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  • @ashleyldalton
    @ashleyldalton  3 місяці тому +74

    She actually returned BACK to the show last night drunk and in a vulnerable state. Her participation was voluntary, as I did NOT invite her back. I will not be sharing that clip as it was difficult to witness, and I had to end the call due to her level of intoxication.
    Tiffany is clearly struggling and grappling with personal issues, which were more pronounced during last night LIVE. I’ve been doing this a Very long time. I know what HURT looks like. Again, I’m not forcing anyone against their will to join my show. You click the button, I ask the questions and at any point you can disconnect. We’re all grown!

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +7

      I could see where you were triggering her. You kept pressing issues she did not want to talk about. She called for business advice. Hopefully she isn't a recovering alcoholic or have mental health issues. When someone is clearly hurt, you can't push them because they may be in a mentally delicate space... and she clearly was. I think you should've stuck to the advice she was seeking. She had to keep redirecting you to the purpose of her call. It was sad to witness.

    • @elleblue
      @elleblue 3 місяці тому +5

      @@truettadevil I completely agree. I didn't feel like Ashely stayed on topic, and the only thing I could think is that Ashley felt compelled to speak on it for whatever reason. Hopefully Tiffany is able to process whatever she is going through so she can fully focus on her growth!

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 3 місяці тому +12

      ​@@elleblue It went to dating because she was the one streaming on a dating app and dont like the fact that men are trying to talk to her. make that make sense. even at 3:16 when ashley was done talking, the guest could have got back on topic but she wanted to shame wheelchair homie a bit more. at 4:12 ashley said fair enough, the guest still wanted to go on another rant. she just frustrated and hurt because men aren't giving what she want. she cant find a rich man to use

    • @Kissmyass155
      @Kissmyass155 3 місяці тому +1

      Ashley’s intentions weren’t bad. She veered onto other topics, but it’s because she was picking up the energy that something was off, and you can tell something is off because she’s very defensive.

    • @SmilingDesperado
      @SmilingDesperado 3 місяці тому +6

      Good on you for trying to protect her by not airing the call.
      Hopefully she gets some help.

  • @kwabeasu22
    @kwabeasu22 3 місяці тому +146

    She was rude, why would you talk about someone disabled. You never know how your life will turn out, any one of us can end up becoming handicap.

    • @verapetty6070
      @verapetty6070 3 місяці тому +10

      The universe has a funny way of humbling people and in a way no one sees coming!!

    • @ijeonu2405
      @ijeonu2405 3 місяці тому +2

      But men are entitled. It was obvious to the man she doesnt want her and he was forcing himself. Women don't do that. Women accept their situation and limitations but men would make or force tou to talk to them with disgust to show you dont want them. Yes it is annoying.

    • @adriennebryant2478
      @adriennebryant2478 3 місяці тому +1

      Rude as hell!

    • @kingmoney05
      @kingmoney05 3 місяці тому

      ​@@ijeonu2405 don't live stream then on a public platform.

    • @deebee8844
      @deebee8844 3 місяці тому

      FAXXXXX

  • @FeliciaBerryVlogs
    @FeliciaBerryVlogs 3 місяці тому +131

    The way she talked about that disabled man is a sicknesssss! It was disgusting! Thank you for humbly sticking up for that man, Ashley!

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +9

      Agreed! And she wasn't getting the hint from Ashley to be understanding and kind 😥

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому +1

      👏🏽👏🏽💯💯 Ashley is just FIRST CLASS and very humble 🏆🏆🏆, this chick should take notes from Ashley on how to be classy and not judgemental

  • @ericlockett1818
    @ericlockett1818 3 місяці тому +68

    If he was a millionaire she will push that chair

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad 3 місяці тому +5

      Exactly.

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому +5

      You better know it. Change his pamper and wipe is behind.

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому

      You better know it. She will change his Depends and wipe his behind.

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 3 місяці тому +4

      And slurp that gummy worm. Money makes the world go round.

    • @wonttrickmea1869
      @wonttrickmea1869 3 місяці тому +2

      So sad only money can bring kindness out of some people

  • @kingphred
    @kingphred 3 місяці тому +27

    As a black man with a disability this was very disheartening to hear. Ngl, I’ve always felt that sisters have looked at me this way but I’ve never seen someone bold enough to say it. When she said “get in a disability group” it was crazy because I’ve actually had someone say this to me before.

    • @deebee8844
      @deebee8844 3 місяці тому +7

      Love and light brother, I pray you find your perfect partner 💕

    • @Richard-Reloaded
      @Richard-Reloaded 3 місяці тому

      🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому +3

      🙏🏽🙏🏽 don't pay them people no damn mind, you are worthy and don't nobody mess with your positive energy 👍🏽

    • @kimberlyjohnson1599
      @kimberlyjohnson1599 2 місяці тому +1

      I’m sorry to hear that someone said that to you. Her comments were horrible.

