She's 37. Newly Single Mom Looking for Love + My Speech On Why You Need To Always Look Your Best!
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The father of her baby only pays $75 a month and he works for the city. She didn’t take him to court because she thought she could gain brownie points from him. She’s only cheating her baby out of what’s due to her by trying to kiss this man’s butt.
She cheated her baby selecting him as her father. Doesn't matter if she's getting 10k a month.
Exactly that kid needs those coins
Pregnant longer than she knew him 🤦🏾♂️
KS used to say this all the time
If you have to ask a man to take care of his child , he's probably a troubled man.
Respectfully, 35 is way too old to have a child with the wrong man after only knowing them for 6 months. Especially knowing that he was less than enthusiastic about having a child. Her child deserves to grow up with an active biological father in the home. Shameful situation and totally unfair to the kid.
crazy as hell lmao
And furthermore, completely avoidable
i'm honestly so tired of men and women having unprotected xes. Our community is creating broken homes and it seems like these people just don't care. Which may be the case, they don't care about themselves so they are self destructive and in turn are neglecting our growing community.
Hmm I don't think we should be starting a message with respectfully if we know what we are saying afterwards isnt going to be respectful.
@@cutesyjam the truth is not disrespectful
She wanted a baby, thought he would commit after and he didn't. You don't get a mistake pregnancy at 35 if you somehow didn't manage to get pregnant in your teens, 20s and early 30s sorry boo 😂
She's over there talking about she doesn't tolerate foolishness but got pregnant in 6 months. Make it make sense
That’s what I taught 😂😂
That was two years ago… she learned her lesson was what I got from it
@@alexussturdivant6938 and she’s going to continue to keep learning that lesson fuck out of here. Oh no guy of a caliber wants her. I hope she can only get the type of guy that her baby daddy was because why did she get a better guy? Why does that better guy deserve a baby mother. Nobody wants to ask that question.
That stranger who works for the city giving you $75/mo. doesn’t make over $85k !! 🤦🏾♀️
Becoming a baby mom at 35 is wild. She needs therapy so she can do better. A lot of men would see this as a red flag…as they should.
But you had complete control over whether you became a baby mama… that has nothing to do with God’s plan, that was all you.
This is not true, we can cross paths with someone God never intended us to be with but because we don’t have discernment and are not following or moved by the Holy Spirit we will end up in situations he never intended for us to be in. Every person you meet is not part of Gods plan.
@@irreplacable1988 That's wild. Y'all blaming God for your rebelliousness.
@@irreplacable1988 Super religious? We were talking about Christianity. If you are into another religion or spirituality or whatever it's called then ok. You have a different belief system.
Christians are supposed to repent of their sins, not claim what she did was no big deal and just part of a journey.
@@irreplacable1988 Where was the admission that she is a sinner, sinned and needs God to change her heart? I'm not even judging her for what she did. My concern is there's no repentance. Absolutely nothing separates this woman from a Satan worshipping atheist.
@@irreplacable1988No, ma'am. God's plan doesn't include fornication. She has to take responsibility for deviating from God's ways and having to deal with the consequences for it. Even with Abraham, God didn't choose for him to have children outside of his marriage and the Bible is clear about that as the wars in the Middle East are in part the product of his disobedience. Everything that happens in the world is NOT part of God's original plan, but He can work things out to His desired end. Let's not blame God for our own disobedience
The God plans comment was little ehhh . We gotta stop bringing God up in our mess. He will work everything out for our good yes but don’t call your decisions Gods plan.
Thank you for voicing this! This needs to go viral. Putting a bad rep on God.
Thissssssss
Yes Ashley, I lost some weight and have put more effort to keep myself looking amazing.
Ashley not the black fungi toe 😂😂😂😂 this sent me
HER GRANDPARENTS GAVE HER MUCH OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE A SINGLE PARENT WOMAN 37 YEARS OLD WITHA 2 YEAR OLD CHILD NOT MANY MEN ARE INTERESTED IN ROMANTIC DATING AND A YOUNG CHILD
Y'all didn't discuss baby before sleeping together? No protection? At 35? 🧐🙄🙄😒🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
You did not know him well enough to allow him to rawdog and shoot up the club.
Why would another man want to take his place?
Gym and green juice literally saved my life! 😂❤
What she’s not telling us is at 36 when she knew marriage wasn’t going to happen, she decided to pick a baby daddy to get pregnant. Now she needs a Russell W. Clean up man that makes a $100k and get on her plan.
Thank you. I need to lose weight, and I’m doing it naturally without overdoing it. A few of my relatives have commented on how much I’ve gained, but I love myself unconditionally so that isn’t what led me to want to do better. What has me actively working towards my weight was recently hearing that the way we treat our bodies while we are young can impact us when we’re older. I will treat myself here and there to reward myself for eating well most of the other times. However, I no longer need to eat bad as if every day is a treat day where no calories ever matter. If you’re trying to get in shape, we’ve got this! If you’ve already reached your goals, I hope you enjoy maintaining!
