"men are more attractive in person because they aren't that good at taking pics and their profile sucks". As a man, I can say it's the EXACT OPPOSITE with women. I have probably been on like 50 dates in the last 4 years and maybe 1 was as good as their profile claimed. Both looks wise and personality wise. These women are Houdini's with the makeup and BS.
Soooooo true. A lot of women also take the same naked bedroom selfies that men do. It's just seen as sleezy if you're a dude and sexy if you're a woman
Girls would only like someone “based off their personality” right off the bat if he is extremely good looking. When they say the word “personality” it just means they’re physically attracted to them so whatever comes out of their mouth is going to seem interesting
Suggestion: start off by first having them rate pictures of various men, so they can see for themselves if they are unrealistically picky. Throw in some actual male fashion models.
This is a great analogy of human real life, I really appreciate all those girls for they opinion and being so honest .I don't like dating apps I wait for the right moment to come.dating apps sound to me like you are saling something and the other person is looking to buy. And for me I am priceless. love you all. thanks for the video.
I find 90% of woman atractive 100% of them unbearable to listen to and after 20 -25 years they turn to unatractive trolls that are unbearable to listen to.
I love hearing the "men just don't know how to setup their profile" bit... ESPECIALLY after listening to the story of the guy who's sister setup his profile AND managed it for him for a couple weeks to show him that it could be done. In the end, she found out that there was almost nothing she could do to help her brother get more matches other than lie about how much money he made and how tall he was!
Look at how women profiles are. Most are either narcissistic Instagram models with ton of photos, or profiles with couple of blurry selfies. Still they crush it on dating apps having ton of options being average or slightly above average
It's a messed up world. We've got "body positivity" trying to tell us that being overweight is attractive and, at the same time, unrealistic expectations on height.
@@Gustavog74 That is actually grossly incorrect and very retarded. Attractiveness is - as many studies have shown - a Gaussian distribution. Most people are between 4 and 6, and to the sides it dies off quickly. The nuke which got dropped more than 10 years ago by OK Cupid was that women DO NOT agree with the Gaussian. Men on the other hand seem to stick to the bell curve; they find women attractive by a Gaussian in real life and they find women attractive by a Gaussian on online dating maps. But on the female side a 6 (=above average) does not want just an above average man, she wants a very very attractive man, between 8 to 10. By now so much more statistical data has been published that saying "guys need to take better picture" is a farce; it may contribute a little bit, overall however, all scientific data points that women reject the notion that they are supposed to date according to their own attractiveness. This warping effect which creates this insane 80/20 situation for the men is solidly verified. Other dating portals have published data similar to OK Cupid, scientific research has been conducted and so on. So no, you are not "attractive" or "not attractive", it is a gradual very realistic scale which follows a Gaussian curve. Evolutionary biology and behaviorial fields agree with that. It's also not true that only attractiveness is important or that large penises are preferred. If that was true, today, after thousands of generations of selection, the planet would be only populated with Scarlett Johanssons, pornstar dicks and guys who are 190cm or taller. The opposite is true. Mankind is genetically still very averaged, very robust and does not trend to any specific genetic disposition related to modern "neurotic disorders". In the long run it evens out because females have no control over their genes. Many of these unrealistic women will have very sad children; imagine being a really tall attractive woman, 175cm and so on, who harshly rejects guys below 8 and has all kinds of expectations...and then your own son turns out to be 174cm with a tendency to be overweight, and not above average in attractiveness. Many properties of humans are inherited from genes of both parents, and because of mechanisms like the dominant-recessive combinations there is indeed a big randomness. For example, latest genetic analyses indicate that the height of men and the penis length of men is decided by the genetic information on the mother side. The father seems to create a certain disposition but it is the complementary maternal genes deciding on how those "masculine" features will be determined. Interesting huh. We are not dealing with a biological problem in terms of this out of whack dating situation, it is a social problem created by the women themselves. The question is how and when will it go away before it destroys our modern way of life. Rejecting 80% of men and an increasing number of long term sexless singles means: the end of democracy. Lonely men become angry, angry longely men become violent, violent angry lonely men vote for rightwing and far right parties, rightwing and far right parties reduce important compensating mechanisms like the social welfare state, equal opportunity, civil rights and individual freedoms, and at a certain point they overthrow democracy and install authoritarian fascist dictatorships. On the other side lonely men become extremely expensive due to exorbitant cost for healthcare.
@@bobbwc7011 Your right. Very attractive women only want to date extremely physically attractive tall men. Maybe this applies to all women. Women only want to date extremely physically attractive tall men.
body positivity is lip service out of pity for the obese... but they don't need pity, they need to lose weight. Japan's social pressure against obesity is better and at the end of the day more moral because it helps people avoid obesity.
More than that, "body positivity" deviated far from what it should have been, from celebrating all body types and discouraging shaming, to outright shaming naturally fit people for "encouraging toxic beauty standards". Also, apparently, people who are big on "body positivity" often have no problems shaming men for having the same kinds of bodies that they would celebrate on women. That is not positivity to me, that's simply hypocrisy.
It's simple. Women think if they just hold out long enough they will find their tall faithful, caring 10/10 guy, with money and a great personality. No. Ladies need to prioritize what they want and be realistic about if they can get it. The two most desired categories by women income and height already limits their pool to a small percentage of men.
Yeah I had the gym body when I was younger. When you get older you realise it’s only height, status, and money that matter to women. Even being a nice man is low down on the list for them. They will say otherwise, but what they say and reality are two different places.
That's the truth. I find a good portion of women in my dating range attractive, but when I get to know most of them I find that number drops significantly. While women may find 80% of guys unattractive, I bet if I had a conversation with most of those guys I'd find a lot more substance to them than the majority of women.
@@CuriousGeorge13 You are a man, so you’d relate more to men than women. I feel the same about men, most are just blah. I’m sure decent but 🤷🏾♀️. I find women more interesting and decent, but then I’m woman.
I work out 6 days a week always been my hobby and slim muscular. But at the same time I don’t give a flying fk about my looks anymore. You do you and I do me.
"Youve gotta give a 6 a chance" These women have such big hearts. Its so inspiring to know that this pack of hyenas would be willing to give an above average man a chance.
Lmao. So true. Laughable stuff. The fact that they can sit here and say something like that so brazenly on camera is baffling - remember, this is what they're saying when they know they're being recorded so are gonna be mindful about saying what "sounds socially acceptable". Wtf do they say behind closed doors to their friends, or think inside their heads? I honestly can't imagine saying something like that about women if I were to be on an interview video like this, and I say that as a guy who in many aspects is above average. It's baffling how many young people define other humans as a number out of 10, or view them as just a set of characteristics to be used for their own benefits/pleasure. What about romance, connection, chemistry, mutual trust and respect, and love? None of these women ever allude to that being of importance to them in any of these videos, and it's really worrying, because that's how meaningful relationships are forged - whether its with a partner or a friend. I fear that alot of people in their 20s and teens rn are gonna be alone for a long, long time unless they do some serious self-reflection and adjustment.
@@harrypike731 and did she think she was higher than a 6? Lol....and that's her with 9 tonnes of foundation and god knows how many enhancements. It's hard to rate looks..they are subjective
@@tonymagrof5303 Indeed, well i wouldn't qualify her as '6' or otherwise, I'm not a fan of the numerical 1-10 scale of attraction because it's super binary and fails to account for subjectivity, as well as other facets of attraction like chemistry, vibe, personality, style, shared values, voice and body language, etc. A 6 to you might be a 9 to me....Or alternatively, someone who i see as a '6' may become an '8' once i get to know them better
I've noticed from certian men that some women never live up to their standard after the hookup. Once you start judging women off of non "$#×ual assets" you realize they werent that into them to begin with.
Thank you for consistently letting women prove most men right. They have not argued against finding most men unattractive, just more excuses as to why men just need to focus on themselves and ignore what women think. Keep up the great work! Your videos are always spot on.
I don't know nate....you look young...get back to me on that in 20 years when you've never had a relationship or whatever and let me know if the loneliness has hit yet. Easy to say we don't need relationships, but we're social animals. Look at the lower simian species, such as monkeys, apes and gorillas: they have mates. That means we need them too, even if we don't admit it. 🙂
@@neutrino78x I'm 52 years old. I haven't had any romantic relationships since I was about 20 years old. Loneliness hasn't set in yet. I feel great. Far better, in fact, than I felt when I was pursuing relationships. No, not everyone needs to be in a romantic relationships. Some people are far better off without them. People can be social in lots of ways aside from that. Relationships should never be seen as a requirement. Only as an option.
He didn't say we don't need relationships he's pointing out how sad this situation is because this generation is going to be even lonelier than they are now if something doesn't change the paradigm.@@neutrino78x
I get like no matches on dating apps, but I agree with her. After a while, the work of going through an endless pile of profiles, which most come off as fake, feels like a chore. "Uhhh... Here we go again"
Why are guys so obsessed with dating apps?!?!?! Very few women use them compared to guys so it's obvious why they might not get chances. Meet people in real life and through social circles
Courtney you gotta throw one happily married middle aged woman in the mix so we can all see the difference in expectations vs reality. Most of these women will have a different viewpoint when they hit 35 and men stop talking to them altogether.
Yeah I second this. I love Courney's content but there is a suspicion that the beautiful women that she brings onto her show many not be telling the 100% truth. Having some middle aged women might provide a more balanced perspective.
Think it is proven to be like 2%. But it is moore like an 1:3 thing in like everything, and guys are moore like 2:3, it is not soo big in every individual thing, it's just that it adds up to 2% in total.
I'm a guy and is it normal that I only find a few women attractive? I'm not conventionally attractive but I'm tan skinned, have a head full of hair, have a semi-glass skin and buttery lips. I have had a few women take interest in me while some didn't. But most women who showed interest in me weren't attractive to me. There was only one girl I found really attractive.
@@annatar6453 Particularly on social media. Women do a quick compare between the men that are in the wild - usually the sexiest guys who keep their profiles up - with what they've gotten and raise their expectations.
I very much appreciate that these girls recognize that dating apps are very one-dimensional. Social media has given people literally unlimited access to other people - it also appears it has made them lonelier.
I definitely agree that social media has made dating very shallow and superficial. To counter this in order to find a good mate we have to become blind to beauty both for boys and girls. All I can say is don't judge a book by it's cover and that is even more true in dating. Also let's face it, guys are not blessed with good looks, women are blessed with good looks. Most men are average or below average in looks and most women are above average. After few months those looks are no longer going to be intoxicating but that is the general progression of a relationship. I admire that these women take the heat in the comments and still show up, that is courageous. Ladies don't be quick to dismiss guys based on some minor thing, give them a chance, look beyond the initial awkwardness, I assure you will find some gems and great guys who will love to be with you.
