Socialite Kills Two Boys While Racing Lover on Residential Street | Rebecca Grossman Case Analysis

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  • @cybermandan1960
    @cybermandan1960 Місяць тому +2982

    It takes a special kind of psychopath to kill an 8 and 11 year old and still come out feeling like the victim.

    • @coll4455
      @coll4455 Місяць тому +105

      100%

    • @dennisdube5938
      @dennisdube5938 Місяць тому +62

      😢truth

    • @peer6939
      @peer6939 Місяць тому +112

      Rebecca cries out in pain as she strikes you

    • @notozknows
      @notozknows Місяць тому +88

      In 35 years, she'll go up in front of the parole board, and if she is still in denial, she'll never get out.

    • @tarstarkusz
      @tarstarkusz Місяць тому +9

      It's easy to think the way you are thinking here. But just imagine the police suddenly decided YOU are the one who did it (these particular victims.... instead of Grossman, they say it was YOU).
      Imagine people calling you a psychopath for denying you had anything to do with it. It only sounds callus because you believe she did it.
      In this particular case, I think she did it and she knows she did it and wants to evade the punishment. But denying responsibility for something does not mean you are unsympathetic to others.

  • @andrewpereira9271
    @andrewpereira9271 Місяць тому +1376

    She said, the jurors "weren't on my side from the beginning." That happens when you kill two kids.

    • @kerrypearce4264
      @kerrypearce4264 Місяць тому

      Hey lady! That’s not how things work with a trial.
      A jury is, as far as is possible, impartial. Heard of that? Understand that?
      Jurors listen to THE EVIDENCE. Heard of that? Understand that?
      They did this in YOUR TRIAL and BASED ON ALL THE EVIDENCE BEFORE THEM found you GUILTY of KILLING TWO YOUNG BOYS. In YOUR CAR WHICH YOU WERE DRIVING AT HIGH SPEED. The boys and their mother were on the pedestrian crossing. You know, that place where DRIVERS are mandated and expected to stop to allow pedestrians to SAFELY cross the road.
      THIS FAMILY DID NOT STAND A CHANCE.
      But you chose, by deliberately speeding, to put yourself in the situation WHEREBY YOU CRUELLY TOOK THE LIVES OF TWO TREASURED LITTLE CHILDREN.
      SHAME SHAME SHAME ON YOU.
      But it’s all about YOU YOU YOU isn’t it 🤮
      Good luck with sentencing 😁
      Your antics to date with your trying to get out of your sentence BY SERIOUSLY DEVIOUS AND ILLEGAL METHODS will come in handy when the sentencing judge is making their decision.
      Boo Hoo Baby 😂😂😂

    • @cathybassett6432
      @cathybassett6432 Місяць тому +62

      Jurors aren't supposed to be on either "side."

    • @jimhanty8149
      @jimhanty8149 Місяць тому

      Why on earth would the jurors be on your side… a jury of crack heads wouldn’t be on your side….this lady is insufferable from coasting through life feeling special.

    • @eugeneariz4395
      @eugeneariz4395 Місяць тому +23

      The jurors are not supposed to be on any side plus the fact that her defense attorneys as well as the prosecution are part of the jury selection process.

    • @maryannegunter115
      @maryannegunter115 Місяць тому +13

      Jurors aren't supposed to be on anyone's side; impartial jury, stupid

  • @user-bv3bn1gf5k
    @user-bv3bn1gf5k Місяць тому +237

    She didn’t care that she murdered two little boys….she should never get out of prison

    • @Scepticalasfuk
      @Scepticalasfuk 17 днів тому +6

      I'm surprised that she even spent a day in jail. Rich people are seldom given jail time in the USA. The kids must have been rich too.

  • @lauravgabot-sattler1259
    @lauravgabot-sattler1259 Місяць тому +213

    As a parent, this is truly nauseating. That poor mother.

    • @susanandrew6453
      @susanandrew6453 18 днів тому

      I feel so desperately sad for the boys' whole family: the two siblings they left behind and the devoted and dignified parents two have more humanity and decency in every atom of their body than this 'socialite' witch and her whole family. What vile people.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva 16 днів тому +3

      I don’t know how these poor parents manage and my heart aches for them. I only have one child and I know I’d end up in prison.

    • @allycook3926
      @allycook3926 16 днів тому +5

      What about the father, he is going through hell as well!

  • @Traderjoe
    @Traderjoe Місяць тому +1703

    She said “if the Mercedes system hadn’t disabled her car, she would be in her garage right now” which implies that if the car had been able to continue on, she would have gone right home instead of waiting for the police. She was intending to leave the scene of an accident that killed two children! What a piece of garbage

    • @hydrostatic8048
      @hydrostatic8048 Місяць тому +33

      ​@@ollerpopsNope, poor people also commit horrendous crimes.

    • @ringring8938
      @ringring8938 Місяць тому +21

      She didn't pay her monthly subscription 😂

    • @shellabella8625
      @shellabella8625 Місяць тому +53

      Shes also a known drunk.

    • @patriciapitt4228
      @patriciapitt4228 Місяць тому +38

      Garbage is to GOOD of a name for her, and the Hurt, Trumer and Suffering she has caused that Family is unforgettable for them,PLEASE HOPE She will get Life as she would be the type to go and do it all again 😢

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Місяць тому +1

      ​@@hydrostatic8048Yes. Wealthy people are beyond reproach. I have been up, and I have been down. However, most poor folks don't have a sense of entitlement. They're too busy trying to survive. I am actually a mathematical physicist, and have studied magnetohydrodynamics while in grad school. Hydrostatic systems were examined during the first week ...

  • @kimberlydavis7322
    @kimberlydavis7322 Місяць тому +1330

    Killed 2 children with no remorse... she really needs a lesson in humility.

    • @roberthudson6284
      @roberthudson6284 Місяць тому

      You can't teach jews to be like us.

