Eliza Ash no it's not. Being cheated on is great. It builds character. And it kills sensitivity and makes you cold and apathetic. She don't give a fuck. Why should you?
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I have a question. How come when someone cheats on someone it's never their fault its YOU who needs to go to counseling with them. It's YOU who needs to ask them what is missing. How come it's YOU that have to do all the stuff to keep it together when they're the ones doing everything to mess it up.
Because a narcissistic self- centered person always puts the blame on the other person to justify their reason of cheating.You weren't do this so that why I did x, y, and z. Once they tell you that, you should move on . Because, even if they're in the wrong, they're always going to revert their lack of self-control on you and never take ownership to their selfish actions of hurting you.
No one said it isn't their fault, he is just explaining why the did it. It is still wrong. the going to counseling is just IF you want to stay. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong necessarily.
Ranoake what she was saying was why they make it out to be your fault and not own up to it. It's like they know what they did and they blame you to ease their faults. That's like me saying I beated you because you made me upset or you didn't cook dinner at the usual time I come home. Or I cheated because x, y, z instead of saying I cheated because I wanted to it had nothing to do with you. I'm just a selfish dog.
jj jj That isn't what I got from their comment. They said "always" and people don't always do that. Even when they do, they are not blaming you for something, they are just telling you what is missing, like the video said. Just because something is missing, doesn't necessarily mean it is your fault. It depends on a lot of things. If you think people cheat because they are selfish dogs, then you might have missed the whole point of the video.
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The reason they cheat on you is because they don't want to be with you..and they are cowards that won't tell you the harsh truth... I respect the person who would tell me the honest truth..
Urkupina Ba that’s so true I was just recently cheated on and the guy still hasn’t broke up with me he just stopped talking to me like the coward he is
Susie MacLennan they beg for you to stay because of remorse,knowing they Hurted a human being terrorify them, its a way for Them to feel they are not that monster person
selfish at the end of the day,they want to do some for them,not for you to love you..i guess That's why they cheat on you onece again, once they feel they just cleaned their mass they go back to hurt again. almos like a criminal mind
My man is cheating with a married woman. her husband told me. he is destroying their family with two kids. horrible. I'm playing dumb as if I don't know. As soon as my loan is payed off... I'm gone. He will never touch my body again. In the meantime, I'm open to new love and moving on. They can have eachother. I'm out. Nothing missing here. He will be missing me when he comes home to a note in 3 months. Sick bastard
Listen up... If someone cheats on you, leave them for good. You will always have that little thing in the back of your head, because he or she did cheat on you. You will never be able to fully trust them again. And NO, its not you that have to change. I mean, if someone cheats on you, they arent the right person for you. Your partner should love you for who you are, and therefore not cheat on you. If they then cheat on you, its not the right partner.. I know its hard to leave your partner, but it really has to be done, cause if they break the trustband one time, it CANT be recovered.
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I'm too on that line. My partner cheated on me , being in relationship for 11 years and we were about be get married. Its just feels my soul died and everything is null...
Dome are thinking they are ugly and we're never noticed and maybe they married a better person who improved them and young girls look at money they don't want him broke and he doesn't want them orhed leave his wife and go sure she'd let him
Some of us genuinely don't have it in us to want to cheat which seems unfathomable to a cheater or a "situational cheater". Usually they have short attention spans, want instant gratification, and feel the most happiness from quick thrills. They can hardly handle a monogamous relationship because it's always about the "now".
I gave my husband everything! All of me. Loyalty, love, appreciation, I mean just being the best wife I could be. And he still cheated. It wasn't anything Missing. I'm still not sure why he did that to me. But God's not sleep and he sees everything.
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TheSlimmshadyy absolutely correct and painfully sad. For me 3 strikes and now your out. At least I know I tried to save my marriage even thought I wasted all that precious time.
TheSlimmshadyy I'm not sure I'll ever get over this. How sad that your essence, your life can be ripped apart and you walk around almost like a zombie, lifeless barely getting thru each day. If you were betrayed I wish you comfort, peace and love. No one ever deserves to be cheated on EVER!
Shelly DeLeon the REAL problem with this video and its assessment to cheating. Found the exact answer by chance ... it said " a relationship is not a test so why cheat"! There you go! This is a completely flawed comparison.
True! I left my ex-husband 5 yrs ago...can't say he didn't have fair warning. And I didn't say a word because I had already spoken enough after 9 yrs. So when it was time, I literally packed up my stuff and ghosted. He didn't know where I was. And I am glad I haven't looked back.
He cheated on me after 4 years of being together with my brothers wife. We'd always be around them and I never once thought they had something, they looked me in the face as if everything was fine, that's what disgusts me the most. God I love him, I never in a million years would've thought something like this would ever happen. I was so good to him. I gave him everything.
Catering It happened to me too, but you can’t linger on what you gave them. They took you for granted and became selfish, so its time you do the same and start thinking about your health and move on
I’d rather have the power to forget than forgive. The memories of betrayal over and over are what kills the heart and soul. I pray every cheater gets what they deserve. Vengeance is gods. 🙏
" The memories of betrayal are what kills the heart and soul " I saw a whole album on his phone of them together, dates, text messages, etc. Those images are haunting my every day existence, they have embedded themselves in my thoughts, torturing any chance of forgiveness, I wish I could forget them so, badly, better yet I wished it never happened, I wish he could of been a better human being, but than again here we are.
I gave my girl my heart. I did everything for her and I took her where she wanted to go. I made her happy, listened to her songs, sung them to her and watched her favorite films. I gave my all and she brought out the best in me. Then out of nowhere she tells me she's been seeing someone else. I have never felt so broken in my entire life. She was my light. She was everything to me.
I totally feel ya. Was with him for 5 years and cheated on me with my ex. I told him if u want her go get her and leave me out and u guys can be happy. He promised he loved me and he wanted to stay blah blah then what do you know his own mom told me he was cheating on me. So I feel ya
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It's hard to forget what they've done to you no matter how you force yourself to let go. You stay with them coz you love them but then you also torture yourself with the thoughts of him with her. What does she have that I don't? Is she funnier, prettier? Like I just ask myself why this why that? Why still be with me then entertain another woman? You feel like you can let go today then you remember it again tomorrow. It's hard. You lose your self esteem. Is love enough to make you stay?
This is exactly what I am feeling and asking myself right now !! But I learned that, if you want to try again, you don't need to forget, you need to forgive
Oh god.... This is exactly what I am going through right now... I can't shake this feeling .. I am struggling every day .. I just really hope it gets better ....
No love is not enough to make anyone stay. You can love them from a distance while loving yourself in the here and now. Every moment you give away worrying about them, you are robbing yourself of that moment you could be using for your self love.
I’ve gotten cheated on by a women i was in love with and was obviously betrayed to believe she was in love too. There was absolutely no reason that she cheated other than the fact that she wasn’t happy being with me and couldn’t tell me that because she still wanted reassurance that someone loved her at the end of the day, staying with me out of guilt. Unfortunately most cheaters end up being ill minded people who think irrational and selfish, psychotic in a way that they use human emotions as a stepping stone to get what they want and manipulate their SO. You have to understand this thinking and realize this world and that humans are fickle. The harsh reality is 9/10 times getting cheated on, you never mattered enough or had no impact to that persons thinking for you not to be a commitment in their life unconditionally , which YOU CANNOT control. they have no remorse and some even have no guilt about destroying trust.These kind of people teach you lot about those underlying issues and situations that are out of your control that you let go of for the better. Remember, if YOU get cheated on, its not YOUR FAULT they couldn’t be honest with you since they loved you so much to betray you. Don’t beat yourself up.. worse case scenario is to blame yourself for someone else’s dirty deeds and black thoughts.
