DO NOT tell this guy what makes you tick, or what “checks the boxes” for you. Just get to know each other organically, without making pronouncements. BE YOURSELF 100%, and like Ash says, know that you are the prize.
I agree with everything you said here...not necessarily the prize thing...although I do kinda agree. But we all supposed to feel like we are the prize. But it is what it is.
@@jayc5756 When the right man finds his woman, he will see her as his prize. Conversely, imagine a man saying, “This is my woman, but she’s not a prize.”
@@pthesmith They will both see each other as a prize. It's not about you a prize but I'm not type shit. That's why I dont entertain that prize shit. A Prize...not Thee Prize. Feel me?
Youth is magic baby. That’s why LOOKING young has so much popularity. If you LOOK young people Weill big you up far and wide. So definitely of you ARE young. People need to stop the cap. I feel younger than I am but I definitely think about the time I wasted.
There's no magic in being young my dear. More and more young people are out there struggling. They are lost and have no sense of direction, awareness and have no common sense. All most of these young folks are interested in is becoming social media famous, smoking weed and having sex. I am so glad I am from the generation I am from because I would not want to be young in 2024. Nope, no magic whatsoever in today’s youth.
Why would you pedestalise and put so much pressure on something that is so temporary for everyone? So what happens when you're not considered "young" anymore because we all age one day(including the young ones)? Thankfully, there are qualities that shine brighter than anything else and are universally attractive and it's something anyone can obtain regardless or age, looks, status etc and that is self love, happiness and confidence. There's nothing quite like an authentic person who genuinely loves themsleves and enjoys life and you don't have to be a young, hot 20-something model to attract the right people in your life 😍.
A strong relationship is the prize. The man and woman are people trying to win the prize. It’s so weird to analogize yourself to an inanimate object that hangs or sits…usually collecting dust after a week as you pursue a new prize.
Ashley I love how positive and encouraging you are to women.Especially young women who may not be as confident as they are coming into womanhood. I love your platform.❤
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
But Ashley just remember that being the prize and all that is way more than just looks. These women are a perfect example. You might have the looks but if you lack energy, charisma, essence, confidence, you're just another pretty face with no deeper value.
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
I see the 2nd girl has several tattoos at the very least removing the one from her neck would open her up to pretty much all groups of men. Being tatted up sends a message whether fair or unfair.
For her he is a 10 which is making her insecure. And he probably feels like a 10 so it’s a iffy situation because he can turn out to be a player or just a normal guy.
I watched this then came back to watch it again. She likes his appearance, but I didn't hear her saying that after 3 or 4 weeks she has a mad crush on him. We hear her talking about triangulating God into the mix as a rationale for making him wait. It's like her priority is to marry the lifestyle he can provide. I don't know his deal, it doesn't sound like he's pressured her at all for intimacy, which to me is a bit of a red flag after a month of knowing each other and dating? Hard to tell b/c women often allude they're dating someone but with a little digging, there's nothing really going on. At any rate, she needs to hang out enough to see first if they have real chemistry.
Players play games ma. And a lot of women try to play those same games too. Ok. But yall gotta stop with that game playing with the potential good men. Cause we don't like that At All.
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
He's older (likely looks & health are dimishing - men hit the wall way b4 women) divorced/1 failed marriage), barely a month and talking about s3x but he's a "Christian"...She's young, beautiful, childfree, speaks well, has sexual discipline but seems to have low self esteem... I hope she matures a little and grows into her true potential ❤
Okay now, be careful. Some of us older men take care of ourselves. We go to the 4-5 days a week. We limit our meat intake or eat no meat at all. We drink a gallon or more spring water a day. So yes we our health diminishes with age. We also hit the wall. But in the looks category we keep it tight and right. The salt and pepper in our facial hair is sexy to many. So be careful with those words. 😊😉
@@ArtLee68Nobody "hits the wall" just because you past a certain age. Of course it's important to take good care of your health regardless of age, but this BS socially constructed notion that a person 'loses value: because they dared to let time pass and inevitably' age' is so damaging and false. Yet the same people wonder why some people desperately try to cling onto their youth.
