@@ripetika1743i got it this week and got a match, weve been in contact for a few days and its pretty chill but i dont see a relationship forming, maybe a friendship though
@@gamegeekx that’d not how is meant to be naturally tho. If you want a woman to approach you go to a night club , they’ll give u hints but it comes down to you to make the move…
@@adamsaldana5462 and just acknowledging that can go a long ways. But always keep in mind, never do it to get female attention, do it for yourself and make yourself proud of the things you accomplish.
These dating apps want to make money, so they actually don't care to find you a "good match". They want you to throw money at premium features that give you the illusion of "Hey, this is a great experience"
@@purplesun3792exactly you’re gonna get the same results irl just slightly better but mostly the same. Its just an illusion of results bc girls are less likely to just walk away from you in person
Nah, females be wasting my time with one word replies, like bih I’m 22 making 6 figures putting private jets up in the air, me and you ain’t the same 😂👍🏾
Had bumble for 2 months, matched about 100 girls, ended up meeting one and we've been married for 4 years, together for 5. It's not impossible, but you need professional photos and an interesting bio.
Guys need to put effort in to their photos. They need to know a photo lying in bed with a double chin, a dusty mirror pic, a pic 50 metres from camera and a pic of their torso is a big fat NO. They also need to put their interests as a minimum. But most put nothing, they are the ones that get no matches.
Most women have short answers. If a guy matches the same energy, the conversation won't go anywhere. And if he says too much, it won't go anywhere either. What works are psychological games. Then they wonder why they only run into guys who play games, and they're beautiful, not in a relationship, and spending the evening with a dog. 😂
It’s not only about women exactly same thing in gay dating apps world happens. It’s like people doesn’t want to put any percent of effort into conversation but they all registered on those app for some reason 😒
All dating apps need to be thrown to the fire of forgotten memories and never be brought up again. That era has ran its course. Dating apps are all shit now and so are mostly the people that use them.
@@WingManPlus I get plenty but it means nothing when most of them don’t talk for any length of time. Way to assume something you know nothing about. Try again, Y/N?
@@WingManPlus I think I speak for the majority when I say that dating apps have taken a serious nosedive since their inception. That’s hardly my “view”, that’s the reality, and there is PLENTY of factual evidence to back up that statement, google is your friend. Or bing. Or DuckDuckGo if you’re scared of your privacy being violated. Take your pick and do your own research 😎
Women on bumble are soulless, like why would you swipe right at me and we match and send 0 text❓ And some do text and halfway through yall just stop❓ Like wtf, but the main question is why would you download a dating app in the first place when yall just don’t want to reply❓you with me boys?
No shit, that's the whole problem, they get to match more than they can chew, what if you could only match once per week? things would change@@clayc5929
Im a guy and I get that, I get bored of people very easily and I just stop replying to texts, I know its rude, but other people have done the same thing to me a lot of times so who cares
Bumble does work. You just need to understand that you still have to take the lead in the convo. In the rare case she does give you a good opener work with that, but be ready to do an reply opener. Let’s focus on getting results with things like they are now, not as they “should” be
@@LeoJr_not really. In my experience all the dating apps are the same, when you're on the free plan you get regular new likes, then when you sign up they evaporate. Bumble is no different in this respect. You should still be able to do speed dating, I've had a few results with that.
Even if you take the lead in conversation and do a great job of it they will just waste your time and if it gets any further your money and sanity will also be wasted. They will fall off never add anything of value into the conversation who wants to be around or talk to someone like that period I'd rather talk to a dog or bird or something that can't even talk at that point so at least I'm not knowledgeable that they obsoletely can use human letters to form words and then use those to communicate with me. Women are worse than animals almost these days and it's sad because only 60 years ago they were 25-50x better and more valuable to men and family units at large
You are talking about trying to make things work with how they are now that is pathetic simp liberal cope are you serious or even a real person??? I simply can't believe that maybe if modern boss babe women want to act this way we can go ahead and go extinct unless we lab grow offspring which we are at the point that we can on a small scale. Because clearly women don't want to put in there 3% effort that men are requiring the most basic respect is now too much to ask and they will just leave to pursue someone who will take her at .003% of her best and accept her how she is and simp hard pay for everything for her and still get cheated on .
I did Bumble for a month and it was a total waste of time. I had a number of matches, yet of all the matches, I only received messages from three different women. One message from each of them, only for them to not follow up to my message. Eventually, I sent another message to one of the women telling her off about not caring, which after a week she did send me a text. But at that point I was too angry with Bumble to care.
Girls are on tinder for 2 things. Finding a good root or finding somebody who is suitable to settle down with that’s in the same stage of life as them. I abounded tinder for years, in 2 weeks I met up with 3 girls. 2 who were open about just wanting me around for the night, the third I talked to for around a week before I took her to dinner, now we are engaged.
U didn't understand the concept dude. Girls don't like Bumble because they don't want to make the first move, they don't want to do anything at all. They just want to exist and receive attention from guys so they can ignore them. You don't get it do you? 🤣
it really just depends on who the attention is from, dopamine hits come in all shapes and sizes but the ones they really gravitate towards are the ones that are too good to be true.
This is most dating apps tho tbf. Women get ego boosts from a bunch of men complimenting them and knowing there's a list of dudes who want to bang is validation, which is all most crave on dating apps. She's talking to 100s of guys on these apps, what makes you stand out from the rest? Even though I've had pretty good luck on dating apps like bumble and getting to meet with people, I feel like this whole dating app stuff is disgusting since an average guys self worth will drain rapidly going on these apps. Most Women have the driest convos and bring nothing to the table meanwhile the average dude is putting in so much effort (keeping a conversation, planning the dates, paying for the dates, etc.) for a woman who couldn't care less, and is only looking for a dude whos way out of her league. The average/lower than average dudes have to put themselves first in these areas. If she's constantly dry, playfully call it out, if nothing changes cut her off and go for another one who isn't dry. Looking for a hookup or serious relationship? Tell them that. State what you want/need for a relationship to develop with this woman and if she ignores it, stand up for yourself and don't tolerate the disrespect, and stop wasting your time validating a self centered woman who's only using you as an ego boost. You can tell pretty quickly if a woman is actually interested or not.