First chance to be hurt as well…what comes around goes around and when you find out it’s to late. People who cheat do not deserve love. I’m sorry. That’s how I feel
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Had an intuition he was cheating. I contacted the girl and I was right. He was cheating on me the whole time with her. Thing is she knew about me and didn’t care! I said you know we were together. She said yup! I was mind boggled these side chicks really are ok with being with another woman’s man!
i have never had problems with women because i do not sleep around! i am fifty years old and i have only slept with about 3 women!. i have never cheated on no woman! so i do not identify with a lot of cheating and abuse! i was raised in a two parent household!. by the way i am a 100% black man. one of my greatest assets is i am "Programed" to love one woman not 4,5 and 6 women!!!!!!!!!.
You’ve been fortunate to be with 3 respectful and morally stable women then. Sometimes the best people end up with the wrong person because they both have lessons to learn. I’d never cheat, but have been cheated on. It sucks, but it’s nice to know you have the capacity to love someone whole heartedly, even if it hurts for a while
This is literally THE most important, accurate advice i've ever heard. And I wish I had heard it sooner. The part about boundaries man...woo..blew my mind. Great video.
Hey y’all so I just got cheated on by my partner of 3 years. I loved him to death and did everything and more for him, I am a mess right now and I would appreciate lots and lots of prayers and good energy my way... healing is going to be a journey
julie dez if he didn’t value ur presence , give him ur absence... go full no contact . Use the pain he caused you to fuel you not to consume you . I hope u are doing much better . Let god do the work for you .
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Staying with a cheater is like putting on dirty underwear. I made the mistake of this and I'm still crawling out the hole she put me in. 8 long years and I'm finally starting to see the light again. Don't make my mistakes yours, focus on you. "You have two pockets. In one pocket you are nothing and will one day be dust. In the other, out of billions of stars in the galaxy and after billions of years you were created, you are the only one of you. Which pocket are you going to reach in?" ~Norman Lear
The hard part is holding that person to higher standards and comparing them to yourself. We both have issues, but I'm loyal...why aren't you? Anger builds up, you feel insecure and embarrassed. You let your walls down, become vulnerable...it's hard to heal those wounds. The hardest part is being scared you can never love someone as much as you loved them...so much time and memories are spent on a person. It's soul crushing.
My ex of two and a half years cheated on me towards the last couple months of our relationship. After I left him, he stayed with the chick but is still steady in my inbox. I just screenshot his sorry fake ass and send it to his "girl".
People cheat because they have a low self esteem, insecurities about themselves is deeper than the surface they're trying to fulfill their insecurities through other people. That's why they say "dont judge a book by its cover" and "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
Yes! Truth. When a guy knows you are out of his league = He does this to make you insecure & so that you will think not only are you not out of his league but that he is out of yours. 👍 insecure men are the ones who cheat. Some"men" don't even realize exactly why they are doing it. But they sure love a beautiful girl who is out of their league chasing them & crying over them & wanting them&being upset over them. & Then they themselves feel good about themselves because of it. & Then they realize they can now act like they're out of your league bc of the insecurities they now have given to you. 👍 Once a man like this realizes you have realized what an idiot he is& that they don't have such emotional control over you= They get angry & all his insecurities come to the surface for you to see clearly. & Then you think to yourself- What was I thinking letting this guy have such control over my life? Over my emotions?
The most sucky part is when he told me I was pushing him away because I was “overly insecure” or my “trust issues are getting the best of me.” Then make me look like a fool when I put all that aside for him to save the relationship, later finding out he breaks up with me using the excuses “I don’t deserve you, I need time to become a better person.” Then starts spending time with the girl I had reservations about. It’s not my insecurities to blame anymore; he was selfish, he was deceitful, and no remorse in him whatsoever. And if you see this, you both better take care of each other because I did what I could. I’m sorry I couldn’t give you what was missing... But I know my worth.
My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and moved in together to to my hometown to be closer to my family . 2 months of living together I found out he was cheating on me with another girl. He went to visit her for a week and told me he was going for a friends wedding. I kicked him out when I found out and we haven’t spoken since March. I recently found out that he’s still seeing her and the only thing I’m sad about is that he couldn’t be honest and the hurtful part is that I’m literally stuck with carrying his child while he’s out and about being a whore. It’s literally like something you see in a movie but it for sure taught me to not trust anyone so easily. I don’t want to be bitter or stuck on it so I’m still trying to let go of the betrayal.
Any advice on how U went through this I just came across this video it's been give years 😔 um so sorry but um now going through the same thing how did U keep your head up😊
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In my case my husband was a habitual cheater and he said he was doing it because he didn't care. I was so vivid but let down. He truly had no respect for me at all. The real issue was NOT ME it was him and still is. However, the reason for his on going behavior was me staying each time. Never will I do this again.
Well....there is something that the author missed out -it's not that cheating is entirely on something missing out such that you have to struggle to find out and maybe fix it, for starters angles are not yet born so never struggle looking for a gap in your relationship, cheaters are cheaters!
I sacrificed everything for her. I changed completely, I even gave up on people and things I truly loved. Now I am crying and completely lonely. Never in my life have I needed a hug more than I do right now.
Hi Andres it's been 4 years since you posted this comment. I find myself going through the same thing that you did. I hope you are doing fine and has found self love and is happy.
It's people out there that are looking for the perfect mate.But I'm here to tell you if you are looking for the perfect partner to ride this life out with then i know who you need his name is Jesus.He is the one who will never let you down, leave,or forsake you. But if you are looking for some one to love then love the person who is in love with you stop looking for perfection in this world because you won't find it in no human only from God. This is real talk I'm giving you :hope this helps you to love the one you with.
Thank you so much yes Jesus is everything he is the answer of all questions my husband cheated after 23 years marriage we have two children he did so many things to me but My Jesus help me to stay
In fact I love your point of view,trusting a man is like giving ones life to serious dangers,I also trusted my husband too much until I received a serious infidelity blow from him,though he has begged me,but my trust for him is gone to be found in Jesus only.
I just found out today that my ex girlfriend of 5 years was cheating on me at the end of a relationship about 2 months before she moved out she stop talking sex with me she stopped doing anything with me on the spouse with you she wanted to be roommates with me she left about a month ago and sure enough I caught her riding around in her car with another guy it was very painful because this lying conniving woman was telling me that she needed time to heal now it all makes all the sense in the world she was f****** around on me behind my back
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Not always ,not all cheaters r cold calculated an evil;what if u love them an been with them for 30 years an u tried an begged for intimacy warmth an love an get rejected over an over ; a little side dish can save a marriage an if you haven’t been with someone over 15 years u have no experience an there fore should have no opinion
@@laurahenry3562 at that point just leave. Why sink to their level and even lower. Cause when you cheat you automatically lose your credibility and ability to justify your actions.
just leave. once he cheats you will never trust him again. find out what is missing so you can get it right with someone else. This man is full of crap.
This is for people who actually want to try in their relationships and not give up every time something bad happens. There are a lot worse things in a relationship that can happen and this generation just wants to give up on everything. Especially if you have kids just giving up isn’t an option.
Ashley Hawkins, IKR!!! Super irritating! Get to the damn point or shut the hell up is what I would say if I attended one of his classes!!!! 😤Seems like he's looking for crap to say to fill a time block! 😖 He made me turn the video off before it finished cause he's extra slow!!! Soothing...my arse!...He's downright IRRITATING!!! 😡🤣
My live-in boyfriend of three years is secretly having lunches and drinks with a married, younger woman. She was at his work the other day and I confronted them. They both laughed @ my concern. My boyfriend is very defensive. Tells me I'm imagining things and that she is just a friend. Yet I am not allowed to view any of the texting between the two of them. He says I'm just trying to control him by forcing him to show me the texts. He says he's not a little b****. Why won't he show me to prove me wrong? I am feeling so foolish! But more than anything IM SO HURT!
