3 Things GOD Does to a Narcissist
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
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00:00 introduction
01:32 1.He or she is provided with many chances
05:03 2.He takes away all their sources of supply
06:27 3.lets them live in a pure state of dissatisfaction & Dysphoria
10:22 The biggest punishment
11:59 The Question
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@yogaofhealth1800 The Most High God controls both Good and Evil.
The las two videos were so deeply personal. My heart feels every word
This sounds good and all, but the reality is at least for me my ex is married and moved in another state and still tries to hang out with my parents and turn the kid my kids away from me. He did succeed with one, but that relationship is rebuilding and I don’t know it’s all a mess and we are the ones that lose everything. The most precious things like family and friends because of the manipulation thur the years and they are so good. It takes years to build back up from that with healing and stuff.I don’t see the narc losing anything but your right that they don’t hVe love and that’s the worst but I do t have that either from a significant other. It’s difficult to date. The only love I have a self log now it seems like that’s probably gonna be the only love I have. Thanks to the smear campaign and trauma: we are too timid and scared to end up in that mess again!
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Thank you Sir. ❤
The best thing that can happen to a narcissist is to be left alone. They will be their own burden.
They self sabotage ! They are their own worst enemy!
I was raised by a narcissist that made my sisters and I cope with things my mother should have dealt with instead of us. We were all in constant chaos throughout our lives. After her death which we provided her burial about a year later - I saw her presence in my room trying to prank me now? When I looked up from my bed what I saw was very disturbing. My narc mom looked like "a demon" with her face was black and bulging eyes and sharp teeth which she tried to smile. It was a horrible sight. I said the "Our Father" so that she would not come back to bothered me. I asked God I cannot deal with such horror as my mother ever again. I thank Jesus Christ and she never came back.
I'm with a guy (12 yrs. now) that swept me off my feet only to knock me down. I was married once for 18 yrs. and he's NEVER been married at 58 yrs old. All his girlfriends are either drug addicts worthless people, according to him. 2 children 2 baby mommas pregnant at the same time! His son committed suicide at 17 ON Father's day! The daughter who is 23 right now wants nothing to do with him! And he wants to know why I won't marry him.
Avoidance must be subtle they must not know they are being shunned.
Yes I agree with avoidance being subtle let them always be dwelling on why things are happening the way they are, and not giving them the answer. I guess you could call it “ sweet suffering.”
They were not fighting us, they were fighting God himself.
Gates, Fauci, Schwab, Soros, Trudeau and unfortunately many, many more especially in positions of power.
Because they are 😈
That’s so true
Absoluetly, ya know God still keeps them here...trying to show him the GOOD, BEAUTIFUL that is right in front of him.... God lets it happen, they had chances, they turned their back on Our God,,, Pergatory is their demise.
I didn’t realize it till recently, but yes, my mother had set herself up to be like a god in our lives, and that was usurping God’s plans for us.
Being NO CONTACT with a narcissist is a BLESSING!!! There’s no better peace than to be in God’s presence & leaving them demons behind ‼️.
💯 true but being under a parental narcissist makes it so much more difficult to move away from them!! If you have done so then BRUH YOU COURAGEOUS!!
I'm no contact atm. But it's hard, because the person keeps trying to pull me back, by guilting me. No accountability, no asking if the other person( me) is even ok. I know it's all manipulation, but it still emotionally stresses me out. Even harder because it's a family member. Smh
@ClassicDiva33
How is this person trying to guilt you?
No contact means no contact. Get the police involved and one time in jail the no contact order will stick. They won't bother you after that!
@@daughteroftheking2200 it's a family member. No contact on my part, but they call and leave messages
You said a Mouthful! It's Blessed Peace! ❤
I told mine “For years I thought you were a victim of demonic possesion. Now I know you are the demon”
Yeah.. even I used to think so..
😂😂😂😂 Nailed it
It's like they have million of demons that speaks from within
Exactly. They are the representatives of Satan on Earth.
That's a really great way to put it!
I told him, "You are going to deal with God for everything you did to me."
I told him that God will punish him
I wish I would have told him in the past it was my relative moving to Florida
Good
I wish I could believe this. They just seem to thrive and don't care anyway while we withdraw from the world and are damaged😊
my narcissist exhusband had no interest in God or church. in fact told me once he didnt want to hear about my "stupid God stuff' so where did we go when he suggested marriage therapy? the church. so they could tell me HE is the man He is right and i just need to do as I am told. he even said he believed he had NO SIN -- so essentially saying HE is God? and the counselor said nothing to that. i left him and that church i am so much happier now
May God do justice and heal us all ❤
Perfectly said.
Amen 🙏 x
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen to that 🙏 ❤
Amen
My experience with a narsasist led me back to God ❤ praise God!
same here!
Yes me as well ❤❤❤ what better outcome could there be???? 🤓🤓🤓🤓
God can use ANYTHING for the good 🤍 praise Him. Thank you Jesus 🕊️
Same thing ❤
Me too
Please heal all victims from that abuse. It's a terrible thing to go through. I pray all those that Exspirenced this that they get restored.
In Jesus’ name. Amen.
In Jesus name, Amen. 🙏
In Jesus Name. Amen
In Jesus name. Amen
Thank you very much. 💕
There is no peace for the wicked.
none whatsoever
There is no peace for the abused either, no one wins
you once did a vid on how they sleep and my real thought is if you still have a conscience (which is the still small voice of God within trying to get your attention), you will try to squish it, suppress that, ignore it, be nervous, stay distracted, fill up your time, be busy, smoke, drink, whatever because the LAST thing you want is to listen to that Voice, the ego is so belligerent and arrogant - so finding it hard to sleep or stay asleep is a given. my roommate who is a narc right now is constantly blaring netflix while she sleeps, constant blaring. I think (my thought) is because she is troubled by her thoughts haunting her and she is doing all she can to ignore her Self, her Soul calling her to repentance, to wake up. this is why they can't stay still or lay down peacefully. thank you Danish! @@narcabusecoach
but if we include God (which is what this is all about anyway, right? this life is a spiritual experience for those who wake up to what this is all about and why we are here), and we start facing ourselves and putting God first we do begin to have peace and when we don't, we stop, back up and look where we got off track. we do not keep blaming, we do acknowledge however, this is important to face things but then, what is it telling us about ourselves? What is familiar here? the ONLY PERSON WE HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE IS OURSELVES and then we are FREED. God bless us. We are waking up. thank you Danish!@@paulinsky53
@@paulinsky53Exactly….! ‘Prevention is better than cure’
Thank you, Danish. One thing I learned was that God is working behind the scenes. We may not see it right away. He never sleeps, working in our favor. He is making my enemies a footstool under my feet. The trap the enemy set out for me, they will fall into it themselves. What was meant for my harm, God will use for my greater good, etc., etc.
Amen, only those who are truly spiritual will reap spiritual rewards. 🙏
Isaiah 54:17 No weapon formed against thee shall prosper…
I think the longer they go, the harder they fall or possibly doomed to hell. They are truly evil creatures.
Couldn't agree with you more.
I am not a Christian, but agree with all you've said. 🤗
You can’t help true narcissists. No need for revenge. Just leave them and avoid them as much as possible. They have their own karma.
Narcissists reap what they sow
No, a lot of them DON'T.
