If you know or think your spouse is cheating, think very hard about whether you want to continue on the relationship or not. I feel like a fool for forgiving the first time because he's back at it again and I've been told by divorce lawyers that the messages that I have off of his phone aren't quite enough in my state.
*Actually the reverse is triggering for the cheater.* When you know they cheat, you forgive them and disappear without notice. I had two different women cheat with undeniable evidence. *I didn’t confront them at all about it or give them closure, I just simply disappeared from their existence.* I was with one for 3years and she finally caught up to after trying to locate me for almost a year. She was angry and upset. I showed her the evidence of why I left. I told her that you’d think a cheater would appreciate you leaving without a fight, that way they don’t have to carry the burden of sneaking around, lying and misleading. *It’s detrimental to a cheater’s mental health when you leave unbothered by their actions.*
@@standground8284 I can appreciate and agree with that to an extent just by seeing how jealous my husband is and how he's always asking me if I'm talking to someone else, which in itself is a bit triggering. We have two kids together so I can't just evaporate from his existence. There's also the fact that my name is on all of the bills and the lease for the apartment we live in.
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this Soshu Tech
Bravo, Dale Valskov -I'm so glad you're out there fighting these scumbags. We must do everything in our power to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers. You're a true hero, my brothea
I can't imagine how difficult it is to choose a job in the battle against these crooks. The history must not be disregarded!!Respect to the Dale Valskov crew for taking up this responsibility and combating scammers.
It really must be tough to navigate situations like these, especially when facing such serious challenges. It’s so important to stand up against scammers and people who take advantage of others. I’m curious, though-what do you think is the most effective way to get someone to open up and tell the truth, especially when they have a lot to lose?
Hey ppl, I'm a retired computer/IT person, Yet I still find Dale Valskov so informative and straight forward. Thanks for your advise and helping the people...........Great work and love watching.
Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s great to hear that even with your extensive background in IT, you find Dale Valskov’s insights valuable. It's amazing how information can resonate across different fields. Have you ever encountered a situation where technology or logic helped uncover the truth in a tricky situation?
We need more immeasurably wise and compassionate humans like you on this planet. Thank you for sharing Dale Valskov , Jon. I bet I'm not alone when I say this video found me at the perfect moment, and there are a lot of things here that I needed to hear right now.
Congratulations Dale Valskov -I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs. We must take every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to you!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.
I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this. Because you're right. The worst thing that you can feel is hopelessness. And I hope that someone who is on the verge of losing hope finds Dale Valskov and realizes that as long as you're still alive and breathing, there's a chance, there's HOPE that the future is brighter then the present day.
It’s so insightful to reflect on how intimacy evolves as we grow older. The idea of embracing someone’s quirks and being accepted for them is such a beautiful aspect of deepening a connection. It’s interesting how the desire for excitement and passion can shift to a longing for peace and stability. Do you think the balance between comfort and excitement is something we naturally learn over time, or is it more about understanding what truly matters in a relationship?
Congratulations, Dale Valskov I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs, We musttake every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to You!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.
My account also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . I'm really happy seeing his name everywhere in the comment. It really says a lot about his good work.
Having someone like you who’s not only a great innovator but also pulls his best to get the work done so beautifully needs nothing but appreciation. Dale Valskov Thanks for the well off work you consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that. Thank you for making corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you on our team. Great work as always.
The efficiency of this Dale Valskov is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work jack!!
It just kept glitching on me when I tried this video tutorial so firstly I would say thank you for the video and secondly, thank you Dale Valskov meeting you was a blessing in disguise keep up with the good work I'm sure a lot of people will be needing your assistance iin the nearest future after seeing this
Thank you, Dale Valskov for consistently being so approachable and open-minded. Your friendly demeanor and willingness to listen and understand serve as a constant source of motivation. Your support and guidance have been especially meaningful to me during the recent account issue I encountered. Your willingness to assist and offer valuable advice speaks volumes about your character and the supportive environment you cultivate. I’m incredibly grateful to have someone like you. Your assistance played a crucial role in resolving the issue and getting my account back.
Account of mine also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . It brings me immense joy to witness his name appearing frequently in comments, a clear indication of the commendable work he’s been doing.
@billieruth8831 It’s just either a scammer or a bot. Saw another comment by another account, a bit above saying the same stupid shit. With the same idiot commenting “thank you” right after.
Brother please take care always and your team, Dale Valskov you're the hero of us who helped watched out for this scumb**gs and give us knowledge not to be scam by these animals and aliens. Please never give up helping to those innocent people.
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Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
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I just want proof, I no longer care if she's getting pounded sideways by another guy. I just want a full proof so I could get full custody of my kid, and she'd be out of the picture.
It doesn't work that way, trust me. In most states, at least standard visitation (extended standard, if they live close-by) is considered a RIGHT. It doesn't matter how harmful they are to the kid! To lose visitation, you would have to have some really damning evidence, like pictures of really bad injuries from abuse or a positive hair strand test. Wanna know what's really terrible? Extended standard visitation is a 60/40 split! And, the noncustodial parent gets the kid basically for a lot of the holidays and weekends while your "custody" time is when they're in school during the weekdays 😞
My mom divorced my dad when I was 1yo. She made a clean break and never pursued him for child support. She went through tough times but when I was 6 she married my stepdad. Since she made a clean break my stepdad became my father and we became a happy family. When I was 15 my biological father came to visit and I didn’t hold any ill will towards him. It was perfect timing. He took me on a cross country road trip. I wasn’t ready for the religious stuff he talked about, but later in life it became very important after I lost my wife of 26 years to cancer. If you go down that road, your kid will learn a valuable lesson: NEVER get married. If you follow that logic to its conclusion, in 20 years we will have a “children of men” problem. Maybe you and your wife can forget about the money, and think outside the box on this.
Exactly. At some point the fact that she cheated is less important than having the details for legal and familial/ friend proof. And for clarity / peace of mind. The here will never be any doubts that you did the right thing.