    • @paulacastro5128
      @paulacastro5128 Місяць тому +3

      She doesn’t represent all women. Please stay motivated and as my son reminds me try and enjoy the experience💙

  • @Cynthia71527
    @Cynthia71527 3 місяці тому +64

    Tiffy needs therapy. She’s so defensive I pray she heals🙏🏿. It was a hard watch

  • @AngieM285
    @AngieM285 3 місяці тому +45

    How rude to think that someone whose disabled is beneath you ! You better hope your never in that postion ....can happen in a snap a simple fall could you leave you wheelchair bound

    • @ijeonu2405
      @ijeonu2405 3 місяці тому

      And if is, she wont be entitled like the males. You think a disabled woman would vbe forcing her way into a man's presense? Teach your males bothe abled and disabled not to be entitled. If a woman does not show interest, let her be. I will respect you one time, and if you refused by trying to manipulate me with "disability", what you see is what you get. Respect begets respect. Ain't no pity party here.

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 3 місяці тому +61

    Men: run far away from this

    • @ciciIBe
      @ciciIBe 3 місяці тому +2

      She ready to run to Women now.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 3 місяці тому +7

      ​@@ciciIBe The women need to run too.

    • @ronde1135
      @ronde1135 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah her energy is evil.. sounds like she want to throw shade at men bigtime...

  • @SmilingDesperado
    @SmilingDesperado 3 місяці тому +34

    Very entitled and nasty demeanor. You can gracefully reject a man that you aren't interested in. Compassion doesn't cost anything. What if someone rejected your son in that manner?
    Women like this don't think about the future. You're okay with being alone now because you're young and you have options. You have a long life to live still. When you're 48, you aren't going to feel the same. You make your whole life about money and then you run out of options with men down the road.
    A man making 250K is not looking for a 50 year old woman "in her bag" that has a nasty attitude. It's just building up bad habits that will make you undesirable for a man in the future.

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 3 місяці тому +1

      Actually that point is proven false from what I’ve seen. The women I know are MORE satisfied with singleness the longer they are single and actually their standards get HIGHER and not lower. It’s as if they separate themselves from the very probability of male companionship the longer they are with out it. That’s been what I’ve personally witnessed from the single women I personally know who have been single for a long time. Idk if I can say the same. I haven’t been single long and I desire partnership BUT I can almost understand it with each passing day. It’s like as time goes on the fear of disappointment, discomfort and abandonment actually increases and makes the reality of eternal loneliness seem less problematic.

    • @SmilingDesperado
      @SmilingDesperado 3 місяці тому

      @@melaninandaura9713 A feeling of satisfaction and happiness isn't something that can really be measured. It's a feeling. Feelings change. You can have an experience, an epiphany, or just meet someone someday that changes up how you think about life. It's completely unreliable to rely on that to be guiding one's life.
      I agree that their standards do go HIGHER, and that is precisely the problem. Their standards become impossible because few men can, or are willing to meet them. So they lock themselves into this life of solitude.
      A lot of these women are either lying to themselves, or just haven't reached the point where it has really hit yet. But, it will eventually hit because we are ALL human.
      This isn't just for women, it's for men too. Our biology doesn't care about our "standards". We all have the same biological needs, get old, get sick, and die.
      MOST people, man and woman, are not in a financial position to take care of themselves into retirement. As this generation of single, overweight, childless people get into old age, who is going to take care of them?
      There's too much talk of how people feel and not enough on reality. Everyone thinks they're going to be fine until they're in a position where they aren't.
      We are already seeing a rise in homelessness in women, especially black women.

    • @ijeonu2405
      @ijeonu2405 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@SmilingDesperado my biology cares about my standard. I dont just mingle with any man. I am okay alone and have made peace with that. I was once married and that was the loneliest I have been. So miss me with that. I dont crave for men's presense and their gaze. I am perfectly okay and I am not lonely. Women are social creatures. My life is too busy and I am intentional about it. I let society play me by thinking coupling up/getting married is a must. Now I know better... I have few male friends I talk to on phone once in a while and that's it. Never again would I lower my standard just so that one half male would have access to me precious me. I am okay here.

    • @SmilingDesperado
      @SmilingDesperado 3 місяці тому

      ​@@ijeonu2405 YOU don't have a biology. You are a human being. We have the same biology. You have personal preferences and the freedom to make different choices, but your biology and what drives you on a primal level is the same thing as it is in every other human female.
      What I'm talking about isn't even just about a man's presence or gaze, I'm talking about when you're 60...when you're 70...when you're sick, or have other troubles.
      You are perfectly okay NOW when you are young, active, and able, but we all go down hill as we age.
      I obviously can't speak on your marriage. Maybe he wasn't the right guy for you, maybe you wanted too much, or maybe you both weren't focusing on what is important in a relationship to make it last. A bad experience shouldn't turn one off from marriage--it should be a learning experience because you shoulder half the blame in agreeing to marry him.
      The bottom line is that how you feel and your "standards" will eventually meet a crossroads with biology and the reality of the world.

  • @_NiaJ
    @_NiaJ 3 місяці тому +14

    There was literally no reason to bring up the disabled man… absolutely disgusting. She is a beautiful woman but that attitude is a complete turnoff.

