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  • Опубліковано 10 жов 2022
  • A family man targeted for death lives to climb out of his own "grave." Who wanted him dead? "48 Hours" goes inside the sting that took down a hit man-for-hire scheme. "48 Hours" correspondent Peter Van Sant investigates. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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  • @48hours
    @48hours  Рік тому +52

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  • @rachelly00
    @rachelly00 Рік тому +1052

    I will never understand how a person can date or marry someone that treats their children badly.

    • @SweetChicagoGator
      @SweetChicagoGator 11 місяців тому +28

      Greed doesn't know Love !

    • @kro0018
      @kro0018 11 місяців тому +21

      ​@@SweetChicagoGatorlove *and* foolishness

    • @maccoll3644
      @maccoll3644 10 місяців тому +95

      The answer to that is some men put sex above everything else.

    • @SweetChicagoGator
      @SweetChicagoGator 10 місяців тому +52

      @@maccoll3644
      Both genders put sex/relationship above their children.
      I had a friend whose girlfriend put him above her own, age 10 son.
      She blatantly stated, " I ain't going to let some kid get between me and my man."
      Needless to say I was extremely shocked by such a caustic remark !! 💔

    • @thatkidsgotsoul9591
      @thatkidsgotsoul9591 10 місяців тому +28

      It happens a lot, it's happened to me on both sides. I think in my case each parent valued feeling romantic love over me. I could never do it myself.

  • @paulbowman1762
    @paulbowman1762 Рік тому +1026

    My cat has given me 10 times bigger scratches than what she was trying to say her Husband gave her ! She's an Evil woman with No mercy this one..

    • @hankbailey2306
      @hankbailey2306 Рік тому +9

      what is a stratch???

    • @yellowdayz1800
      @yellowdayz1800 Рік тому +10

      Exactly!

    • @ericaz1458
      @ericaz1458 Рік тому +7

      Right

    • @Grace.allovertheplace
      @Grace.allovertheplace Рік тому +4

      @@hankbailey2306 tear marks perhaps 🤔 (just using my imagination because I haven’t yet began to watch this) *Omnia fort*

    • @pamelamorris3148
      @pamelamorris3148 Рік тому +17

      @@hankbailey2306 if you don't know what a scratch is then you need a dictionary and perhaps these shows are above your comprehension or age.

  • @cali.girllivinnnevada8
    @cali.girllivinnnevada8 Рік тому +999

    This guy is so lucky that he had such a good friend.

    • @sikequan4542
      @sikequan4542 Рік тому +44

      @*Cali-Girl - Well it seems to me that it wasn't about luck. He put good karma out into the world by helping others, and through Mundo - who was the recipient of some of it and was grateful for it - he got good karma back. I like that. Don't see it happen often enough.

    • @gavincaballero6443
      @gavincaballero6443 Рік тому +2

      😊

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 Рік тому +11

      @@sikequan4542 yes he helpped him so he returned that favor its why i help others

    • @princesberliner5780
      @princesberliner5780 Рік тому +5

      Amen🙏

    • @earthrooster1969
      @earthrooster1969 11 місяців тому +7

      He is a great guy in his own right. Perhaps that is why he also had such a valuable friend!

  • @wldncrzy1971
    @wldncrzy1971 Рік тому +815

    That woman lying about her “injuries” is why real victims of domestic violence have an uphill battle proving they are being victimized! 🤬 She deserves to rot in prison forever.

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 Рік тому +27

      more women should call out the fakers

    • @fandomfan2800
      @fandomfan2800 Рік тому +3

      no she doesn't!

    • @nybsbfan18
      @nybsbfan18 Рік тому +11

      The lawyer only saw pictures...

    • @prod805212
      @prod805212 Рік тому +53

      Doing kickboxing and jiu-jitsu...i have faaaar worse bruises and scrapes, weekly, than what those pictures showed...

    • @michellevanguilder4606
      @michellevanguilder4606 Рік тому +45

      She scratched her self and you can tell none of those marks are in places that she can't reach .. She deserves to be locked up.. She planed that right from the start she wanted everything he worked his life for .. women like her make women who really go through that look like there lien .

  • @dejuhvu1793
    @dejuhvu1793 Рік тому +697

    When your kids don’t like your new gf/bf or are being disrespected by her/him, you listen to them. You chose a random woman over your children. Look how that treated you 👀

    • @dawnatkinson7704
      @dawnatkinson7704 Рік тому +61

      It's a story as old as time!
      He goes and marries her and doesn't invite his own kids?! He does not get a lot of sympathy from me.

    • @amdesigns5865
      @amdesigns5865 Рік тому +13

      sadly my dad didn't. gave me years of abuse his wife did.

    • @janetr5929
      @janetr5929 Рік тому +34

      I came here to say the exact same thing. I don’t understand choosing random people over your children.

    • @TitoJohn4511
      @TitoJohn4511 Рік тому +7

      @@dawnatkinson7704 where did anyone say that? At 11:50 he stated that they didn't go, *not* that they were not invited.

    • @lisawentworth6831
      @lisawentworth6831 Рік тому +24

      @@TitoJohn4511 the daughter stated, that the day they found out he got married, was a shock ar 11:45. He merely said they didn't go; daughter said they found out after the fact

  • @nataliarios1407
    @nataliarios1407 Рік тому +134

    That Mondo is the friend that everybody needs. Awesome loyalty!

  • @SandraGomez-ci3bj
    @SandraGomez-ci3bj Рік тому +530

    I get injuries like that on the daily basis without any kind of violence from anyone.. honestly the law really need to evaluate this kind of stuff. The job she did in a good indicator for most of her injuries.. scratches can be self inflicted . The audacity of her lawyer to act like what she did was okay is just mind blowing!

    • @roserocks1979
      @roserocks1979 Рік тому

      She probably slept with him.

    • @Alexandra_Wolf
      @Alexandra_Wolf 11 місяців тому +25

      Amen. I have worse injuries weekly from yard work and accidents etc.

    • @nikkihayes9236
      @nikkihayes9236 11 місяців тому +16

      I was thinking the same thing! They should have compared the scratches to his large fingers in a scratch to see it didn't match-up.

    • @gapeach51170
      @gapeach51170 11 місяців тому +26

      I haven't even finished watching ,but when they showed the pictures ...I was thinking to myself...those look like she scratched herself...and the small bruise...I get those all the time.

    • @jeezus666
      @jeezus666 11 місяців тому +21

      @@gapeach51170 I mean she works at a boxing gym. Any sane lawyer would realize that she can very well have bruises on her and none of them would necessarily indicate that her husband is abusing her.

  • @corrinaramos5906
    @corrinaramos5906 Рік тому +294

    Wow Mundo is so sweet. His message to her at the end wasn’t negative in any kind of way- It was actually great advice. I commend him. He is the hero in this story.

