I was called a toxic masculine and misogynistic male for telling people I don't prefer tatoos on women in copious amounts or with sleeves. Having preferences is frowned upon nowadays.
I totally agree with your comments...if I was messing around with...NOT DATING...a girl/woman with her neck, face, arms, or legs covered in Tattoos or piercings, I WOULD NEVER TAKE HER TO MEET MY MOTHER/FAMILY...I would not embarrass myself or my family like that!!! A woman/girl with all those "TRAMP-STAMPS"...usually means emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...in other words..."DAMAGED GOODS"!!! Just my 53 year old HONEST OPINION!!!
It's interesting because she believes her expectations are reasonable. She just doesn't understand that the man she has picked in her head also has a woman he has picked in his.
She doesn't rate herself as high value, yet she is setting the bar pretty high. Even without the tats, she's not dating material for what she is seeking. It's bizarre seeing how they think.
I was at the grocery store about a year ago and had a young, pretty, in shape woman in a tasteful dress walk by. She had poise and grace and not a cell phone or tattoo in sight. She smiled at me even though I was standing there with a dumbfounded look on my face. The reason I was so shocked was because it was like having a unicorn walk by.
I’ve literally never EVER, as in, NOT ONCE, seen a woman improve her physical appearance with a tattoo(s). However, this woman in the interview seems to be very reasonable and accepting in regards to her understanding of how tattoos can have an impact on things like dating and relationships. My hats off to her for embracing reality and being so mature (unlike most) on a topic such as this which is very personal to her.
True I really respect her mindset in that case, she is looking for help and realized the "problem" which most women never do. but she still damaged from her time on the cc
Mirroring. People tend to pick partners that are similar to themselves or are a complement to their own look, style, appearance. Professional men like professional looking women. Athletic likes athletic, Goth likes goth, etc. Another reason she's only getting hits on dating apps from druggies, is because they are the ones who tend to mirror her appearance.
It's sad that so many women think tattoos are great, an expression of their "individuality", and they don't realise it's a turn-off/red flag for a lot of guys
Women today think men like what they like in a sexual context. Men like purity or what’s closer to that standard; women like utility and security and whatever has most of that standard. In building competence, a man’s body in prior times had marks, had wounds due to being out there in the battle field for food and resources to build security for himself, dependents and offsprings. To bring it back: tattoos on men (marks) attractive. Tattoos on women not attractive.
Tattoos is one of the most obvious red flags. It really signals high time preference, short sightedness, superficial narcissism and a FO-YOLO-attitude. It also signals that someone fishes in a small pool of other tattoo aficionados.
@@KingStreetBrody No it is the 1920's again, and the poster you are responding to is 100% correct. You have bought into yet another myth of postmodernism. There is a reason the world is absolute garbage right now and it because of that childish attitude.
I have a super beautiful daughter, when she was 15 , I started my please don't ever get a single tattoo. I drummed that toon until she graduated college. What she learned during her modeling career, was that tattoos are like a death sentence in that industry. Models with tattoos are often thought of as strippers and porn stars. Just the way it is.
They realize it’s no longer a man issue, it’s the self realization and reflection that can no longer compete with the younger 25 woman and it’s right in your face and that must be difficult for woman to come to that realization.
a sloppy disgusting old plate of cold food in a restaurant that a stranger ate from and left sloppy seconds....sitting on a table for hours (with tons of ink/tattoos as a cherry on top) that isn't appealing???
Ive never met anyone w a ton of tattoos that weren’t completely hollow NPC’s inside. Its usually a coping mechanism for someone lacking personality whilst being an attention junkie.
@@cattan4696 life’s most profound truths will often undoubtedly come off as cruel and reductionist. This corresponds heavily w religious tradition: Silly, stories used to marginalize and oppress in one’s youth... Manual for spiritual/emotional stability in one’s adulthood.
She is good for fun, but nothing more. It took a long time, but its time to pay the bill for her 😂😂 she was looking for the badboy and at 40yrs she wants the "good guy" 😂😂😂😂
Sorta like some of us guys. 15-20 years ago I wanted the easy chick who I knew was dtf. now, I want the quiet girl who doesn't party and who doesn't put out.
@@GuerreroDelInfo Yup. Loads of men think its just a womans problem. Its not, us men get caught out too. I was the young stud and plowed my way through my 20s and all the way up into my early 30s because I could and it wasn't until I hit about 33 that I realised f**k... I'm covered in tattoos, I spend every hour in the gym and simply because of a few things (height, funny, very in shape etc etc) I get a certain type of woman that would never really stick around in a serious sense but that never dawned on me because I was so used of it and didn't care because I wanted to move on and f**k a new chick. The whole new and shiny thing. Now I'm older, wiser but totally accept I f**ked up because I want a family, a nice quiet wholesome chic and a nice wholesome life but I don't deserve to take that away from some good guy whose looking for the same and has been putting the world in.. not that I could anyway. Few women would bring me home to their parents. I did that once - the father basically told me to never come back to their house again in the most polite way he could. I never felt so ashamed. Totally understood where he was coming from, men can read men. The only shitty part was I did genuinely love his daughter but back then would I have cheated - absolutely. Did he protect his daughter from a ruined relationship: yes. Oh well, I'll plow on fellas. Best of luck holding down the fort.
She seems nice, probably a 4 without the ink, terrible hair style, not much in the makeup department, I sense a high level of insecurity, she has doomed herself with the ink.
She spent thousands ruining her body. You couldn't make it up. If she had no tats she could probably get a good average guy at best, with all the tats its sad but i can't see any man committing to her.
Men that are into tattoos will have relationships with women without tattoos. But men that don't like tattoos on women will not. Basically, women reduce their pool of candidates by getting inked.
I actually felt sad for Tamie. She seems like a sweet person. I see this all the time, and by that I mean; motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture. These people are peer pressured into taking no thought for the 'morrow, and live vapid lives of instant gratification and behave like they're delayed adults. If she'd have lived a more traditional life she'd probably be happily married with a partner preparing for a blissful 2nd half of her life by now. But now that she's over the hump (to put it politely), she sees the faults of her youth; the divorce, the kids, the ex-partners, the tattoos, she wonders why no man wants to date her or treat her how she expects? Kind of sad. Don't let your life turn into this lady's, folks.
Every women and man needs to read your post. I love this " motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture.