@@alexandraallen9247me too, my spouse just broke up with me tonight due to me telling him his cheating & lies made me insecure- he said our relationship is just too much I'm always bringing up old stuff and he doesn't want to deal with it anymore
Yes, it does.. I am so sorry 😣 Compassionate hugs… I know talking about things like this can be very painful, uncomfortable and deeply unpleasant… living with it is even harder… it seems as though eventually we lose ourselves inside of energies like this.. they often cant or won’t even be honest with themselves and everything begins with the self… I hope you know how worthy you are and that we all deserve the opportunity to connect deeply and authentically with another and to work together to have a loving, honest and vulnerably intimate relationship… this all takes the willing to choose to be honest, even when it is, especially when it is harder to do the right thing and you body will cue you towards feeling out whether there is truth and action to support your belief that your connection is authentic & sincere… it’s easy to say we do have a choice or choices.. it is much more difficult to assert your will and take back your power and you make decisions in support of your highest empowered self… unrequited and unreciprocated anything is painful and will erode at your self worth and image.. I hope you are able to heal and shift these dynamics going forward… if the fantasy or potential is not connected to the reality, than any one of us can get lost in the undertow… i truly feel the pain of you message me I hope that you rimshot the fk you are and that you choose to give yourself the benefit of know and loving thyself deeply and authentically… and we all have our own paths… however.. if you are curious and open to more quantum, esoteric and other unique systems designed to offer insight and connect.. valuable tools and knowledge that everyone should tap into, in my opinion… are 5 love languages ~ attachment style ~ Archetypal energies in natal blueprint or astrology chart ( know your Big 3 Sun ☀️ ~moon 🌙 & rising otherwise called Ascendant and base on time of birth and sign on the Eastern horizon at that time/date/place… and Quantum Human Design (Type, Strategy & Authority) Seeds can blow But trees can’t grow Until the basics are met… Everything Begins With The Self…
@@mindyv5680 sorry your going thru it. Pretty awful feeling and most have no clue until it happens to them how bad it fells. All I can say is focus on yourself and what makes you happy in the meantime. Forget about your spouse for now. They don’t deserve you or your attention. Best of luck to you
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once you have evidence of cheating then leave for your own sanity and if you feel betrayed then you can get help but talking to your partner is a waste of time, wake up
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He swore they never touched, until I lied and said she recorded it , he came to me a few days later and said he lied and would have taken it to the grave if I hadn’t found out . Now he says that they parked , never kissed, only felt each other up over their jeans , stopped and that was the end .... I know more happened and I want to know , after 23 years I need to know so I can move on, after him watching me cry for months knowing he was lying the whole time , I just can’t believe him now. He says he can’t remember anything he said only what she said etc.... my gut says he slept with her . There’s 2 hours of missing time , that’s never been explained
I'm so sorry mickey. I hope with all my heart you'll find your way. I wish you the best. I hope that this message will make you feel a bit better, even a 1% better. I'm so sorry for your situation, and I know that I'm every moment of your day sometimes the "trigger" kicks in and you feel like shit. Get over it, I'm sending all my strength ❤️
It so easy for people to say get over it. I just wish people could grow up and take responsibility for their own faults and the damage they cause to us honest men and women who are praying for the same in return
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You’re in a fixed mindset, which is perfectly fine. But you undermining others decisions doesn’t validate your side any more. If anything, it shows your insecurity about if you should’ve stayed. Think about what you post in these videos. Vulnerable people come here for guidance; not your negative judgements.
@@KyleALarkinsTelling people comfortable lies doesn't help them .. women tend not to cheat from sexual desire but from emotional connection ... once the emotional connection has been broken in a relationship it is very difficult for it to be reformed ... people go through the stages of grief ... depression is common and even PTSD ... the majority of relationships never recover from one of the partners cheating and suggesting to people that they do is just setting them up for further emotional injury
That’s not true.. there is always a healing process when a person experiences ANY trauma and you need to listen to how silly you sound. Also, as well, people who stick around trying to fix things aren’t “weak” in fact they’re the strongest of people. A weak response is the “flight” response. Which is the easiest way out & the route that people take so they don’t have to be strong. Don’t say silly things.
@@KyleALarkins Making an observation isn’t judgement. Was it rude to call use the word weak, maybe but that’s subjective. You used the word insecurity. Nothing screams insecurity like “I’m afraid to be alone or preferably with a faithful partner” so I’ll take my chances by remaining with a known cheater instead. It’s absolutely sad that cheaters have some of y’all so brainwashed that you decide to remain with them and make excuses for them after they betrayed you. I can’t think of anything more degrading, humiliating and pathetic than fighting to remain in a relationship with a known cheater. Especially under the guise of a cheater calling you weak for dumping them and moving on with your life. That sad thing is, the person who cheated on you and realize you didn’t dump them will look down on you moving forward for your lack of self respect. They’ll just get better at hiding the infidelity, next time they’re caught, they’ll likely say duh you let me off the hook the first time.
You only find out the ugly details when they know you are leaving. Once they not you are not buying their lies and definitely moving on, the will tell the truth to hurt you. That only validates what you knew . Thank them for finally being honest. Keep it moving and NEVER, NEVER take them back no matter what.
Thank you for the video. I caught my wife writing postcards to a convict. Apparently before he got in prison my wife and him had been out several times together even with my wife’s older son and his wife who, yes knows that we are married. My wife continues to this day says that they did not have sex but the same daughter in law sent me text messages that my wife and her were having at the time. They stated many sexual things, including a phrase my wife use to say about me and she said it about him. My wife denies the texts saying that her daughter in law made the messages up which these messages are time and date stamped. I don’t believe my wife at all about the sex which she has admitted to seeing this guy. It’s been about8 months since everything started falling apart. I’m trying to move past things but don’t know how when I know in my heart I’m being lied to.
Maybe in that relationship but I cheated when I was 23. It killed me knowing what I did to her that I stayed single for 10 years. First girl I met, I didn't cheat, no porn, she cheated and destroyed me. I will never cheat ever again. I was young and made a selfish decision and regret it deeply. My ex didn't even give a shit. She was so malicious and heartless i may never trust again.
@@AR-zn1uy Are we supposed to feel bad that you got a taste of your own medicine? I just don’t understand why you stayed single because you decided to hookup with someone you preferred instead of dumping your gf prior. It amazes me that some of you cheaters can’t keep it a buck and act like you can’t be truthful. If you approach your partner and say that you’re going to cheat or you prefer someone else… no worries, they might dump you and encourage you to pursue the person you want to cheat with. Y’all cheaters are arrogant if you think your significant others prefer to remain with you if you want someone else.
@standground8284 lol get some counselling and maybe hit the gym. Lil miss perfect. I cheated once and learned my lesson. You, on the other hand, are bitter because you aren't good-looking and continue to get cheated on. Which is why u wrote me a paragraph. Try staying away from the cookies
@@AR-zn1uy this sounds a lot like me. I was a MESS in my teens and early 20’s I would screw a snake if you held its head. No I would screw a wood pile if you told me a snake was in it… that all went away and my karma is I ended up with the snake everyone screws apparently 🙄
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They turn every thing on you they say your crazy your being silly paranoid etc even though your hitting them with facts I’m getting a divorce but she still hasn’t admitted to it
I had evidence, found thongs that weren't mine. Found hair ties when I don't use hair ties in the car..a apron and cap from a fast food restaurant. Worst of all a condomn and yes you guessed it we never used any because he said he was allergic to them. Also he knew I could see his location, there are several times he was in motels and again on days we didn't go to. Also he would be in the parking lot of his work..way after working hours. I had the screens shots of his location where it said the time and place and how long he was there and the videos of the stuff I found in his car...and he said the GPS was wrong, that he just passed by...then he said he sometimes lends his car to his nephews so the stuff is probably theirs..and the cherry on top he said did I see him, no I didn't right so then I have no proof and therefore nothing happened. I have a 2yo with him and he is always crying to see his dad so I'm just waiting for him to speak so I can make up a reason to where he won't be seeing him and not cry.