I met my last bf on Bumble and we lasted 5 yrs. Women do have to put more effort and I know I did. There are many of us out there who want an equal partnership. It’s nice to be courted and adored to a point - I am not one to use men for my ego and free meals, so why do I care about getting dozens of messages each day. 99% of the volume are idiots, with a subset of assholes and another fraction of narcissists. I rather go back to Bumble and get only 10 hits a week
What a waste of 5 years. That should have lead to marriage and not a seperation. What a waste of energy from both sides. For me, after 1 year i'll let her move in with me and live rent free, after 3 years it'll be marriage and a kid on the way with a life plan.
Wish that was a common sentiment. (Not the rent free part. I'm a 50% kinda person when it comes to paying for stuff) Online dating is tough. People only seem to want one night stands. @@balb3014
Well then I message the dudes and they stop having convo. People now days just wanna sleep around. That is just using a human for pleasure only. People don’t care or know what loyalty is anymore.
You don’t get it because you can’t accept the reality is women are looking for a vibe , they want men to hit a sweet spot in their psyche , maybe it was a word(s) you used or she was turned off by the tone of the compliment , learning how to accept rejection is step one to being able to get girls … if you act like you need her to respond or she’s you’re only option she will be turned off and believe it or not you’re energy of desperation comes through even in a compliment
Men: Lead. If stuff doesnt go anywhere: leave. You want a date? Put in effort. Woman expect it. Even on apps. If your not willing to invest then dont even date. If a girl in the end is flakey, you will find out pretty quick. Great, then you know that girl is not for you. Rejection = redirection. Good luck boys
Finally a man that gets it. We don’t want to be the man and take the lead, we want a man to be the man and be able to lead, even if we say hi or smile like we would in person. If a guy just matches our feminine energy or makes us peruse him we instantly see him as less masculine and weak. :( We do expect it, the same way we want to be the traditional wife and partner for you too, so it works both ways ☺️
@@Nishesquewell, stop the feminist movement. Also, was made for women to take lead. We don’t misogyny man taking the lead. If you want to be Traditional wife, you need to be raised one
From everything I've seen the best thing you can do is just not take dating apps seriously. Of course you do want to try because you are trying to find someone but you shouldn't put so much time and energy into them and honestly you should try to go after a date as quick as possible so you can get to know them in person and get out of the whole texting bull. Another helpful tip is doing multiple dating apps at once, that way it increases your chances a lot more.
Bro at least you share your L’s and laugh them off to give people a good model to look at. Let them know what they’ve done wrong, when to recognize its dry (bc some dudes would look at that text and think they’re getting somewhere or need to try harder), and give them a non bitter way to look at it if it doesn’t go well. This is it right here, great stuff
Yes, it's designed to get women to be like men and make the 1st move but you have to give them a 24 hours refresh because they want to be chased the traditional way.
It’s also designed to make men into women! 🫠 But I guess that’s the way society is heading nowadays and we’re all falling into the trap of it cause we can’t even define what a man or woman is or should be or what their roles are nowadays! 🏳️🌈😂
I used to have success with Bumble a few years ago, but it's absolute trash now and just as bad as Tinder. I'll get matches but women either don't send the first message or they stop responding not even 5 messages into the conversation
As a girl it feels harder on bumble because I match 20 guys and none of them reply when I put a prompt like ‘what are you looking for in a relationship’
I currently use Bumble, I don't have any problem sending a message as long as I like the guys photos & his profile info... I find the challenge can be getting a conversation "off the ground", if the guy responds back to me with just 1 or 2 dry lines??? I initiate & open up by sending at least a short paragraph, to kinda introduce myself & get a conversation going!
hinge seems to be the best one if youre looking for something serious.. if i even attempt to casually hook up like thats even possible tinder is the best for that. Bumble sucks ass.
I ask for a Voice call (a feature in the app) in the first message. I'm not spending time texting a stranger. If they're not interested in speaking through the app, they get unmatched. Simple.
See bumble is a nice idea in a world where everyone has accountability, but chicks dont like to initiate, so what they tend to do is, wait to see if you extend for another 24 hours, then they use that as the prompt that you're saying hi, then initiate, after that... you still have to carry the boat.
I don't date anymore because I don't deal with cross grained women, I would love to have someone acrually meant for me, though now, it's entirely impossible. Not going to deal with anyone who is not going to be serious with relationships, understanding, won't play mind games, have me guessing and the sort. I don't need more stress than what I currently have with work and such. Loving, acceptance, understanding, judgement free, stress free and is authentic, that's all I want anymore, but now I'd rather stay by myself until I die.
Man, i have experienced the same thing. Most would not respond properly on almost all dating apps. I don't think they actually go out with anyone. At least in India, they would only chat for a while & then would simply lose interest. That's pretty much the scene here.
Women asked for bumble. Don't blame the company. People are quick to forget. We had tinder. Then women all over social asking for an app where women make the first move.
In my experience bumble has been very successful, I'm currently (not seriously) dating one woman I met through it, only took 2 weeks before I got my first date through Bumble too. I've been reading dating books and also consumed alot of UA-cam videos on dating/ women/ apps etc and this improved my success greatly.
I feel like you didnt match her energy, you just repeated what she said - thats not evolving a coversation. But she didnt give you much to go off of anyway... As someone who found my husband on bumble, i found success once i stopped caring about sounding cool on the messages, i just wrote what was on my mind and got straight to the point about what i was honestly looking for. Sure i had some bad matches, but i didnt let those rejections discourage me. I kept an open mind and kept trying and i found my person in the end.
The other apps the women are overwhelmed by all the men messaging. I think Bumble is good cuz the women just need say "Hi" and you can have a conversation without losing here when she runs from everyone.
I met my last boyfriend on Bumble. We were together for a year and ended on good terms. I’m dating again now, and I understand that (from what I’m hearing) women don’t respond or don’t engage properly… but this happens with men too. I’m a good conversationalist and can keep things going, but I want a man who can do the same 🤷🏻♀️
I’ve been on Bumble for about a year, have gotten about 6 or 7 matches, but only 2 of them have actually texted me…One said Hi and then deleted her account before I could even open her message, and the other did start a conversation but she went from being kinda intense to not even replying anymore. Like I’m a good guy, I have a good job, I go to college, I got a car, I’m a dog dad, I play music, I’m 6’2 and kinda good looking, my texting game is solid…I just don’t get what else girls want?