    • @sandisostoltz2811
      @sandisostoltz2811 10 місяців тому

      Sometimes I mundo could be her second son.. Even when not wanting to use his real name. Coz her other two kids didn't get along with sosa.. But they never talked about lulu other son

    • @DJJahT
      @DJJahT 4 місяці тому

      He beat her and then entrapped her into a hitman scheme. She's wrong, but he is a wife beating coward.

    • @tamitribbiani7907
      @tamitribbiani7907 3 місяці тому +6

      ​@@DJJahT You really believe he abused her? If he was why did she still live under the same roof as him? Her injuries looked very superficial and could have easily been done by her.

  • @FaithandNova
    @FaithandNova Рік тому +538

    He was chasing lust. Biggest red flag was her not wanting him around or helping his kids yet her kids receive everything.

    • @angelamccrackin5243
      @angelamccrackin5243 Рік тому +78

      Any time a partner is jealous over your children send them packing....

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому +48

      My father has been with a gold-digging woman just like this for the last 30 years. He is her 3rd husband. He chose her and her family over his relationship with me and my brother. It’s really sad how spineless some men can be. I am surprised that she never tried anything like this after how much she has bled him dry financially. He even embezzled money from his company to keep her happy.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova Рік тому +15

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465 oh my sorry to hear that. 30 years is a long time to be under someone's grip like that. I understand your pain only thing is mine isn't a stepparent.

    • @Breasail
      @Breasail Рік тому +28

      Definitely chasing lust. The wedding pictures say it all.

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 Рік тому +3

      @@Breasail never chase men

  • @mariaperry1283
    @mariaperry1283 Рік тому +274

    That lawyer saying how horrible and dangerous the husband was yet it's his client that put a hit on him.

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 Рік тому +1

      lol unreal

    • @WhatAWonderfulNameItIs
      @WhatAWonderfulNameItIs 11 місяців тому +4

      And, the one who took a plea deal so she didn’t have to go on trial. No one heard her side because SHE took a plea deal.

    • @jennypham3998
      @jennypham3998 10 місяців тому +7

      He s her lawyer, ò course he had to take her side. He got paid to take her side.

    • @user-rr3fo6hy9q
      @user-rr3fo6hy9q 10 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. He’s paid to represent her. People have a really hard time wrapping their head around the fact lawyers sometimes have to defend someone regardless of what their personal views on the case are. At the end of the day it’s a job and someone has to do it

    • @ConorF922
      @ConorF922 2 місяці тому

      Criminal defence lawyers are almost as bad as their clients

  • @royaldiadem_
    @royaldiadem_ Рік тому +206

    She lost everything that she did NOT work for. Makes perfect sense 😮

  • @shoddypockets9666
    @shoddypockets9666 Рік тому +98

    God bless his loyal friend for his quick thinking in telling her he'd look for a hit man for her. Man!, growing up on those streets made him tough, smart and sharp. Amazing!

  • @Promiseland2024
    @Promiseland2024 Рік тому +796

    Her intent was to take all he had from that 1st meeting in the club. She probably knew exactly who he was. Thank God for his loyal friend. 🙏

    • @AlexusMusic
      @AlexusMusic Рік тому +42

      Absolutely agreed ! When the friend talked about how she was overly catering to him I already knew she had ulterior motives

    • @marivipalomino6975
      @marivipalomino6975 Рік тому +56

      She must have recognized him. The man is not handsome so as to fall in love with him at first sight so she probably saw dollar signs all over his face.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 Рік тому +7

      Amen!

    • @MsDmolina
      @MsDmolina Рік тому +24

      It’s exactly what I thought. A Poor costarían woman married my brother while having a lover since before marrying him and kept him afterwards. Then she found another guy, then another, when they got very wealthy, she failed for divorce, and wanted to leave him on the street Without a penny. At the end she ended up with 3 homes a building and 4 clothing stores. And $900 a month for the children which are taken care by their many because the mother is always out with her new 11 years younger boyfriend spending all the money. The children clothes look like poor kids my brothers is Salvadorans.
      My point is, some women married for the money not love.

    • @mayabroad
      @mayabroad Рік тому +3

      @Mariví Palomino so you think she is pretty?lol..she wants to be free woman and LIVE in the US to have better LIFE! THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON OR LOOK BETTER ESPECIALLY IF YOU'VE BEEN DIVORCE ! MEAN TO SAY YOU HAVE ISSUES!

  • @deborahsunflower939
    @deborahsunflower939 Рік тому +164

    Lulu is scared for her life, but stays living in the same house as her "abuser". ?

    • @AriKhuu
      @AriKhuu Рік тому +10

      Not saying it applies to this case in the video. But plenty of victims stay in the same house with their abusers because of various reasons. The first to come to mind if the fear that the abusers would find them and hurt them or the people close to them (children and families etc)

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 Рік тому

      @@AriKhuu church man DNT hurt and we stay home the home even though we are living with abusive spouse..24 years on off..

    • @kalyncoleman7732
      @kalyncoleman7732 Рік тому

      That’s what I was thinking too,

    • @basicleighdisney5643
      @basicleighdisney5643 17 днів тому +2

      That was my thought, too. I also understand that it happens a lot in real abuse cases. But she had already filed for divorce and her pictures of the supposed abuse were a few minor looking injuries. This guy would've inflicted a lot worse looking injuries if he'd done it and she would've had a lot more pictures than she had because abuse doesn't happen a few times and then it's over. It is a continual and pretty frequent act. Pictures like that aren't proof and they were in places that she easily could do herself. I definitely do not condone abuse. It's a serious thing. In many cases it's an uphill battle to prove. But if she was truly in fear for her life, her injuries would support that. The injuries she had don't support being in fear of your life. Also, people who actually do get substantial injuries usually hide them and they also don't go around telling multiple people because they're too afraid of the consequences of having people know about it. She was setting up a narrative once she figured out that the divorce would leave her without as much as she wanted. She benefits way way more if he's dead. This was a pretty clear cut case, in my opinion. Real abuse victims don't behave the way she did.

    • @Demigod8ether
      @Demigod8ether День тому

      @@basicleighdisney5643 I believe these were self-inflicted scratches … looks like Lulu shoulda done a better job and contacted law enforcement to get her PPO which woulda put him out of home also. She stayed and wanted him dead for his $ he was worth more dead than alive.

  • @nancymosby7369
    @nancymosby7369 Рік тому +272

    How can men leave their children out of their lives when they remarry is beyond sad 😢

    • @christieburris
      @christieburris 10 місяців тому +12

      I was lucky enough to marry a man that has included me in his daughter's life

    • @Atlantisheals
      @Atlantisheals 10 місяців тому +14

      That is his karma biting him in the backside. Should never have had married a woman that annihilates his relationship with his children.

    • @Jeannelawes
      @Jeannelawes 10 місяців тому +9

      Thankfully my stepmum was always kind to me.

    • @Ibalistic_hedge
      @Ibalistic_hedge 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Atlantishealsu think he deserved to die bc he ignored his children?
      He was manipulated by Lulu so he probably would have been scared to go against her. Do use your common sense.