@@craigy691 I know this is late, but she is a loser. What a crappy, loser thing... for her to not even grant you the peace of knowing what happened. It's crazy-making and disrespectful.
Ugh, I sure screwed that up. Might be why I'm stuck in my recovery. Oh. Hey Brennan! Fancy seeing you over here. I've been listening to your podcasts for the past year but never looked for you here. Thank you for all the work you do to help all the firecrackers like myself who are dealing with betrayal. xx
I have tried to tell my bpd ex that I know what happened, and I understand why it could have happened. I called her today, and basically told her that she hasn’t been honest with me about what happened, and she of course denied it. I didn’t let her try and make excuses that nothing happened, there is too much evidence that says otherwise, and I just told her her without blaming her that we both know that isn’t what happened. I knew it was starting to get to her because she started getting angry! I just told her that I wasn’t going to contact her anymore and that I was moving on, and if she wanted to talk she could reach out to me. When I told her again that, she hasn’t been 100% honest with me, she just said bye and then hung up, that’s enough proof to me that she is starting to at least think about things, and knows that I know something.
Mad respect for the holding it together. I lose my shit every time and it's like open mic night at a trap house. I didn't get much from this video that I haven't got from every other one I watched or article I've read. I just don't know how to know if it's my gut, past triggers or my head or heart telling me shit, but I just know he's hiding something. 🤔
Before you confront them get proof. Hire a private investigator. They can file pictures and affidavits for the one being cheated on in a divorce case. Judges actually look at this after it's filed by your attorney.
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23 years with an abusive, pathological lying, gaslighting, covert narcissist. He should be a millionaire by selling his lies in a book. I finally had to hire a PI to get evidence so I knew my gut was right. Why can't they just be single instead of f!#$# up other people's lives with 100% BS lies.
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So I don't have hard evidence no but my my gut feeling and I can sense when something is off I can sense when something is different just by how my boyfriend acts and does things
A tricked her by saying if I had a little honesty then i could work with it, we could work on it. See? I can also be deceitful. As expected to get me off her back she gave me little but admitted that there was indeed another man. This was the last piece if the puzzle that I needed. Divorced. The key to this is as this video says, stay persistent.
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Let them know you need them to do a polygraph that you set up with a professional to set your mind at ease so you can trust. An innocent partner will do a polygraph.
Same. He finally told me about one time but I know there are more. He only told me because I was about to pull up to the girls house. He got mad at me and called me everything in the book...
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I feel like we set each other up for telling lies about if we are cheating in the beginning of our relationship that started 9 years ago. We told each other that was the one thi g that would break each other and im afraid it's taking form now after 9 years. I know something is going on there is so much that doesn't add up. And when I confront her she is already at a level 10 to my 3. And throws what I've done up or blames my paranoia on my PTSD meds from the VA. She says the meds have changed me. I love my wife with all I have but it's so hard for me to put up this wall when I know deep down something not kosher. I'm scared to death to find out the truth but feel like I need to hear it so I can start getting over it. My heart hurts something fierce everytime I look at her knowing that there is deceit there.
Woah dude. If she is blaming your PTSD meds on your "behavior" that is emotional abuse. She is emotionally abusing you rather than being a supportive wife. Those are things to never throw back in someones face. I hope you are okay. These things are important to bring up to a therapist or counselor. She might not be aware of how abusive that is. Either seek support alone or together. Im speaking from experince here. My dad is a disabled Vietnam Vet and my mother is emotionally abusive and want to see her in jail.
I think a cheater will never tell the whole truth and will downplay everything. They are dishonest individuals by nature or they would have left you first or adked permission. Betraying someone's trust is the death nail of any kind of relationship being happy. Could you trust a business partner that siphoned half your profits off to some offshore account "belonging" to someone else?
I don’t have solid evidence but I saw her co worker standing unprofessionally behind her one day as I entered the building he suddenly switched to her side as if then started complementing me as if to distract from what I just saw so idk then she swears he wasn’t standing behind her when I walked thru the door lol so what do you think she’s a front desk lady and he’s the house keep ?
When the accuser is unsafe and created the environment, this all becomes extremely unhelpful. One more coach not interested in helping, and worth ignoring. Thank you for helping me to save my time by not listening further.
I have a cheating husband before. I confronted him with solemn queries, he answered with shouts and slamming of doors where neighbors can hear and get his malleta to leave me. Oh my goodness! Many times i begged him not to leave me and forgive him without any doubt, without any discussions. After 12 years guess what? I was fed up. I throw all my energies in revenge and get even that my thorns on my head grew long. I cant control my revenge. And this time i brave enough to let him go. I am fed up... Need to find myself and my worth. I dont want to be imprisoned with someone who makes me a puppet, a scare crow, a maid, a pass time, a nobody. I left with the children without his knowledge. Guess what? He didn't look for us. Insread he said okay you go on. After many weeks, he had another woman. They are happy. Good. I hope they are for each other. I will not worry because the best is yet to come for me. I will just be good single mom, take care of the children, obey God. And be happy. Thats all
Geez, it’s safe to say he wanted out if he didn’t look for you and the children. The fact that he didn’t freak out means that he trusted you to do what’s best for you and the children.
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I just don't get catering to my partners needs and making them feel all safe and cozy to get them to tell the truth about cheating. Why give them anymore when they've already taken everything from you?
I'm a Maldives born and living in UK and I cannot express enough how much I despise these scumbags. Literally whenever people ask me my nationality I just tell them I'm British because idiots like these give us a horrendous reputation, not to also mention they scam other Europeans too. It warms my heart to see stuff like this, please Dale Valskov keep up the great work destroying these scammers!!!
I just found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I came home for a month and , within a month he did this.. I'm devastated. I can't even cry. It feels like the world is crashing.
Well, you should dump him and pursue a relationship with someone who’s faithful. You should prefer to be alone and single. That’s better than being alone in relationships since your significant other is out cheating with someone else.
Sorry for this, you're a better, stronger person and will come through this. Please don't feel that it's your fault by any means. I'd normally leave someone who cheats but only you know what you want. Make sure though that you don't just forgive simply with him facing no consequences cause that means he will likely do it again.
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That’s what my gf did. The trickle out effect. I told her just to be honest with me. I know what I saw. Then should be tell me a little more information but nothing that would tell me she cheated. Then more information.