Since you have a dog and so many other positives, have you gone to any local dog parks or parks in general? I've heard of so many women that take their dog places in hopes of meeting guys. I see many at my local parks but I'm older and they're all too young. Try that and maybe to the same park at same time each if possible. That way if you see someone or someone sees you, they may come back again on same day. Dating coaches even recommend this in person method. Good luck!
It’s perfect for mediocre one night stands where you will be hesitant to introduce most/maybe all of them to any of your friends. Unless you’re on top 3-5% in looks,game,career etc
NONE OF THEM. I stopped using dating apps because they always resulted in me alone and a little bit older and rougher for wear. No one wanted to hold a conversation and left that my time was just expendable to them. It leaves men utterly destroyed with the women fighting for a VERY specific looking male with VERY SPECIFIC criteria.
Like most things in life, you can learn how to win or sit on the bench and talk about how the game is rigged. I’ve been there but it’s not as hard as you think 👍
@@WingManPlus You are incredibly incorrect. Saying this is as useful as saying "Don't be sad, cheer up," to a person with severe depression. This is the real world and no amount of "learning" is going to land me any dates. Men are on women's schedule because if she does not see anything she likes in the very first five seconds she'd have her mind made up and move on. This "game" is what most men contend with and many do not want to acknowledge by saying what you have said. Personally after trying for over a decade you would think I'd have succeeded. Fucking. L.O.L.! I am at that point where I am done with the stupidity games of modern dating and wanting to bring to the table why this shit is failing everyone. Honestly best if you reserve your next comments because, let's be frank, to many men are all saying the same exact thing. I'll TLDR for you. The battle of the sexes are as follows immovable object meets unstoppable force.
A family member met his wife on bumble. They were together for one year and married the following year. They are professionals in the workforce. I have women friends who tried bumble but they were turned off by some men on the app. There are a lot divorced men with or without children. Some of them are just plain immature.
Most opening with "hi" or "hey" is a work around to still make the guy pursue. It's why the concept of the app is flawed. 💯 **It's funny though because women spent years complaining men on apps only sent hi or hey. But then when they get an app where they can open, they do the same damn thing. 🤣
@user-wp1yb2rb6f - Dating app data shows that women only swipe right on 5-10% of men. Then, they only meet with a fraction of those matches in person. So their "safety" is never an issue since they ctrl who they give their number to and choose to meet. They're just simply being lazy on their opener versus reading profiles or getting information from pictures to ask about.
Women should never pursue men, keep your femininity and softness. If a guy wants to talk to you and get to know you he will, but he needs to be a man that can show he’s able to take the lead, and be in his masculine otherwise it’s not worth it. You’ll end up dating a feminine man. I’ve done this before! It wasn’t very attractive! 🙃
@user-ts8gk7iz5t - While I agree that a man should lead, social interaction should not be one-sided either. That was the main point. **Today, a lot of women will sit back and let men talk at them. They answer questions but don't ask any in return. Or they tend to talk about themselves and not express mutual interest. Basically acting like it's up to a man to win them over and entertain them. So it comes off as lazy.
The man is still to take the lead! Most dudes are lame and lazy. Guys don't set themselves apart. Use google translate and send a girl a message in French or Spanish and tell her to decode it 😄 Throw her a curve ball in a clever way. Be chivalrous! Who does that? Why not? What do you have to lose? А теперь иди и лови себе красавицу! 👍
I knew Bumble was an app where the women reach out first, but I didn’t know it matched you before that. Like you both have to like each other? Then what’s the point of making the women reach out first? That’s a terrible idea. Most dating advice tell women to sit back, be more feminine, and let men take the lead.
As a girl who is trying bumble for the first time I hate sending the first message I feel it’s unnatural. But other dating apps are basically hookup apps which I am not interested so I try to stick with bumble. It is super frustrating though
Women genuinely don’t want to make the first move!!! So many of my girl friends have said this is the one biggest draw back of the app. We don’t want to be the man. We want you to take the lead. Matching our energy with us being a female makes us think your feminine and you’re not a masculine manly man that can take the lead so we give up fairly quickly and don’t bother when you do that! 🙃
Women are more picky and choose who they want to be with so that's why this app makes women make first move.. would you rather have bunch guys blow up your phone
lol your a troll. Most masculine manly men are insecure little kids trust me I had to work on myself to put away the figurative man card. I can still more then physically and mentally dominate a good 95 percent of men I just don’t need to
It's the same in the gay aspect of it. You match with someone, and they don't even send a message. And if you're the first to send a message, then they won't even respond back to you.
I've had more actual meet ups with bumble than tinder, but I get more matches on Tinder but no responses or it just doesn't go anywhere. But I'd agree with anyone saying women who just respond with hey but demand catchy specific pickup lines are hypocrites
Remember each woman (even basic average ones) get 100-500 likes every day. She swipes right about 1-5% of them. But she cannot keep chatting with 100 people concurrently. So she lets 50-80% of her matches expire. With the rest she communicates for a while but during that time she finds more exciting new matches and then she unmatches some of her old matches or ignore them (i.e. keep as back up) for weeks. So time is critical. As soon a man gets a match and she texts him, get her phone number and quickly scheduled a date. Otherwise she will replace you with one of the 100 likes she gets everyday. Don't take it personally. Women's world is very different. They get 100-1000X more likes than men and they are swamped by the attention. So they just ruthlessly filter out men for flimsiest reasons.They go after whoever looks hot on their profile pictures. As a result, all women are chasing the same top 5% men who happily pump and dump as many women as humanly possible.
Well see women prefer traditional gender roles but only when they benefit. Otherwise they will be strong independent feminists. Bumble made them realize they really don't want to spend any energy on making the first move, as that would hold them accountable in a sense. So now bumble has pre written scripts that the women can send to a man, but then the man actually has to be the first one to say something with substance. And the the woman gets to decide whether to unlock the conversation. So to recap, women still make the first move as strong independent modern feminists by sending a pre written prompt, and the it's the man's responsibility to come up with something creative. Then, after judging the man by the very first message he sends her, she will decide if he's worthy enough to continue speaking to. It's about giving women what they want, to be respected and put on a pedastal as far as traditional norms are concerned while simultaneously having complete control over the man and the entire situation. She has her cake and eats it too, as it should be. And the best part is that she doesn't have to take any accountability for any of it. It's great. It really is a great time to be a woman
My 40+ year old Spanish teacher has been a victim of being caught in 4k, by me and another kid She was caught with Tinder Matches, and Bumble Matches, there is a spreading rumor about her, it’s that she’s dating the other Spanish Teacher!
