i had so many people who hated that i was happy...i couldn't understand why me being in a good mood made them so very mad....but now i see it's because they wanted bad for me and not good....they wanted to destroy me and anything that made me happy- i lost a ton of weight and man i didn't know the horror that awaited me...so much hate pranks to get me fat again...cookies left at my door...i couldn't bel the behavior of people who were supposed to love God
My grandmother did everything she could to ruin my mother. She waited on her hand and foot all her life and NEVER got her approval even up until the day that woman DIED. I was raised by this Narcissist victim turned Narcissist on me. I attracted a few more over the course of my life. Just attracted another one. I could actually FEEL her dragging ME down to her level. Found life-saving videos and learned that this has been a pattern all through my life. Thankfull I have seen the light and patterns now. No contact.
I wasn't born that way.I learned this behavior from my step fathers growing up and perfected it,became worse than most.I can honestly say that it is nothing less than a miracle I can see where I was wrong,and will never treat another human being like this ever again.This channel is on point.What and where I have been and come back from,most wouldn't want to know.Like I said I was not born this way.If you are with or around any 1 like this.Believe me from the narcissist side of things,PLEASE LEAVE!It is the only thing that will work.If you pay attention to them,they will never quit because they quit before they met you and that is all they have going for them.Please do not leave me or expose me for the coward I am!That is literally how weak these assholes are (LOL used to be included).Never give them anything.Well I usually do not comment,but I thought this might help some 1 from a narcissistic point of view.I love you all and wish you the best.#JUSTFUKKINLEAVEALREADY!They need you,not the other way around.
I did tell a friend quote, unquote you want me to be miserable. she told me my life was perfect and she doesn't think that is true. I told her it is just regular. she wants me to tell her something horrible so she can feel good about herself. she knows very little about me because I figured out she is a backstabber a while ago. anything they know about you they will use it against you. so if you have a narcissist around never tell them anything but general things. they will get mad and insult you for not making them privy to everything going on in your life, they may even make up things that are going on in your life that you didn't know about. I just tell her off. just don't tell them anything they can use. each narcissist will have a certain area that they are competing with you against. just find out what it is. I just laugh when she tries to get information about my life. the only thing that keeps her from getting out of hand is I know stuff about her she doesn't want anybody to Know, especially her husband. narcissist change too, they will tell you things to your face the more years they know you, it evolves and gets bolder. I told her next time she rages at me I am hanging up. I am not putting up with that, I did not do anything to her to treat me so mean. she keeps telling me it's my fault she rages. I told her you are making excuses for yourself, I don't buy it. she's mad at me because I don't tell her my business. that is just to bad for her. I never will
I have learnt more from your videos in one day than I have in the past five years. They're excellent. Can you do one on how narcs sabotage their children and their health, education anything they can do to make them miserable just to punish the other parent
very true - but it has been hard for me to accept the truth - brainwashed to see "only the good in others". I have learned that it is vital to listen to our gut. Thanks for these videos, they are very helpful.
I really really hope and pray for you for me for all of us to get away. its draing to be forced to live like this when you really can do so much i hope we get away soon
Your videos are brilliant. Thank you. I wish I could donate, but don't have any money of my own. I can't escape my narc, yet. Please don't anyone say 'you can escape if you really want to' - it really can't be done because of circumstances, but I am working and planning my escape every day of my life. Thank you for keeping me going.
Roseyard - thank you so much, your kind thoughts are very much appreciated. I have been working non-stop on my escape plan, and if luck is with me, there may be developments in the New Year - plans are still very fragile though, so I hardly dare to hope ! I hope you and yours have a happy and peaceful Christmas.
My N mother tried so hard to undermine me at every turn. I couldn't understand it for years. Now I see it's all she has. I pity her, but I won't go back to being her supply.
I used to pity her until the last time I went back. now I almost pity myself, lol... but hey, I knew better!!. "never again" is the best gift a person that is a victim of this NPD circumstance can give themselves. get away frim them and you become a winner over everything !!/the only way !!
A smile is just an invite for the wicked a/o miserable...turn off your face in public, and you'll earn less attention..attention is the gateway drug to the predations of others...give nothing. give nothing. give nothing.....they need the ammo. This is why "real men don't smile", as an example. Emotions are just a weakness. Keep focused. focused. focused. They want your weakness. Give them nothing...give them nothing...give them nothing...people only care about who they can take advantage of. Give them nothing...thank you so much, as this is a gender-neutral site about mindgames. Less excuses for persecution...Give them nothing....less excuses. Humans are wrath. and two-faced. I will not pretend to be "happy" in public. That's just a Chump! Chumps get a pat on the head and a "master" if you so much as blink. Love no one. Hate no one. Trust no one. the more ignorant you are, the more they can hold your "stupidity" over your head...
Jayman 71 My God! I had to learn this the hard way. Ms. Smile, Ms. Congenial, Ms. Always willing to help.....caused me to be so abused. Thought that I had to be this way in order to be accepted by God. I didn't want to disappoint him...I really wanted to treat others as I wanted to be treated. He literally had to come into my mind and show me how to guard my heart. Mindblowing.
It's really too bad we have to resort to this kind of thing...the trickiest balance is guarding your heart, without killing it. But, I've paid for my openness too often...putting too many cards on the table. Keep working on your Game Face, and good luck!
Your joy is their sorrow and your sorrow is their joy.
When dealing with a narc they would rather you deal with their drama than spend time with family.
