The Spiritual Vampire - How To Eradicate A Narcissist’s Energy From You For Good
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- Опубліковано 13 жов 2024
- Narcissists are spiritual vampires and narcissistic abuse is a spiritual phenomenon and a psychic disease.
If you’ve ever felt like you’ve had a psychic hose in you, sucking out your Life Force then today’s Thriver TV episode is for you - even if you have no contact with them now.
I’m going to explain what spiritual vampire energy is, how you can rise beyond it and live free from it forever.
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I adore your chill kitty who is assisting you by her presence. What a love! Thank you for this excellent segment...perfect timing, and I am grateful.
@Leslie Much love to you, and Oscar, who is alive and playing on the other side of the veil...So hard to physically lose a beloved companion.
Superstar cat!
kitty showing cute butt..im offended :-)
I also love kitty-kat to pieces. 'She' or 'he' is too, too darlin' for words.
This is THE best video! In 2015 when I went searching for answers I never would have believed it was never about what they were doing to me but rather what I was allowing them to do. My God I never knew I had the power to walk away, to respond vs react and to shutty shutty.
Narcissistic parents strip you of any belief that one has the right to an opinion or a preference or a choice or the ability to say no or to stand up for oneself.
These types of families rule with fear wielding an undercurrent of threats to disown and abandon all in order to secure compliance from their children at all times. Children of narcissistic families grow up being paralyzed and compliant to the emotions of toxic, demanding, controlling and abusive people.
That’s where we learned all our skills to people please and to read people’s moods and to know how to avert a rage brought on by alcohol or drugs. None of that even matters anymore once you come out of this type of abuse because you can see everything so clearly.
Anyone can heal and now spot these people a mile away almost within the first day or so of meeting someone. Pay attention to how they text message, how often and what they say. Do they respect your boundaries if you aren’t able to respond right away, how do they react....Do they ignore your text messages after reaching out to you with a question? Do they ignore your response? Do they trash other people and say negative things with a smile on their face when they first meet you such as “oh I think so-and-so wears a wig” or “so and so is was broke, but don’t say anything?” The preface of “don’t say anything” is always a deal break. Gossiping about another person and their private struggles is so to toxic and yet so many families do this! They trash and humiliate their own family members and have no concern for the effect that has on their little 2 or 3 or 4 or 10 year old child. So guess what, little Johnny grows up and does the same thing.
The signs are so obvious now it’s incredible. And we always had the power to walk away from these people but these people were family and separating from family meant death so no wonder so many can’t go no contact without feeling as if they are dying.
Because we grew up with people like this we thought it was normal to behave this way so all we learned how to do was just survive it and navigate around this behavior. Now we can be free to stand and act for ourselves and our own feelings and sever ties and never look back.
The world is a magical place with so much beauty. I feel so sad for these n’s who cling to the darkness afraid of the light. We have a choice. The choices they stripped from us when we were little we can take them back. 🌈♥️❤️🕊
Perfectly said
Watch Sam vaknin to truly understand narcissists he will blow your mind
Very true....
I love narcissists, although there are none in my private life, there are plenty at work. Each of them teaches me something about me and there is one who seems my own ego made flesh, same thoghts, same feelings, same fears, same solutions, same addictions, it really seems to see myself on the mirror.. The only difference is that he displays all these things openly while I do not as I know that these things are not me, but responses to my gaps. More than evil beings I see them as teachers. From my perspective narcissists are needed to wake people up. Without narcissists in my life I would have never ever been the person I am today. The hard part are lessons: unforgiving, restless and always at work.
how do you feel about rapist?
@@narcissistinjurygiver2932 I disagree with this guy narcissist ruin your whole life cause they evil
@@SA-px3ln i think this "guy" is on some deel lvl and has managed to look at it in a different perspective
Insights. Good job dude. I think there's a lot of truth to this perspective, and the way I see it, even if it's not, framing it that way puts you back in power and the root of all trauma is loss of power. All thoughts are constructs anyway so why not use a construct that creates healing and empowers you vrs one that keeps you a victim. I do think it's true though.
But I think you have to reach a certain point in your healing journey and growth to embrace it this way. It's a tool and you must be strong enough to use it before it does you any good. And good on you buddy, I think with your attitude you are a force, bringing in the light and healing.
Bruh you don't love them this is trauma bonding this is why god allows narcissistic abuse on people so that you know you are not like them and it will show you that how good you are i do not wish this on you that's why i am saying do not empathize with them it would be better if you act like they do not exist. Give yourself validation you are good enough. I am telling this coz i have trauma bonded with narcissist thinking how bad their life is and thinking i could heal them thinking this would give them an opening to come and abuse you.
We're taught by society to deal with the symptoms, overlooking the root cause. I'm so glad more and more people are waking up to the truth, in part thanks to you, Melanie! You can't take yourself out of misery but you can take misery out of yourself.
Be very aware that, according to God: there are enemies (the devil) "roaming about like lions, seeking those whom they can destroy and devour." And "the enemy/thief (satan) comes to steal, kill, and destroy...but I (Jesus) came so you can live your life to the fullest, til it overflows". I will take His word over any person's any time.
Where does it say that in the Bible? Please book verses. Thx
@@scarletsummer3526 1 Peter 5:8 and John 10:10
I do believe this and that the message in this video does align with the Bible as well. It is the truth and the truth will set us free.