    • @Atlantisheals
      @Atlantisheals 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Ibalistic_hedge to have a discussion at any length with you is the same as giving medicine to a dead ☠️

  • @michaelglynn7010
    @michaelglynn7010 Рік тому +77

    Mundo should do more undercover work he was not only a brilliant friend, but also played his role perfectly 👌

  • @fremontpathfinder8463
    @fremontpathfinder8463 Рік тому +426

    That divorce lawyer...what a piece of work. She was not hit or abused. Were those pictures taken at a hospital or by Lulu? Ramon should have known when Lulu froze out his children that she was bad news.

    • @SewWhittle
      @SewWhittle Рік тому +9

      What a piece of work!

    • @viper2788
      @viper2788 Рік тому +19

      My gf gets little scars like that (sometimes a bit worse) all the time just from being clumsy. Bumping into furniture, dropping things, etc. You'd imagine a guy like him could inflict some actual damage to that woman if he wanted to

    • @R.POWELL
      @R.POWELL Рік тому +33

      The pics are a joke !!! That lawyer was seeing $ signs - pitiful !!!

    • @natalietylerrobinson
      @natalietylerrobinson Рік тому +12

      Exactly, he should've known

    • @shantidavid6062
      @shantidavid6062 Рік тому +14

      When Peter asked to see the pictures the lawyer was showing, I thought he would ask : Where are the injuries? Oh, you mean the scratches?

  • @sydney13ism
    @sydney13ism Рік тому +190

    So when did Lulu find out he wasn't dead? The expression on her face would have been priceless!

    • @sweetassugar2076
      @sweetassugar2076 Рік тому +15

      There is a video of it it’s priceless

    • @MargieRose777
      @MargieRose777 Рік тому +8

      @@sweetassugar2076 where can I watch it?

    • @emoliver80
      @emoliver80 Рік тому +6

      @@sweetassugar2076 yeah, where can we find this video?! I *need* to see if!

    • @Billie_Marie_
      @Billie_Marie_ Рік тому +5

      I was waiting for that too 🤣

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, I saw that footage lol

  • @emmawhite4418
    @emmawhite4418 Рік тому +77

    When it comes down to it, we all need a Mundo in our lives! That guy had his back! Legend!!

    • @user-rr3fo6hy9q
      @user-rr3fo6hy9q 10 місяців тому +2

      If I’m Ramon I’m in debt to Mundo forever. He saved Ramon’s life, that’s as bro as it gets.

    • @258Blumen
      @258Blumen 9 місяців тому +1

      We all should be a Mundo in someone's life if push comes to shove.

  • @valeriec3223
    @valeriec3223 Рік тому +32

    “Police come to the gym, and not for a workout”🤣🤣

  • @crimegeek
    @crimegeek Рік тому +272

    Ramon: “I’m the only person alive that has walked out of their own grave.”
    Jesus: “Well…”

    • @ntandosekay
      @ntandosekay Рік тому +23

      Jesus: " No offence but ..."

    • @ruthannehill1751
      @ruthannehill1751 Рік тому +9

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @U-Gozoo
      @U-Gozoo Рік тому +15

      Jesus: am I a joke to you??

    • @royer_redos
      @royer_redos Рік тому +11

      The only one proven.

    • @Godschild9108
      @Godschild9108 Рік тому +10

      I came here to find this comment ❤
      If I didn’t find it I would have made it.

  • @mariacperez-fondon543
    @mariacperez-fondon543 Рік тому +442

    The alleged assault pictures were pathetic, she couldn't even hurt herself enough to make them look believable
    ..also man don't scratch. Greed and karma got her in the end. What a disgrace of a woman, especially for the real abused woman victims, in this case she took advantage of a really nice person, or so she thought. You can see the hurt in Ramon's eyes. I am so please and glad that justice prevail.

    • @amyntut
      @amyntut Рік тому +28

      Exactly. And I'm surprised they didn't mention those could have been from her being a trainer 🤔🙄

    • @tylerjune4120
      @tylerjune4120 Рік тому +12

      @@amyntut good point, there’s bound to be accidents in training

    • @nekograce7914
      @nekograce7914 Рік тому +14

      @@amyntut 100%. And those scratches look like they’re from a brush.

    • @marivipalomino6975
      @marivipalomino6975 Рік тому +10

      That's what I thought. I got bigger bruises from hitting myself with a tennis racquet, unwillingly of course, that hurts. They don't mention if she ever reported those alleged abuses to the police or to the doctor. She was a woman with a plan that's why she started spreading rumors about his abuse. And that accusation about him hitting his son if you see the video carefully you notice Ramon had an open hand like going for the phone as he said.

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 Рік тому +10

      Yup!!! She should have hired a make-up artist! She has to be a Supreme narcissist to think anyone would actually believe she was a battered wife with those self inflicted scratches!

  • @haleyludolph861
    @haleyludolph861 Рік тому +33

    Her “injuries” are a slap in the face to every person that has been abused!

  • @amandaowens2016
    @amandaowens2016 Рік тому +35

    If it wasn't for Mundo, the ending would have been much different. Thank God he had a true friend that stuck with him like a brother 🙏 ❤️ 😊 Bravo Mundo, everyone needs a friend like you .👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @YveLamb
      @YveLamb 3 місяці тому

      So true…
      Also to remember tho, Ramon saved Mundo life…
      They are obviously truly there for each other & meant to be a part of eachother’s lives, soul brothers indeed…

  • @taililin8047
    @taililin8047 Рік тому +323

    How could Lulu's lawyer even think she got the right to have someone been killed? What kind of human beings he's?

    • @faatfaatje7086
      @faatfaatje7086 Рік тому +43

      They would even defend the worst human being all for money.

    • @camb.9763
      @camb.9763 Рік тому +12

      He hit.

    • @sbnl1214
      @sbnl1214 Рік тому +25

      Defense attorneys say whatever they have to for money

    • @sbnl1214
      @sbnl1214 Рік тому +19

      @@camb.9763
      Then why wouldn’t she photograph the bruises? She photographed tiny marks on her body that literally everyone has from random scratches or scars.

    • @gigiis526
      @gigiis526 Рік тому +22

      I think she put her "spell" on him too!

  • @lynzyrisingsun
    @lynzyrisingsun Рік тому +73

    Trust me a abusive man does not leave just a couple of scratches. This woman was a complete liar.

    • @Mataylor17
      @Mataylor17 5 місяців тому +5

      Right? Especially a trained fighter. Its absurd that anyone believes her lies.