  • @Gotinks
    @Gotinks 3 місяці тому +35

    She needs therapy, she does not need to be giving advice on TikTok, She sounds like Princela the queen maker! 🤣

    • @Richard-Reloaded
      @Richard-Reloaded 3 місяці тому +8

      She sound like she was on the verge of tears the whole interview.

    • @malcolms3220
      @malcolms3220 3 місяці тому +5

      That whole thing sounded like a Princella infomercial lol

    • @EvaElyse
      @EvaElyse 3 місяці тому +2

      Definitely one of her disciples.

    • @Calculus1981
      @Calculus1981 3 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому

      She didn't sound like Princella at all, being as though Princella would not being looking for a man, she would not have salary requirements, and she would not make fun of special needs people bc her daughter has special needs. Don't be bitter bc Princella tells the truth about the uselessness of men 💅🏾

  • @_BougieSusie
    @_BougieSusie 3 місяці тому +32

    Tiff I hope you heal from everything you’re carrying baby ❤️‍🩹

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому +1

      She is truly wounded.

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 3 місяці тому

      I hope she never changes

    • @ccovergirl
      @ccovergirl 3 місяці тому

      @@genovasquez8361 why?

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 3 місяці тому

      @@ccovergirl Because she needs to keep that same energy and not try to give a dude a chance when she is in her great decline

    • @ccovergirl
      @ccovergirl 3 місяці тому

      @@genovasquez8361 are you saying she is beyond saving?

  • @aliyacarter6406
    @aliyacarter6406 3 місяці тому +19

    Clearly cares about looks cause the disabled man may have been rich… 🤷🏽‍♀️✨

  • @meloran2571
    @meloran2571 3 місяці тому +10

    the biggest irony is her saying the internet is trying to humble women by saying they dont qualify for this or that. But she literally came on here disrespecting a man in a wheelchair for simply trying to talk to her, and saying he doesn't quality for her. so we get her logic, women should humble men but not the other way around.

  • @Pandering_equalsmoney
    @Pandering_equalsmoney 3 місяці тому +16

    I wish a man would come on and talk so negatively about disabled people. The backlash would be insane. Karma is nothing to play with, by the vitriol it already got her.

    • @ijeonu2405
      @ijeonu2405 3 місяці тому

      First of all, women aren't forceful or entitled like males. If a woman shoots her shot and he doesn't get, she would let him but males? He would annoy you to the point you get angry and then people starys blaming you

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 3 місяці тому

      This is true, and I believe most of us would agree.

  • @LabRatsProductions
    @LabRatsProductions 3 місяці тому +3

    Her: Judging a disabled man for having HER within her standards... Bc he disabled....
    5 mins later... Crying that people always judge her standards...

  • @almondy1963
    @almondy1963 3 місяці тому +5

    It's clear there's something not quite right with her. And I'm not talking about her not wanting to settle or having high standards. Every woman should have high standards. But I can tell she suffering from some type of trauma. I wish her well

  • @Richard-Reloaded
    @Richard-Reloaded 3 місяці тому +25

    She sprinkling. 😂 But all jokes aside i could hear the hurt in her voice at 6:49 when she was speaking about how "peaceful" her life is with out her boyfriend. I wish her the best.

    • @thisblackgirloverhere9013
      @thisblackgirloverhere9013 3 місяці тому +4

      She wasn’t hurt. She was annoyed. She came for business advice and all Ashley wanted to do was talk about a man. She was getting angry but trying to stay respectful. I was annoyed watching it. She kept saying that a relationship wasn’t a priority right now.

    • @Richard-Reloaded
      @Richard-Reloaded 3 місяці тому +10

      @@thisblackgirloverhere9013 she didn't really need business advice. Thats why her questions were so shallow and basic. Shes coping by trying to convince herself she doesn't want a man when reality she's just hurt. And unfortunately that bitterness will leak into all of her other endeavors.

    • @thisblackgirloverhere9013
      @thisblackgirloverhere9013 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Richard-Reloaded How do you know what somebody else really need. She ASKED for business advice. Ashley should have stuck with that. Every woman ain’t looking for a man.

    • @pthesmith
      @pthesmith 3 місяці тому

      @@thisblackgirloverhere9013Perhaps Ash didn’t want to provide business advice to a potential competitor.

    • @Richard-Reloaded
      @Richard-Reloaded 3 місяці тому +6

      @@thisblackgirloverhere9013 I not gon lie you sound a little bitter too. I hope both of y'all get the therapy and healing you need. 🙏🏾

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 3 місяці тому +16

    Tiffs mindset is that of an adolescent

  • @MelBennett-mn6ei
    @MelBennett-mn6ei 3 місяці тому +8

    Logically, she sees it more beneficial to be with a woman; but she really wants a man as a romantic partner.

    • @j.baldwin3012
      @j.baldwin3012 3 місяці тому +3

      Yeah, she's convinced herself that women won't abuse her like the men she's dated. In reality, the domestic abuse rates are similar in LGBT relationships and straight relationships.