@@kerripotkonen4300 I wasn't saying anything against NARP in and of itself. It does help. Melanie is beautiful. I do caution against saying that demons don't exist. That goes completely against what Jesus taught and did and died for. It's very dangerous territory, that. When I do the program I always call upon Jesus to guide me through it. Don't forget that "Higher Power has a Name" and He isn't a 'what' He is a 'Who (m)'.
his name is xxxxxxx and asley palmer he and hid adocates are from jamiaca who feel they are a terrrist ogranization to get revenge on slavery . persons hwo think they world has to cater to them and to abus eand go out and beat others down who dont conform to the program. if you read about jezzibelle on bible is the female version of satan. and this ex person in my ife is sick person who goes around getting others to abuse and hate and kill and is trouble person dealing with his issues in sick manner. i escape a family of same and this sister is the jezzibelle and iw as the one who see through it. s they tear me up and others let them who should have preserve and protect because is aw through them to.
Everybody has trauma. Narcissist use their trauma to hurt and destroy others. That's just pure evil. Remember how they drew you in? "Feel sorry for me!" That's not trauma, that's Manipulation!!!
Melanie, honestly I think you deserve a Nobel Prize for all your discoveries and insights 💙💙
wow how spot on. I've never spoken to other people of the life experiences I've had with narcissists but you have described what I have endured for most of my life. Its like i seemed to attract them into my life. They convinced me they were the answer to my problems ,my savior from my troubles, but what they offered was not Gods best.
After trying spiritual bypassing, law of attraction, and support groups which made me so very sad, I felt so powerless in the group. I could not talk about being a victim & feel powerful. I thought there was something wrong with me. I felt more isolated & separate than I had before. I absolutely started to fear all support groups. I was looking to continue feeling connected and empowered within a supportive community that shared a similar experience. I already knew each one of us had value & a purpose. It scared me to be in a group that was for survivors, I saw as alive yet not living. I hated what I saw. It was what I feared the most. At that point I slowly turned away from being a "baby" thriver. It seemed like a flashback that catapulted me like a boomerang backwards. I felt unsafe, alone, unempowered. My daughter was in ICU at the time & I was searching for connection. It was a very vulnerable time for me. Like a car that was in Neutral starting to slowly roll down the mountain, eventually picking up momentum, unable to stop, until I hit the bottom, I found myself isolated, afraid, alone, and a shell of who I was. I lost my sense of self. Iike a shark smelling blood in the water, it baffled me how the narcassists radar spotted this as an opportunity to capitalize. I found myself in a place i never thought I'd be. I lost everything of value to me, most importantly I lost myself. I feel blessed to have found this program that resonates to the core of my being. I'm so lucky to be alive and able to feel the connection with myself and others. Walking in the truth that we are all one. Pain is what separates us from life force. This truth is so often hard to see. We create our own realities and you're program so eloquently teaches this. Providing us with the tools necessary to create an absolutely wonderful, amazing life with no fear, a figment of my imagination. You are a blessing. Thank you for acknowledging all of us. Love & gratitude for your beautiful soul 💟
PS. I was that woman who was on Welfare, once married to a millionaire, homeless, lost all valuable belongings, and my 4 children. I was that woman diagnosed with a chronic and debilitating diseases of my bone marrow, alone in the hospital, who's life seemed easier to end than to live. I realized it wasn't because of the life I was living, it was that I was not living life. I know without a doubt, there is a beautiful life waiting for each of us to experience no matter how impossible the hurdles may seem. It's never to late, Thank you Mel 💟
Hi! I was hoping I could speak with u about your experience!
Tell me about it. Vampires were modeled after Malignant Narcissists. In fact, Vlad the Impaler (Dracul) was a sadistic narcissist. Slay your Vampire.
I love your take Melanie.
The ultimate malignant narcissist is satan. He's the original vampire.
I do believe in evil because the Bible says so...But I also agree with YOU that is our own responsibility to heal our traumas and become a whole self. If we take responsibility ( as you teach) and do the inner work, as you always say, we can become less vulnerable to the evil forces. :)
Daniela SOS Thank you for sharing ❤️ I agree.
The scripture says God dwells in us..so yes we can heal ourselves if we look inward to the God in all of us..
We will know the truth and it will set us free. When we have the false self it is like a false god and the narc definitely has given up their own soul to gain access to the knowledge of good and evil. We loose our connection through this false self.
100%
I am a powerful quantum creator, and fully responsible and taking ownership of my life.
Jesus speaks
This cat is unbelievable 😂😅
Cute!
My black cat Ices used to come and lay on me if he yelled. I always went into my own bedroom to walk away. Cats are so awesome!
I love cats 🐱
I swear it felt like that cat was teaching me something
That cat is a narcissist.
Learning my part in all the trauma in my life has helped me to change my life for the better.
When I look back at all the effort and time those in my life put into doing all they could think of to keep me stuck in those negative beliefs I had grown up with about myself, I realize how amazingly powerful I am to have left all of them behind and to have moved on.
The extent of all this effort to keep me stuck tells me that I am a powerful creator and I am excited about the future.
Thank you for this video.
The cat is making me smile.❤
Thank you for the message, here.🌷
You are so right about light vs absence of light. And about the quantum needs. I am 215 days no contact today and I am not attracting narcs much anymore. But I had to evaluate myself this whole time. Recovery takes a long time. I’m sure that I’m not done yet.
