The Narcissist Lashes out when they Lose Control

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  • @nickyaerobones
    @nickyaerobones 7 років тому +61

    8 narcs 👎this vid because we're getting wise to their crap ! Get used to it suckers.

    • @trulyfreeme
      @trulyfreeme  7 років тому +23

      Yes we are getting wise to their crap, and they throw a tantrum. Actually, it is one narcissist, most definitely in my ex family using fake accounts. You can tell because the fake dislikes all come at exactly the same time

  • @sharesomethingbeautiful6992
    @sharesomethingbeautiful6992 7 років тому +75

    We are hunted down like runaway slaves, yet we need to keep focused on our goals and self-healing. We need to do the work. They are bound to hoover forever but we should not allow ourselves to be sucked in. The longer we stay away from them the closer we get back to ourselves and then there is the moment of life when we achieve our purpose through God-connection. We really get that inner child back no matter how vicious the narcissist becomes.

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 7 років тому +56

    I can be nothing that I am not. They don't own me. I am going No contact. They do not even own themselves.

  • @MatronaAktypisMoraitis
    @MatronaAktypisMoraitis 7 років тому +55

    its all about control and abuse

  • @cyn555cc
    @cyn555cc 7 років тому +26

    Being happy is such an awesome feeling, I am lmfao at this lonely, ugly and collapsed narcissist! I didn't deserve all those years of abuse, hoping the fool would change! AMF💃

  • @ozzyoz5210
    @ozzyoz5210 7 років тому +51

    They're evil minions. .I like listening to your wisdom on this subject. .keep up the good work

    • @cindyfarmer1619
      @cindyfarmer1619 7 років тому +4

      +Craig List Happy you have to strength and wisdom to overcome. I did too against all odds being victim to most of my family and son, I was the scapegoat but all the evil they done to me made me stronger and feel so sad for all they lost an entire life.

    • @cecilb8205
      @cecilb8205 7 років тому +5

      Hang in there. Its hard, but if you avoid contact, and work on healing, you can get over them. Your best revenge is living a happy life without them!

  • @victorialsaint9046
    @victorialsaint9046 7 років тому +59

    control freak and master of manipulator. and seem to be they know nothing about their own behavior.

    • @ozzyoz5210
      @ozzyoz5210 7 років тому +7

      Victoria Lsaint
      true

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 7 років тому +37

    These vids are giving me strength. Thanks

  • @cindyfarmer1619
    @cindyfarmer1619 7 років тому +26

    That's the Truth, these people self indulge in pity.

    • @ilovemexoxo5720
      @ilovemexoxo5720 7 років тому +3

      Cindy Farmer 😣😣😣 omg they are HuGE....COMPLAINERS!!!! Its he'll living with one get away!! Be free and happy we deserve it!!!!!!😗😗😘😘😘😘😘😍

  • @rebeccab.463
    @rebeccab.463 7 років тому +22

    My grandfather did this to me on two occasions; when I got my own apartment at the age of 18, he sabotaged the whole thing, and literally physically drug me out. The second time was when I was in my early 20's and met a young man whom I was attracted to. I took the bus to visit him a few hours away. My grandfather drove there and drug me out, shouting at me, calling me a whore, all the way home to my mother's house. She was in the car along with my grandmother and they never said a word, only stopped for lunch where we all pretended like nothing had happened, as I sat weeping at the table. Thank you for this video. I haven't remembered these things for a long time. Now, I can return to them, and understand more deeply what I was inside of and heal this terrible memory.

    • @Lisa-tc1ry
      @Lisa-tc1ry 7 років тому +8

      Ninja of Eris I hate the "pretending like nothing happened" act. When tbey do that it feels like we just entered The Twilight Zone. I can relate. and it happened to me all the time. And it's even more hurtful when the narcissist is abusing you and the other family members just act like nothing is happening and never come to your defense. I get that their afraid too or they may be narcissists as well but it still hurts and THEY SUCK! hugs to you.