    • @jetskipapi6193
      @jetskipapi6193 3 місяці тому

      ​@@j.baldwin3012 I heard DV rates in wmn to wmn relationships are higher

  • @SunshineJoi
    @SunshineJoi 3 місяці тому +3

    What I feel some folks are missing is that Ashley answered her question and she kept it about business until the young lady brought up the dating site streaming .
    Then when she questioned her about the site and why she didn’t want to be bothered, Ashley dug a bit because she sensed something else was up.
    Ashley isn’t responsible for anyone’s triggers, I think she was sensitive and led the conversation the best she knew how .

  • @drewisours
    @drewisours 3 місяці тому +3

    She’s out of line speaking that way of a disabled man, it tells you all you need to know about her character

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому

      Straight 🗑️🗑️🗑️😒

  • @NaturalistCorrie
    @NaturalistCorrie 3 місяці тому +6

    She’s super hurt, numb, defensive, avoidant, and in denial ... 19:52

  • @user-mq4vg4yu9x
    @user-mq4vg4yu9x 3 місяці тому +9

    I love her vibe. She’s chill and polite. She knows what she wants for sure. I love she kept her composure. Good video ❤️

  • @1LadyTee
    @1LadyTee 3 місяці тому +5

    She isn't someone that you can teach anything. She thinks that she's fine, she thinks she's right and has it all figured out. That past narc got to her. My heart and prayers go out to her.

    • @michaelsmith8947
      @michaelsmith8947 2 місяці тому +1

      Umm she is the narcissist…….

    • @1LadyTee
      @1LadyTee 2 місяці тому

      @@michaelsmith8947 I would have to agree

  • @dacallins0884
    @dacallins0884 3 місяці тому +10

    She came on to give herself a peep talk that no one else needed to hear. If you feel like this just be about it. Stop telling us how great your life is. You went from not needing a man, to describing the man she wants, to the boyfriend she broke up with, to she is gay. 😂

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому

      🤷🏽🤷🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽 She's confused seriously

  • @Rene-cn4jc
    @Rene-cn4jc 3 місяці тому +2

    It’s obvious she’s struggling. She cares about her ex..misses him and whatever interaction they had. I hope she watches this back and see how she came off. Very hurt and defensive. I hope she takes the time to heal and deal with whatever it is that has her in this place.

  • @concreterose3225
    @concreterose3225 3 місяці тому +2

    Love you sis you are so right you cannot grow if your frequency is low ❤

  • @ruthgarcia5424
    @ruthgarcia5424 3 місяці тому +3

    Ladies when you debate every advice..you are triggered and not over it (not healed). 😳🥺😏🙄

  • @Dantregfs_
    @Dantregfs_ 3 місяці тому +5

    As a man this was bone chilling, pure evil!

    • @Rene-cn4jc
      @Rene-cn4jc 3 місяці тому +3

      Nah.. She’s not evil. She’s hurt.

  • @Karenhypnotic
    @Karenhypnotic 3 місяці тому +5

    I’m also here to talk about Tiffany’s heartlessness in the way that she spoke about the disabled man. Tiffany, I pray that God continues to bless you with a life free of disfigurement and disability. I pray that you never have a child with a disability or disfigurement. 🙏
    Please work on your heart 🖤

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому

      Hallelujah, life is unpredictable, she is restless and no empathy for others that's has a disability or not up to HER standards 😤

  • @gigif169
    @gigif169 3 місяці тому +15

    Is tiffy ok? The ticks and defensiveness was weird.
    It lets me know some folks need to get off social media. Ive heard all her talking points from feminity gurus. No self awareness.

    • @mmarie810
      @mmarie810 3 місяці тому +5

      I thought it was just me, her voice was very shaky through the whole video, she looks away when she responds and she can’t sit still. Also, very defensive.

    • @kimberlyjohnson1599
      @kimberlyjohnson1599 2 місяці тому

      Yes I thought the same! I think she was nervous, maybe about being on the live. But her voice and defensiveness show she is agitated.

  • @LindsayAmelia
    @LindsayAmelia 3 місяці тому +2

    Tiff definitely has anxiety about something. She blinks verrry rapidly. So she was either lying (not my guess) or nervous/anxious. Either way her nervous system is triggered. I pray for her healing. Poor thing.

  • @ArtLee68
    @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому +6

    I can’t spell the second lady’s name. I’ll just refer to her as second lady. What are we men doing to these women that they are running to each other? My goodness.