We ALL do. We just don't always get to witness it.
I'm still waiting
Oh I really hope so… they don’t deserve a nice life.
My ex narcissist spent years turning our daughter against me. God helped me divorce him and helped me and my daughter learn about narcissism and we both got away from him. As she learned more and more about narcissism she decided to completely cut him off. He still reaches out but she has gone no contact. One day I was reading the verse proverbs 26:27 “he who digs a pit will fall into it. “ And it hit me hard the reality of God’s word. If we dig a pit for others to try to sabotage them, we will fall into it ourselves. My ex spent years trying to destroy my relationship with my daughter- and he did cause of lot of damage. But in the end he ended up destroying his own relationship with her. She and I are now close and have healed soooo much❤.
That’s great happy for your recovery
❤❤❤wooow Iam so happy for you and your kid.🎉 God bless you❤
This helped me so much waiting for my turn with my kids and grandkids can't wait till there eyes are all opened to whom is the victim and villian
So true, a friend of mine could have prevented me from making a big financial mistake,but she stood behind and let it happen, one day in my own living room,she revealed what she knew , I said nothing,I pretended I did not understand, so she knew !!she wanted me in a pit, jealousy is as strong as the grave,,,many of my friends thought I had money,far from the truth,I did not complain about money to anyone..they could not help me anyway.Lately this has bothered me that she knew, would I let a friend fall in a pit.?I never have.i am asking God to help me to be forgiving,and to forget..
This gives me hope, going through this now. Much love x
I think the Narc ignores what God is doing in their lives. They keep God at arms length just like they do everyone else.
The very 1st argument we had was about God. I made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR, that I would choose God above ANYONE and ANYTHING, including him! THAT was the beginning of my discard and my abuse. The look in his eyes was something I'll never forget. They literally turned black! Why, oh why didn't I run like hell??? I'm more angry at myself than I ever will be at him. I subjected myself to that nightmare for 7 damn years. God showed me so many times, whom and what I was dealing with. I didn't realize how manipulated I had been until I was gone from the situation. I've been out of it for just over a year. I'm still healing, but I'm standing on my feet now and my heads raised a little higher. So grateful to have come across this video!! I've been pretty upset with God 😢😢😢. This helped so much.
Now this one is soooo true I agree
God would be wish the narcissist to open their mind to see the truth, God is love and the creator of all love including mankind whom he created for love. Love conquers all, God wants everyone to enjoy the reward of eternal life in heaven with him, we need to pray for and believe that with faith God will grant the grace for people to repent, and turn to him and change their lives, asking for the grace in the name of the saviour of the world the Lord Jesus Christ 🙏💖
They think they are bigger than god
Yes
I am dealing with this at work and my reputation has been ruined! Please pray God will win and I can work in peace and not egg shells …
Keep doing the right thing for yourself and your boss. People that cannot see through the narc's lies (flying monkeys) and spread lies about you for him and cannot see that you are not what he/she says, then you know who you can't trust at work. If this is too much to the point it is affecting your well-being, then it is time to switch your job location and separate yourself from that environment. I would suggest going to HR but what type of waves would that create for you later? I would seriously think about all avenues and what each one would bring you if you speak out or don't speak out about it. If you do speak out against them, the narcissist will double down and pull all of his/her tricks out of his bag against you, to the point of getting you fired or forced to quit. So, do you take the peaceful way out and save your employment record from being blemished, or take a chance on the boss handling this narc and his/her flying monkeys properly? It is literally you against them, and unfortunately, it won't bode well for you all around unless he replaces all of the employees who are stirring the pot together.
I would bow out gracefully and quietly. And be sure none of them know where you work next. Narcissists are very vindictive and will stop at nothing to ruin you in some way. Especially if you try to expose them, even more so at their work. This is why it is important how we confront them. Having a conflict with one is tough and you must be very strategic in handling it. It is a losing battle that no one should ever fight. By walking out of their life and out of their field of sight you are no longer a supply to them. It sucks you have to be the one that has to make the move but that is the only escape. If you stayed and the narc got fired or forced to quit that narc still knows where you work and will still cause you issues there. They do not stop. Out of sight out of mind is your best option for it to stop. They are grown-up bullies but they have to be handled differently unfortunately. Eventually, they will get caught playing their games and as Danish said they will collapse and it will be all your fault, don't you know? No it won't be your fault, but they will blame you or whoever for their downfall believe that. Be safe.
"When the wicked thrive like grass, and all evildoers flourish - it is that they may be destroyed forever." Psalms 92:8.
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Yes, amen.
AMEN
Its so refreshing to find someone that recognizes and isn't afraid to speak on the spiritual side of narcissism.
So true! Had the same thought. ❤ The highest truths are only to find within a spiritual context.
Yes, I've been looking for some spiritual answers for a couple of years.
The tea on npd telsha she goes in deep also.
Narcissists are NEVER happy. Their arrogance is a camoflage for their self-hatred, frustration, and unhappiness. Their lack of karma is their punishment. Karma would be mercy to them, because it might force them to confront what a mess they are and change. Many narcissists I've seen are demon possessed as well.
Well said!! 100% agree
I hear you but I do pray 🙏 for them night and day to change 🙏 and also leave them alone in God's hands ✋️ 🙏
Yes!!! I agree 💯
Exactly mine would always say I’m a badass. I told him does abandoning your child mean you are a bad ass? Definitely not! Like sir sit down and humble yourself yet they keep running amuck
I believe my mom is a narcissist but I can't give up on her. But it's hard tom communicate with her. I'm looking for a way to tell her she needs help but I know that conversation won't end well..if anyone has any advice please help
I say this to my enemies "The power behind me is more powerful than the power behind you 😊
That's a good one. 👍
I say to the evil, the one who stand behind me is stronger than you.
Its not my fight.
@@Anouk-lb5bl I always say that "The Power behind me is More powerful than the power behind you" my spiritual advisor told me that
@@susanfeldman-rm7ht i have seen your OP.
That is so true! Narcissists do seem to live very long lives. I think part of it is that they have no stress from worrying about others, or getting involved in the care of others. They take extremely good care of themselves, but no one else. Including their own children. I suppose a very stress-free life makes for a very long life.
Truth!
Exactly
Stress free!? Hardly, they are filled with a crippling anxiety and fear unable to do things very disorganized and predictable! Very boring people!
@@GreasyBaconManBut they don't care about anyone. They have no empathy or worry about anything. That can sustain their physical nody
I agree with this
Matthew 10:28
Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul,
but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.
Someone able to deal with cancer can we find? About poems i know too
The living word of God Amen! Praise Jesus! Narcissists are sometimes demons and sometimes give into flesh
I’m a Christian and I agree with what you’re saying. My ex-son-in-law, is THE perfect example of a narcissist! He has ruined my two granddaughters lives. The oldest has such trauma. The younger one is still trying to have a relationship with their father. She is always let down. He and his new wife makes several $$$,$$$.00 a year. Nothing is ever enough. He put in a $150,000 pool and pool house and won’t even pay for the older daughter’s college tuition. He has to be the center of attention and try’s to make people think that he’s the perfect father. I pray for his salvation. And healing for my daughter and granddaughters. Thank you for your videos. I try really hard not to have hate for him in my heart because, I know that hate isn’t pleasing to God either. God bless you!
