I got a lot of answers from this video. The malevolent eldest sibling stole the lives of two siblings who were younger, one driven insane, the other driven to addiction. The Machiavellian Narcissist seems very satisfied these two are dead. The enabler, younger sibling is proping up this oldest sibling to ensure the abuse continues. I am the target. Great video. So much valuable information. Thank you Professor.
What a video, especially the last minutes. 🤯👍 To get to know the "inner world" of narcissists piece by piece intellectually is fascinating and (at the same time) frightening. Their "emptiness" (in the sense of "non-personality") was - thanks to your great understandable explanations - palpable. I have had this experience in my life otherwise only in direct personal contact with some narcissists. I have always felt these people as cold, not "tangible". No matter how friendly or charming they were on the outside, no matter how long we had contact. Now I understand why ... And in general: Envy is in my opinion an absolutely superfluous feeling. Far too much suffering in this world is based on envy or grudge ...
Yes, I think so too. And the more authentic (and independent in a positive sense) the other person's personality is, the more envious the narcissist is. At least that's how it seems to me ... All the best on your way. 🌻
@@lindaabraham8715, it's a biblical thing. "To whom much is given, much is required" and "the fall of the best is the worst" and love of money is at the opposite end from loving God.
I found your overt vs covert comparisons very accurate to my own personal experience. It is also very interesting how you make the link between overt and psychopaths. If you have material on this I would be very interested in seeing it, or perhaps a future video?
When I’m public my ex would walk up super close to strangers and not realize that this should not be done. Many times they turned around and wondered what she is doing. Even when I told her she never got it.
Is there any correlation with narcissists or borderlines and slovenliness? I'm not talking about the average person going through a time of overwhelm or grief, and not having energy/time to clean. There seems to be a pattern, especially with covert borderlines, of devaluing their own belongings, and leaving trails of possessions when they leave situations or people. They don't seem to care or want their old stuff, yet they can't be bothered to dispose of it properly.
My ex has fits all cluster b disorders. Mostly narcissist and borderline. She always complained about her mom. She is at home for 10-15 years with “depressions”. She also sends pictures and messages to random men to make the husband (ex father) jealous. My ex also said she is like her mom but she is not that bad because she has her horses. Can her mom be the cause of her craziness?
How to know that you're probably not a narcissist? I was diagnosed with ASD, but I always try to adapt by camouflaging. Sometimes It ressemble NPD so much. It terrifies me to think that I may be a black hole.
I've got coffee: I'm ready for this video. "Stand up and be counted. For what you are about to receive. ...Hail, to the good times 'Cause Sam's got the right of way. ... For those about to rock, I salute you." -AC/DC I confession: I already had the coffee.
Are male and female narcissists simply the product of an enmeshed relationship with mom? Mommy issues? Would these enmeshed mothers also be classified as narcissistic?
@@Bellapiccola309 Narcissist children/adults generally come from a Narc Mom or sometimes a Narc Dad. Scapegoat child generally Empath (black sheep 🐑 outcast abused) Golden Child (generally Narc/carbon copy of Narc parent) Lost Child (forgotten one, neglected, high suicide rate) lost in the dysfunctional mess of Narc parent. Western Culture is Toxic All European lifestyles are literally abnormal. A society of guilt tripping shaming judgemental religions and government destroy basic dignities of humanity.
What happens when you become numb to everything (freeze 🥶.mode) C-PTSD from Narc Mom to Narc Stalker receiving threats after moving several times??? Roomate gaslighting with Narc predator. Quit an addiction and unable to cope
Darling congratulations! If you can keep abstaining the clarity will help (see Dr Gabor Mate with Russell Brand in "under the skin") Possibly put up house share ad in health food shop or similar to find new untainted house all the best, Alice
I got a lot of answers from this video. The malevolent eldest sibling stole the lives of two siblings who were younger, one driven insane, the other driven to addiction. The Machiavellian Narcissist seems very satisfied these two are dead. The enabler, younger sibling is proping up this oldest sibling to ensure the abuse continues. I am the target.
Great video. So much valuable information. Thank you Professor.
What a video, especially the last minutes. 🤯👍 To get to know the "inner world" of narcissists piece by piece intellectually is fascinating and (at the same time) frightening. Their "emptiness" (in the sense of "non-personality") was - thanks to your great understandable explanations - palpable. I have had this experience in my life otherwise only in direct personal contact with some narcissists. I have always felt these people as cold, not "tangible". No matter how friendly or charming they were on the outside, no matter how long we had contact. Now I understand why ... And in general: Envy is in my opinion an absolutely superfluous feeling. Far too much suffering in this world is based on envy or grudge ...