@@GT6SuzukaTimeTrials yes that is definitely true. Women have a endless stream of options and they have become extremely picky. Example is the lady who said if he wears brown belt with black shoes she will not be interested. Should this really a deal breaker, can he not improve his fashion sense. So you are going to reject a great guy cause he can't match colors. The issue is women think they have time, the endless stream of options will always be there coz they are sleeping options. But once you hit 30 it's going to become even more difficult to find relationship options. Both guys and girls whats wrong with finding someone who is good enough. A greta relationship is not formed by finding the perfect partner, that is a illusion. A great relationship is 2 people working towards making that relationship great, putting in the effort to build a awesome relationship. No matter how perfect that person is when there are 2 people there will always be issues. Resolving your issues through communication is what builds intimacy and companionship love. Romantic love disappear in a few months, the hotter the flames the quicker the ashes
Online dating has made 90% of men lonelier and it got 10% of men all the women. Dating has regressed to Gorilla society where a tiny minority of males get all females while the vast majority of males get no females. In 2021, a third of males under 30 never had sex and this rate is skyrocketing since the begin of online dating.
As a guy who's 5'7 I gave up on dating apps altogether. I got so tired of feeling that I didn't deserve a hot girl because of it. I think meeting someone organically gives us a more accurate impression. It's hard for a person to really have a chance to shine online.
5'7 is still taller than most women. Get your money up the best you can, get in the best shape you can & your height will be offset by your other traits.
Being honest, drop the “hot girl” fantasy. That's done. That's just as delusional as the average woman holding out for a 6ft, handsome, multimillionaire, entrepreneur with a great personality, who treats her like gold and accepts all of her flaws. Is it possible? Sure. Is it likely? No. You can however find a woman you're attracted to who is more on your level. In my opinion, as a shorter guy you need to be prefiltering for them to save yourself time. For example, don't even waste your time on a woman taller than 5’3, who is in better physical shape than yourself, who you don't outearn by at minimum 50-60%, who dresses better than yourself, etc. If you do many of these women will waste your time and money because they know you want them.
"Guys don't really know how to take pictures." True. Because we generally are not narcissists obsessed with taking and posting photos of ourselves in order to get "likes".
yeah, that's why you only want to date young, pretty girls... of course no narcist would like to date a gril to show off to their friends, and no narcist would nak the value on 1..10. Because of course what matters for you is "the hear" only and only it is a pretty girl, because as everyone knows less pretty have no heart or personality.
Your face is your personality. Your height is your confidence. The end. 1st world countries are pretty safe, and their women have their own money. So men are not needed for protection and provisioning. So what's left for a woman to find attractive in a man? Simple looks and height. The reason why women are complaining about men is because they have allowed a small number of Chad's in their city to sleep with them all.
Ever open up to a woman and expose your vulnerabilities only to have her throw them back in your face when she's mad at you over something relatively benign? Man, it sure does discourage opening up 😔
Never show your emotions to a woman, at least not anything vulnerable. Women "say" the want a man to show his emotions, but it's BS. If a man breaks down in front of his woman, she'll never see him as a leader or a provider. Game over. 🎤👇
As a happily married 31 year old (5 years in) this is so hard to watch. What is going on with women these days and being so self-centered and unrealistic?
dont make it sound it was different 5 years ago.. honestly, i highly doubt you're that different. Now, are you really unrealistic ? if this is type of men to manage to attract then that means it's their daily reality.
Does this ever start not being depressing? I just listened to 15 minutes of women explaining why women finding 80% of men ugly is "logical" to them. "They can't take good photos." "Online dating is only about image." PLEASE! Bear some responsibility for your incredible shallowness.
Fear of Better Options is most certainly a thing. Women moving in on the top 20% of men exhibits this, but what those women don't take into account is that 20% of men also have FOBO. What happens with FOBO, for men and women who have it in dating, is like channel surfing with 10,000 channels. There's "nothing" and "everything" to watch at the same time. But since you can't choose, there is for all intents and purposes, "nothing". "There are no 'good' men." and "Where have they gone?" is the end product of the choice paradox.
I think it's more women only chasing the top 5% of men on dating apps. So basically, the hot guys are rotating through a slew of women and have no reason to settle down with any of them. This leaves 90% of men with no chance online but it also leaves 100% of the women with 0 chance to lock down the guy they want. The only winners of online dating are the top 5% of guys.
I'll take it a step further and say that when these women DO find a man that they don't have "FOBO" with, the man ends up being shared with multiple women due to his rarity and they get upset over it and blame it on every man, that's where the "there are no good men" and "where have they gone" statements actually come from.
Modern women want to be Regina George in their teens, a Kardashian in their 20s and a Real Housewife after 30. They want a gay best friend, a sugar daddy and a drug dealer.
"We know we have high standards, we are superficial and men have a difficult time finding women to date." "But we don't really give a f*ck!!" It's time for some new ladies. These have shown their true colors regardless of the setup questions.
These women are reflective of all women. They only want to date extremely physical attractive tall men. That’s all that matters to women….. his looks. And that’s ok. Nobody wants to be with an ugly unhealthy person.
You'd be surprised to realize that the new set of women won't be much different. These things are more or less universal. The exceptions are few and far between.
@@mikelisteral7863 idk about that one especially after they been alone for so long.. I knowj some good women even relatives who been left by their spouse who were great matches great providers not avg guys then hear rumors and seen them get with avg joe womanizers lol no cap I was shocked then not cuz I do believe now in the right moment right time catching ppl smh
@@mikelisteral7863 I mean would they be disappointed probably yes they wouldn't measure up to their former spouse or lover but women will always have a measuring stick anyways
The other issue is that most women judge men within a minute of meeting them then get mad when they find out "they never really knew him" to begin with. Social media has made hookups easy but relationships very difficult.
@@davidhenryhudson3102 and thats why most get into the trouble they do, their sleeping with an "idea" instead of the actually man himself, to each is own, nature or nurture, just own it and don't complain when it fails
Slight correction there. Hookups are easy for women. Not for men. Relationships are easy for men over 30 provided we're willing to fall into that foolish beta male provider role for some woman who's already had her fun and now looking for some sucker. Relationships are only hard for women today because their "modern woman" vibes are unknowingly a turn-off to men.
It's more because makeup really covers up a lot of women's flaws to where they can look like 7 or 8 instantly. Whereas for men, much of what is considered attractive often takes time and effort (eg workout either for weight loss and muscle building) and things out of their control (height). If you really take off all of the add-ons, most women without makeup look just as average, if not more, than their male counterparts.
I've always thought about how it would be funny if men started using makeup (decently, just to cover up imperfections). We would probably look like gods.
Amen brother. Spread the word. These women act like children. They want want want and want, but they literally have NOTHING to offer a man except being in their 20s.
Downloaded a dating app this summer, got like 50 matches, went on a few dates with hotties...came to the conclusion that I'd rather finish off the summer in peace
Appearance is more important to women than personality because they think they can change a man's behavior to suit them. Which works in the rarest of cases.
Controlling the mind is the ideological Rumpelstiltskin ploy of communist-socialist societies/ Behavioural psychology is predicated on the totalitarian state of law and order/ Often times, men and women choose lucrative careers in legal services b/c the systematic crimes and the defence of constitutional rights are profitable for ambitious idolaters/
I was on tinder for 3 weeks and got no matches. So all the women was swiping left on me. So for the next 3 days I swipe left on every single woman on there and I got ban for life for being disrespectful. That was the best thing to happen to me
I have only tried a dating site once , it was a very strict program nothing like a tinder, you had to go through security checks , this site wasnt to bad but I did get one problem that is notable that is older woman were very much into me being younger. I dont think they are sharing either so they want to lock up a young guy so there are all kinds of problems in the world today, if you look into other sites you will find people , the secret I think is gett ing a niche you aim for women in your vocational and then you can compete , like doctors date nurses etc.
it took me a year to build up my ELO rating to the point where I was getting matches and dates. Tinder is garbage unless you're an 8 or above. Then I got banned for no reason. The app is so vindictive that it tracks your google accounts so if you get a new phone/tablet/PC you have to get a spoofed number and new Facebook and email to start over or you'll just get insta-blocked again.
I agree with Erica. On dating apps, it all starts with looks. A woman will base whether she swipes right or left totally on looks. Totally. Yes and guys won't spend hours on makeup and looking good for a picture. Or take lots of pics of themselves. Women will expect a man to put all the effort into a dating app that they do. Guys will present themselves as they are and that they are what they are, take it or leave it.
Don't forget how they want the men to put all that work as you said that women do for their dating profiles but still have to look not try hard at the same time
I don't think I have ever taken a selfie of myself alone. Even when m with friends I just hand my phone over to someone to take a group pic. H3ll even my FB dp back in the day was a passport photo.
If you're a Chad, you can take a mirror selfie that takes a whole minute in effort, and you'll get hundreds of matches. "angles" and however else you can rig pictures don't have a big impact. You're either attractive or not
sounds like someone is resentful, i been single for quite a while and honestly i put the blame on myself more then women.... This is the reality nowadays.
Looking for a guy that makes 100k+, is 6'+, fit, funny, intelligent, proficient at multiple skills and hobbies, cultured, and aligns with your own values is just as ridiculous as looking for a woman that has double Ds, but isn't overweight, stunningly beautiful, but doesn't flaunt it, cool and mellow with you doing whatever you want, funny, smart, up for being a full time mom, but still picking up at least a part time job to help with the finances! I think social media in particular is warping perspectives of the age demographics of who would be dating at this point.
They also think man, with so many options, gonna be faithful to them 😂. There was a study how many times guys thought about sex compared too women. Man think about sex constantly almost compared too women. It's more realistic that guy gonna be faithful if he's not good looking. Not that he doesn't think much about sex. He just gonna have less opportunities too be unfaithful.
Like Gab said, men don’t have as many pictures of ourselves in general to capture our personality and vibrance. Almost every time you see a group of women out to brunch, in nature, etc they take 100’s of pictures. When us guys go out we are lucky if we take 1 or 2. Most likely it’s going to be a group photo and no one even checks if it’s good or not til later.
One tip i heard is to try and make it a habit to take at least one or two pictures a day. After doing that for a while you're bound to have a few that make you look decent.
Because women seek validation from their photos and social media. I can take a pic of a mountain range I'm hiking at. That doesn't compare to being at the trail itself and experiencing it. Same with people
A lot of people overlook the fact that women not only use makeup, filters, lighting, photoshop and even cosmetic surgery to project a false image of themselves and dwell on the attention and online validation, it’s a power-trip and a lot of men fall for this. As a man, I don’t play the hookup game. I love a woman with substance and who is confident in herself where she doesn’t feel the need to gather attention from others outside the relationship, that’s attractive to me.
