5 Reasons Why You're Not Getting Tinder Matches (Tinder Profile Tips For Men)

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  • @WingManPlus
    @WingManPlus  Рік тому +4

    Free Pickup Line Guide: www.onlinedatingcheatcode.com

  • @julian.friedl
    @julian.friedl 2 роки тому +1084

    I hate that we as guys have to look up tutorials and guides for online dating, and meanwhile girls could literally use a picture of a cat and get 5 times as many matches as the avg guy

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +197

      Sometimes all we can do is focus on maximizing the things that are inside our control and letting the chips fall where they may. Dating apps are definitely easier for women, but that’s why most men don’t put in the effort. The ones that do are rewarded for it 👍

    • @raf555ify
      @raf555ify 2 роки тому +29

      My guy speaking facts!

    • @AroundTheBest
      @AroundTheBest 2 роки тому +69

      I've swiped until I've run out of profiles to swipe in a 10 mile radius in a suburban area. 2 matches, no responses.

    • @MrBuu1978
      @MrBuu1978 2 роки тому +19

      @@AroundTheBest same brother

    • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
      @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 2 роки тому +27

      @@AroundTheBest Same, ffs what do these chicks WANT

  • @rodbelding9523
    @rodbelding9523 2 роки тому +294

    I'm at a loss with tinder. I've been on it for years and I get basically no matches, and then the other day I finally did. I messaged her and we talked for a good while. We had common interests and she was very easy to talk to and everything was going great. Then out of the blue she stops responding and unmatches me. I just don't even know anymore.

    • @xXSgtWolfXx
      @xXSgtWolfXx 2 роки тому +144

      They have literally thousands of options.

    • @applesmith4012
      @applesmith4012 2 роки тому +121

      that's every girl bro. Keep your head up king

    • @theflyingegg3557
      @theflyingegg3557 2 роки тому +29

      Then she wasn’t the one. Not the biggest L brother you’ll get there eventually. I promise

    • @IkeCreed
      @IkeCreed 2 роки тому +41

      Happens to most of us. Tinder girls will talk to multiple guys at once and always go for the little boys. Honestly bro, see it as a win for you. Those type of girls are low quality in reality. In today's society/culture she is a queen but to the men looking for a quality woman and relationship, garbage.

    • @w.wheisenberg3448
      @w.wheisenberg3448 2 роки тому +9

      Just uninstall and meet girls irl, I saw basically many spending lot of many paying professional photographers to get the best pics posing like models. So having a pic with phone cant get you anywhere. Tinder girls judge you by the picture. Nothing else matter

  • @ytmisterfixer4895
    @ytmisterfixer4895 2 роки тому +129

    “Girls only need one reason to swipe left, and you just gave them like 15” fuck you’re right lmao

  • @RobBassCame2GetDown
    @RobBassCame2GetDown 2 роки тому +46

    Yeah. I’m just done dating. It’s too easy to find my flaws and it’s either rejection or no response because it was a validation match. I’m starting to think I’m too old for dating and not meant for anyone.

    • @fri8601
      @fri8601 2 роки тому +18

      Speak to people in real life. Lots of people. Join clubs and communities, Tinder is rubbish.

    • @ethanporto1745
      @ethanporto1745 Рік тому +15

      I know the feeling brother. Just keep your head up and get out and do stuff rather than online dating. Online dating really seems to just be for people that are young, dumb, and full of you know what. Getting out and being active I’ve found is a much better way of meeting people. You’re much less likely to be rejected by someone you have a good face to face interaction with.

    • @chriskurtner9977
      @chriskurtner9977 Рік тому +1

      Also consider: with everything we are hearing, what are you really missing out on? That's what I have started asking myself.

    • @ILKILO1
      @ILKILO1 Рік тому +2

      People like this attempting to sell courses to men who obviously are struggling in life for one reason or another and push problems which in actual fact essentially aren't the main reason
      or a reason at all why they're struggling and probably are the reason why so many of his "followers" struggle with mental health. You're not getting matches on tinder for any of the above reasons. Fact is most women don't give a shit what's in your bio, how you pose or what the quality of your photos are lol
      Facts are that tinder used to be a free for all where good looking people matched good looking people and vice versa. From personal experience anywhere from 3-5 years ago I would create a profile and on the same day receive 200-300 matches (Not likes) and countless superlikes (I live on a tiny island btw not even In a busy city or area). The women would range anywhere from 7s to 9s (You'll never find 10s on dating apps) and I wouldn't spend more than 20minutes on it that same day. Fast forward a couple years and whenever I make a profile I receive anywhere from 20-30 matches on day 1 and average 2-3 a day for the remainder of time I spend on the app. I don't look any different, if anything I wear nicer clothes, drive a more expensive car and look better than I did a few years ago. It's tinder that changed. It's essentially a pay to play game nowadays, it's over saturated by inactive profiles and you don't even show up for most of the women you like nowadays. It doesn't necessarily mean youre ugly, Uninteresting or doing anything wrong. It's just the app that's changed. Again this is coming from someone whose dated countless super models and models alike (Miss Italy included), high-end escorts, TV & Radio personalities, Artists who average millions of views per song release... In general just some very in demand, beautiful women.

    • @imprwikiimprwiki6898
      @imprwikiimprwiki6898 Рік тому

      Fix the flaws. Seriously, that’s the key

  • @Vedika-Susita7699
    @Vedika-Susita7699 8 місяців тому +3

    All that was wrong was my bad photos and boring bio. Now Im matching like crazy, thanks dude!