This world is not our home. He has a small time with his “stuff”…eternity is more important 💜 Your daughter is the rich one, not him.
May your granddaughters heal and recover from all the trauma
@@InvertedEarth you’re right. Thank you.
@@narcabusecoach thank you so much.
Your grand daughter will achieve her desires. Universe will help her. She will be the role model for others.
My biological father took his own life. My mom died of cancer. My sister died of covid. I've seen it my entire life. I sit back, keep my mouth shut, and watch.
Happened to me too. I don't know anymore about.
Feeling like I was a gift to the Narcissist and used in some way by God to give him a chance to change his ways (he refused, of course) is helpful to me. I feel validated and as if I didn't lise ten years of my life being abused but rather given the opportunity to offer a better life to someone who unfortunetely did not choose to take it, is helpful to me. I can see how it would be that way when he stands before God and God says,"I sent you Melissa - what happened?" Lol. I appreciated this new insight.
“Everything is laid bare before the One to whom we must give account”
2 Timothy 3:16
2 Timothy 3:16-17
New International Version
16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17 so that the servant of God[a] may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
please do not change scripture
Hebrews 4:13
Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.
I like this thread.
Me too. This thread is in God's language, on a few levels. I do believe this thing we have all experienced is a spiritual condition, more than psychological. All of them act the same exact way and are slaves to the lie. "Do as thou wilt". There is no psychological cure or even treatment. Their delusion and denial keep's them blind to the fact they even have a problem. It keeps them as far from God as one could be. That sounds like pure hell to me and pure joy for Lucifer. Danish is right. They never know love. They never know peace. My faith is the only thing that's truly helped me. Once you see, you cannot unsee. "Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth." Psalm 46:10 @TheRealMACA
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They're in bondage to their own destructive nature. Those that destroy are destroyers, and destroyers destroy themselves, because destroy is what they do. How can they not? That is all they know, that is who and what they are, that is what they do. As you sow, so you will reap. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
100% agree - I always ask God to reveal to me what I need to know - and He does in uncanny ways
I asked God to reveal to me what I was suppose to do and he did in an amazing ways
I prayed for God to show me the right thing to do before I was supposed to move in with my boyfriend, I knew something wasn't right for years.. He made up so many stories... He blamed it all on a head injury which now I know didn't even happen... I didn't know what a narcissist was... He was so good at what he did... Master manipulator... After I prayed he discarded me... Wanted to remain friends.. I found out about the other woman he had had for months... I also know Now about other times he had to've been cheating.. Five years of my life was a made up story... It was
A shock to my system... I now understand so much more about narcissist.. I have researched and researched... I do believe they are possessed... Evil walks among us... The devil doesn't knock on your door and say i'm the devil... But I'm stronger. My faith is good. I am so sorry for anybody who has to go through This... It is not our fault...
Yes, one day I heard that "Evil always touch you by the things you most would like or wish" and is totally true.
Mark 11:24 is all you need to prove 2 cor 13:5. Amazing job dear daughter of light.
@@Ryan-gw3yv the narcissists in my Life are religious and absolutely self-entitled missionaries Who think that they are God-chosen ones.
God seems to help them even when they harm others.
I was married to one, barley got out alive with my small children!!!!! Please pray for me and daughter and son in there twentys, they have alot of similar traits, dont know how to help my children, selfish No compassion!! Thank You, Amen!!❤
My mother was one. I knew something was wrong but didn’t know what. I was blessed to see her accept Jesus and change. It took many years of praying and me starting to love her in spite of how she would act towards me. I realize this is probably rare but my family got to witness changes in her as well. Praise Jesus!
With GOD all things are possible. We can see this in Daniel 4 when the Lord brought king Nebuchadnezzar to his knees and he eventually repented (he was a good example of a narcissist). It did take years, but we can see from that story that it is possible. How much more so in the new covenant where the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ empowers sinners to become children of God... Prayer is powerful! I am glad your mom received Christ's salvation and changed. Please keep sharing your story, people need to hear about it. Blessings.
God is great❤
It shows that nothing is impossible for Jesus to do. Thanks for sharing.
A true, full fledged narcissist is possessed, and has a reprobate mind. Therefore, incapable of changing. Maybe she had lots of narcissistic traits but wasn't a true narcissist. I say this from experience of having a mother like this, but father is a true narcissist. I'm glad your mom changed, I'm hoping my mom will see the light soon
I'm so glad you said that. I was wondering if they could even be saved. I pray God saves my husband so he won't go to hell. He;s treated me horribly.
My narcissist mother died we just buried her this past Friday, September 29,2023. It was a traumatic time in my life for years dealing with her and my narcissistic brother. I had to make a hard decision to stay away from them and seek therapy to get the healing that I needed. The stories I could tell is enough to write a best seller book. I’m grateful for channels like yours who speaks on the spiritual side of this evilness to make others aware. I truly appreciate it!
Apparently, my nasty ass narcissistic ex birthday is 29th September 😵
.....I am sorry f I r ur loss😢..
Narcissist mothers truly are complex. I'm sure our books on them can win a Booker Prize.
Go ahead and write a book about your experiences! It will probably make you and others happy. I am thinking about writing a book also! GOD bless you always! 🙏🙏 I will pray for you to heal! 🙏🙏
@@melindagandaria5083 Thank you I appreciate that be encourage. God bless you 🥰
I have just divorced a narcasist. It has been tough even after wards. The world condemned me as everything turned in his favour. When my eyes were upon God I realized what the world perceived as God condemnation was in actually fact God's help for me. I can relate to this episode so much. Although he is still trying to cause drama in my life I know God is with me and protecting me. Because I can see him working in me. Jesus did say if I follow him I will be persucuted but he will give me strength to endure it.
How do your mean "what the world perceived as condemnation was actually in fact Gods help for me"?
Could you explain that a bit more for me?
Listen! Thank God you are away from him!!!!! The World belongs to the devil! Pray and believe that you will get thru all this! I’ve been going the unit for 6 years now too since MY divorce ! Think of our forefathers fighting for freedom for future generations . Our true freedom will be in Heaven as we await Jesus coming for us! Until then we wait with patience, hope and endurance
@@trojan403 I lost allot and the world seems to the think the more you have the more God favours you. God knows and knew what I needed And I was set free from alot of bondages. I could really work through my pain and grow spiritually. God tough me true dependence on him. Suffering build character. And it moulds you intou who God wants you to be.
I so hear you I really do. Been there , so gross. Took me years to heal from it. Still healing actually.
@@trojan403Genesis 50:20 comes to mind.
I was my x’s third wife. Over the years, he laid the full blame on his 2 x’s not taking any blame for his marriage failures. I became disabled during our marriage , and he didn’t want to deal with it. Now he has left me with no financial help - I’m still waiting to go thru mediation and to have my divorce finalized. I hope to have a decent judge who can see through his BS.