    • @malcolms3220
      @malcolms3220 3 місяці тому

      They think eating 🐱 is going to change the fact that they’re running from accountability and working on themselves

    • @j.baldwin3012
      @j.baldwin3012 3 місяці тому +2

      Well she's single, so the lesbian relationships didn't work either. Funny how she didn't bring up why the lesbian relationships ended.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 3 місяці тому

      so by your logic bi men are bi because women did something to them? from your pic, im assuming you're a grown adult

    • @ronde1135
      @ronde1135 3 місяці тому

      Doing? Providing structure, financial competence, great intimacy and some woman dont want fall under a man leadership.. perhaps women arent doing something

  • @malcolms3220
    @malcolms3220 3 місяці тому +11

    6:30 But you did settle when you had a kid with a man who probably had none of the things you’re requiring now. A man has to pay 100% and own properties but she’s cool with going 50/50 with a woman 😂?
    Let a man have said what she said about a woman in a wheelchair. Would have never heard the end of it. For the sake of her son I hope she heals.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +1

      The way ya'll be fixated on the actions of women when they were younger vs. their standards as grown women is insane. You tell women to have higher standards, then hate it when they do. It's giving gaslighting...

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 3 місяці тому

      @@truettadevil-I think we should start responding in kind in the comments. Let’s start asking them their count

  • @mickslife6974
    @mickslife6974 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m a lesbian. People are people no matter if you need a man or woman trauma can happen. It’s not brighter over on yhe other side of the rainbow 🌈 ma’am it’s just not.😂😂😂

    • @ronde1135
      @ronde1135 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly, two emotional people together is gonna be dramatic! At least with men there is some logic thrown in at times. So we try to be cool, steady and stoic..

  • @tiaj7819
    @tiaj7819 3 місяці тому +10

    😲 sis said it's not that great having a man in your life. Keep that energy all the way over there. You want to be alone just say that. Also everyone saying Ashley was pushing her to be on the show...she could have paid to have this personal conversation since it was business related 🙄.

  • @Stillwatersrndp
    @Stillwatersrndp 3 місяці тому +15

    Therapy Therapy Therapy Tiffy.
    Daddy issues. Corrupted software. Sad.

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому

      She doesn’t realize that she is confused and screwed in the head.

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому +2

      Most definitely

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 3 місяці тому +2

      Yep. A real waste.

  • @minarue
    @minarue 3 місяці тому +6

    First girl reminds me of Ashanti, so pretty

    • @noziphoshongwe9523
      @noziphoshongwe9523 3 місяці тому +1

      I noticed that too. She looks like Ashanti's sister or a relative.

  • @aminamcintosh1439
    @aminamcintosh1439 2 місяці тому

    Actually it’s lovely having a man; I don’t have to do ANYTHING most of the time, so much so that i feel bad sometimes and it pushes me to want to try new things just to please my man because of how he provides and treats me 🥺

  • @Nicholes-Dad
    @Nicholes-Dad 3 місяці тому +11

    Her "standards" will change as she ages. She will blow the remainder of her youth chasing a bag, then wake up years later alone and MAYBE have a bag. And if she has a son, that $250K guy is less likely to want to take care of her or marry her.

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому +1

      She needs a therapist!

    • @tony2fly
      @tony2fly 3 місяці тому

      facts 100%

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 3 місяці тому

      I pray her standards never change and she stays that way for the rest of her life

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +4

      Women are happier alone so I doubt her standards will change.

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 3 місяці тому +2

      @@truettadevil they are never truly happy.
      Not alone
      Not married
      Not rich
      Not as sex workers
      Not as suga baby
      Not as girlfriend
      Not as a mother
      Women are never happy what state they are in the are sad about and suffer extreme anxiety.

  • @oracleofjade
    @oracleofjade Місяць тому

    If she was truly content with being alone, she wouldn't be so defensive. She is in pain! She just doesn't have the ears to hear it right now.

  • @truettadevil
    @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +18

    She called for business advice and 95% of this interview was about dating 🙄 Ashley didn't even ask what her industry was or what type of content she wanted to put out. Tiffy kept trying to redirect the conversation back to business and Ashley was intent on triggering her 😢

    • @thisblackgirloverhere9013
      @thisblackgirloverhere9013 3 місяці тому +5

      Exactly! She wasn’t hurt. She was annoyed. She came for business advice and Ashley kept pushing men and relationships on her. That was crazy!

    • @pthesmith
      @pthesmith 3 місяці тому +4

      Maybe Ashley didn’t want to give business advice to a potential competitor.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +1

      @@pthesmith how would she know if this woman would be a competitor if she never asked what the woman wanted to talk about 🤔

    • @teealyse4925
      @teealyse4925 3 місяці тому +1

      I never knew Ashley to give business advice yho

    • @spiritualjawn
      @spiritualjawn 3 місяці тому +7

      I don’t feel like she tried to navigate back to business advice.. I think she brought up that that’s the only reason she called once she started getting a little caught up with the dating subject lol. I don’t think Ashley forced her to talk about dating.. the conversation organically went there when she mentioned the dating site that she does work from & then proceeded to say some offensive things about the suitors on the app. Ashley was just following her lead and asking her questions based off how she was coming off & the things she was saying lol.

  • @subsistence73
    @subsistence73 3 місяці тому

    Man, this is REALLY REALLY bad. I hope no one was hurt nor feel worthless bc of what she said. No matter who you are or your abilities, everyone is worthy of love and there is someone out there for everyone .. theres a reason this woman is bi but is still single

  • @AndreCHatchett
    @AndreCHatchett 3 місяці тому +4

    The internet mostly tries to humble a certain type of a woman. She’s not one who decent men would try to humble. 5:21

    • @katiamotley9407
      @katiamotley9407 3 місяці тому

      why is that?