Cheating can be far more than just what's missing. Cheating is often crossing or expanding boundaries to provide opportunity. Given the opportunity temptation will replace what's missing even when nothing is missing except opportunity.
NICE INFO, BUT IVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YRS GOING ON 6. I LEFT MY HUSBAND AFTER 2 YRS. BECAUSE OF CHEATING. HE RECENTLY CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE AND SAID HE HAS CHANGED AND WANTS TO MAKE OUR MARRIAGE WORK. WE STILL LIVE APART BUT SEE EACH OTHER OFTEN. BUT HE SEEMS TO BE DISTANT LATELY AND WHEN I CALL HIM IT GOES TO VOICE MAIL. HES NEVER DONE THAT TO ME. IVE FOUND MORE THAN 40 WOMAENS NAMES NUMBERS AND ADDRESSES IN HIS PHONE. ALL HE SAYS IS HE DONT KNOW THEM. PLEASE IM NOT THAT STUPID. THATS WHY I STILL LIVE ALONE
Susan Hawk , He's cheating again. Those are the classic signs. Been through what you're going through.....it's painful & disrespectful, especially when they promise to do right by you after you've taken them back. Cut all ties & Move on to someone who will love and cherish you and your relationship. You deserve better and your Ex is showing signs the hasn't changed and won't.
I'm not married yet, luckily I'm not married to my ex who's actually cheated on me. 15 September 2018, I found out on Instagram he's cheated with another woman, when I came in contact with hackerrobert001@gmail during his trip. He said he went with his friends, but actually with her when i got proof monitoring old and deleted messages and media right in my phone in 48 hours. My heart broken into pieces, 2 years being betrayed, we shared almost everything, we planned our future. I'm questioning everything? Why he did this? But for me, now I realize it's a blessing in disguise. If I never knew or found out the truth I would end up marrying the wrong person.
@@umeshifernando7 Yeah me to. Since that time I did discover that he was not only cheating on me with one person but a bunch of random women. I put a spy app in his phone to monitor his phone calls, messages and GPS and he had been with more than 70 women. I was Disgusting by his actions and the way he didn't care about the dangers that were involved with his desicions to have unsafe sex with so many people. We have been apart for years now and I am have not spoken to him in years. I am much happier being alone than with a person who has no self control or respect for me. Thanks 😊 🙏
I know I have my imperfections, but why am I being cheated on? My flaws are not an excuse. I loved that person so much and I cannot imagine how they have done it. Images are popping on my mind. This really hurts. I hope everyone in the world does not experience this pain. *Deep sigh*
When a guy knows you are out of his league = He does this to make you insecure & so that you will think not only are you not out of his league but that he is out of yours. 👍 insecure men are the ones who cheat. Some"men" don't even realize exactly why they are doing it. But they sure love a beautiful girl who is out of their league chasing them & crying over them & wanting them&being upset over them. & Then they themselves feel good about themselves because of it. & Then they realize they can now act like they're out of your league bc of the insecurities they now have given to you. 👍 Once a man like this realizes you have realized what an idiot he is& that they don't have such emotional control over you= They get angry & all his insecurities come to the surface for you to see clearly. & Then you think to yourself- What was I thinking letting this guy have such control over my life? Over my emotions? *Edit* & the same can be said for women as well. Just vice versa.
Don't blame yourself if someone has cheated on you because it's not your fault if he isn't contented with one person. You just have to learn from that experienced and be more careful in choosing the guy that will be part of your life in the future.
This is why people would say I am stupid. I think you should love someone and stay faithful for no reason. If you like someone one for any material reason should not be taken seriously. You should love someone for their souls. Anything less should not be taken as a serious relationship. I don't care if your homeless or smell like shit.
Sorry but I cannot have sex with someone I don't know or have feelings for. I may be strange but I just can't have a sexual relationship with someone I have no feelings for. ✊✌
Same here my man, we’re a different breed in that sense because most people just want to have sex for small moments of pleasure. I’d rather find someone to love and then get intimate.
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This is by far one of the BEST videos I have seen on UA-cam ever 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Unlike many others it gets to the core of the matter, and gives real detailed steps on how move forward after cheating. Too many videos blame the woman and try to get us to devalue the act. "You all value sex too much. A man can love you, sleep with another woman and still love you." WTH?
I just found out my ex cheated on me two years ago. We broke up exactly a year. Some time around in May of this year, she came back into my life and everything was going smooth, it was like the beginning of a honeymoon stage. But she felt she needed to confess before we could move forward, she even hoped this confession would bring us closer. We were together for two years and she cheated when she was out of town, right in the middle of those two years. I can’t get it out of my head, and she’s begging for forgiveness, she wants us to continue, it’s why she “came clean” but damn I remember being so insecure about that trip and the company she was around with. I was being an asshole while she was on the trip, I’ll own up to that. But why did she have to give her body to someone else? It feels as if the second year of our relationship was all fake. She says she never confessed cause she felt the guilt an hour after, and that she didn’t wanna lose me. It’s just all bullshit. Someone please just help me. It’s not just men who cheat
I hope that you have left her by now! No matter all the excuses, she made the conscious choice to cheat my man. These things should always be a one and done deal and no 2nd chances because they will bite you in the ass eventually.
Relationships are never absolute. When we reach that understanding and shift our focus, our lives will improve. Many men do not understand that women are not always happy or fulfilled in relationships with them either. We often times sacrifice our urges and desires for the good of our families. We as women need to start telling men our true feelings instead of keeping silent and making them think that we are ok when we are not.
I just broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me with her ex that she always talked shit on and dated very briefly before me. I cut all contact with her and deleted my social media. Its been almost three weeks since I last spoke to her and the pain is still strong.
some men want a bigger butt, chest, longer straighter hair, lighter or darker skin.... what then...yea something missing all right that some women just cant fix
Most of those females pay for their bodies ... and man won't pay for their wives to get that body lol but once they get with those girls (the girls will make them pay for it ) and most of the time he won't be the only one sponsoring her 😝 they like share woman
When first listening to the video it sounded like a possible strong message. Then the more I thought about it the more I felt the something was off regarding the 3 missing parts that leads to adultery. 2 out of the 3 had to deal with the betrayed spouse and what the cheating spouse felt was missing in their partner or in the relationship. ONLY 1 out of the 3 dealt with the cheating spouse and what might be missing in them. Thing the lightbulb went off and I had the answer that wasn't being given. Whats missing is TRUTH AND COMMUNICATION from the cheating spouse. Without ever being truthful or communicating what they FELT was missing how the heck could you expect resolution or working on the marriage. So take the cowardly way out and just cheat? Wow! I'm sorry but being disrespectful, lying and deceiving your faithful spouse is very low and shows your true character. Maybe that's what's missing and was never discovered before. Someone who really has little morals and could cause so much pain on your partner and extended family and friends all because of THEIR selfishness.
A 1yr and 1/2 Cheated on 6 months in *lies after lie/ while he impregnate another woman, engaged to me, hardest thing I had to deal with😢 when you love someone you put up with so much, but your self worth is so much more, I walk away from my relationship because clearly he did a long time ago, it still hurts now 3 months later, .. I know deep down god remove him from my life for a reason, and even tho it suck the life and love out of me, I'm just afraid to love again, only time can heal a broken💔
I feel that if you ben respect someone, you wouldn't have cheated. If not love, or care, they just need to have respect to not do it, or break it off with you before. And a relationship without respect is a toxic one, and you deserve better than that. I try to tell myself this everyday to get through it. Hope this can somewhat help.
This is right on target!! 🎯 When it happened to me, I let him stay but I also silently got my ducks in a row & bounced. The boundaries with me was that I have a temper and I didn’t want to go to jail. Thank you Jesus for teaching me my worth!! Blessings.