So sorry you are going through this. They sure do leave you at your most vulnerable/worst! 🤗
Bless you with abundant strength God never fails
So thrilled see all the comments online they are there to encourage us to keep pushing forward when some days We feel helpless…i told my friends what was happening in my life ..asked them to help me stay focused and not become the doormat again…We long for them to be the way they were..but it is a disease they cant recover from ..leaves us finally with no other options. .God Bless
I asked God one night this week in prayer ‘why do narcissists seem to get away with all they do to their own children , scapegoat child and others when we have been brain damaged for most of our lives and left with many weird trauma traits to heal? Then this video pops up… I can’t say I’m not pleased to hear this even though I don’t wish any harm to anyone including my abusers but I’m happy to know God does make them pay in his way. Thank you for this explanation it has made me feel much better for all I went through living with a narc mother and narc siblings…
They will reap what they sow. God can't force anything on anyone as we have free will, he will try to get them to heal but they often can't see the help. I truly believe they are oppressed by the demonic. Watch Marc the messenger and armor of God channel for some info on spiritual warfare. 🙏
@@quasimodo614 I follow Marc the messenger and I understand they have demons in them but that doesn’t necessarily make me forget or feel better for what narcissist do to people. …
@LisachildOTMH I know its hard. Thats when forgiveness needs to come in. I ask God often to help me in this area. I've heard also we must pray for them. 🙏
@@quasimodo614 agreed on the praying for them and yes I forgive but I don’t forget and that’s the hard bit especially as one of my abusers was my mother so it’s not as easy as just forgiving when you’ve gone through years of hell.. God is who saved me and I’m grateful for his love and protection. I’m still healing but thank you for your kind words. Namaste 🙏🏽
@LisachildOTMH my mother is narcissistic also. It's crazy finding out the damage done. I thank God I found out, once you work it out you start to heal. Peace and blessings to you 🙏
I tell my husband "Remember God. Is listening and the Universe knows what your doing"what ever goes around comes around.
They don't care..
Indeed. This is true. But when you genuinely give a gift to someone, and it is from your heart, and you don’t ask for it back, God does see that and acknowledge that too doesn’t He?
@@OrionOlamPiksie what kind of a gift are you talking about?
What does your husband reply with?
Karma or For every action there is an equal an opposite reaction. The Universe likes harmony and will get round to sorting it out. God's divine timing as well.
Sometimes me own ego thinks they won’t get karma or justice but I know God doesn’t allow wicked to rest.
So, my ex is a narcissist. She constantly put me through the emotional wringer as we were in our relationship, and guilt tripped me into marriage. She cheated (i don't know if she was ever faithful, or even capable of it now), and left me high and dry basically also choosing her friends over us. Our divorce was finalized in April, her son committed self deletion in May. While I loved him as my own, and i would never wish this on anyone... God does look after his own, and I would advise those who are hurt not to take revenge. Just be still. Peace will come. 🙏🙏🙏
I never worry about this. Repentance would need to happen. Where there is repentance, there is forgiveness. Where there is forgiveness, there is a new brother or sister. The battle belongs to God. We are to be wise as serpents and gentle as a dove. When we do that, God will work. Our job is to cast out fear.
Your job is also, to guard your “ heart with all diligence “. It’s in your Bible.
I am recovering from my Narcissistic x- husband of 41 years. I am seeing my children move away “emotionally” from him. He can’t figure out what is happening. I am sorry for the pain they are going through. It is hard for them to accept that he is like that. Hell, it is hard for me to accept that the person I loved with all my heart is a narcissist. I pray for strength for my adult children and for myself. Life is hard but narcissist makes it harder.
Oh my dear I too was 40 yrs and separated now 9 yrs and the sons have been $$ bought and I’m having a hard time finding a lawyer. But my faith remains steadfast and He sustains even when we must take days of rest .🙏❤️
Things will get better. Keep moving forward ❤
REally freaky experience when long after my dad has died in the nursing home where my mom needs constant care seeing there other patients there who are a lot like my dad was when often yelling and causing chaos wherever they go in the building in their wheel chair. Well at least my mom doesn't have to share a bed with any of them. While my mom is only always looking for the best in them too. Unless of course if one of them dared to insist it was their turn to share a bed with her and then that other darker human now 'wise' as a serpent side would be sure to come out of her. We all have a dark side. I sure hope I can cope with temptations like the temptation to get way too angry during only a minor misunderstanding after for example care givers helped to rearrange the furniture in the room when my eyesight and my short term memory is that poor.
I was married to a narcissist for 38 years. Omg! My adult children do not talk to him. I do not talk to him. We are trying to heal from the twisted mess and hatefulness he spewed. I loved him so much and now he turns my stomach. My poor kids having him as a parent. That is my biggest regret.
@@annbond5040 I put in 25, 5 children. Same, the children rarely talk to him. It's definitely a healing process for everyone. One thing I learned years before leaving him....I remember regret knocking at my door and chasing me down like a tormentor coming after me. I realized I had a choice to make at that moment....choose regret or accept my choices and move on. Tell regret to take a hike, he'll do nothing but torment you as long as you allow it. Just accept that this happened to you and your children, but now you are free to heal and begin to live, move forward, regret will ALWAYS take you backwards and keep you stuck from healing.
God bless and prayers for your family.
I have been abused. Thinking he was punishing and tarnishing my name. Things have turned aganst himself. Although am left homeless am free. Hoping to rebuild my life. He is left alone.I thank God for everthing and I know God will never leave me alone.
Except he did leave you.......
Praying that everything gets better for you and it will🎉
@@katrinadanielle9394 You're going to pray to God to feel better about the abuse? God didn't bother to stop the abuse to begin with. Should we really give him credit and praise if she feels some healing? And would this God only give that healing if you pray for it, as if he wouldn't already want that?
You are stronger than these people with their negative comments. Trust in God, keep your faith, God has never left you and never will. He is all we have, he is all there Is.
Your time will come to reap the rewards of your perseverance.
Most people have faith when everything in their life is going well, but that's not faith.
I'm in a very similar situation and the more people try to hurt me the stronger my faith in God gets.
I'm breaking the trauma bond and it's been tough. I was crying in my sleep the other night. Because I'm so used to crying every night by his emotional abuse.
❤ I'm so sorry
I do not pray to the Universe. I pray to the One who made it, Jesus Christ. I absolutely believe God is extending mercy by giving them so many chances to repent and then apologize to their victims and then live the rest of their life for God. It can happen because God can do anything. He can bring them to their knees. Any way He chooses to, because He is God. I am loving your videos because they unpack the craziness of a narcissist and validate all of us who have suffered at their hands. Only God can change their heart.
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Well said.
yep that is why they live long.... God knows they are ignorant stupid victims of child abuse... the collapse process they face is always an opportunity for them to turn to God. Some do turn to God when they are old, others die while insulting people
Thank you for that, because I’m very sick of hearing Thankyou UNIVERSE. IF WE ARE ASHAMED OF HIM BEFORE MAN, HE SAYS HE WILL BE ASHAMED OF US BEFORE THE FATHER. HIS NAME, is above all names. His Name is Jesus the Christ.
@@stephaniepiazzese2602 Amen Stephanie. I never want to bring shame to the precious name of Jesus the Christ! He is a faithful friend who sticks closer than a brother. Without Him I would be lost. God bless you and keep you!
You are so right and I am comforted by your words. When a narcissist consistently abuses the one who treats them with unconditional love despite their failings, eventually God steps in to bring about their downfall.
Love can be unconditional, but our presence in their lives shouldn't be. Righteous boundaries are godly and necessary, right boundaries are wisdom. We can't afford to live without wise boundaries. When people repeatedly step across those boundaries, we need to remove our presence from their lives as their behavior isn't acceptable. We're not to be punching bags, whether physically *_or_* verbally.
