The feeling I lost the girl of my dreams and the fact that she is able to find another guy kills me so hard but she’s not the best one for me but I still Mis her and want her back but I can’t believe she didn’t want anymore because I was everything for her and I don’t know how to move on because a part of me doesn’t want that ?
it hurts a lot man, I feel it too. It's been 10 months since I lost her to my own mistakes. Some days have been easier than others, but it still hurts. Stay strong bud, we got this
I need a hug man, the girl i’ve been wooing over found another guy, and the worst part is he didnt have to do anything. The dude she likes is always late, cheats at exams, and doesnt have good grades, but still she fell for him because of his looks, which is something that i dont have. The world is an unfair place, i need a hug.
I’ll hug you bro. I’m going through a break up too. My girl left me yesterday. I understand your pain bro, but we are not alone. God bless you truly bro ❤
Big hug my brother. I'm going through the same thing right now, as many others are. Please don't focus on the other guy or any "unfairness". Believe me life will provide you your share of blessings, just be open to them and focus on that girl out there somewhere who is hoping to find someone like you. God bless, I'm here with you.
The worst thing about breaking up was seeing him fall out of love when we were together and then seeing him move on with no sorrows! And even worst when u have finally decided to let go , they come back with no apology but to stay in contact! But what for ? If they really wanted the presence they could have worked and saved the relationship. How is it that the come and go at their convenience.
I been through this situation like recently she camed back says sorry... And I was like so dumb I said it's ok it's been a full week and again she blocked me up... Ik she uses me every single time... But idk why I am letting her do that... Ik it sounds like yapping but tbh I have no one tell... And I just feel like to reply to this comment bcz ig we both have the same situation
@@Idkwhatamidoinghere01she came back to me after her dad passed earlier this year and I dove back in to be her support and help. 8 months later she dumps me again its rough out here man😕
me and my ex just broke up on aug 19th and I found out she was seeing someone else the day of the break up. your videos have been so helpful and feel so freeing. I felt super lost before I found your videos but now I feel like I'm starting to find myself again and I'm not struggling as much now and I'm starting to have happy days again.
Very timely video, yesterday I realized I had to change my environment, one conducive for rest, free of distractions, to actually process some emotions I've been holding onto for years, alone time is so important. Journaling helps me process my thoughts and feelings in an objective way, and I can do it during my busy days. But processing my emotions I realized I needed the change of pace, to slow down, and just let my emotions be and accept the hurt I've been carrying. The freedom I felt afterward was incredible. ✨️
Lads I’m stuck up on someone who just doesn’t care, I know it needed to happen as I’ve been told I deserve better and it’s helped me to find out what I want to do in life. Even though I’m slowly accepting it and it’s helped me I miss her and the memories we have. She changed so quick and I could feel it coming, I gave everything. It hurts knowing she’s gone and there was no real explanation. This is my first relationship and one of the only girls who has been interested in me
I went on a hike today after so long and sat on a rock to look back and reflect on (sadly and unfortunately, her and I broke up in October last year a week before my birthday). There are my good and bad days, my ups and downs but this is definitely what I needed to hear today. Thank you tons for this because it was exactly what I needed to hear and really hone in and focus on the Present.
A big thank you from Egypt. My heart aches of course and am sure most of us men are here for the exact reason. I know it will pass . But the pain is here now , all I can say is . Please god helps us all move on
Letting go should be a mandatory course. Still learning how to do that on my own. Drop the emotional baggage but still feel grateful. At least I learn something when carrying the bag.
Blessings to everyone else going through this. And thank you Joey. It's very encouraging to hear words like the ones you share. I know thing's will be fine, but the process is no joke difficult.
Thank you Joey, I had been so stuck on replaying the mistakes that led to my past relationships failing and learning to just accept them as they are in the past and moving forward has been huge for me! Thank you for your words ❤
we broke up and not even a week later she got with one of my friends I have to see her laughing and joking with hm every day, though out our relationship she was flirting with my friend so it does make sense to me now but not only did I lose the girl I loved and that friend but I also lost the group of friends I hung around with bc they just went with him, I still have dreams that shell come back but ik for a fact that would hurt more than her leaving every time I see her I feel sick seeing her hug and kiss the guy we was going to move out together some time next year. I really dont blame her for getting with him bc I can see that she's happy and that all I want for her. I don't believe im going to feel myself for a while or even be Abe to date again for a while but ur videos have been giving me the motivation I have been lacking since its all happened probably about a month ago, ive always suffered with mental health and nothing has seemed to help until I started to watch ur videos since I have things have really started to make sense ive been going to the gym eating better improving myself and thinking more positively about myself so thank you a lot for helping so much.