When you look at all their IG accounts the critics for men don't apply to them. I wonder why? But regardless, Courtney you knocked this one out of the ballpark. You have to create a guy panel! ( I would volunteer)
yes but the guy panel should also consist from men who are popular among women (opposed to losers in this chat). Then it will be fair comparison. And those guys will also show that all they care about are boobs and butts and such.
I wouldn't say "losers", I'd say the 90% of men that are invisible to these women. I think if Courtney interviewed ACTUAL real men (most that aren't 6'+ Chad's), you know MOST men, I think Courtney's women subscribers would see the real world.
The more these girls spoke, the more they showed shallowness, selfishness, cluelessnes and an overall higher opinion of themselves than they should. And I should add that girl who cursed alot came across as a young child experimenting with curse words. That's EXTREMELY unattractive, in anybody. I should also add that men don't sit in front of cameras taking pictures of themselves continually. I also did not hear one of these girls say what the have to contribute to a partnership, or what they would like to improve with themselves to make them more marketable. Pitiful.......
It would be the same the other way around. But makeup! Trust me, you'd be shocked if you saw an 8/10 girl without it. It's not because of higher standards or any other BS these girls say.
@Jane B Robbins nope. Only the top 10% dudes who women love on these apps do. Most dudes do care about the kind of person they want to be with if they are looking for long term relationships Else the world would be filled with furries
You could be good looking guy, decent career, independent, a good father, passionate in hobbies, etc. but the deal breaker would them being "only 5'10".
Its true sadly. How? I matched with a lady, she seemed interested then all of a sudden she became unresponsive, tells me we can work something out when shes free next month as shes busy. After a week, she tells me she has a bf, I wished her luck. Then after another week she broke it off and came back to talk to me, same results as before, slow to respond but hot and cold. So, why did she make rules for me telling me that shes busy and shell be free next month, but all the while she was just chasing the hot guy who didn’t give a shi about her? Now shes single but has me on the backup. Lol
Stella, who to me is the most attractive, has a habit of saying “I feel like” when she contemplates an answer. This means her answers and outlooks may change throughout time. If I was a betting man, I’d say she’s probably given different answers to the same question throughout this series.
The problem with dating apps is that they just scratch the surface of who someone is. Guys should invest in a photographer for a fighting chance. If you get the date, be hyper aware of what she says and does, may be much different than what she portrays. Don't ever settle on a woman for her looks.
As many photographers exist on the internet, no one has tried to make money off of the terrible photos that men take of themselves, I definitely see as a business idea.
0:33 - "That's crazy! Um, first of all, step your picture game up." - Immediately blaming men. IMMEDIATELY. This is precisely the reason that us men are going our own way. Stella is not an exception; she is the rule. Hashtag MGTOW
I agree, I noticed it also. Meaning believing that so many men are taking poor pictures when modern cameras already do so much of the light, color and other balancing for you so you can easily take semi professional pictures. Additionally whenever men do take pics for dating sites they do their best to take a good one, and even that isn't good enough.
@@ghanshyam1990 Appreciate the input. I haven't even scratched the surface of this upload, and I'm already having a conniption in my mind. I must remain calm and civil. I never do this, but enough is enough. I'm making a reaction video right now.
@@DingleberrryDan - I didn't even watch the entire video, just three fourths and went back to learning how to code. Why should I listen to how hard I have to play a rigged game where unless and until you are over 6ft, fair complexion (in my country) and wealthy you dint even stand a chance.
@@ghanshyam1990 Absolutely, brother. The pain is real. You sound like a reasonable dude. And I love that you're choosing to move onto bigger & better things that serve YOUR purpose. THAT is true MGTOW. Once my vid goes up, feel free to engage in the dialogue (yes, the dreaded comments lol).
I still have that old fashioned mentality that dating apps are for desperate people. I know this is not the case, but I've found meeting women in real life isn't that hard and it's much more organic. So personally all of the women involved opinions where great to hear! And women are everywhere! Besides, I don't fit in online anywhere. I actually respect a good woman and realize that they exist. And the real world is so much better :) Thanks again for another great video, Courtney and Friends
I gave up on dating apps too. I did OKAY like during Covid when literally everyone was on there, but nothing truly substantial came out of it. Dating apps give both men and women what’s called the ‘paradox of choice’…you have so many options to pick from that you end up not picking ANY of them …and the ratio of men to women on dating apps is comparable to that of the population of Alaska 😬😂
I find 80% of women on dating apps to be vapid clones. “I love adventures! I like banter! My dog must like you!” I swear that’s literally every woman on Tinder.
I think the sentiment of the video is that it's hard for women to judge attractiveness thru an app because women have too many options and are attracted to other things they get in person. It's like "clearing out emails" for them when they go on apps.
Don't fret. I've seen it over and over. They dream big, but when these girls get married and u see their husband he's always a dad bod about 5'10" cute or cuddly to her, but we would all say he's a 6. He makes good $, but not great $ and was a jock or super smart in high school so he retained some confidence, but he's actually average now. Oh - her in laws like him. The don't marry the hot neck tattoo drop shipper posing w a Lambo who got his GED and no longer does coke.
I don't think it's because of their overwhelming options online. I think it's because they are just attracted in a different way than men. Also, their overwhelming options don't really matter, because men rarely come across women they truly like, so out of the 50 men that liked their profile, maybe 1 might actually really like them.
Girls are so funny man I laughedso hard when the girl at 21:25 said "idk wearing black pants with a brown belt ugh I would never something like that IM NOT TOO PICKY" every one of these girls had cap and cope in their answers and this is why men have stopped dating its absolute fruitless and waste of time to try too.
There’s a great video on why you will marry the wrong person. People don’t understand that love is a skill and compromise is not a bad but it’s a sign of humility. Too many women and men get hung up on the imperfections of others when in reality we are all flawed in our own way.
Perception is lacking/ Beliefs are the fallacies that delude the masses/ Egocentric personalities will always misjudge what they don't understand/ The formulated product appears perfect, without flaws b/c it conforms to unprofessional worldly standards and the same goes for convenience relationships/ Fear and greed are the motivations/
If a guy is unattractive but he's blessed with being tall, it evens out to an extent. I have seen plenty of men in public with average or sub-par looks and the partners they have are easily a lot more attractive.
Have you seen my 600lb life? All of those women have boyfriends/husbands. Not one time have I seen one of those men with a girlfriend or wife. Let's not act like women are more fair in their approach to picking mates. Especially because these same women said they would go down in looks to date a man that is rich in previous videos.
A lot? I don't think so. My buddies were physically attractive when they got their girlfriends or married. 80% of them gotten fat or obese. You really think many women would date a fat/obese guy especially if he's short? Nope.
It only evens out if you are a tall guy who is massively endowed, that is the real reason these women "settle" for these tall but less handsome men But trust me these things work both ways, if you are tall and not massively endowed or even just average expect the vast majority of these shallow pathetic vile body shaming women to immediately laugh in your face, tell you that you don't match up to mr massively endowed girth alpha Tyrone that they hooked up with last night and go instantly running back to their friends to publically humiliate your body. So being tall is essentially pointless if you aren't also massively endowed and because average doesn't look proportional on a very tall guy, you actually need to be massively endowed or these women will destroy you. Sad world eh? yet these women are outraged about the unobtainable beauty standards of Hollywood hahahaha as they penis size shame and humiliate men to mental illness.
Husband Department Store A new, special kind of store just opened up in a Manhattan shopping center. This store sells husbands, yes that's right - women can browse men from floors of choices. Actually, there are 6 floors of men, and with an increase in the floor level bringing an positive attributes... a nifty setup - with a catch. As you open the door to any floor, you may choose a man from that floor but if you go up, you cannot go back down except to exit the building. Interesting, right? So a young woman goes to the shopping center to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs. The woman reads the sign and says to herself, "Well, that's better than my last boyfriend, but I wonder what's further up?" So up she goes. The second floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids. The woman remarks to herself, "That's great, but I wonder what's further up?" And up she goes again. The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids and are extremely good looking. "Hmmm, better" she says. "But I wonder what's upstairs?" The fourth floor sign reads: Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking and help with the housework. "Wow!" exclaims the woman, "very tempting. BUT, there must be more further up!" And again she heads up another flight. The fifth floor sign reads: Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak. "Oh, mercy me! But just think... what must be awaiting me further on?" So up to the sixth floor she goes. The sixth floor sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 7,548,652 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor only exists as proof that women are impossible to please.
@2:14 I say this with respect. Why does she think she isn’t a 6 at best ? Deep voice, average & forgettable look. Im just saying. Anyways back to video
All very shallow in a way, but I think if people are making choices like that perhaps the girls posting pictures of themselves should only be allowed to post pictures of themselves with no makeup, no hair dye, no nail polish are artificial nails, or eye brows or artificial eye lashes.... Just to even things up... oh and no filters...
Worthless BS responses to avoid any acceptance of responsibility, coupled with a massively biased view of what the male experience is. In the OK Cupid study under discussion, the men's responses on women followed a normal distribution. The female responses on men gave a clear indication of unrealistic expectations.
There is no escape from being treated "badly" by them, whether you are attractive or not. Because if the guy is attractive, then she will be jealous of his looks, success and how other Women might look at him, and she will try to destroy him. Look what Amber Heard did to Johnny Depp, for example...
@Jane B Robbins sure. Unless they are being approached for a date by someone they don't find attractive. ESPECIALLY whey there is a man close by they are interested in. Then they will most likely eviscerate that 'creep', and go back to making goo-goo eyes at Chad.
A woman will pick a guy who is a 12 out of 10 and treats her like crap about 10 times out of 10 over a guy who is a 6 out of 10 and treats her good. A woman starts CONSIDERING picking the guy who is a 6 out of 10 over the guy who is a 12 out of 10 only when she is about 60 years old. Women are what they are. What are they you might ask? They are way worse than men ever were with this stuff.
Dating apps never worked for me. Too many crazies, misrepresentations, and falsehoods. I'm at a point now in my life where I doubt if I will ever seek out another female, it seems too much of an uphill and losing battle.
I'll give them credit, they definitely seem a lot more empathetic vs the "women react to lonely single men". Actually reacted like normal people rather than heartless animals.
She's cute and she's got a decent bullshit detector. Most men will marry a lot worse. I'm sure you're the video game community's answer to Brad Pitt though. 🤨
Hey Courtney you hit on the nail! Women do find 80% of men unattractive. Women only want the top 20% of 🔝 men! Unbelievable. I know because I am short 5’7 keeps me getting dates
@@carlo1132 Horrible advice bro. Go after ways to better yourself. Go to the the gym, eat better, get better at hobbies, and yes, make money. But money is not everything. You can't buy good health or confidence. Not really.