@@cacatr4495 Amen
I have witnessed this too.
I think that many narcissists in the later years of their lives end up nearly alone. That gives them plenty of opportunity to reflect on how they rejected love, kindness, and tenderness from many, many people in the course of their lives. Some may still reject the fact that it was their bad behavior that got them to their lonely situation. Some may break down and realize the destruction that they created. Either way, I am content knowing that I offered the few narcs that I have had in my life a chance to escape their hell. Then, I was able to walk away and cut them out of my life. I am okay with that.
It's always everyone else's fault and they are never accountable.
I found your channel a couple days ago and am so drawn to them because my husband was a huge narcissist - I was with him most of 45 years together - it was a tough marriage because I recently discovered I have ADHD and being with him was the worst thing for me - but I loved him - even tho I didn't like him - and so much that you describe abut a narcissist was so him - and this 1 hits more - the last 10 years of his life his health was failing - between his lungs and heart he slowly got worse - he didn't have friends - just work associates - his sister was always against me cuz she adored her brother and so I was always the bad guy - 1 day I had it out and we agreed to stay apart - we did associate at times but she held her tongue/temper and I could cope with her - in the last 2 months of his life he got drastically worse and he was starting to have dementia/alzheimers - he was put on a vent because of his COPD and then to a rehab- but while he was on the vent he said he died but was dropped back into his body and he changed - he was prejudiced of everything and that reversed - when he came back home2 wks before he passed he was totally different from the years we were together - he said he knew he had to change and apologize to me for all the abuse (verbal, physical,mental) that he did to me because if he wanted to go to heaven he needed to apologize to me - those 2 weeks were like heaven on earth - totally different than he was - so I believe that God made the karma of his health problems his suffering - I was the only 1 there for him - and his mom was always on my side as she knew how he was - and I think God wanted me to have some goodness with him before he passed - so I want to thank you for helping me see and realize the reason for all I went thru and helping me to cope and move on mentally
I had a narcissistic mom, and she was brutally terrible and abusive. She always thought that, No matter how bad I treat them, they will still love me no matter what I do. I went no contact for almost a year before she passed away. Now I can try and heal after a lifetime of abuse and torment. She always made me sad and feel terrible all the time. I'm just relieved she can't no longer torment me no more. Healing is going to take awhile for me. Crazy thing is, that I didn't shed one tear at her funeral, just glad it's over now. 🥴😮💨God help me 🙏
This whole experience, although horrific and it did honestly cause me to question, has actually brought me closer to God, and I am truly grateful for that. Thank you for this episode. 🙏
It is said that the fastest way to find your own Light is being close to a Narcisist! So, im a way they are key pieces to our enlightment!
@@deyanirazandbergen5023 I don't know, going through the trauma of being with a narcissist has made me more seriously question the existence of a God more than anything else ever has.
I've never had to rely on God's protectin intentionally so much on the day 2 day. I make it a point to pray for protection of my mental & emotional around him...
Me as well. It actually brought me closer in my quest to get closer to God. I am probably more at peace now with myself because I’ve gone on a journey of forgiving myself forgiving person, and then forgiving let it go. There’s more of a dispassionate way of dealing with it. I am very grateful actually believe it or not.
I’ve always been very passionate about my walk with Christ. However, I must say, this whole experience has amplified that passion. My light is that much brighter. My conversations with God are that much deeper and much more authentic. The fact that I was his God given gift that he actively chose to reject makes me feel less sorry for him for what’s to come, for my God said “ Touch not my anointed ones, do no harm to my prophets “… My only regret was not listening to God sooner. However, because He is a God who is full of Love, Grace and Mercy, I understand that all of it was meant for the Greater Good and that I have been forgiven by The Most High. Therefore, I regret nothing🙏🏽…
I Will Tell You!!! The Holy Spirit intervened for me!!! Pushed the Narassist out of my path! It had to be my Obedience for God to take charge of the situation of danger! Praise God I've been Delivered and Redeem!!! The chains of bondage have been broken!!!!
Praise God 🙏 this gives me hope ❤
I am praying this for my self!! I need to be obedient and not react!!
@HerBeautysInsideOut Yes Obedience Summission and Surrender totally to God and He will make your path clear and straight!! I pray! In Jesus Name Amen!!!
Please pray for my little daughter and i.
@@missmissy5170 I will! In The Precious Name Of Jesus!
Every word You spoke ,is spot on ! I dealt with aNarcissist for 6 years,and she died over a month ago,as far as I know she was alone. I went zero contact 3 years ago,and she was in bad temperment,and failing health,and a lot of it was her own doing. I could never satisfy her,and she accused me of many things. She never admitted her faults openly or privately. I married a wonderful lady who is a Blessing and we courted shortly after I broke up with the narcissist. I thank God every day for the breakup,and the woman I Love as my wife. Good things come to those who wait,and the narcissist was a blessing in disguise as she made me appreciate the Blessing God gave me after the Breakup. I have my friends,and my family and I are on the mend from the bad relationship.
Man ure making me cry😭I've been looking for therapy thru my insurance and they make it seem soo IMPOSSIBLE and here you are helping me heal my heart and making me understand all thr damage the narcissist of my ex husband did to me in 17years💔
Danish, you are empowering the victims. God Bless you
Bad advice empowers narcissists. All Religion is led by narcissists.
You are backwards with just as Danish is
I am married to a covert narcissist for 40yrs. Most painful he has done is brainwashed my children against me. Praying for his Karma.
Sadly that is my story too. What strategies do you use to deal with such horrendous evil used against you. ? My heart is breaking too.
@@Bonnie-fh8upDon’t feel sorry for them,cos they don’t care about u..only controlling u,it makes them feel big..they cherrypick who they are nice too just to build up adoration from others..but be a wife or a vulnerable person at home and u will be punished every miniute of the day..best advise is:they won’t change not for u or any chosen victim ..get out I know not easy,as they are abusers in disguise ..just go no matter I don’t have much.
I live in a big house with land etc..but I’m not willing to take this in exchange for their sick behaviour .I’ll have a lot less..but I’m going ..simply can’t take no more ..I will live alone it’s better then being with a narc.
me too
The same for. My daughters never bear with me though they ve understood the problem in a different way and fled away and helped them to go abroad. But I am still stuck😢
Same, parental alienation. I don’t know what to do.
I survived a narcissist...due to my abilities and my Faith. Thank God.
I decided to completely discard ex i was crying like a baby in pain i sent a voice message saying " i am sensing you are done with me to be in good books of your family and society you have replaced me for someone else whom your family chose will never find peace and happiness....i end this relationship and i am giving the closure.... trust me at that time i never knew the meaning of narcissist... and after watching your videos about god as well dark energy what ever i said was true God made me do all this... O God protect and help everyone from such dark energy person,🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am Indian. In our country karma is considered main thing . Happy to see world also believes in karma .
Karma is a word Christians sometimes use to mean God's just retribution being manifest is some evildoer's life. We don't think of karma as having any agency independent of the One True God, so I don't know if we believe the same as you.
I'm not Indian but I sure love the idea of karma however it comes about. Bring it on.
Me too based in Delhi. N trust me karma is for real.