I recently been cheated on by a man I though was mature enough. The thing is, he was lacking in so many areas that I should have been the one who was suppose to cheat if we’re being honest. He basically used me and chose someone else, but still wants me to do things for him. I hate him so much
I've been with my husband for 22 years, he always cheated and I kept on forgiving him, he was physically abusive I forgave him I stood by his side when he had nothing I prayed for him more then I prayed for myself, I helped him to build himself up again and the first thing he did when he landed back on his feet was to cheat, I'm broken
Ok everyone says leave him but harder to say then do. Damn the pain of leaving all those memories behind. Of always thinking of a what if rather than a he/she did. At the end of the day, listen to your tuition
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I'm not married yet, luckily I'm not married to my ex who's actually cheated on me. 15 September 2018, I found out on Instagram he's cheated with another woman, when I came in contact with hackerrobert001@gmail during his trip. He said he went with his friends, but actually with her when i got proof monitoring old and deleted messages and media right in my phone in 48 hours. My heart broken into pieces, 2 years being betrayed, we shared almost everything, we planned our future. I'm questioning everything? Why he did this? But for me, now I realize it's a blessing in disguise. If I never knew or found out the truth I would end up marrying the wrong person.
I went through that I was with a guy for a short period of time no sex with him and he got married a year later now he is a widower and is alone. I believe God has a reason for everything. If God is saying leave this person alone do not feel bad just keep it moving because God has someone for everyone. I also advise EVERYONE to not CHEAT because you do reap what you sow and it comes back to you in a horrible way. Stay true to one person because messing around behind someone's back can cost you your life. Not worth the pain.
Been cheated after 5 years. 💔😞 This is someone that i stood by through to help them with their sobriety, being faithful to them, just being through them through thick and thin like a marriage. I'm broken right now. He keeps calling me ,and im not answering. I need advice if anyone can help a lost person. My family is shattered and my world is broken.😞💔😞💔😞
I've been trying to get over a girl I was with for 2 years and she cheated on me with 3 other guys. One of them for over 6 months. I don't know why I stayed but I left and now I'm broken. I wish the memories would just go away..
Listening to this while crying myself to sleep.. My boyfriend is cheating on me and with how I gave in its so damn hard for me to get out of the relationship, Im feeling stupid for still being stuck in the relationship because truth be told he disrespected me... I'm hurting!
It’s NEVER about you or you missing something! It’s about THEM! Maybe they don’t even know what that is. Just get the courage to walk away and RUN! Don’t be their therapist! I dumped my cheating ex 3 months ago. Never looked back as much as it hurt and still does. But I need to put myself first and so do you! Stay strong!
I just realized 4 months later I've been cheated on. When I confronted her about it she said "Oh you're overreacting". I trusted someone, and the person who cheated on me has been cheated on before, but my naiveness thought "oh, she knows this pain. She knows what it's like to feel this way, so she'll never do this for me". God this shit fucking sucks, I feel so betrayed I feel depressed, annoyed mad, a billion different feelings. FUCK FUCK FUCK
Yeah they cheated it hurts so much. But when the times goes by you will realize that you lost a cheater and they lost a faithful you. They also will realize that someday.
Whats missing ..?? Ill tell you its the son of GOD JESUS CHRIST , THE FEAR AND HOLINESS OF GOD. He cheated because he LOVES whoredoms n evil he dislikes purity n faithfulness and wify material. Darknesss n light dont mix...
Wife cheated on me 19 years ago. We split, she married the guy and all within the same year we were back together. Fast forward to the present 2019, I just found out she’s at it again. We have 24 years together and saying you must leave is easier said than done. But I’ll stand by this statement, “once a cheat always a cheat.” I’m moving on...
cheating highest form of disrspect
Eliza Ash True
Yes gurl
Eliza Ash
For real.
KEEP ON PREACHING!
Eliza Ash no it's not. Being cheated on is great. It builds character. And it kills sensitivity and makes you cold and apathetic. She don't give a fuck. Why should you?
One of the*
Something is missing? of course: honesty, integrity, loyalty, responsibility, respect, promises, accountability, self control, trustworthiness, humility....
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I have a question. How come when someone cheats on someone it's never their fault its YOU who needs to go to counseling with them. It's YOU who needs to ask them what is missing. How come it's YOU that have to do all the stuff to keep it together when they're the ones doing everything to mess it up.
Because a narcissistic self- centered person always puts the blame on the other person to justify their reason of cheating.You weren't do this so that why I did x, y, and z. Once they tell you that, you should move on . Because, even if they're in the wrong, they're always going to revert their lack of self-control on you and never take ownership to their selfish actions of hurting you.
jessica janvier Amen :)
No one said it isn't their fault, he is just explaining why the did it. It is still wrong. the going to counseling is just IF you want to stay. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong necessarily.
Ranoake what she was saying was why they make it out to be your fault and not own up to it. It's like they know what they did and they blame you to ease their faults. That's like me saying I beated you because you made me upset or you didn't cook dinner at the usual time I come home. Or I cheated because x, y, z instead of saying I cheated because I wanted to it had nothing to do with you. I'm just a selfish dog.
jj jj That isn't what I got from their comment. They said "always" and people don't always do that. Even when they do, they are not blaming you for something, they are just telling you what is missing, like the video said. Just because something is missing, doesn't necessarily mean it is your fault. It depends on a lot of things. If you think people cheat because they are selfish dogs, then you might have missed the whole point of the video.
You need to know what was missing? Sometimes nothing.
Cheaters cheat because of opportunity.
kalena Glory all cheaters are simply opportunists.
kalena Glory exactly!!!
True
“People cheat because something is missing.” Character, integrity, a conscience, respect, dignity...yeah, something is missing...
Cheating is a habit. Even if you are in good relationships, they need variety, like just changing tastebuds in their life.
If someone cheats just leave....they’ll do it again.
Even if they dont do it again gotta leave them... maybe unless u have children idk
La Original
PREACH!
Cool Beans
LEAVE THEM REGARDLESS.
LingThing Vlogs
Still got to leave.
Even worse for someone to cheat if children are involved.
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The reason they cheat on you is because they don't want to be with you..and they are cowards that won't tell you the harsh truth... I respect the person who would tell me the honest truth..
Urkupina Ba that’s so true I was just recently cheated on and the guy still hasn’t broke up with me he just stopped talking to me like the coward he is
Yep that's the cold hard truth
Then why do they beg on their knees for you to stay?
Susie MacLennan they beg for you to stay because of remorse,knowing they Hurted a human being terrorify them, its a way for Them to feel they are not that monster person
selfish at the end of the day,they want to do some for them,not for you to love you..i guess That's why they cheat on you onece again, once they feel they just cleaned their mass they go back to hurt again. almos like a criminal mind
My man is cheating with a married woman. her husband told me. he is destroying their family with two kids. horrible. I'm playing dumb as if I don't know. As soon as my loan is payed off... I'm gone. He will never touch my body again. In the meantime, I'm open to new love and moving on. They can have eachother. I'm out. Nothing missing here. He will be missing me when he comes home to a note in 3 months. Sick bastard
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baby I'm Worth It thats so sad :(
any updates?
baby I'm Worth It Now that's smart. U go girl.
To baby I'm Worth It
Very intelligent!
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Listen up... If someone cheats on you, leave them for good. You will always have that little thing in the back of your head, because he or she did cheat on you. You will never be able to fully trust them again. And NO, its not you that have to change. I mean, if someone cheats on you, they arent the right person for you. Your partner should love you for who you are, and therefore not cheat on you. If they then cheat on you, its not the right partner.. I know its hard to leave your partner, but it really has to be done, cause if they break the trustband one time, it CANT be recovered.
zan1k
PREACH!
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This may be from a year ago but this really hit me
You shouldn’t act out of fear. You cant leave because of what might happen.
I'm too on that line. My partner cheated on me , being in relationship for 11 years and we were about be get married. Its just feels my soul died and everything is null...