I started talking about it on UA-cam myself and this became very cathartic!!
I know I am connected to everything, even then the narc. I’m okay with this reality. Someone greater is in control, our Grand Creator. I am grateful. Thank you for all that you do!❤️
Are you saying all things dont have an opposite. God is real. Jesus is the light of the world. Follow love not evil those people that choose narcissism
I believe I am a quantam creator beyond measure and can do all things through the most high God that strengthens me.
'I am a powerful quantum creator beyond measure" I have put these words on my vision board. You are definitely like an angel of light. You are well knowledgeable, deep, and able to provide answers that are not easy to find or understand.
Your kneeling to CHRIST JESUS RIGHT NOW AS ARE THE REST OF U CLOWNS..U WILL THANK MR LATER..JESUS WILL SENT
Hi Melanie, I also live in Melbourne Australia, what you said here it's so true, Very spiritual aligned, full of wisdom and maturity, I admire you, your courage, and want to give u a hands up for your effort to educate the General public throu your philosophy and your invaluable lessons from your personal experience. I certainly learnt so much from your Videos I just want to say thank you so much
I am a 54 years old, taiwanese guy who lives in Melbourne for the last 13 years, for the last 12 years I have been with a narcissist guy, he's Aussie, a little bit younger than me, the last two years he gave me the pain of the pain of my life that I had never experienced like to this extent until now, it was like my battle with a real devil and I'm still in it, it hasn't finished yet, it is still going on as I speak.
Watching your videos gave me so much courage, and skills I can learn and apply through your teaching in my real life every day war with him. I think you probably save my life practically speaking I'm in tears sometimes full of appreciation towards you because I can watch many of ur videos if I want to feel energised or come up with a strategy to deal with him when he throw me a nuclear bomb.
Without your videos I probably would still be very hurt angry and confused, but instead I started to feel so much stronger and actually have hope knowing that I will get out alive, and I am not gonna let him destroy me, no fucking way!
So thank you again, you truely have helped another person who is in real life danger trying to fight with a Real evil and I think I will survive, wish me luck!
Lets all learn to stay away from vampires and wrong town!!!!😎😎😎💜
I AM A POWERFUL QUANTUM CREATOR! Deep gratitude dear sister of light..I would like to add that I do understand the metaphysical higher aspects of why we have attracted narcissists in our life..I chose to incarnate into a very dysfunctional family of origin to clear transmute and end trans-genererational trauma thru the linege. ..as a spiritual teacher and Rekik master I must also add that I have witnessed and felt negative entities and paracitic energetics running thru the family as an HSP and empath..it was tangible and I do believe that the narcissist thru their own unresolved traumas have unconsciously opened the doors to be a host for them..I had to go no contact with my entire family over a year ago..the final straw after a years of dysfunction snd alcoholism abuse was when on Christmas day my 91 year old dementia ridden mother looked at me with so much evil up and down as if I was was garbage on the ground..in fact every visit to this point..once the entity' she is hosting recognised my light. She/ it would literally snarl at me...this is my truth...I am getting stronger daily in another country and finding my peace...forgotten wellness is returning to my exhausted soul..all angelic soulls are a magnet for sick souls..all I have done is love everyone and the abuse and rejection from friends to family has been shocking and devastating on all levels..they certainly made me turn to the inside....I have since joined your Gold NARP and will resume when I feel ready ..just been trying to pick up my shattered heart....may ALL beings be healed and blessed with light..much love to you and lovely Tiggy. .💜
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Thank you, again, for the insight and reminder to stay the course. There is no cure for narcissism, only extraction for the narc's victim.
Some Narcs are addicted Negative frequencies waves Positive frequencies waves does nothing for them it doesn't excite thier frequencies in other words the Sparks from thier Negative wires constantly give them some kind of excitement ...when the waves or calm no good for them but when the waves or out of control with Sparks they Love it ...they eat off that do not disturb them please !!
I get it yup
Hello, Melanie! This video was EXACTLY what I needed right now...Thank you for that...My flatmate is a narcissist ( I think) and whenever she is physically near me, I feel nervous, anxious, bad, empty and alone, even if she is saying positive things...Btw recently we hugged each other and I felt an extreme negative energy in the hug...And her very presence, even if smiling and complimenting me or offering me food or whatever makes me feel extremely bad...Is this usual like this when we are physically near a narcissist?Thank you!
I had a similar situation with a cousin... He would visit me at least 2 times a month...he would bring cigarettes and beer...watch movies.... when he left I would feel tired and achy... I didn't want to jump to a wrong conclusion....so I did some research on energy vampires...and came across a video....Reiki healing...how to stop energy vampires from taking your energy....so last week I played this video so he could hear it....he became drowsy and silent.... usually he's very talkative.... then he said he was getting sleepy and was ready to go.....as he was leaving he became confused and started mumbling and just left....and he hasn't called or texted me... which is unusual.... Now he knows I know he's a energy vampire... I hope he's gone forever....try it on your flatmate....see what happens.... protect your energy at all cost... Love and Light💕💗💖💕💟💖💗💕💟💗💖
Our body KNOWS Daniela, yes it is common xoxo
Yes I get extremely anxious and nauseas around those with NPD and others that go on to commit violent crimes in their life. Vibes do not lie
I really appreciate your commentary and terminology on this. Especially the “Soul vandalism, psychic disease, nervous system poison…” that’s exactly the kinda of ways I’ve been describing it as well.