Plz give yourself time before having a child with someone
Or give yourself time before having unprotected s*x with someone.
If women would focus more on their kids then finding a man! Be a mom
Right omg
Right! She already fucked up now her punishment should be staying single until her daughter is 18
If men would focus on being a dad instead of out here making more kids.. be a dad!!!
Thats why you gotta vet vet vet. Idk why women make a thousand and 1 excuses why they cant or wont vet....then complain on the losers they get. Its very counterproductive. FR. SMH 🤦♂️
All due respect...Sis wants a traditional man but she is not a traditional woman...Being with that man for 6 months wasn't long enough for her to realize he wasn't her cup of tea?? C'mon sis...And you still want to be courted?? Opening doors...etc...Go back to that man so y'all can be a family unit.
she pretty , time to focus on herself and the baby
These women never take accountability 🙄
She is so beautiful, she will get what she want .
Who?
@@hrstories2😂😂 she's pretty but nah she ain't got much options that's why she's on here
@@minarue lol I don't see it. Maybe 50-70 lbs lighter and she might be cute.
@@hrstories2 she's very stupid that I know
Bernice getting her back blew out and kick to the side. Terrible example lol. It's called pump and dump. Marriage holds weight. Nobody is living with BB lol.
Its not the look necessarily...cause players holla at all types of women. Women gotta get better at vetting and not believing the smooth talking guy that tells them exactly what they wanna hear. Cmon now. Gotta get it together. FR
Honestly it aounds like ahe just wanted a child fr. She didnt love that man.
She said her daughter was her whole world. Well...seems like she decided her fate. Unless she makes major changes, she will be another single baby momma. (Situationship/Sidepiece will be her "God" plan unless she wakes up.
She waited all the way until 37 just to become a single mom ????? That just lets me know she’s one of them chicks who never wanted commitment they just want the child but wants to jump from pookie to pookie .
She was 35
A woman who is 35 having her first child is NOT jumping from Pookie and Ray Ray. She would've gotten pregnant a long time ago.
@@sparklesp9304I agree
@@sparklesp9304I’ll love for you to ask her about her body count, and see if she’ll honestly answer you.🤷🏾♀️
You don’t tolerate foolishness, yet you are in the most foolish position ever!!!!! This wasn’t God’s plan for your life. This was your plan for your life🫠
Fax.
As far as I’m concerned it’s not having a child after 6 months, as this is the end result, it’s also the physiological pressure from society to having an abortion,
its doing the do with someone you don’t really know, if you know what I mean, someone that isn’t your husband as having these factors in place usually brings security and protection.
My motto is if you do things in order, (God, Jesus’s way) you usually won’t fall far from this with there being exception of course but if you stray too far from order well you better brace yourself!!
Lol at almonds and green juice!!
Gurllllll does your child even know to talk or write properly. Focus on your child and yourself rather than trying to get a man already! Otherwise you’ll end up with another baby soon! Don’t want to come across as mean, but I’m tired of my sisters popping kids left and right with no ring! You’re making your life difficult for no reason!
Stop It! She can still date with a kid. Cmon now
Ashley 😊 Please can we get a shorts clip of the 10 minutes coaching talks for the ladies. Wow - “Be the best version of you”
Oversharing still plagues us.
37year old with 2year old child and a strained relationship baby daddy.....hard pass
My son is 25 years old, and I'll be damn if he dates and or marry a woman with a child/children.
Jesus Christ died for your sins, was buried, and rose Again on the third day according to the scriptures. The Bible says that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved (Romans 10:9).
She’s done for it and she don’t it
Ashley! I definitely used to say I’m done wanting a relationship, lemme go get this McDonald’s! 😂Now I take care of me for me. ❤
Why would a man with his own place move in baby moma with a child with no father support ? Insanity
Too old to be this slow.
75 DOLLARS 😶😶😶😶😶😶
Sis is confused.
This has to take accountability in her poor choice of a man. Now you want a good guy come and take care of you and your daughter.
Her baby daddy make less money than her and she was disrespectful. The guy left her. I’m older man I see the gaslighting.
How you a single mother and the baby not even 5. Smh let me guess you was young and didn’t know better. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂 immediately
This is nasty on so many levels.
just focus on your baby who is so young..your energy is will bring in desperation energy and the wrong kind of man. If you were tradiional you wouldnt of got pregnant after 6mnths so just maybe give up the door opening criteria. Focus on your money and babies life. That child deserves it
But you had a baby with him? C’ mon ladies 6 month?