10:58 "I would hope so...[TATTOOED GUYS] tend to be musicians, people that do a lot of drugs and alcohol..." Umm Tamie So why would non-tat guys want to hang out with you again? I'm guessing as a young chick you were a reasoble looking becky Who passed on the boring clean guys to chase after drama, yes? My solution: cats, wine, vibratey thingy Just look after your kids but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with the older generation either
You're the perfect simp, oliver 😆 Tamie was very RUTHLESS in her selection process when she had much to offer; including the greatest gift from wmn to man : children. She's the type who cultivated false hopes in a number of guys looking for affection, while she was on the carousel having the time of her life. I interpret that as the oldest SCAM in the book. She's now crying for walking wallets and human punchbags to take out her frustrations on. Thankfully, she wears her carousel behaviour in the form of indelible ink and every guy can sense her past. Guys. DO NOT APPROACH.
@@jamesclark6487 Ha ha, how can you tell? She regrets her tats, and had to learn the hard way about bad attention and good attention from guys, that sounds like personal growth to me. Negative snap judgements are a display of character too.
Speaking as a 65 year old man, I regret not doing a lot of things in my life but one desideratum I most emphatically do not regret is not getting a tattoo. I was tempted a couple of times when I was young. Thankfully I gave them a pass.
I never understood it, and never will. It seems like self sabotaging behavior, and virtually irreversible. I remember when you couldn't get a decent job if you had visible tattoos. It's because they make people look like a derelict.
@@qua7771 Yup, it looks like graffiti. Many times, especially as they get older, bad graffiti. It just devalues and defaces in my opinion. If I had that done to me against my will, I would sue vigorously.
@@erichmacho5741 I don't mind a small tattoo that someone got when they were young. We're seeing people covered in them, and planning their next one. A lot of the so called "art" looks demonic.
Paying a stranger to scribble on your body in a permanent way seems ridiculous to me. It’s like wearing the same tee shirt every day for the rest of your life.
Simps led her astray with empty compliments on tattoos. I see this at my gym all the time. A beautiful woman who is working out gets some dudes initiating convo solely about tattoos and how great they look. It’s messed up. Half the time I am saying to my self: “why is a beautiful woman like that fucking up herself with tattoos like that.” And the odd thing is those typical simps never talk to the untattooed women.
Not simps, but also Chads. Even average to high end guys will sleep with a woman in her twenties with tats. The issue comes in their late twenties or thirties when guys start looking at long term partners and potential wives and say 'No thanks.' Suddenly women like Tamie realize that while guys just wanting to sleep with her will give her a pass, serious people won't.
So many visual red flags. The tats scream young adult issues. My experience is those issues pop up within 90 days and if I have a choice I;m gonna not do a date. Thank God I don't have to deal with dating anymore
tats are proof she got long mileage on her. "its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s"
Tattoos are excellent advertising. They immediately let me know that I should not hire you and especially shouldn't date you. What other trait gives you so much information so quickly?
My totally honest take when I see a tattooed woman: I assume they've probably had an abortion, a train ran on them, daddy issues, impulse control issues, manic moods, etc. etc.
This woman is now paying for her past as strong and independent with two children out of wedlock. These disgusting figures on a woman's body repel serious men and as she said, those men who approach her and have tattoos themselves, are entangled with drugs and have problems with the law. Unfortunately in life, the bill comes when it is too late.
Damaged Goods...plain & simple...something is definitely wrong...emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN & DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
@@friendzoned4990 I wouldn't say all of the men/women with tattoos or piercings are criminals...but I would say probably close to half are. You know Yourself, that a lot are criminals, thugs, drug addicts, theifs, & homeless. There is no way I would trust some of these people, there is no way I would invite them into my home... I'D JUST BE INVITING TROUBLE!!!
I've always viewed lots of tattoos on a woman as a signal of promiscuity because getting covered in tattoos is an inherently risk-taking and rebellious behavior, just like promiscuous sex. Same as piercings. I think this is why I am usually attracted to women with lots of tattoos, but have never thought of dating one. Some tattoos are fine, but being covered in them like this women just looks trashy and in my experience, women who look like the one in this video tend to be an absolute nightmare to be around (I'm not saying she is that way, just pointing out a trend).
One of the main and most obvious traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is having several tattoos. Not that every chick that has them has BPD, but...yeah, it's usually a sign of major emotional instability. And a lot of women may even be awesome/sweet people, until they're in a relationship.
@@reck0n3r Interesting, never thought of it that way. I know one way BPD is characterized is lots of risk-taking behavior, so that definitely fits my theory. I think tattoos can also be an addiction to fill the void, I know my ex was always craving the next tattoo and loved the feeling of having a new one.
I could be wrong but when I hear words like "dating" "intimate compatibility" "we get along but I'm not wife material" sends me a message that there is a high body count. Men that want a "good time" or "hook up" and even enjoy a 1:1 type of company with a women that has a high body count they still don't want to commit to a long term relationship or marriage. And as she stated the type of man that would want a long term relationship with her would be a Beta male or someone that she is not attracted to. She said she got a lot of her tattoos in her 20's but unfortunately the choices we make in life at an earlier age has significant affects in our later age. She said she is having her forehead tattoo removed but anyone that tattoos their forehead has to at least at the time of doing it would be deemed mentally or emotionally unstable at that decision/choice. Most people that I know or have met with face tattoos are drug addicts, porn stars, prisoners, gang affiliated, tattoo artists or some forms of the arts(musicians) or top level athletes. I hope she finds what she is looking for.
Totally correct in that second to last sentence about the type of people with face tattoos. And if you're the new guy on the scene, imagine if any of the guys from her past is jealous and holding any sort of grudge! No guy of quality would be interested in a relationship with such a woman.
She's a working girl who should seek a working guy. A plumber, truck driver, mechanic, carpenter, etc. would be the best match for her. She has no chance with a professional man. The tattoos are kinda gross but maybe it's not an issue for some guy out there. A Harley biker dude would appreciate her tattoos.
Exactly. She ain't getting a white collar dude. Imagine him in his tux rocking up to a work party with her artwork on full display. If she was 22, maybe. In her mid 40s???? No chance.
Why does she assign her effort in achieving her goals as an asset he should recognise as "a high value woman"? A high value woman to a man has nothing to do with her career, financial standing (so long as she's solvent and not a debt magnet) it's whether she's caring, supportive, loyal, honest etc... None of that has anything to do with her goals, they're her goals not his. If she's no intention of supporting his why should he support hers? She wants a dominant man but she wants to set the terms... I think she'll find that hard with a dominant man. He'll set the terms and it will be take it or leave it. The thing is, what's really is going on here? The tats are not really an issue unless your expecting high society events. She's 40, OK but that's not a deal breaker, a lot of men don't want kids - hers are old enough not to be an issue, she looks and acts feminine that's a plus, so what is stopping this? It's got to be the high bar she's set for potential partners. So you have to ask just what is it she's expecting? and why does she think she deserves it? What is she offering in return? The kind of men looking for a 40+ year-old woman to settle down with are actually expecting to SETTLE DOWN, not go rock climbing, mountaineering, jogging miles a day (for that you date a 20+ woman) they just chill at home and relax at a time of their life where they're expecting to do just that. But that sounds like it's boring to her. She has no intention of fetching her man's slippers and curling up to watch a film... So what is she bringing to this for him?