  • @hayleybourgault4114
    @hayleybourgault4114 Рік тому +84

    When u got friends like Mundo you're set for life, absolutely

  • @trini1990
    @trini1990 11 місяців тому +34

    My dad got remarried behind my back and when i found out i was so hurt . It still hurts n its been 5 years . I never thought i could feel that type of let down from my dad. We were always close until he met his new wife now we don't speak and its the one of the most painful things . Im so glad ramons children are back in his life . The bond a father has wth his kids is something different its like you have your own superman in the home😂 theres nothing like it

    • @user-rr3fo6hy9q
      @user-rr3fo6hy9q 10 місяців тому +1

      Sorry to hear about you and your dad’s fractured relationship. I have a daughter and could not imagine not having a relationship with her. Have you tried speaking to him about it? Or maybe someone that could speak to him for you, like maybe his parents (your grandparents) or maybe his brother or sister if he has any.
      Hopefully you two reconcile. Life is too short to hold grudges.

  • @butterflyperez7925
    @butterflyperez7925 Рік тому +151

    Ill never understand how a parent would choose a person they met over their own children. To cause that type of heartache ,for what

    • @dakalodk
      @dakalodk Рік тому +12

      he is clown

    • @rimrim6847
      @rimrim6847 11 місяців тому +9

      My mom did it, multiple times... The reason?
      I think it was because she was so hungry for someone to love her, she only attracted abusers (my grandparents ignored her a lot growing up)

    • @cengizc2456
      @cengizc2456 10 місяців тому +4

      Yes, I agree.
      I was a child like that, once. Hated by the newcomer from the minute she entered the house. She made my life miserable.

    • @bloodaonadeline8346
      @bloodaonadeline8346 10 місяців тому +3

      thinking with his libido.

  • @hannahriley8085
    @hannahriley8085 Рік тому +631

    Definitely not the only person to escape their own grave. I remember a case where father and son were shot and completely buried and the dad dug his way out with his hands and went to get help but it was too late for his son. That's literally escaping your grave!

  • @kentuky1233
    @kentuky1233 10 місяців тому +19

    We all need a friend like Mundo. Homie got your back.

  • @LivingLife.
    @LivingLife. Рік тому +63

    I've been in a abusive relationship for years and trust me, this man is not abusive!! Thank God I made it out

    • @Christina_320
      @Christina_320 Рік тому +4

      Glad you’re ok. I’ve been abused too. I have PTSD from it. Blessings.

    • @stfuplsok
      @stfuplsok 10 місяців тому

      AN* abusive

    • @edelquinn8997
      @edelquinn8997 10 місяців тому

      Me too and yes I do as well

    • @user-rr3fo6hy9q
      @user-rr3fo6hy9q 10 місяців тому

      I like your username. After what you’ve been through I’m sure it’s fitting.

  • @magentarae8044
    @magentarae8044 Рік тому +206

    Any parent willing to abandon their children for a significant other is trash tho

    • @yellowish1966
      @yellowish1966 Рік тому +41

      Completely agree.....the fact that he accepted that she treat his children like that show what such "good father he is" 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
      @gabrielamartiniuc6322 Рік тому +37

      @@yellowish1966 I agree 100%. Men like him are the bottom of the barrel. His daughter was so upset . She knows who her dad is now … he cares about women more than her .

    • @KeepinItReal632
      @KeepinItReal632 Рік тому +22

      You say this because you don’t Understand the type of manipulative abuse he was experiencing. It’s easy for people on the outside to say things like this. But for the person going through it, they don’t see it the same. One of the first things abusive partners do is isolate you from your family and friends. But they don’t do it all at once. It’s subtle, manipulative, and over time. She has all the signs of being a narcissistic sociopath and very covert. She has many people fooled like the attorney. She plays the victim and gets people on her side to manipulate them and she triangulates people. He didn’t realize what hit him until it was almost too late. I’m glad he made it out alive. Many don’t

    • @louniece1650
      @louniece1650 Рік тому +23

      @@KeepinItReal632 While you're very correct about how manipulative people like Lulu are it's also very true that Ramon is a shallow, silly man who leads with his peen. Her children clearly came first and he allowed it. She knew this about him. She sensed his weaknesses. Not everyone falls victim to people with NPD.

    • @kleeamd8274
      @kleeamd8274 Рік тому

      @@KeepinItReal632 the pervasive cult of victimhood that is omnipresent throughout society these days is so disgusting
      People who refuse to take accountability & others like you who make excuses for them

  • @MargieRose777
    @MargieRose777 Рік тому +450

    This man is a boxer and can throw hard punches, if he hit her she would have been black and blue with lumps and bumps if that was the truth why didn’t she take pictures? Because there were no bruises or bump or bloody nose…… Thank God his friend was there to hear their conversation. Hope he heals from this

    • @Raw_Roots
      @Raw_Roots Рік тому +43

      I've been scratched harder changing my granddaughters PJ'S.

    • @christinamenhennett
      @christinamenhennett Рік тому

      Absolutely! Her tiny bruise and minute scratches were nothing. She ought to try being smothered and having your arm dislocated and much more then maybe she'd know what abuse is. She wasn't afraid of him.

    • @airam-sj2172
      @airam-sj2172 Рік тому +39

      I agree. Those scratches looked like self-inflicted and very superficial.

    • @ElaAusDemTal
      @ElaAusDemTal Рік тому

      One punch would have been enough to break her jaw! My husband was attacked by a crazed guy who is into martial arts - his jaw was broken in 4 places and he needed surgery!

    • @cosmicmuffin322
      @cosmicmuffin322 Рік тому

      It's like Amber Heard claiming that Johnny Depp punched her in the face....when he wears massive rings on every finger, but she had not a single bruise on her face....just dark circles under her eyes from her last bender.

  • @RP6575most
    @RP6575most 11 місяців тому +46

    What an amazing story. 48 hours did an incredible job on the reporting, bu 👏🏽 to Ramón and Mundo for their courage and the police are definitely commendable in their investigation.

  • @gayled6349
    @gayled6349 10 місяців тому +61

    As a real victim of domestic violence, I find her lies & pathetic injuries laughable and offensive. My ex broke my back in four places & I had to have spinal fusion surgery. Men, never confuse a pretty face with a lovely person on the inside. I'm glad she went to prison, for a long time.

    • @user-rr3fo6hy9q
      @user-rr3fo6hy9q 10 місяців тому +4

      I’m really sorry to hear about the abuse you endured and your back injury. I don’t know you but anyone that survives that level of abuse is one tough cookie. Respect ✊

    • @gayled6349
      @gayled6349 10 місяців тому +4

      @user-rr3fo6hy9q Dear udanoob, thank you so much for your kind message. I really was very touched by your words. I don't feel like a tough cookie! Life is definitely getting better, though. It takes time, I have my son & and dogs, and we are safe now. God bless you. 🙌

  • @susiepoo51
    @susiepoo51 Рік тому +52

    Who continues a relationship with someone who is not liked by their kids? That’s a number 1 rule!

    • @Emy53
      @Emy53 Рік тому +4

      I know a few couples, especially a stepfather or stepmother, that have had terrible relationships with their stepchildren, but many have survived the drama, and have become a family. My mother and my dad went through a lot of heartache because my siblings from her first marriage, didn't get along with my dad. After many years, my half siblings loved my dad and respected him. To this day, they refer to him as "dad". Every situation is different.