    • @pthesmith
      @pthesmith 3 місяці тому +4

      The internet is trying to humble women in general.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +2

      Why are insecure men attempting to humble anyone? Nevermind,I answered my own question.

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 3 місяці тому +1

      @@truettadevil-The way he typed that with all of his fingers and toes 🤣

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому

      They aren't dealing with her at all,,, she struggle love, she's beautiful, BUTTTT her attitude is horrible seriously , a decent HVM has options, they don't want the drama, beautiful or not

  • @mrslisajckson
    @mrslisajckson 3 місяці тому +2

    Ashley you are so sweet. ❤

  • @G514NonProfitMinistry
    @G514NonProfitMinistry 3 місяці тому +3

    This is like meat that is rotten in the inside. Terrible character 😮

  • @birdiebanks
    @birdiebanks 3 місяці тому +2

    Tiffy’s energy was off. It was so hard to watch. She has some more healing to do. My God, please cover this woman. 🙏🏽.

    • @trahapace150
      @trahapace150 Місяць тому

      Yall love cappin for women that even when they are awful human beings yall still try to be sympathetic

  • @EverythingKash
    @EverythingKash 3 місяці тому +4

    She was *combative* from the start!!

  • @Sun-je5mv
    @Sun-je5mv 3 місяці тому +1

    I actually felt you sistar. I wish u well! 💚

  • @elleblue
    @elleblue 3 місяці тому +6

    I liked this lady. She was beautiful and had high standards, and came in to talk business. Ashley kept trying to pivot the conversation to dating and saying that the woman seemed hurt... but that's probably precisely why she's not dating at the moment? It was confusing.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому +3

      🎯 🎯🎯🎯 I had to do watching, Ashley made me so uncomfortable. It was like she was purposely trying to trigger her. The update is, Ashley did trigger her and she called back... drunk.

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 3 місяці тому

      ​@@truettadevilAshley, probably needed to have that convo in private. She wasn't wrong.

    • @mayaaas5132
      @mayaaas5132 3 місяці тому

      @@truettadevil yeahh it was weird how ash kept tellin her to shes hurt. the lady was right everyone does get hurt n needed advice on how to grow her business...like dfuk

  • @SkyLove80.
    @SkyLove80. 3 місяці тому

    I see that there are still some that dont understand.
    - This is the internet -
    Accessible by billions.
    Videos are watched and comments are read. This is Cyberspace. People go viral, people have different opinions, people will have negative things to say, people will have positive things to say. There will be ups and there will be downs.

  • @cheriew2512
    @cheriew2512 3 місяці тому +4

    Why call a dating show for business advice??? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @rubyoverstreet1596
    @rubyoverstreet1596 3 місяці тому +2

    That man could be a family member or a loved one or you could have been with a disability!

  • @marcusyoung2081
    @marcusyoung2081 3 місяці тому +1

    She does not have any real money and likely never will because all of the grandiose talking that she does about money is really nothing more than the poor little girl inside of her screaming that she is afraid of remaining in the state of poverty that she likely grew up in and to some extent obviously still remains in.
    Remember that poverty doesn't always mean living under the bridge or looking like it.
    Empty words mean nothing.
    *She is attempting to get advice on how to save 20,000 over the summer. If it takes her the entire summer to save 20,000, then she is certainly not touching all of the type of money that she "acts" like she is.

  • @rozaleos
    @rozaleos 3 місяці тому +3

    Dang. Kevin Samuels is haunting these women.

  • @tiaj7819
    @tiaj7819 3 місяці тому +3

    No disrespect but can someone please explain to me why so many women are getting the nose rings or neck tattoos? What is the message you trying to send 🤔?

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 3 місяці тому +1

      Following trends. Same reason men are growing beards and dreads. It’s trending. People keep up with trends. Hence the word “trend”.

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 3 місяці тому

      Now it's massive tats on their backs and thighs, some have full sleeves like the guys, some are now doing face tats, 🤷🏽🤦🏽

  • @Asha3000
    @Asha3000 3 місяці тому +2

    I agree with her 💯. She was a little harsh when speaking about the disabled guy but that is her right if she doesn’t want to date someone who has a disability.🤷🏽‍♀️
    I enjoy being single after being in a stressful relationship.

  • @cheriamor84
    @cheriamor84 3 місяці тому +1

    her defensive attitude was annoying... did u want advice or not .... what u bout do on tik tok argue with people on live all day... I hear what she saying about not needing a man to be happy I feel the same way normally. but at the end of the day when I go out with my friends I'm in search of a sexy man to rock my world.

  • @Jacobb..
    @Jacobb.. 18 днів тому

    First Lady is a nightmare! Run fellas

  • @buttagrind7659
    @buttagrind7659 3 місяці тому +1

    So basically these host have taken the Kevin Samuels format and run down the block with it. Would love to hear these host give him the credit he rightfully deserves for open the conversations.