    • @chcarroll5164
      @chcarroll5164 Місяць тому +75

      if that wasn't bad enough she admitted to a plan to hide the car and tried to throw her boyfriend under the bus

    • @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla
      @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla Місяць тому +19

      Facing life in prison because of an accident? What about the ones that have killed thousands of kids knowing what they were doing e.g. Bush, Obama, Netanyahoo, etc.?

    • @hopeausbyn1734
      @hopeausbyn1734 Місяць тому +22

      "Whataboutism" Rebecca likes to play games too.

    • @christinelee4780
      @christinelee4780 Місяць тому +42

      Unfortunately, you can't teach humanity to someone like her

  • @Goawaypleasenow
    @Goawaypleasenow Місяць тому +222

    Can you imagine the horror that mother lived through that day and what she saw and her one child still barely alive. She will NEVER BE THE SAME EVER AGAIN

    • @f0rumrr
      @f0rumrr 27 днів тому +3

      Ya instant death is far easier than almost death suffering until the end. Any sane person would be traumatized by seeing a kid go down like that. Cant imagine what the mother of said child went through.

    • @binaryfairy4197
      @binaryfairy4197 25 днів тому +2

      Nothing can change what happened BUT the parents should ABSOLUTELY sue her for wrongful death..at least it'll hold her accountable.

    • @susanandrew6453
      @susanandrew6453 18 днів тому

      And apparently another child: I think they had four.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva 16 днів тому +3

      Imagine my shock that the criminal is a “mother” herself. But birthing a child clearly didn’t make her a mother. Just a narcissist who had sex.

    • @johnnycash578
      @johnnycash578 15 днів тому

      can you imagine that a person can just think of her own skin after what she did not even smart enough to shut up about saying she would be in her garage if the car didnt disable itself!!!!??? she is the devil and the most horrible person ever born .your cat is beautiful😻

  • @Rett22
    @Rett22 Місяць тому +68

    She has no remorse after killing two kids. May she rot in prison.

  • @rogercroft3218
    @rogercroft3218 Місяць тому +1406

    What an appalling woman. With any luck they give her the maximum sentence.
    Sympathies to the poor family.

    • @lawv804
      @lawv804 Місяць тому

      Since she is a "socialite" and a woman, she will probably get off with a slap on the wrist, unfortunately.

    • @alexmcd378
      @alexmcd378 Місяць тому +37

      At her age, even the minimum sentence is probably life

    • @ThatLadyInDallas2024
      @ThatLadyInDallas2024 Місяць тому

      ​@@alexmcd378we can only hope. Karma sees her too.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie Місяць тому

      She is definitely a class conconz11z4y🎉4c44kyvv

    • @johnjr7070
      @johnjr7070 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@alexmcd378 i digress, probably claimed to be 21, life

  • @vickinoeske1154
    @vickinoeske1154 Місяць тому +652

    I don't want this driver to ever breathe free air again. She needlessly killed two children.

    • @VegasElement
      @VegasElement Місяць тому +12

      There is NEVER a need to kill two children!

    • @crazycoffee
      @crazycoffee Місяць тому +11

      Breathe ever again. I'm sorry but she took two innocent futures so her future needs to stop now.

    • @frandavis1990
      @frandavis1990 Місяць тому

      ​@@VegasElementin war it does come up

    • @howardrobinson4938
      @howardrobinson4938 Місяць тому +4

      You very needlessly used the word needlessly.

    • @vickinoeske1154
      @vickinoeske1154 Місяць тому +8

      @@howardrobinson4938 Yes, I realize. Thank you for needlessly reminding me. You're a star.

  • @stevent4955
    @stevent4955 Місяць тому +123

    It’s amazing how she can think she is innocent ??? UNBELIEVABLE !

    • @fukhue8226
      @fukhue8226 20 днів тому +3

      Trump mentality. Nuts don't fall far from the tree!

    • @elsajones6325
      @elsajones6325 18 днів тому

      TDS much? ​@@fukhue8226

    • @easy_eight2810
      @easy_eight2810 17 днів тому +1

      ​@@fukhue8226 Don't make the deaths of these children political

    • @cheriem432
      @cheriem432 15 днів тому

      Delusion is a very powerful force.

    • @elsajones6325
      @elsajones6325 15 днів тому

      @@easy_eight2810 it's called TDS.

  • @plankface
    @plankface Місяць тому +91

    Her referring to the jury process as “we didn’t get…” shows she has ZERO accountability she is a disgrace and I’m so glad she will be going to prison.

    • @Jaristandbeeld
      @Jaristandbeeld 22 дні тому

      Affluenza, disgusting.

    • @cheriem432
      @cheriem432 15 днів тому +1

      This is exactly how narcissists behave.

  • @MakerInMotion
    @MakerInMotion Місяць тому +1775

    Hats off to Mercedes for not letting her flee the scene.

    • @dejectedsmilez
      @dejectedsmilez Місяць тому +69

      Right!!! Was looking for this comment!

    • @athmaid
      @athmaid Місяць тому +162

      Pretty sure it's meant to be a safety feature for the driver. But that's a very welcome side effect

    • @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla
      @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla Місяць тому

      They are Germans after all, control freaks

    • @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla
      @Dr.Pancho.Tortilla Місяць тому +48

      They are Germans after all, Gestapo, Stasi, etc

    • @celeca7
      @celeca7 Місяць тому

      I can’t believe she was arrogant enough to admit that after the collision. I had to go back and re-listen to that part. Did she really admit she was mad her car wouldn’t let her flee the crime scene?! What a dips#!t

  • @ministerofdarkness
    @ministerofdarkness Місяць тому +685

    Rebecca should definitely spend the rest of her life in prison.

    • @genemontoya4028
      @genemontoya4028 Місяць тому +22

      Life!

    • @joinjen3854
      @joinjen3854 Місяць тому +35

      She needs 2 life sentences.