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It will help in the trust building process because there will be no more dishonest secrets that he is holding onto that he knows he is holding onto and he can demonstrate his honesty and his forthrightness and his willingness to admit things in the future
Awesome work, Soshu Tech ! It's so satisfying to see you putting in the effort to stop those shady characters. Protecting the public, especially the elderly, from those despicable con artists is crucial. You truly deserve recognition and appreciation for keeping us secure. I'm thrilled for you because you're my sibling. Your accomplishments definitely make you a strong contender for the Nobel Peace Prize. Keep up the outstanding performance!!!!!
I am so tired of being betrayed -I have tried to be open and let him know I am okay with him sleeping with another woman if he just tells me -I have gotten to a point it’s the not knowing when he’s out of town and the ignoring me when I call that gives me that feeling of shaking on inside. I don’t understand why he just doesn’t be honest bc I can deal with that and will trust him more. I would rather know then be betrayed 😢😢like what’s happening right now as I type this. He admitted that when we were broken up after we got a divorce he slept with someone while he was out of town for work but he wouldn’t tell me what state it happened in bc I he said he didn’t want me to think or accuse him every time he goes there. He’s there now and I can feel it -your gut never lies but people do. I would never want to put someone through this. It ruins my night and I can’t sleep and the next day !!!
How do you ask him without it coming across being accusatory? I already talked with him and he promised me he would be honest and tell me before he sleeps with someone but I don’t feel he really will bc he thinks I will flip out but it’s the total opposite I would be happy he felt he could tell me
Big thanks Dale Valskov for helping me out. God bless you brotha... I've tried following these steps from the device and location where the account was always logged into and I got a page that says we don't recognize your device. The tutorial video was not helpful tho but Big Ups Jon
They are never going to tell you the entire truth no matter what you say or do. And why would they? What benefit is it to them? They will tell you PARTIALLY the truth and that is the best you are going to get. Once you have the proof just leave you don't need to know why or when you just need to know they did it. The more you let them explain anything the only thing you are allowing them to do is to attempt to diminish their actions.
Jesus just leave like seriously just leave, if your stuck with kids regardless you will be forced to leave so it's better you leave on your own terms. Save up hard cut hard then just leave pal
On valentinesday my girlfriend now wife said she could not hang out with me because she promised here friend to hang out with her at her house cuz she didn't want to be bored while house setting for her dad and she said that know one was aloud to be there while her dad was out of town, even know I would hand out with both of them any another time when her dad was at work this time was different , I drove over there anyway to give her her gifts and asked if I could take her out to eat and she said no cuz that would be rude to her friend, we now have been married for 15 years and have 2 kids and I still think this don't sound right, I was are first valentines and itsucked
Honestly, Dale Valskov I'm amazed by your consistent ability to deliver exceptional work every single time. Your willingness to lend a helping hand during my time of need is deeply appreciated. Thank you for your support and kindness.. I take pride in your capability to overcome any challenge and consistently achieve outstanding results regardless of the circumstances.
Having you as my support has been one of the best things I’ve ever decided on, Dale Valskov . Your assistance has made my tasks smoother and more manageable. I deeply appreciate the favor you’ve extended to me. Thank you, my friend. Your presence has made this entire process much more comfortable, and I am truly grateful for it. Working alongside you is a pleasure, and your dedication to your role serves as an inspiration to me. I will always remember the help and support you’ve provided me with.
Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better *johnson spy* and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out
Working with you is an honor, working without you was an absolute horror. Working under you is a pleasure, an experience that I will truly treasure. Thanks, for getting access to target's phone *Johnson spy*
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Not knowing is triggering. Not knowing everything makes everything triggering .
At least I’m not the only one who feels that way
If you know or think your spouse is cheating, think very hard about whether you want to continue on the relationship or not. I feel like a fool for forgiving the first time because he's back at it again and I've been told by divorce lawyers that the messages that I have off of his phone aren't quite enough in my state.
*Actually the reverse is triggering for the cheater.* When you know they cheat, you forgive them and disappear without notice. I had two different women cheat with undeniable evidence. *I didn’t confront them at all about it or give them closure, I just simply disappeared from their existence.* I was with one for 3years and she finally caught up to after trying to locate me for almost a year. She was angry and upset. I showed her the evidence of why I left. I told her that you’d think a cheater would appreciate you leaving without a fight, that way they don’t have to carry the burden of sneaking around, lying and misleading. *It’s detrimental to a cheater’s mental health when you leave unbothered by their actions.*
@@standground8284 I can appreciate and agree with that to an extent just by seeing how jealous my husband is and how he's always asking me if I'm talking to someone else, which in itself is a bit triggering. We have two kids together so I can't just evaporate from his existence. There's also the fact that my name is on all of the bills and the lease for the apartment we live in.
Knowing is also triggering... trust me, I know. I know Knowing and I know kinda Knowing and I know not Knowing all at the same time.
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this Soshu Tech
This is me rn
Bravo, Dale Valskov -I'm so glad you're out there fighting these scumbags. We must do everything in our power to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers. You're a true hero, my brothea
I can't imagine how difficult it is to choose a job in the battle against these crooks. The history must not be disregarded!!Respect to the Dale Valskov crew for taking up this responsibility and combating scammers.
thank you so much
It really must be tough to navigate situations like these, especially when facing such serious challenges. It’s so important to stand up against scammers and people who take advantage of others. I’m curious, though-what do you think is the most effective way to get someone to open up and tell the truth, especially when they have a lot to lose?
Hey ppl, I'm a retired computer/IT person, Yet I still find Dale Valskov so informative and straight forward. Thanks for your advise and helping the people...........Great work and love watching.
thank you so much
Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s great to hear that even with your extensive background in IT, you find Dale Valskov’s insights valuable. It's amazing how information can resonate across different fields. Have you ever encountered a situation where technology or logic helped uncover the truth in a tricky situation?
Leaving a relationship you’re not happy in is much easier than emotionally damaging someone. But selfish people don’t get that
You just stated fact and we have to be sure if our partners aren't cheating and deceiving us
Yes but the problem is how do we catch a cheating partner
Through the help of an hacker, I know about one who helped me access my wife's phone last month
Please how do I get in touch with this hacker?
Smooth spy kings
We need more immeasurably wise and compassionate humans like you on this planet. Thank you for sharing Dale Valskov , Jon. I bet I'm not alone when I say this video found me at the perfect moment, and there are a lot of things here that I needed to hear right now.
Congratulations Dale Valskov -I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs. We must take every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to you!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.
thank you so much
I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this. Because you're right. The worst thing that you can feel is hopelessness. And I hope that someone who is on the verge of losing hope finds Dale Valskov and realizes that as long as you're still alive and breathing, there's a chance, there's HOPE that the future is brighter then the present day.