Nine times out of ten, Cheating is never about the person your with, it's about that person needing to have a "secret Life" outside of what they have.
"You don't wanna put someone on your back and carry them especially when they're hurting you."
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Leave the cheater end of story. Once a cheater always a cheater.
MightyZocalo , So very True!!! ☹️
FACTS
Dome are thinking they are ugly and we're never noticed and maybe they married a better person who improved them and young girls look at money they don't want him broke and he doesn't want them orhed leave his wife and go sure she'd let him
No one is good and bad at the same time. People change moment to moment.
Lol sooooo tru
Some of us genuinely don't have it in us to want to cheat which seems unfathomable to a cheater or a "situational cheater". Usually they have short attention spans, want instant gratification, and feel the most happiness from quick thrills. They can hardly handle a monogamous relationship because it's always about the "now".
Chuck Master
PREACH!
Exactly
Yesssssssss. Agreed
Those are narcissistic personality disordered individuals. Look up NPD it will open your mind to these individuals and what they're really about
@Chuck Master, well said!
The definition of integrity is how someone behaves when nobody is watching
I gave my husband everything! All of me. Loyalty, love, appreciation, I mean just being the best wife I could be. And he still cheated. It wasn't anything Missing. I'm still not sure why he did that to me. But God's not sleep and he sees everything.
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It wasn't you. Whatever it was is missing in himself.
when a guy eats steak and potatoe everyday for his life, eventually he gonna wanna have lobster to try it out
the answer was powerful though. "You don't cheat on a test you have all the answers."
LinhLinh Nguyen there can be no relationship after cheating. A person who can cheat once can cheat again given a chance.
TheSlimmshadyy absolutely correct and painfully sad. For me 3 strikes and now your out. At least I know I tried to save my marriage even thought I wasted all that precious time.
Elena Hojko I hope you get through this. Cheaters deserve a special place in hell.
TheSlimmshadyy I'm not sure I'll ever get over this. How sad that your essence, your life can be ripped apart and you walk around almost like a zombie, lifeless barely getting thru each day.
If you were betrayed I wish you comfort, peace and love. No one ever deserves to be cheated on EVER!
Shelly DeLeon the REAL problem with this video and its assessment to cheating. Found the exact answer by chance ... it said " a relationship is not a test so why cheat"! There you go! This is a completely flawed comparison.
"the worst thing you can do... is to tell a man you're gonna go, then stay" - AMEN
True! I left my ex-husband 5 yrs ago...can't say he didn't have fair warning. And I didn't say a word because I had already spoken enough after 9 yrs. So when it was time, I literally packed up my stuff and ghosted. He didn't know where I was. And I am glad I haven't looked back.
He cheated on me after 4 years of being together with my brothers wife. We'd always be around them and I never once thought they had something, they looked me in the face as if everything was fine, that's what disgusts me the most. God I love him, I never in a million years would've thought something like this would ever happen. I was so good to him. I gave him everything.
Catering It happened to me too, but you can’t linger on what you gave them. They took you for granted and became selfish, so its time you do the same and start thinking about your health and move on
Walk with your head held high. You are better than that cheater girl.
You are beautiful and seem nice and kind. FUCK EM BOTH you and your bro deserve better I hope you left his undeserving ass.
How did you find out
Man are shit
I’d rather have the power to forget than forgive. The memories of betrayal over and over are what kills the heart and soul. I pray every cheater gets what they deserve. Vengeance is gods. 🙏
same. i wanna forget him, all the lies he said all the memories we made
" The memories of betrayal are what kills the heart and soul "
I saw a whole album on his phone of them together, dates, text messages, etc. Those images are haunting my every day existence, they have embedded themselves in my thoughts, torturing any chance of forgiveness,
I wish I could forget them so, badly, better yet I wished it never happened, I wish he could of been a better human being, but than again here we are.
Vengeance is gods
Once trust is broken its hard to trust someone again . Insecurities ruin life..
I gave my girl my heart. I did everything for her and I took her where she wanted to go. I made her happy, listened to her songs, sung them to her and watched her favorite films. I gave my all and she brought out the best in me. Then out of nowhere she tells me she's been seeing someone else. I have never felt so broken in my entire life. She was my light. She was everything to me.
How have you been. This is me right now
Cheating is not a accident
Cheating is a choice
You/They can't explain it, when your boyfriend /girlfriend saw you/her/his.
My bf is cheating on me with his ex, who cheated on him. I wasted a year and 2 months with this guy.
*tuufffffff
Ouchie
I totally feel ya. Was with him for 5 years and cheated on me with my ex. I told him if u want her go get her and leave me out and u guys can be happy. He promised he loved me and he wanted to stay blah blah then what do you know his own mom told me he was cheating on me. So I feel ya
@@moniquelove5738 wow his mum
Monique Love
In due time you will move on to bigger and better.
FORGET THE LOSER.
LEAVE HIS ASS.
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It's hard to forget what they've done to you no matter how you force yourself to let go. You stay with them coz you love them but then you also torture yourself with the thoughts of him with her. What does she have that I don't? Is she funnier, prettier? Like I just ask myself why this why that? Why still be with me then entertain another woman? You feel like you can let go today then you remember it again tomorrow. It's hard. You lose your self esteem. Is love enough to make you stay?
This 💯
This is exactly what I am feeling and asking myself right now !!
But I learned that, if you want to try again, you don't need to forget, you need to forgive
Oh god.... This is exactly what I am going through right now... I can't shake this feeling .. I am struggling every day .. I just really hope it gets better ....
No love is not enough to make anyone stay. You can love them from a distance while loving yourself in the here and now. Every moment you give away worrying about them, you are robbing yourself of that moment you could be using for your self love.
gla22
LEAVE THEIR ASS!
I’ve gotten cheated on by a women i was in love with and was obviously betrayed to believe she was in love too. There was absolutely no reason that she cheated other than the fact that she wasn’t happy being with me and couldn’t tell me that because she still wanted reassurance that someone loved her at the end of the day, staying with me out of guilt. Unfortunately most cheaters end up being ill minded people who think irrational and selfish, psychotic in a way that they use human emotions as a stepping stone to get what they want and manipulate their SO. You have to understand this thinking and realize this world and that humans are fickle. The harsh reality is 9/10 times getting cheated on, you never mattered enough or had no impact to that persons thinking for you not to be a commitment in their life unconditionally , which YOU CANNOT control. they have no remorse and some even have no guilt about destroying trust.These kind of people teach you lot about those underlying issues and situations that are out of your control that you let go of for the better. Remember, if YOU get cheated on, its not YOUR FAULT they couldn’t be honest with you since they loved you so much to betray you. Don’t beat yourself up.. worse case scenario is to blame yourself for someone else’s dirty deeds and black thoughts.
Respect is everything, why give someone a second chance when there is someone else out there waiting for their first chance.
True that! Confirmation
First chance to be hurt as well…what comes around goes around and when you find out it’s to late. People who cheat do not deserve love. I’m sorry. That’s how I feel
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Had an intuition he was cheating. I contacted the girl and I was right. He was cheating on me the whole time with her. Thing is she knew about me and didn’t care! I said you know we were together. She said yup! I was mind boggled these side chicks really are ok with being with another woman’s man!
He wasn’t yours, it was just your turn.
These side chica out here are nuts. And just nasty have no respect at all
Karma will reach both
Side dudes are the same. I found out the same. Neither of them apologized either.
@@Jdmgibbs89 Sorry 😢 people are heartless.
i have never had problems with women because i do not sleep around! i am fifty years old
and i have only slept with about 3 women!. i have never cheated on no woman! so i do not
identify with a lot of cheating and abuse! i was raised in a two parent household!.
by the way i am a 100% black man. one of my greatest assets is i am "Programed" to
love one woman not 4,5 and 6 women!!!!!!!!!.