@@PoojaGupta-zi7om I trust you my friend thank you.
We definitely do believe in Karma.
God exposes all dark things come to light. Thank you for this video
Amen to that God exposes my narcissist I knew she couldn’t handle it when she got exposed she took off and came back God is in my house and God rules my house so her and others the demons and demons trembling when God is here with us including her she has a rude awakening!❌🔥
Amen 😂
You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.
Thank you God. Thank you Universe for keeping me safe and removing him and his accomplices from my life. Amen.
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Much Appreciation for your Divine input. God Rescued Me after 30yrs & 5 kids. God audibly spoke to & said "I'm rescuing you from this; I have a better life for you". Halleleujah!
I totally believe in this and i am waiting for the narcissist in my life to get punished soon
Honey, don’t waste your time with the narcissist. Live your best life and forget about the narc! That’s the worst punishment anyways..
Don’t wait for him to get his just deserts you’re still focusing on THEM when you do that. Put him out of your mind and focus on yourself.
M watching them ,karma is hitting them but in a very slowly way...because narc parents going in their old age
Your best revenge is to be happy and move on. Narc's hate it when you're happy. They hate it even more when you give zero shits about them. Stay strong.
Karma arrives, in due Time.
I wrestled with God on this very issue this morning. Like Habakkuk I cried out to God, asking Him why evil people prosper while the good are expected to persevere, turn the other cheek and pretty much wait until they're in heaven to enjoy life. I'd like to have peace and joy here too.😢
You can have peace if you want... everything just take time.
Don't give up brother in Christ, the road is narrow and long. I know you will find the way, keep praying, keep seeking the Lord. I love you, God bless friend! 🙌✝️❤
IT'S ALL ABOUT GOD'S TIMING IN YOUR LIFE!!!!! I FEEL THE SAME BUT HAD TO UNDERSTAND THAT HE IS IN CONTROL AND I SERVE HIM AND NOT THE OTHER WAY... THIS IS A FAITH WALK... I ALSO PRAY THAT HIS WILL BE DONE... NOT MY WILL BUT HIM WILL!!!!!!!!!! THIS TOO SHALL PASS 😇
Keep doing what is righteous and you will be blessed "in this land" as scripture says. You will have blessings in this life, God promises so.
Exactly. I don’t wish these troubled people, the narcs in my life, harm or negative things for them. I want them to be well, to seek wellness, therapy for their own good, and for their quality of life. I want to be able to enjoy these loved ones again Instead of watching time disappear.
After ALL the videos I have watched about narcissists yours is the clearest and most simple to understand. I grew up with and maintained a relationship with a narcissistic mother from hell. Hospitalized 3 times for severe anxiety and depression. She gave me tongue lashings until I was in my late fifties until I said enough.I disappeared and went silent on her for 10 years. It was really the only thing I wanted. To have a close, loving relationship with her but now I see it was never meant to be. Your correct in saying she was all about images and all her big fancy houses and toys. In her golden years I had heard she lamented about her kids never coming to visit her. The last time I saw her she was in the later stages of Alzheimers and did so knowing she would not recognize me. She died April 2023. I lament and pain over a relationship that may have been. I do not miss her and never cried when she died.
In my opinion, God is in our rage. Our anger IS the voice of God. I believe it is lawful to pray for their destruction after everything they did to break us. When one of my narcissist abusers (a cousin) died suddenly, I had a dream about it the night before and an angelic presence told me that someone who tried to kill me would pay. All kind of syncs and omens led up to the funeral. All my psychopath family members - who are white collar criminals - were crying. I felt elated and peaceful. I felt God's Presence. I knew I was witnessing divine justice.
Maybe you should pray for their salvation instead of praying for their destruction.
I pray for my mother to be truly saved by Jesus and understand he will heal you
I like Devine Justice!
I saw my father, a malignant narcissist, on his deathbed, encounter Satan who was waiting for him. This was in the presence of a priest who also saw it. My father was terrified.
Satan always had control of him. Jesus said , I will never leave you or forsake you. It is us that shuts the door 🚪 to our heart. 😢 How sad.
What happened????
Yeah. More details please
They choose it, because they are not in their right minds. They are in league with the devil, in bondage to destruction. They are most pitiable, but pity does them no good, it's wasted. They have no respect for anyone or anything, not even Life. They are of the darkness.
@@DebraCollins-fq4jothat’s absolutely right
1 gives them a chance and time to change
3. Let's them live in dissatisfaction
2. Cuts off supply
Both parents and sibling . I left directly after school never to return . Relocated and broke off all contact, it allowed me to find God, counseling. Its been over 30 years and by Grace i cintinue to heal and find these amazing videos
In the past I was just watching your videos for more explanation about narcissists. But now I realize how important it is to have people like you to spread awareness. Thankyou Danish for giving us content about this❤
Narcissists get away with it to some point, until they can't anymore and everything comes crushing down! Karma from God. 🙏
Yupp I’m seeing karma play in people’s life so deeply right now it’s crazy
God always told me to honor my mother. She was terrible to me. At 67, I took a birthday cake to her nursing home, but she totally ignored me and just talked to the other residents. 2 1/2 hours later she talked to me. I had driven 2 1/4 hours for her birthday. I left upset and drove home. I opened up my Bible and God said, "Shake the dust off your shoes." I never went back, but I did order her things that she asked for. She died 3 months later. She fell in her room early in the morning and hit her head.
Wow .
It's funny almost sounds like a playback from my neices page of her mom
Don't blame you one iota, good for you.
I'm 67 now, can run 5k, do my own stuff, participate in my mother's care. Feel sorry for you that your own mother screwed you over. You have my every sympathy. I am gutted for you.
Honoring my mother was a difficult thing for me too. I felt a lot of guilt if I didn't do as she wanted. In mothers old age she lost her memory. She didn't know who I was. That solved the problem. I didn't see her again.
My mother tortured me as a child and when I tried to confront her about it later in life, she said I deserved it.
No, you did not deserve it.
Agreed darkness looms large in their life - and they can’t satisfy themselves, never happy, and they don’t understand love!
Danish, I was just crying out to the heavens 2 hours ago on why Im in so much pain and the person who abused me is just living his life while trying to destroy mine… your videos helps women like me who have been crippled by abuse and suffering ptsd. I hope someday I can reach the summit of this endless mountain I climb every single second of my life.
Same here.
Try doing the "How to forget” it helps immensely
I detached my heart long before I discarded him he never stopped lying and cheating he actually thought I would never get rid of him he's gone and he can never come back
You will get through this, as hard as it is. Perhaps the deepest message of this journey is that we cannot do it without God.
I'm so sorry for everything you've went through. I hope peace and healing find you
Hi from Germany. My sisters and I suffer from a narcissistic bad father and your channel is like a therapy. Thank you from Germany.
I was having same issues and i needed help😢💔
@jamlemo 💯 reliable, helped me
I suffer from a narcissistic father. What a nightmare. I have 8 years no contact. The best advice completely cut contact and run. Live a peaceful life
@@peace9107The best advice ❤
K n Rao says mrityunjay heals
My Mom in 89 and has no access to social media. She does not have a smart phone or a computer. She doesn’t know how to use them. She constantly asks me to sign her up and I refuse because every time I do she messes up the services and I am asked to fix it for her. I refuse. In the past her paranoia about how people were hacking into her accounts drove me crazy. So now I have the control by saying NO . I love it!!!