It’s so insightful to reflect on how intimacy evolves as we grow older. The idea of embracing someone’s quirks and being accepted for them is such a beautiful aspect of deepening a connection. It’s interesting how the desire for excitement and passion can shift to a longing for peace and stability. Do you think the balance between comfort and excitement is something we naturally learn over time, or is it more about understanding what truly matters in a relationship?
Congratulations, Dale Valskov I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs, We musttake every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to You!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.
My account also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . I'm really happy seeing his name everywhere in the comment. It really says a lot about his good work.
thank you so much
Having someone like you who’s not only a great innovator but also pulls his best to get the work done so beautifully needs nothing but appreciation. Dale Valskov Thanks for the well off work you consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that. Thank you for making corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you on our team. Great work as always.
thank you so much
The efficiency of this Dale Valskov is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work jack!!
thank you so much
It just kept glitching on me when I tried this video tutorial so firstly I would say thank you for the video and secondly, thank you Dale Valskov meeting you was a blessing in disguise keep up with the good work I'm sure a lot of people will be needing your assistance iin the nearest future after seeing this
Your work speaks volumes of the kind of man you are. efficient, organized and result oriented well done , Dale Valskov you're soo good at what you do
thank you so much
Thank you, Dale Valskov for consistently being so approachable and open-minded. Your friendly demeanor and willingness to listen and understand serve as a constant source of motivation. Your support and guidance have been especially meaningful to me during the recent account issue I encountered. Your willingness to assist and offer valuable advice speaks volumes about your character and the supportive environment you cultivate. I’m incredibly grateful to have someone like you. Your assistance played a crucial role in resolving the issue and getting my account back.
Account of mine also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . It brings me immense joy to witness his name appearing frequently in comments, a clear indication of the commendable work he’s been doing.
thank you so much
What method
@billieruth8831 It’s just either a scammer or a bot. Saw another comment by another account, a bit above saying the same stupid shit. With the same idiot commenting “thank you” right after.
@@BullonyTony-lm1hr thank you
@@BullonyTony-lm1hr 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Brother please take care always and your team, Dale Valskov you're the hero of us who helped watched out for this scumb**gs and give us knowledge not to be scam by these animals and aliens. Please never give up helping to those innocent people.
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Dale Valskov . I really appreciate your efforts and dedication towards the work. May God bless you to keep showing your worth and skills like this in the future
It's amazing what you do Dale Valskov We need a lot of people with your skills and set who have good intentions and spread love
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
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I just want proof, I no longer care if she's getting pounded sideways by another guy. I just want a full proof so I could get full custody of my kid, and she'd be out of the picture.
It doesn't work that way, trust me. In most states, at least standard visitation (extended standard, if they live close-by) is considered a RIGHT. It doesn't matter how harmful they are to the kid! To lose visitation, you would have to have some really damning evidence, like pictures of really bad injuries from abuse or a positive hair strand test. Wanna know what's really terrible? Extended standard visitation is a 60/40 split! And, the noncustodial parent gets the kid basically for a lot of the holidays and weekends while your "custody" time is when they're in school during the weekdays 😞
Did u get proof?
My mom divorced my dad when I was 1yo. She made a clean break and never pursued him for child support. She went through tough times but when I was 6 she married my stepdad. Since she made a clean break my stepdad became my father and we became a happy family. When I was 15 my biological father came to visit and I didn’t hold any ill will towards him. It was perfect timing. He took me on a cross country road trip. I wasn’t ready for the religious stuff he talked about, but later in life it became very important after I lost my wife of 26 years to cancer.
If you go down that road, your kid will learn a valuable lesson: NEVER get married. If you follow that logic to its conclusion, in 20 years we will have a “children of men” problem. Maybe you and your wife can forget about the money, and think outside the box on this.
What about when men cheat, more than once? Should we leave
Exactly. At some point the fact that she cheated is less important than having the details for legal and familial/ friend proof. And for clarity / peace of mind. The here will never be any doubts that you did the right thing.
1. Evidence.
2. Trust your gut.
3. Be a safe partner.
4. Be honest with your partner.
5. Be persistent.
6. Trickle out effect.
I try to talk things out and I get yelled at because my husband thinks I’m trying to start stuff when I want to talk 😣
@@alexandraallen9247me too, my spouse just broke up with me tonight due to me telling him his cheating & lies made me insecure- he said our relationship is just too much I'm always bringing up old stuff and he doesn't want to deal with it anymore
@@alexandraallen9247 typical of abusive I m sorry you are in such a marriage may God help you
Exactly....mine does the same. They try to scare us into shutting up.....but it always comes back up. And I'm even madder@@alexandraallen9247
@@alexandraallen9247going through it now and it’s horrible !!
I wish i never got married 😓 it hurts to love someone who is so comfortable lying all the time.
Yes, it does.. I am so sorry 😣
Compassionate hugs…
I know talking about things like this can be very painful, uncomfortable and deeply unpleasant… living with it is even harder… it seems as though eventually we lose ourselves inside of energies like this.. they often cant or won’t even be honest with themselves and everything begins with the self… I hope you know how worthy you are and that we all deserve the opportunity to connect deeply and authentically with another and to work together to have a loving, honest and vulnerably intimate relationship… this all takes the willing to choose to be honest, even when it is, especially when it is harder to do the right thing and you body will cue you towards feeling out whether there is truth and action to support your belief that your connection is authentic & sincere… it’s easy to say we do have a choice or choices.. it is much more difficult to assert your will and take back your power and you make decisions in support of your highest empowered self… unrequited and unreciprocated anything is painful and will erode at your self worth and image.. I hope you are able to heal and shift these dynamics going forward… if the fantasy or potential is not connected to the reality, than any one of us can get lost in the undertow… i truly feel the pain of you message me I hope that you rimshot the fk you are and that you choose to give yourself the benefit of know and loving thyself deeply and authentically… and we all have our own paths… however.. if you are curious and open to more quantum, esoteric and other unique systems designed to offer insight and connect.. valuable tools and knowledge that everyone should tap into, in my opinion… are 5 love languages ~ attachment style ~ Archetypal energies in natal blueprint or astrology chart ( know your Big 3 Sun ☀️ ~moon 🌙 & rising otherwise called Ascendant and base on time of birth and sign on the Eastern horizon at that time/date/place… and Quantum Human Design (Type, Strategy & Authority)
Seeds can blow
But trees can’t grow
Until the basics are met…
Everything Begins With The Self…
@@robynhendrix3010 ain’t that the truth!
I’m living this hell right now. So sick of the lies. I wish I had never gotten married as well.