    • @Defender78
      @Defender78 Місяць тому +20

      These 2 people were in their 30s or 40s, and they were acting like 19-year-olds in their first car out of high school, racing like fools, I truly hope that her influence and stature as a socialite with connections and what not don't let her squeeze out of any responsibility or have her sentence reduced, that would be absolutely tragic

    • @NickyBlue99
      @NickyBlue99 Місяць тому

      She should be 6 feet under

    • @alexmcd378
      @alexmcd378 Місяць тому +10

      Even the minimum sentence will be effectively life at her age. I don't think elder care is that great in prison

  • @calartian85
    @calartian85 Місяць тому +105

    We raised our kids in the Conejo Valley. We sold out in 2022 with zero regret. So many people. So many cars. Big, wide boulevards. More money around than brains. And everybody on the gas as hard as they can go. No enforcement in sight. I once went to a community meeting in my unincorporated neighborhood. A CHP officer was present and opened his time at the meeting with “I’m not taking any questions about speed enforcement. Everyone has speed enforcement complaints.” I stood up and walked out.

    • @patverum9051
      @patverum9051 Місяць тому +6

      Sworn to protect, effectively doing nothing of the kind, but hinder,extort,
      make up law,etc.

    • @andrewpereira9271
      @andrewpereira9271 19 днів тому +2

      Hopefully now they can see a good reason to enforce the law. Good for you walking out . . . what the hell was he there for?

    • @Smedley1947
      @Smedley1947 13 годин тому

      After that that no more than 3 days ago I was at an intersection where two people Stone ass ran the red light while a cop was sitting in the turn lane to make a left turn. Nothing. I originally came from Colorado where if you didn't signal for a turn or even a lane change you would get pulled over and ticketed most likely. But down here where I live now you practically have to drive your car into a cop to get their attention and a possible ticket.

  • @Zzx75
    @Zzx75 Місяць тому +67

    I can’t believe they did not revoke her phone privileges after her outrageous behavior, trying to get her family to lie, and her attorneys jury tampering.

    • @andyl7547
      @andyl7547 Місяць тому

      Looking like the judge is soft on her. Let's see if she gets a slap on the wrist

    • @joycemanning1254
      @joycemanning1254 22 дні тому

      Psychopath

  • @Simonisms
    @Simonisms Місяць тому +583

    She wanted to do a hit and run so was upset that her car was unable to drive...😕
    What a lunatic, I hope they lock her up forever

    • @ringring8938
      @ringring8938 Місяць тому +9

      She didn't pay her subscription

    • @Simonisms
      @Simonisms Місяць тому +15

      @@ringring8938 Exactly
      Turning on the 'hit and run' feature is never cheap

    • @istudios225
      @istudios225 Місяць тому +13

      Yes. The children's mother started waving at the 2 cars when they were still at a distance racing and overtaking each other. And yet this narcissistic road monster never stopped and slowed down only at the last minute. RIP, Little Ones!

    • @davidorlin3499
      @davidorlin3499 Місяць тому +1

      That was dumb of the mother letting the children go across the crosswalk on there toys!😒

    • @grahvis
      @grahvis Місяць тому +2

      @@davidorlin3499.
      Would it have made any difference if they had been walking?

  • @blkcat93
    @blkcat93 Місяць тому +160

    That poor family to lose their two young boys. How awful.

  • @skin2117
    @skin2117 Місяць тому +33

    This woman took 2 lives, both under the age of 10. 40 years is not justice. At a minimum she took over 100 years from those 2 boys. I'd say 50 years to life in prison with no early release on the first 50.

  • @LaiaBertran
    @LaiaBertran Місяць тому +18

    I really hope she never comes out of jail

  • @Vietnamthwcountryhuman
    @Vietnamthwcountryhuman Місяць тому +266

    Two arrogant self absorbed people traveling on public roads as though no one else’s life had value except theirs.

    • @sbrooke210
      @sbrooke210 Місяць тому +7

      Yes

    • @mustangracer5124
      @mustangracer5124 Місяць тому

      No one's life has value in that sh!t hole

    • @stefanforrer2573
      @stefanforrer2573 Місяць тому +4

      eh, average american behaviour......

    • @jeanneganrude8549
      @jeanneganrude8549 Місяць тому +3

      @@stefanforrer2573No. psychopathic behavior. Not so normal.

    • @myronlarimer1943
      @myronlarimer1943 Місяць тому +6

      I live on a residential street with a 25 mph speed limit, with lots of kids in the neighborhood. It is not uncommon to see cars using our street as a short-cut traveling in excess of 50-60 mph. Too many people think of their cars as toys for high speed thrills.

  • @mustangthings
    @mustangthings Місяць тому +507

    The implication that none of the unpleasant consequences of her actions would have happened if her car hadn’t disabled itself after the wreck is just disgusting. What a POS.

    • @JPage-fj7mb
      @JPage-fj7mb Місяць тому +41

      Seems like she's actually saying (in front of everyone there) she would have driven off after hitting/killing children. And these are the people who get money and easy lives. I will never understand.

    • @giaparmer
      @giaparmer Місяць тому +20

      @@JPage-fj7mbit’s shocking it’s like she really admitted it without any care that that is both highly illegal and highly deplorable to flee the scene after murdering two people

    • @Seng_Eternal
      @Seng_Eternal Місяць тому +1

      God she should have bought a Toyota.... Jk jk jk

    • @erichughes284
      @erichughes284 Місяць тому +1

      It never would have happened if the boys stayed home

    • @bobbiecandler6273
      @bobbiecandler6273 Місяць тому +2

      @@erichughes284Do not blame the victims. This tragedy occurred on September 29, 2020 during the first year of Covid and people were mostly locked down in their homes and children were not going to school. They were sitting at computers all day long doing school on Zoom. The Iskander family went out for an evening of healthy, necessary exercise and being together. There were many other people out enjoying some fresh air in the same area that evening. The only person to blame for this tragedy is Rebecca Grossman.

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva 16 днів тому +10

    This beast makes me feel a special level of contempt and disgust.
    I’m so sorry for what this family has experienced.