Everyone is a teacher & we all have our lessons to learn the narcissist is our teacher and a gift we need to learn about ourselves and helps us to become better and stronger
I had to laugh when I heard "No one wants to be with a cranky old bitchy person," 😂 you are absolutely 100% right. They are never thankful nor satisfied. Absolutely miserable people whose goal is to make others even more miserable than themselves.
This is soooo true.
Truth.......
Or they call you the “bitchy” one when you are finally so sick and tired that you react bitchy. Any human being put through that will eventually react!!
@@theneatlist407Yep. That’s what happened last week.
Truer words were never spoken so clearly.
I've been talking to God since covid. The main thing that hits home is "keep your eyes on your own work". Remember in school, and if your eyes wandered to your neighbor, and the teacher would catch you, that's what they said. You pay attention to your own work. God's been saying this over and over. I've learned to just do what he says, cuz it all works out in the end! 🙏♥️
@@Grace4me111 nah, the message has been clear to me "You focus on your money and I will handle your brother". I haven't had real money ever since covid started.
Be about your business
Amen! Im a prayer and god always listens to my prayers and he always delivers when I asked God to show me who he was and to show me everything he hid in the dark from me all kinds of stuff started coming up the dating sites the point of sides him soliciting women on Tik-Tok chatting with them interacting with them sending the money I've been with this man for fifteen years he has financially abused me I have lost my job so that he can better himself cuz he don't want to help me out with the kids as far as picking up and dropping off at school and he doesn't provide anything monetary bills daily Necessities everyday things that we need or groceries he makes tons of money any pockets all that money he saved his money I started doing a little side hustle little side job I got license to become a manicurist and that's what I do as a little part time job just to keep money coming in and putting it away but I still have to pay bills and everything else because he won't cooperate with anything
Amen
Yes, good analogy…. We cannot change others! We can only change ourselves and through Jesus Christ, God will transform & save us from our own sinfulness. The LORD in His Word, the Bible, has taught me to focus on my own sins, ask Him for help to recognize my own selfish ways, and to turn away from those things. God desires that we stay away from sinfulness, and replace those ways with God’s lovingkindness as well as obedience to His ways.
A narcissist will take advantage of our kindness and our forgiveness. The Bible teaches us to not go with people who are wicked, but we somehow allow ourselves to get tangled up with those bad people.
I think we are weak because we have come from growing up in families where we were not treated kindly, and therefore, we are used to putting up with demands & harshness. So… we are willing to overlook the selfishness & harshness from our loved ones…. But no matter how much we try to comply & please the narc, it’s never enough, & they’re demands never end. The narc has the characteristics of Satan, the devil. So, we must seek help!
Im crying listening to you Speak, that was my life for 12 years, almost died with Evil, thats what i called him, used my Love, wishthey talked about this 20 Uears ago, would have saved me lots of pain and suffering!! Thank you, keep this message going lots out there destrying good peole!! XXOO Amen❤🙏✌️🔥
I just discovered your videos on here and this one actually brought me to tears. Because I am almost 3 months out from the worst heartache I've ever felt due to being in a relationship with someone who has been just an acquaintance most of my life, our paths crossed and we started a 6 month relationship. relationship. In spite of my hurt I often pray for God to have mercy on his soul when he dies.
Right you are Danish. You have studied the evil mind of a narcissist perfectly. They are exposed in the end. The God of this universe is slow to anger, gives everyone plenty of time and space to change. God Is Love. ❤
Narcissists reap what they sow.
Seeing this happening to my narc husband. He walked out on me and sons after 32 years. It’s been 5 years now. He lives a loners life. No family, no relatives and no one to call his own. But still showing his arrogance. Nobody cares anymore. That’s his karma.
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Give them pain, addiction, and loneliness. They may get another supply but that supply will only take so much from them before they crack. I am alone I am single and am healing and learning to love myself and the world around me again. Praise God
Susan me too done all the things you said to me evil is too good a word to call them they should be sent down to the pit of hell no human been should have to endure their demonic ways. I ask God to give me the grace to forgive and forget Amen.
Yes. I'm on the healing process. No contact at all
I saw God allow my ex-husband to get so weak in his body that he told me he had to ask God to help him make it through the day!!! I looked at him and thought, my, how the mighty has fallen!
My brother was treated miserably as child by our father and mother because they were severely lacking in Biblical knowledge concerning how to love and raise there children properly. In the book of Ephesians, God warns; "fathers, provoke not thy children onto wrath". Also, we were not raised up in the nurturing of the Lord. In our home, The Bible was left on the shelf rather than studied and lived out DAILY! No wonder our parents divorced early and we two boys were raised by an angry working mother. Our father not only did not teach us morality but worse yet he failed to show us how to make a living. Is this not a recipe for disaster? We both turned to alcohol and drug abuse. Is this not a breeding ground for narcissistic behavior? Once Satan gets a foot in the door he can take over rather quickly. Great video.
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR FUTURE:
LOOK FOR JESUSCHRIST AND HIS SAVING GRACE.
READ THE BIBLE
PRAY FOR STRENGTH TO APPLY THE ADVISE.
DO IT!!
NOW IT'S THE TIME.
I wish I would have done what I'm telling you to do.
Do not waste a minute and never never leave the counsel of God.
The peace of God is everything 🙌
Amen
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❤❤❤ amen!!!
I am a spiritual person and I believe when people are rooting for you to fail or speaking badly behind your back (starting rumors, telling lies, trying to get others to turn against you etc.), he'll bless you in their face. You'll always know who it is because when good things happen for you, they'll be fake happy for you. They'll try to hide the fact that it upsets them (not very successfully, though) or when you tell them about other people's good news, they'll be happier for them than they were for you. I guess we should thank them, for that reason alone, for being who they are.
They remain earthbound entities because they turn their back to the light.
What goes around, comes around, and what goes up must come down. They do not plan well, even though we wish them well.
And it is impossible for them not to eventually reap what they sow. They are essentially not spiritual people, or they would not keep doing these things.
And they miss the opportunity to grow enough spiritually to meet their own needs.
@@lizh1988 You explained this phenomena well. Saying , "They are not Spiritual people or they would not keep doing these things." To me, that is it in a nutshell. !
I have been treated this way very severely.
@@shelbyartist9152 It happens just to show us the people we don't need to be around
I pray that GOD will have mercy on their souls. Everyone needs to have mercy shown to them
they have no souls
No, not everyone! Not because I hate them - hate is bad for the person hating - but because God is justice!!! And we will all be held accountable for our actions and deeds, and not the least for our intentions
Wow, this was good! I had just prayed and asked God for a message from him regarding the narcissist in my life, I put my phone on, and this video was right before my eyes! Wow!
THANK YOU!
Danish I want to say "I'm sorry" for what happened to you when it came to your father. I listened, I heard you, and I understood.
Similar happened to most of us visiting this channel. It is good he is able to help us. This is abuse one can't only study in books to understand.
Truth.
You have to actually suffer through it to actually understand the pain. No one believes what you suffer unless they did as well.
Yep it like being a member of a secret club..only involuntarily.
