6 Tips To Avoid Loneliness (How To Beat It Forever)
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I think the whole world is feeling some anxiety because of the political climate, the wars that are turning up all over the place. I think this anxiety, coupled with covid, is leaving a negative vibe in the air all around the world.
My friend and I watched Oppenheimer because it won best picture at the Oscar’s. We had to watch it twice to fully grasp its significance. Once we did, we both said OMG.
We are all certain this film won because of what is going on politically and what this means if used IN THE WRONG HANDS.
It’s easier said than done to be kind to yourself. But it was good hearing you reminding us.
Everyone here is SO uptight. I’m like you.. I smile at ppl and if they don’t smile back I think they are weird, something is up with them.
Also I want you to know that when I joined with signal my phone immediately shut down with 14 viruses. I’m sorry that happened but I don’t trust that sight anymore.
Please know that I send you my love and support and really like the direction you are going in your journey and sharing on your videos.
Once I heal properly, the scuba diving is ON.
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I tried. People hate me. They think I am weird, and they yell at me and harass me because I take care of stray animals and threaten me and call me psycho. Although, I am very quiet, peaceful woman who lives alone and loves to help animals in need. I am DONE with people. I don't care, don't even miss them.
I adore you for what you are doing.Never ever listen to that kind of people.God bless you💕💕💕
Purely because you love animals and do what you do? You are an angel rather. YOU DO YOU GIRL!
Been there! I'm called a psycho as well in the entire neighborhood as I talk to dogs and cats more than humans!
I totally understand and agree with you on being hated by people!
Some people will never admit to grieving more for an animal than a person. Animals are innocent. Keep on doing what you’re doing, lovely, if you so choose!
❤️ be who you are
Too many people sitting at home on their phones, binging shows, plus things are too expensive for many to attend, are also huge factors.
I have found that as internet has become more popular, people have become more insular, causing people to become thirstier for connections, but also, at the same time, very self-absorbed. So if you hold out the hand of friendship, they are so thirsty, that it become all about their needs and never giving back, because no one pays them true attention only superficial attention. It's all too overwhelming. It's like being a good friend actually is a detriment in today's world, because so few have these skills.
Whenever I get the lonely blues, I leash up my dog and take a long walk in nature. It’s hard for me to keep feeling sorry for myself in that environment. I did that twice today since I was extra blue 😊
Here in the USA 🇺🇸 the library is a fantastic way to meet people. Your taxes support the library ...so use it! Lots of clubs and organized outings offered. Free books, movies, and discounted tickets to all sorts of arts and culture. Volunteer at the library. They need volunteers! There is no need to be alone unless you choose it.
So cool!
I think that the US has a culture of connecting people in similar situations and it's great. It's not the case here in Europe 😒😒😒
As you get older it is more challenging to make friends. I think I will look into developing hobbies.
That top is so flattering on you,Frederique.
Thank you so much Frederique! I actually cannot thank you enough for this video! My loneliness is probably self inflicted only and I did not even realised that until now!
I have been away from social media for six years! No Facebook no Instagram no dating apps... nothing!
All my girlfriends have babies now so there is no chance of meeting them whenever I am down! What hurts more is getting judged by them and their family that I am still unmarried and single at the age of 35!
The other biggest problem is that I am an introvert! This is where it gets more and more tough to go out and make connections with people!
I think it will be best if I listen to your advice on taking care of myself and picking out a hobby!
Moms with babies don't get to see their friends as often. They may be thrilled to have a chance to reconnect with you over lunch, a picnic, or some other activity where they can bring their baby.
Don't be so hard on yourself. There's lonely and there's being comfortable on your own as well. Totally get the judgement of unmarried no kids scenario and I'm in my 40's or they think you're after their husband.
@@chanelfitzgerald hahaha! True! Thank you for your support
@@briskettacos hmm...okay will try to schedule something! Thank you so much!
@@raptimitra2672 Always!
I'm on a farm in Namibia (a woman, on my husband's YT acc.) Had to adjust to the loneliness here being a city girl from Cape Town. But being in my gardens and vegetable tunnels all day every day, taking care of the animals we have, having various hobbies and lots of cats, I cannot honestly say I miss people. I miss my family in SA, but at least I visit them once a year for 10 days.
Sounds absolutely fantastic ❤️
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Greetings from South Africa 🌺💐🙋🏻♀️
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Sounds like you have a lovely life! :-) But of course if you are close to your family it must be hard to not see them often. Enjoy your farmlife!