  • @lyleanderson6284
    @lyleanderson6284 Місяць тому +10

    Most alarming is the lack of remorse. I hope that she rots in prison.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Місяць тому +407

    What a horrible tragedy. Those boys had their whole lives before them. I cannot imagine the sorrow & grief of the family. She & her lawyers are despicable.

    • @ehrgeiz0
      @ehrgeiz0 Місяць тому +34

      As much fun as it is to hate on lawyers, they do ensure that their clients get a fair trial so that there's no ground to declare a mistrial.

    • @christinelee4780
      @christinelee4780 Місяць тому +23

      That poor mother will never be able to forget that her boys were only a few feet behind her, and she couldn't save them

    • @johnmellor932
      @johnmellor932 Місяць тому +3

      A defence Lawyers job is to make sure the Prosecution does theirs. People can successfully appeal a conviction based on an ineffective defence. No one wants that.

    • @angelo16d28
      @angelo16d28 Місяць тому +3

      wealthy lady like that acting like a 20 yr old racing her car after a few drinks. pretty despicable

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior7442 Місяць тому +214

    How horrible to kill 2 kids, drive that fast in a residential area. She had no remorse & was cold, manipulative, aggressive, typical of a narcissist. Hope she gets a harsh sentence. Thanks Dr G😊💕💕

    • @EricK-tb2dn
      @EricK-tb2dn Місяць тому +5

      Mandatory life with possibility of parole after 15. At best she would be out in 2039 at 75. She probably won't get parole the first time due to the lack of remorse.
      She has a few aggravating factors: Age of victims, two victims, lack of remorse, expressed intent to hit and run. So it might be Life With chance at parole after 20-30.
      Mitigating factors : Rich, White and woman.

    • @zenawarrior7442
      @zenawarrior7442 Місяць тому +2

      @@EricK-tb2dn Thanks, all true. I would add another mitigating factor: Judge & her attorney

  • @violetpixie2
    @violetpixie2 Місяць тому +21

    Thank you so much for covering this one. That was my neighborhood at the time; the whole thing is just gut wrenching.

  • @wizzardofpaws2420
    @wizzardofpaws2420 18 днів тому +6

    I hope that poor family gets justice. I can not imagine losing my children.

  • @dianecripps204
    @dianecripps204 Місяць тому +255

    I was hit by someone drag racing and drinking. They were charged with vehicular assault. But only convicted of reckless driving, because my injuries were not considered severe enough to meet the element of the crime of causing long term disability. Because I got lucky, they were convicted of the lesser crime. Since I flew through the air and landed on the sidewalk, I logically should have been killed or paralyzed. A doctor who witnessed the accident came to see me in the hospital because he was so glad he had not witnessed a death, as he had expected. Thanks for letting me get that off my chest.

    • @mritzs5142
      @mritzs5142 Місяць тому +14

      That is horrible you got#%=/: over

    • @sonneversets3530
      @sonneversets3530 Місяць тому +10

      I survived my car split in 2 at the drivers seat.
      Been a believer in Jesus ever since.♥✝🙌
      Hope you are too.
      B/C this world’s going to Hell in a hand basket, real quick now.⌛
      *Jesus is everyone’s Only Hope.* ✝

    • @nicem8746
      @nicem8746 Місяць тому +6

      I hoe you are doing well and have healed. I hope you are stronger now, and understand the importance of live and joy, and the amazing feeling of it. Glad you’re here with us .💕

    • @Garbagefly
      @Garbagefly 29 днів тому +5

      The guy that hit u was prolly offered a plea deal involving lesser charges. Its about convictions not justice sadly. And so few ppl know how it really works. Not guilty ppl suffer and very guilty ppl get off lite

    • @stevencoleman1440
      @stevencoleman1440 26 днів тому +3

      Sorry that happened to you...But God was protecting that day!

  • @arielleswinkels982
    @arielleswinkels982 Місяць тому +153

    I can only think of those poor little boys and that shattered family. 🖤

  • @lordvadore1960
    @lordvadore1960 Місяць тому +10

    Excellent analysis, Dr. Grande. Your breakdown of the tragic event was excellent and noteworthy. Keep up the great work. Your sensible non dramatic discussion of the event is also very well dilevered.

  • @Ravishing_Rose
    @Ravishing_Rose 5 днів тому +4

    This video is making me tear up. I have a 5 year old little brother, I don't know what I'd do if I lost him in such a horrific and avoidable way. I hate reckless drivers!

  • @covidonenine1948
    @covidonenine1948 Місяць тому +163

    No sympathy for this woman. There is absolutely no excuse for this unacceptable standard of driving (especially from a 60 year old driver!)

  • @zachariahshort6546
    @zachariahshort6546 Місяць тому +390

    Her behavior was just plain gross, man.

  • @skreekarose3610
    @skreekarose3610 Місяць тому +7

    OMG, the sheer arrogance, entitlement, and lack of feeling this woman displays is beyond nauseating! My heart aches for those two precious boys and their family. May she rot in prison for the rest of her miserable life.

  • @M-yb1cc
    @M-yb1cc Місяць тому +9

    Is there a correlation between luxury car purchases and narcissistic traits?

  • @neogotham2k395
    @neogotham2k395 Місяць тому +454

    That lady's attitude is narcissistic, irresponsible, and very gross

    • @rustyshackleford7265
      @rustyshackleford7265 Місяць тому +14

      You could just say female and we can fill in the rest naturally

    • @hugod2000
      @hugod2000 Місяць тому +9

      I agree. What a terrible crime and awful, awful behaviour.

    • @kristinab.7499
      @kristinab.7499 Місяць тому +4

      Doesn't every criminal seem to be a narcissist?

    • @Retroscoop
      @Retroscoop Місяць тому

      Well, hence she's called Gross-man :)

    • @Retroscoop
      @Retroscoop Місяць тому +6

      Well, if your name is Grossman, the latter isn't that surprising....