@@raygunner4970 Of course do those things, I didnt thing it had to be said, women want money, if you got money you are in the drivers seat. Women want resources, if you got them you can get better women its that simple.
@@carlo1132 so true I make 250k as a Sales Engineer 👨💻 at a Fortune 500 technology company. Work out 💪! I am 5’7 but I got a lot to offer. These women are shallow anyways!
The blonde with the black beenie and skeleton shirt is my favorite. I love her sense of humor. These answers seem very genuine from these ladies. Very insightful.
There is a discernible difference between someone saying “this person is attractive but just isn’t for me” and “this person is just flat out unattractive.” The way I took the study was women found 80% of men just flat out unattractive. You have to subject it to a multivariate analysis. A lot of good looking men won’t need or want to use a dating app. There is a higher proportion of men than women on dating apps and that could drive the “average” looks of the men on there down. Women factor in other things in person relating to attractiveness; i.e. clothes, cars, accessories, confidence, body language, and it’s hard to express any of that on dating apps when it’s just a few photos. I don’t think the study is wrong per se, but I think it’s skewed to not factor in other variables.
The cost of playing the dating game is so high and the rewards so mediocre that for most men the best bet is not to play. Instead, focus on your health, finances, and passions. If you do make yourself in the top 5% then there's no need to settle down, deep pumping and dumping.
to be fair, that's kind of what we were supposed to be doing anyway. I don't really understand how a woman is supposed to stay invested in a relationship if the man isn't doing jack shit with his life.
that is so low what should happen is a grand old war where all you immoral sum are killed and these deluded women can snap out of it, nothing more real than cannon fire. Look a Ukraine that sex slum getting a good moral wake up,
- I just wish you would stop playing that stupid golf with your buddies on weekends and start helping around the house! - You're talking just like my ex now ... - You never told me you were married before! - I wasn't ... A Russian joke
Once you stop giving a damn about what a women think and live your life you men would be a lot better off. Treat women as humans and put yourself first.
Are you kiddin?? I thought she was delusional. "I feel the opposite, I'm just like, he has hands" ..... are you freaking kidding me lady..... "it feels like clearing out emails" but also I don't have any options .....she is literally delusional
Don't sleep on it...this is a time to invest I recently just bought another property valued at over $15m. I wish knew the right investment firm to invest with earlier, better late than never thought.
As a man I pay no attention to women in public. I'm heterosexual and only focus on my goals. I have a great job, go to the gym, play baseball, hiking, running and other hobbies as well. If I interact with women it's only professional or business never flirting. After reading about men's interactions with women in public i.e. creep shaming just for smiling, flirting or speaking to (all while in proper social norms) I just leave women alone. No eye contact, no smiling, no close proximity (personal bubble) not even a handshake. This is the world we live in where people are quick to record you, take a photo and blast it on social media cancelling you in a heartbeat. People just quick to ruin a person even if the accused is not guilty. For my brothers out there just live your life and pursue your goals, take care of yourself health wise.
They and you just need a coach this does happen but many others are doing the other and not have any problem. It could be the girl and poltical also the mind tends to manifest the domiante thought.
Sorry to break it to you but you’re part of the problem. Have you personally ever been “creep shamed?” Or did you read a clickbait article/see a Tiktok video and now think it’s illegal to flirt with women? I see so many comments like this and none of you seem to realize that you’re the ones making this shit a reality.
"men are more attractive in person because they aren't that good at taking pics and their profile sucks". As a man, I can say it's the EXACT OPPOSITE with women. I have probably been on like 50 dates in the last 4 years and maybe 1 was as good as their profile claimed. Both looks wise and personality wise. These women are Houdini's with the makeup and BS.
Soooooo true. A lot of women also take the same naked bedroom selfies that men do. It's just seen as sleezy if you're a dude and sexy if you're a woman
Absolute facts they never look as good as those pictures
100%
True, that's why I just swipe left if it seems like their photo has filters and a face smoothing effect and crap
They say that they're "putting on their face" for a REASON!
Girls would only like someone “based off their personality” right off the bat if he is extremely good looking. When they say the word “personality” it just means they’re physically attracted to them so whatever comes out of their mouth is going to seem interesting
Women only want and care romantically about extremely physically attractive tall men.
Let's take out dating apps and social media. The fact is alot of men are over looked by women in everyday life!!
Suggestion: start off by first having them rate pictures of various men, so they can see for themselves if they are unrealistically picky. Throw in some actual male fashion models.
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Courtney driving men to mental illness for a little bit of warped profit.
How this one sleeps at night, whilst the rest of us turn lol
I’d say it’s higher than 80%, more like 95% on dating apps that women find unattractive
None of those women are above a 5. We won't even talk about without all the makeup caked on lol
Stella your voice is so chill! Thanks ladies that was fun!
The girl who equated dating apps to "Clearing out e-mails" hit the nail on the head lol.
This is a great analogy of human real life, I really appreciate all those girls for they opinion and being so honest .I don't like dating apps I wait for the right moment to come.dating apps sound to me like you are saling something and the other person is looking to buy. And for me I am priceless. love you all. thanks for the video.
I find 90% of woman atractive 100% of them unbearable to listen to and after 20 -25 years they turn to unatractive trolls that are unbearable to listen to.
Only 14% of men are over six feet, let’s start there.
I am 6"3 and from Germany. I thought that would be just a little bit taller than average
Natural selection
Facts 5’7
I’m 6’2” and glad I can have options not limitations.
I'm 5'8, my wife's a solid 9. Don't let any excuse hold you back
I love hearing the "men just don't know how to setup their profile" bit... ESPECIALLY after listening to the story of the guy who's sister setup his profile AND managed it for him for a couple weeks to show him that it could be done.
In the end, she found out that there was almost nothing she could do to help her brother get more matches other than lie about how much money he made and how tall he was!
If you're hot you don't even need a profile
That doesn’t prove anything
Look at how women profiles are. Most are either narcissistic Instagram models with ton of photos, or profiles with couple of blurry selfies. Still they crush it on dating apps having ton of options being average or slightly above average
It's a messed up world. We've got "body positivity" trying to tell us that being overweight is attractive and, at the same time, unrealistic expectations on height.
When people say “Body positivity” that sounds sooooo stupid. Your either physically attractive or not. It’s that simple.
@@Gustavog74 That is actually grossly incorrect and very retarded. Attractiveness is - as many studies have shown - a Gaussian distribution. Most people are between 4 and 6, and to the sides it dies off quickly.
The nuke which got dropped more than 10 years ago by OK Cupid was that women DO NOT agree with the Gaussian. Men on the other hand seem to stick to the bell curve; they find women attractive by a Gaussian in real life and they find women attractive by a Gaussian on online dating maps. But on the female side a 6 (=above average) does not want just an above average man, she wants a very very attractive man, between 8 to 10.
By now so much more statistical data has been published that saying "guys need to take better picture" is a farce; it may contribute a little bit, overall however, all scientific data points that women reject the notion that they are supposed to date according to their own attractiveness. This warping effect which creates this insane 80/20 situation for the men is solidly verified. Other dating portals have published data similar to OK Cupid, scientific research has been conducted and so on.
So no, you are not "attractive" or "not attractive", it is a gradual very realistic scale which follows a Gaussian curve.
Evolutionary biology and behaviorial fields agree with that. It's also not true that only attractiveness is important or that large penises are preferred. If that was true, today, after thousands of generations of selection, the planet would be only populated with Scarlett Johanssons, pornstar dicks and guys who are 190cm or taller. The opposite is true.
Mankind is genetically still very averaged, very robust and does not trend to any specific genetic disposition related to modern "neurotic disorders". In the long run it evens out because females have no control over their genes. Many of these unrealistic women will have very sad children; imagine being a really tall attractive woman, 175cm and so on, who harshly rejects guys below 8 and has all kinds of expectations...and then your own son turns out to be 174cm with a tendency to be overweight, and not above average in attractiveness. Many properties of humans are inherited from genes of both parents, and because of mechanisms like the dominant-recessive combinations there is indeed a big randomness. For example, latest genetic analyses indicate that the height of men and the penis length of men is decided by the genetic information on the mother side. The father seems to create a certain disposition but it is the complementary maternal genes deciding on how those "masculine" features will be determined.
Interesting huh.
We are not dealing with a biological problem in terms of this out of whack dating situation, it is a social problem created by the women themselves. The question is how and when will it go away before it destroys our modern way of life.
Rejecting 80% of men and an increasing number of long term sexless singles means: the end of democracy. Lonely men become angry, angry longely men become violent, violent angry lonely men vote for rightwing and far right parties, rightwing and far right parties reduce important compensating mechanisms like the social welfare state, equal opportunity, civil rights and individual freedoms, and at a certain point they overthrow democracy and install authoritarian fascist dictatorships.
On the other side lonely men become extremely expensive due to exorbitant cost for healthcare.
@@bobbwc7011 Your right. Very attractive women only want to date extremely physically attractive tall men. Maybe this applies to all women. Women only want to date extremely physically attractive tall men.
body positivity is lip service out of pity for the obese... but they don't need pity, they need to lose weight. Japan's social pressure against obesity is better and at the end of the day more moral because it helps people avoid obesity.
More than that, "body positivity" deviated far from what it should have been, from celebrating all body types and discouraging shaming, to outright shaming naturally fit people for "encouraging toxic beauty standards". Also, apparently, people who are big on "body positivity" often have no problems shaming men for having the same kinds of bodies that they would celebrate on women. That is not positivity to me, that's simply hypocrisy.
It's simple.
Women think if they just hold out long enough they will find their tall faithful, caring 10/10 guy, with money and a great personality.
No. Ladies need to prioritize what they want and be realistic about if they can get it.
The two most desired categories by women income and height already limits their pool to a small percentage of men.
Very well said
alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
Income and masculine features lol they need to choose one or the other and stick to it because they're not getting both unless they share him.
Yea this 80% of women in the USA
Go overseas
I feel like Courtney has made this same video 100 times. Stop listening to these limiting beliefs. I only watch these to try to help men off the ledge
If you aren't physically attractive enough for the opportunity to show your personality then your personality means nothing
Sad but true. Then they wonder "where all the good men went."
@@dcdavis9782 They've never meant that phrase literally. It is subtext for "Why didn't Chad stop when he met ME??"
Women only want extremely physically attractive tall men.
Personality=looks
@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 lol. Your right. Extremely great looks and being tall in a guy = good personality
I'm no longer worried about my looks, but this is just sad. I've personally thought a lot of women were pretty, and then I got to know them.