I used to hate Tattoos, but now I see it as a quick way to discern if I want to talk to someone. Nature tells you that bright colors are to be avoided.
I think there is some confusion about what exactly a "high value"and "alpha males"are. Neither of these terms have a sole criteria of being a millionaire. A lot of men on here too, think it's about money, it is not. You can be Chad with no money but physically attractive to women and you are classed as high value and alpha by women. I have found that there appears to be more and more content by rich and others, which concentrates on finances being the go to characteristic for women to desire you. I think we all need to realise ,most will not achieve millionaire status, but that doesn't stop you maxing out in other areas and improving yourself.
Gotta disagree, high value is about finances. Alpha is not. There are High value betas (elon musk , will smith) and Broke alphas (check out your local jail, its full of 'em) In a way women want exactly what men want : everything. They want a high value alpha. But you are correct that we all cannot be millionaires but with that said you gotta keep pushing. Women respect the grind as well. As long as you are not lazy you are ok. Average people will get average outcomes. But for people that have ambition , the financial motivation will fuel more fire for you to hit your goals.
I sort if agree. IMO a high value man is someone who has a good job he enjoys,just needs to earn enough to live well, comes from a good family, works out and eats well so has a good body and has good morals and honest etc I could go on but I'd say any woman should be aiming for that kind of man not some fantasy.
I’ve always preferred the blue collar worker to the man with a lot of money. Why, because they are more down to earth, they usually work on their own car and can renovate a home. They don’t mind walls on the beach, a hike and grabbing a bite to eat… men with a lot of money tend to flaunt their homes, cars and fancy dinners.
People that are all tattooed up typically have self image issues, I’ve never gotten a tattoo because I’m happy in my own skin. I love everything about myself and I’m not trying to boast because I’m not an attractive man, lol. But woman ESPECIALLY love men in tats. I don’t give a f, I’m happy being me and most people now a days have major issues with their looks and have to get tattoos to be happy.
This also applies to women who have a full face of make up on all the time. At the gym, out for a run, first thing on a morning, every day at work. They won't be seen without make up on. This is a red flag.
There's a girl on TikTok/IG who asked guys if they liked the fact she has tattoos and saw her as wife material and nearly every guy told her don't get anymore because she was beautiful without them and they'd rather she didn't. Her reply? "Well, I guess I'll be single for the rest of my life." smh...
I think tattoos are fine on women. It tells me about them they don't realize. A hodge podge of random shapes splattered all over the place in random locations tells me she is a high drama basket case. Limited or even a couple large ones shows intent, direction, and thought. We may not agree on the thought as it could be completely manic. I'm not against them. If the tat has class I'm still in the game.
Her requests are reasonable, she is intelligent, she seems very nice and looks like she might be fun. Sad side, she has just ruined all of the positives with the tattoos. A friend died in a motorcycle accident several years back. His widow was a Beautiful 24 year old girl. In her grief she went down and had his name and a symbol tattooed on her inner thighs. Then she went down and had a tombstone tattooed on her back full size with his name and dates on it. Those are stop signs for any man that would have her. She will never be theirs because she will always belong to her husband that has passed. Anyone but especially women lessen their options when they mark themselves up with tattoos. Personally I believe the female body is too perfect to ruin with a tattoo. Makes a woman look trashy.
Here's the thing though that you see so often is a woman who's made bad decisions making demands. When you are looking for a significant other money should not come into it when you mix a relationship with money it will always fail always 100%. People are not money people are not bank accounts a person's value is not in correlation to what's in their wallet. Do they have a job and are they not on food stamps this is probably it and this just means that they are responsible. When you start talking about money it only indicates to everyone that you are looking for a bank account and not a human being to spend the rest of your life with. Let me cover myself in tattoos let me have children with other men let me fry my hair and now let me make unrealistic demands on the male populace as to the requirements to be with me. Must make a bunch of money every year must be alpha must own three cars must own his own house. That person isn't going to want someone with french fry hair covered in tattoos who has already been impregnated by other men and left by them. The scale isn't balanced. Two pennies does not equal the weight of gold no matter how hard you try. Maybe it's time to start being realistic.
We see this all around. These women are competing with young attractive chicks that don't expect as much. They messed up their young years, and still don't understand that actions have consequences. Now they want to settle down when it's too late. It's game over!
I hear a LOT of woman talk about, he has to love you for who you are, blah blah blah and then they themselves have these long lists of requirements for men, so they expect to be loved unconditionally, yet don’t want to love a man unconditionally. 🙄 Cry me a f’in river, this female STILL has specific demands for a certain man. He has to look and act like a bad boy BUT he needs to be nice to me. Bad boys don’t give a flying f about what you want, period.
Do women really look down on guys who get sober? Seriously, that's a deal breaker for her? How? How on earth is somebody who choses, for himself, to get sober a bad thing?
It's the same as crying on her shoulder. Failing your burden of masculinity to figure it out on your own. She'll support you being in there, but she'll be doing it from the friend zone.
The 'sobriety thing' is bad because it becomes THE singular obsession in one's life. When you're going to for AA meetings a day, (Yes...I'm exaggerating a bit) you have neither the time nor mental energy for developing the money/power/fame and fitness that you need for success.
@@leomcnamara8711 That's probably what it is, honestly. I got sober last year, but I don't go to meetings, and I did it for health reasons. I don't even think about drinking now. I work out, eat right, and the physical and financial gains I've seen since I quit drinking are enough for me. Sobriety is a part of my overall success in the last year, but not what defines my life. Good way to look at it!
I'm glad I am old and married. I feel very very sorry for men today and what the have to pick from in the way of women. Angry, entitled, and tatted. No thanks!.
I'm not a fan of tats but if she were giving off stable, happy, zestful vibes then even with the tats I don't think she'd have a problem. People will do quirky and interesting. The issue to me is that she comes across as unhappy and broken.
When the camera turns off, I doubt if she still stable. So much time and she didn't removed the tattoos yet? Well, maybe now she seems be ready to remove them (I doubt it).
100% in the majority/minority that doesn't like tattoos. I am not sexually attracted to tattooed women so what would be the point going more than, Occasional Relief.
I pray that you fall in love with a woman who secretly has tons of tattoos under her clothes that you don't find until the wedding night. I bless you with that. So mote it be.