@@Quantum_Cola we haven’t filmed her, she quit sadly, and now there’s rumors about her having inappropriate conversations with her 6-7th grade students 😳
Ive been getting matches and got two numbers so far, just gotta bring your A game when it comes to the texting or you’ll get left on read. Its not easy
To be fair, your "shot" came across as a one nightstand pitch.
Right, how is that shooting his shot? This is why girls respond the way they do. He just wants sex.
If you send stupid messages, you can only expect stupid answers.
Who cares she didn’t think enough of him to have a conversation in good faith
Yes he should of stayed in her inbox longer and be N orbiter good advice
It seems neither were invested in getting to know each other. Real life interactions are better than apps
I got 4 matches right now and none sent a message and there’s 2 hours left lmao. It’s brutal
Wait you're getting matches? :/
@@ripetika1743 not anymore! deleted bumble
First 9 months on bumble and only 3 matches that actively replied, 0 dates
@@ripetika1743i got it this week and got a match, weve been in contact for a few days and its pretty chill but i dont see a relationship forming, maybe a friendship though
Same shit, this is so boring, like one match per month and still she did not send message 😂
Surprised she even responded again after you said hey back
I was surprised she even said hi
@@cheekon3559😂
That's because he's handsome. He at least got a hey back
@@san-fs8mk go get plastic surgery then. U incels are ridiculous
Haha yes. I thought it ended right there after hey x2
Bruh, girls at bumblee dont want a night one stand
Bs lol. Bumble has been the best for me for one nights. But tbf, I get a lot of matches so that might be the reason
Yeah I agree it’s kinda more serious
@blork just say u can’t get one instead
@@TheStevensvd bs you don’t get shit
@@kingamir7487 lol okay 👍🏻
I pray the day Dating apps completely crumble and die out. I'm praying .
I pray the day women in real life randomly approach men on a daily basis and not the other way around. I pray.
I pray that girls stop wanting handsome white titans dudes in tinder
@@gamegeekx that’d not how is meant to be naturally tho. If you want a woman to approach you go to a night club , they’ll give u hints but it comes down to you to make the move…
That’s why I don’t even make the first move anymore or compliment them because their egos grow and think they can find someone out their league
It'll only happen if something ten times worse becomes available. So be careful what you wish for.
I’d get matches, but they’d never message me or just plain un match me. I’ll just stick to my self improvement journey and work on myself. 💯
Right. If they are only going after top quality men, then I better become one.
@@adamsaldana5462 and just acknowledging that can go a long ways. But always keep in mind, never do it to get female attention, do it for yourself and make yourself proud of the things you accomplish.
Translation: cope
@@AZITHEMLGPRO translation: rope
Damn. If Charles Barkley having trouble, what hope do i have?
These dating apps want to make money, so they actually don't care to find you a "good match". They want you to throw money at premium features that give you the illusion of "Hey, this is a great experience"
I mean from their perspective. It’s a good business model. Less expenses, more profit
And then nothing happens and you stop entirely from using their service. Great business model.
It's just hard for guys in general. That will translate online as well.
And buy boosts !
@@purplesun3792exactly you’re gonna get the same results irl just slightly better but mostly the same. Its just an illusion of results bc girls are less likely to just walk away from you in person
Wait girls actually respond to your messages?
I was about to say, hold up You get replies? 🤣
Nah, females be wasting my time with one word replies, like bih I’m 22 making 6 figures putting private jets up in the air, me and you ain’t the same 😂👍🏾
hold up, you actually get matches?
@@FootyManagerTV NO DO YOU!?
@@yaboyjosh3023 she opened up first so technically he responded
Had bumble for 2 months, matched about 100 girls, ended up meeting one and we've been married for 4 years, together for 5. It's not impossible, but you need professional photos and an interesting bio.
having GOOD photos is HUGE
100 GIRLS??? I had it for a month and got like 7 matches I must be really fucking ugly
Professional photos that’s bullshit women don’t want relationships
Guys need to put effort in to their photos. They need to know a photo lying in bed with a double chin, a dusty mirror pic, a pic 50 metres from camera and a pic of their torso is a big fat NO. They also need to put their interests as a minimum. But most put nothing, they are the ones that get no matches.
@@Natta44 guys don’t get matches
You see… the difference is you got a “How’s it going” while most people stop at “Hey”
Most women have short answers. If a guy matches the same energy, the conversation won't go anywhere. And if he says too much, it won't go anywhere either. What works are psychological games. Then they wonder why they only run into guys who play games, and they're beautiful, not in a relationship, and spending the evening with a dog. 😂
Faaaacts
Very true...
Facts women like to be teased, ghosted, and cheated on. It drives them nuts and provides them with what they want which is drama.
Most women text long answers, guys give short answers.
It’s not only about women exactly same thing in gay dating apps world happens. It’s like people doesn’t want to put any percent of effort into conversation but they all registered on those app for some reason 😒
All dating apps need to be thrown to the fire of forgotten memories and never be brought up again. That era has ran its course. Dating apps are all shit now and so are mostly the people that use them.
POV: you get no matches
@@WingManPlus I get plenty but it means nothing when most of them don’t talk for any length of time. Way to assume something you know nothing about.
Try again, Y/N?
@@CaptainGameSlayer just sounds like your failure is shaping your world view. Hope you figure it out captain
@@WingManPlus I think I speak for the majority when I say that dating apps have taken a serious nosedive since their inception. That’s hardly my “view”, that’s the reality, and there is PLENTY of factual evidence to back up that statement, google is your friend. Or bing. Or DuckDuckGo if you’re scared of your privacy being violated. Take your pick and do your own research 😎
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Yeah, bumble is strange. I get a lot of matches on Tinder but in Bumble one day I suddenly stopped getting any matches.
that was kinda the information I was looking for.. it's a bit weird.