@@Sasha-zl1xr The question is what does a person have to offer someone in a relationship? The reality is that even the oldest of men can offer $$$ which is something that a man is willing to pay and a lot of women are willing to accept. We don't really see the same in reverse. So when a woman's no longer fertile, the benefits absolutely diminish.
She is not the prize, if she was then there would be a ring on her left hand. Men bend the knee, NOT women. She has not been or is not chosen to be a wife. Therefore, she is NOT the prize.
Women are always the prize despite good quality men being much rarer than good quality women. She does need to make him earn her but she doesn’t need to act like an enigma wrapped in a secret all of the time. Open yourself up slowly, deliberately and intentionally but don’t play games either. Be yourself means be authentic but don’t be needy, clingy or become quickly attached to him. He’s a stranger and you don’t know him. Don’t conflate familiarity with knowing or understanding. Knowing and understanding comes from patience, time and control over emotions.
Here is your logic : Although Diamonds are much rare(him), i rather get a bottle of water (her). Water is valueable and needed but currently there is water everywhere. Maybe if we were in the desert the water would be the prize, but there are 25 yr olds everywhere and they all want a established man who is financially stable. And they aren't celibate at that.😅
I SWEAR I tell my daughters this all the time (starting from very young) YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!! And any man that don't act like it should kick rocks. My 22 year is dating an older guy AND he is fat 🥴🙄😒🤦🏾♀ and although I disagree with the relationship I'm telling her THE ONLY WAY YOU SHOULD BE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP IS IF HE TREATS YOU LIKE AN ABSOLUTE PRINCESS!
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
You can tell your daughters and sisters to feel lesser when they get pass 25. The woman is the price and you men should get over it. Age is just a no. Young men get married to older girls
@@Iamnotyourregularside y’all are slow I’m saying your best bet to get the best man possible for you and your future is when you are 21 to 26 yrs old as a women its biology that’s when you are more fertile aka able to bare kids ma’am I didn’t make the rules up or science up for the important things you need to know about your own body it’s common sense 😂😂😂😂💯💯💯
No, he's not. She is because she's young. At her age she can get both young and old people. But for him, he'll have to try a little bit harder because he's older.
Maybe the guy doesn't like your sect of Christianity.... and that's okay. I don't like the ones who dance with snakes. Let's calm down about complaining in a relationship.
DO NOT tell this guy what makes you tick, or what “checks the boxes” for you. Just get to know each other organically, without making pronouncements. BE YOURSELF 100%, and like Ash says, know that you are the prize.
I agree with everything you said here...not necessarily the prize thing...although I do kinda agree. But we all supposed to feel like we are the prize. But it is what it is.
@@jayc5756 When the right man finds his woman, he will see her as his prize. Conversely, imagine a man saying, “This is my woman, but she’s not a prize.”
@@pthesmith They will both see each other as a prize. It's not about you a prize but I'm not type shit. That's why I dont entertain that prize shit. A Prize...not Thee Prize. Feel me?
@@jayc5756 The man is the WINNER! You don’t want to be the winner? I don’t get it.
@@pthesmith No, We Both Win. That's my take and opinion on it. But not trying to convince you otherwise. That's just how I see it.
Youth is magic baby. That’s why LOOKING young has so much popularity. If you LOOK young people Weill big you up far and wide. So definitely of you ARE young. People need to stop the cap. I feel younger than I am but I definitely think about the time I wasted.
There's no magic in being young my dear. More and more young people are out there struggling. They are lost and have no sense of direction, awareness and have no common sense. All most of these young folks are interested in is becoming social media famous, smoking weed and having sex. I am so glad I am from the generation I am from because I would not want to be young in 2024. Nope, no magic whatsoever in today’s youth.
Why would you pedestalise and put so much pressure on something that is so temporary for everyone? So what happens when you're not considered "young" anymore because we all age one day(including the young ones)?
Thankfully, there are qualities that shine brighter than anything else and are universally attractive and it's something anyone can obtain regardless or age, looks, status etc and that is self love, happiness and confidence.
There's nothing quite like an authentic person who genuinely loves themsleves and enjoys life and you don't have to be a young, hot 20-something model to attract the right people in your life 😍.