Making videos on this sort of thing is new for me but, I see and understand it all from that more… unconventional perspective.
Glad to have come upon your channel.
Thank you for your work and all the best,
-V
I am out (x2.75 yrs) of the enmeshment I was in.
Much much better, but still healing.
What I did (to catch up and get back to work) was take a job with extremely high demands.
I would like to change this so I may concentrate on healing and living.
I’m looking to change my current job to something less stressful so I may thrive again.
I like working, but recognize I do not need validation from this outside source.
Taking one significant step at a time.
Carol, I'd love to invite you to my masterclass www.melanietoniaevans.com/masterclass This will explain so much to you! xoxo
Melanie Tonia Evans
Thank you Melanie!
This message is actually quite biblical, in that, God can be glorified in any situation.... Just as Melanie says this is not happening TO us but FOR us.... "All things work together for GOOD to those that love God...." Thx Melanie for your teachings. I can honestly say that I have had serious break through listening to your videos over and over again and again.... You're a God send! However you want to take that 😘
"This is happening FOR me" Yes! Yes! Yes! I have been thinking of something along these lines recently. My Buddhist practice compels me already to take responsibility for my life difficulties. It wasn’t an immediate realization but when it happened my power systems were suddenly rebooted. I’m grateful for these healings you are sharing. Thank you, Melanie Tonia!💖
Shit mang, I feel this. The constant criticism and devaluing has serious after effects.
Since the covid lockdowns i have encountered several energy vampires and they have been showing their true colours
Absolutely agree with this 100% So awesome to hear this from you. Love you for posting this. Thank you
Ahhhh, the poetic justice here! Throughout a 26 yrs relationship, everytime problems arose it was me, my fault, my alcoholism, my Trauma, my sickness, so I've been through therapy, treatment and 20 years of recovery. I am Healed enough to know it's never going to change and I told him that. Well now he's in therapy, and I'm preparing for departure. I love you Sister, thank you 💖🦋 I am Pure Love Frequency 💕 I'm starting to get more excited than afraid
The Narcissist has the choice to stay in that instead of working on one's self. We as the survivor has the same Responsibility to work on ourself for the Narcissist has no power over us anymore. When they see you taking care of yourself they will make you leave or be forced to look at self and they're not willing to do That!! Forgotten TEARS, TO (JOYFUL TEARS, BOUNTIFULLY BLESSED, COMPASSIONATELY CARES.)🙏🔥👑🥀🌹🌷💐💕
This is beautiful. Thank you ❤️ It feels true. It explains so much that I have always felt. And it is so cathartic to embrace this life lesson that helps us onto our true path. I no longer feel like just a victim. In its place is so much love. 💕
In my personal notes, I put an edit in brackets to something she said towards the end. As you heal yourself from the inside-out... Narcissists "leave your experience, and they have to go [give someone else the Nauthiz opportunity to] smash someone ELSE'S separation beliefs." She said they smash separation beliefs, but my experience is that they amplify and catalyze and plant that very dis-ease. They are saturated in the belief, how can they be outside to smash it?
Recognition of my empowerment, my autonomy in the process is why the edit, though. I sought and found steps to healing in order to escape narcissists [and their influence/legacy... the trauma symptoms]. To understand what was happening to me and WHY. My choices.
The way I touched Oneness was first I *needed* someone to teach me how to love myself in behavior, not just a feeling to an idea and empty lip service. To consider and listen to mySELF. (What are your needs, how exactly do you like them filled? How do they shift as one is filled and the others more empty? Take care of you like a parent and guardian, every day. What are your boundaries? Show up for yourself. Express your feelings, know what they are, name them. Look at and feel them regularly, multiple times a day.) To teach me how to earn my own trust, HOW to live inside-out. To point out that authenticity as awareness and expression of easy and hard feelings is not just a privilege, it is discernment for conserving LIFE, a survival system as vital as connection. The whole tamale that will be difficult to digest is the best part of me, the energy that real relationships are built on, not a natural disaster that destroys them. Narcissists could not do that, they don't have it to share. My healing is uncomfortable and frightening labor, it is mine. This recognizing, transmuting, and unplugging my conduit of Source Creativity is not a guaranteed, automatic reaction that is all thanks to the mean persons/forces/situation that warped fates and squandered potential. Äppelknyckarjazz.
According to the theme of one-ness, maybe I'm only half way there. ;) "NO" is complimentary to expression of self (great for genuine relating) and forming authentic, comfortable "YES", though. 'No' to others can be 'Yes' to yourself. I need the credit for my part, so boom. It bothered me enough to post about, curious what was triggered; and I like the little love-letter I eventually wrote about how proud of myself I am.
Maybe the constant motion of love, in it's big ocean current ways, smashes hard brittle lies that hurt. "You can tap into self-love or die (with the lie)" is a hard vice to be in if you've been shaped to shun yourself in order to survive. Bud Lightyear meme about narcissism. Moment of silence for all the kids out there.
Melanie Thank you 💎
I'm so much stronger today and wiser 💗
your book and videos have been my bestfriend through my journey.
blessings to you Melanie have a beautiful day and night.👋🏾🥰😁
Awwww! What a beautiful cat! 😻 Thanks for your videos ❤️
14:52 I see that narcissists are, in their own way, codependents themselves.
yes! absolutely. They suffer so greatly and even though they are so selfish I can't help but empathize with their suffering as creatures and children of God. I always want to bring them healing, and tragically you just can't. And if you could it would only be at the cost of your own. SOOO sad!