You do know Tinder is full of bots right? Half of those profiles aren't real people.
@@jn8922 Atleast you're matching with something and your self confidence remains intact.😂
Don't rely on dating apps, that's how they work.
Women on bumble are soulless, like why would you swipe right at me and we match and send 0 text❓ And some do text and halfway through yall just stop❓ Like wtf, but the main question is why would you download a dating app in the first place when yall just don’t want to reply❓you with me boys?
yup..... i gues they do remain the weaker gender.
She had a better option homie
No shit, that's the whole problem, they get to match more than they can chew, what if you could only match once per week? things would change@@clayc5929
They talk to someone else instead but don’t unmatch because now you’re a backup plan
Im a guy and I get that, I get bored of people very easily and I just stop replying to texts, I know its rude, but other people have done the same thing to me a lot of times so who cares
Bumble does work. You just need to understand that you still have to take the lead in the convo. In the rare case she does give you a good opener work with that, but be ready to do an reply opener. Let’s focus on getting results with things like they are now, not as they “should” be
Is it worth to have for free as ive made my first acc and after a while it said u have 5 likes but couldnt see unless you pay what you think.
Lol your delusional
@@LeoJr_not really. In my experience all the dating apps are the same, when you're on the free plan you get regular new likes, then when you sign up they evaporate. Bumble is no different in this respect. You should still be able to do speed dating, I've had a few results with that.
Even if you take the lead in conversation and do a great job of it they will just waste your time and if it gets any further your money and sanity will also be wasted. They will fall off never add anything of value into the conversation who wants to be around or talk to someone like that period I'd rather talk to a dog or bird or something that can't even talk at that point so at least I'm not knowledgeable that they obsoletely can use human letters to form words and then use those to communicate with me. Women are worse than animals almost these days and it's sad because only 60 years ago they were 25-50x better and more valuable to men and family units at large
You are talking about trying to make things work with how they are now that is pathetic simp liberal cope are you serious or even a real person??? I simply can't believe that maybe if modern boss babe women want to act this way we can go ahead and go extinct unless we lab grow offspring which we are at the point that we can on a small scale. Because clearly women don't want to put in there 3% effort that men are requiring the most basic respect is now too much to ask and they will just leave to pursue someone who will take her at .003% of her best and accept her how she is and simp hard pay for everything for her and still get cheated on .
I did Bumble for a month and it was a total waste of time. I had a number of matches, yet of all the matches, I only received messages from three different women. One message from each of them, only for them to not follow up to my message. Eventually, I sent another message to one of the women telling her off about not caring, which after a week she did send me a text. But at that point I was too angry with Bumble to care.
Myself and at least 3 of my friends all met our wives on tinder. Funny part is that for each of us its the best relationships we have ever had.
Still broke up?
Girls are on tinder for 2 things. Finding a good root or finding somebody who is suitable to settle down with that’s in the same stage of life as them. I abounded tinder for years, in 2 weeks I met up with 3 girls. 2 who were open about just wanting me around for the night, the third I talked to for around a week before I took her to dinner, now we are engaged.
@@deevizm8035 so you got a two night stand and a wife, now that's what i call a 5 star experience
is this the definition of irony?
Waste your life more being brainwashed into monogamy because you can’t get hotties
I had like 2 matches and 0 conversations on bumble in 3 weeks on the App🤣🤣🤣
Did you pay for the premium membership?
@@chriszone50 it also depend on location
😂I have so much likes probably 100+, and I dislike them all, I don’t know why I am using it
@@chriszone50You might be very attractive or photos might be dope
@@chriszone50what country are you in
U didn't understand the concept dude. Girls don't like Bumble because they don't want to make the first move, they don't want to do anything at all. They just want to exist and receive attention from guys so they can ignore them. You don't get it do you? 🤣
Big facts
Well said
it really just depends on who the attention is from, dopamine hits come in all shapes and sizes but the ones they really gravitate towards are the ones that are too good to be true.
This is most dating apps tho tbf. Women get ego boosts from a bunch of men complimenting them and knowing there's a list of dudes who want to bang is validation, which is all most crave on dating apps. She's talking to 100s of guys on these apps, what makes you stand out from the rest?
Even though I've had pretty good luck on dating apps like bumble and getting to meet with people, I feel like this whole dating app stuff is disgusting since an average guys self worth will drain rapidly going on these apps. Most Women have the driest convos and bring nothing to the table meanwhile the average dude is putting in so much effort (keeping a conversation, planning the dates, paying for the dates, etc.) for a woman who couldn't care less, and is only looking for a dude whos way out of her league. The average/lower than average dudes have to put themselves first in these areas. If she's constantly dry, playfully call it out, if nothing changes cut her off and go for another one who isn't dry.
Looking for a hookup or serious relationship? Tell them that. State what you want/need for a relationship to develop with this woman and if she ignores it, stand up for yourself and don't tolerate the disrespect, and stop wasting your time validating a self centered woman who's only using you as an ego boost. You can tell pretty quickly if a woman is actually interested or not.
@@xAustishxpreach brother amen
I met my last bf on Bumble and we lasted 5 yrs. Women do have to put more effort and I know I did. There are many of us out there who want an equal partnership. It’s nice to be courted and adored to a point - I am not one to use men for my ego and free meals, so why do I care about getting dozens of messages each day. 99% of the volume are idiots, with a subset of assholes and another fraction of narcissists. I rather go back to Bumble and get only 10 hits a week
What effort do women have to put?? lol thats total bullshit what you just said
What a waste of 5 years. That should have lead to marriage and not a seperation. What a waste of energy from both sides. For me, after 1 year i'll let her move in with me and live rent free, after 3 years it'll be marriage and a kid on the way with a life plan.
Wish that was a common sentiment. (Not the rent free part. I'm a 50% kinda person when it comes to paying for stuff) Online dating is tough. People only seem to want one night stands. @@balb3014
Is it possible that YOU are the asshole in all equations?
@@psidhu1979 I think she meant they don’t put effort and they should which is correct
Almost entirely filled with Early childhood educators and nurses with atleast 1 kid
Well then I message the dudes and they stop having convo. People now days just wanna sleep around. That is just using a human for pleasure only. People don’t care or know what loyalty is anymore.