Laddy Gibbions that's great
that's awesome,,,there's hope
Laddy Gibbions bullcrap
You’ve been fortunate to be with 3 respectful and morally stable women then. Sometimes the best people end up with the wrong person because they both have lessons to learn. I’d never cheat, but have been cheated on. It sucks, but it’s nice to know you have the capacity to love someone whole heartedly, even if it hurts for a while
@@deejeff8846 LMAO its bcos hes black isnt it
This is literally THE most important, accurate advice i've ever heard. And I wish I had heard it sooner. The part about boundaries man...woo..blew my mind. Great video.
Loyalty, honesty, integrity.. that’s what’s missing. A person who is relationship material wouldn’t cheat. They’d rather leave.
Hey y’all so I just got cheated on by my partner of 3 years. I loved him to death and did everything and more for him, I am a mess right now and I would appreciate lots and lots of prayers and good energy my way... healing is going to be a journey
julie dez
GET RID OF HIS ASS.
Keep your head up.
Things will work out for the best in the long run.
Take care out there. xxx
julie dez if he didn’t value ur presence , give him ur absence... go full no contact . Use the pain he caused you to fuel you not to consume you . I hope u are doing much better . Let god do the work for you .
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Staying with a cheater is like putting on dirty underwear. I made the mistake of this and I'm still crawling out the hole she put me in. 8 long years and I'm finally starting to see the light again. Don't make my mistakes yours, focus on you.
"You have two pockets. In one pocket you are nothing and will one day be dust. In the other, out of billions of stars in the galaxy and after billions of years you were created, you are the only one of you. Which pocket are you going to reach in?"
~Norman Lear
computerbiscuit same here
How are you now?
computerbiscuit. not worth it
What if he cheats but tells me... This is his second time..
The hard part is holding that person to higher standards and comparing them to yourself. We both have issues, but I'm loyal...why aren't you? Anger builds up, you feel insecure and embarrassed. You let your walls down, become vulnerable...it's hard to heal those wounds. The hardest part is being scared you can never love someone as much as you loved them...so much time and memories are spent on a person. It's soul crushing.
I’m crying my tears out..
My ex of two and a half years cheated on me towards the last couple months of our relationship. After I left him, he stayed with the chick but is still steady in my inbox. I just screenshot his sorry fake ass and send it to his "girl".
Hilarious!
mine , of two and a half years, cheated on me with my best friend
Medee im so sorry that happened to you
Lili K hey Lili i think we deserve each other .
Lili K ..great!.
Sometimes nothing is missing, they just felt like doing it.
People cheat because they have a low self esteem, insecurities about themselves is deeper than the surface they're trying to fulfill their insecurities through other people. That's why they say "dont judge a book by its cover" and "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
Yes! Truth. When a guy knows you are out of his league = He does this to make you insecure & so that you will think not only are you not out of his league but that he is out of yours. 👍 insecure men are the ones who cheat. Some"men" don't even realize exactly why they are doing it. But they sure love a beautiful girl who is out of their league chasing them & crying over them & wanting them&being upset over them. & Then they themselves feel good about themselves because of it. & Then they realize they can now act like they're out of your league bc of the insecurities they now have given to you. 👍 Once a man like this realizes you have realized what an idiot he is& that they don't have such emotional control over you= They get angry & all his insecurities come to the surface for you to see clearly. & Then you think to yourself- What was I thinking letting this guy have such control over my life? Over my emotions?
The most sucky part is when he told me I was pushing him away because I was “overly insecure” or my “trust issues are getting the best of me.” Then make me look like a fool when I put all that aside for him to save the relationship, later finding out he breaks up with me using the excuses “I don’t deserve you, I need time to become a better person.” Then starts spending time with the girl I had reservations about. It’s not my insecurities to blame anymore; he was selfish, he was deceitful, and no remorse in him whatsoever.
And if you see this, you both better take care of each other because I did what I could. I’m sorry I couldn’t give you what was missing... But I know my worth.
Venus Villadelgado
GET RID OF HIS SORRY ASS.
And no looking back.
Keep your head up and take care out there.
My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship and moved in together to to my hometown to be closer to my family . 2 months of living together I found out he was cheating on me with another girl. He went to visit her for a week and told me he was going for a friends wedding. I kicked him out when I found out and we haven’t spoken since March.
I recently found out that he’s still seeing her and the only thing I’m sad about is that he couldn’t be honest and the hurtful part is that I’m literally stuck with carrying his child while he’s out and about being a whore. It’s literally like something you see in a movie but it for sure taught me to not trust anyone so easily.
I don’t want to be bitter or stuck on it so I’m still trying to let go of the betrayal.
My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant too. I feel you girl it sucks
Any advice on how U went through this I just came across this video it's been give years 😔 um so sorry but um now going through the same thing how did U keep your head up😊
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I left my cheating husband and never looked back . I have forgiven but not forgotten!
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It's me Debbie G,It hurt a lot
When he said “what is it that I’m missing. Cuz I’m not good enough” I felt that
"Wow"!! ...powerful words "Especially while they're hurting you"...continuing to love while they're hurting you. Hits home
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In my case my husband was a habitual cheater and he said he was doing it because he didn't care. I was so vivid but let down. He truly had no respect for me at all. The real issue was NOT ME it was him and still is. However, the reason for his on going behavior was me staying each time. Never will I do this again.
Well....there is something that the author missed out -it's not that cheating is entirely on something missing out such that you have to struggle to find out and maybe fix it, for starters angles are not yet born so never struggle looking for a gap in your relationship, cheaters are cheaters!
Cheaters have a missing moral chip...the victim of the cheater is missing nothing.
My advice to anybody don’t go into a relationship with someone until you have master self love . Because you can’t give what you don’t have .
yes yes yes
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It hurts when someone cheat you because you have faith on that person.
I sacrificed everything for her. I changed completely, I even gave up on people and things I truly loved. Now I am crying and completely lonely. Never in my life have I needed a hug more than I do right now.
Hi Andres it's been 4 years since you posted this comment. I find myself going through the same thing that you did. I hope you are doing fine and has found self love and is happy.
It's people out there that are looking for the perfect mate.But I'm here to tell you if you are looking for the perfect partner to ride this life out with then i know who you need his name is Jesus.He is the one who will never let you down, leave,or forsake you. But if you are looking for some one to love then love the person who is in love with you stop looking for perfection in this world because you won't find it in no human only from God. This is real talk I'm giving you :hope this helps you to love the one you with.
Thank you so much yes Jesus is everything he is the answer of all questions my husband cheated after 23 years marriage we have two children he did so many things to me but My Jesus help me to stay
In fact I love your point of view,trusting a man is like giving ones life to serious dangers,I also trusted my husband too much until I received a serious infidelity blow from him,though he has begged me,but my trust for him is gone to be found in Jesus only.
I just found out today that my ex girlfriend of 5 years was cheating on me at the end of a relationship about 2 months before she moved out she stop talking sex with me she stopped doing anything with me on the spouse with you she wanted to be roommates with me she left about a month ago and sure enough I caught her riding around in her car with another guy it was very painful because this lying conniving woman was telling me that she needed time to heal now it all makes all the sense in the world she was f****** around on me behind my back
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People cheat because they are Low Life's .
Yeah. Piece of shitz
Gamer moment
Not always ,not all cheaters r cold calculated an evil;what if u love them an been with them for 30 years an u tried an begged for intimacy warmth an love an get rejected over an over ; a little side dish can save a marriage an if you haven’t been with someone over 15 years u have no experience an there fore should have no opinion
@@laurahenry3562 at that point just leave. Why sink to their level and even lower. Cause when you cheat you automatically lose your credibility and ability to justify your actions.
Xavier M good advice
just leave. once he cheats you will never trust him again. find out what is missing so you can get it right with someone else. This man is full of crap.