@@dianeaishamonday9125 I would be stupid if I marry a girl that has been so covered up in each of our encounters that I never notice something so blatantly obvious as Tattoos. Unless you think marriage is not that special and people just fall into marriages willy-nilly so much so that you think something like this could go unnoticed. You know what, ok. If I marry a girl with tattoos and I dont find out till I am married to her -- I am the idiot there and I deserve all of it -- because I married a Deceitful Bitch that lacks Long-term Judgement, which makes for the worst kind of Mother.
@@dianeaishamonday9125 Why?? What does he say that bothers you? You women are used for pump and dump and that's it. You've made yourself a concubine, deal with it! And who the fuck 'falls in love' with a woman without sex before the wedding night in 2022???
People don't generally lead with their baggage; it's hard to figure out when to tell people what you've been through. Not trying to dig at her for dismissing him, I just understand how hard it can be properly judge when to tell someone about issues you have/are facing.
I've had a very attractive woman ask me why I don't like tattoos on women... I told her that a tattoo on a beautiful woman , appears to me as vandalism and graffiti on a beautiful sculpture. And a warning sign to men.
I think any tattoo is one too many. And anyone who doesn't believe in family values is going to be difficult to understand the truth of being wholesome.
tattoos are a HUGE warning sign.......and turn off... AVOID at all costs
Yes ooooh yes.
I believe there is surgery or some kind of procedure to have them remove.
Yep, 100%. Even a small one. I can’t stand the sight of tattoos.
One thing nice about tattoos are the advance warning without wasting time and money on a woman 🙃
I was called a toxic masculine and misogynistic male for telling people I don't prefer tatoos on women in copious amounts or with sleeves. Having preferences is frowned upon nowadays.
Hypocrites aren't they !
It's frowned upon, ONLY if it's men having preferences for women
Only if you're a man. We can't have standards. We can only be misogynist.
Fuck em, they have no right, and are not there doing your work.
I totally agree with your comments...if I was messing around with...NOT DATING...a girl/woman with her neck, face, arms, or legs covered in Tattoos or piercings, I WOULD NEVER TAKE HER TO MEET MY MOTHER/FAMILY...I would not embarrass myself or my family like that!!!
A woman/girl with all those "TRAMP-STAMPS"...usually means emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...in other words..."DAMAGED GOODS"!!!
Just my 53 year old HONEST OPINION!!!
Huge tattoos on women is just a big marker for somekind of mental or emotional problem.
Or addiction (which I know is basically a mental problem)
100%
💯 I work with young girls sometime and the tattoos they get screams mental.
Daddy issues which basically is scream for attention.
Facts. Tattoos period on anyone
Women don't get tattoos. Just don't do it.
They make women look trashy.
Like graffiti on a bridge in a run down neighborhood.
Im so sick of hearing women say they want someone "that works as hard as they do". They dont realize what they think is hard work, isnt..
100% if you have time to tell ppl how hard you work, you've too much time on your hands! Buck up, head down and continue the grind!
Hard work for most women is just turning up. The rest is gossiping till the next coffee break, then more gossip. -repeat
" I want a dominant alpha male." Translation: "I want someone financially successful so he can pay my bills."
Heh, no doubt!
Yes you said it Mate.
Tattoos are great!
They identify if a woman is mentally ill, impulsive, deaf to social norms, shortsighted, and bad with money.
Lol Very well said!!!! 👏
@@PlaywithDaisy We don't date men.
We're talking about tattoos on women.
Yes, indeed. like the "Danger explosive/poisonous" signs they have
Hey now, I have a few tattoos and I'm fantastic with money :)
@@lynn99annaWhose money?
It's interesting because she believes her expectations are reasonable. She just doesn't understand that the man she has picked in her head also has a woman he has picked in his.
She doesn't rate herself as high value, yet she is setting the bar pretty high. Even without the tats, she's not dating material for what she is seeking. It's bizarre seeing how they think.
It is not her.
@@johnshaddick6858 He wasted our time as well as his. I'm going to un-circumscribe
The Tattoos are disgusting.
she messed up and now has to pay the price for it
just beginning to pay the price - no pun but the writing's on the wall and it will continue to head south
I was at the grocery store about a year ago and had a young, pretty, in shape woman in a tasteful dress walk by. She had poise and grace and not a cell phone or tattoo in sight. She smiled at me even though I was standing there with a dumbfounded look on my face. The reason I was so shocked was because it was like having a unicorn walk by.
😂😂😂😂 I get you!!!
Next time be ready to snag that unicorn!
i went through the same thing.
Ya know! it's now the exception.
Until you find out about the small hidden tattoos
Agreed.
I’ve literally never EVER, as in, NOT ONCE, seen a woman improve her physical appearance with a tattoo(s). However, this woman in the interview seems to be very reasonable and accepting in regards to her understanding of how tattoos can have an impact on things like dating and relationships. My hats off to her for embracing reality and being so mature (unlike most) on a topic such as this which is very personal to her.
True I really respect her mindset in that case, she is looking for help and realized the "problem" which most women never do. but she still damaged from her time on the cc
Most of my friends are tattoo artists and I have seen many many women improve their physical appearance with tattoos
Yes that's how she is NOW. years ago when she started marking herself I can assure you she
"did not" have the same insight
@@steveotatooed Well, I respect your right to your opinion, but, we can agree to disagree.
@@bskee001 Of course
Mirroring. People tend to pick partners that are similar to themselves or are a complement to their own look, style, appearance. Professional men like professional looking women. Athletic likes athletic, Goth likes goth, etc. Another reason she's only getting hits on dating apps from druggies, is because they are the ones who tend to mirror her appearance.
It's sad that so many women think tattoos are great, an expression of their "individuality", and they don't realise it's a turn-off/red flag for a lot of guys
Big red flag
Tatoos on men are a turn off for most women in my circle.
Women today think men like what they like in a sexual context. Men like purity or what’s closer to that standard; women like utility and security and whatever has most of that standard. In building competence, a man’s body in prior times had marks, had wounds due to being out there in the battle field for food and resources to build security for himself, dependents and offsprings. To bring it back: tattoos on men (marks) attractive. Tattoos on women not attractive.
Its as big a red flag as someone taking medication for hiv for me
Doing what everyone else is doing is an expression of individually by their logic.
No tattoos Period !!
Most people can understand that graffiti defaces a building. That concept applies to tattoos on the body.
100%
Yeah, I'm not gonna buy a car that has had too many owners, done too many miles and has a VERY BAD paint job.
I automatically relate a woman with a lot of tattoos to having a high body count
Yeah, they're like 'Tom, Dick and Harry woz here' graffiti
Only thing we learned about the 33 year old she really liked was that he had a bit of money and a boat, car and house.
Yeah she’s doomed
I think she said that because that's what she thought Rich wants to hear. My guess..