Well women dont
You're messaging guys who wouldn't even go for a hookup let alone go for a conversation. That says something about you
Exactly 👏🏻
That's what women want
I gave a chick a compliment, she swiped back and matched but she didn’t message me. 🤦♂️ I don’t get it
You don’t get it because you can’t accept the reality is women are looking for a vibe , they want men to hit a sweet spot in their psyche , maybe it was a word(s) you used or she was turned off by the tone of the compliment , learning how to accept rejection is step one to being able to get girls … if you act like you need her to respond or she’s you’re only option she will be turned off and believe it or not you’re energy of desperation comes through even in a compliment
Men: Lead. If stuff doesnt go anywhere: leave. You want a date? Put in effort. Woman expect it. Even on apps. If your not willing to invest then dont even date. If a girl in the end is flakey, you will find out pretty quick. Great, then you know that girl is not for you. Rejection = redirection. Good luck boys
Finally a man that gets it. We don’t want to be the man and take the lead, we want a man to be the man and be able to lead, even if we say hi or smile like we would in person. If a guy just matches our feminine energy or makes us peruse him we instantly see him as less masculine and weak. :( We do expect it, the same way we want to be the traditional wife and partner for you too, so it works both ways ☺️
Yes a man that lead is more attractive
@@Nishesquewell, stop the feminist movement. Also, was made for women to take lead. We don’t misogyny man taking the lead. If you want to be Traditional wife, you need to be raised one
Simp
That's the whole problem, expecting men to do the whole work for them, that's not a relationship but a servant.
The favourite dating app of mine is the grocery store I just go there and pick up chicks
From everything I've seen the best thing you can do is just not take dating apps seriously. Of course you do want to try because you are trying to find someone but you shouldn't put so much time and energy into them and honestly you should try to go after a date as quick as possible so you can get to know them in person and get out of the whole texting bull. Another helpful tip is doing multiple dating apps at once, that way it increases your chances a lot more.
Facts
Bro at least you share your L’s and laugh them off to give people a good model to look at. Let them know what they’ve done wrong, when to recognize its dry (bc some dudes would look at that text and think they’re getting somewhere or need to try harder), and give them a non bitter way to look at it if it doesn’t go well. This is it right here, great stuff
Appreciate that ❤️
Yes, it's designed to get women to be like men and make the 1st move but you have to give them a 24 hours refresh because they want to be chased the traditional way.
It’s also designed to make men into women! 🫠 But I guess that’s the way society is heading nowadays and we’re all falling into the trap of it cause we can’t even define what a man or woman is or should be or what their roles are nowadays! 🏳️🌈😂
I used to have success with Bumble a few years ago, but it's absolute trash now and just as bad as Tinder. I'll get matches but women either don't send the first message or they stop responding not even 5 messages into the conversation
As a girl it feels harder on bumble because I match 20 guys and none of them reply when I put a prompt like ‘what are you looking for in a relationship’
The average guy gets 0 matches. I wouldn’t say you have it harder haha
Ikr @@WingManPlus
@@WingManPlusyall are only there for sex though. and we know that.
They don’t reply cause they know you won’t reply back. That question is too complicated for a first question imo..
But when you text them first but they don't answer you? Maybe its just german guys but it sucks
Bumble asks me to pay for a subscription fee to like someone back lol
Every app does
@@bape7372hinge doesn't...
It's 50 usd/month- did that for one month, cancelled the premium. dec 22-jan 23.
Now they're asking to pay to see who likes you. Idk
Don’t listen to jake Paul they charge you after you pay, so take you’re card info after those 30 days if you’re mostly on the app
When I used the apps I got like 30 1st dates off tinder, and 0 messages off bumble, not even one 😂
I currently use Bumble, I don't have any problem sending a message as long as I like the guys photos & his profile info... I find the challenge can be getting a conversation "off the ground", if the guy responds back to me with just 1 or 2 dry lines??? I initiate & open up by sending at least a short paragraph, to kinda introduce myself & get a conversation going!
You are the 1 percent in this regard
had a great year on bumble 2021. 2022 got more matches but way more convos leading nowhere
hinge seems to be the best one if youre looking for something serious.. if i even attempt to casually hook up like thats even possible tinder is the best for that. Bumble sucks ass.
Hinge guys just match and say nothing, and wait for you to be the man and take the lead! 🫠
@@Nishesque it’s not taking the lead by sending interest first my god.
I ask for a Voice call (a feature in the app) in the first message. I'm not spending time texting a stranger. If they're not interested in speaking through the app, they get unmatched. Simple.
Bumble has been great for me with their Passport feature. I meet many amazing women overseas
Why do women overseas actually know how to talk but not America it’s sad
This definitely isn’t the smartest guy out there lol
See bumble is a nice idea in a world where everyone has accountability, but chicks dont like to initiate, so what they tend to do is, wait to see if you extend for another 24 hours, then they use that as the prompt that you're saying hi, then initiate, after that... you still have to carry the boat.
I don't date anymore because I don't deal with cross grained women, I would love to have someone acrually meant for me, though now, it's entirely impossible. Not going to deal with anyone who is not going to be serious with relationships, understanding, won't play mind games, have me guessing and the sort. I don't need more stress than what I currently have with work and such. Loving, acceptance, understanding, judgement free, stress free and is authentic, that's all I want anymore, but now I'd rather stay by myself until I die.
Yes man I get you I feel the same. It’s all games like they’re stupid! I’m effin tired of this.
I hear ya. Look for happiness as a single man from within. Never tie your happiness to a woman. They can't make us happy 100% of the time.
Man, i have experienced the same thing.
Most would not respond properly on almost all dating apps. I don't think they actually go out with anyone.
At least in India, they would only chat for a while & then would simply lose interest. That's pretty much the scene here.
Same here (Romania, Europe)
I just got on bumble and i do message more than just a oneliner! I get short one sentence responses😂
Women asked for bumble. Don't blame the company. People are quick to forget. We had tinder. Then women all over social asking for an app where women make the first move.
I got a couple matches, but none of the women I matched with initiated conversations with me. Instead of Bumble they should rebrand it Tumbleweeds
A pot of bots as well
Wow you got a message . Waiting for one...lot of self validators on there
I never got a message from a woman I was interested in. I deleted bumble.