@@mindyv5680 sorry your going thru it. Pretty awful feeling and most have no clue until it happens to them how bad it fells. All I can say is focus on yourself and what makes you happy in the meantime. Forget about your spouse for now. They don’t deserve you or your attention. Best of luck to you
Gosh, this is so true. It is really difficult to deal with.
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If you know, you know! Don't chitty chat, they will only lie. Just GET THE SPUNK OUT of the toxic relationship!🙏🌹🙏
Good luck with that one. My husband will never talk.
Trauma triggers 🥺 so real…
once you have evidence of cheating then leave for your own sanity and if you feel betrayed then you can get help but talking to your partner is a waste of time, wake up
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He swore they never touched, until I lied and said she recorded it , he came to me a few days later and said he lied and would have taken it to the grave if I hadn’t found out . Now he says that they parked , never kissed, only felt each other up over their jeans , stopped and that was the end .... I know more happened and I want to know , after 23 years I need to know so I can move on, after him watching me cry for months knowing he was lying the whole time , I just can’t believe him now. He says he can’t remember anything he said only what she said etc.... my gut says he slept with her . There’s 2 hours of missing time , that’s never been explained
Sounds just like my situation, that shit can be overwhelming frustrating !!!
I'm so sorry mickey. I hope with all my heart you'll find your way. I wish you the best. I hope that this message will make you feel a bit better, even a 1% better. I'm so sorry for your situation, and I know that I'm every moment of your day sometimes the "trigger" kicks in and you feel like shit. Get over it, I'm sending all my strength ❤️
It so easy for people to say get over it. I just wish people could grow up and take responsibility for their own faults and the damage they cause to us honest men and women who are praying for the same in return
Dang
I feel you
This man is a hero and the most dangerous man at the same time, but in the best wayyyyy possible! The simplicity with how he explains it and performs these tasks is frightening but educational at the same time. You sir, I would trust you with my life! I applaud this man and need more of him Soshu Tech
I'm so grateful someone had told me. Otherwise she would've quilted me into staying. I'm so grateful i was set free.
There is no "healing process" after cheating ... only a weak person who lacks any confidence takes back a cheater
You’re in a fixed mindset, which is perfectly fine. But you undermining others decisions doesn’t validate your side any more. If anything, it shows your insecurity about if you should’ve stayed. Think about what you post in these videos. Vulnerable people come here for guidance; not your negative judgements.
@@KyleALarkinsTelling people comfortable lies doesn't help them .. women tend not to cheat from sexual desire but from emotional connection ... once the emotional connection has been broken in a relationship it is very difficult for it to be reformed ... people go through the stages of grief ... depression is common and even PTSD ... the majority of relationships never recover from one of the partners cheating and suggesting to people that they do is just setting them up for further emotional injury
That’s not true.. there is always a healing process when a person experiences ANY trauma and you need to listen to how silly you sound. Also, as well, people who stick around trying to fix things aren’t “weak” in fact they’re the strongest of people. A weak response is the “flight” response. Which is the easiest way out & the route that people take so they don’t have to be strong. Don’t say silly things.
@@DakotaSmith971 You are living in a fantasy world
@@KyleALarkins Making an observation isn’t judgement. Was it rude to call use the word weak, maybe but that’s subjective. You used the word insecurity. Nothing screams insecurity like “I’m afraid to be alone or preferably with a faithful partner” so I’ll take my chances by remaining with a known cheater instead. It’s absolutely sad that cheaters have some of y’all so brainwashed that you decide to remain with them and make excuses for them after they betrayed you. I can’t think of anything more degrading, humiliating and pathetic than fighting to remain in a relationship with a known cheater. Especially under the guise of a cheater calling you weak for dumping them and moving on with your life. That sad thing is, the person who cheated on you and realize you didn’t dump them will look down on you moving forward for your lack of self respect. They’ll just get better at hiding the infidelity, next time they’re caught, they’ll likely say duh you let me off the hook the first time.
You only find out the ugly details when they know you are leaving. Once they not you are not buying their lies and definitely moving on, the will tell the truth to hurt you. That only validates what you knew . Thank them for finally being honest. Keep it moving and NEVER, NEVER take them back no matter what.
Thank you for the video. I caught my wife writing postcards to a convict. Apparently before he got in prison my wife and him had been out several times together even with my wife’s older son and his wife who, yes knows that we are married. My wife continues to this day says that they did not have sex but the same daughter in law sent me text messages that my wife and her were having at the time. They stated many sexual things, including a phrase my wife use to say about me and she said it about him. My wife denies the texts saying that her daughter in law made the messages up which these messages are time and date stamped. I don’t believe my wife at all about the sex which she has admitted to seeing this guy. It’s been about8 months since everything started falling apart. I’m trying to move past things but don’t know how when I know in my heart I’m being lied to.
Cheated once = means cheater. Time to build "not care" not the trust.
Maybe in that relationship but I cheated when I was 23. It killed me knowing what I did to her that I stayed single for 10 years. First girl I met, I didn't cheat, no porn, she cheated and destroyed me. I will never cheat ever again. I was young and made a selfish decision and regret it deeply. My ex didn't even give a shit. She was so malicious and heartless i may never trust again.
@@AR-zn1uy Are we supposed to feel bad that you got a taste of your own medicine? I just don’t understand why you stayed single because you decided to hookup with someone you preferred instead of dumping your gf prior. It amazes me that some of you cheaters can’t keep it a buck and act like you can’t be truthful. If you approach your partner and say that you’re going to cheat or you prefer someone else… no worries, they might dump you and encourage you to pursue the person you want to cheat with. Y’all cheaters are arrogant if you think your significant others prefer to remain with you if you want someone else.
@standground8284 lol get some counselling and maybe hit the gym. Lil miss perfect. I cheated once and learned my lesson. You, on the other hand, are bitter because you aren't good-looking and continue to get cheated on. Which is why u wrote me a paragraph. Try staying away from the cookies
@@AR-zn1uy this sounds a lot like me. I was a MESS in my teens and early 20’s I would screw a snake if you held its head. No I would screw a wood pile if you told me a snake was in it… that all went away and my karma is I ended up with the snake everyone screws apparently 🙄
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Don't confront them first. Get proof, then confront.
No point they still lie,deny,manipulate
They turn every thing on you they say your crazy your being silly paranoid etc even though your hitting them with facts I’m getting a divorce but she still hasn’t admitted to it
I had evidence, found thongs that weren't mine. Found hair ties when I don't use hair ties in the car..a apron and cap from a fast food restaurant. Worst of all a condomn and yes you guessed it we never used any because he said he was allergic to them. Also he knew I could see his location, there are several times he was in motels and again on days we didn't go to. Also he would be in the parking lot of his work..way after working hours. I had the screens shots of his location where it said the time and place and how long he was there and the videos of the stuff I found in his car...and he said the GPS was wrong, that he just passed by...then he said he sometimes lends his car to his nephews so the stuff is probably theirs..and the cherry on top he said did I see him, no I didn't right so then I have no proof and therefore nothing happened. I have a 2yo with him and he is always crying to see his dad so I'm just waiting for him to speak so I can make up a reason to where he won't be seeing him and not cry.