"I was in a long-distance relationship for about a year and a half with a guy who turned out to be a narcissist. Throughout the relationship, he constantly deceived me, never acknowledged my feelings, and made me feel like I wasn’t enough. It felt like I was the only one making an effort to maintain the bond, while he gave very little in return. After the breakup, he changed completely, as if the relationship never mattered to him. It took me a long time to heal from the emotional damage he caused, and I've realized that someone who manipulates and exploits your love is never worth it. But this week i got to know that he got engaged to a girl and she wrote that he is her 1st love and she is his 1st love too , i was shattered but now I’m trying to understand what just happened and during this phase your video popped up it’s been cheering to me .
For me, people always left and I've learned go move on from that. The part that hurts me more, is that it happens too often. I put my heart out, and it gets treated like it was all for nothing, be it friends or a lover. When I started watching your videos, I had just gotten my heart broken. Its a little more than 2 years now, its healing but there's still some pain in knowing he moved on and I'm still lost and alone, finding it hard to trust or believe in any other guy. Sadly, all the guys I come across don't want something meaningful. That makes me feel like the scope of truly finding my person just doesnt exist.
Thank you Joey, this helps! My ex broke up with me a month ago and it hurts, I keep feeling this fire to fix it. Make her realize I want to fight for our relationship, but she left because she felt that we both had to change and it pressured her. Reaching out will only increase that pressure. Putting out that fire is emotionally tiring, I don't know how to get rid of it. However, it feels my emotions and voice of reason are slowly getting more balanced. Finding your videos two weeks ago is allowing me to view my struggle in a different light. Thank you!
I really felt that I was stuck in a cycle and moving on it’s not easy and getting out of that cycle is even harder but was the right thing thank u joey ❤
I had this friend, which I felt happy about. She was like a best friend of mine but last year, our relationship fell apart. I wish I could’ve changed everything but now I’m learning to move on. I’m glad she has new friends she can rely on but my relationship with her will always stay in the past.
Thank you soo much for this. Yesterday I was crying and today I realised what you said even before watching this video. Now after seeing this i think i took the right decision.
We were high school sweethearts. We were together for 5 years. Yet she decided to cheat on me and then leave me for the guy she knew barely for few months. It broke me. I started abusing alcohol, wanted to destroy myself in order to stop feeling anything. It happened over a year ago. Right now it’s better than in the first few months without her. The thought of her living her life with another guy kills me every time. But I know I need to let her go in order to be finally free of this pain. I don’t want to forget her, because we shared a lot of amazing memories. I just need to accept that she made her choice, and I wasn’t that choice. There will be always a special place for her in my heart. I just hope that she sometimes thinks about me and appreciate what we shared. I know my value and I know what I deserve. Moving on is not easy but those steps are exactly what I’m trying to do right now- forgive not for her but for me in order to be finally free of this anger and feeling of grief. I guess what’s I’m trying to say is thank you for this video Joey, it means a lot to me.
Thank you Joey needed this! The main problem is my ex is reaching out trying to message and talk I have no idea what I should do this is troubling my healing process.
me and my gf broke up last week ,as there was no possible future for both of us together due to religious differences ,we really loved each other, we still do ,but now it just the memories that r left .ik remembering these memories again and again is holding me back,but those memories are so good that i cannot let go of them ,we spend our last whole year together ,we cared for each other and now all of those moments we created are left with me in just my memories now. Worst thing about breakup is not actually the breakup, real worst part is not talking to them,like how there were a part of your daily routine ,how they were an integral part of your life,then suddenly they disappear ,so many changes all together ,idk how ill handle this ,how ill manage to survive without them being in my life.ik that thinking about your relationship all the time ,will hold me back ,i can see the outcome too,i cannot study properly ,but those memories ,those moments are too good to let go,i still love her ,dont know if we'll ever be together again ,dont know if we'll ever meet again ,all i wish is to relive all those memories once again with HER.