@@mickhardin15 Exactly. I don't care how stacked they are either.
Yeah I had the gym body when I was younger. When you get older you realise it’s only height, status, and money that matter to women. Even being a nice man is low down on the list for them. They will say otherwise, but what they say and reality are two different places.
That's the truth. I find a good portion of women in my dating range attractive, but when I get to know most of them I find that number drops significantly. While women may find 80% of guys unattractive, I bet if I had a conversation with most of those guys I'd find a lot more substance to them than the majority of women.
@@CuriousGeorge13 You are a man, so you’d relate more to men than women. I feel the same about men, most are just blah. I’m sure decent but 🤷🏾♀️. I find women more interesting and decent, but then I’m woman.
I work out 6 days a week always been my hobby and slim muscular. But at the same time I don’t give a flying fk about my looks anymore. You do you and I do me.
"Youve gotta give a 6 a chance" These women have such big hearts. Its so inspiring to know that this pack of hyenas would be willing to give an above average man a chance.
Remember, an average man is rated at an 8.4 on these sites. A 6 rating is well below average. Anyone 5 or below is non-existent.
@@pace1195 Yest Median guy gets rated 3, I think some ones idea on avarage guy is off it's meds
Lmao. So true. Laughable stuff. The fact that they can sit here and say something like that so brazenly on camera is baffling - remember, this is what they're saying when they know they're being recorded so are gonna be mindful about saying what "sounds socially acceptable". Wtf do they say behind closed doors to their friends, or think inside their heads?
I honestly can't imagine saying something like that about women if I were to be on an interview video like this, and I say that as a guy who in many aspects is above average. It's baffling how many young people define other humans as a number out of 10, or view them as just a set of characteristics to be used for their own benefits/pleasure. What about romance, connection, chemistry, mutual trust and respect, and love? None of these women ever allude to that being of importance to them in any of these videos, and it's really worrying, because that's how meaningful relationships are forged - whether its with a partner or a friend. I fear that alot of people in their 20s and teens rn are gonna be alone for a long, long time unless they do some serious self-reflection and adjustment.
@@harrypike731 and did she think she was higher than a 6? Lol....and that's her with 9 tonnes of foundation and god knows how many enhancements. It's hard to rate looks..they are subjective
@@tonymagrof5303 Indeed, well i wouldn't qualify her as '6' or otherwise, I'm not a fan of the numerical 1-10 scale of attraction because it's super binary and fails to account for subjectivity, as well as other facets of attraction like chemistry, vibe, personality, style, shared values, voice and body language, etc. A 6 to you might be a 9 to me....Or alternatively, someone who i see as a '6' may become an '8' once i get to know them better
Stella always knows to surprise me... Stella: I’m not too picky.
Also Stella: wearing the wrong belt is enough not to pick him.
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alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
Don’t listen to what they say, judge by their actions lol
Black pants and a brown belt is just too deadly for her apparently. Imagine...
And also expecting her boyfriend makes 400k a year
@@antonachim5224 while she expects him to have a laundry list of things, she sits back and does absolutely nothing.
The most ironic line was " we show the best of ourselves on social media".
ironic and CAP...women always lie..
It’s true though. On insta everyone is just showing their vacations, best photos, etc…
I've noticed from certian men that some women never live up to their standard after the hookup. Once you start judging women off of non "$#×ual assets" you realize they werent that into them to begin with.
@@andremotivation6561 i´ve noticed men simp too much on this channel
Sorry, that's all you get.
Thank you for consistently letting women prove most men right. They have not argued against finding most men unattractive, just more excuses as to why men just need to focus on themselves and ignore what women think. Keep up the great work! Your videos are always spot on.
I don't know nate....you look young...get back to me on that in 20 years when you've never had a relationship or whatever and let me know if the loneliness has hit yet. Easy to say we don't need relationships, but we're social animals. Look at the lower simian species, such as monkeys, apes and gorillas: they have mates. That means we need them too, even if we don't admit it. 🙂
@@neutrino78x
I'm 52 years old. I haven't had any romantic relationships since I was about 20 years old. Loneliness hasn't set in yet. I feel great. Far better, in fact, than I felt when I was pursuing relationships. No, not everyone needs to be in a romantic relationships. Some people are far better off without them. People can be social in lots of ways aside from that. Relationships should never be seen as a requirement. Only as an option.
spot on mate! For the haters out there, men need a brotherhood more than a "relationship". We just aren't wired that way ladies.
Yeah MOST men are unattractive 🤷🏾♀️
He didn't say we don't need relationships he's pointing out how sad this situation is because this generation is going to be even lonelier than they are now if something doesn't change the paradigm.@@neutrino78x
the one girl comparing dating apps to clearing out emails haha. gives you a real sense of what it must feel like for them.
Yeah it’s gotta be so awful people thinking you are attractive.. that’s gotta be rough. Lol think she will live? How does she make it through the day?
I get like no matches on dating apps, but I agree with her. After a while, the work of going through an endless pile of profiles, which most come off as fake, feels like a chore. "Uhhh... Here we go again"
Why are guys so obsessed with dating apps?!?!?! Very few women use them compared to guys so it's obvious why they might not get chances. Meet people in real life and through social circles
@@rojaligajula2184 i think it’s best to do both. go out whenever possible and also use the apps. why not take advantage of all opportunities.
It's overwhelming. Not that most men wouldn't take that in an instance. But it would still make me very picky if I was in that position.
Courtney you gotta throw one happily married middle aged woman in the mix so we can all see the difference in expectations vs reality.
Most of these women will have a different viewpoint when they hit 35 and men stop talking to them altogether.
Please consider this, both single and married 35 y/o
Put a women that’s not from the USA
In a video
Yeah I second this. I love Courney's content but there is a suspicion that the beautiful women that she brings onto her show many not be telling the 100% truth. Having some middle aged women might provide a more balanced perspective.
It would be nice
@@TheArctofireHD Do you want to date a middle aged woman, or, a 23 year old hottie? I am 58, so I will take what I can get.
When you try to find your life partner after boiling their humanity down to a swipe.
This might be the most profound comment on this
Yeah cuz you're trying to find a "life" partner on Tinder... Give me a f****** break.
I feel like women finding even 20 percent of men attractive is already pretty generous
I think they find only find 1-4%of men attractive
Think it is proven to be like 2%.
But it is moore like an 1:3 thing in like everything, and guys are moore like 2:3, it is not soo big in every individual thing, it's just that it adds up to 2% in total.
I'm a guy and is it normal that I only find a few women attractive? I'm not conventionally attractive but I'm tan skinned, have a head full of hair, have a semi-glass skin and buttery lips. I have had a few women take interest in me while some didn't. But most women who showed interest in me weren't attractive to me. There was only one girl I found really attractive.
@@annatar6453 Particularly on social media. Women do a quick compare between the men that are in the wild - usually the sexiest guys who keep their profiles up - with what they've gotten and raise their expectations.
I very much appreciate that these girls recognize that dating apps are very one-dimensional.
Social media has given people literally unlimited access to other people - it also appears it has made them lonelier.
alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
I definitely agree that social media has made dating very shallow and superficial. To counter this in order to find a good mate we have to become blind to beauty both for boys and girls. All I can say is don't judge a book by it's cover and that is even more true in dating. Also let's face it, guys are not blessed with good looks, women are blessed with good looks. Most men are average or below average in looks and most women are above average. After few months those looks are no longer going to be intoxicating but that is the general progression of a relationship. I admire that these women take the heat in the comments and still show up, that is courageous. Ladies don't be quick to dismiss guys based on some minor thing, give them a chance, look beyond the initial awkwardness, I assure you will find some gems and great guys who will love to be with you.
When you have too many options, it's impossible to pick one. There would be a LOT fewer single men if the internet didn't exist, period.
@@GT6SuzukaTimeTrials yes that is definitely true. Women have a endless stream of options and they have become extremely picky. Example is the lady who said if he wears brown belt with black shoes she will not be interested. Should this really a deal breaker, can he not improve his fashion sense. So you are going to reject a great guy cause he can't match colors. The issue is women think they have time, the endless stream of options will always be there coz they are sleeping options. But once you hit 30 it's going to become even more difficult to find relationship options. Both guys and girls whats wrong with finding someone who is good enough. A greta relationship is not formed by finding the perfect partner, that is a illusion. A great relationship is 2 people working towards making that relationship great, putting in the effort to build a awesome relationship. No matter how perfect that person is when there are 2 people there will always be issues. Resolving your issues through communication is what builds intimacy and companionship love. Romantic love disappear in a few months, the hotter the flames the quicker the ashes
Online dating has made 90% of men lonelier and it got 10% of men all the women. Dating has regressed to Gorilla society where a tiny minority of males get all females while the vast majority of males get no females. In 2021, a third of males under 30 never had sex and this rate is skyrocketing since the begin of online dating.
As a guy who's 5'7 I gave up on dating apps altogether. I got so tired of feeling that I didn't deserve a hot girl because of it. I think meeting someone organically gives us a more accurate impression. It's hard for a person to really have a chance to shine online.
Smart move for you. Invest your time elsewhere.
5'7 is still taller than most women. Get your money up the best you can, get in the best shape you can & your height will be offset by your other traits.
5'6" guy here, gave up on online dating a decade ago. I still haven't had much success since then, but I have had more than when I was using OLD
Being honest, drop the “hot girl” fantasy. That's done. That's just as delusional as the average woman holding out for a 6ft, handsome, multimillionaire, entrepreneur with a great personality, who treats her like gold and accepts all of her flaws.
Is it possible? Sure. Is it likely? No.
You can however find a woman you're attracted to who is more on your level.
In my opinion, as a shorter guy you need to be prefiltering for them to save yourself time.
For example, don't even waste your time on a woman taller than 5’3, who is in better physical shape than yourself, who you don't outearn by at minimum 50-60%, who dresses better than yourself, etc.
If you do many of these women will waste your time and money because they know you want them.
No one deserves a hot girl. No one deserves anyone or that matter
Wow this just confirms I should just stay away from dating apps .
Nope I think you should stay expect that you want to remain lonely forever
Apps are just communication fronts for people.
It’s genetics, women are obsessed with the “perfect,” man. They are prime eugenics experts 😂
This is why there are so many 30+ single women who will struggle to get any man to take them seriously. Kevin Samuels RIP had a point.
Stop the 🧢
@@alvolutionary exactly when things don’t work out men are to blame
they are single but they are not lonely.
@@MrFuckinglogin stop the cap
@@MrFuckinglogin girls will never know true loneliness
These girls would be on medication if they got the same level of responses that men get on dating apps.
"Guys don't really know how to take pictures."