THIQUECHICK JONES yes find out what's missing and perfect it for the perfect man and not the man who left to find that in someone else
THIQUECHICK JONES , Preach on it!!! This dude is delusional and has an audience of idiots. You should have given the class. He's a moron!
IKR!! UGHHH just taking them ladies money!
This is for people who actually want to try in their relationships and not give up every time something bad happens. There are a lot worse things in a relationship that can happen and this generation just wants to give up on everything. Especially if you have kids just giving up isn’t an option.
Eye like it
Man he talks..EXTREMELY SLOW
Tammey Ezell it's SUPER irritating.... like damn what do you have to say. Ugh
Tammey Ezell I think because it's supposed to be a therapy session, so he's trying to sound relaxing lol.
Tammey Ezell 😂😂😂😂
I actually found that very relaxing and genuine.
Ashley Hawkins, IKR!!! Super irritating! Get to the damn point or shut the hell up is what I would say if I attended one of his classes!!!! 😤Seems like he's looking for crap to say to fill a time block! 😖 He made me turn the video off before it finished cause he's extra slow!!! Soothing...my arse!...He's downright IRRITATING!!! 😡🤣
My live-in boyfriend of three years is secretly having lunches and drinks with a married, younger woman. She was at his work the other day and I confronted them. They both laughed @ my concern. My boyfriend is very defensive. Tells me I'm imagining things and that she is just a friend. Yet I am not allowed to view any of the texting between the two of them. He says I'm just trying to control him by forcing him to show me the texts. He says he's not a little b****. Why won't he show me to prove me wrong? I am feeling so foolish! But more than anything IM SO HURT!
"You don't want to put someone on your back and carry them especially when they're hurting you " true statement! ✊🏼
If I am cheated on, I'm leaving period. ❤
Cheating can be far more than just what's missing. Cheating is often crossing or expanding boundaries to provide opportunity. Given the opportunity temptation will replace what's missing even when nothing is missing except opportunity.
NICE INFO, BUT IVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5 YRS GOING ON 6. I LEFT MY HUSBAND AFTER 2 YRS. BECAUSE OF CHEATING. HE RECENTLY CAME BACK INTO MY LIFE AND SAID HE HAS CHANGED AND WANTS TO MAKE OUR MARRIAGE WORK. WE STILL LIVE APART BUT SEE EACH OTHER OFTEN. BUT HE SEEMS TO BE DISTANT LATELY AND WHEN I CALL HIM IT GOES TO VOICE MAIL. HES NEVER DONE THAT TO ME. IVE FOUND MORE THAN 40 WOMAENS NAMES NUMBERS AND ADDRESSES IN HIS PHONE. ALL HE SAYS IS HE DONT KNOW THEM. PLEASE IM NOT THAT STUPID. THATS WHY I STILL LIVE ALONE
Susan Hawk , He's cheating again. Those are the classic signs. Been through what you're going through.....it's painful & disrespectful, especially when they promise to do right by you after you've taken them back. Cut all ties & Move on to someone who will love and cherish you and your relationship. You deserve better and your Ex is showing signs the hasn't changed and won't.
I'm not married yet, luckily I'm not married to my ex who's actually cheated on me. 15 September 2018, I found out on Instagram he's cheated with another woman, when I came in contact with hackerrobert001@gmail during his trip. He said he went with his friends, but actually with her when i got proof monitoring old and deleted messages and media right in my phone in 48 hours. My heart broken into pieces, 2 years being betrayed, we shared almost everything, we planned our future. I'm questioning everything? Why he did this? But for me, now I realize it's a blessing in disguise. If I never knew or found out the truth I would end up marrying the wrong person.
Susan Hawk
GET RID OF HIS ASS.
YOU DESERVE BETTER!
I’m so glad you made the decision to live alone 😇 we’re better off without them cheaters!
@@umeshifernando7 Yeah me to. Since that time I did discover that he was not only cheating on me with one person but a bunch of random women. I put a spy app in his phone to monitor his phone calls, messages and GPS and he had been with more than 70 women. I was Disgusting by his actions and the way he didn't care about the dangers that were involved with his desicions to have unsafe sex with so many people. We have been apart for years now and I am have not spoken to him in years. I am much happier being alone than with a person who has no self control or respect for me. Thanks 😊 🙏
I know I have my imperfections, but why am I being cheated on? My flaws are not an excuse. I loved that person so much and I cannot imagine how they have done it. Images are popping on my mind. This really hurts. I hope everyone in the world does not experience this pain. *Deep sigh*
When a guy knows you are out of his league = He does this to make you insecure & so that you will think not only are you not out of his league but that he is out of yours. 👍 insecure men are the ones who cheat. Some"men" don't even realize exactly why they are doing it. But they sure love a beautiful girl who is out of their league chasing them & crying over them & wanting them&being upset over them. & Then they themselves feel good about themselves because of it. & Then they realize they can now act like they're out of your league bc of the insecurities they now have given to you. 👍 Once a man like this realizes you have realized what an idiot he is& that they don't have such emotional control over you= They get angry & all his insecurities come to the surface for you to see clearly. & Then you think to yourself- What was I thinking letting this guy have such control over my life? Over my emotions? *Edit* & the same can be said for women as well. Just vice versa.
Everyone here for the same reason, I’m so so sorry for what you’re going through.
Don't blame yourself if someone has cheated on you because it's not your fault if he isn't contented with one person. You just have to learn from that experienced and be more careful in choosing the guy that will be part of your life in the future.
This is why people would say I am stupid. I think you should love someone and stay faithful for no reason. If you like someone one for any material reason should not be taken seriously. You should love someone for their souls. Anything less should not be taken as a serious relationship. I don't care if your homeless or smell like shit.
And it's not always about what's missing. But it's always about personal morals.
that IS stupid
Sorry but I cannot have sex with someone I don't know or have feelings for. I may be strange but I just can't have a sexual relationship with someone I have no feelings for. ✊✌
Phin J. Me too ... It has been so painful
Same here my man, we’re a different breed in that sense because most people just want to have sex for small moments of pleasure. I’d rather find someone to love and then get intimate.
Same 😭 it’s my Venus in Scorpio ♏️
@@Glorxbelle how can i chek this thing for me?
All the planets and signs.ty
Goran Trajkovski search in google natal birth chart
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24 years together. I just found out this morning. Im at a loss for words. Ive been a faithful husband. Never felt this pain before.
Man ....BETER y found out....don't give a dam ...cheaters are sick .. Narcizist...and disgusting
For me, the best thing you do is give yourself time, travel and be with your family and friends.
This is by far one of the BEST videos I have seen on UA-cam ever 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Unlike many others it gets to the core of the matter, and gives real detailed steps on how move forward after cheating. Too many videos blame the woman and try to get us to devalue the act. "You all value sex too much. A man can love you, sleep with another woman and still love you." WTH?
I just found out my ex cheated on me two years ago. We broke up exactly a year. Some time around in May of this year, she came back into my life and everything was going smooth, it was like the beginning of a honeymoon stage. But she felt she needed to confess before we could move forward, she even hoped this confession would bring us closer. We were together for two years and she cheated when she was out of town, right in the middle of those two years. I can’t get it out of my head, and she’s begging for forgiveness, she wants us to continue, it’s why she “came clean” but damn I remember being so insecure about that trip and the company she was around with. I was being an asshole while she was on the trip, I’ll own up to that. But why did she have to give her body to someone else? It feels as if the second year of our relationship was all fake. She says she never confessed cause she felt the guilt an hour after, and that she didn’t wanna lose me. It’s just all bullshit. Someone please just help me. It’s not just men who cheat
I hope that you have left her by now!
No matter all the excuses, she made the conscious choice to cheat my man.
These things should always be a one and done deal and no 2nd chances because they will bite you in the ass eventually.