I need to remember what one of my friends said to me. He’s usually very unserious, jokes about everything, and you never see him down. In this one moment, however, When I was telling him about my breakup, he said, “Don’t change for anyone.” He was very serious in that moment. It meant something for to say that. So whenever I feel like I could’ve done something different, or have fantasies about what could’ve been, I should remember that I didn’t compromise myself. That, just like Frank Sinatra said decades ago, I did it my way.
Hey Joey .. I still haven't figured out how to forgive .. 4 years ago I was in a really toxic relationship where I developed severe trust issues which is affecting my current relationship. The way my ex behaved with me I never wish for anyone to have. I was really traumatised and I felt stupid that I let it happen. I don't know how to trust people now. I always think the worst . They might cheat on me anytime, they might lie to me, make false promises . For an year entire I stopped dating everything and recently when I had intimacy with my current boyfriend I had a panic attack and started crying for no reason. 😔 it's kinda I am punishing my partener for those mistakes from the past.
Had a relationship of 5 year, It meant the world for me, But it didn't lasted as long as i wanted it to be.... Took me about a year to move on worst phase of my life... But now im starting to get my life back on track, highly relating to the things you said in the video .... ❤❤
I dont want someone who doesn't want me. 13 years of marriage. 2 sons. So many happy memories yet she lets the bad times dominate her thoughts. I know i am a great guy. I am deserving of someone better.
I can’t help but to non stop think about her and it hurts because she broke up with me out of no where and unfortunately i gave her my everything so i now feel lost.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years... It was for the best, I was just dragging myself and giving it all while he would give anything. I know that I deserve better, but wanting it to be him. I know now what I deserve. But moving on has been one of the hardest parts
I'm really confused about our relationship..... We broke up and few mins we said we'd give it one more shot but then we don't talk so I really don't want to be stuck in this loop I really want to move on but something is holding me back.... Ik I'll be happier Ik I deserve better but It kinda hurts to picture him with someone else
The hardest part for me is to forgive. He left me to be with someone else and move on with no sorrow while I'm going through the grieving alone. It's so unfair and I hate him a lot. But yes, it weighs me down and I need to let go to heal and move on for myself
I just relapsed hard - stuck in bed the entire day and didn't eat. It's been more than a year, my first love. I really thought we were going to get married in the future, everyone did. He promised the future and even discussed it multiple times. But how can he easily let go? Did I do something so utterly wrong to be thrown away so easily? How much did I hurt him for him to never reach out and lose interest so quickly? I was getting a bit better. Until, I heard he got into a new situationship and it seems serious this time.
I understand your pain ❤️ If it’s a situationship, then it’s not going to be all that serious. Also, whatever they do/did to you, they’ll do to their next partner 👀
It's 27 days since my girlfriend broke up with me snd told me hates me I still love her and want her back and miss her inbetween with her memories I do all the wrong things you mentioned I wish i could move on but it's hard
Joey you don’t know how unbelievable you help people with this videos , it gives me hope for the future and you let me feel that I am not alone in the terrible and also beautiful time we’re al lots gonna change ❤
I tried so hard for her I did everything I could but I was the only one who tried and she said it made her feel horrible and I couldn’t do it. It changed from the beginning and she pushed me away over and over and over and I felt useless.. she’s all I think about even though I know it was bad for me and made me my worst self but no matter what happened she’s all I can think about
Heey ur video is the one thing i think i needed I listened to ur dream chaser poem on spotify 'that was heart-warming for me" so i searched u on youtube And then this video just popped . I am reallly feeling freeeee One thing i just think your last name is kinda funny and wierd 'not trina to be mean '
but how do you forgive? And I think we appreciate the past so much-partially out of anticipation for the future-that we trust in the past and find comfort in it, which is what gives power to it. And we don’t actually learn what the past is-it isn’t tangible, but so many parts of it were/are.
I think the first step of forgiveness is acceptance. And when it comes to forgiving someone, i think we place a lot of action onto them when it strictly has to do with how you feel. Accept what happened and understand you want a better future than today
Joey, how do I really believe and accept that his (once) ocean deep love is this utter hatred all of a sudden? My mind keeps telling me there might still be a scope of him having a change of heart..