A strong relationship is the prize. The man and woman are people trying to win the prize. It’s so weird to analogize yourself to an inanimate object that hangs or sits…usually collecting dust after a week as you pursue a new prize.
EXACTLY!!!
These “church” ones be the worst one😂😂 no shade they the ones that think about seg 24/7
NO LIES TOLDDD
@@Tionaintown876 cuz why is seg already on her mind and its only been 3 weeks💀💀
@@user-gn7in7tp4bShe's not a Christian. It sounds like she's just trying to use the religion to leverage him into marriage by holding out for sex.
Not all and at least she has morals. It’s natural to think about secs when you’re attracted to someone but it’s about discipline and respecting God
Ashley I love how positive and encouraging you are to women.Especially young women who may not be as confident as they are coming into womanhood. I love your platform.❤
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
But Ashley just remember that being the prize and all that is way more than just looks. These women are a perfect example. You might have the looks but if you lack energy, charisma, essence, confidence, you're just another pretty face with no deeper value.
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
I see the 2nd girl has several tattoos at the very least removing the one from her neck would open her up to pretty much all groups of men. Being tatted up sends a message whether fair or unfair.
For her he is a 10 which is making her insecure. And he probably feels like a 10 so it’s a iffy situation because he can turn out to be a player or just a normal guy.
As long as she keeps her legs closed, it won’t matter if he’s a player.
@@pthesmith but it depends on her n if she is insecure she will probably fold but lets hope not lol
He could also be pretendign to be a 10 and lying to get laid. Straight dudes do this all the time.
I watched this then came back to watch it again. She likes his appearance, but I didn't hear her saying that after 3 or 4 weeks she has a mad crush on him. We hear her talking about triangulating God into the mix as a rationale for making him wait. It's like her priority is to marry the lifestyle he can provide. I don't know his deal, it doesn't sound like he's pressured her at all for intimacy, which to me is a bit of a red flag after a month of knowing each other and dating? Hard to tell b/c women often allude they're dating someone but with a little digging, there's nothing really going on. At any rate, she needs to hang out enough to see first if they have real chemistry.
Connection...not necessarily chemistry
Ive never dated younger. What makes someone the prize is everything together.
Ashley i just loveee how you laugh with your mouth closed 😅 so graceful i love it
The age gap isn't bad as long you're looking at settling down.
Im not with the Who's the Prize thing...cause we All supposed to feel like we're the prize...but not like the other isnt. So it is what it is.
“Say what?” 😂😂
Players play games ma. And a lot of women try to play those same games too. Ok. But yall gotta stop with that game playing with the potential good men. Cause we don't like that At All.
Ashley is speaking the truth!
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
Wasting his time and money. This is why you see what you see on draft. All these games.
I'm with you brother. They have no ideas what they are doing. It seems they love to listen to what's sweet to their ears. But the truth ain't!
He's older (likely looks & health are dimishing - men hit the wall way b4 women) divorced/1 failed marriage), barely a month and talking about s3x but he's a "Christian"...She's young, beautiful, childfree, speaks well, has sexual discipline but seems to have low self esteem... I hope she matures a little and grows into her true potential ❤
Okay now, be careful. Some of us older men take care of ourselves. We go to the 4-5 days a week. We limit our meat intake or eat no meat at all. We drink a gallon or more spring water a day. So yes we our health diminishes with age. We also hit the wall. But in the looks category we keep it tight and right. The salt and pepper in our facial hair is sexy to many. So be careful with those words. 😊😉
🤣😂🤣😂 you are funny...
Men don't have a wall..
@@ArtLee68Nobody "hits the wall" just because you past a certain age. Of course it's important to take good care of your health regardless of age, but this BS socially constructed notion that a person 'loses value: because they dared to let time pass and inevitably' age' is so damaging and false. Yet the same people wonder why some people desperately try to cling onto their youth.
@@Sasha-zl1xr The question is what does a person have to offer someone in a relationship? The reality is that even the oldest of men can offer $$$ which is something that a man is willing to pay and a lot of women are willing to accept.