  • @Gabe_Cross
    @Gabe_Cross Місяць тому +618

    "Grossman."
    What a fitting last name for Rebecca.

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Місяць тому +32

      In 2024 Grossperson🙄.

    • @wsidechris
      @wsidechris Місяць тому

      The plastic surgery is what makes her gross, man. As well as her entire soul and spirit.

    • @NickyBlue99
      @NickyBlue99 Місяць тому +11

      ​@@nhmooytis7058 Hey! Don't assume her gender!

    • @freethinkeralways
      @freethinkeralways Місяць тому +13

      That's not her maiden last name. It's her husband's last name whose family founded Grossman burn center and saving ppl's lives. Jay Leno was treated there. Of course, Rebecca was not saving lives. She just was married into this.

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Місяць тому +15

      @@NickyBlue99 I assumed her species too 😂

  • @DallasSniper
    @DallasSniper Місяць тому +4

    "Scott may have been a baseball player, but it was the defense who struck out. They threw a curveball by never bothering to call Scott as a witness. Evidently, the jury felt that the defense did not step up to the plate." Great usage of analogies.

  • @aegisofhonor
    @aegisofhonor 15 днів тому +4

    if a kid gets struck and the body is found TWO HUNDRED AND FIFTY FEET away from the point of impact, that car is going REALLY fast; no excuses, absolutely the worst kind of reckless driving I have ever heard of.

  • @SurnaturalM
    @SurnaturalM Місяць тому +290

    When I hear "socialite" it's exactly the kind of person I have in mind.

  • @Swampzoid
    @Swampzoid Місяць тому +115

    These very much grown people were just racing down a residential street for fun ? What ? They both need to sit in prison with the other common criminals for life. I can't imagine the horrific pain the poor parents went thru -still going thru.

  • @briansmaller7443
    @briansmaller7443 Місяць тому +6

    You don't throw a kid 250 feet away when you are going 6mph over the limit.

  • @sameetmehta2905
    @sameetmehta2905 Місяць тому +8

    These stories always bring to mind medieval justice

    • @Smedley1947
      @Smedley1947 13 годин тому

      You mean like where the drunken son of the nobleman can willfully murder people and suffer no consequences?

  • @randylochtefeld2806
    @randylochtefeld2806 Місяць тому +147

    To get 12 folks to agree on anything in just 5 hours of evidence consideration is powerful.

    • @rickjames5998
      @rickjames5998 Місяць тому +5

      but they dont determine the scentencing

    • @thegreencat9947
      @thegreencat9947 Місяць тому

      @@rickjames5998 that's up to otherx.

    • @andyl7547
      @andyl7547 Місяць тому

      Exactly. Juries are notoriously stupid but luckily they weren't confused like the Casey Anthony jurors.

    • @BeastCake1349
      @BeastCake1349 20 днів тому

      @@rickjames5998The news said the judge will determine sentencing

  • @wildmountainthyme4123
    @wildmountainthyme4123 Місяць тому +95

    I pray that this woman gets life without the possibility of parole.

    • @nlpnt
      @nlpnt Місяць тому

      34 years to life is the most she'll face. At her age it's a de facto life sentence anyway.

  • @RR_1138
    @RR_1138 Місяць тому +5

    She’s pretty hated in SoCal , it’s very tragic and local news followed the trial and her behavior. Condolences to the Iskander family

  • @AdamOMcMurphy
    @AdamOMcMurphy 8 днів тому +3

    I live in Westlake Village, so this is local news for me. This poor family waited far too long to see justice.

  • @EyeoftheBeholder1
    @EyeoftheBeholder1 Місяць тому +206

    They were fine jurors. She was high on val. and alcohol, drove like a maniac & took no responsibility for her actions that left a boy with insane pane until he passed away and his brother too. RIP young children. Let her socialize behind bars for many years.

    • @australien6611
      @australien6611 Місяць тому +1

      To be fair a BAC of .08 isnt "high" and still legal to drive

    • @TheXandemic
      @TheXandemic Місяць тому

      ​@@australien6611if your on any benzo (valium, Xanax, Ativan) it increases intoxication exponentially

    • @TheXandemic
      @TheXandemic Місяць тому +3

      You're* I never proof read for typos 😂

    • @maryanncarine2075
      @maryanncarine2075 Місяць тому +18

      And drag racing-at their ages ?

    • @leonpatterson8445
      @leonpatterson8445 Місяць тому +1

      Pain

  • @clqudy4750
    @clqudy4750 Місяць тому +309

    No accountability from this woman..imagine that. She effed around, took out 2 sweet boys, then plays victim. Typical for today's standards. I wish every vehicle had black boxes to record data like the Mercedes. I demand personal accountability! And she should live out her days in solitary with only pictures of those kids glued to the walls of her cell. Truly tragic loss of those kids. 😭😡

    • @chudleyflusher7132
      @chudleyflusher7132 Місяць тому

      “Today’s standards”???
      Don’t make me bring up atrocities of the past just to show you how lazy your comment is.
      Lazy thinkers of every generation have said the same thing.

    • @ronalda1000
      @ronalda1000 Місяць тому +26

      She chose to drink and race while having Valium in her system

    • @shafarnullifidian8127
      @shafarnullifidian8127 Місяць тому

      @@ronalda1000 She had Valium in her system and chose to race with alcohol in her system! It's likely her already disposed supremacist personality was further enhanced by the alcohol. The surname Grossman suggested that her (non)sense of "victimhood" is genetic!

    • @gregorylubbers8533
      @gregorylubbers8533 Місяць тому +10

      I think pretty much every vehicle DOES have black boxes to record data. You just don't hear about it because it's rarely reported on or accessed except for serious accidents. My 2003 (21 year old vehicle) Chevy pickup had it. I only found out after I was seriously injured in a head on collision and during the investigation by my lawyer he had to get my permission for the police to get the data off my black box, and it wasn't cheap either. Had to pay several hundred dollars to get the data. Maybe not as indepth data as they record nowadays, but it did show exactly how fast my vehicle was going at time of impact and leading up to it as well as braking data.