Same! I can’t comprehend or believe that someone who loved me THIS much just stopped caring all of a sudden. How is that even possible? It’s almost like I lived a lie but he showed me in a lot of his actions and words that he cared! I don’t get it 😧
i PREACH the same message!! I always am encouraging others to see the future before the past, even though i struggle with it the most. so grateful for people like you spreading the message. it’s easy to get stuck in a cycle and it’s so hard to move on when i find myself running in circles. Proud of you for having this sort of mental awareness, thank you
hi joey, no matter how many move on letting go videos i watch i feel none of the helps me. the feeling of letting go and start a new normal is there for a few hours but it vanishes and i am found stuck in that loop of past trauma again. what should i do then?
I thought I had moved on. But today has been hard. Today marks not only 7 months to the day when we last spoke... But it's also her birthday. It hurts again. Not how it did all those months ago. It's just a painful pang
Me and my ex broke up the day my school started I couldn’t focus on my studies at all and he left me for his career he was such a green flag and I miss him so much we got tgt on Valentine’s Day now is my most saddest day Idk why I have some hope that he will come back in a few years and I will wait for him rather then finding someone else rn
Hi Joey, i had a relationship of 3 year were in plans of getting married but we ended up going separate ways. In present, i have developed trust issues. Honestly i find him and what we have in other people. Which i am not able to find hence i go back to my little comfort zone where i a world with him. Our videos and photos. How to let go that?
I feel like I'm being stupid. Idk I feel like I should wait and I'm just unable to move on. Like I'm being shameless. I'm hot a lot of people are behind me. But why am I stuck here
In the relationship I only build on her and now she’s gone and she was my everything and I was her everything and now my future is gone and my everything is gone and I MIs her so much and she moved on like nothing happened and know I am here lost missing her and watching her movin on and can’t believing that I’m never gonna see her again, everyone said you need to accept it first before you can move on but how can you accept that your everything is gonna and that she’s maybe now with a other men ???? Can someone give me tips ?
"The moment you let go, is the moment you make room for something better." Facts.
The feeling I lost the girl of my dreams and the fact that she is able to find another guy kills me so hard but she’s not the best one for me but I still Mis her and want her back but I can’t believe she didn’t want anymore because I was everything for her and I don’t know how to move on because a part of me doesn’t want that ?
You will find someone better
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it hurts a lot man, I feel it too. It's been 10 months since I lost her to my own mistakes. Some days have been easier than others, but it still hurts. Stay strong bud, we got this
@@colegracia2740 if you want we can be friends if you do whats your social media
Do you want to be friends
I need a hug man, the girl i’ve been wooing over found another guy, and the worst part is he didnt have to do anything. The dude she likes is always late, cheats at exams, and doesnt have good grades, but still she fell for him because of his looks, which is something that i dont have. The world is an unfair place, i need a hug.
I’ll hug you bro. I’m going through a break up too. My girl left me yesterday. I understand your pain bro, but we are not alone. God bless you truly bro ❤
Big hug my brother. I'm going through the same thing right now, as many others are. Please don't focus on the other guy or any "unfairness". Believe me life will provide you your share of blessings, just be open to them and focus on that girl out there somewhere who is hoping to find someone like you. God bless, I'm here with you.
The worst thing about breaking up was seeing him fall out of love when we were together and then seeing him move on with no sorrows! And even worst when u have finally decided to let go , they come back with no apology but to stay in contact! But what for ? If they really wanted the presence they could have worked and saved the relationship. How is it that the come and go at their convenience.
I been through this situation like recently she camed back says sorry... And I was like so dumb I said it's ok it's been a full week and again she blocked me up... Ik she uses me every single time... But idk why I am letting her do that... Ik it sounds like yapping but tbh I have no one tell... And I just feel like to reply to this comment bcz ig we both have the same situation
@@Idkwhatamidoinghere01she came back to me after her dad passed earlier this year and I dove back in to be her support and help. 8 months later she dumps me again its rough out here man😕
me and my ex just broke up on aug 19th and I found out she was seeing someone else the day of the break up. your videos have been so helpful and feel so freeing. I felt super lost before I found your videos but now I feel like I'm starting to find myself again and I'm not struggling as much now and I'm starting to have happy days again.