@@mirzamay love mankind, but hate the sins. And nothing beats moving on from toxicity-that’s honoring both people when it’s not MUTUAL.
Fantastic resonant video Melanie, I agree with everything you said and it is an important perspective as it helps you step out of victimhood. Thank you so much!
Very interesting, well explained...wasn't expecting it tbh...fair play, props to you...subbed
This video made me cry so much, you described everything perfectly. I’m ready to heal! Coming from a family of narcissists. God is good all the time! Jesus loves you, for whoever is reading this ❤ we’re gonna make it!!
I’m ready to be the happy bubbly person I was again
Wow, Mel you are absolute angel. You have confirmed what o always deeply knew but had a difficulties to tap into it. Lots of love Melanie ❤️🥰
Awe I'm really clear on this. Your clarity is remarkable but. Looking at the other comments it blew past most listeners. A good lesson for us who offer lessons. Maybe go to other photos that are of peon struggling, or have found peace within. It will keep the listener focused. I'm going to listen again I was not expecting such amazing content. Wow Melanie. Thank you
I had a scowl on my face when you started this vid. All set to stomp out of this room. Thank goodness I listened through. Your insight is marvelous, Melanie. This presentation was marvelous. I went from sitting on a stump to standing on a mountaintop. Thank you.
I'm so glad you were able to stick it out Nick. Love and blessings xoxox
I was the scapegoat youngest daughter of narcissistic family and I look like the oldest....how can I get back my inner light... somehow they projected their health issues on me... I was never overweight now I am.... I have more grey hair than usual...my joints ache alot now....will I ever get back to myself again... I went No Contact 3 years and haven't looked back..
any suggestions would be greatly appreciated... Love and Light💕💗💖💟💓💖💗💕💕💗💕💗
Tammy Timothy I have found some medicinal healing with Cbd oil. So expensive and I can’t always afford it but it’s like an antidepressant and helps me w/joint pain, anxiety, etc! Like I’ll have enough energy to actually get out and exercise or do something positive!
Tammy, Carol, please come into my masterclass www.melanietoniaevans.com/masterclass This is a BIG conversation, and I explain exactly how to heal from what you are going through xoxox
@@MelanieToniaEvans Thank you so much.. Love and Light💕💗💕💕💗💕
@@anamariaalicialisboaquid5549 That's the thing, I eat really healthy anyway... I have a thyroid disorder so I have to eat a certain way....good oils , salmon, organic chicken, no red meat ...lots of veggies and fruits,. drink tons of water... I felt my life force leaving my body when I lived with my mom...about 3 years ago...her and my 2 evil stepsisters were constantly putting me down,. turned everyone against me... I know for a fact they practice witchcraft... I know it sounds bizarre ....it's like the Bible says in reverse...2 or more praying and a miracle can happen...2 or more praying for destruction can happen too....they wish death on me for God's sake.....my mom died last summer...and believe or not my health improved....a bit...they hated me since birth.... Thanks for your interest... Love and Light💗💟💓💖💕💕💗💕💗
systemic enzymes, trace minerals, fasting, organic healthy diet of choice, low dairy keto perhaps for a time
Lots of comments about your cat. Does make hearing you easier. Good stuff
And for me quite timely because I am an EMDR therapy and have a session tomorrow due to quite a bit of narcissistic abuse from my brother and mixed abuse for my parents. The thing is that sometimes one family member is scapegoated and gaslighted and so they have to do all of the work. And the rest of the family continues to demonize and ostracize.
I am a born again Christian with a biblical view of evil and narcissistic abuse. I was only able to break the patterns of victimization when I realized what was going on, both in the mind of the narcissist and in my own programming that set me up for the vampire fuel.
I disagree, the "religious" perspective does not discount the need to self evaluate and take responsibility. It's the opposite. Jesus taught that we need to be set free from the power of sin and evil in our own lives, and that by birthright we are sinners and in rebellion to God by nature. The Adam and Eve story is the truth. We are fallen creatures in need of being reconciled back to God. It's not done by denial and hiding in self empowerment, it's being set free through a new life set free in Christ.
We are in a spiritual war: with our own fallen flesh and selfish gratification centered soul, with the world and it's fallen system, and with Satan and his demons who inhabit and currently operate to decieve and control people. When we operate in sin, we are operating in our natural self. Apart from being born again and having Christ live in us, giving us a new life, breathing his spirit into us. . . .we are blind and in bondage to sin. The devil just gives us what we want and we are happy with that. We enjoy the same drives that drove him. . .elevation of self, selfishness, control, rebellious demanding to live independent of God. Money, lust, ego, self gratification, happiness our way, refusal to accept any rules or the concept of sin, . .. all come natural to the natural man. That's why Jesus told Nicodemus the high level religious ruler, "you must be born again." We aren't saved by knowledge, or enlightenment, or religion, or morals, or any behavior change. . . "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Everyone needs a savior. You will one day stand before God the Father and have to give account for what you decided here on this earth. You will either plead guilty, or the blood of Jesus. There's not other option. Many religious "christians" will be cast into hell, because they will have not believed in Jesus, the true Jesus, and instead they will buy into religion and a do gooder facade. Many will say, Lord Lord, we did this in your name and that in your name and we were so good. . . and Jesus will say, "I never knew you." depart from me you evil doers.