True. Because we generally are not narcissists obsessed with taking and posting photos of ourselves in order to get "likes".
yeah, that's why you only want to date young, pretty girls... of course no narcist would like to date a gril to show off to their friends, and no narcist would nak the value on 1..10. Because of course what matters for you is "the hear" only and only it is a pretty girl, because as everyone knows less pretty have no heart or personality.
Your face is your personality.
Your height is your confidence.
The end.
1st world countries are pretty safe, and their women have their own money. So men are not needed for protection and provisioning. So what's left for a woman to find attractive in a man? Simple looks and height. The reason why women are complaining about men is because they have allowed a small number of Chad's in their city to sleep with them all.
lmao 🤣
Delusional take
Amen
Only someone obsessed with his own height would say such a thing. Trust me, there are assloads of tall insecure men out there.
@@koshka02 yeah go tell a 5'6 guy to fix his posture and just get better clothes bro
Ever open up to a woman and expose your vulnerabilities only to have her throw them back in your face when she's mad at you over something relatively benign?
Man, it sure does discourage opening up 😔
Been there done that. Never doing it again.
True
Never show your emotions to a woman, at least not anything vulnerable. Women "say" the want a man to show his emotions, but it's BS. If a man breaks down in front of his woman, she'll never see him as a leader or a provider. Game over. 🎤👇
Or you can see them lose attraction as you finish telling them something. Nah, never again. If that makes me toxic, then call me the Toxic Avenger.
@@HARwinsOUTagain you're not toxic. Whoever encouraged you to be emotional and then used it against you later, they're the toxic one.
So in other words dating apps will destroy society with too much expectations and 80 to 90% of us will never be good enough. Cool, got it! 👍
Yes, that's pretty much it.
until it is time to pay the bills
@@elasticharmony Or fight the coming wars that are going to occur in the West.
@@elasticharmony also until it's time for the physical beauty they rely so heavily on to fade and the Chad's don't want them anymore.
As a happily married 31 year old (5 years in) this is so hard to watch. What is going on with women these days and being so self-centered and unrealistic?
dont make it sound it was different 5 years ago.. honestly, i highly doubt you're that different.
Now, are you really unrealistic ? if this is type of men to manage to attract then that means it's their daily reality.
Does this ever start not being depressing? I just listened to 15 minutes of women explaining why women finding 80% of men ugly is "logical" to them. "They can't take good photos." "Online dating is only about image." PLEASE! Bear some responsibility for your incredible shallowness.
Confirmation bias and also social media is a depressing place get away from it.
sometimes I wonder what some of these females would be without social media
@@moneymakinmitch8130 prostitutes
@@moneymakinmitch8130 at home taking care of her man and the house... and actually having something of value to contribute.
Keep in mind these girls are all Instagram models, they are super attractive so of course they have high standards
Fear of Better Options is most certainly a thing. Women moving in on the top 20% of men exhibits this, but what those women don't take into account is that 20% of men also have FOBO. What happens with FOBO, for men and women who have it in dating, is like channel surfing with 10,000 channels. There's "nothing" and "everything" to watch at the same time. But since you can't choose, there is for all intents and purposes, "nothing". "There are no 'good' men." and "Where have they gone?" is the end product of the choice paradox.
I think it's more women only chasing the top 5% of men on dating apps. So basically, the hot guys are rotating through a slew of women and have no reason to settle down with any of them. This leaves 90% of men with no chance online but it also leaves 100% of the women with 0 chance to lock down the guy they want. The only winners of online dating are the top 5% of guys.
Yep, pretty much nailed it.
FOBO comes from Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO). That's how Eve got snookered by a talking snake.
im in this situatuion, i have FOBO
I'll take it a step further and say that when these women DO find a man that they don't have "FOBO" with, the man ends up being shared with multiple women due to his rarity and they get upset over it and blame it on every man, that's where the "there are no good men" and "where have they gone" statements actually come from.
Modern women want to be Regina George in their teens, a Kardashian in their 20s and a Real Housewife after 30. They want a gay best friend, a sugar daddy and a drug dealer.
"We know we have high standards, we are superficial and men have a difficult time finding women to date." "But we don't really give a f*ck!!" It's time for some new ladies. These have shown their true colors regardless of the setup questions.
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The men they reject and scorn won't give a f*ck when they are alone with kids or simply alone.
These women are reflective of all women. They only want to date extremely physical attractive tall men. That’s all that matters to women….. his looks. And that’s ok. Nobody wants to be with an ugly unhealthy person.
What are they supposed to do, sympathy f*** them?
You'd be surprised to realize that the new set of women won't be much different. These things are more or less universal. The exceptions are few and far between.
Guys dont know how to take pictures = guys dont use lighting, makeup, photoshop, filters, pose, and take multiple thousands of pics.
Exactly, sorry I don't snap pictures of myself while I'm at events with friends and family or on vacation. I actually enjoy the freaking moment.
:-/
alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
@@mikelisteral7863 idk about that one especially after they been alone for so long.. I knowj some good women even relatives who been left by their spouse who were great matches great providers not avg guys then hear rumors and seen them get with avg joe womanizers lol no cap I was shocked then not cuz I do believe now in the right moment right time catching ppl smh
@@mikelisteral7863 I mean would they be disappointed probably yes they wouldn't measure up to their former spouse or lover but women will always have a measuring stick anyways
The other issue is that most women judge men within a minute of meeting them then get mad when they find out "they never really knew him" to begin with. Social media has made hookups easy but relationships very difficult.
@@davidhenryhudson3102 and thats why most get into the trouble they do, their sleeping with an "idea" instead of the actually man himself, to each is own, nature or nurture, just own it and don't complain when it fails
Slight correction there. Hookups are easy for women. Not for men. Relationships are easy for men over 30 provided we're willing to fall into that foolish beta male provider role for some woman who's already had her fun and now looking for some sucker. Relationships are only hard for women today because their "modern woman" vibes are unknowingly a turn-off to men.
The world famous "wmn intuition" they are always talking about, I guess it doesn't work all the time when they need it.
hookups for women easy not men
Gaby is hilarious, you could do a whole video just asking her questions.
@RBR-lo2ei she has the most issues and will end up a cat lady. I would bet my house on it
It's more because makeup really covers up a lot of women's flaws to where they can look like 7 or 8 instantly. Whereas for men, much of what is considered attractive often takes time and effort (eg workout either for weight loss and muscle building) and things out of their control (height). If you really take off all of the add-ons, most women without makeup look just as average, if not more, than their male counterparts.
alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
🙌
Yea this 80% of women in the USA
Go overseas
I've always thought about how it would be funny if men started using makeup (decently, just to cover up imperfections). We would probably look like gods.
Yep and then gravity takes hold
You should have the girls go on a dating app as a guy. The reactions should be interesting 🤔
We all know exactly how that would go.
She should ask them about one night stands. Have you ever had one? How attractive was he?
Watching this makes me realize what a blessing single life is. No drama, I can just surf and ride my motorcycle. Let the chads have these women.
Chad here... you're not missing out on anything special. We don't really want them either tbh.
Amen brother. Spread the word. These women act like children. They want want want and want, but they literally have NOTHING to offer a man except being in their 20s.
Same here, I've been MTGOW for a year and so far I have travelled to NZ and Canada
Bitter resentful men … all of you ⬆️ 😂
Downloaded a dating app this summer, got like 50 matches, went on a few dates with hotties...came to the conclusion that I'd rather finish off the summer in peace
Appearance is more important to women than personality because they think they can change a man's behavior to suit them. Which works in the rarest of cases.
Controlling the mind is the ideological Rumpelstiltskin ploy of communist-socialist societies/ Behavioural psychology is predicated on the totalitarian state of law and order/ Often times, men and women choose lucrative careers in legal services b/c the systematic crimes and the defence of constitutional rights are profitable for ambitious idolaters/
I was on tinder for 3 weeks and got no matches. So all the women was swiping left on me. So for the next 3 days I swipe left on every single woman on there and I got ban for life for being disrespectful. That was the best thing to happen to me
Was it that being banned was a good thing
I have only tried a dating site once , it was a very strict program nothing like a tinder, you had to go through security checks , this site wasnt to bad but I did get one problem that is notable that is older woman were very much into me being younger. I dont think they are sharing either so they want to lock up a young guy so there are all kinds of problems in the world today, if you look into other sites you will find people , the secret I think is gett ing a niche you aim for women in your vocational and then you can compete , like doctors date nurses etc.
it took me a year to build up my ELO rating to the point where I was getting matches and dates. Tinder is garbage unless you're an 8 or above. Then I got banned for no reason. The app is so vindictive that it tracks your google accounts so if you get a new phone/tablet/PC you have to get a spoofed number and new Facebook and email to start over or you'll just get insta-blocked again.
Also why do men want swiped by women? In my experience women asking you out is even more hard, you would be very confused
@dflowers30 I did and I was glad I'm done with tinder. More men should do that
I agree with Erica. On dating apps, it all starts with looks. A woman will base whether she swipes right or left totally on looks. Totally. Yes and guys won't spend hours on makeup and looking good for a picture. Or take lots of pics of themselves. Women will expect a man to put all the effort into a dating app that they do. Guys will present themselves as they are and that they are what they are, take it or leave it.
Don't forget how they want the men to put all that work as you said that women do for their dating profiles but still have to look not try hard at the same time
I don't think I have ever taken a selfie of myself alone. Even when m with friends I just hand my phone over to someone to take a group pic. H3ll even my FB dp back in the day was a passport photo.
If you're a Chad, you can take a mirror selfie that takes a whole minute in effort, and you'll get hundreds of matches. "angles" and however else you can rig pictures don't have a big impact. You're either attractive or not
irl it's also start with looks...
Keep it up ladies, marriage is almost extinct as it it.
I've been single now over 12 years and I have no intention of dating.
ENJOY YOUR CATS
Enjoy being solo
@@S3r53 i think he is
Read your comment again, sounds like you need some cats
sounds like someone is resentful, i been single for quite a while and honestly i put the blame on myself more then women.... This is the reality nowadays.
Hey good for you man! So in those 12 years with the time and resources you got you done much travelling? That what I would do
Looking for a guy that makes 100k+, is 6'+, fit, funny, intelligent, proficient at multiple skills and hobbies, cultured, and aligns with your own values is just as ridiculous as looking for a woman that has double Ds, but isn't overweight, stunningly beautiful, but doesn't flaunt it, cool and mellow with you doing whatever you want, funny, smart, up for being a full time mom, but still picking up at least a part time job to help with the finances!
I think social media in particular is warping perspectives of the age demographics of who would be dating at this point.