Yes, I think so too. And the more authentic (and independent in a positive sense) the other person's personality is, the more envious the narcissist is. At least that's how it seems to me ... All the best on your way. 🌻
@@ceceliablair9177🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯❤
“I would prefer $10 over a $10 word - because I am a Jew,” made me laugh aloud!
Me too 😂
Just look it up! Lol! Made my night!
He is hilarious 😅
@@lindaabraham8715, it's a biblical thing. "To whom much is given, much is required" and "the fall of the best is the worst" and love of money is at the opposite end from loving God.
That was one of his "Anti-Sam-Ethik" - Jokes. 😉
👌 👏 another masterpiece of a video. I can't thank you enough.
May you forever be blessed.
I found your overt vs covert comparisons very accurate to my own personal experience. It is also very interesting how you make the link between overt and psychopaths. If you have material on this I would be very interested in seeing it, or perhaps a future video?
Watch the interview with Kelly Brogan and follow the links in the description. Also search the comorbidities playlist.
❤Thank you Sam❤
When I’m public my ex would walk up super close to strangers and not realize that this should not be done.
Many times they turned around and wondered what she is doing.
Even when I told her she never got it.
My ex covert narc is a teacher. There is always weird problems with his coworkers. I honestly don’t know how he pulls it off
Plays victim.
“I’m a outcast ,,nobody likes me “ famous words from female ex partner
I just added you to my social profile ❤️🔥🙏🏾
Is there any correlation with narcissists or borderlines and slovenliness? I'm not talking about the average person going through a time of overwhelm or grief, and not having energy/time to clean. There seems to be a pattern, especially with covert borderlines, of devaluing their own belongings, and leaving trails of possessions when they leave situations or people. They don't seem to care or want their old stuff, yet they can't be bothered to dispose of it properly.
Sam, in one of the shorts videos you speak about self improvement that is not goal oriented. Please make a video on this.
Thank you Professor. As always an insightful, accurate, informative lecture of yours. 👍👏
Das ist ein ganz wichtiger Beitrag der ganz neue Bewertung von Motiven unternimmt! Ganz neue Betrachtungsweise und so verstaendnisvoll ❤️👍
My ex has fits all cluster b disorders. Mostly narcissist and borderline.
She always complained about her mom. She is at home for 10-15 years with “depressions”. She also sends pictures and messages to random men to make the husband (ex father) jealous.
My ex also said she is like her mom but she is not that bad because she has her horses. Can her mom be the cause of her craziness?
My Ex Narc has very poor people skills! Especially around groups of people. Totally incapable to solve conflicts.
An another master piece
You have the best sense of humour 😂
How to know that you're probably not a narcissist? I was diagnosed with ASD, but I always try to adapt by camouflaging. Sometimes It ressemble NPD so much. It terrifies me to think that I may be a black hole.
Search the channel.
@@ceceliablair9177Thank you, I start to understand the differences ❤
@@samvakninThank you professor Vaknin. I founded several videos. I believe that you are like the Pharos of Alexandria for so many people.
I googled and learned the meaning. Thanks!
Look it uppp haha! You’re the best
I've got coffee: I'm ready for this video. "Stand up and be counted. For what you are about to receive. ...Hail, to the good times
'Cause Sam's got the right of way. ... For those about to rock, I salute you." -AC/DC
I confession: I already had the coffee.
a litre? lol
Sam, You are so funny. I really enjoyed the toxic and toxin joke.
Tocsin and toxin. It was not a joke.
Can you get better from this disease? I am afraid i have it.
Some behaviors can be modified. That's all.
Are male and female narcissists simply the product of an enmeshed relationship with mom? Mommy issues? Would these enmeshed mothers also be classified as narcissistic?
@@Bellapiccola309
Narcissist children/adults generally come from a Narc Mom or sometimes a Narc Dad.
Scapegoat child generally Empath (black sheep 🐑 outcast abused)
Golden Child (generally Narc/carbon copy of Narc parent)
Lost Child (forgotten one, neglected, high suicide rate) lost in the dysfunctional mess of Narc parent.
Western Culture is Toxic
All European lifestyles are literally abnormal.
A society of guilt tripping shaming judgemental religions and government destroy basic dignities of humanity.
My genius
Got to love your tocsin
so how do you do if the narcisistic is yourself or how do i do if I am the narcisistic?
What happens when you become numb to everything (freeze 🥶.mode)
C-PTSD from Narc Mom to Narc Stalker receiving threats after moving several times???
Roomate gaslighting with Narc predator.
Quit an addiction and unable to cope
Darling congratulations! If you can keep abstaining the clarity will help (see Dr Gabor Mate with Russell Brand in "under the skin") Possibly put up house share ad in health food shop or similar to find new untainted house all the best, Alice
Thank you so much Dear Professor ❤