We don't really see the same in reverse. So when a woman's no longer fertile, the benefits absolutely diminish.
You could look like a thumb👍🏽😂
She is not the prize, if she was then there would be a ring on her left hand. Men bend the knee, NOT women. She has not been or is not chosen to be a wife. Therefore, she is NOT the prize.
Umm.. last lady .. if pretty was a person 🩵🥹
both are absolutely gorgeous 😍
Women are always the prize despite good quality men being much rarer than good quality women.
She does need to make him earn her but she doesn’t need to act like an enigma wrapped in a secret all of the time.
Open yourself up slowly, deliberately and intentionally but don’t play games either.
Be yourself means be authentic but don’t be needy, clingy or become quickly attached to him. He’s a stranger and you don’t know him. Don’t conflate familiarity with knowing or understanding.
Knowing and understanding comes from patience, time and control over emotions.
Here is your logic : Although Diamonds are much rare(him), i rather get a bottle of water (her). Water is valueable and needed but currently there is water everywhere. Maybe if we were in the desert the water would be the prize, but there are 25 yr olds everywhere and they all want a established man who is financially stable. And they aren't celibate at that.😅
How can “the prize” be the thing that’s more common???
@@mrmoe110 let them keep being delusional
I SWEAR I tell my daughters this all the time (starting from very young) YOU ARE THE PRIZE!!! And any man that don't act like it should kick rocks.
My 22 year is dating an older guy AND he is fat 🥴🙄😒🤦🏾♀ and although I disagree with the relationship I'm telling her THE ONLY WAY YOU SHOULD BE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP IS IF HE TREATS YOU LIKE AN ABSOLUTE PRINCESS!
He fat, she broke. Perfect match
We should All feel like we're a prize. It is what it is.
Listen I don't agree with putting women on a pedestal, that creates entitlement. "because I'm a woman you should do this"
Men are such a prize that women wear uncomfortable shoes, tight clothes and go to home depot, sporting events, hotels looking for them. 😂
She is 25 and he is 36. That an age gap boo. A 25 year old man more liable to waste your time
Nice show, Ashley.
The host is giving her bad advice. The age gap is the best if she likes him. He got experience and everything she needs for her to feel safe. I think the host wants this lady to lose that guy because she is jealous or something honestly. She wasn't honest with this young lady. She is not the price,he is because he has all she wants and other women want him too. If she tries flaking, he will move to the next. But you, as a young woman, will miss a guy like that, thinking you might find another guy like him, then you hit 35 and start becoming invisible to guys.
Ashley, will keep 99 % of these women single....
9:47
Nah women are the prize from 18-26yrs old those are your best youth years simple 😂💯
"lean on it!"
She has 1 more year as the prize sorry 😂😂😂😂
Lies
You can tell your daughters and sisters to feel lesser when they get pass 25. The woman is the price and you men should get over it. Age is just a no. Young men get married to older girls
@@Iamnotyourregularside yeah that’s the dumbest shi.. they can do if they want kids 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Iamnotyourregularside y’all are slow I’m saying your best bet to get the best man possible for you and your future is when you are 21 to 26 yrs old as a women its biology that’s when you are more fertile aka able to bare kids ma’am I didn’t make the rules up or science up for the important things you need to know about your own body it’s common sense 😂😂😂😂💯💯💯
@@Iamnotyourregularside😂😂😂😂😂
I disagree. The man is the prize.
No, he's not. She is because she's young. At her age she can get both young and old people. But for him, he'll have to try a little bit harder because he's older.
@@cfoxy3she has 1 more year to be the prize that’s it sorry 😂😂
That's a lie. People are so full of themselves. If the relationship is healthy, they are both the prize under God.
@@taylorthenatural5509 true but we talking biology 🤣🤣💯
@@sammywilliams6 That is meaningless in the face of God, women don't lose value after 26 regardless of biology, especially to a man 10 years older.
She’ll be his prize.. But that man is definitely tTHE prize.
Maybe the guy doesn't like your sect of Christianity.... and that's okay. I don't like the ones who dance with snakes. Let's calm down about complaining in a relationship.