Very timely video, yesterday I realized I had to change my environment, one conducive for rest, free of distractions, to actually process some emotions I've been holding onto for years, alone time is so important. Journaling helps me process my thoughts and feelings in an objective way, and I can do it during my busy days. But processing my emotions I realized I needed the change of pace, to slow down, and just let my emotions be and accept the hurt I've been carrying. The freedom I felt afterward was incredible. ✨️
Letting go is making room for something to come in. I agree. ♡ beautiful message.
I love the way you worded that
Lads I’m stuck up on someone who just doesn’t care, I know it needed to happen as I’ve been told I deserve better and it’s helped me to find out what I want to do in life. Even though I’m slowly accepting it and it’s helped me I miss her and the memories we have. She changed so quick and I could feel it coming, I gave everything. It hurts knowing she’s gone and there was no real explanation. This is my first relationship and one of the only girls who has been interested in me
Joey really knows how to speak about feelings and emotions...
All I really know to be honest haha
@@joeykidney You are great man🙌
Letting go those bad habits you form with your toxic ex is really hard. Thank you this helps a bit :)
Happy to help!
Thank you so much, Joey! You’re completely right. We have to live each day, with love ❤️
Yes we do
Thank you Joey, I needed to hear this today more then ever
I’m happy it helped
I went on a hike today after so long and sat on a rock to look back and reflect on (sadly and unfortunately, her and I broke up in October last year a week before my birthday). There are my good and bad days, my ups and downs but this is definitely what I needed to hear today. Thank you tons for this because it was exactly what I needed to hear and really hone in and focus on the Present.
We all need to take time to reflect and I am really glad you had it
A big thank you from Egypt. My heart aches of course and am sure most of us men are here for the exact reason.
I know it will pass . But the pain is here now , all I can say is . Please god helps us all move on
Wow that’s powerful “The moment you let go is the moment you make room for something better” I needed to hear that
Absolutely !
Came here from TikTok. You’re so good with storytelling ❤
I’m really happy you’re here :)
Letting go should be a mandatory course. Still learning how to do that on my own. Drop the emotional baggage but still feel grateful. At least I learn something when carrying the bag.
Blessings to everyone else going through this. And thank you Joey. It's very encouraging to hear words like the ones you share. I know thing's will be fine, but the process is no joke difficult.
Thank you Joey, I had been so stuck on replaying the mistakes that led to my past relationships failing and learning to just accept them as they are in the past and moving forward has been huge for me! Thank you for your words ❤
we broke up and not even a week later she got with one of my friends I have to see her laughing and joking with hm every day, though out our relationship she was flirting with my friend so it does make sense to me now but not only did I lose the girl I loved and that friend but I also lost the group of friends I hung around with bc they just went with him, I still have dreams that shell come back but ik for a fact that would hurt more than her leaving every time I see her I feel sick seeing her hug and kiss the guy we was going to move out together some time next year. I really dont blame her for getting with him bc I can see that she's happy and that all I want for her. I don't believe im going to feel myself for a while or even be Abe to date again for a while but ur videos have been giving me the motivation I have been lacking since its all happened probably about a month ago, ive always suffered with mental health and nothing has seemed to help until I started to watch ur videos since I have things have really started to make sense ive been going to the gym eating better improving myself and thinking more positively about myself so thank you a lot for helping so much.
"I was in a long-distance relationship for about a year and a half with a guy who turned out to be a narcissist. Throughout the relationship, he constantly deceived me, never acknowledged my feelings, and made me feel like I wasn’t enough. It felt like I was the only one making an effort to maintain the bond, while he gave very little in return. After the breakup, he changed completely, as if the relationship never mattered to him. It took me a long time to heal from the emotional damage he caused, and I've realized that someone who manipulates and exploits your love is never worth it. But this week i got to know that he got engaged to a girl and she wrote that he is her 1st love and she is his 1st love too , i was shattered but now I’m trying to understand what just happened and during this phase your video popped up it’s been cheering to me .
Thank you for sharing this. Sometimes all you need is a reminder to put yourself first.
Absolutely!
For me, people always left and I've learned go move on from that. The part that hurts me more, is that it happens too often. I put my heart out, and it gets treated like it was all for nothing, be it friends or a lover.