    • @MsAnabel1000
      @MsAnabel1000 Рік тому +1

      My mother did . Step dad was a horrible man but she never left till he cheated on her and left her in debt. Only then did she try to make amends

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 Рік тому +2

      @@MsAnabel1000 NEVER getting married.. Ever...no interest in being used and Abused...no way Jose..

    • @msjadhav5192
      @msjadhav5192 11 місяців тому

      Agree

    • @msjadhav5192
      @msjadhav5192 11 місяців тому

      I would never married someone with kids. I am honest from beginning.. I know people who or don't think about it, or goes against own will

  • @showmevids1984
    @showmevids1984 11 місяців тому +23

    The way Ramone reacted to the question over the abuse made me instantly get the impression he was telling the truth, he responded with such conviction

    • @differenttakethanmost
      @differenttakethanmost 10 місяців тому +6

      I don’t buy any of her BS story either. But he said “these are meant for the ring… not even for the streets…I’m a professional…”
      Also him: “Yeah, I punched that door. Out of frustration…”
      👌🏼

    • @showmevids1984
      @showmevids1984 5 місяців тому

      He’s talking about he only fights in the ring and not in the streets

  • @adriedrake8605
    @adriedrake8605 Рік тому +22

    How sad! How could a woman love you but not love your children? Unexcusable! Im so glad he's safe and his children. God bless him ✝️

    • @jennypham3998
      @jennypham3998 10 місяців тому

      She didnt love him. She loved his money. She had a plan to alienate him from his kids so she can have all his money.

    • @stepcollazo8134
      @stepcollazo8134 8 місяців тому

      She would pretend in the beginning then she knew she trapped him and got what she wanted

  • @MyUnfilteredDiary
    @MyUnfilteredDiary Рік тому +661

    It's amazing to see how those horrible women can find a good man and good women cannot find a good man.Go figure!!!

    • @denisewarner8287
      @denisewarner8287 Рік тому +47

      I would love to find a good man!

    • @estherfromasia
      @estherfromasia Рік тому +27

      true

    • @fancyme.alter1311
      @fancyme.alter1311 Рік тому +56

      I know, I hear these stories of women destroying the lives of men that are faithful, hardworking and showing the wife respect. I always ask where did these women find these men.

    • @GetUnwoke
      @GetUnwoke Рік тому +28

      @@fancyme.alter1311 they do that with everyone. exaggerate to make them seem better than they really are. "he/she lit up the room wherever they went" "he was extremely good looking (looks very average)" "she was stunning (looks very average)"

    • @JosephKulik2016
      @JosephKulik2016 Рік тому +19

      Mya's Wheelstaurant LLC: What you're describing is called a "self fulfilling prophecy". We choose people in our lives that to some extent fulfill our self image of ourselves. Some men choose Horrible Wives because they see themselves as deserving no better than that.

  • @heidibrinkley4865
    @heidibrinkley4865 Рік тому +26

    How can the lawyer and reporter keep a straight face when looking at those abuse pictures.

  • @bariizlam638
    @bariizlam638 Рік тому +34

    I have been binge watching your channel. One thing I really appreciate is that your presentation of each case is very objective. you allow the defense and their side of the story to be presented as well. It is never biases unlike a lot of other true crime content where they just dunk on the perpetrator. Thanks for the great content.

  • @MoroMoro1
    @MoroMoro1 Рік тому +19

    Wow, the fact that they recorded everything and faked the death is amazing.

  • @wifemomteacherlife7648
    @wifemomteacherlife7648 Рік тому +208

    The photo “evidence” of her “injuries” are embarrassing. She has a dime sized bruise on her knee, and that’s her proof that she’s being abused? How disgusting! There are women who are ACTUALLY being abused, and this crazy old bat is looking for attention! 😡

    • @granny58
      @granny58 Рік тому +9

      And the tiny scratch on her back. Whst a joke. The one on her thigh she could've made herself.

    • @carch7243
      @carch7243 Рік тому +13

      @@granny58 Exactly. I bumped into a table the other day and have a much worse bruise.

    • @rikkblack
      @rikkblack Рік тому +3

      😂 accurate

    • @lilygatschenberger8811
      @lilygatschenberger8811 Рік тому +4

      I said the same thing

    • @donnamuller6460
      @donnamuller6460 Рік тому +6

      My doctor asked me recently if I felt safe at home. I was puzzled - what was she talking about? I’ve been married for decades. Then I laughed: my giant black cat just prefers to keep his nails and I prefer to keep my furniture! Lulu is a stupid fool.

  • @peacefulpatriots
    @peacefulpatriots Рік тому +75

    Starting to think that in order to become a defense attorney, one must relinquish any common sense within their possession

    • @ericaz1458
      @ericaz1458 Рік тому +7

      Lol I was thinking the same thing. You've gotta be a pro at cognitive dissonance. Just totally avoid all ration thinking

    • @pmccoy8924
      @pmccoy8924 Рік тому +1

      As messed up as any rational thinking person thinks it is to defense absolute nonsense, it is their job. It happens each and everyday across the country. Client attorney privilege keeps this bond. Free and fair trial is in the Constitution.

    • @9sheri9
      @9sheri9 Рік тому +2

      @peacefulpatriots Perhaps you don't realize that not all defense cases are like the ones shown on 48 Hrs or the news. If you are ever innocent & in need of defense, you'd probably think differently.

    • @peacefulpatriots
      @peacefulpatriots Рік тому

      @@9sheri9 😂did you watch the video???! Must be a corrupt defense attorney🖕

    • @9sheri9
      @9sheri9 Рік тому

      @@peacefulpatriots Don't get confused here, I'm totally not taking up for her specific lawyer -- he's pretty lame, also not the worst I've seen. Just making the point that not all defense attorneys are like the asshats we see portrayed in 48 hours. Defense is an incredibly important facet to our very flawed system.
      As a side note, if you want to see some of the *worst* defense attorneys in US history, watch the raw trial for Chandler Harrelson. They were truly laughable.

  • @joannamcpeak7531
    @joannamcpeak7531 Рік тому +8

    That tiny little bruise on her knee 🤣

  • @leahmccarthy7747
    @leahmccarthy7747 Рік тому +29

    I can't believe her photos of "abuse". If he was the one who hit her those bruises would have been bigger. He's a boxer; why would he scratch her? It's so easy to believe she scratched herself to make it look like he was abusing her. I can't believe her lawyer believed those were real.

    • @Ingrid922
      @Ingrid922 10 місяців тому +1

      I have scratched my own leg like that by accident from walking past branches, or just super itchy from something. Much worse. That looked like almost nothing to me.

