If I went to IKEA, for example, and bought a chest of drawers, took the package home and found it to be missing certain pieces, I would say that the service from IKEA (as the example) is sub standard. There are clearly parts missing. I now look at a narcissist, they too have something missing; empathy. These “human beings” are sub standard, in much the same way that an item of furniture is with “something” missing. However, recently, and I don’t know why, I’m ‘seeing’ narcissists in a completely different way. On one hand, I see the narcissist as sub human, and on the other hand, I see that they have already been through “something traumatic”, and are determined to put the rest of us through a similar traumatic experience in order for us to catch up with them. I have been saying for many years that narcissists are trying to catch up with the rest of us, however, the opposite may be true.
In all of my failed relationship attempts my partner would always berate how much I spent time on the computer and how it was the cause for the abuse, so I decided to sublimate and become a programmer. I am learning object oriented programming so essentially, I am creating "entity" classes with attributes which are referred to in the program as "self" while listening to this. My mind is being bombarded with analogies!! :D
Dr Sam can you please do a video on seizures pseudo seizures They say if epilepsy is not present ithe seizures are being caused from the mind This is happening to my 32 year old nephew He has been angry since he was young and now is anti social and very mean to me He is now getting seizures and makes weird noises after seizures where he does sound like a demon Please cover this what they cause pnes pseudo seizures from mental problems Only you could explain this disorder. Thank you so much prof Sam. God bless sir
Thank you professor. You are an inspiration in many ways. You are very generous to share your knowledge and wisdom. The wound is where the light enters.
Would love to know more about alexithymia in the contekst of narcissism. If there is any correlation between them and how alexithymia affects the narcissistic traits of a person.
Can you do an entire video on this quote from the description of Phineas Gage: "devising many plans of future operations ,which are no sooner arranged than they are abandoned." In terms of how this relates to the narcissist and their unattainable, unrealistic goal setting?
Can You Love a Narcissist back from the Abyss of "Nobody is there?" Is it possible to penetrate the false self by shattering their delusion with showing them absolute truth coupled with love and if they were to agree, walk them back to a place where they split into true self and false self to help them reclaim their lost true self ? Or are they Doomed to never understand the truth of their condition?
Hi Prof. can I ask an unrelated question. Do psychopathic narcissists have fantasy and an island of stability since they are both a Narcissist and a Psychopath. Thank you
hello mister sam im watching your videos for a while and id like to ask you if you have anything to suggest me about psychopaths since ive seen throught your videos that narcissists are not goal oriented such as you described they are like pacman they consume to consume but how you deal with someone psychopathic that is on the higher spectrum that they are deliberate calculative goal orientated ? do i go no contact ? what i do ? thank you for reading my comment god bless
@@Earth420-f8b thank you for your suggestion the problem is that going grey rock you actualy kneel to the will of the abuser and you dont live the way youre suppose to sadly
I simply love it when you throw subtle shots at believers. It really is the most delusional movement that non-delusional people accept. I wonder if the society will ever wake up as a whole.
@@nothingnessnonarcissism of course, you're pretty open about it, but sometimes it's not said in that obvious tone so I find it always interesting. Anyway, thanks for all the insights, you have hands-down the best insights on narcissism on the whole platform
I've experienced periods of depersonalisation when faced with sudden situations like someone dying in our home, a traffic accident or meeting an intruder in our home. I'm not sure if my reactions which seem to be instinctive and not linked to my will. I freeze and then behave mechanically. I once rescued a baby that fell into a swimming pool by jumping in fully clothed in winter clothes. I felt as if I were in a movie. I did help the child. Do other people behave differently?
I choose to perceive the demon possessions as just Negative Energies. They love it when we say demonic Entity. That's scary and fear feeds that and gives that power. Once confronted, that Negative Energy is very weak. True story....I did an accidental exorcism on someone I'm close to. Took me two days to comprehend what had actually happened. I'll never forget it! Power of the Dead Sea Salt!! You do amazing work, sir. You've taught me so much and have helped me tremendously on my healing journey. Much Gratitude 🩵🙏🩵
If I went to IKEA, for example, and bought a chest of drawers, took the package home and found it to be missing certain pieces, I would say that the service from IKEA (as the example) is sub standard. There are clearly parts missing.
I now look at a narcissist, they too have something missing; empathy. These “human beings” are sub standard, in much the same way that an item of furniture is with “something” missing.
However, recently, and I don’t know why, I’m ‘seeing’ narcissists in a completely different way.
On one hand, I see the narcissist as sub human, and on the other hand, I see that they have already been through “something traumatic”, and are determined to put the rest of us through a similar traumatic experience in order for us to catch up with them.
