IS CHIVALRY REALLY DEAD? (S2, E4)

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  • Опубліковано 30 чер 2021
  • 🚨NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on UA-cam and all streaming platforms‼️
    As always another thought provoking episode! As you all know by now @niceandneatthepodcast is all about the 360 degree development of men and obviously if the fellas are talking MEN, women you should be listening too! Ladies how many times has a guy walked on the inside of the street as you were on the outside or dropped you off and pulled off before you made it inside? The fellas talked chivalry and what it means to them. Come be a fly on the wall for this episode!
    Also check out our new halftime format introducing #DemtheRules 🤣🤣😂
    👉🏾To watch our latest episode “IS CHIVALRY REALLY DEAD?” and subscribe to our channel just hit the link in my bio or search ‘niceandneatthepodcast’ on UA-cam👈🏾
    Drop that 🥃 enjoy!
    Duke Omar.bolden @niceandneatthepodcast

КОМЕНТАРІ • 90

  • @gabriellemm3464
    @gabriellemm3464 3 роки тому +80

    The fact that Duke asked his brothers how they were doing is everything! Check in on people! Check in on men, check in on Black men!👏🏾

  • @jasminelouis2757
    @jasminelouis2757 3 роки тому +79

    I absolutely love how Duke mentioned that chivalry is more about what men want to do & how they want to treat women opposed to women needing men to do certain things.

    • @shaii5274
      @shaii5274 3 роки тому +1

      He lied and you fell for it😂

    • @jasminelouis2757
      @jasminelouis2757 3 роки тому +5

      @@shaii5274 if you truly felt that way then you wouldn’t be watching; also, instead of being a troll & agitating women in the comments, watch a couple more videos. I have no doubt you’ll learn something.

    • @shaii5274
      @shaii5274 3 роки тому

      @@jasminelouis2757 whole time they got posted on Instagram so I came to they channel to see the full vid of the clip that was on social media. So with that being said i came here to see wtf they were on and they ain’t on shit 😂 I said what i said and i ain’t gotta learn shit from these niggas.

    • @shaii5274
      @shaii5274 3 роки тому

      @@jasminelouis2757 also nb agitating you, stop with the weird shit😂 all I did was make a simple comment based on my opinion.

  • @nettahardy7030
    @nettahardy7030 2 роки тому +19

    I CANNOT THANK GOD ENOUGH FOR YALL POSTING THIS CHANNEL!! I’m a single Mom and I be trying so hard to surround my son (age 7) with influencing males. So Instead of putting on music this morning I put this on the radio and OMG!! 😂he was so tuned in!!💜🤍💜 y’all so awesome for this!!

  • @BMEBLIss
    @BMEBLIss 2 роки тому +10

    Chivalry creates a space for a woman to be in her feminine energy! It's nice to hear men still have these standards! The podcast is 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @keelakeelaa
    @keelakeelaa 3 роки тому +30

    I absolutely love how Duke explains what a man is designed to do for women on this earth. Out of the 3 he is definitely the most expressive and more emotionally intelligent when it comes down to women and relationships. I’ve been following him and his black Queen for a while now and I just love the example that their setting as a powerful black couple. Duke should have a separate show alone because his point of view is so sharp and direct. Setting the tone for BLACK COUPLES/BLACK KINGS! #Love 💜

  • @bydarsai
    @bydarsai 3 роки тому +30

    Aside from the great topic i love how you all let each other speak. Love this channel overall.

  • @lct5616
    @lct5616 3 роки тому +18

    I love that Duke explained his definition of chivalry pertaining to someone who is more “delicate” rather than the textbook definition that uses the term “weak” because as he said it’s not that we - i.e., us females - can’t help ourselves, we are just delicate 🥰

  • @lisamonroe5062
    @lisamonroe5062 2 роки тому +11

    I love y’all’s friendship. You all give me hope that real gentlemen are alive and well. Anytime this podcast pops up on my screen, I’m tuning in.