NO CONTACT !!!!!!!!!
i had so many people who hated that i was happy...i couldn't understand why me being in a good mood made them so very mad....but now i see it's because they wanted bad for me and not good....they wanted to destroy me and anything that made me happy- i lost a ton of weight and man i didn't know the horror that awaited me...so much hate pranks to get me fat again...cookies left at my door...i couldn't bel the behavior of people who were supposed to love God
My grandmother did everything she could to ruin my mother. She waited on her hand and foot all her life and NEVER got her approval even up until the day that woman DIED. I was raised by this Narcissist victim turned Narcissist on me. I attracted a few more over the course of my life. Just attracted another one. I could actually FEEL her dragging ME down to her level. Found life-saving videos and learned that this has been a pattern all through my life. Thankfull I have seen the light and patterns now. No contact.
I wasn't born that way.I learned this behavior from my step fathers growing up and perfected it,became worse than most.I can honestly say that it is nothing less than a miracle I can see where I was wrong,and will never treat another human being like this ever again.This channel is on point.What and where I have been and come back from,most wouldn't want to know.Like I said I was not born this way.If you are with or around any 1 like this.Believe me from the narcissist side of things,PLEASE LEAVE!It is the only thing that will work.If you pay attention to them,they will never quit because they quit before they met you and that is all they have going for them.Please do not leave me or expose me for the coward I am!That is literally how weak these assholes are (LOL used to be included).Never give them anything.Well I usually do not comment,but I thought this might help some 1 from a narcissistic point of view.I love you all and wish you the best.#JUSTFUKKINLEAVEALREADY!They need you,not the other way around.
11MBSS11 indeed
I did tell a friend quote, unquote you want me to be miserable. she told me my life was perfect and she doesn't think that is true. I told her it is just regular. she wants me to tell her something horrible so she can feel good about herself. she knows very little about me because I figured out she is a backstabber a while ago. anything they know about you they will use it against you. so if you have a narcissist around never tell them anything but general things. they will get mad and insult you for not making them privy to everything going on in your life, they may even make up things that are going on in your life that you didn't know about. I just tell her off. just don't tell them anything they can use. each narcissist will have a certain area that they are competing with you against. just find out what it is. I just laugh when she tries to get information about my life. the only thing that keeps her from getting out of hand is I know stuff about her she doesn't want anybody to Know, especially her husband. narcissist change too, they will tell you things to your face the more years they know you, it evolves and gets bolder. I told her next time she rages at me I am hanging up. I am not putting up with that, I did not do anything to her to treat me so mean. she keeps telling me it's my fault she rages. I told her you are making excuses for yourself, I don't buy it. she's mad at me because I don't tell her my business. that is just to bad for her. I never will
Absolutely true .
I have learnt more from your videos in one day than I have in the past five years. They're excellent. Can you do one on how narcs sabotage their children and their health, education anything they can do to make them miserable just to punish the other parent
very true - but it has been hard for me to accept the truth - brainwashed to see "only the good in others". I have learned that it is vital to listen to our gut. Thanks for these videos, they are very helpful.
This video is so true. Thank you so much !
I really really hope and pray for you for me for all of us to get away. its draing to be forced to live like this when you really can do so much i hope we get away soon
Your videos are brilliant. Thank you. I wish I could donate, but don't have any money of my own.
I can't escape my narc, yet. Please don't anyone say 'you can escape if you really want to' - it really can't be done because of circumstances, but I am working and planning my escape every day of my life.
Thank you for keeping me going.
Frugality from Weans Frugal World wish you all the best in your escape endeavour! i will keep you in my thoughts... love and peace ❤
Roseyard - thank you so much, your kind thoughts are very much appreciated. I have been working non-stop on my escape plan, and if luck is with me, there may be developments in the New Year - plans are still very fragile though, so I hardly dare to hope !
I hope you and yours have a happy and peaceful Christmas.
Frugality from Weans Frugal World all the best
Frugality from Weans Frugal World As long as you know what your dealing with. And you know that you MUST escape....best wishes😘
My N mother tried so hard to undermine me at every turn. I couldn't understand it for years. Now I see it's all she has. I pity her, but I won't go back to being her supply.
I used to pity her until the last time I went back. now I almost pity myself, lol... but hey, I knew better!!. "never again" is the best gift a person that is a victim of this NPD circumstance can give themselves. get away frim them and you become a winner over everything !!/the only way !!
we have the same mothers
call Dr. Phil these evil people must be stopped. Calling All talk show host.We have to stop them. Be careful they are
They have to keep hold of me. I wish out. Safe
A smile is just an invite for the wicked a/o miserable...turn off your face in public, and you'll earn less attention..attention is the gateway drug to the predations of others...give nothing. give nothing. give nothing.....they need the ammo. This is why "real men don't smile", as an example. Emotions are just a weakness. Keep focused. focused. focused. They want your weakness. Give them nothing...give them nothing...give them nothing...people only care about who they can take advantage of. Give them nothing...thank you so much, as this is a gender-neutral site about mindgames. Less excuses for persecution...Give them nothing....less excuses. Humans are wrath. and two-faced. I will not pretend to be "happy" in public. That's just a Chump! Chumps get a pat on the head and a "master" if you so much as blink. Love no one. Hate no one. Trust no one. the more ignorant you are, the more they can hold your "stupidity" over your head...
Jayman 71 My God! I had to learn this the hard way. Ms. Smile, Ms. Congenial, Ms. Always willing to help.....caused me to be so abused. Thought that I had to be this way in order to be accepted by God. I didn't want to disappoint him...I really wanted to treat others as I wanted to be treated. He literally had to come into my mind and show me how to guard my heart. Mindblowing.
It's really too bad we have to resort to this kind of thing...the trickiest balance is guarding your heart, without killing it. But, I've paid for my openness too often...putting too many cards on the table. Keep working on your Game Face, and good luck!
Thank you for your videos.
Brilliant
What can i do if i marry a narcicist?
Run and run fast as you can! I am divorcing one now....