When I started watching your videos, I had just gotten my heart broken. Its a little more than 2 years now, its healing but there's still some pain in knowing he moved on and I'm still lost and alone, finding it hard to trust or believe in any other guy. Sadly, all the guys I come across don't want something meaningful. That makes me feel like the scope of truly finding my person just doesnt exist.
Thank you Joey, this helps! My ex broke up with me a month ago and it hurts, I keep feeling this fire to fix it. Make her realize I want to fight for our relationship, but she left because she felt that we both had to change and it pressured her. Reaching out will only increase that pressure. Putting out that fire is emotionally tiring, I don't know how to get rid of it. However, it feels my emotions and voice of reason are slowly getting more balanced. Finding your videos two weeks ago is allowing me to view my struggle in a different light. Thank you!
I really felt that I was stuck in a cycle and moving on it’s not easy and getting out of that cycle is even harder but was the right thing
thank u joey ❤
I’m using this to help me get over my best friend break up I just watched your other video about it
So helpful. Thank you! Felt like a "brother" pep talk. It worked and gave me the lift I needed today.
I had this friend, which I felt happy about. She was like a best friend of mine but last year, our relationship fell apart. I wish I could’ve changed everything but now I’m learning to move on. I’m glad she has new friends she can rely on but my relationship with her will always stay in the past.
so inspiring and now shows me the true essence of letting go. thanks joey
happy to help!
Thanks joey , your video popped up like a blessing.. i wanted something to ease my heartache . Thank you ❤
I’m glad it found you
Thank you! Don't know how to express what I am feeling right now. But I thank from all of my heart for those words you Joey!
You are so welcome
Thank you so much for this Joey. Love ❤
i am glad it found you
Thank you soo much for this. Yesterday I was crying and today I realised what you said even before watching this video. Now after seeing this i think i took the right decision.
We were high school sweethearts. We were together for 5 years. Yet she decided to cheat on me and then leave me for the guy she knew barely for few months. It broke me. I started abusing alcohol, wanted to destroy myself in order to stop feeling anything.
It happened over a year ago. Right now it’s better than in the first few months without her. The thought of her living her life with another guy kills me every time. But I know I need to let her go in order to be finally free of this pain. I don’t want to forget her, because we shared a lot of amazing memories. I just need to accept that she made her choice, and I wasn’t that choice. There will be always a special place for her in my heart. I just hope that she sometimes thinks about me and appreciate what we shared.
I know my value and I know what I deserve. Moving on is not easy but those steps are exactly what I’m trying to do right now- forgive not for her but for me in order to be finally free of this anger and feeling of grief.
I guess what’s I’m trying to say is thank you for this video Joey, it means a lot to me.
Thankyou joey for reminding. You really comfort me today.
u js got a follower for life thanks man❤
Just the thing I needed after an argument, thank you Joey ❤
I hope this helped a bit
Yes it helped, I’m done with all the what ifs and past
Inspirational, emotional and life-changing video. Thank you Joey! ❤
Hi Joey very well said thank you. It’s been 4 years and I have already accepted it but the wound has has not healed yet. 😢
Thank you Joey needed this! The main problem is my ex is reaching out trying to message and talk I have no idea what I should do this is troubling my healing process.
me and my gf broke up last week ,as there was no possible future for both of us together due to religious differences ,we really loved each other, we still do ,but now it just the memories that r left .ik remembering these memories again and again is holding me back,but those memories are so good that i cannot let go of them ,we spend our last whole year together ,we cared for each other and now all of those moments we created are left with me in just my memories now. Worst thing about breakup is not actually the breakup, real worst part is not talking to them,like how there were a part of your daily routine ,how they were an integral part of your life,then suddenly they disappear ,so many changes all together ,idk how ill handle this ,how ill manage to survive without them being in my life.ik that thinking about your relationship all the time ,will hold me back ,i can see the outcome too,i cannot study properly ,but those memories ,those moments are too good to let go,i still love her ,dont know if we'll ever be together again ,dont know if we'll ever meet again ,all i wish is to relive all those memories once again with HER.
Thank u joey❤ needed this reminder 😊
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Thank you Joey, I've been waiting for so long to hear this
Thanks. Needed to hear this Joey 😊
thank you for this. it came to me when I needed it most ❤️
I'm so glad!
Going through this abroad, alone with nobody to talk.