  • @1sparcl31
    @1sparcl31 3 роки тому +9

    I'm here cuz of the shaderoom. Glad I came 😊

  • @Burgundybae91
    @Burgundybae91 3 роки тому +8

    1st time watching GREAT CONVO
    Dating & chivalry is a form of intimacy for me
    Everyday chivalry.... I get a sense of protection

  • @venusmoonrise
    @venusmoonrise Рік тому

    Above all else chivalrous men make women feel safe, which is an indication of a mans ability to provide and protect in a sense (biologically speaking). Favorite podcast!

  • @candacecolette7555
    @candacecolette7555 3 роки тому +11

    I'm in my 30s' , live in the South, & I believe that chivalry is still alive. Growing up with 5 brothers, only female I was taught to allow a man to open the door, etc. Currently if a man is behind me going in the same door regardless of who is his I wait for him to open. The conversations behind me doing that is always positive. Just last week , the kid had to be 6 years old or younger he opened the door for his mom & sisters then waited for me to come in & in response I had to tell him how much I appreciate him doing that! So chivalry is still being taught 😁

    • @ayanomar1408
      @ayanomar1408 3 роки тому +2

      Agree, I grew up with four brothers and a dad who tought us that girls shouldnt be doing heavy lifting at all, mine was old school but he tought us very well about men taking care of thier familia

    • @jr9941
      @jr9941 2 роки тому

      Love when it's taught at a young age! Kudos to that parent/parents! ♥️

  • @arodz24
    @arodz24 3 роки тому +7

    So happy I found this channel 🙏🏽💖 We need more of this!!

  • @toridavos1119
    @toridavos1119 3 роки тому +6

    Millennial men, shoot young men period need more men like this to look up to. Mature men that are kind and respectful. I'm leaving this comment to give each of you your flowers 💐 because as a millennial woman you all are appreciated for putting this perspective out there and practicing it yourselves. Manifesting more like minded ppl (men and woman) like this into my life 🙏🏾❤

  • @lorhondaclayborn548
    @lorhondaclayborn548 3 роки тому +9

    Real talk.... I been ask this question.. it's been plenty of time men had let the door close in front of me and they don't think twice about it . It's been time when I held doors open for men 💯💯.. you really don't see it no more.. i don't think men know how it effect women.. when you can't even hold a door open.. it's hurtful like I'm invisible... Like damn..

  • @KKING123
    @KKING123 2 роки тому +3

    KING DUKE ALWAYS GIVES US ALL WHAT WE NEED..HE IS JUST A KIND COOL KAT

  • @Butterfly-lz6bs
    @Butterfly-lz6bs 3 роки тому +5

    The Entire conversation 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @EmmanFitness
    @EmmanFitness 3 роки тому +6

    I love this type of talk, y’all keep it coming !

  • @RaysHIITWorkouts
    @RaysHIITWorkouts 3 роки тому +3

    Amazing video again gents! Yall give so many great nuggets for men to implement into their own personal traits. And as always i love the halftime segments! looking forward to the next video. #niceandneatthepodcast

  • @nihstmoon3955
    @nihstmoon3955 Рік тому

    You fellas have impacted my lifes perspective greatly My favorite podcast, I learn so much from yall mane, Preciate ya! ive watched countless eps!

  • @kimbruno7519
    @kimbruno7519 2 роки тому +1

    Dukes explaining his interpretation of the word was magical! 👌🏽

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 Рік тому

    That intro hit like it’s new EVERYTIME

  • @Ecookie2023
    @Ecookie2023 3 роки тому +5

    We are here for this! 💕💕

  • @TRIPLEMLUXE
    @TRIPLEMLUXE 2 роки тому

    These are real men that more men should be listening to these days. Thank you for sharing & great conversation fellas

  • @je39981
    @je39981 3 роки тому +1

    This was a great talk, seriously. My Dad is a main example for me, and that is why I admire all men who respects all women. I see on Twitter some women say they like their man nice to them and mean to others. A man who stands his ground and is a sweetheart is nice to see. Growing up I always noticed my Dad was a gentlemen and very pleasant. He's not selective with who he wants to be a gentlemen towards. When we go to the store to pick up an item, and there is a woman approaching the door the same time as us -- he'll hold the door to let her go through and direct me to walk in front of him as he holds the door for me as well.