We are in a spiritual war. Ephesians 6:12, NIV: "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." If you read the gospels, according to Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, . . . you will see Jesus ministry casting out demons from beginning to end. People can be hosts to demonic beings, referred to as unclean spirits, or demons. Most Christians believe they are fallen angels. But, there is no question that Jesus (as recorded in scripture) constantly dealt with these evil beings and cast them out of people, healing them of the demonic controls that bound their life. In the last days, the bible teaches that men's hearts will grow cold and wickedness will increase, spiritual darkness will be the norm, and demons will drive people to behave and do Satan's bidding. Basically, to kill, steal, and destroy peoples lives. Satan operates as a deciever and is covert, so naturally the army of demons and the many people who are hosts to them operate in the same way. They appear to be loving and kind and work to get on the inside and begin a systemic covert plan to undermine and then progressively destroy the person who is in a relationship with them. It could start with parents who are narcissists and progress through life where the patterns are set (codependence) and identity issues are a set up for ongoing victimization from these demons. The people who are hosts are victims too. Jesus loves people and came to set the captives free, both the oppressed victims and those bound by the spirits that exploit them. The bible has volumes to say on the subject and psychology only tries to label and categorize what is in most cases a spiritual issue. Jesus rose from the dead, he's alive today, and for those who come into the light of truth and realize their desperate need for a savior, the door is open for miraculous healing and victory over these demons and the psychology bindings of our past. This is all important, especially for Christians to understand and wake up to. . . .because if you don't know who your enemy is, and you can't see the enemy operating, then the people being used by the enemy will keep you spun til you no longer see. And then you are trapped because you think your dealing with humans, instead of the truth behind the devastation. Most if not all diabolical narcissists follow the same exact pattern and game plan, - kill steal and destroy. The methods are Satanic and the people they target are people who have love and potential for God's kingdom. Dark and light do not mix, but darkness hates the light. Darkness is organized and intelligent and the beings have concious intent. Demons are persons, not humans, but persons. Fallen creatures soon to be cast into the lake of fire. Satan's army has a hierarchy and structure. Satan can't be credited for it, because the organization was originally designed by God in heaven, . . . Lucifer was cast out of heaven for wanting to take God's place and a third of the angels were cast out with him because of their foolish siding with Lucifer, whom we no know as Satan. Look up Derek Prince on UA-cam, he has some good videos on the subject. Also look up videos about the Jezebel Spirit.
God bless you for speaking your truth people need to hear the truth Only Jesus has the power to save you and give you salvation by Jesus stripes we are healed amen🙏🏻 anyone who calls upon Jesus will be saved God so loved the world he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes Shall not Parrish But have everlasting life 🙏🏻❤️
Matthew 13: 38-43) (The Parable of the Weeds Explained)
The field is the world, and the good seed stands for the people of the kingdom. The weeds are the people of the evil one, and the enemy who sows them is the devil. The harvest is the end of the age, and the harvesters are angels.
“As the weeds are pulled up and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the age. The Son of Man will send out his angels, and they will weed out of his kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. They will throw them into the blazing furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Whoever has ears, let them hear.
(James 3: 13-18) (Two Kinds of Wisdom)
Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual/unspiritual, devilish/demonic. For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
(Matthew 13:15)
For this people's heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.'
So I turned my mind to understand, to investigate and to search out wisdom and the scheme of things and to understand the stupidity of wickedness and the madness of folly.
I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains.
The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare.
But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God- having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy. Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.
A Tree and Its Fruit
“No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.
Well said .. until people grasp this reality they will never heal from narcissistic abuse .. the narcissist was sent to destroy the target because of the love of God that dwells within even if it’s just a seed .. On some level the target must take responsibility for what happened to them .. in my case the narcissist became my god and I entered into a relationship based on lust .. that relationship almost killed me .
I’m a shell of my former self and I believe it was a lesson I needed to have .. I broke the first commandment.., Thou shall have no other gods before me
I lusted … I drank … I was the furtherest away from God I have ever been.. and that was the purpose of the narcissist to take me out, and to keep me from what God had purposed for my life …By his grace I’m still alive and now I will serve only him
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Sometimes when we see the narcissist in our dreams we are really seeing ourselves or a soul fragment that was disconnected due to trauma. We can re-weave that soul fragment back into us but so many practitioners do it wrong and it ends up looking like the place we left it (aka the twin flame thing)
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Your words made me cry tears of truth. Thank you!
I Love Tiggy kitty!! Awesome video Mel~ Thank you! 😸💚😊
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I think my Dad had psychic abilities and was a malignant violent narcissist. He even mentioned that my sister's abusive violent ex boyfriend tried to break her spirit. I was gifted as a toddler and learnt to read and write at a very early age yet I gave up, I think I wanted my Dad's approval and acceptance and remember making a conscious decision to stop reading, I turned away from comics because I associated them with verbal abuse and infantilisation, Dad could not stand talent, creativity, love, autonomy, he liked tears, errors, bloopers, humiliation, and childhood distress.
Plot twist, the cat is a narcissist 😂
Some act like it, ha,ha
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Jesus said you will know the truth and the truth will set you free. Thou shall have no false gods. That is my understanding from the first five minutes of this video. The timing is on point to my emotional need. Thank you again
He is the truth
This is the best video. Beautiful truth…the road to self actualization.
