I'll find someone someday. Your advice is appreciated.
I cant be specific. My ideal woman reads me and me her. Thats it. We adjust with eachother. And laugh. Keep it moving.
I just subscribed to your channel. You are an ideal woman for most guys. Great advice coming from an ideal woman. I am sure you have heard thousands of dudes tell you this, you are beautiful.