I've watched your channel for a few years, and I'm really enjoying the new direction the channel is going. You're all over the place, and I love it.❤
Thanks so much!
We're all concerned about the loneliness epidemic, so it's really useful that you've provided us concrete ideas on what we can do to reach out. Thank you.
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Many years ago I used to be the youngest one at my job. Now 20 years later I am the older one. I can’t make friends with the younger ones necessarily.
I am GenX., and it sounds like you are too. It is a very small generation. No matter where I was in my life, there would be a lot of Boomers 10 years older or a lot of Millennials 10 years younger. No one my own age. I know others of the same age feel the same way.
Im a very kind, pleasant, smiley person but I feel lonely. Im Australian but I moved to Europe almost 4 years ago and I don’t have any friends. Every time I try to make friends and approach people they give me a weird look. I get dirty looks from women and it makes me very sad. 😞 I’ve given up on people.
Then, the people you've tried to make friends with are not worthy of your friendship.
@@donnaewatson9548 Yes you’re absolutely right.
@@Aussiegirl1972 believe your worth ✨️
@@donnaewatson9548 Thank you 🙏💖
@@Aussiegirl1972 you're welcome 😊
A helpful and gentle reminder for me as I just removed myself from being with others yesterday after a week if massive work, packing and trying to downsize in preparation for a move I am not thrilled to make. I will make the move regardless and give myself a few days before I go back at the tasks at hand. Thankfully a friend is helping with that. My PTSD sometimes needs time away, myself still wants connection. So 1 or 2 people is enough to start up again.
Having said that, I've lived in loneliness for years and only in the past 3 have I realized how much more alive I feel when friends are gathered.
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Thank you so much for this informative video for me my loneliness is being an introvert I sometimes enjoy my quite times it gives me a chance to step away from the outside world when I’m lonely is usually just take a walk and picking up a paint brush and painting on my canvas it helps me so much but I do agree with you on the social media thank you for these practical tips for overcoming loneliness excellent vlog❤❤
Hi Frederique! You look great, the haircut and the hair colour suit you very nicely. You are an inspiration.
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Very timely video, Frederique! I think people confuse communication (internet) with connection. Social Media is a superficial landscape, conducted often in isolation, and has been so detrimental to establishing friendships. I was raised in Ireland, where the "pub" culture can be incredibly useful in meeting people, who walk to their local, so meeting people in your neighborhood is inevitable, and alcohol is strictly optional 😊 Now in Vancouver, it's much more insular, and unless raised here can be very difficult to establish more than acquaintances
I would have thought Vancouver would be easy to meet people…there’s so many of them! I’m in Edmonton and it has to be worse. No one leaves the house for at least 4 months of the year lol
@@icyglam1895 it has nothing to do with numbers, because I lived in London for 7 years, with a much bigger population, but there is an expansive vibe there, and people are much more likely to strike up a conversation that can lead to acquaintancship, and more possibly friendship. Most of the friends I've made here are Brits, Kiwis, other Irish , rarely Canadian
@@mmcs4973 I believe it. When Canadians go to a pub it seems they just want to be in their own little corners with the people they know, or are trolling to try and take someone home, just for one night lol 😢
I'm late 30s and I find most females don't seem to value friendships. I had great girlfriends in my 20s and early 30s. At this age though, the ones with husbands spend most of their time with their families, and the single ones ditch you on Saturday night once they start seeing a new guy. I feel so let down by women, and don't want to try anymore. A couple of long term friends cut me off a few years ago, and now I feel I have barely anyone (apart from my wonderful family). Men aren't interested in me because I'm overweight, and I have been single for nearly 15 years. I'm so lonely sonetimes I could cry, but don't trust either gender anymore. I'm not hanging around waiting for these people til our 40s, when the first wave of divorces will start (when suddenly women who neglected friends for 20 years are single, and want to do 'girls nights' til 6 months down the track, when they find a new boyfriend and leave for another 20 years). I genuinely think most people my age won't resurface and want friendships anymore til our 60s, when their kids have left home, and they finally know what it feels like to feel lonely themselves.
I think it’s normal to feel lonely. Sometimes I feel that way and that’s when I know I need to go out and maybe visit my parents and chat, make plans to have a meal with a friend (I don’t have many btw). Also having a hobby really does help as well believe it or not.