Daaaamn maybe you need to take those women out of the “friendzone” huh? 🙄
It's all about physical attraction nothing more nothing less
Always has been
In my experience bumble has been very successful, I'm currently (not seriously) dating one woman I met through it, only took 2 weeks before I got my first date through Bumble too. I've been reading dating books and also consumed alot of UA-cam videos on dating/ women/ apps etc and this improved my success greatly.
I feel like you didnt match her energy, you just repeated what she said - thats not evolving a coversation. But she didnt give you much to go off of anyway...
As someone who found my husband on bumble, i found success once i stopped caring about sounding cool on the messages, i just wrote what was on my mind and got straight to the point about what i was honestly looking for. Sure i had some bad matches, but i didnt let those rejections discourage me. I kept an open mind and kept trying and i found my person in the end.
The other apps the women are overwhelmed by all the men messaging. I think Bumble is good cuz the women just need say "Hi" and you can have a conversation without losing here when she runs from everyone.
Dating apps suck...top reason why relationships cant/WONT work
I just signed up thinking this a friendship app not a dating app 😅😅😅 delete
I met my last boyfriend on Bumble. We were together for a year and ended on good terms.
I’m dating again now, and I understand that (from what I’m hearing) women don’t respond or don’t engage properly… but this happens with men too.
I’m a good conversationalist and can keep things going, but I want a man who can do the same 🤷🏻♀️
Conversation without giving your number is like sex without foreplay
I’ve been on Bumble for about a year, have gotten about 6 or 7 matches, but only 2 of them have actually texted me…One said Hi and then deleted her account before I could even open her message, and the other did start a conversation but she went from being kinda intense to not even replying anymore.
Like I’m a good guy, I have a good job, I go to college, I got a car, I’m a dog dad, I play music, I’m 6’2 and kinda good looking, my texting game is solid…I just don’t get what else girls want?
There’s a lot more guys than women that’s why.
Since you have a dog and so many other positives, have you gone to any local dog parks or parks in general? I've heard of so many women that take their dog places in hopes of meeting guys. I see many at my local parks but I'm older and they're all too young. Try that and maybe to the same park at same time each if possible. That way if you see someone or someone sees you, they may come back again on same day. Dating coaches even recommend this in person method.
Good luck!
Wow that bad !! And here am i thinking to dl one. Hmm maybe i shouldnt
@@ivanvarykino8202 that’s considered creepy now a days
Tinder is even worse
Trust me, guys and girls do the same thing. Dating apps is trash
If they don’t want to send the message first then there is a complete waste of time doing it otherwise
It’s a waste of time anyway
Legit got banned for no reason. They won’t give it back to me, was talking to so many fine women too I’m pissed lol
Any time a woman feel offended (due to rejection for example) they probably report on you. Bumble punishes you without investigation.
Forces them to talk to men why be on the app?
It’s perfect for mediocre one night stands where you will be hesitant to introduce most/maybe all of them to any of your friends. Unless you’re on top 3-5% in looks,game,career etc
NONE OF THEM. I stopped using dating apps because they always resulted in me alone and a little bit older and rougher for wear. No one wanted to hold a conversation and left that my time was just expendable to them. It leaves men utterly destroyed with the women fighting for a VERY specific looking male with VERY SPECIFIC criteria.
Like most things in life, you can learn how to win or sit on the bench and talk about how the game is rigged. I’ve been there but it’s not as hard as you think 👍
@@WingManPlus You are incredibly incorrect. Saying this is as useful as saying "Don't be sad, cheer up," to a person with severe depression. This is the real world and no amount of "learning" is going to land me any dates. Men are on women's schedule because if she does not see anything she likes in the very first five seconds she'd have her mind made up and move on. This "game" is what most men contend with and many do not want to acknowledge by saying what you have said.
Personally after trying for over a decade you would think I'd have succeeded. Fucking. L.O.L.! I am at that point where I am done with the stupidity games of modern dating and wanting to bring to the table why this shit is failing everyone. Honestly best if you reserve your next comments because, let's be frank, to many men are all saying the same exact thing.
I'll TLDR for you. The battle of the sexes are as follows immovable object meets unstoppable force.
@@WingManPlusthey are actually rigged. And there's plenty of proof on UA-cam, an endless statistic you can Google as well. Don't be naive.
This is true! I have had so many ‘heys’ from girls on this app it’s painful
That conversation wasn’t very exciting. I wouldn’t want to continue either 😆
I suppose you think the conversation from the woman's side was very insightful and stimulating, especially with the one-worded replies.
@@gotthecutenessoverload1086they always only see the men’s fault, it’s like they have tunnel vision
@@vladonutueu IKR. Its like some automatic man blaming script running in the background.
I met my current girlfriend on Bumble. I wish I would have stuck to church
A family member met his wife on bumble. They were together for one year and married the following year. They are professionals in the workforce. I have women friends who tried bumble but they were turned off by some men on the app. There are a lot divorced men with or without children. Some of them are just plain immature.
You gotta wait till she invites you over bruh
Most opening with "hi" or "hey" is a work around to still make the guy pursue. It's why the concept of the app is flawed. 💯
**It's funny though because women spent years complaining men on apps only sent hi or hey. But then when they get an app where they can open, they do the same damn thing. 🤣
The app is not about pursuing men, its about safety and not getting creepy msgs!!!
@user-wp1yb2rb6f - Dating app data shows that women only swipe right on 5-10% of men. Then, they only meet with a fraction of those matches in person.
So their "safety" is never an issue since they ctrl who they give their number to and choose to meet. They're just simply being lazy on their opener versus reading profiles or getting information from pictures to ask about.
Women should never pursue men, keep your femininity and softness. If a guy wants to talk to you and get to know you he will, but he needs to be a man that can show he’s able to take the lead, and be in his masculine otherwise it’s not worth it. You’ll end up dating a feminine man. I’ve done this before! It wasn’t very attractive! 🙃
@user-ts8gk7iz5t - While I agree that a man should lead, social interaction should not be one-sided either. That was the main point.
**Today, a lot of women will sit back and let men talk at them. They answer questions but don't ask any in return. Or they tend to talk about themselves and not express mutual interest. Basically acting like it's up to a man to win them over and entertain them. So it comes off as lazy.
