This is probably the first video I’ve ever commented on. I wanted to say thanks for sharing this Joey. I’ve watched several of your other videos throughout the years. This one really helped. Our lights were on at different times, and it’s sad but it’ll be okay.
I heard about this a few months ago. I always do my best to make sure my light is on. I met someone who's light I thought was on for three months. Those three months, we just kept getting closer and closer. We even got serious, official, and started calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. But then she got anxious about some personal stuff, and her light turned off. I don't even blame her; it wasn't her fault. But it sucked so much. She asked if we could still be friends. I definitely couldn't do it. I don't think she could've either. We were always more than "just friends." The thing that really sucks is that I don't even know if my light is fully on right now. I don't think so, honestly. I think it's flickering or something. I need to recharge before I put myself back out there. I have been putting myself out there, but I feel like it's pointless right now. No one I meet compares to her.
Really needed to hear this. Now I can finally call my ‘situationship’ off because I’m realizing that the reason he won’t commit, isn’t about me 😢. Thank you so much for this video
Can I just say I discovered your channel by chance and it's one of the best things that could've happened to me now? Been going through some emotionally challenging stuff and your videos are so calming to me. And some of the topics are relevant as well. Thank you for your work, have an amazing day
Thank you so much Joey. Such an insightful and beautiful way of framing this tricky part of life. By listening to you I realized how my light was probably off or only flickering some 6 months ago when I was in a relationship (the second one after a neglectful/abusive relationship of 8 years) I broke up with a very special man because of this. Because he deserves a big yes with a big green light. But the question is now ... when does the light finally turn on...
This is probably the first video I’ve ever commented on. I wanted to say thanks for sharing this Joey. I’ve watched several of your other videos throughout the years. This one really helped. Our lights were on at different times, and it’s sad but it’ll be okay.
2 years I've waited for someone who's light isn't turned on. Now I understand.
Beautiful video. I had a similar experience, now I realize their light was off.
Sorry to hear that
I heard about this a few months ago. I always do my best to make sure my light is on. I met someone who's light I thought was on for three months. Those three months, we just kept getting closer and closer. We even got serious, official, and started calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. But then she got anxious about some personal stuff, and her light turned off. I don't even blame her; it wasn't her fault. But it sucked so much. She asked if we could still be friends. I definitely couldn't do it. I don't think she could've either. We were always more than "just friends." The thing that really sucks is that I don't even know if my light is fully on right now. I don't think so, honestly. I think it's flickering or something. I need to recharge before I put myself back out there. I have been putting myself out there, but I feel like it's pointless right now. No one I meet compares to her.
Really needed to hear this. Now I can finally call my ‘situationship’ off because I’m realizing that the reason he won’t commit, isn’t about me 😢. Thank you so much for this video
This really healed me thanks brother (:
Hey Joey, thanks for this video. I guess I really needed to hear some of this.
Can I just say I discovered your channel by chance and it's one of the best things that could've happened to me now?
Been going through some emotionally challenging stuff and your videos are so calming to me. And some of the topics are relevant as well.
Thank you for your work, have an amazing day
I didn't know about this theory before untill now after watching. Thankyou Joey
Thank you so much Joey. Such an insightful and beautiful way of framing this tricky part of life. By listening to you I realized how my light was probably off or only flickering some 6 months ago when I was in a relationship (the second one after a neglectful/abusive relationship of 8 years) I broke up with a very special man because of this. Because he deserves a big yes with a big green light.
But the question is now ... when does the light finally turn on...
This made me think about my current situation 😢
loved this just as much as the others!!🥰
Glad you liked it!!
Perfectly said old friend 😁
Joey thank you for explaining 🙏 where I understand.. I think I've wasted my heart on a man that takes advantage 😢
My light was off and now its slowly turning on. Do I contact that person again?
Go for it. And if it doesn't work, at least you tried.
I read this as, "The reason they won't COMMIT you." As in, 5150. 😂 i was hopeful if only for a moment.
This dude is the sweetest softest dude on UA-cam Waddup lil Canadian 😂 u out your feelings yet ? Hope so
Glad you shared this. But could have been a two minute vid, you repeated yourself over and over.