Well discerned Melanie! Let me add that when trauma happens in our young lives or any other time the demons who work in the realm of our minds plant negative thoughts inner brain and if we claim as our thoughts or belief this sets the pattern for more abuse and lies about ourselves. It is imperative that as adults we nurture our loved ones in forgiveness, trust and most especially cover them through spiritual prayer, through the power of the blood of the Sinless Son of God. Jesus Christ, our Saviour and Redeemer.
Matthew 13: 38-43) (The Parable of the Weeds Explained)
The field is the world, and the good seed stands for the people of the kingdom. The weeds are the people of the evil one, and the enemy who sows them is the devil. The harvest is the end of the age, and the harvesters are angels.
“As the weeds are pulled up and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the age. The Son of Man will send out his angels, and they will weed out of his kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. They will throw them into the blazing furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. Whoever has ears, let them hear.
(James 3: 13-18) (Two Kinds of Wisdom)
Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual/unspiritual, devilish/demonic. For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work. But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
(Matthew 13:15)
For this people's heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.'
So I turned my mind to understand, to investigate and to search out wisdom and the scheme of things and to understand the stupidity of wickedness and the madness of folly.
I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains.
The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare.
But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God- having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.
Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy. Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.
A Tree and Its Fruit
“No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.
Thank you very much for this. It was very useful.
Thank you for these Divinely guided, powerful truths! 🙏🏼🤍✨
Melanie, you would love Brian Scott’s UA-cam channel. I know that many people aren’t into spiritual awakening stuff and if so please ignore. I did what Neville Goddard said about mentally arguing with someone, that everyone is you pushed out. I found that it is true. He truly did a 360 change. I was truly in disbelief! I know that you sometimes just need to walk away and I truly would have, I would tell anyone to run away as fast as they can. The ONLY reason that I didn’t was because right after I was married (to a con artist actor narc that fooled me) I was in a motor vehicle accident and was totally down recovering for a few years and could not physically or financially do it. I figured what did I have to loose? He was not nearly as bad as a lot of narcs that I read about, but he still was one. I’d say run not walk away from any narc if you can. I would never put up with that!
He did an 80% turn around in every way, but every few months would flip and yell, it was nothing like before, but I knew that somehow I was making myself feel condemned and in deep meditation I found that was riding myself subconsciously every time I couldn’t do my list in my head from being down from pain. I stopped by thinking how would I treat a friend in pain because of injuries. When I was able to stop, He totally stopped. I was truly in shock that it worked. I found out that -for me- Neville and other new thought authors of the earlier 1900’s that I heard and read were telling the truth about our thoughts, imagination, feeling and self talk creates our reality. I just want to help anyone that I can. I know what narc abuse is like. If anyone is interested check out: The reality Revolution channel on here. I won’t be able to respond to comments. I am still saying leave if you physically can, no one at all should put up with any disrespect.
if there was ONE VIDEO that i should watch over and over to heal from CD or BPD it would be this one...thank you for the truth
Good video and we'll explained. After coming thru it, I agree with what you said, it's true. I've learned so much on the quantum and it's helped heal. It's all within. Thank you😊
I totally agree. You put it very clear. Thank you
Thank you for this explanation. It helps me understand a piece of the puzzle I have been wondering about. I really like the idea of not being on alert and avoiding particular people but rather seeing the bigger picture of each interaction as a chance for learning and growth. I don't believe anyone can be completely written off - change is always possible. But it is not the way forward to tend to the darkness, instead healing the psychic separation in yourself is the way you brighten the light. I am a powerful quantum creator ✨💕
This is so powerful wow wow wow... Think I'll listen to this daily ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Oneness and gratitude Melanie you are so blessed xx
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Wow I have felt and thought all of that. However I am healing fast. Thank uou.
I agree with her, it's the absence of light that cause any ilusonary behavior!
We are perfect in essence but when we birth we forget this truth. We are ignorant of our own perfection and our whole life will be dedicated to Reunification with the source. I love this idea of getting reunited with the source. God or any names you give to it is unaware too of its own perfection, but it contemplates its creation through human being eyes . It makes sense somehow. Kisses everyone
Enlightening perspective! You are a blessing 🙌
Awesome information & encouraging words.
I loved this, its so profound. A few things I've picked up that maybe tie in. Wayne Dyer 'there is no stress in the world, only people thinking stressful thoughts'. Im paraphrasing now but Sadguru ...'its not your situation, its your ability to manage your emotions. You're a bad manager. The notion you're pain is being sent to you, to grow you, and address issues you have internalised even before you were a victim, rings true for me. Embrass
sing the pain to evolve, and understanding its their internal trauma, not yours thats the issue. The vibrational matches that are coming to test and are creating your 3D reality, maybe worth considering also? I guess the spiritual awakening teaches you, your thoughts are the creator of your reality, so essentially we are always being led back to a set point of living and being in spirt. God bless the life that flows through us.