Well said
Don’t forget the girl also not having slept with a whole bunch of people
@@CarlosRamirez-no2js That too
They also think man, with so many options, gonna be faithful to them 😂. There was a study how many times guys thought about sex compared too women. Man think about sex constantly almost compared too women. It's more realistic that guy gonna be faithful if he's not good looking. Not that he doesn't think much about sex. He just gonna have less opportunities too be unfaithful.
You should watch Courtney's video where they ask this same bunch of women about what salary men need to make. It is side-splitting hysterical.
Like Gab said, men don’t have as many pictures of ourselves in general to capture our personality and vibrance. Almost every time you see a group of women out to brunch, in nature, etc they take 100’s of pictures. When us guys go out we are lucky if we take 1 or 2. Most likely it’s going to be a group photo and no one even checks if it’s good or not til later.
alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
+
AND if it's bad that's extra bonus for fun!
One tip i heard is to try and make it a habit to take at least one or two pictures a day. After doing that for a while you're bound to have a few that make you look decent.
Because women seek validation from their photos and social media. I can take a pic of a mountain range I'm hiking at. That doesn't compare to being at the trail itself and experiencing it. Same with people
A lot of people overlook the fact that women not only use makeup, filters, lighting, photoshop and even cosmetic surgery to project a false image of themselves and dwell on the attention and online validation, it’s a power-trip and a lot of men fall for this. As a man, I don’t play the hookup game. I love a woman with substance and who is confident in herself where she doesn’t feel the need to gather attention from others outside the relationship, that’s attractive to me.
Yes but you forgot the worse that is lip shots and botox, have you ever seen those bombs online with dthe giant lips?
@@elasticharmonythe fillers and "lifts" are so profoundly unattractive, it boggles the mind that anyone does it or is attracted to it
When you look at all their IG accounts the critics for men don't apply to them. I wonder why? But regardless, Courtney you knocked this one out of the ballpark. You have to create a guy panel! ( I would volunteer)
yes but the guy panel should also consist from men who are popular among women (opposed to losers in this chat). Then it will be fair comparison. And those guys will also show that all they care about are boobs and butts and such.
I wouldn't say "losers", I'd say the 90% of men that are invisible to these women.
I think if Courtney interviewed ACTUAL real men (most that aren't 6'+ Chad's), you know MOST men, I think Courtney's women subscribers would see the real world.
@@MrFuckinglogin
She has to ask the guys if they'd go for a woman with a macroV.
@@MrFuckinglogin like chads ??
The more these girls spoke, the more they showed shallowness, selfishness, cluelessnes and an overall higher opinion of themselves than they should.
And I should add that girl who cursed alot came across as a young child experimenting with curse words. That's EXTREMELY unattractive, in anybody.
I should also add that men don't sit in front of cameras taking pictures of themselves continually. I also did not hear one of these girls say what the have to contribute to a partnership, or what they would like to improve with themselves to make them more marketable.
Pitiful.......
Not to mention looks wize, they are between 3 - 5 on a scale of 1 -10
Thumbs up if you find Gab extremely charming 🥰
You mean, guys don’t use makeup, photoshop and filters when taking pictures...?!?
I like the blonde with the black cap thing. Her vibe is good. I'm not into blondes either, so it goes to show how important personality is
She and the girl in pink are so honest
It would be the same the other way around.
But makeup! Trust me, you'd be shocked if you saw an 8/10 girl without it.
It's not because of higher standards or any other BS these girls say.
@Jane B Robbins 1 in 3 men hasn't had sex in a year. Most men are hardly screwing anything that moves.
@Jane B Robbins nope. Only the top 10% dudes who women love on these apps do. Most dudes do care about the kind of person they want to be with if they are looking for long term relationships
Else the world would be filled with furries
@Jane B Robbins women fuck way more than men nowadays. That’s y’all now. A lot of girls run through men but it just looks cuter when women do it.
@Jane B Robbins no. Most men have standards and such.
You could be good looking guy, decent career, independent, a good father, passionate in hobbies, etc. but the deal breaker would them being "only 5'10".
Yup.
Wear shoes and you'll be 6' lol
Why are you trying to attract those type of women anyway? They are literally only for recreational use.
Until the biological clock ticks more loudly then it's not quite as big a deal. For a while anyway.
As a 5'10.5 guy, I claim 6' because of shoes 😅
Women:
Men: I just want her to be kind of pretty and to be nice and not nag me.
alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads
Us men are really simple and straight forward creatures
Men want more than that and you know it !
@@priscillapie Not really. We are very easy to make happy.
@@JimV90 yea, the things women think they offer to men we can already get most of that from our homies 🤣
Women break rules for “Alphas” and make rules for “Betas”
Wow that’s brilliant
@barley sigmas make rules that cant always be met
Truth…
Stop it with the alpha beta crap.
Its true sadly. How? I matched with a lady, she seemed interested then all of a sudden she became unresponsive, tells me we can work something out when shes free next month as shes busy. After a week, she tells me she has a bf, I wished her luck. Then after another week she broke it off and came back to talk to me, same results as before, slow to respond but hot and cold. So, why did she make rules for me telling me that shes busy and shell be free next month, but all the while she was just chasing the hot guy who didn’t give a shi about her? Now shes single but has me on the backup. Lol
Stella, who to me is the most attractive, has a habit of saying “I feel like” when she contemplates an answer. This means her answers and outlooks may change throughout time.
If I was a betting man, I’d say she’s probably given different answers to the same question throughout this series.
That’s exactly what she’s done
That's women in general. They never know what they want so their opinions and feelings change constantly.
Yep, talk of feelings in regards to black or white issues are a definite red flag. It’s flakey, and you’ll end up divorced.
LOL. Maria is the most attractive, and it's not even close. Having said that, I would never date her cause she's obviously shallow.
that's a way to be polite and avoid discussions. Strong opinions would generate bad comments, etc. She's educated about communicating on social media
The problem with dating apps is that they just scratch the surface of who someone is. Guys should invest in a photographer for a fighting chance. If you get the date, be hyper aware of what she says and does, may be much different than what she portrays. Don't ever settle on a woman for her looks.
As many photographers exist on the internet, no one has tried to make money off of the terrible photos that men take of themselves, I definitely see as a business idea.
Can confirm. I included professional headshots I did for my business, and saw matches skyrocket.
My ancient ancestors had to take pictures to get a mate? Even 200 years ago?
0:33 - "That's crazy! Um, first of all, step your picture game up." - Immediately blaming men. IMMEDIATELY. This is precisely the reason that us men are going our own way. Stella is not an exception; she is the rule. Hashtag MGTOW
I agree, I noticed it also. Meaning believing that so many men are taking poor pictures when modern cameras already do so much of the light, color and other balancing for you so you can easily take semi professional pictures. Additionally whenever men do take pics for dating sites they do their best to take a good one, and even that isn't good enough.
@@ghanshyam1990 Appreciate the input. I haven't even scratched the surface of this upload, and I'm already having a conniption in my mind. I must remain calm and civil. I never do this, but enough is enough. I'm making a reaction video right now.
@@DingleberrryDan - I didn't even watch the entire video, just three fourths and went back to learning how to code. Why should I listen to how hard I have to play a rigged game where unless and until you are over 6ft, fair complexion (in my country) and wealthy you dint even stand a chance.
@@ghanshyam1990 Absolutely, brother. The pain is real. You sound like a reasonable dude. And I love that you're choosing to move onto bigger & better things that serve YOUR purpose. THAT is true MGTOW. Once my vid goes up, feel free to engage in the dialogue (yes, the dreaded comments lol).
@@DingleberrryDan waiting for that video bruh
I still have that old fashioned mentality that dating apps are for desperate people. I know this is not the case, but I've found meeting women in real life isn't that hard and it's much more organic. So personally all of the women involved opinions where great to hear! And women are everywhere!
Besides, I don't fit in online anywhere. I actually respect a good woman and realize that they exist. And the real world is so much better :) Thanks again for another great video, Courtney and Friends
Almost 100% of the women I meet are married. Or at least that's what they tell me.
@@visaman I can only speak for myself. And I'm very proud of that.
Women would really prefer if we could go back to meeting people in person too. Dating apps make dating miserable for all of us
This is so nice. I kinda feel the same way.
I had tinder app for a week and ended up deleting it cause it wasn't natural to me.
I gave up on dating apps too. I did OKAY like during Covid when literally everyone was on there, but nothing truly substantial came out of it. Dating apps give both men and women what’s called the ‘paradox of choice’…you have so many options to pick from that you end up not picking ANY of them …and the ratio of men to women on dating apps is comparable to that of the population of Alaska 😬😂
I find 80% of women on dating apps to be vapid clones. “I love adventures! I like banter! My dog must like you!” I swear that’s literally every woman on Tinder.
I think the sentiment of the video is that it's hard for women to judge attractiveness thru an app because women have too many options and are attracted to other things they get in person. It's like "clearing out emails" for them when they go on apps.
@Jane B Robbins Right, but meeting them in person, you can become either less or more attracted to them, given their personality.
Yea this 80% of women in the USA
Go overseas
Don't fret. I've seen it over and over. They dream big, but when these girls get married and u see their husband he's always a dad bod about 5'10" cute or cuddly to her, but we would all say he's a 6. He makes good $, but not great $ and was a jock or super smart in high school so he retained some confidence, but he's actually average now. Oh - her in laws like him. The don't marry the hot neck tattoo drop shipper posing w a Lambo who got his GED and no longer does coke.
@@postworld1185 And she'll be a jaded and bitter veteran by the time she settles for him.
I don't think it's because of their overwhelming options online. I think it's because they are just attracted in a different way than men.
Also, their overwhelming options don't really matter, because men rarely come across women they truly like, so out of the 50 men that liked their profile, maybe 1 might actually really like them.
Girls are so funny man I laughedso hard when the girl at 21:25 said "idk wearing black pants with a brown belt ugh I would never something like that IM NOT TOO PICKY" every one of these girls had cap and cope in their answers and this is why men have stopped dating its absolute fruitless and waste of time to try too.
fashion sense it is diffently a thing, I use it if I ever see a chick dressed like a runway model she gets a lot of attention.
At this stage even if I managed to find a woman there’s no doubt she’ll probably divorce me anyway. Stats don’t lie. Stay single bros.
These women are going to be lonely 😂
There’s a great video on why you will marry the wrong person. People don’t understand that love is a skill and compromise is not a bad but it’s a sign of humility. Too many women and men get hung up on the imperfections of others when in reality we are all flawed in our own way.
Perception is lacking/ Beliefs are the fallacies that delude the masses/ Egocentric personalities will always misjudge what they don't understand/ The formulated product appears perfect, without flaws b/c it conforms to unprofessional worldly standards and the same goes for convenience relationships/ Fear and greed are the motivations/
If a guy is unattractive but he's blessed with being tall, it evens out to an extent. I have seen plenty of men in public with average or sub-par looks and the partners they have are easily a lot more attractive.
