TOXIC BEHAVIORS IN WOMEN
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2021
- TOXIC BEHAVIORS IN WOMEN W/ @niceandneatthepodcast
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Discussing Real Life Issues, Relationship Deal Breakers - RED FLAGS and Setting Boundaries Discussing Does Body count matter, Does Size Matter and Balancing a Relationship and Work. Everyone has boundaries and deal breakers but many times don't realize how many. Before jumping into a relationship you must recognize the things you like and dislike about a person you choose to make your partner or significant other. New episodes of Let's Talk About it every Sunday where we dive into talking about relationships, red flags, boundaries, dating advice, proper communication, therapy, romance, sex, single life, married life, celebrity, influencer and creator careers, high-value men and modern-day women, entertainment and much, much more. We will also discuss physical health, mental health, and focus on the spiritual journey as well. Beyond this season of relationships advice and friends, we will also dive into more controversial subjects. Touching on everything from the Mandela Effect to religious and political beliefs. The importance of protecting your energy and tightening your friend circle. Financial literacy and inspiring and motivating others to focus on success. Black Lives Matter and the state of society today. Podcast will be arriving to Apple Music and Spotify soon.RELATIONSHIPS, LIFE, ADVICE, DESTORM
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Duke is so emotionally intelligent. He's understands the value of a woman.
Duke provided a much needed balance to this conversation.
He always does 🙌🏾
@@sparkwill5337 I was going to say the same thing!
@@sparkwill5337 I was just about to say this.
Yes
!!! Cause the other ones are clearly in the victim mindset
I love these men . Duke definitely listens to Chanel and i bet they have good conversations because he always comes with that wisdom and not saying he can’t have these thoughts by himself but it shows they have great intentional conversations ,Jalon and Omar too. I enjoy listening to them and I’m very open to hearing their perspectives because they are so respectful and play devils advocate which i love. I love how they always want to problem solve instead of pointing fingers . I want to problem solve too
We need more Duke’s
"Toxic behaviors come from people with negative energy.. People who aren't at peace with themselves.." WHEW. Well said Omar! I definitely agree with that one.
People who've been through stuff isnt toxic most of the time they're damage. Their behaviors stems from trauma which in return causes people to behave " subconsciously " inappropriately. It eventually becomes toxic when they are aware, it becomes a pattern and they refuse to make changes
I like that Duke really stands on his morals and values and I like that Destorm doesn't take himself too seriously and is willing to have fun with the conversation,
good topic.
i work in the psychology & cognitive health sphere. it’s super important to get clear on the what toxicity really is & how it shows up and affects us relationally. everything can’t be thrown into the TOXIC 🪣 bc it has an unwanted/negative affect on us, or if someone has baggage, or does things we don’t like, etc. *toxicity* stems from a negative belief system that directs our thoughts and behavior… thus negatively impacting our relational dynamics (with ourselves & others). we can’t keep throwing *this word* up against a wall & hoping it sticks to continue to dismiss away the complexities of human behavior, unresolved trauma, lack of emotional management & consequences of ineffective communication.
THANK YOU. I literally just left a comment saying the word toxic is the wrong word being used in this convo(and it’s being heavily overused)
@@Snicklez89 🎯🎯 & y it’s important is: you can’t get the correct solution if you’ve incorrectly identified the problem.
All of this! I was just going to comment on how overly (and incorrectly) used the word toxic is.
Thank you! Sheesh
Ok thank you, I think Duke was trying to help clarify what the word TOXIC entails. It was not clearly established.
Duke is holding it down in this conversation.
Duke and Omar always understand the assignment! Love hearing from these men #Nice&Neat
Duke represents Chanel so well! His answers are very thoughtful and honest. Okay, Naija 😂👏🏾
Anyway, I think toxic (and personally I dislike this overused term), is a behavioral pattern that someone refuses to acknowledge and improve on. It’s a characteristic that applies to your way of doing things, that is harmful to any relationship.
@11:00 that's when you reassure her, most cases if a woman has doubts it's because communication & trust is lacking. That's why I love Duke. He & Jalon truly understand and adore women.
Yes, Jalon and Duke 🥰🥰
Gaslighting is definitely an old term. It’s when you try to convince someone that what they know is true is false. It’s trying to contort someone else’s reality for your own personal gain. Basically trying to make someone feel crazy
I dont need to smell Duke to know he smells good!!
DUKE IS A MAN!!!! My goodness who raised this man
This is why Duke is a king and a superior man. Firstly he doesn't generalise on all women second he shows understanding to women. Any man or women that starts making generalised statements about men or women needs to heal. What is it about you that attracts toxic people to the point you start generalising on a whole people.
Saying negative things about women and generalising the way the host does is the same as a woman saying men are dogs. Men are not dogs ....some men are promiscuous. Likewise women are not what some of what you say they are...the women you attract because of your toxicity are ❤
Duke is amazing but Destorm has so much maturing to do
This Episode was 🔥🔥🔥 love what these men stand for & the way they present themselves is obvious, thanks fellas!
Duke gets it everytime🤗
I love Nice & Neat. Everytime I see them on my timeline I watch it. As a AAW it’s refreshing to hear AAM speak on what we can do to keep our relationships health or get into a healthy relationship. ❤
"We on yo show" tickled me so bad. I'm crying at the laughter lol 😂
Love how the men of nice and neat didn’t refer to women was “bitches” at all when the other guy did. They’re always so classy
Loved it. Great conversation. I’m surprised I didn’t hear them say or talk about a woman who complains or nags a lot contributing to having toxic behaviors in a relationship.