    • @rebeccab.463
      @rebeccab.463 7 років тому +4

      L. Thank You for the affirmation and hugs back to you!

  • @trezgriff4220
    @trezgriff4220 7 років тому +31

    Thats true about them just needing any little excuse to lash out, my narc looks for anything to start a fight, even after he's battered me he starts again because he's angry that im crying and thinks I shouldn't be pathetic I should get over it and God help me if a sob suddenly comes out, no matter that I did try explaining its impossible to control sobs, but that just made things worse, I shouldn't hate anyone cause its very nasty bad, but I carnt help hateing him. I am working out a way to be free from him. Good luck to everyone going through narc abuse

    • @CelticAngel555
      @CelticAngel555 7 років тому +4

      Get some secret outside help if you need it sweetie. There are shelters that help women in most cities in the world. They will help you escape. You need some support by the sounds of it. No one deserves to be battered by anyone else....ever. You need to escape and live again!!! Please get help. ^j^

    • @gigismith3317
      @gigismith3317 7 років тому +4

      Trez Griff you don't need to explain to anybody, just say he is a narcissist & is abusive. Most people are aware of these types & will help you escape to find your uninterrupted peace. ☹️ good luck

  • @evettepike9560
    @evettepike9560 7 років тому +11

    8 years of being with a narc I'm free now one thing he's taught me....is I will sus out a narc the first 5 mins of meeting one!!! My life was turned completely upside down if only I watched these videos 8 years ago

  • @misha2197
    @misha2197 6 років тому +10

    You are seriously a life saver my dear sweet friend, I don't how I could function without you, thank you for your life saving videos, I'm forever greatful, I hope your life now is as sweet as you are. :) ♡♡♡

  • @tammyholden6943
    @tammyholden6943 7 років тому +7

    Omg, this is so true! I've experienced this on numerous accounts!

  • @karenzilverberg4699
    @karenzilverberg4699 7 років тому +11

    Thank you. This is 100% accurate!

  • @Hannah-zm9vc
    @Hannah-zm9vc 7 років тому +19

    Great videos. I appreciate you very much.

  • @megsup3332
    @megsup3332 6 років тому +7

    So true. Narcs will constantly and deliberately starved me of food and all they things I enjoyed doing. I have made up my mind not to supply narc again.

  • @mariamakinen2651
    @mariamakinen2651 7 років тому +12

    Yes. I wish out. They don't own me

  • @cubbiesmith4505
    @cubbiesmith4505 6 років тому +7

    yes this is how he treated me, yes I will not go back ten years married misery every thing u say is true when I didn't know what he truly was a NARC. I was very unhappy. he's 62 act like he 6 yrs old. I like all your videos. Thank you for sharing.

  • @cindyfarmer1619
    @cindyfarmer1619 7 років тому +12

    Your vids are so precise and wow they all are so enlightening. Thanks.

  • @frederick-nrunkkamara103
    @frederick-nrunkkamara103 7 років тому +17

    Crazy narcissist!

  • @kimberlythorn7310
    @kimberlythorn7310 7 років тому +13

    Hell-o, thank-you for helping me save my own life.I am really loving this video,and the person speaking is awesome I CAN HEAR HER SO CLEAR AND FOR ME THATS WHAT i NEED, THE FACTS.

  • @TurtleIslandLady1999
    @TurtleIslandLady1999 6 років тому +9

    Do you know my ex? Smiling. Thank you!!

  • @k.a.wippel7949
    @k.a.wippel7949 6 років тому +2

    The narc I deal with sent me a bundle of viruses when she thought she was losing ground.

  • @MatronaAktypisMoraitis
    @MatronaAktypisMoraitis 7 років тому +13

    be a slave.no thanks they want you to be a puppet

  • @CelticAngel555
    @CelticAngel555 7 років тому +8

    Your vids are great. ^j^

  • @sanketdhone2
    @sanketdhone2 7 років тому +4

    i hate more those people who know nature of narcest, and still be with then (as slave)..😣😣

    • @casse1458
      @casse1458 7 років тому +2

      sanket dhone enablers

  • @savannahindigo7445
    @savannahindigo7445 7 років тому +5

    hey what kind of protection after getting away ?

  • @morestylesbyshaun9980
    @morestylesbyshaun9980 7 років тому +6

    No thanks...