@@SS-zy5dc Indeed. Cheaters will lie while holding proof of guilt in their hands. It's absolutely maddening.
@@craigy691 I know this is late, but she is a loser. What a crappy, loser thing... for her to not even grant you the peace of knowing what happened. It's crazy-making and disrespectful.
I felt it, that put me on notice. I sat back and watched. He pointed me in the direction I needed to go to figure it out.
Ugh, I sure screwed that up. Might be why I'm stuck in my recovery. Oh. Hey Brennan! Fancy seeing you over here. I've been listening to your podcasts for the past year but never looked for you here. Thank you for all the work you do to help all the firecrackers like myself who are dealing with betrayal. xx
I have tried to tell my bpd ex that I know what happened, and I understand why it could have happened. I called her today, and basically told her that she hasn’t been honest with me about what happened, and she of course denied it. I didn’t let her try and make excuses that nothing happened, there is too much evidence that says otherwise, and I just told her her without blaming her that we both know that isn’t what happened. I knew it was starting to get to her because she started getting angry! I just told her that I wasn’t going to contact her anymore and that I was moving on, and if she wanted to talk she could reach out to me. When I told her again that, she hasn’t been 100% honest with me, she just said bye and then hung up, that’s enough proof to me that she is starting to at least think about things, and knows that I know something.
Bravo!
I liked your calm, cool and collected approach.
It's just a vibe I got off your words.
I would've lost my shit bro. I respect y'all for being emotionally strong. I'm not doing okay tbh :/
Mad respect for the holding it together. I lose my shit every time and it's like open mic night at a trap house. I didn't get much from this video that I haven't got from every other one I watched or article I've read. I just don't know how to know if it's my gut, past triggers or my head or heart telling me shit, but I just know he's hiding something. 🤔
If you feel like they cheated and they make you feel crazy instead of taking the time to talk through it with you, that's enough.
Leave.
In order to be a good lair. You need to have a good memory bless every one even the cheaters when they tell the truth. Amen 🙏
Before you confront them get proof. Hire a private investigator. They can file pictures and affidavits for the one being cheated on in a divorce case. Judges actually look at this after it's filed by your attorney.
Good advice.
It’s expensive 😢
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Can you help me?
20 yrs of toxicity I’m permanently damaged.
******I HAD 28 YEARS OF IT ***!!!!!!!!!
Pretty sure I’ve been fed lies and half truths for 25 years..buncha BS.. traumatized
@@Kathy-qu8zj IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR HARDSHIP SOME WOMEN DO FIND BAD MEN EVIL EXSIST WITY BOTH SEXES !!
I JUST WANTED A GOOD WIFE LOYAL AND HONEST ID CLIMB THE MOUNTAIN AND SLAY THE BEAST FOR HER !!
Me too. Liars are the pits.
23 years with an abusive, pathological lying, gaslighting, covert narcissist. He should be a millionaire by selling his lies in a book. I finally had to hire a PI to get evidence so I knew my gut was right. Why can't they just be single instead of f!#$# up other people's lives with 100% BS lies.
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So I don't have hard evidence no but my my gut feeling and I can sense when something is off I can sense when something is different just by how my boyfriend acts and does things
You cant. Cheaters lie, don't care about you. There's zero point trying to even make sense of it. Just get gone!
A tricked her by saying if I had a little honesty then i could work with it, we could work on it. See? I can also be deceitful. As expected to get me off her back she gave me little but admitted that there was indeed another man. This was the last piece if the puzzle that I needed. Divorced. The key to this is as this video says, stay persistent.
@@gc2161 DAAAAM! That’s a burn! But good on you… still hurts tho
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What do you do if you think your spouse cheated in the past and will not admit it
Let them know you need them to do a polygraph that you set up with a professional to set your mind at ease so you can trust. An innocent partner will do a polygraph.
Just tell them; "i know whats going on." And leave it at that... now watch em squirm!
You said you'll never cheat but you take another man's hand but I'll always still like you man.
Don't expect someone who betrayed you to all the sudden be upstanding and honest about it. Just walk away.
This is exactly what I am going through. Total denial his actions were/ are anything that wasnt professional. So frustrating!!
Same. He finally told me about one time but I know there are more. He only told me because I was about to pull up to the girls house. He got mad at me and called me everything in the book...
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I feel like we set each other up for telling lies about if we are cheating in the beginning of our relationship that started 9 years ago. We told each other that was the one thi g that would break each other and im afraid it's taking form now after 9 years. I know something is going on there is so much that doesn't add up. And when I confront her she is already at a level 10 to my 3. And throws what I've done up or blames my paranoia on my PTSD meds from the VA. She says the meds have changed me. I love my wife with all I have but it's so hard for me to put up this wall when I know deep down something not kosher. I'm scared to death to find out the truth but feel like I need to hear it so I can start getting over it. My heart hurts something fierce everytime I look at her knowing that there is deceit there.
Woah dude. If she is blaming your PTSD meds on your "behavior" that is emotional abuse. She is emotionally abusing you rather than being a supportive wife. Those are things to never throw back in someones face. I hope you are okay. These things are important to bring up to a therapist or counselor. She might not be aware of how abusive that is. Either seek support alone or together. Im speaking from experince here. My dad is a disabled Vietnam Vet and my mother is emotionally abusive and want to see her in jail.
This is evil to do to a Service Member. When you know, you know (and you do). Restore your strength by leaving.
Oh my goodness, everything you said is spot on with what I’m going through.
I think a cheater will never tell the whole truth and will downplay everything. They are dishonest individuals by nature or they would have left you first or adked permission. Betraying someone's trust is the death nail of any kind of relationship being happy. Could you trust a business partner that siphoned half your profits off to some offshore account "belonging" to someone else?
Okay... but what do you do when there ARE already trauma triggers?
I don’t have solid evidence but I saw her co worker standing unprofessionally behind her one day as I entered the building he suddenly switched to her side as if then started complementing me as if to distract from what I just saw so idk then she swears he wasn’t standing behind her when I walked thru the door lol so what do you think she’s a front desk lady and he’s the house keep ?
I seen my husband in the act .and he tried to convince me I didn't see anything ...and tried talking me to go to a nut house ...
I hope you are no longer with that person!
Get away from that Gaslighter!
Hardcore gaslighting. Sorry you went thru that.
Same here. I caught my husband with a woman and all he would say was that I was the one who was cheating. When I wasn't. This happened more than once.