  • @danielbrown1724
    @danielbrown1724 Рік тому +125

    This woman was clearly jealous of her husbands success, how much people loved him and how beautiful and loving his kids were.
    She’s not used to being 2nd in line

    • @Franaflyby
      @Franaflyby Рік тому

      Oh she can still be first in line
      💥 But it will be the chow line to eat mystery meat and slop at the prison cafeteria.

    • @MargieRose777
      @MargieRose777 Рік тому +6

      True

    • @Meela234
      @Meela234 Рік тому +6

      I agree

    • @Christina_320
      @Christina_320 Рік тому +5

      When a man has a business and kids the relationship can mean she’s third fiddle.

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 Рік тому

      pure evil im glad because of video more lying women are locked up , there was a time she would get everything and ramon in jail for domestic violence

  • @voyaristika5673
    @voyaristika5673 Рік тому +81

    Her so called injuries inflicted by her abusive husband were a joke. I can't believe any jury taking them as anything but a joke. I've looked far more injured after cleaning out a closet and playing with the kitten. How stupid do some attorneys think people are? Maybe her attorney was also "bewitched."

    • @Ashley-wu7hy
      @Ashley-wu7hy 11 місяців тому +3

      Wouldn't surprise me if she was sleeping with him ... We've seen it before

    • @maryanne7161
      @maryanne7161 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@Ashley-wu7hy He is in there for the money.

  • @stilleve757
    @stilleve757 Рік тому +9

    She was in fear for her life but stayed in the house?! WHAT?!

  • @hibiscustea13
    @hibiscustea13 10 місяців тому +5

    A bunch of law enforcement men huddled around a laptop watching UA-cam makeup tutorials is absolutely making my day 😭

  • @ericwilkinson9447
    @ericwilkinson9447 Рік тому +21

    This comment is for the defense attorney.. 'Are you seriously trying to say that she was the victim'!!!! HELLO!! oh I forgot.. you're a lawyer $$$$$

  • @bfactality1797
    @bfactality1797 Рік тому +32

    She absolutely put those marks on herself... She saw a meal ticket all fell head first all in... greed.

  • @doctorshell7118
    @doctorshell7118 Рік тому +19

    She was a personal trainer at a boxing club. She could have easily gotten those marks from her job. It’s too bad that the interviewer didn’t push back on this at least a little.

  • @daryldixon3685
    @daryldixon3685 Рік тому +20

    She’s evil! And only 20 years? That’s crazy! She lied about everything

  • @Ceci_et_Cela
    @Ceci_et_Cela Рік тому +75

    Those scratches look like they were done with a back scratcher. I’ve never seen anyone trying to force anyone on any part of their body with their fingers so close together. Who does that? I think the scratches would be a little farther apart.

    • @SueP-D
      @SueP-D Рік тому +15

      Girl I leave scratches worse than that when I itch MYSELF 🤣🤣🤣. She’s a joke

    • @LindysEpiphany
      @LindysEpiphany Рік тому +10

      Definitely faked! She scratched herself.

    • @lizperry601
      @lizperry601 Рік тому +4

      Not to mention he punched a hole in the wall. He was so abusive, why didn't he punch her instead?? She was so afraid of him she stayed in the same home after divorce... sure thing! She was after his $$$$

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 Рік тому +1

      @@lizperry601 my x punched wall because of the teens...then got mad at me..lier played victim...said he treated me like a QUEEN...what happens in the dark will come out to the light no one can mock Jeh God..

    • @sunfirelotus88.4ire8
      @sunfirelotus88.4ire8 Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @heksedansd.2919
    @heksedansd.2919 Рік тому +44

    I'm happy he's alive!❤

  • @KushDragon420
    @KushDragon420 10 місяців тому +6

    In 2016 i was robbed, hit in thr head with a bat, put in a trunk and buried alive. (Played dead in the trunk)and i dug myself out of a shallow grave. You are the not the only man alive to get out of his own grave. You should have seen the look on their faces 2 weeks later when they saw me walking around downtown again.

  • @kenberry8504
    @kenberry8504 11 місяців тому +4

    Everyone needs a friend like Mundo.

  • @patrickjm3487
    @patrickjm3487 Рік тому +144

    Very brave man and a gentleman at the same time!!
    It’s A very lucky thing that his mate heard her talking about killing him what a very evil person and ended up in jail and everything taken back off her was the right medicine for her and she had it all in her hands
    God bless you sir 😊

    • @picilocarnal
      @picilocarnal Рік тому +13

      I’m a woman. I used to think that ALL women were saints compared to men. I don’t think that anymore. Believing ALL women automatically just because they’re women is as wrong as not believing them just because they’re women.😢

    • @BhloodBhlood
      @BhloodBhlood Рік тому

      Why did 21 people like this

    • @korina2662
      @korina2662 Рік тому

      Very lucky 🍀 or God's plan

    • @judedonnelly4100
      @judedonnelly4100 Рік тому +1

      They invented full stops..
      YOU NEED to use them..

    • @hazeleyes449
      @hazeleyes449 Рік тому +4

      @@picilocarnal Amber Heard comes to mind. She is such a liar!

  • @roberttalbot1658
    @roberttalbot1658 Рік тому +25

    Great quality of production. Thrilling story. Wonderful that he survived for his beautiful family.

  • @manuelamootsy6871
    @manuelamootsy6871 Рік тому +12

    She saw easy money, and thought it was hers. NONE OF THAT WAS HERS!!!!!

  • @murlthomas2243
    @murlthomas2243 10 місяців тому +10

    I’ve worked with women whose husbands were abusive. Her “injuries” were self inflicted and not serious in the least. I have picked up worse working. I hope she serves every bit of that 20 years.

  • @emiliestratman4153
    @emiliestratman4153 Рік тому +22

    FULL EPISODE.....Well that was about time....from here in FRANCE....thanks so much !!!

  • @dicey8928
    @dicey8928 Рік тому +25

    Why would you stay in a violent house especially with all those self induced scratches .

  • @1976ondy
    @1976ondy 10 місяців тому +3

    can we give that friend living a troubling street life a 5+ STARS , some brothers are underrated

  • @YochevedDesigns
    @YochevedDesigns Рік тому +13

    Mundo is the best friend you could ever want. Soso literally owes his life to him!

  • @ev500sam
    @ev500sam Рік тому +58

    If she was indeed in fear of her life, she wouldn’t have been sharing a house with him.

  • @Romans-10-9-13
    @Romans-10-9-13 Рік тому +54

    His first mistake was marrying someone name Lulu.

  • @sing2me
    @sing2me 10 місяців тому +5

    Her attorney needs to learn from this that the way she played the victim that tugged at his heart was a huge red flag of narcissism and a psychopath.

  • @michaelvitiello9960
    @michaelvitiello9960 Рік тому +13

    That's totally messed up that the police department did nothing when they went to them with the info about his wife hiring a hit man. So messed up. Shame on that police department!!!!!