The man is still to take the lead!
Most dudes are lame and lazy. Guys don't set themselves apart. Use google translate and send a girl a message in French or Spanish and tell her to decode it 😄
Throw her a curve ball in a clever way.
Be chivalrous! Who does that? Why not? What do you have to lose?
А теперь иди и лови себе красавицу! 👍
You got to remember women are boring so as a man you got to be creative and interesting and have game and patience.
…So don’t date? Go buy a fleshlight then 🤷♀️
Plenty of fish actually is much worse
I like the concept of this app. But your response sounds one night Standish
The part when he asked if she wanted company. Possibly wanted only one thing.
I knew Bumble was an app where the women reach out first, but I didn’t know it matched you before that. Like you both have to like each other? Then what’s the point of making the women reach out first? That’s a terrible idea. Most dating advice tell women to sit back, be more feminine, and let men take the lead.
Bumble just assumes that men are dangerous and they only allow women to connect first because of safety reasons presumably
As a girl who is trying bumble for the first time I hate sending the first message I feel it’s unnatural. But other dating apps are basically hookup apps which I am not interested so I try to stick with bumble. It is super frustrating though
Welcome to a man’s world
Women genuinely don’t want to make the first move!!! So many of my girl friends have said this is the one biggest draw back of the app. We don’t want to be the man. We want you to take the lead. Matching our energy with us being a female makes us think your feminine and you’re not a masculine manly man that can take the lead so we give up fairly quickly and don’t bother when you do that! 🙃
Are they having success with the guys that message first on the other apps?
So delete the app
Women are more picky and choose who they want to be with so that's why this app makes women make first move.. would you rather have bunch guys blow up your phone
lol your a troll. Most masculine manly men are insecure little kids trust me I had to work on myself to put away the figurative man card. I can still more then physically and mentally dominate a good 95 percent of men I just don’t need to
Yeah girlie don’t speak for all of us 💀 A lot of us prefer to make the first move. Dont give us a bad name.
I like any app where I can match with women who actually want to meet up so...no apps.
When you match with guys and text them first but they don't answer😢
It's the same in the gay aspect of it. You match with someone, and they don't even send a message. And if you're the first to send a message, then they won't even respond back to you.
I've had more actual meet ups with bumble than tinder, but I get more matches on Tinder but no responses or it just doesn't go anywhere. But I'd agree with anyone saying women who just respond with hey but demand catchy specific pickup lines are hypocrites
Do you gotta pay ??
Remember each woman (even basic average ones) get 100-500 likes every day. She swipes right about 1-5% of them. But she cannot keep chatting with 100 people concurrently. So she lets 50-80% of her matches expire. With the rest she communicates for a while but during that time she finds more exciting new matches and then she unmatches some of her old matches or ignore them (i.e. keep as back up) for weeks. So time is critical. As soon a man gets a match and she texts him, get her phone number and quickly scheduled a date. Otherwise she will replace you with one of the 100 likes she gets everyday.
Don't take it personally. Women's world is very different. They get 100-1000X more likes than men and they are swamped by the attention. So they just ruthlessly filter out men for flimsiest reasons.They go after whoever looks hot on their profile pictures. As a result, all women are chasing the same top 5% men who happily pump and dump as many women as humanly possible.
Yep it’s a game of numbers sadly, human connection reduced to maths
Hinge 100% is the worst
Howso?
DISAGREEA. I’ve only gotten decent ones through hinge
Most definitely most definitely it sucks the worse😅😅😅
They said bumble is where woman’s react first well that never happens
The best ones are the profiles that say ' they wont message first.
I'm running an experiment rn. Day one I created an account on both apps and used up my swipes. I have not gotten a matche as of yet.
It works for me. I'm quite talkative online. Guys seem to like girls who lead conversations.
Bumble is trash for guys
Ive just joined. Its like a DESERT. Im tall and reasonable looking.
you got a match ? must be nice
You should absolutely blame the users. If this girl chose to be boring and send one word answers, it's clearly her fault
None of them are worth it
Well see women prefer traditional gender roles but only when they benefit. Otherwise they will be strong independent feminists. Bumble made them realize they really don't want to spend any energy on making the first move, as that would hold them accountable in a sense. So now bumble has pre written scripts that the women can send to a man, but then the man actually has to be the first one to say something with substance. And the the woman gets to decide whether to unlock the conversation. So to recap, women still make the first move as strong independent modern feminists by sending a pre written prompt, and the it's the man's responsibility to come up with something creative. Then, after judging the man by the very first message he sends her, she will decide if he's worthy enough to continue speaking to. It's about giving women what they want, to be respected and put on a pedastal as far as traditional norms are concerned while simultaneously having complete control over the man and the entire situation. She has her cake and eats it too, as it should be. And the best part is that she doesn't have to take any accountability for any of it. It's great. It really is a great time to be a woman
I got sick of no matches so I put a pfp of a cosplayer.
I kid you not, 180+ likes in 1 hour.
I got banned from tinder.
Technically speaking as unhappy you are as much money they make off you so it makes sense they banned you for being too popular.
Bro just “friend zoned “ himeself 😅
Can you message someone without purchasing the bumble app ?
I matched once in Bumble and then, the day after she ended the chat.
bumble is terrible and the shadowbans they do are obvious. you only get matches if you purchase boosts, even if you are premium
Is this really trueq? I have no idea because I haven't tried it
My 40+ year old Spanish teacher has been a victim of being caught in 4k, by me and another kid
She was caught with Tinder Matches, and Bumble Matches, there is a spreading rumor about her, it’s that she’s dating the other Spanish Teacher!
what ? you filmed her doing it with younger guys?
@@Quantum_Cola we haven’t filmed her, she quit sadly, and now there’s rumors about her having inappropriate conversations with her 6-7th grade students 😳
Give us her number be a man of culture 💪
@@vladonutueu i don’t have it.
Play stupid games win stupid prizes
Like 1050+swiped me right but I don’t wanna waste my money just to see who swiped me right😂
All they do is connect and dont send messages waste of time and money
You match then time out 😂😂😂
Ive been getting matches and got two numbers so far, just gotta bring your A game when it comes to the texting or you’ll get left on read. Its not easy