    • @clqudy4750
      @clqudy4750 Місяць тому +6

      @@gregorylubbers8533 An '03? Cool. Well, it should at least be made well known that every vehicle has one...maybe that would make people a bit more accountable.

  • @machruk
    @machruk Місяць тому +7

    "No recollection because he was traumatized." Dr. Grande is great at adding a little comic relief without disrespecting the horrendous nature of whatever case he's analyzing. R.I.P. Iskander brothers!

  • @dmattoon723
    @dmattoon723 Місяць тому +8

    An excellent, thorough analysis, Doc. Well done.

  • @ashsmee
    @ashsmee Місяць тому +190

    I’m surprised she didn’t use the “Affluenza” defence what a gross human.

    • @user-er3ri6sc3j
      @user-er3ri6sc3j Місяць тому +5

      Didn't they roll out the latest vaccine?

    • @goldshieldinthedark
      @goldshieldinthedark Місяць тому +4

      Younger offenders are usually the type that try to use that defense. About 25 years old or younger.

    • @monicadefreitas8776
      @monicadefreitas8776 9 днів тому

      @@user-er3ri6sc3jUnfortunately there’s no vaccine for stupidity.

  • @DigitalNeb
    @DigitalNeb Місяць тому +119

    I can't believe how irresponsible this woman is. I'm disgusted by her behavior.

  • @JacquelineB-vs9xx
    @JacquelineB-vs9xx Місяць тому +3

    These people think that they are above the law and are untouchable. It does take a special kind of person to kill 2 kids and have no remorse. Both should be held responsible and never be let out of prison. And thank you too Mercedes!

  • @user-rv5tw2nw7f
    @user-rv5tw2nw7f 21 день тому +5

    sentencing been moved to June 10. Will be watching this one. 40 years would be cathartic. This gal is the worst of us.

  • @h-j.k.8971
    @h-j.k.8971 Місяць тому +105

    How can this "boyfriend" just drive off and not be prosecuted

    • @scottlewisparsons9551
      @scottlewisparsons9551 Місяць тому +13

      This is in California?

    • @patben8739
      @patben8739 Місяць тому +8

      He is privileged.

    • @thereseember2800
      @thereseember2800 Місяць тому +14

      He should’ve been prosecuted as well for this, because their mutual actions resulted in the children’s deaths.

    • @thereseember2800
      @thereseember2800 Місяць тому +10

      He didn’t drive off. He waited for the police. He was charged w/ reckless driving & required to do Community Service.

  • @n8nkqrp595
    @n8nkqrp595 Місяць тому +306

    When my sister and I were in high school she witnessed a drunk maniac in a Mustang strike and slaughter a teenager on a dirt bike who was going around a bridge abutment on the side of the road. Drunk man in the Mustang's speed was over 100.
    My sister stopped and saw that the boy's abdomen was ripped wide apart, intestines strewn all over the curb where he lay- with part of his head missing.
    She had screaming nightmares for a year, was a witness at his trial, and at the end of the year enrolled in nursing school. She spent her whole adult life healing as a highly skilled critical care and surg nurse.
    She's now retired as am I, I a retired biomedical electronics engineer.
    Be well, Dr. Grande and thank you :)

    • @scottlewisparsons9551
      @scottlewisparsons9551 Місяць тому +33

      Well done to your sister. She must be a wonderful woman. All the best to both of you from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺

    • @hiddenhand6973
      @hiddenhand6973 Місяць тому +27

      God bless you both and even though I’m a stranger I’m very proud of her.

    • @david-dj8or
      @david-dj8or Місяць тому +10

      What was the outcome of the trial?

    • @bellyfulochelly4222
      @bellyfulochelly4222 Місяць тому +13

      Thank you for sharing. I think I needed to hear your story right now.

    • @n8nkqrp595
      @n8nkqrp595 Місяць тому +16

      @@david-dj8or I'll be seeing her in the next couple days and I'll ask her. I'd rather not blindside her with a question like that in a text or of the blue. Lol. Thank you for your comment :)
      I'll get back to you

  • @junesecrist6719
    @junesecrist6719 Місяць тому +5

    She is a monster. Tampering with witnesses is a crime. Im glad jury saw through this.

  • @jodiegalloway3614
    @jodiegalloway3614 Місяць тому +3

    My heart breaks for the family that lost 2 children 💔. May the boys rest in peace 🙏🕊️✨

  • @marijo1951
    @marijo1951 Місяць тому +76

    I think the fact that she admitted that, if she could, she would have been a hit and run driver indicates that she believes she's somehow above the law. Yet I bet if she'd read about a couple of teenagers behaving in the same idiotic and dangerous way, she would have joined in the general condemnation.

  • @KCohere33
    @KCohere33 Місяць тому +77

    Speed racing down a residential street. I have no words. Those poor little boys deserve justice for this recklessness.

  • @FSR431
    @FSR431 Місяць тому +7

    (Rebecca) ...was highly invested in run on sentences. This man's sense of humor is killer!

  • @agentsmith5184
    @agentsmith5184 18 днів тому +4

    The DA could very easily tack on charges of jury tampering as well as witness tampering. Those are both felonies that carry significant jail time by themselves.

  • @ernestholloway9436
    @ernestholloway9436 Місяць тому +69

    The fact is she didn't give a dam about who she killed. She needs to be locked up for the rest of her life. I hope the family goes after every penny she has. I pray for peace for family having to deal with this.

  • @andyjohnson6512
    @andyjohnson6512 Місяць тому +212

    The fact that it took 4 years for her to finally be found guilty is a joke.