    • @Gem-n-life
      @Gem-n-life 3 місяці тому +1

      How is hers the same as his? She’s not talking to them in the same manner. He was trying to hit other people’s panels before he adopted all of you.

    • @Rene-cn4jc
      @Rene-cn4jc 3 місяці тому

      KS was not the originator of what he spoke. His idea were here before him and will continue to be here. You may have learned of those talking points but that doesn’t mean hi was the first.

  • @jazzw9237
    @jazzw9237 2 місяці тому +1

    I kinda understand her she made some valid points I just don’t think yall liked her delivery

  • @MilaniB20
    @MilaniB20 3 місяці тому +1

    How do you have high standards but living & sleeping with men outside of marriage & don’t vet properly & have discernment while dating?

    • @MilaniB20
      @MilaniB20 3 місяці тому

      & no high value man is taking a bisexual woman & single mother serious.

  • @sparklesp9304
    @sparklesp9304 3 місяці тому

    Narcissists move fast. Who knows how long it was before she moved in with him?

  • @tony2fly
    @tony2fly 3 місяці тому +12

    yikes...men stay clear.

    • @ArtLee68
      @ArtLee68 3 місяці тому +2

      🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 3 місяці тому +2

      I’d suggest any man or woman steer clear of Tiff.

    • @africagreen902
      @africagreen902 3 місяці тому +3

      Bless her heart. She doesn’t even know she’s broken

    • @barcaman1013
      @barcaman1013 3 місяці тому +1

      She was good one. Clearly a man ruined her

  • @jetskipapi6193
    @jetskipapi6193 3 місяці тому +1

    There are not enough women like Ashley...but too many like the other woman.

  • @1hoodnerd
    @1hoodnerd 3 місяці тому

    Daaaang… not TOO heavy on the disabled 😭 As a person who is apart of that community, I wear my back-brace (ambulatory equipment) with heels proudly and the perceptions about the disabled are always exposed & ignorant AF 😂 Cause girl that man was giving YOU a chance frfr. For sooo many reasons 🤦‍♀️ Plenty of us disabled people have love & ppl rolling us around in wheel chairs & such, kids, businesses (without tik tok) & more. ijs😏 Drunk or whatever the state the tiff woman was in? that mindset was exposed. Our community fights these kinds of stereotypes often & it’s whack. 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾 And exhausting *sighs*

  • @Calculus1981
    @Calculus1981 3 місяці тому +1

    I feel bad for the man that will end up with her. Discus ting 💩!

  • @kameilahking1743
    @kameilahking1743 3 місяці тому +1

    Honestly, I could see how Ashley triggered her as someone else mentioned. She should allow people to steer the conversations in whatever direction they want instead of stating what she thinks all the time.

  • @riosworld700
    @riosworld700 3 місяці тому +1

    First caller seemed off the hinge. Therapy asap

  • @AsToldByDesiree
    @AsToldByDesiree 2 місяці тому +2

    That first girl is mean 😕

  • @djkidas
    @djkidas 3 місяці тому +5

    Ma’am, you don’t qualify for the man that makes 250k. You deserve your BD.

    • @JayLawson
      @JayLawson 3 місяці тому +1

      Women think the internet is a wishing well. These women need to understand that the same Wynos that holler during your real life day will find you on these shows. The men with major options literally watch forentertainment. If they watch at all.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому

      You sound br0ke and insecure. Keep your trauma to yourself.

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 3 місяці тому +2

      Do you even have 250K?

    • @karinazrzu
      @karinazrzu 3 місяці тому

      @@sparklesp9304No he is a typical br@ke thug😂😂😂

  • @marcusyoung2081
    @marcusyoung2081 3 місяці тому +3

    The Temu Ashanti 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @bla9ckcob5ra
    @bla9ckcob5ra 3 місяці тому

    People complain and don’t eat left over food but call every a man with himself extremely together every negative name book for not wanting a leftover woman. 😐
    Matter of fact, it’s too good to call her yesterday’s food, she that plate of Thanksgiving food that been sitting in yall refrigerator that not only going to the trash, but to the dumpster preferably while the trash man coming down the street😂😂😂

  • @PragmaticMoves
    @PragmaticMoves 3 місяці тому

    Gen z's don't believe in a regular 9 to 5 anymore?

  • @ItsMike81
    @ItsMike81 3 місяці тому

    Everyone wants wife benefits as a girlfriend. What does the man get from the situation in a dating relationship if the woman gets all of her bills paid and allowances? These things are for your wife in my opinion, if you do them for your girlfriend its because you want to not obligated to.