  • @fancyme.alter1311
    @fancyme.alter1311 Рік тому +68

    Like many that have commented on the scratches I too would like to say that when a man wanted my legs parted either one of two things happen. First they push their knee down between my legs forcing them open. Second they just grab my leg causing bruising and move my legs apart. I have never been scratched on my legs as she is showing and claiming. I think she clearly did her own scratches. Why are not any of the scratches on areas that she could not reach herself?

    • @mamacito1795
      @mamacito1795 Рік тому +16

      First of all, I'm sorry if this has happened to you. Secondly I agree, I dont think you'd have small scratches there would be bruises or pinch marks or something more. Certainly seem self inflicted

    • @fancyme.alter1311
      @fancyme.alter1311 Рік тому +6

      @@mamacito1795 Thank you for your sympathies. Sadly it happens to too many young women.

    • @mallorycannon3011
      @mallorycannon3011 Рік тому +10

      Why would he even have to scratch her if he was a big strong former professional boxer? Like you said if that's what he wanted was to force her legs open there would've been bruising or something more than likely

    • @fancyme.alter1311
      @fancyme.alter1311 Рік тому +2

      @@mallorycannon3011 Exactly

    • @jjanclark6279
      @jjanclark6279 Рік тому +13

      Scratching is mainly a woman’s style of defense

  • @gigilovesgod8825
    @gigilovesgod8825 Рік тому +70

    11:55 First of All, what a gorgeous daughter he has, God Bless 💕
    The fact that his girlfriend didn't want nothing to do with his children Was Already Huge Red Flag , he had to see it and breakup the relationship!

    • @TaylorLee
      @TaylorLee Рік тому +11

      Right and I can’t help but think he enabled it because he didn’t even tell the kids about the wedding

    • @gigiis526
      @gigiis526 Рік тому +1

      @@TaylorLee People lie. The daughter isnt a saint. We dont know the whole story. Give it a break. Use some common sense

    • @butterflyperez7925
      @butterflyperez7925 Рік тому +2

      Her father is the victim so what would benefit the daughter for her lying about her dad on national tv?

  • @mehardin
    @mehardin 10 місяців тому +4

    Lulu was his second wife. Why didn't anybody talk to the first wife to find out if he had a history of physical abuse?

  • @whoisdickieschnabel
    @whoisdickieschnabel Рік тому +25

    I love 48 Hours. Thank God it's on UA-cam.

  • @MontagZoso
    @MontagZoso Рік тому +13

    Sheesh, those evidence pictures of Lulu's supposed "injuries" from her husband are ridiculous. Totally self-inflicted. I've done far worse to my leg from bumping into a coffee table.

  • @dickfitswell3437
    @dickfitswell3437 Рік тому +83

    Those don't look like abuse photos they look like Amber Heard photos.

  • @cecillec2331
    @cecillec2331 Рік тому +19

    That lady was something else. Lucky for this guy to have a faithful friend. He needs to watch his back for when she gets out of jail. He should watch out for that son of hers as well. A family of thugs.

  • @junehalog024
    @junehalog024 Рік тому +19

    I'm amused at the fact that they had to watch countless UA-cam make up tutorials so they can create a scenario.
    But that also comes with me loving them even more for that level of dedication to ensure they catch the criminal.

    • @leapintothewild
      @leapintothewild Рік тому +2

      Seriously. All they had to do was get a teenager to photoshop a bullet wound from their files to his pic. Would’ve taken 5 minutes.

    • @junehalog024
      @junehalog024 Рік тому +3

      @@leapintothewild 5 minutes and a pack of Twinkies.

  • @daryldixon3685
    @daryldixon3685 Рік тому +12

    I couldn’t be a defense attorney...

  • @donna4047
    @donna4047 Рік тому +62

    Evil. You cannot divide parents and their kids and think that it's going to go well. Laziness? Wasn't she a single mother from Mexico looking for a comeuppance? As soon as I heard "she's doing the books" I knew there was going to be missing money too. Evil

    • @craftycriminalistwithms.z3053
      @craftycriminalistwithms.z3053 Рік тому +12

      Idk, I think these types of men and women come from every nation, area, and all kinds of different backgrounds, since you’re saying her being “… (a something,) divorced and from Mexico” has anything to do with what happened. Unless I’m just reading what you wrote the wrong way, if so I apologize in advance.

    • @donna4047
      @donna4047 Рік тому

      @@craftycriminalistwithms.z3053 ok I dunno why I'm doing this but here I go. I am not one of these people who thinks that every word that comes out of someone's mouth had some "hidden meaning" and neither do I speak that way. I said she was a single mother from Mexico looking for a comeuppance because that's exactly who and what she was and where she was from. Mexico is a very poor country and single mothers from Mexico do not get HUD,FOOD STAMPS AND WELFARE STIPENDS,THEY STARVE THERE. Those are the facts and that's simply exactly what I meant,the facts. You are trying to insinuate that I intend some kind of subterfuge,as though I'm speaking I'll of her because she's Mexican??. Is that it? Don't go there w me. I'm not a teenager kid and I'm also not one pf these whackadoodles who will entertain you.yoi do not know me from a can of paint and my words mean what I SAY THEY MEAN not WHAT YOU SAY THEY MEAN.

  • @drewbranch7700
    @drewbranch7700 Рік тому +8

    When you think you are smart,but you’re outsmarted!😂

  • @maggiek.9683
    @maggiek.9683 Рік тому +4

    Allergies have had me scratching myself worse than that picture 😂

  • @melodysmelody2809
    @melodysmelody2809 Рік тому +6

    She manipulated her lawyer as well. She’s got him looking like a fool.

  • @ileanamuntean7338
    @ileanamuntean7338 Рік тому +76

    All these guys say: "I am/was married to a beautiful lady"....never to someone kind, intelligent, cultured, educated, someone with integrity. It shows their priority and after the events, they are "surprised" that their wives, girlfriends are horrible and mercenary.

    • @ad6417
      @ad6417 Рік тому +9

      Yeah it's really superficial. Not to mention Beauty and virtue almost never come in the same package

    • @aloycemahaligewi7976
      @aloycemahaligewi7976 11 місяців тому +4

      This is a good point. Thanks for pointing it out.

    • @maryanne7161
      @maryanne7161 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@ad6417 Also, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. I honestly didn't find her any great shakes at all!

    • @ShimaS-0079
      @ShimaS-0079 10 місяців тому

      Being so called educated is not great attribute

    • @VanessaVasquez09
      @VanessaVasquez09 10 місяців тому

      💯

  • @amoshtael1844
    @amoshtael1844 Рік тому +13

    Good one!! Incredible plan - he really looked DEAD! Thanks! Munro was a REAL FRIEND! Glad for his continued success as an author, & for Ramon as a speaker!