It’s Duke breaking it down so it can forever be broke. Also, i think the word toxic is the wrong word to be using and is being over used in this convo
Loved this convo!!🔥🔥
I learned so much from this. Thanks Guys❤️❤️
This is real dope De.🔥
Binging my fav pod and fell in here ❤
Whew, this was such a GREAT conversation. I think we all have some level of "toxicity" in us --- we're not perfect. But as Des said, we should all strive to minimize the amount of baggage we carry, and that starts with self-love.
39:55 is definitely a gem!!
Duke was talkin that talk 🔥🔥
20:00 DUKE SHUT THAT SHIT DOWN LMAO 🤣🤣 So me, as the conscious friend.
I feel like how you can inspire a man can be to having something going, something you're passionate about. Going to get it, goals and aspirations. Hustling! I feel like these a lot of woman are all about what he gonna buy me and take me out but bring nothing substantial into the relationship
A whole navy seal team!😂 This is a great topic👏🏽
47:15 "Start with a routine." Jalon
Yes love it.
49:13 Lets Go Omar lol Im like "speak up" lol run that shit
Great episode.
Dope conversation
Minute 42:50 when the speaker talked about not feeling like they didn’t go get it. This is something women know that their love interests/ partners don’t feel either…
My motto has always been Happy Spouse. Happy House.
Love it
Jalon I think that was interesting talking about women’s hold men’s feeling hostage! Although I think that’s a good point I think men do a poor job of communicating the change in feelings and in my experience that’s what blurs the line.
I want to move to LA so mad but it hard when you have a family
I moved to a whole another state with no family by myself with two kids anything is possible
Anything is possible but it hard even in this state take care of four girls and my wife it hard
@@CreatingTheAdams Like I said , anything is possible . It won’t be easy but you’ll be happy you did it .
Ok so on “baggage” everyone will forever have their “baggage” with them. I’m assuming you are referring to people who have been through trauma in the past and therefore they will bring it into the relationship, BUT that will never change. People will forever live with their traumas! You obviously can work on them daily for the rest of your life but people will forever have these issues, also depending on the level of trauma. Asking someone who’s used to a habitual liar and emotional abuser, they will not be able to trust easily when they get into a new relationship or start seeing someone, they will be on their TOES, and pull back a few times for much longer than someone who never went through something like that.
I HIGHLY advise all of you to research trauma and how it effects the brain and the long terms effects it has. Gaslighting is very real and is no joke. It really fucks with people. I’m a person who dealt with EXTREME emotional and sexual abuse and I’m actively working on bettering myself and it’s very hard. People nowadays overuse these trauma terms but they still are very real and more people need to study them.
YO WASS GOOD!
Duke is MVP!!! I love him and Chanel
I never let my friends influence me period
The guy in white kinda favor Wanyá Morris :)
All the manosphere does is talk talk talk about women. My God is there any other topics? What about rebuilding wallstreet. How to raise productive kids? Education? Any thats actually productive? Someone point me in that direction so I can hear what men are gonna do about the state of our community.
@jeremiah dorsett no it doesn’t. Men and women shouldn’t even be focused on each other. All your efforts should be on building. Then the relationship stuff will fall in place.
Ontario, Canada???
Love the episode but gaslighting is emotional manipulation and thank god we have the term and awareness around it! Hope you guy can research it too so its not bad out to be a jokeee
Jalon... you say it's toxic for women to presume that their new partner is like their past partner who violated their trust and that that's toxic to project these things... but you turn around and says "nah, I don't think women do too much looking in the mirror beyond their looks," ... sounds like YOU dated a lot of shallow women and you're projecting that narrative onto all women. Would this happen to be the "young lady" you dated who said she was pretty enough to stand outside the club and get pulled in? Is this not the same as the woman assuming the man is shady? You don't hear your own hypocrisy? Additionally, the human brain is wired to protect us. It does everything in its power to prohibit pain from reoccurring, thus, taking precaution when a similar threat is perceived. That's not "toxic," that's human design. I suggest you look into that... and then look into the mirror yourself.
Sounds personal lol
I’m just saying, your words gotta match your actions.
44:22 COME ON JALON, HE/SHE WASN'T DOING ENOUGH. I apologize, but I'm not inspired.
53:04 DUKE
For pizza go to Italy 🇮🇹 that's the best ❤ interesting Broadcast
Happy Spouse, Happy House.
Could someone elaborate on why a woman should inspire him?
Gaslighting goes wayyy back 1960s at least
How can y’all rely your motivation and inspiration in your woman?? It’s not fair, I’m sorry,
The term "gaslighting" has always been around its not new...it is in the dictionary and you can google the word.
Not taking accountability
Not giving benefit of the doubt
Friends putting in bad ideas and theories
Blaming the next man for the ex-man
Entitlement without reasons
All toxicity comes from when Were not on the same page. We feel like were better than you
26:44 about guys not owning up to cheating
if y’all are in a good place financially often times that is the only thing that you have to offer to a woman, y’all not even emotionally intelligent but you on here talkin about womens potential to be toxic, y’all bring the bare minimum regularly. Is every woman amazing and perfect absolutely not, but a lot of the things you bring up as issues is gaslighting ass shit that y’all do to us and we are reacting to it
The host has a nasty mouth but he said it, he’s from the gutter. He also tells the other guys she put you up to say that? He’s toxic like he said women are, when you say stupid stuff the finger is pointing back at you! Apparently he’s not all that known because look how many people have even watched.
Idk he’s just being entertaining also u have no idea who this man is look up destrom on all platforms he’s pretty well known.
P.S did you even listen to the whole podcast?
Mxm man stop hatin’
I was thinking exact the same. You can be joking around or not, it not always comes from a positive place.
well said
Duke gets it everytime🤗