She don't look 33 to me looks mid 40s
@@Eric.Fitness She states that she's 40, but was dating a 33 year old man.
@@melissachartres3219 missed that makes sense.
@@melissachartres3219 I thought she was in her 50's.
Tattoos is one of the most obvious red flags. It really signals high time preference, short sightedness, superficial narcissism and a FO-YOLO-attitude. It also signals that someone fishes in a small pool of other tattoo aficionados.
I have 0 tatoos and i couldn’t disagree more. It’s not the 1930s bro
@@KingStreetBrody Following the Zeitgeist - "because it is the current year" - is also a sign of short sightedness.
@@KingStreetBrody No it is the 1920's again, and the poster you are responding to is 100% correct. You have bought into yet another myth of postmodernism. There is a reason the world is absolute garbage right now and it because of that childish attitude.
its a SHALLOW pond my friends
I have a super beautiful daughter, when she was 15 , I started my please don't ever get a single tattoo. I drummed that toon until she graduated college. What she learned during her modeling career, was that tattoos are like a death sentence in that industry. Models with tattoos are often thought of as strippers and porn stars.
Just the way it is.
she'll get one anyway
@@juanshaftpatel7488 Yup....
Tattoos are an instant NO for me. For me they indicate a low value woman.
Have you ever heard someone say "I think she would look better with tattoos?".
no
Exactly. IMO tattoos are a masculine thing anyway. That's why some guys actually do look good with them. Women?? Nope.
Women ONLY start thinking about this sh*t AFTER they AGE and lose their looks! Then a nice hard working guy is supposed to take her leftovers? 😒 NOPE
Facts 😂
She doesn’t want a nice hard working guy.
She wants a Alpha biker type.
Which is why she will die alone.
They realize it’s no longer a man issue, it’s the self realization and reflection that can no longer compete with the younger 25 woman and it’s right in your face and that must be difficult for woman to come to that realization.
a sloppy disgusting old plate of cold food in a restaurant that a stranger ate from and left sloppy seconds....sitting on a table for hours (with tons of ink/tattoos as a cherry on top)
that isn't appealing???
They don't want hard working nice guys
Ive never met anyone w a ton of tattoos that weren’t completely hollow NPC’s inside.
Its usually a coping mechanism for someone lacking personality whilst being an attention junkie.
Yeah, If you don't have it "inside" you have it "outside" ... It's just sad ...
Agree 100%
You know, this sounds cruel and reductionist, but its actually true. Of men and women
@@cattan4696 life’s most profound truths will often undoubtedly come off as cruel and reductionist.
This corresponds heavily w religious tradition:
Silly, stories used to marginalize and oppress in one’s youth...
Manual for spiritual/emotional stability in one’s adulthood.
This woman says she’s 40 , looks more like 50, I think she’s lying.
Yea seriously? How can she even expect to find a date at that age. Her dating life is over, she's already had kids!
She is good for fun, but nothing more. It took a long time, but its time to pay the bill for her 😂😂 she was looking for the badboy and at 40yrs she wants the "good guy" 😂😂😂😂
Sorta like some of us guys. 15-20 years ago I wanted the easy chick who I knew was dtf. now, I want the quiet girl who doesn't party and who doesn't put out.
its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s
@@GuerreroDelInfo Yup. Loads of men think its just a womans problem. Its not, us men get caught out too. I was the young stud and plowed my way through my 20s and all the way up into my early 30s because I could and it wasn't until I hit about 33 that I realised f**k... I'm covered in tattoos, I spend every hour in the gym and simply because of a few things (height, funny, very in shape etc etc) I get a certain type of woman that would never really stick around in a serious sense but that never dawned on me because I was so used of it and didn't care because I wanted to move on and f**k a new chick. The whole new and shiny thing.
Now I'm older, wiser but totally accept I f**ked up because I want a family, a nice quiet wholesome chic and a nice wholesome life but I don't deserve to take that away from some good guy whose looking for the same and has been putting the world in.. not that I could anyway. Few women would bring me home to their parents.
I did that once - the father basically told me to never come back to their house again in the most polite way he could. I never felt so ashamed. Totally understood where he was coming from, men can read men. The only shitty part was I did genuinely love his daughter but back then would I have cheated - absolutely. Did he protect his daughter from a ruined relationship: yes.
Oh well, I'll plow on fellas. Best of luck holding down the fort.
@@GuerreroDelInfoSpot on mate
She needs to get some cats and call it a day.
Lol! 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmfao yup
Some women wear their Red Flags on their skin - as men we should be thankful for this.
Best comment by far
Comments like this are red flags. Hopefully all the women you're interested in find your comments online and know to steer clear.
Tats look cheap on everybody.
I do not like tatooed man either. And I am very happy with my conservative approach on this.
I agree. I have a couple of tattoos from my younger days but with a t shirt, they can't be seen. I will not date a woman with tattoos.
She seems nice, probably a 4 without the ink, terrible hair style, not much in the makeup department, I sense a high level of insecurity, she has doomed herself with the ink.
Well said
She spent thousands ruining her body. You couldn't make it up.
If she had no tats she could probably get a good average guy at best, with all the tats its sad but i can't see any man committing to her.
Men that are into tattoos will have relationships with women without tattoos. But men that don't like tattoos on women will not. Basically, women reduce their pool of candidates by getting inked.
@@marks-0-0 Simps will surprise you..
@@marks-0-0 the thing is she thinks even in this state she deserves better than average. Delusional.
I actually felt sad for Tamie. She seems like a sweet person. I see this all the time, and by that I mean; motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture. These people are peer pressured into taking no thought for the 'morrow, and live vapid lives of instant gratification and behave like they're delayed adults. If she'd have lived a more traditional life she'd probably be happily married with a partner preparing for a blissful 2nd half of her life by now. But now that she's over the hump (to put it politely), she sees the faults of her youth; the divorce, the kids, the ex-partners, the tattoos, she wonders why no man wants to date her or treat her how she expects? Kind of sad. Don't let your life turn into this lady's, folks.
Every women and man needs to read your post. I love this " motherly and kind women swept away by the siren song of today's postmodern and selfish culture.
10:58
"I would hope so...[TATTOOED GUYS] tend to be musicians, people that do a lot of drugs and alcohol..."
Umm Tamie
So why would non-tat guys want to hang out with you again?
I'm guessing as a young chick you were a reasoble looking becky
Who passed on the boring clean guys to chase after drama, yes?
My solution: cats, wine, vibratey thingy
Just look after your kids but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with the older generation either
She will never not be impulsive and disregard those around her. At least she advertises her character overtly.
You're the perfect simp, oliver 😆
Tamie was very RUTHLESS in her selection process when she had much to offer; including the greatest gift from wmn to man : children.