How are u now bro?
Women cheat more than men
@@bfedezl2018 true!
@geo’suniverse how are you bro I’m in a similar situation?? How did you get through bro please get back to me I’m hurting
Relationships are never absolute. When we reach that understanding and shift our focus, our lives will improve. Many men do not understand that women are not always happy or fulfilled in relationships with them either. We often times sacrifice our urges and desires for the good of our families. We as women need to start telling men our true feelings instead of keeping silent and making them think that we are ok when we are not.
I just broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me with her ex that she always talked shit on and dated very briefly before me. I cut all contact with her and deleted my social media. Its been almost three weeks since I last spoke to her and the pain is still strong.
I would love to see what he would've had to say differently if there were men in the audience. He said it himself, men aren't the only ones who cheat.
some men want a bigger butt, chest, longer straighter hair, lighter or darker skin.... what then...yea something missing all right that some women just cant fix
i was thinking the same exact thing!
ferdynand2402 All of this is superficial and it won't last. What's missing is the lack of satisfaction. That's that gotdamn green grass.
but if or when that times happens the damage is already done see ya
Most of those females pay for their bodies ... and man won't pay for their wives to get that body lol but once they get with those girls (the girls will make them pay for it ) and most of the time he won't be the only one sponsoring her 😝 they like share woman
Randi Lewis It's not worth making them happy , I'm not doing it's whatever.
When first listening to the video it sounded like a possible strong message. Then the more I thought about it the more I felt the something was off regarding the 3 missing parts that leads to adultery. 2 out of the 3 had to deal with the betrayed spouse and what the cheating spouse felt was missing in their partner or in the relationship. ONLY 1 out of the 3 dealt with the cheating spouse and what might be missing in them. Thing the lightbulb went off and I had the answer that wasn't being given. Whats missing is TRUTH AND COMMUNICATION from the cheating spouse. Without ever being truthful or communicating what they FELT was missing how the heck could you expect resolution or working on the marriage. So take the cowardly way out and just cheat? Wow! I'm sorry but being disrespectful, lying and deceiving your faithful spouse is very low and shows your true character. Maybe that's what's missing and was never discovered before. Someone who really has little morals and could cause so much pain on your partner and extended family and friends all because of THEIR selfishness.
Exactly!!
A 1yr and 1/2 Cheated on 6 months in *lies after lie/ while he impregnate another woman, engaged to me, hardest thing I had to deal with😢 when you love someone you put up with so much, but your self worth is so much more, I walk away from my relationship because clearly he did a long time ago, it still hurts now 3 months later, .. I know deep down god remove him from my life for a reason, and even tho it suck the life and love out of me, I'm just afraid to love again, only time can heal a broken💔
Lu Marr
You done the right thing.
You will find love with someone better.
keep your head up, trust God and take care out there.
I know this video was posted in 2015, but thank you for this video. Very calming and helped me think about a few things
I feel that if you ben respect someone, you wouldn't have cheated. If not love, or care, they just need to have respect to not do it, or break it off with you before. And a relationship without respect is a toxic one, and you deserve better than that. I try to tell myself this everyday to get through it. Hope this can somewhat help.
This is right on target!! 🎯 When it happened to me, I let him stay but I also silently got my ducks in a row & bounced. The boundaries with me was that I have a temper and I didn’t want to go to jail. Thank you Jesus for teaching me my worth!! Blessings.
I recently been cheated on by a man I though was mature enough. The thing is, he was lacking in so many areas that I should have been the one who was suppose to cheat if we’re being honest. He basically used me and chose someone else, but still wants me to do things for him. I hate him so much
I've been with my husband for 22 years, he always cheated and I kept on forgiving him, he was physically abusive I forgave him I stood by his side when he had nothing I prayed for him more then I prayed for myself, I helped him to build himself up again and the first thing he did when he landed back on his feet was to cheat, I'm broken
Cheating is a decision a person takes. Regardless there is missing or nothing is missing...
Ok everyone says leave him but harder to say then do. Damn the pain of leaving all those memories behind. Of always thinking of a what if rather than a he/she did. At the end of the day, listen to your tuition
Dxddy Psychoe
LEAVE THEIR ASS.
Once they cross THAT LINE, game over.
“We can’t control them, we can only control ourselves.” ❤
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Sure. Leave one cheater. Move on and get cheated on again with the new person
TIA- NO! move on but learn ,what a faithful man is made of-then look for him
Story of my life .. and when they seem like the faithful ones they are the ones doing the most sneakiest things
Exactly. No one's faithful everyone's fucked
I'm not married yet, luckily I'm not married to my ex who's actually cheated on me. 15 September 2018, I found out on Instagram he's cheated with another woman, when I came in contact with hackerrobert001@gmail during his trip. He said he went with his friends, but actually with her when i got proof monitoring old and deleted messages and media right in my phone in 48 hours. My heart broken into pieces, 2 years being betrayed, we shared almost everything, we planned our future. I'm questioning everything? Why he did this? But for me, now I realize it's a blessing in disguise. If I never knew or found out the truth I would end up marrying the wrong person.
I'd rather stay single than get cheated again.
Today my BF cheated on me and this is really helping while I’m crying 😢 😭 pray for me
Tamari _anime i have same situation hope u are good m in pain too
I went through that I was with a guy for a short period of time no sex with him and he got married a year later now he is a widower and is alone. I believe God has a reason for everything. If God is saying leave this person alone do not feel bad just keep it moving because God has someone for everyone. I also advise EVERYONE to not CHEAT because you do reap what you sow and it comes back to you in a horrible way. Stay true to one person because messing around behind someone's back can cost you your life. Not worth the pain.
Been cheated after 5 years. 💔😞 This is someone that i stood by through to help them with their sobriety, being faithful to them, just being through them through thick and thin like a marriage. I'm broken right now. He keeps calling me ,and im not answering. I need advice if anyone can help a lost person. My family is shattered and my world is broken.😞💔😞💔😞
I've been trying to get over a girl I was with for 2 years and she cheated on me with 3 other guys. One of them for over 6 months. I don't know why I stayed but I left and now I'm broken. I wish the memories would just go away..
Wilfred Had One
GET RID OF HER ASS!
You will move on in due time.
Take care out there.
Sad when you love the person and see so much in them 😢
Listening to this while crying myself to sleep.. My boyfriend is cheating on me and with how I gave in its so damn hard for me to get out of the relationship, Im feeling stupid for still being stuck in the relationship because truth be told he disrespected me... I'm hurting!
It’s NEVER about you or you missing something! It’s about THEM! Maybe they don’t even know what that is. Just get the courage to walk away and RUN! Don’t be their therapist! I dumped my cheating ex 3 months ago. Never looked back as much as it hurt and still does. But I need to put myself first and so do you! Stay strong!
I just realized 4 months later I've been cheated on. When I confronted her about it she said "Oh you're overreacting". I trusted someone, and the person who cheated on me has been cheated on before, but my naiveness thought "oh, she knows this pain. She knows what it's like to feel this way, so she'll never do this for me". God this shit fucking sucks, I feel so betrayed I feel depressed, annoyed mad, a billion different feelings. FUCK FUCK FUCK
Yeah they cheated it hurts so much. But when the times goes by you will realize that you lost a cheater and they lost a faithful you. They also will realize that someday.
Whats missing ..??
Ill tell you its the son of GOD JESUS CHRIST , THE FEAR AND HOLINESS OF GOD. He cheated because he LOVES whoredoms n evil he dislikes purity n faithfulness and wify material. Darknesss n light dont mix...
Wife cheated on me 19 years ago. We split, she married the guy and all within the same year we were back together. Fast forward to the present 2019, I just found out she’s at it again. We have 24 years together and saying you must leave is easier said than done. But I’ll stand by this statement, “once a cheat always a cheat.” I’m moving on...