This is really helpful 😢
I need to remember what one of my friends said to me. He’s usually very unserious, jokes about everything, and you never see him down. In this one moment, however, When I was telling him about my breakup, he said, “Don’t change for anyone.” He was very serious in that moment. It meant something for to say that. So whenever I feel like I could’ve done something different, or have fantasies about what could’ve been, I should remember that I didn’t compromise myself. That, just like Frank Sinatra said decades ago, I did it my way.
Really needed it 😭
Whew this came at the right time😌
Hey Joey .. I still haven't figured out how to forgive .. 4 years ago I was in a really toxic relationship where I developed severe trust issues which is affecting my current relationship. The way my ex behaved with me I never wish for anyone to have. I was really traumatised and I felt stupid that I let it happen. I don't know how to trust people now. I always think the worst . They might cheat on me anytime, they might lie to me, make false promises . For an year entire I stopped dating everything and recently when I had intimacy with my current boyfriend I had a panic attack and started crying for no reason. 😔 it's kinda I am punishing my partener for those mistakes from the past.
Had a relationship of 5 year,
It meant the world for me,
But it didn't lasted as long as i wanted it to be....
Took me about a year to move on worst phase of my life...
But now im starting to get my life back on track, highly relating to the things you said in the video ....
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holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.
Thank you Joey
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On point ❤
appreciate you
I dont want someone who doesn't want me. 13 years of marriage. 2 sons. So many happy memories yet she lets the bad times dominate her thoughts. I know i am a great guy. I am deserving of someone better.
I really admire how logical that is
I can’t help but to non stop think about her and it hurts because she broke up with me out of no where and unfortunately i gave her my everything so i now feel lost.
I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years... It was for the best, I was just dragging myself and giving it all while he would give anything. I know that I deserve better, but wanting it to be him. I know now what I deserve. But moving on has been one of the hardest parts
Needed this
I'm really confused about our relationship..... We broke up and few mins we said we'd give it one more shot but then we don't talk so I really don't want to be stuck in this loop I really want to move on but something is holding me back.... Ik I'll be happier Ik I deserve better but It kinda hurts to picture him with someone else
The hardest part for me is to forgive. He left me to be with someone else and move on with no sorrow while I'm going through the grieving alone. It's so unfair and I hate him a lot. But yes, it weighs me down and I need to let go to heal and move on for myself
Its been more than 2years🙃
I just relapsed hard - stuck in bed the entire day and didn't eat. It's been more than a year, my first love. I really thought we were going to get married in the future, everyone did. He promised the future and even discussed it multiple times. But how can he easily let go? Did I do something so utterly wrong to be thrown away so easily? How much did I hurt him for him to never reach out and lose interest so quickly? I was getting a bit better. Until, I heard he got into a new situationship and it seems serious this time.
I understand your pain ❤️
If it’s a situationship, then it’s not going to be all that serious. Also, whatever they do/did to you, they’ll do to their next partner 👀
It's 27 days since my girlfriend broke up with me snd told me hates me
I still love her and want her back and miss her inbetween with her memories
I do all the wrong things you mentioned
I wish i could move on but it's hard
It takes time my friend, it just takes time
Joey you don’t know how unbelievable you help people with this videos , it gives me hope for the future and you let me feel that I am not alone in the terrible and also beautiful time we’re al lots gonna change ❤
I tried so hard for her I did everything I could but I was the only one who tried and she said it made her feel horrible and I couldn’t do it. It changed from the beginning and she pushed me away over and over and over and I felt useless.. she’s all I think about even though I know it was bad for me and made me my worst self but no matter what happened she’s all I can think about
Heey ur video is the one thing i think i needed
I listened to ur dream chaser poem on spotify 'that was heart-warming for me" so i searched u on youtube
And then this video just popped .
I am reallly feeling freeeee
One thing i just think your last name is kinda funny and wierd 'not trina to be mean '
My ex boyfriend left me in last 1.5 year ago and he got engaged to someone else within a month and now he is getting married
but how do you forgive?
And I think we appreciate the past so much-partially out of anticipation for the future-that we trust in the past and find comfort in it, which is what gives power to it.
And we don’t actually learn what the past is-it isn’t tangible, but so many parts of it were/are.