    • @KaarinaKimdaly
      @KaarinaKimdaly Місяць тому +18

      Legal cases can be protracted and painfully slow for those seeking justice.
      That is a sad fact, imo.
      They require patience and persistence.
      I feel so badly for the family here
      that has to endure the trauma of loss of the two sons and brothers, and then the trauma of a prolonged wait for justice, which can be retraumatizing, especially in light of the devious perp who is remorseless.
      Worst of all is the loss of those two beautiful young boys' lives. They would be alive today, but for the folly of that selfish and stupid woman's reckless actions. . .

    • @sinceslicedbread7422
      @sinceslicedbread7422 Місяць тому +19

      It's called having money 💰

    • @rolypoky
      @rolypoky Місяць тому +5

      @@KaarinaKimdalyCan you quote any other case in the state that it took 4 years to come to conclusion for similar charges?

    • @ryanlight1013
      @ryanlight1013 Місяць тому

      That’s commiefornia for you

    • @thereseember2800
      @thereseember2800 Місяць тому +3

      It was over 3 years; not 4 years. But it’s still an unbearably long time.

  • @kidwave1
    @kidwave1 17 днів тому +3

    Actually WITNESSING 2 of your 3 sons dying in such a horrific way RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR VERY EYES is something that no mother should ever face. The pain is surely immeasurable!

  • @-yeme-
    @-yeme- Місяць тому +8

    personally I feel that in many situations like this people know exactly what they did, and aren't truly deceiving themselves, its more that they will do anything to escape the consequences both legal and social, and that means refusing to admit their fault to others.

  • @megalopolis2015
    @megalopolis2015 Місяць тому +125

    She lived up to her last name. She's atrocious. Both she and her absurd boyfriend could have wiped out an entire family, but thanks to the mom's quick actions, took out two kids instead. Rebecca needs to never see daylight, due to her refusal to take responsibility, and the boyfriend should have gotten at least five years for reckless driving and child endangerment. That family has to deal with the loss forever.

    • @evelynwaugh4053
      @evelynwaugh4053 Місяць тому +9

      Yes. Without his participation, there may not have been quite this level of recklessness. They were both playing a game with potentially deadly consequences. He got lucky, though.

    • @WillaHerrera
      @WillaHerrera Місяць тому

      California regularly charges the driver of the vehicle that is engaged in a street race with another vehicle that kills someone.

    • @mortishanocturnal71
      @mortishanocturnal71 Місяць тому +9

      Agreed about all of that. Especially that the bf should also do time. Just because he didnt hurt anyone doesnt mean he should be free from all charges. Awful😢

    • @HighlanderNorth1
      @HighlanderNorth1 Місяць тому +6

      Yeah and it disgusts me that he was only charged with a misdemeanor, and it was later dropped!

    • @megalopolis2015
      @megalopolis2015 Місяць тому +6

      @@HighlanderNorth1 Yeah. Infuriating.

  • @christ3187
    @christ3187 Місяць тому +138

    It always disturbs me to think of how many people like her are out there.

  • @jimlewis2395
    @jimlewis2395 Місяць тому +4

    Her lawyers will see to it that sentencing is delayed for many years. The whole system is totally corrupt

    • @Smedley1947
      @Smedley1947 13 годин тому +1

      That's one of the best perks about being a socialite;
      You have the money to delay things perhaps even dig up something on the family to blame them for having their kids in the crosswalk in your attempt to keep your worthless ass out of jail. Rich people are different from us and it's not just because they have more money. They actually believe that it makes them better people. Despite all appearances to the contrary.

  • @kathietreachler5662
    @kathietreachler5662 Місяць тому +5

    Beyond narcissistic. No conscience. No remorse for her criminal behavior. No sorrow for precious lives lost. Only thinking of herself. And asking people to lie. I hope her daughter learns from this and has compassion on others.

  • @lauriepearce
    @lauriepearce Місяць тому +56

    Those precious little boys, my heart breaks for their mom and their brother!!! Rip to them always!! May Rebecca get LIFE WITH NO EXCEPTIONS!!

    • @petermastenbroek7719
      @petermastenbroek7719 Місяць тому

      That would be the very least she should get, she is an absolute MONSTER !

  • @utubewillyman
    @utubewillyman Місяць тому +509

    There's something so California about this story: glamour, wealth, plastic surgery, Mercedes, infidelity, drugs, and complete disregard for fellow human beings.

    • @quinnrivera5075
      @quinnrivera5075 Місяць тому +38

      Yep. Grew up in San Fernando Valley. We were poor though. But you are absolutely right. Definitely an LA frame of mind

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Місяць тому +47

      You forgot victim complex lol
      At least someone like her can't keep her mouth shut and the more she talks the more she incriminates herself. She's literally adding years onto her sentence every time she speaks.

    • @ItsKrma00
      @ItsKrma00 Місяць тому +37

      I live within a few miles of where this tragedy took place. Everyone I know has been appalled by her and the way she's handled the horrific loss she alone caused. Maybe it sounds "Hollywood", I don't know, but please don't disparage Californian's as a group, it's untrue and unfair.

    • @asvegas777
      @asvegas777 Місяць тому +17

      @@ItsKrma00ahaha yeah I’ve literally nothing to do with any of those things and neither do most people I know… people just love to opine about California…

    • @calartian85
      @calartian85 Місяць тому +14

      And cars cars cars. That place is choked with cars. It made me nuts. Zeeerrrooo is how much I regret leaving Southern California.

  • @Ed70Nova427
    @Ed70Nova427 Місяць тому +2

    Really good summation.
    Thank You for the video.

  • @deborahfairbanks4012
    @deborahfairbanks4012 Місяць тому +3

    Well presented, Dr Grande.

  • @carolciliberti-noaafederal1780
    @carolciliberti-noaafederal1780 Місяць тому +50

    This happened close to where I live. I’m just sickened by this woman’s selfish, irresponsible behavior. I hope she does spend 40 years in prison, she deserves that and more!!

  • @patriciabrant8037
    @patriciabrant8037 Місяць тому +36

    When I was a kid I was crossing a cross walk with my grandmother. The next I knew my grandma grabbed me and pushed me backwards hard. As she did that a huge car came flying through the cross walk. She literally saved my life that day. Or I would have been one those poor children.