  • @annmclpc
    @annmclpc Рік тому +5

    My husband and his paramour did a contract on my life. I ended up sneaking my kids out of Dallas and went to his family’s house in another city. From there I made necessary changes and never got to go home again. My husband plotted to have poachers shot me years before this final event. Thiis happened almost 40 years ago. My kids have been seriously damaged emotionally. The youngest who was only 8 at the time has had a tortured life and I have as well. The older two have done well but the abandonment has harmed them fundamentally. It haunts me that I lived with a man for 20 years who hated me and wanted me dead and not til the very end did I see it so clearly. The neglect that I suffered over those 20 years ruined my chance to have love at all. I wish I had had someone to help expose this. It was more than a one man operation. I feel there must have been drug money flowing and some powerful folks involved

  • @vb9043
    @vb9043 Рік тому +6

    Well done Mundo. All respect to you. You can see Ramon tried to get the phone away. That was not hitting him

  • @nicholasschoonbeck6866
    @nicholasschoonbeck6866 Рік тому +36

    I have to say, as a fighter, as a man who has helped women get out of abusive relationships, not of those "wounds" look like abuse. I've known men who have gotten out of abuse claims by scratching themselves, so the skin reacts, like hives, & it looks like they were attacked. And there are many, many women & men in abusive relationships that can't leave or are afraid to leave, but she seems like she could leave any time she wanted.

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 Рік тому +2

      I LEFT real quick..when I was with the car and no one was there...ran with my cat...after 24 years of lies and abuse with secrets and being controlled by meds and even called my job to stay home..what happens in the dark will come out to the light no one can mock Jeh God..

    • @granny58
      @granny58 Рік тому +2

      She wanted his money

    • @bigmiim8584
      @bigmiim8584 Рік тому

      @@lisacranmer8005why did it take 24hr are

    • @bigmiim8584
      @bigmiim8584 Рік тому

      @@lisacranmer8005years

  • @mallorycannon3011
    @mallorycannon3011 Рік тому +50

    Here's my reason for pause and not really believing her claims of abuse. IF she was so scared of him then WHY stay in the house with him while going through a divorce? Before they made him move out? I'm sorry but if a man has forced himself upon me more than once, I'd have already left. She stayed because she wanted that lifestyle. Greedy. Imo.

    • @ailleananaithnid2566
      @ailleananaithnid2566 Рік тому +3

      Oh, please don’t say it: “Why did she stay?” 😣 When someone (man, woman, child) is exposed to years of abuse, they have a low or nonexistent self-esteem. They remain in the same house for many reasons. When your self-esteem has been beaten out you, you begin to think abuse is what you deserve. Or she could believe she can’t make it by herself.
      The fact that she stayed in that house doesn’t mean she was/wasn’t abused. Most of the time, the battered partner has nowhere else to go bc the batterer controls all the money.
      Are you truly unaware that the most dangerous time is when they move out (or tell the abuser that the relationship is over)??? Where have you been living ?
      Her claims are questionable bc her “injuries” are minor and easily self-inflicted. Battered women often have bruises in various stages of healing all over their body. Fractured fingers. One had a fractured humorous (a “spiral” fracture) after her husband violently twisted her arm behind her back. Another woman had a fractured skull after being hit in the back of the head with a (police issue) MagLite flashlight.
      While Lulu could very well have experienced relationship violence, the classic indicia aren’t there. Ramon didn’t cut her off from her support systems. He didn’t cut off her access to money & transportation. For example, she was able to go to the ATM to withdraw a sizable sum of cash for the down payment for the hitman. Bottom line: her situation lacks the coercive control which is the core of domestic abuse.
      And what of his first wife? Abusers are serial offenders. If Ramon abused LuLu, it’s almost certain that there was violence in his first marriage. There was no mention of it here.
      Never dismiss claims of domestic violence bc “she stayed.” After 40 years of public awareness, I can’t believe anyone would still say that.

    • @lynzyrisingsun
      @lynzyrisingsun Рік тому

      Exactly

  • @katherinebergdahl2669
    @katherinebergdahl2669 Рік тому +4

    Go Ramon! What a resilient guy. He took it all in stride

  • @amoreamorovic4626
    @amoreamorovic4626 Рік тому +6

    Respect for Mundo! Wow ! Unbelievable! She deserves more then 20 years to rot in prison.

  • @alison4316
    @alison4316 Рік тому +68

    Why, if Lulu was scared of him, did she stay in the same home? The scratches on her legs and arms look like "someone" scraped her own nails down her thigh 🙄

    • @orlalolo4585
      @orlalolo4585 Рік тому +2

      And men don't scrape like that boxers definitely don't have long fingernails to do that....

    • @TheDriftwoodlover
      @TheDriftwoodlover Рік тому +2

      I’ve scratched myself like that many times due to itchy skin so I know they’re easy to self inflict without much pressure

    • @granny58
      @granny58 Рік тому +1

      Agree

    • @shantidavid6062
      @shantidavid6062 Рік тому +1

      ​@@TheDriftwoodloverI have itchy skin, too. I use to wake up with scratches all over from scratching. And I have pretty short nails.

  • @mogbaba
    @mogbaba 5 місяців тому +2

    A friend of mine in his thirties divorced with shared custody of his daughter. He never dated a woman and said, I will not have someone in my home who might disturb my relationship with my daughter. years later it happened to me. I also decided not to engage in any relationship until my son grows up and becomes independent from me.

  • @grahamcampbell400
    @grahamcampbell400 10 місяців тому +6

    Just shows how a kind face hides so much evil

  • @heidibrinkley4865
    @heidibrinkley4865 Рік тому +20

    Self inflicted “wounds”. I’ve had worse just walking around the house.

  • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
    @gabrielamartiniuc6322 Рік тому +133

    What kind of man allows a woman to ruin his relationship with his own children is a desperate man in my opinion and a terrible father. Any Man that has an issue with MY KIDS?? He is a goner !! I have zero sympathy for him because he literally stopped caring about his own daughter when he met this woman. I have zero respect.

    • @louniece1650
      @louniece1650 Рік тому +13

      💯‼️

    • @butterflyperez7925
      @butterflyperez7925 Рік тому +9

      Exactly

    • @terredee
      @terredee Рік тому +14

      He was thinking with his little head. Doubt he’ll make that mistake again.

    • @lisacranmer8005
      @lisacranmer8005 Рік тому +4

      Most do..

    • @jay4you853
      @jay4you853 Рік тому +5

      Well you don't know the full story plus the daughter have moved on...so who do you think you are to hold grudges against him?

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.197 Рік тому +3

    That song sounds so upbeat too.
    I love how he said we learned how to make up from some teenage girls😄

  • @hmonggodmother7154
    @hmonggodmother7154 10 місяців тому +3

    Watching this made me so sad. I have an American guy friend that went to Mexico and met a Mexican waitress and fell head over heels in love with her. Married her. Brought her here. Had to 2 daughters. Builded new homes for families back in Mexico. Brought her family members to American. Started cleaning business for her brothers here. Later she filed for divorced and her claims was he worked too much n didn't give her enough attention. She walked of with half of everything he worked so hard for and left him almost an empty shell. I guess a lot of people out there wants the American dream but some are just ruthless.