She's the type who cultivated false hopes in a number of guys looking for affection, while she was on the carousel having the time of her life.
I interpret that as the oldest SCAM in the book.
She's now crying for walking wallets and human punchbags to take out her frustrations on.
Thankfully, she wears her carousel behaviour in the form of indelible ink and every guy can sense her past.
Guys. DO NOT APPROACH.
@@jamesclark6487 Ha ha, how can you tell? She regrets her tats, and had to learn the hard way about bad attention and good attention from guys, that sounds like personal growth to me. Negative snap judgements are a display of character too.
Speaking as a 65 year old man, I regret not doing a lot of things in my life but one desideratum I most emphatically do not regret is not getting a tattoo. I was tempted a couple of times when I was young. Thankfully I gave them a pass.
I never understood it, and never will. It seems like self sabotaging behavior, and virtually irreversible. I remember when you couldn't get a decent job if you had visible tattoos. It's because they make people look like a derelict.
@@qua7771 Yup, it looks like graffiti. Many times, especially as they get older, bad graffiti. It just devalues and defaces in my opinion. If I had that done to me against my will, I would sue vigorously.
@@erichmacho5741 I don't mind a small tattoo that someone got when they were young. We're seeing people covered in them, and planning their next one. A lot of the so called "art" looks demonic.
Paying a stranger to scribble on your body in a permanent way seems ridiculous to me. It’s like wearing the same tee shirt every day for the rest of your life.
I always say., no one gets a tattoo when things are going well for them. I stand by that perspective
I am a tattooist & unfortunately she is covered in crap, every tattoo tells a story & hers are screaming “I F_ed up”.
Simps led her astray with empty compliments on tattoos. I see this at my gym all the time. A beautiful woman who is working out gets some dudes initiating convo solely about tattoos and how great they look. It’s messed up. Half the time I am saying to my self: “why is a beautiful woman like that fucking up herself with tattoos like that.” And the odd thing is those typical simps never talk to the untattooed women.
The tattoos make them look easy and sleezy
exactly
I totally agree with you!
Not simps, but also Chads. Even average to high end guys will sleep with a woman in her twenties with tats. The issue comes in their late twenties or thirties when guys start looking at long term partners and potential wives and say 'No thanks.' Suddenly women like Tamie realize that while guys just wanting to sleep with her will give her a pass, serious people won't.
Tattoos don't look good on any beautiful women. Maybe a couple of hidden ones but they ruin a woman's looks.
She’s a walking red flag
As my mom wold say: "Shit attracts flies..."
So many visual red flags. The tats scream young adult issues. My experience is those issues pop up within 90 days and if I have a choice I;m gonna not do a date. Thank God I don't have to deal with dating anymore
FREEDOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Ha ha the 90 days is so accurate
those are just tats yall weird af
Head to toe in tatts ?
What was she thinking ?
tats are proof she got long mileage on her.
"its impossible to go back to moonshine in your 40s after drinking quality whiskey for 10 years in your 20s"
Drug addicts reach out to her on dating apps?
well color me *shocked.*
lol thanks
Tattoos are excellent advertising. They immediately let me know that I should not hire you and especially shouldn't date you. What other trait gives you so much information so quickly?
Wow! She was actually reasonable and didn't contend with Rich 👍
She's been reduced to reasonableness
At least she’s genuine and honest and willing to compromise
typical thot trait when options have been exhausted
My totally honest take when I see a tattooed woman: I assume they've probably had an abortion, a train ran on them, daddy issues, impulse control issues, manic moods, etc. etc.
Or it says 'look at me! I'm a fashionable slut'
This woman is now paying for her past as strong and independent with two children out of wedlock. These disgusting figures on a woman's body repel serious men and as she said, those men who approach her and have tattoos themselves, are entangled with drugs and have problems with the law. Unfortunately in life, the bill comes when it is too late.
She doesn’t understand it though. That’s sad
Damaged Goods...plain & simple...something is definitely wrong...emotional, psychological, or self-worth problems...RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN & DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
So people with tattoos are drug addicts and criminals?
@@friendzoned4990
I wouldn't say all of the men/women with tattoos or piercings are criminals...but I would say probably close to half are.
You know Yourself, that a lot are criminals, thugs, drug addicts, theifs, & homeless.
There is no way I would trust some of these people, there is no way I would invite them into my home...
I'D JUST BE INVITING TROUBLE!!!
Certain Vibes attract those tribes
Women with tatoos are good at making men limp
She's sweet but she dive-bombed her life with the tattoos.
A wonderful interview with an intelligent well spoken woman who's gained important life experiences.
at her own detriment...
@@Last_one_before_I_go that's the way it works in the real world
Two children out of wedlock plus all them tattoos, yes she has made so real sensible Life choices ?
She makes a good impression, but you can tell she made a lot of bad choices as a young woman.
I've always viewed lots of tattoos on a woman as a signal of promiscuity because getting covered in tattoos is an inherently risk-taking and rebellious behavior, just like promiscuous sex. Same as piercings. I think this is why I am usually attracted to women with lots of tattoos, but have never thought of dating one. Some tattoos are fine, but being covered in them like this women just looks trashy and in my experience, women who look like the one in this video tend to be an absolute nightmare to be around (I'm not saying she is that way, just pointing out a trend).
One of the main and most obvious traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is having several tattoos. Not that every chick that has them has BPD, but...yeah, it's usually a sign of major emotional instability. And a lot of women may even be awesome/sweet people, until they're in a relationship.
HATE TATS AND CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN NOSE RINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEY ALWAYS LIKE AS IF THE WOMAN HAS BUGGARS HANGING OUT OF HER NOSE!!!!!!!!
@@reck0n3r Interesting, never thought of it that way. I know one way BPD is characterized is lots of risk-taking behavior, so that definitely fits my theory. I think tattoos can also be an addiction to fill the void, I know my ex was always craving the next tattoo and loved the feeling of having a new one.
I could be wrong but when I hear words like "dating" "intimate compatibility" "we get along but I'm not wife material" sends me a message that there is a high body count. Men that want a "good time" or "hook up" and even enjoy a 1:1 type of company with a women that has a high body count they still don't want to commit to a long term relationship or marriage. And as she stated the type of man that would want a long term relationship with her would be a Beta male or someone that she is not attracted to. She said she got a lot of her tattoos in her 20's but unfortunately the choices we make in life at an earlier age has significant affects in our later age. She said she is having her forehead tattoo removed but anyone that tattoos their forehead has to at least at the time of doing it would be deemed mentally or emotionally unstable at that decision/choice. Most people that I know or have met with face tattoos are drug addicts, porn stars, prisoners, gang affiliated, tattoo artists or some forms of the arts(musicians) or top level athletes. I hope she finds what she is looking for.