  • @LakeGirl334
    @LakeGirl334 Місяць тому +3

    I totally agree with you. Those poor children….

  • @davidmckayii752
    @davidmckayii752 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for video; very informative. Peace.

  • @Jeanne90275
    @Jeanne90275 Місяць тому +73

    She's 60, which almost makes it worse since most people gain some depth and insight with age. She seems to have lived her life in a bubble where negative consequences for irresponsible actions don't exist...at least not for her. It's uncommon for a person to live that long without experiencing loss or tragedy of some sort; perhaps her self-absorption is so complete, she just didn't notice or care enough to learn from the experience.

    • @danielcoganmanzanas3676
      @danielcoganmanzanas3676 Місяць тому +1

      She is 60, wow she looks 🔥

    • @Jeanne90275
      @Jeanne90275 Місяць тому +6

      The pic isn't current, but she obviously has an excellent plastic surgeon.

    • @crankfotton
      @crankfotton Місяць тому

      ​@@danielcoganmanzanas3676gross man. Lol. She has a neck made of play dough.

    • @calvinhobbes6118
      @calvinhobbes6118 Місяць тому

      She is your typical California socialite. Spoiled, entitled, unaccountable, unreasonable.

    • @lahr5576
      @lahr5576 Місяць тому +7

      I'm sure she raised her own kids to be entitled brats, too! Hopefully this is a wake up call for them

  • @candybrickwall9601
    @candybrickwall9601 Місяць тому +43

    This is horrible. This is so tragic. I feel like crying and I feel sick in my stomach

  • @tld1235
    @tld1235 18 днів тому +4

    You said she had taken valium with the alcohol. So even if she was not over the legal limit for alcohol she was for intoxicants.

  • @sparkplugpeggy4910
    @sparkplugpeggy4910 Місяць тому +3

    In my state you get 2 breathalyzer tests... One on site, one at the station. The higher one gets tossed

  • @limbeboy7
    @limbeboy7 Місяць тому +47

    Wow. Her defense does not understand how physics work.
    70 mph is about 100 ft every second...

  • @TheScapegoat420
    @TheScapegoat420 Місяць тому +33

    Crazy how life can change in the blink of an eye. Prayers to the boys and their family. This is horrific. She sounds like the most horrible person you have ever talked about. Possibly.

  • @anthoniusalphaproject1588
    @anthoniusalphaproject1588 Місяць тому +1

    Best analysis so far!

  • @ENIGMAXII2112
    @ENIGMAXII2112 Місяць тому +3

    Lived in a neighbourhood in the past, where people like her drove cars very much like she was driving.
    There where speed bumps, but yet they contiued to drive very much in the same manner as, well, her.
    Their pricey cars would "jump up"after racing over those road bumps.. And crash down with some sparks flashing about.
    Yet the foolish madness continued, strange...

  • @francislarv3012
    @francislarv3012 Місяць тому +45

    High class ? No class.

  • @Throatzillaaa
    @Throatzillaaa Місяць тому +43

    My heart breaks for the parents who lost their two of their babies, especially the mother who was there, feet away, when it happened. I can't imagine how horrifying that would be. And with having happened back in 2020, and here in 2024, Rebecca Grossman is just now being sentenced next month. That's so many years to not know if the victims will get some kind of justice. Sounds like Rebecca has drawn out this case with all the witness tampering, just further showing how little she cares about the emotional suffering of the parents and other children who lost their family that day.

    • @DeathsquadDemongods
      @DeathsquadDemongods Місяць тому +4

      now not sentenced till June. The judge seems to be handling her with kid gloves...

  • @calvincericola266
    @calvincericola266 Місяць тому

    Must say Dr. Grande that you did a great job. You appear to cover it all. Your assessment of what this woman's about is right on. Thx.

  • @bawasuzuki5966
    @bawasuzuki5966 Місяць тому +2

    Brilliant programme 💯👏

  • @HolyMoly432
    @HolyMoly432 Місяць тому +33

    A friend of mine was left permanently disabled, has lifelong almost unbearable and constant pain and suffering and was nearly killed when a person was test driving a high performance car for a magazine she worked for. My friend and her husband had gone for a drive in the beautiful winding roads of Napa County, CA near Lake Berryessa when this woman crossed over the double line and hit them head-on at high speed. At least this woman expressed great regret and apologized. If my friend had been a couple of inches taller, she would have had massive head injuries. I can’t imagine that mother’s heartache losing two sons almost in an instant. People are so crazy reckless and life is so fragile. I hope this woman stays in jail for the rest of her life.

  • @analytics8055
    @analytics8055 Місяць тому +4

    Skating and scootering across a huge street is never a good idea.

  • @Carene1610
    @Carene1610 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for covering this…. Everyone else has been quiet. What a shocking case. Unforgivable actually.

  • @Iamlearningtolove
    @Iamlearningtolove Місяць тому +26

    Out of all your videos, this one made me so sick to my stomach that I struggled to finish it. I can not imagine the pain and mental anguish they are going through. It hurts my heart so badly. Good bless this family and good bless us all. 💖🙏💖

  • @thatisabsolutelykooooge2211
    @thatisabsolutelykooooge2211 Місяць тому +19

    She even threatened the police with not providing medical care, if needed. God I wish there was a charge for that alone.

  • @AHersheyHere
    @AHersheyHere Місяць тому +3

    It's pathetic that it took nearly 3 years from the incident to her sentencing. She is 60 years old, this delay is notable for someone wealthy enough to be free on bail.

  • @1949ala
    @1949ala Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for doing this story.

  • @joanmcdonald3176
    @joanmcdonald3176 Місяць тому +67

    Geez, at the very least she should be charged with jury tampering. What an arrogant woman. And btw, valium will intensify the effects of alcohol so she was definitely driving under the influence.