I think the first step of forgiveness is acceptance. And when it comes to forgiving someone, i think we place a lot of action onto them when it strictly has to do with how you feel. Accept what happened and understand you want a better future than today
Sometimes I think all my past is fight after fight loss after loss I move forward but it just hurts aswell 😅
It takes a lot of time to accept everything that happens in our past
Why do I still have feelings even if we haven’t talked in forever
Joey, how do I really believe and accept that his (once) ocean deep love is this utter hatred all of a sudden? My mind keeps telling me there might still be a scope of him having a change of heart..
Same! I can’t comprehend or believe that someone who loved me THIS much just stopped caring all of a sudden. How is that even possible? It’s almost like I lived a lie but he showed me in a lot of his actions and words that he cared! I don’t get it 😧
i PREACH the same message!! I always am encouraging others to see the future before the past, even though i struggle with it the most. so grateful for people like you spreading the message. it’s easy to get stuck in a cycle and it’s so hard to move on when i find myself running in circles. Proud of you for having this sort of mental awareness, thank you
People mind they business focus on they life n put god first x ❤
There’s nothing wrong with trying to help people through tough times
@@joeykidney I know say x am I
hi joey, no matter how many move on letting go videos i watch i feel none of the helps me. the feeling of letting go and start a new normal is there for a few hours but it vanishes and i am found stuck in that loop of past trauma again. what should i do then?
I thought I had moved on. But today has been hard. Today marks not only 7 months to the day when we last spoke... But it's also her birthday. It hurts again. Not how it did all those months ago. It's just a painful pang
Damn I needed that, I hope I can move on
Oh grow a pair will ya u don’t need another person to be happy my goodness yah so sensitive
Do not mind the negative comment that was left. Take your time to heal and move on when you are ready
I feel like i lost myself
My goals aren't making sense to me
I did let go but i don't know how to focus in the present
Thankyou! 🙁
It's the 3rd day.I'm starting to feel better:)
you got this
How to let the go?
Please help me
I'm in pain
What if despite doing all the 5 steps (truly), they are still on your mind and you cannot help but wonder if they will ever be back?
These aren’t 5 steps to erase someone’s past, they are to move on. You will always remember them but you need to focus on what’s ahead of you
Me and my ex broke up the day my school started I couldn’t focus on my studies at all and he left me for his career he was such a green flag and I miss him so much we got tgt on Valentine’s Day now is my most saddest day Idk why I have some hope that he will come back in a few years and I will wait for him rather then finding someone else rn
Don’t wait on him. He’s not coming back. Move on. Please
its been 2+ yrs…and i can’t let go. it was a great moment it felt like home. how can i move, when i felt comfortable?
What if you started to get excited for the future instead of only focusing on missing the past ?
How can I accept that she left me and I lost the girl of my dreams ?
The girl of your dreams wouldn't leave
The girl from your dream left , but the girl you will be meeting in reality wouldn't ❤
Hi Joey, i had a relationship of 3 year were in plans of getting married but we ended up going separate ways. In present, i have developed trust issues. Honestly i find him and what we have in other people. Which i am not able to find hence i go back to my little comfort zone where i a world with him. Our videos and photos. How to let go that?
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bro Joey kidney
@@joeykidney I'm sorry for my grammar error bro means u
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Why does it feel like I'm burying her memory like she never even existed or had an impact on my life?
Forgiving is not the same as forgetting. You can still move on while remembering
I feel like I'm being stupid. Idk I feel like I should wait and I'm just unable to move on. Like I'm being shameless. I'm hot a lot of people are behind me. But why am I stuck here
Thank you for this❤️🩹
Im happy it hit home
In the relationship I only build on her and now she’s gone and she was my everything and I was her everything and now my future is gone and my everything is gone and I MIs her so much and she moved on like nothing happened and know I am here lost missing her and watching her movin on and can’t believing that I’m never gonna see her again, everyone said you need to accept it first before you can move on but how can you accept that your everything is gonna and that she’s maybe now with a other men ???? Can someone give me tips ?
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You look like a twin little brother of Aaron Marino. Alpha M.
oh gosh no please no
hirap naman nyan boss
I sold my motorcycle a while ago and regret it
For the first time 1:34 i believe its possible to move forward in a new way by attempting things im afraid of
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Thanks Joey really helpful 🤍 , saving it for later😅
Thank you for this video Joey🥺🤍🙏
No problem 😊