The clock is ticking!
Totally correct in that second to last sentence about the type of people with face tattoos. And if you're the new guy on the scene, imagine if any of the guys from her past is jealous and holding any sort of grudge! No guy of quality would be interested in a relationship with such a woman.
I still don't get why Anyone would ever want to turn themselves into a walking sideshow!?
It’s sad
I applaud this lady for reaching out. She pretty and cooperative.
I remember when we needed a quarter at the county fair to see the tattooed women/men.
hahah good one
@@PB22559 Now you just have to go to Walmart.
She has ONE choice in men at this point - tattoo parlor owners.
Not even only a dog at this point
I don't care if women are attracted to tattoos or not...
I will never put one on my body. If that means I'll be single forever, then so be it.
The problem is this mindset comes 20 years too late for most women in her situation.
Kind of a permanent advertisement for prior bad choices
Single mom? RUN
Find yourself a tatted up lesbian...with cats... and settle down.
She's a working girl who should seek a working guy. A plumber, truck driver, mechanic, carpenter, etc. would be the best match for her. She has no chance with a professional man. The tattoos are kinda gross but maybe it's not an issue for some guy out there. A Harley biker dude would appreciate her tattoos.
She’s had her fill of Biker types though.
Exactly. She ain't getting a white collar dude. Imagine him in his tux rocking up to a work party with her artwork on full display. If she was 22, maybe. In her mid 40s???? No chance.
@@andrewg2618 Not too many guys chasing middle aged women with kids especially with tattoos.
Plumbers make 100k plus a year.
I know Carpenters that make 150k and white collar professionals making less than half of that!
Why does she assign her effort in achieving her goals as an asset he should recognise as "a high value woman"?
A high value woman to a man has nothing to do with her career, financial standing (so long as she's solvent and not a debt magnet) it's whether she's caring, supportive, loyal, honest etc... None of that has anything to do with her goals, they're her goals not his. If she's no intention of supporting his why should he support hers?
She wants a dominant man but she wants to set the terms... I think she'll find that hard with a dominant man. He'll set the terms and it will be take it or leave it.
The thing is, what's really is going on here? The tats are not really an issue unless your expecting high society events. She's 40, OK but that's not a deal breaker, a lot of men don't want kids - hers are old enough not to be an issue, she looks and acts feminine that's a plus, so what is stopping this? It's got to be the high bar she's set for potential partners. So you have to ask just what is it she's expecting? and why does she think she deserves it? What is she offering in return?
The kind of men looking for a 40+ year-old woman to settle down with are actually expecting to SETTLE DOWN, not go rock climbing, mountaineering, jogging miles a day (for that you date a 20+ woman) they just chill at home and relax at a time of their life where they're expecting to do just that. But that sounds like it's boring to her. She has no intention of fetching her man's slippers and curling up to watch a film... So what is she bringing to this for him?
Wo-men ! With Tattoos 🤮🤮🤮
Tattoos are very masculine!
She would probably match with a transient, carnival worker. Live out of a van, etc.
Funny but true
I used to hate Tattoos, but now I see it as a quick way to discern if I want to talk to someone. Nature tells you that bright colors are to be avoided.
I think there is some confusion about what exactly a "high value"and "alpha males"are. Neither of these terms have a sole criteria of being a millionaire. A lot of men on here too, think it's about money, it is not. You can be Chad with no money but physically attractive to women and you are classed as high value and alpha by women. I have found that there appears to be more and more content by rich and others, which concentrates on finances being the go to characteristic for women to desire you. I think we all need to realise ,most will not achieve millionaire status, but that doesn't stop you maxing out in other areas and improving yourself.
Gotta disagree, high value is about finances. Alpha is not. There are High value betas (elon musk , will smith) and Broke alphas (check out your local jail, its full of 'em) In a way women want exactly what men want : everything. They want a high value alpha. But you are correct that we all cannot be millionaires but with that said you gotta keep pushing. Women respect the grind as well. As long as you are not lazy you are ok. Average people will get average outcomes. But for people that have ambition , the financial motivation will fuel more fire for you to hit your goals.
@@bsaintnyc I think you actually need to read what I wrote and understand it, in particular about wealth not being the "sole criteria".
I sort if agree.
IMO a high value man is someone who has a good job he enjoys,just needs to earn enough to live well, comes from a good family, works out and eats well so has a good body and has good morals and honest etc
I could go on but I'd say any woman should be aiming for that kind of man not some fantasy.
@@bsaintnyc there's nothing alpha about being in jail
I’ve always preferred the blue collar worker to the man with a lot of money. Why, because they are more down to earth, they usually work on their own car and can renovate a home. They don’t mind walls on the beach, a hike and grabbing a bite to eat… men with a lot of money tend to flaunt their homes, cars and fancy dinners.
People that are all tattooed up typically have self image issues, I’ve never gotten a tattoo because I’m happy in my own skin. I love everything about myself and I’m not trying to boast because I’m not an attractive man, lol. But woman ESPECIALLY love men in tats. I don’t give a f, I’m happy being me and most people now a days have major issues with their looks and have to get tattoos to be happy.
This also applies to women who have a full face of make up on all the time. At the gym, out for a run, first thing on a morning, every day at work. They won't be seen without make up on. This is a red flag.
There's a girl on TikTok/IG who asked guys if they liked the fact she has tattoos and saw her as wife material and nearly every guy told her don't get anymore because she was beautiful without them and they'd rather she didn't. Her reply? "Well, I guess I'll be single for the rest of my life." smh...
She seems nice, I wish her well.
Yes, lets all pray for her that her tattoos go away.
I think tattoos are fine on women. It tells me about them they don't realize. A hodge podge of random shapes splattered all over the place in random locations tells me she is a high drama basket case. Limited or even a couple large ones shows intent, direction, and thought. We may not agree on the thought as it could be completely manic.
I'm not against them. If the tat has class I'm still in the game.
Her requests are reasonable, she is intelligent, she seems very nice and looks like she might be fun. Sad side, she has just ruined all of the positives with the tattoos. A friend died in a motorcycle accident several years back. His widow was a Beautiful 24 year old girl. In her grief she went down and had his name and a symbol tattooed on her inner thighs. Then she went down and had a tombstone tattooed on her back full size with his name and dates on it. Those are stop signs for any man that would have her. She will never be theirs because she will always belong to her husband that has passed. Anyone but especially women lessen their options when they mark themselves up with tattoos. Personally I believe the female body is too perfect to ruin with a tattoo. Makes a woman look trashy.
She's the personification of an Alpha Widow
Damaged Goods simply put!!!
Definitely an emotional, psychological, or self-worth problem when a woman marks up her body like this!!!