Have you seen my 600lb life? All of those women have boyfriends/husbands. Not one time have I seen one of those men with a girlfriend or wife.
Let's not act like women are more fair in their approach to picking mates.
Especially because these same women said they would go down in looks to date a man that is rich in previous videos.
Yep this has been the case for me. Though since I stopped being so fat my looks improved a lot.
A lot? I don't think so. My buddies were physically attractive when they got their girlfriends or married. 80% of them gotten fat or obese. You really think many women would date a fat/obese guy especially if he's short? Nope.
Not really. An unattractive face cancels out any good height you have.
It only evens out if you are a tall guy who is massively endowed, that is the real reason these women "settle" for these tall but less handsome men
But trust me these things work both ways, if you are tall and not massively endowed or even just average expect the vast majority of these shallow pathetic vile body shaming women to immediately laugh in your face, tell you that you don't match up to mr massively endowed girth alpha Tyrone that they hooked up with last night and go instantly running back to their friends to publically humiliate your body.
So being tall is essentially pointless if you aren't also massively endowed and because average doesn't look proportional on a very tall guy, you actually need to be massively endowed or these women will destroy you.
Sad world eh? yet these women are outraged about the unobtainable beauty standards of Hollywood hahahaha as they penis size shame and humiliate men to mental illness.
"Im not into looks but he has to be taller than 5'9" and have a v-taper and manicured beard." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's her requirements before income, facial attractiveness, personality, charm, charisma, the list goes on.
@@freudianslip2192 You got it! Agreed 100%.
@@jokernabastard2828 and she'd lose her mind if you asked, okay, what do you bring to the table?
@@sparshrastogi2646 Agreed. Standards for me, not for thee. They are young, so no kids, but 100k in college debt they want you to pay for.
Agreed!!!
Husband Department Store
A new, special kind of store just opened up in a Manhattan shopping center. This store sells husbands, yes that's right - women can browse men from floors of choices.
Actually, there are 6 floors of men, and with an increase in the floor level bringing an positive attributes... a nifty setup - with a catch. As you open the door to any floor, you may choose a man from that floor but if you go up, you cannot go back down except to exit the building. Interesting, right?
So a young woman goes to the shopping center to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs. The woman reads the sign and says to herself, "Well, that's better than my last boyfriend, but I wonder what's further up?" So up she goes.
The second floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids. The woman remarks to herself, "That's great, but I wonder what's further up?" And up she goes again.
The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids and are extremely good looking. "Hmmm, better" she says. "But I wonder what's upstairs?"
The fourth floor sign reads: Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking and help with the housework. "Wow!" exclaims the woman, "very tempting. BUT, there must be more further up!" And again she heads up another flight.
The fifth floor sign reads: Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak. "Oh, mercy me! But just think... what must be awaiting me further on?" So up to the sixth floor she goes.
The sixth floor sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 7,548,652 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor only exists as proof that women are impossible to please.
"Guy's don't look as good on dating apps" "Guys don't take good pictures" You mean guys don't wear makeup or use filters... SMH
2:00 "you gotta give a '6' a chance" ... yeah, but a '6' is above average, meaning that he is in the top 20% of men, according to the survey.
She never showed the survey or talked about where the survey came from.
I always thought average was a 7. You know how passing in school was a 70? 5 doesn't seem average to me.
and of course they are all 6s and 4s. with make up
Nothing a damp towel can't fix. 😁
@2:14 I say this with respect. Why does she think she isn’t a 6 at best ? Deep voice, average & forgettable look. Im just saying. Anyways back to video
Don't listen to what they say, listen to what they do
All very shallow in a way, but I think if people are making choices like that perhaps the girls posting pictures of themselves should only be allowed to post pictures of themselves with no makeup, no hair dye, no nail polish are artificial nails, or eye brows or artificial eye lashes.... Just to even things up... oh and no filters...
Worthless BS responses to avoid any acceptance of responsibility, coupled with a massively biased view of what the male experience is.
In the OK Cupid study under discussion, the men's responses on women followed a normal distribution. The female responses on men gave a clear indication of unrealistic expectations.
It’s 95% it’s called the 95/5 rule. Women treat guys they don’t find attractive very badly.
Preach! 👏
@Jane B Robbins LOL you live in fantasy land like the rest of them. And your general disdain for men as shown here is no different
There is no escape from being treated "badly" by them, whether you are attractive or not. Because if the guy is attractive, then she will be jealous of his looks, success and how other Women might look at him, and she will try to destroy him. Look what Amber Heard did to Johnny Depp, for example...
They are down right mean as hell.
@Jane B Robbins sure. Unless they are being approached for a date by someone they don't find attractive. ESPECIALLY whey there is a man close by they are interested in. Then they will most likely eviscerate that 'creep', and go back to making goo-goo eyes at Chad.
A woman will pick a guy who is a 12 out of 10 and treats her like crap about 10 times out of 10 over a guy who is a 6 out of 10 and treats her good. A woman starts CONSIDERING picking the guy who is a 6 out of 10 over the guy who is a 12 out of 10 only when she is about 60 years old. Women are what they are. What are they you might ask? They are way worse than men ever were with this stuff.
60 years old lol
True, women would prefer a very attractive man. Meek was a pretty scummy guy and everyone women wanted him
@@ellisjackson3355 Okay, I was exaggerating for comedic effect. Not 60, I would say about 55 really. 55-60.
I’m sure there’s a lot of fat women who would treat me like gold, but I’ll never know. Guess I’m the same as women.
Dating apps never worked for me. Too many crazies, misrepresentations, and falsehoods. I'm at a point now in my life where I doubt if I will ever seek out another female, it seems too much of an uphill and losing battle.
The woman in the knit cap is a riot. She'd be fun to hang out with.
I'll give them credit, they definitely seem a lot more empathetic vs the "women react to lonely single men". Actually reacted like normal people rather than heartless animals.
Tressa ( 1:57 ) acts like an 8 when shes a 5-6 looks wise and a 3-4 in personality
Especially with that manly voice 🤣
Damn that's tough sheesh
Nah she's a 8 to me
And she will not age well
She's cute and she's got a decent bullshit detector. Most men will marry a lot worse. I'm sure you're the video game community's answer to Brad Pitt though. 🤨
Hey Courtney you hit on the nail! Women do find 80% of men unattractive. Women only want the top 20% of 🔝 men! Unbelievable. I know because I am short 5’7 keeps me getting dates
Chase Cash, Not Women, you will succeed.
@@carlo1132 Horrible advice bro. Go after ways to better yourself. Go to the the gym, eat better, get better at hobbies, and yes, make money. But money is not everything. You can't buy good health or confidence. Not really.
@@raygunner4970 Of course do those things, I didnt thing it had to be said, women want money, if you got money you are in the drivers seat. Women want resources, if you got them you can get better women its that simple.
I see lots of average height men with girlfriends/wives. The average height in the USA is 5’9.
@@carlo1132 so true I make 250k as a Sales Engineer 👨💻 at a Fortune 500 technology company. Work out 💪! I am 5’7 but I got a lot to offer. These women are shallow anyways!
The blonde with the black beenie and skeleton shirt is my favorite. I love her sense of humor. These answers seem very genuine from these ladies. Very insightful.
There is a discernible difference between someone saying “this person is attractive but just isn’t for me” and “this person is just flat out unattractive.” The way I took the study was women found 80% of men just flat out unattractive. You have to subject it to a multivariate analysis. A lot of good looking men won’t need or want to use a dating app. There is a higher proportion of men than women on dating apps and that could drive the “average” looks of the men on there down. Women factor in other things in person relating to attractiveness; i.e. clothes, cars, accessories, confidence, body language, and it’s hard to express any of that on dating apps when it’s just a few photos. I don’t think the study is wrong per se, but I think it’s skewed to not factor in other variables.
The cost of playing the dating game is so high and the rewards so mediocre that for most men the best bet is not to play. Instead, focus on your health, finances, and passions. If you do make yourself in the top 5% then there's no need to settle down, deep pumping and dumping.
After cutting through all of this superficial BS, that’s exactly what these women deserve.
to be fair, that's kind of what we were supposed to be doing anyway. I don't really understand how a woman is supposed to stay invested in a relationship if the man isn't doing jack shit with his life.
that is so low what should happen is a grand old war where all you immoral sum are killed and these deluded women can snap out of it, nothing more real than cannon fire. Look a Ukraine that sex slum getting a good moral wake up,
- I just wish you would stop playing that stupid golf with your buddies on weekends and start helping around the house!
- You're talking just like my ex now ...
- You never told me you were married before!
- I wasn't ...
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I'm starting to think women are more shallow than men. Despite the stereotype that we all hear.
Once you stop giving a damn about what a women think and live your life you men would be a lot better off. Treat women as humans and put yourself first.
You will never be bored with Gab.
Hers personality is awsome
Right? I'd love to hang out with such a girl anytime. Love the humor and she comes across as a person who does not take herself too seriously.
@@deiwi You can hear in bacground that Courtney, and stuff enjoyes her present
Are you kiddin?? I thought she was delusional. "I feel the opposite, I'm just like, he has hands" ..... are you freaking kidding me lady..... "it feels like clearing out emails" but also I don't have any options .....she is literally delusional
@@Evoandrs Yeah, noticed that too. It was the best interview on this channel tbh. Hope Gab will come back 😄
There's something edgy about her as well that's attractive
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All girls want to get married ...
But only very few are ready and willing to be a wife ...
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As a man I pay no attention to women in public. I'm heterosexual and only focus on my goals. I have a great job, go to the gym, play baseball, hiking, running and other hobbies as well. If I interact with women it's only professional or business never flirting. After reading about men's interactions with women in public i.e. creep shaming just for smiling, flirting or speaking to (all while in proper social norms) I just leave women alone. No eye contact, no smiling, no close proximity (personal bubble) not even a handshake. This is the world we live in where people are quick to record you, take a photo and blast it on social media cancelling you in a heartbeat. People just quick to ruin a person even if the accused is not guilty. For my brothers out there just live your life and pursue your goals, take care of yourself health wise.
They and you just need a coach this does happen but many others are doing the other and not have any problem. It could be the girl and poltical also the mind tends to manifest the domiante thought.
Sorry to break it to you but you’re part of the problem. Have you personally ever been “creep shamed?” Or did you read a clickbait article/see a Tiktok video and now think it’s illegal to flirt with women? I see so many comments like this and none of you seem to realize that you’re the ones making this shit a reality.
Shallow.