  • @RShaun
    @RShaun 3 місяці тому

    I’m shocked at how many people bothered by her not wanting to be with a disabled person. Most women won’t even date a short person and will laugh about a short man so to see all the self righteous come for her seems very virtue signaly.
    However…she a whole wounded warrior. She told Ashley when she said you went through something 4:15 that she hadn’t it was just the internet trying to humble women. Then said she was in therapy and was being abused by a narcissist and would have died 10:00.
    Said there were no signs, said what the signs were and then suddenly was too young to recognize them. How come the therapist didn’t help you identify this if they could identify narcissism 3rd party?
    She isn’t into men. She is attracted to women but it’s only socially acceptable to use a man financially. She’s stuck trying to walk a truth that isn’t hers.

  • @user-tk3wq2xn4t
    @user-tk3wq2xn4t 3 місяці тому

    Tiff is highly confused 🤷🏽‍♀️ about a lot of things... Did I hear her say that most women are clean and won’t drain her dry?? Ummm bayyyybee wake up and smell the coffee ☕️ because it’s brewing.... If you want a female just say it.... Tiff you sound a bit scorned.... definitely take time to HEAL.....🤔

  • @alexandriajade
    @alexandriajade 3 місяці тому

    What was her point for getting on here if she already knew she wasn't gonna listen??

  • @user-he8jj8sp7k
    @user-he8jj8sp7k 2 місяці тому

    Kokomo for cocoa pops! She never gonna be happy! 🏃 for your life.

  • @montezdiamond7065
    @montezdiamond7065 3 місяці тому +3

    I don't care about hear dating life or lack. I wanted to hear about her business development.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 3 місяці тому

      Me, too 🤨

    • @tessy28
      @tessy28 3 місяці тому

      Me too I love seeing bw in business

  • @Minimovie411
    @Minimovie411 3 дні тому

    Idk who is worse, the men or the women nowadays smh

  • @bigbearpodcast
    @bigbearpodcast 3 місяці тому

    I want to hear the ex side of the story shem. Something is not make sure about this lady. Her demeanor speaks privileged and entitled. She needs therapy because the way she speaks it comes with a load of trauma. on top of how dare she speaks on that disabled men. This is the same argument when men speak of overweight women. Double standards much? Which men actually which women will deal with this? she looks unbearable to be around.

  • @rcook2486
    @rcook2486 3 місяці тому

    So her therapist didn’t help her at all smh

  • @Noir_Nouveau
    @Noir_Nouveau 3 місяці тому +1

    She is honest at the same time she has a nasty personality.

  • @thisblackgirloverhere9013
    @thisblackgirloverhere9013 3 місяці тому +4

    She wasn’t hurt. She was annoyed that she came for business advice and you kept pushing having a MAN on her. It’s okay to be single.

    • @Kaneshaa
      @Kaneshaa 3 місяці тому +2

      I agree

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 3 місяці тому +5

      if she went to therapy and said everything she said on here, she would be told she's hurt. She could have told ashley from the beginning that she don't want to talk about relationships but she went on a man hating rant instead.

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 3 місяці тому

      ​@@meloran2571 Exactly.

    • @amaj_lex
      @amaj_lex 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@meloran2571 exactly lol some people are slow. She know this is a dating show but went all in about a man

  • @AshaBanksie
    @AshaBanksie 3 місяці тому

    Homegirl said she wants a man with money but that WIG!!! Honey

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 2 місяці тому +1

    This shorty got a ton of issues. FR. IJS

  • @MochaTheOfficial
    @MochaTheOfficial Місяць тому

    Angry and on the verge of tears. Tiffany needs therapy chile.

  • @cassiuswins6488
    @cassiuswins6488 3 місяці тому +1

    She miss her ex!

  • @grace52506
    @grace52506 3 місяці тому

    She's hurt. Very hurt.

  • @amaj_lex
    @amaj_lex 3 місяці тому

    This is a dating show. What some of yall dont understand?😢

  • @michaelsmith8947
    @michaelsmith8947 2 місяці тому

    All I heard was a bird 🐦 chirping…

  • @Tishalishious
    @Tishalishious 3 місяці тому

    She seems hurt and frustrated. You can hear it in here voice. There’s nothing wrong with healing and being by yourself but saying you’re just focused on business but your on a dating app going live is confusing to me. She need to stay in therapy and do some self reflection and that takes time. I just don’t like when people come up and claim they want advice but don’t LISTEN! If you got it all together and know what you want then why are you here?

  • @DHAROMG
    @DHAROMG 3 місяці тому

    How has no one caught on to the way she`s shaking and breathing... somethings not right. Not to mention what she said is sexist. Also, click bait title. There was nothing " heated " about this video.

  • @KJon25
    @KJon25 3 місяці тому

    Outside of money, what does she want?

  • @candorsspot2775
    @candorsspot2775 3 місяці тому +1

    These baby mamas trying to pivot lol. It's over ma'am. You are too bitter..

  • @mrs.w8193
    @mrs.w8193 3 місяці тому

    She looks like Ashanti the first girl

  • @mrs.w8193
    @mrs.w8193 3 місяці тому

    Princella the queen maker junior here. She needs to go get therapy, she sounds crazy with her ideals and these talks. She also sounds hurt and bitter

  • @SayconTalks
    @SayconTalks 3 місяці тому

    Reminds of Ashanti look