  • @graceisibor1392
    @graceisibor1392 3 роки тому +4

    Duke is so wise 😭😭😭

  • @jr9941
    @jr9941 2 роки тому

    Loved that these guys have these open conversations that is hopefully improving their relationships. ♥️

  • @kadieshawilliams9012
    @kadieshawilliams9012 3 роки тому +3

    I love the conversation❤️ I wish I could have called in🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Tasha90802
    @Tasha90802 3 роки тому +1

    I knew today was going to be a good day, new video 👌🏾

  • @justwaylaa
    @justwaylaa 3 роки тому +1

    I love y’all’s conversation and ability to articulate yourselves. Can y’all talk about the effects of fathers not being in their sons’ lives and how that affects relationships ?

  • @lisatorres4100
    @lisatorres4100 3 роки тому +2

    I love listening to you guys I'm taking notes

  • @jasminelouis2757
    @jasminelouis2757 3 роки тому +1

    Duke dropped gems this week! 👏🏽 Also, Bereolaesque is dope, read it my sophomore year in college. Definitely going to dig it back up & reread. Loved this weeks episode

  • @TheChinadoll010
    @TheChinadoll010 3 роки тому +4

    Please talk about the red pill movement and gender war
    I love the chemistry between you three it’s so pleasant to watch!

  • @TheDarkestEdge
    @TheDarkestEdge 3 роки тому +6

    This gonna be a good one 👌🏿

  • @StaySaneify
    @StaySaneify 3 роки тому

    Great job guys. Enjoyed it 🥃

  • @nicolecharley238
    @nicolecharley238 2 роки тому +1

    This was really refreshing to hear.

  • @jazminerenee4077
    @jazminerenee4077 3 роки тому +2

    I love this conversation 🤍❤️

  • @crystalrubbie9383
    @crystalrubbie9383 3 роки тому +2

    46:35 yo that was 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂

  • @MiszGreatBritain
    @MiszGreatBritain 3 роки тому +1

    The music intro is always going to be lit 🔥👌🏾

  • @cwy685
    @cwy685 Рік тому

    Omar's hair??? COME ON NOW 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @kloeebogany379
    @kloeebogany379 3 роки тому +3

    Dropping gems

  • @melakuhawkins1354
    @melakuhawkins1354 3 роки тому +4

    One should be chivalrous because it's the right thing to do and not for the recognition. If you do it for purely for the recognition then it takes out the purity of the deed.

  • @mariamakoroma7097
    @mariamakoroma7097 2 роки тому +1

    I love everything they said, but also don’t forget to do all these things throughout the relationship. Do not introduce someone to something you know you can’t upkeep.

  • @missnaty7754
    @missnaty7754 3 роки тому +1

    I stumble on your channel great content. Couldn't agree more chivalry is about how you present yourself to the world it's not about woman, its a fine line to balance while keeping your masculine frame especially when dealing with poor female behavior its harder than it looks !

  • @belledelemos9615
    @belledelemos9615 3 роки тому

    another great episode

  • @jr9941
    @jr9941 2 роки тому

    Yes, chilvarly is learned and taught! And it's the baseline of your character. Facts!

  • @najaerogerd309
    @najaerogerd309 3 роки тому

    I love this

  • @ashleylorenjo
    @ashleylorenjo 3 роки тому +3

    Yes I love to be courted and I enjoy it.

  • @frankmonney1784
    @frankmonney1784 2 роки тому +1

    This was a good episode. I do wanna add one thing however, it feels as though you all read the definition of chivalry, but all the perspectives that were brought up by all 3 of them were a bit unilateral. Women can be chivalrous as well, to another woman or to another man. Chivalry stems from a place of respect I believe, cuz regardless of whether or not you are romantically interested in a person, respect and common decency would want you to hold the door open for whoever comes after you etc. Great episode as always.