She is not intelligent. If she was she wouldn't get tattoos
Here's the thing though that you see so often is a woman who's made bad decisions making demands. When you are looking for a significant other money should not come into it when you mix a relationship with money it will always fail always 100%. People are not money people are not bank accounts a person's value is not in correlation to what's in their wallet. Do they have a job and are they not on food stamps this is probably it and this just means that they are responsible. When you start talking about money it only indicates to everyone that you are looking for a bank account and not a human being to spend the rest of your life with. Let me cover myself in tattoos let me have children with other men let me fry my hair and now let me make unrealistic demands on the male populace as to the requirements to be with me. Must make a bunch of money every year must be alpha must own three cars must own his own house. That person isn't going to want someone with french fry hair covered in tattoos who has already been impregnated by other men and left by them. The scale isn't balanced. Two pennies does not equal the weight of gold no matter how hard you try. Maybe it's time to start being realistic.
We see this all around. These women are competing with young attractive chicks that don't expect as much. They messed up their young years, and still don't understand that actions have consequences. Now they want to settle down when it's too late. It's game over!
She had a tattoo on her forehead!.... Dum dum dum dummm RUNNNN
I hear a LOT of woman talk about, he has to love you for who you are, blah blah blah and then they themselves have these long lists of requirements for men, so they expect to be loved unconditionally, yet don’t want to love a man unconditionally. 🙄 Cry me a f’in river, this female STILL has specific demands for a certain man. He has to look and act like a bad boy BUT he needs to be nice to me. Bad boys don’t give a flying f about what you want, period.
YES!!!! Looking like she does, she should have ZERO demands.
Do women really look down on guys who get sober? Seriously, that's a deal breaker for her? How? How on earth is somebody who choses, for himself, to get sober a bad thing?
Unfortunately stigma but it’s very hypocritical to judge someone for getting sober when almost her whole body is tattooed
Right? He's sober and facing his demons. She's obviously too good for that 😆 look how well adjusted she is!! /s
It's the same as crying on her shoulder. Failing your burden of masculinity to figure it out on your own.
She'll support you being in there, but she'll be doing it from the friend zone.
The 'sobriety thing' is bad because it becomes THE singular obsession in one's life.
When you're going to for AA meetings a day, (Yes...I'm exaggerating a bit) you have neither the time nor mental energy for developing the money/power/fame and fitness that you need for success.
@@leomcnamara8711 That's probably what it is, honestly. I got sober last year, but I don't go to meetings, and I did it for health reasons. I don't even think about drinking now. I work out, eat right, and the physical and financial gains I've seen since I quit drinking are enough for me. Sobriety is a part of my overall success in the last year, but not what defines my life. Good way to look at it!
I'm glad I am old and married. I feel very very sorry for men today and what the have to pick from in the way of women. Angry, entitled, and tatted. No thanks!.
Not to mention the piercings
All Tattoos on Women Are Discusting !!!!
They are Perfect With No Tattoos or Wires Coming Out of One's Face .
Yes Mental & Emotional Problems 😢
People without tattoos also can have mental problems lmao
Yes, though adding tattoos are a permanent marker if One's identity that won't wash off .
The fact that this woman is nice means nothing. She’s ruined herself.
Poor girl, your hard work and success will never overcome your past of many, many bad decisions !!!!
Why do people say "me?", when someone addresses them directly
I'm not a fan of tats but if she were giving off stable, happy, zestful vibes then even with the tats I don't think she'd have a problem. People will do quirky and interesting. The issue to me is that she comes across as unhappy and broken.
So you’d go with her as your number 2 to your best friends wedding???? I personally wouldn’t.
When the camera turns off, I doubt if she still stable. So much time and she didn't removed the tattoos yet? Well, maybe now she seems be ready to remove them (I doubt it).
Choices come with consequences. That’s life. No point in complaining about the consequences after the fact.
100% in the majority/minority that doesn't like tattoos.
I am not sexually attracted to tattooed women so what would be the point going more than, Occasional Relief.
I pray that you fall in love with a woman who secretly has tons of tattoos under her clothes that you don't find until the wedding night. I bless you with that. So mote it be.
@@dianeaishamonday9125 I would be stupid if I marry a girl that has been so covered up in each of our encounters that I never notice something so blatantly obvious as Tattoos.
Unless you think marriage is not that special and people just fall into marriages willy-nilly so much so that you think something like this could go unnoticed.
You know what, ok.
If I marry a girl with tattoos and I dont find out till I am married to her -- I am the idiot there and I deserve all of it -- because I married a Deceitful Bitch that lacks Long-term Judgement, which makes for the worst kind of Mother.
@@dianeaishamonday9125 Why?? What does he say that bothers you? You women are used for pump and dump and that's it. You've made yourself a concubine, deal with it! And who the fuck 'falls in love' with a woman without sex before the wedding night in 2022???
I've got a boat for her. It's called Titanic.
And it’s going down !
What a disgusting comment 🤮
Tattoos on a woman remind me of the 'Place Trash Here' sign on a dumpster.
People don't generally lead with their baggage; it's hard to figure out when to tell people what you've been through. Not trying to dig at her for dismissing him, I just understand how hard it can be properly judge when to tell someone about issues you have/are facing.
Hopefully she finds someone good for her.
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahaha
At the 7:05 mark, it says watch the full video here, with an arrow. There's no linked video. Where is the full video from this interview?
zero sympathy at this point. Zero.
She's learned how to keep the emotions in check, but there's that underlying sum tin wong with her.
Tattoos are like big bright warning marks on insects and reptiles saying don’t eat me or come near me
I've had a very attractive woman ask me why I don't like tattoos on women... I told her that a tattoo on a beautiful woman , appears to me as vandalism and graffiti on a beautiful sculpture. And a warning sign to men.
Women with tattoos on their neck is a major RED FLAG FOR ME...
I think any tattoo is one too many. And anyone who doesn't believe in family values is going to be difficult to understand the truth of being wholesome.
As born and raised Russian, I brought tattooed outlook with me to America, and came to realization many Americans have same views.
She seems like a pretty sweet lady, honestly. Life is rough sometimes. Them's the breaks!
Cats would be my suggestion. Lots of cats.
@@Xeroph619 Dont know about strong, but she'd better get used to being 'independent'
All women that have tattoos have NO!!! Impulse control & just live the moment.👎
She simply needs a provider. End of story.
I like wearing hats but I don't like wearing them so much I'd have a dozen permanently stuck to my head
lol thx
Tattoos on a girl has always been a deal breaker for me. Just saying.
10 years and she’s in menopause. Horrible long term investment.
Good advice Rich. There's no way, she's going to find the guy she's looking for. I hate tattoos. Natural skin is far more attractive, & beautiful.