@@caucasianafrican1435 Dude I immediately thought of a few scenes from the movie Gaslight. 💯
When the accuser is unsafe and created the environment, this all becomes extremely unhelpful. One more coach not interested in helping, and worth ignoring. Thank you for helping me to save my time by not listening further.
Confronting in any tone will set off a bad, and loud response. No matter what angle you try to approach it at.
I have a cheating husband before. I confronted him with solemn queries, he answered with shouts and slamming of doors where neighbors can hear and get his malleta to leave me. Oh my goodness! Many times i begged him not to leave me and forgive him without any doubt, without any discussions. After 12 years guess what? I was fed up. I throw all my energies in revenge and get even that my thorns on my head grew long. I cant control my revenge. And this time i brave enough to let him go. I am fed up... Need to find myself and my worth. I dont want to be imprisoned with someone who makes me a puppet, a scare crow, a maid, a pass time, a nobody. I left with the children without his knowledge. Guess what? He didn't look for us. Insread he said okay you go on. After many weeks, he had another woman. They are happy. Good. I hope they are for each other. I will not worry because the best is yet to come for me. I will just be good single mom, take care of the children, obey God. And be happy. Thats all
Sheeesh u soumd hurt sounds like he been wanted out
Geez, it’s safe to say he wanted out if he didn’t look for you and the children. The fact that he didn’t freak out means that he trusted you to do what’s best for you and the children.
I’m sorry to say this, but it looks like he dodged a bullet with you! Some marriages just aren’t meant to be and he proved that…
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I just don't get catering to my partners needs and making them feel all safe and cozy to get them to tell the truth about cheating. Why give them anymore when they've already taken everything from you?
I'm a Maldives born and living in UK and I cannot express enough how much I despise these scumbags. Literally whenever people ask me my nationality I just tell them I'm British because idiots like these give us a horrendous reputation, not to also mention they scam other Europeans too. It warms my heart to see stuff like this, please Dale Valskov keep up the great work destroying these scammers!!!
I just found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I came home for a month and , within a month he did this.. I'm devastated. I can't even cry. It feels like the world is crashing.
Well, you should dump him and pursue a relationship with someone who’s faithful. You should prefer to be alone and single. That’s better than being alone in relationships since your significant other is out cheating with someone else.
Be relieved you didn't marry him. Right now, you can leave with no strings attached. Walk away and dust yourself off and heal
Sorry for this, you're a better, stronger person and will come through this. Please don't feel that it's your fault by any means. I'd normally leave someone who cheats but only you know what you want. Make sure though that you don't just forgive simply with him facing no consequences cause that means he will likely do it again.
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That’s what my gf did. The trickle out effect. I told her just to be honest with me. I know what I saw. Then should be tell me a little more information but nothing that would tell me she cheated. Then more information.
Hello, i need to access an account urgently but i dont have the login details. Please how can i do this?
Please who is that?
That shit hit me when he said triggered into trauma I felt that !
A habitual liar will never tell the damn truth! Facts!
you are the best. thank you
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It will help in the trust building process because there will be no more dishonest secrets that he is holding onto that he knows he is holding onto and he can demonstrate his honesty and his forthrightness and his willingness to admit things in the future
Awesome work, Soshu Tech ! It's so satisfying to see you putting in the effort to stop those shady characters. Protecting the public, especially the elderly, from those despicable con artists is crucial. You truly deserve recognition and appreciation for keeping us secure. I'm thrilled for you because you're my sibling. Your accomplishments definitely make you a strong contender for the Nobel Peace Prize. Keep up the outstanding performance!!!!!
Never second guess your gut instincts
You never said anything about getting the truth out of someone
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I am so tired of being betrayed -I have tried to be open and let him know I am okay with him sleeping with another woman if he just tells me -I have gotten to a point it’s the not knowing when he’s out of town and the ignoring me when I call that gives me that feeling of shaking on inside. I don’t understand why he just doesn’t be honest bc I can deal with that and will trust him more. I would rather know then be betrayed 😢😢like what’s happening right now as I type this. He admitted that when we were broken up after we got a divorce he slept with someone while he was out of town for work but he wouldn’t tell me what state it happened in bc I he said he didn’t want me to think or accuse him every time he goes there. He’s there now and I can feel it -your gut never lies but people do. I would never want to put someone through this. It ruins my night and I can’t sleep and the next day !!!
I hope you’ve left him by now …
Yes please leave him!
How do you ask him without it coming across being accusatory? I already talked with him and he promised me he would be honest and tell me before he sleeps with someone but I don’t feel he really will bc he thinks I will flip out but it’s the total opposite I would be happy he felt he could tell me
Big thanks Dale Valskov for helping me out. God bless you brotha... I've tried following these steps from the device and location where the account was always logged into and I got a page that says we don't recognize your device. The tutorial video was not helpful tho but Big Ups Jon
We TEACH people how to TREAT us……God bless. 🙏🏼❤️
They are never going to tell you the entire truth no matter what you say or do.
And why would they? What benefit is it to them? They will tell you PARTIALLY the truth and that is the best you are going to get.
Once you have the proof just leave you don't need to know why or when you just need to know they did it.
The more you let them explain anything the only thing you are allowing them to do is to attempt to diminish their actions.
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Jesus just leave like seriously just leave, if your stuck with kids regardless you will be forced to leave so it's better you leave on your own terms. Save up hard cut hard then just leave pal
Help! I feel like I'm dying inside. I feel so lost and confused more about me at this point.
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On valentinesday my girlfriend now wife said she could not hang out with me because she promised here friend to hang out with her at her house cuz she didn't want to be bored while house setting for her dad and she said that know one was aloud to be there while her dad was out of town, even know I would hand out with both of them any another time when her dad was at work this time was different , I drove over there anyway to give her her gifts and asked if I could take her out to eat and she said no cuz that would be rude to her friend, we now have been married for 15 years and have 2 kids and I still think this don't sound right, I was are first valentines and itsucked
Yo fuck Valentines I had the same shit happen to me. But she played the I don't remember game or changing her story all the time smh 🔥💀♏☠️♏💀🔥
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So glad I found your channel. Thank you
Having you as my support has been one of the best things I’ve ever decided on, Dale Valskov . Your assistance has made my tasks smoother and more manageable. I deeply appreciate the favor you’ve extended to me. Thank you, my friend. Your presence has made this entire process much more comfortable, and I am truly grateful for it. Working alongside you is a pleasure, and your dedication to your role serves as an inspiration to me. I will always remember the help and support you’ve provided me with.
Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better *johnson spy* and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out
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Working with you is an honor, working without you was an absolute horror. Working under you is a pleasure, an experience that I will truly treasure. Thanks, for getting access to target's phone *Johnson spy*
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