I had to move from a major city to a small town for family reasons that I can't get out of. It is miserable. I have lived in cities my entire life, always with friends in arts and media. The people here are so judgmental and close-minded, either very elderly or trad wives, thats' all. It's the lack of hope that is the worst. There is no way to make friends at all.
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I am autistic, so I stimm and have some of the treats you mentioned, but I am honest and loyal, just autistic 😅 but I had some bad experiences in the past with some men that were pn...
Hope you can find an honest and kind man
Thank you for sharing these great ideas and tips. You inspired your audience to share their own proven ideas 💡 they use to fight loneliness and build new friendships. I’m a man, I’m married, and very sociable. My problem is that I meet too many interesting people, and don’t have the bandwidth to “nurture” them all. How do I do it? I engage in conversation, ask probing questions and uncover things people are passionate about. I then seek to be of service to them in a way that fuels their interests. It’s usually by simply letting them know that their interests are cool. I get them to share more about what they do. I then share my common interests. And wala! A new friendship is born 😊
Oui, Madam Frédérique! Social media is not friendship! I pay attention to channels like this that enhance my off screen time. However, I believe acquaintances can turn into friendship. It’s always good to meet new people.
Wise thoughts and very good advice Frederique !
Always enjoy your videos, Ms. Frederique. I spend a lot of time alone and have for years because of our location and the course our family's life took. To combat the lack of interaction, I find myself taking up hobbies that I learn online. I've been a lifelong artist and now I'm learning how to play drums. I'm beyond grateful for those like yourself who "put it out there" and those who teach things to others online.
Thank you for a powerful video loaded with practical ways to overcome loneliness.
The best friend you can have is yourself :) If you are happy with yourself you don't need anyone :) You can be around people and feel completely isolated and be on your own and feel perfectly happy and contented :) A friend in need is a friend indeed. Lucky if you gwt one or two, the others are just acquaintances. People are a constant disappointment sooner or later.......Be happy with yourself, nobody else can make you happy. Don't be emotionally dependent, you are an adult not a baby :)
Great topic, much needed in these days I feel ❤
Glad you liked it!!
You look lovely and fresh in denim, I'm wearing my denim shirt too today. Thank you for all you do Frederique
This is a really useful video thankyou ❤
You’re welcome 😊
Thanks. Well said!
Glad you liked it!
Thank you, Frederique
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You are very welcome
Such a wonderful video with excellent advice 🙂
Glad you think so!
Interesting and wonderful words to live by.
Glad you think so!
About social media; I. Love photography and posting photos of my hobbies… but when I cut , it’s very easy for me and is the opposite… I don’t want to go back for a long time… even messenger… and I got a a couple of “misunderstandings “ let’s say for appointments because I didn’t watch my WhatsApp for 24 hours 😂😂😂… I tell my friends you can RING me if it’s really important… but most adore typing and it’s not good for my muscles, eyesight etc.
Merci Frédérique, super sujet .... Très bon dimanche🤩🤩🤩
Merci à toi aussi
I am home alone for a month and i am really bored and feeling lonely.
The main loneliness times are from 4pm till 12am.
Please can someone help me with tips on what to do.
I suffer from insomnia and autophobia so i am really paranoid.
I am not scared of getting a break in my house. I just feel lonely at them times.
Please help me.............
Hi Frédérique! I really enjoyed your video. Off topic question: We have one day in Lautoka Fiji…what would you suggest other than diving? ( I no longer dive since I have a middle ear injury…balance problem) TY 😎❤
Never been in Fidji
I hear you. Good ideas. I totally agree on social media. Love your short, where is it from? It seems light.
Mreci❤❤
Hi Frederique
A while back you made graphic tshirts with astrology sign words. Do you still do these?
Thanks
Andrea, Auckland, NZ
no i don't
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Ditto. Much love to you.
Madame, I could look at your face for the rest of my life and i would still be unable to find boredom with it ...'"♡•°
Please let me know about your glasses ❤️❤️❤️
oscar wylee
English....”How to stop being lonely”.
Thanks I fixed it 😊
Another factor is parents raising kids to be less social/not trust anyone. Parenting kids out of fear. I wonder why parents always remove the fault from themselves bc they are the elders and the ones raising these kids. Just like boomers taking no blame for the crap economy they’re leaving for the next generation bc of their greed.
Looking forward to seeing what the future generations accomplish ❤
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