I have been saying for many years that narcissists are trying to catch up with the rest of us, however, the opposite may be true.
In all of my failed relationship attempts my partner would always berate how much I spent time on the computer and how it was the cause for the abuse, so I decided to sublimate and become a programmer.
I am learning object oriented programming so essentially, I am creating "entity" classes with attributes which are referred to in the program as "self" while listening to this. My mind is being bombarded with analogies!! :D
Dr Sam can you please do a video on seizures pseudo seizures
They say if epilepsy is not present ithe seizures are being caused from the mind
This is happening to my 32 year old nephew
He has been angry since he was young and now is anti social and very mean to me
He is now getting seizures and makes weird noises after seizures where he does sound like a demon
Please cover this what they cause pnes pseudo seizures from mental problems
Only you could explain this disorder. Thank you so much prof Sam. God bless sir
The choose to be who they wanted to be , stuck in the loop
I don’t know you but I like your vibe. Tankful this popped up today
Thank you professor. You are an inspiration in many ways. You are very generous to share your knowledge and wisdom. The wound is where the light enters.
Has this increased during the pandemic?
Very dense. I appreciate the cultural anthropology references in the first half.
Hair looking on point 👉 ❤
The “looking” wasn’t necessary. You failed at Ebonics.
Would love to know more about alexithymia in the contekst of narcissism. If there is any correlation between them and how alexithymia affects the narcissistic traits of a person.
Can you do an entire video on this quote from the description of Phineas Gage: "devising many plans of future operations ,which are no sooner arranged than they are abandoned." In terms of how this relates to the narcissist and their unattainable, unrealistic goal setting?
Can You Love a Narcissist back from the Abyss of "Nobody is there?" Is it possible to penetrate the false self by shattering their delusion with showing them absolute truth coupled with love and if they were to agree, walk them back to a place where they split into true self and false self to help them reclaim their lost true self ?
Or are they Doomed to never understand the truth of their condition?
NO.
Hi Prof. can I ask an unrelated question. Do psychopathic narcissists have fantasy and an island of stability since they are both a Narcissist and a Psychopath. Thank you
Yes, they do. They are narcissists first and foremost.
Does the true self know about the false self and vice versa?🤔
The true self is disabled.
hello mister sam im watching your videos for a while and id like to ask you if you have anything to suggest me about psychopaths since ive seen throught your videos that narcissists are not goal oriented such as you described they are like pacman they consume to consume but how you deal with someone psychopathic that is on the higher spectrum that they are deliberate calculative goal orientated ? do i go no contact ? what i do ? thank you for reading my comment god bless
I recommend highly to go No Contact or do the "Grey Rock Method"...
@@Earth420-f8b thank you for your suggestion the problem is that going grey rock you actualy kneel to the will of the abuser and you dont live the way youre suppose to sadly
@@tomjerry4477-n1e You are right on that part...
I simply love it when you throw subtle shots at believers. It really is the most delusional movement that non-delusional people accept. I wonder if the society will ever wake up as a whole.
Not subtle at all.
@@nothingnessnonarcissism of course, you're pretty open about it, but sometimes it's not said in that obvious tone so I find it always interesting. Anyway, thanks for all the insights, you have hands-down the best insights on narcissism on the whole platform
I've experienced periods of depersonalisation when faced with sudden situations like someone dying in our home, a traffic accident or meeting an intruder in our home. I'm not sure if my reactions which seem to be instinctive and not linked to my will. I freeze and then behave mechanically. I once rescued a baby that fell into a swimming pool by jumping in fully clothed in winter clothes. I felt as if I were in a movie. I did help the child. Do other people behave differently?
i love you mister
Me Too! He's the Best! Which makes sense since he literally wrote the book on it Lol☺
❤
You da Man!❤
I choose to perceive the demon possessions as just Negative Energies. They love it when we say demonic Entity. That's scary and fear feeds that and gives that power. Once confronted, that Negative Energy is very weak.
True story....I did an accidental exorcism on someone I'm close to. Took me two days to comprehend what had actually happened. I'll never forget it! Power of the Dead Sea Salt!!
You do amazing work, sir. You've taught me so much and have helped me tremendously on my healing journey. Much Gratitude
🩵🙏🩵
Sam!!! He’s not been here it feels like lately!
Narcissism is caused by buying box after box of cracker jacks trying to get a decent toy
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Sam, 72nd Chapter in Quran is about Jinn, whole chapter dedicated to Jinn and 28 verses of supernatural beings created by Allah from smokeless fire.
super
Halloween
your hair.. is it fluorescent?
I know.... isn't it beautiful!?
HOW THE BORDERLINE LURES U PT22
haha i adore him