Boy, this is a tough one!! Choosing to believe that my husband is an angel (or is used by an angel..)come to help me see where I need to grow is more empowering and helps me reach the place of compassion and gratitude for these years with him. Helps me to be able to pray for his despicable and suffering soul. If that makes sense.. :)
I am ready and willing for this phase in my SOUL completion, ABBA finish your work in me🙏
I’m certain that those without light have an urge to put out the light they see in others. But also yes, codependents are also responsible for their (our) own healing
I think they are actually trying to take the light, they are light deficient. Some of them think there isn't enough light to go around and if you have it they don't, others think they don't have any light and can only live in the light you generate, and sucking you dry is not an issue since they think they need it to survive. They are like drowning people, they don't really think they are run by instincts and their instincts are wrong.
I think putting out the light is a consequence of suffocating you to get it. Now a straight sociopath might be different, but a narc either wants your light or is threatened by your light thinking yours will put theirs out. And they are wrong, back asswards.
So if narcissism is shrouding the self in personal energy, how can someone identify a psychic vampire accordingly when the psychic vampire targets an individual to become “part of all” and advertising “all is love”?
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Very well said! Im so grateful for finding this video. Im so happy that I can finally make a big step forward and leave all the nonsence behind. Thank you :-)
OMG, this video is so, so, so POWERFUL! Thank you very much.
I am a powerful quantum creator!
Thank you for all this conformation of my beliefs and knowingness.
I saw her eyes black... And felt the evil, and her smile was so troubeling... I am the Phoenix !
Well said! Thank you 🌸
I'm a powerful quantum creator and full responsible and taking ownership of my life
Discussion is so abstract today, and all I can focus on is the cat. Lovely cat, keep bringing him pls
I so appreciate the kitty 😺 as well as the content, thank you
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Should we be around them during full moon? where energy pressure is much more stronger just as it effects the wave tides to become more then usual because I want to let go of all this negativity even if can't entirely physically yet so should we not be physically close so dont get their negative transference upon us while depleting our good energy by siphoning it with our careness that gets taken advantage of and for granted, I feel it especially intimately even just holding hands even though they're passive aggressive like pulling your hair and saying horrible things just to try get you triggered and gaslight you as if their doing nothing and saying nothing because its done covertly.
I am a Powerful Quantum Creator!!!! I'm going to use his money to Heal.
The only way to free yourself is to go no contact and put your full faith and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. He will guide you and protect you . He is our Heavenly father.
I’m matching energy
Medication will not help me
Alcohol won't help
I will not be the same again but wiser, stronger and smarter. I must take responsibility, thankyou💕
Can i ask u a question , i have two narc parents , and i keep on going into situations with narcs how to avoid this and heal it ?
Ariella, I'd love to show you how to take your power back. Please come into my free webinar www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar where you will get clarity, answers and relief xoxox
these people alre ery study at tryin to puck up insecurities intellegence your wisdome your luck and your weakness to abuse and tear and use you. i was one of smart and strong person and when they did not get to take me down they found way in a more devaite and obvous manner to force false reality on others and create false realities as my family did. teh best way to keep happy and young is to avoid them. and dont feel ur got to fix them they are not out there try to help you . some of them heard me beggin as the person began to tear aparrt and kill me and remove 24 years of rising life and miracle and turn a deaf ear and spot the ones who are about fake and lies and need attention and dont care .
Hi Melanie, I'm booked on for your masterclass tomorrow morning. I'm a bit unsure how it works, how do I set it up? Do I just go to your website? X
Hi you will receive an email with instructions Cj - if these aren't in your inbox they will be in your junk/trash or spam folder. Just follow these instructions. Love and blessings xoxox
Melanie, what pains me is figuring out how conscious of their emotional abuse and toxicity is the family member narcissist in my life. And what makes me sad is that if she is this way because she has a huge gaping emotional wound because of child sexual abuse that damaged her, or whatever the case may be. They say most narcissists are imprinted on from the narcissist paran parent, so it's not always abuse...is that true?
And yet, whatever it may be, I know it's not my job or responsibility to heal them and fix them in any way. But this just boggles my mind and pains me so much on the level of will this person ever come forth and acknowledge their wrongdoing and want to change? Or are they doomed to be stuck in that evil repetitive cycle like a mouse on the wheel.
Because I know I have to disconnect because she literally sucks the life energy out of me which I currently need oh so much to govern and guide my life. And yet, I just wish there was a glimmer of hope that one day I could have a normal relationship with my mother. But it doesn't seem like there is any hope.
And sometimes, it just makes me wanna cry. Not like cry because of devaluing or emotional hurt due to the narcissist pronging for supply, to drain your bleeding heart by way of empathy, sucking the life force out of your soul being. No, not that. Just real sad that most lowl likely I'll never have a normal relationship with my mother for the rest of our lives.
And it hurts a different type of way. But it still hurts.
Should we still be calling it narcissistic abuse if we believe in good? I think narcissistic abuse still has the connotation of I am right and he/she is wrong, which still comes from a separation mentality.
Hi B, this is a great question! You might really appreciate this resource hun. blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-soul-contract-with-a-narcissist/ It is not a bad thing to discern good from bad, hurtful, untruthful and painful from healthy, honest and wholesome. It is absolutely not ok under any circumstances to allow yourself to be abused. It truly serves no higher good other than to alert you to the fact that you must not remain in an abusive situation. The only possible reason is to do the healing and come home to Self. It is only from that place of Soul Reality that there ceases to be a good or bad or right or wrong. But at the level of our everyday experience- it can be a huge mistake to refuse to call out abusive behavior and abusers for what they are. Love and blessings xoxox
I completely get you. Let me go through the material.
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