I am more than a gift
@@nmc1859It causes you to get a deeper understanding and THEN you realize that you have to truly let everything go. You can't hold on to anything and those that seek to gain will lose. Let everything go that you can't control and then you have to figure what you can control because our lives are FATED. Our lives are predestined. I am being blessed with spirituality right now. Be Blessed EVERYONE.
God brought me here, I’m 100 percent certain because I was looking for guidance about a narcissist abusing me and I needed a Christian professional to help me. I found your video so quickly with God’s help. Thank you so much, I needed to hear your words, I’m so greatful for your channel, I’m going to listen to many of your videos to help me heal and to know what I must do 🙏❤️🌟💯
God also helped me too to find danis's videos....thank you god for showing me the path.
@@gourabmallick8796 I pray we both find the healing we need 🙏❤️
"the first shall be last annd the last shall be first" is a verse that just came to my mind 💖
I am not convinced this gentleman is a Christian.
I concur@@grlnexdoorable
I am so glad to have found you. I left a narcissist 44 years ago. To this day I feel the affects of him because our daughter who is now 50 years old suffers from her father’s antics. She tries to disassociate from him. He makes her feel guilty, and he prey on her emotions. When she suffers I suffer too. He lives in another country but still communicates with her. It will never end. It is extremely stressful.
I continue to pray for GAP. It's been the worst experience of my life. While I'm very grateful he is now with his new source, I fear for ED.
My gut spoke to me, when I crossed paths with GAP. "Here he is, he needs you".
I strived for several years, not turning my back. Standing beside him through his drug addictions and NPT.
GAP Remains in prayers for healing and sobriety.
So very blessed to have my support network and remain focused on my future, rebuilding and my faith.
God is good and peace is a privilege. 🙏 ❤ 💪
And boy does exposure tick them off!
Truth. Karma is not just about you or somebody else's so-called judgment. It's about recompense, restoration, healing, compensation, divine retribution and reward. There are levels to Karma just like there are levels to when it comes to Judgment--but the most important things are to learn, understand, and grow. A lot of times we get stuck in our own growth process.
If we include God or having a spiritual life (like learning to meditate!) we eventually come to this understanding in order to be able to let go and to learn whatever it is in this or any situation that has brought it to us. we are in the process of purifying ourselves on our way back to God and everything comes back to us (thoughts, words, actions) so it is better to "let go and to let God" and then try to learn what WE did to attract it and repent (in other words to learn the lesson in it and to humble our ego) giving it to God. I agree with you. God bless, we are waking up...................
What's sad is when a narcissist labels you as one to justify their evilness.
Thank you for talking about this topic, because all the suffering we endure because of the narcissism of somebody in our lives, leads us very often to think about so many spiritual questions in the middle of our worst days with them. It's a very difficult topic, because we have absolutely to address the lack of self awareness narcissists have. We can observe how much they are incapable of understanding their behavior, the awful consequences of their actions, there's too much they can't feel, see, be aware of. They can't even see how awful their own life is, full of lies, envy, tantrums, poison, void, darkness, mud. I sincerely can't believe in their free will, which is possible only with self awareness, not with total ignorance. I don't think they have great choices in life but to behave like jerks all the time. There's a deep mistery about them. I tend to believe that they have almost no free will, because they are in prison all the time, locked inside their narcissism. They can't even see or feel the pure love their children give to them. This is the Darkest Darkness I can think of. Not to see love, not to feel love, not to believe in love. And they are so, so many, all over the world, it's an epidemic! Narcissism doesn't arise from nothingness, arises from bad childhoods, abusive childhoods or the exact opposite, eccess of parental adoration for their child. It's important to address this great problem also on a social and political level. Too much suffering!
God hates ugly. It took me a while to realize that I was dealing with a narcissist he was so proud and delusional especially when he started making money he even abandoned me and his son but now he is all alone and lost all the money and the cars he was bragging about! This video is so so real. Thanks for sharing
yes the highest the Fall, the hardest is their pain and crash. being a narcissist is already the worst punishment for a person because deep inside he hates himself and torture himself every second of his pathetic parasitic life
You mean herself
Brother, you are divinely inspired, because in this message, you have spoken to me as it you knew me. You have given me a confirmation that God is going to do justice. God bless you richly. 🙏
Same here❤🎉
You are so on point! True revelation, I live with this person and I pray for my husband in spite of himself because I know that God's love is greater and it is why we are all here and we are learning to love as God has and do love us.❤❤
My narcissistic father at age 60 had a stroke after he got an early retirement & went back to smoking 3-4 packs of cigarettes a day & drinking beer & whiskey after 10 years of not drinking & smoking!! He lived another 24 years & was still so honoury & obnoxious & lashing out in anger!!
They are miserable souls
narcs have lots of chances to change but they never do.
@@miriam100ful mine is 88 years old and I've had to deal with him for 45 years. Even after being incarcerated for a year he still came out even meaner. I have since separated myself from him and the rest of the family this past year because I need to heal.
wow, that is truly harsh. he must have felt terrible. not siding with him but I am healthy and I don't do any of that so I can only imagine the horrible way he felt. physically. and mentally and emotionally this all makes it worse. sorry for your pain though. God bless you.
I swear they live so long because God and Satan are fighting over who’s going to take them.
Thank you, Danish. My mother used me relentlessly all her life. I was just a tool to her. I just went no contact over a week ago. My brother already committed suicide. So I guess she's going to be alone with her cowardice, knowing that she's going to die alone. Unless my dad dies first. She already told me once that if my dad dies before her, she will commit suicide because she can't stand to be alone. I don't feel righteous saying this, though. I am still so hurt that it had to happen this way. Going to see a therapist today.
Sorry about your brother. Narcissists make people take their own lives which for me is the most unforgiving sin. May he rest in peace wishing you healing and peace. God bless ❤
I’m so sorry to hear about your brother. Your mother sounds very similar to mine. Difference is my brother passed when he was 27(was just us 2 kids). My dad passed 5 years ago and my mother lied her way into another man’s life within the year-after 55 years of marriage all she did was talk smack about my father before he was even in the ground! I went “no contact” after that. It broke my heart to listen to her lies. And once dad was gone, there was nobody else for her to mistreat and use, so i was bearing the brunt of all of her abuse. The last straw was here telling lies to my 3 sons and them choosing to believe. So now my sons don’t speak to me or include me in their lives. Sad to say, it will be a blessing for you if she kills herself. Just saying. Wish mine had before she ruined my entire life.
@@DJ-nh6wq I am so sorry. The pain that these people do is unfathomable for sure
Stay strong, warrior! Let time heal all wounds. Before you know it, you'll have forgotten all the rottenness and betrayal. Forgive your enemies and yourself. If you can, avoid looking at or watching your enemies' downfall. Hand over all the weight you carry to God and trust Him to bring you through. Keep your love, joy and peace at all costs.
@@LyrielonwindMy mother told me that if I self-deleted, it would be only to spite her and my father.
Then my father said it one time... That hurt. He usually parrots when she says, because he doesn't think for himself at times, and I thought he love dme, but now I'm realziing that It all seemed to be a lie.
The fake "love" is just disgusting.
Sadly, I'm not sure if it's fake, or if it's real and he just is damaged and doesn't know what he's doing.
It's too painful.
The best part about leaving a narcissist is leaving a narcissist!!! It's possible friends ❤❤