  • @Femininewifeschool
    @Femininewifeschool Рік тому

    Who raised these men. Deserve awards ❤❤❤

  • @marialegrand89
    @marialegrand89 3 роки тому +1

    On my first time looking at you videos in curious .

  • @kimbruno7519
    @kimbruno7519 2 роки тому +1

    THIS THE OOOONNNNEEEE 😭

  • @taylorwilliams4208
    @taylorwilliams4208 3 роки тому +1

    Yes, to ALL woman. Not just women you're attracted to.

  • @kdarkwa06
    @kdarkwa06 3 роки тому +7

    couldn’t catch the title of book you suggested, what’s it called again?

    • @marciagarcia1332
      @marciagarcia1332 2 роки тому

      Bereolaesque: The Contemporary Gentleman & Etiquette Book for the Urban Sophisticate
      Book by Enitan O. Bereola

  • @foreignbaby2878
    @foreignbaby2878 3 роки тому

    Duke speak facts 🤎🤎🤎

  • @navaishacox2873
    @navaishacox2873 2 роки тому

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @jazminerenee4077
    @jazminerenee4077 3 роки тому +5

    This dude I’m talking to doesn’t like the “stereotype” of being chivalry.
    I’m starting to think he’s broke , selfish or he may be ignorant to chivalry!

    • @AMANIKAI
      @AMANIKAI 3 роки тому +3

      Leave that man in the dust. If he wants to do better he would. But you can do better! 💕

  • @DestinationDionna
    @DestinationDionna 2 роки тому +2

    Men who have money usually like to spend it....I don't think tricking exists....only generous men and stingy 😂

  • @fdsrenders7962
    @fdsrenders7962 3 роки тому

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @nks4822
    @nks4822 3 роки тому +2

    Y’all should give your thoughts on the Red Pill movement and the “gender wars” going on

  • @treljaky
    @treljaky 2 роки тому +1

    What was the name of the book again?

    • @journeywithdickens7117
      @journeywithdickens7117 2 роки тому

      I’m waiting on the same answer bro. I’ve tried spelling it every way I can and still get it to come up.

  • @giovannarodney
    @giovannarodney 3 роки тому +3

    I think y’all needed single men on this topic to join

  • @zoasta2459
    @zoasta2459 3 роки тому +1

    So what about the “Nice Guy” what’s the difference between that type of male than a chivalrous one

  • @hannahkituku6732
    @hannahkituku6732 3 роки тому

    Does anyone know the name of intro song ?

  • @macdaddy11c32
    @macdaddy11c32 3 роки тому

    Is this S2:E4 or E4:S2?

  • @journeywithdickens7117
    @journeywithdickens7117 2 роки тому

    I don’t even know how to spell the book title nor the author’s name. Can someone type the name of the book please?

  • @zackillks4898
    @zackillks4898 3 роки тому +2

    Can you guys speak on red pill vs blue pill and how we should receive that kind of information as a young man

    • @shaii5274
      @shaii5274 3 роки тому +3

      You looking at the wrong niggas to get answers from 😂 fw fresh and fit. You won’t be disappointed

    • @officiallydreama4412
      @officiallydreama4412 3 роки тому +1

      I rather they have fresh and fit in the room with them or MTR

  • @dwestv3924
    @dwestv3924 3 роки тому

    Whats the name of their intro song?

  • @Blush210
    @Blush210 Рік тому

    Chivalry is dead because men choose not to be anymore. Lol blaming women and everything else like time but men choose not to be because women are more independent.

    • @Blush210
      @Blush210 Рік тому

      In the begginjng you said that chivalry is not about needing men to do those things it’s reserved for men who want to pride themselves on that. So as women do what we are supposed too men are choosing to back down.

  • @shaii5274
    @shaii5274 3 роки тому

    Bro y’all talk way too much bs for me.