  • @somethingoutdoors1412
    @somethingoutdoors1412 Рік тому +10

    Literally going through my tinder as your video played. I'm a semi driver over the road...I keep myself healthy and active. I'll get more pictures as you indicated might help. Thank you.

  • @Suspect333
    @Suspect333 Рік тому +50

    You have to be good looking, Tinder is all about looks no matter.

    • @mohamed-on6zb
      @mohamed-on6zb Рік тому +4

      Yep

    • @VeniVidiVandaliAuz
      @VeniVidiVandaliAuz Рік тому +2

      Exactly. I've had enough if grifters such as this guy who claim there's some tricks you can use to get more matches. All that matters is having a good face. If you fit that criteria than you'll do well on dating apps.

    • @addictivealternatives
      @addictivealternatives 7 місяців тому

      @@VeniVidiVandaliAuz”Good face” guy here.. it does certainly help, but you still can’t just post anything no effort and get quality/any matches. “Ugly guys” can get women’s attention in other ways, humor, art, talents, money, etc.

    • @mr5k789
      @mr5k789 5 місяців тому +2

      Not true I'm hot and don't get a whole lot of quality likes.

    • @RandomGuy-ej9gr
      @RandomGuy-ej9gr 4 місяці тому +4

      @@addictivealternativeshow the fuck do you show your “humour” in a picture? Common my guy

  • @bouchser000
    @bouchser000 2 роки тому +24

    This is more work, I gave up trying so hard on dating apps and just started approaching chicks in real life lol. A lot easier, no more BS.

    • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
      @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 2 роки тому +2

      Where do you go to approach women?

    • @bouchser000
      @bouchser000 2 роки тому +2

      @@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 They are all over lol. Trails and campus terraces lol.

    • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
      @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 2 роки тому +19

      @@bouchser000 Isn’t it kind of weird going up to random women trying to get somewhere? No hate but I’d just feel kinda weird doing that

    • @bouchser000
      @bouchser000 2 роки тому +7

      It’s the same thing when getting a Girls number at a gym. Do something you enjoy, helps when you and her have same hobby of interests, everything becomes natural then. Your over thinking about this.

    • @GoonCity777
      @GoonCity777 Рік тому +1

      @@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 goes without saying, but if someone is in a small town, they need to move to New York, Miami, Vegas, or similar
      sized city

  • @mcconvey12
    @mcconvey12 2 роки тому +27

    I’m 5’ 8” 132lbs. Problem with my group photos is I’m usually the smaller looking dude

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +13

      You can frame photos so you’re closer to the camera then use an upward angle

    • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
      @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 2 роки тому

      @@jcransome5616 shut upppp

    • @Schitcum
      @Schitcum 2 роки тому +5

      Gotta hit the gym ma boi

    • @Max-om5gh
      @Max-om5gh 13 днів тому

      I’m 5’7/5’8, go get some 3 inch increase trainers, super good and discreet, il only wear them now these days.

  • @mostafaradadi
    @mostafaradadi 2 роки тому +23

    I cracked up the moment you said mirror selfies and specifically shirtless mirror selfies, literally just cancelled 2 out of my 5 photos😭😭

  • @Rajya-Sunetra4573
    @Rajya-Sunetra4573 8 місяців тому +2

    This guy gets it! I was swiping right all day with no luck til I watched this.

  • @phillipxin3109
    @phillipxin3109 2 роки тому +31

    Hunter this is some top quality content. You're giving guys some invaluable advice on how to fix their profiles and get matches and get girls. I'm surprised it's free. I know the channel is kinda small now, but keep putting out stuff like this and you're gonna blow up for sure.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +6

      I just want to see kings winning 👍

    • @SenseiWasabi69420
      @SenseiWasabi69420 2 роки тому +1

      @@WingManPlus we appreciate you king👑

  • @willstokes7266
    @willstokes7266 2 роки тому +17

    Remember guys the male:female ratio on tinder is about 9:1 that's how much competition we have!!

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +7

      And 90% of guys have no idea what they’re doing. Makes it easy for us to stand out :)

    • @JustNo8808
      @JustNo8808 Рік тому

      I think it's 3:1 but either way the numbers are worse than the ratio implies with all the trannies out there. There's no women massively signing up to be dudes when we have such harder lives. The real reason men say they want to become women is because it's an easier life.

  • @hector_0078
    @hector_0078 Рік тому +5

    I barely downloaded tinder, hinge, and bumble like a week ago and I got matches quickly. And I feel like I’m an average looking guy. Don’t know what I’m doing right but sh** I’m not complaining😂. Sum of my photo’s are a little blurry too😅

    • @hector_0078
      @hector_0078 Рік тому

      aye thank you for all the advice in all your videos. I hook up with a girl and had s*x and now have a fwb😏. U out here helping the bois🙏🏼 Really appreciate it brother keep up the good work👌🏽

  • @busiestytnerd5175
    @busiestytnerd5175 Рік тому +13

    The only thing I disagree with is the bio... I went from 1 match a week to 5 to 10 matches a day by expanding my bio to the maximum 500 character limit.

  • @TheAce1991x
    @TheAce1991x Рік тому +11

    Girls only swipe right if he is looking above Average and wearing expensive clothing. lotta women are very materialistic they are looking for that provider 😒

  • @patuel1
    @patuel1 2 роки тому +13

    Awesome content Hunter, really good advice and to the point. Thanks for your work!

  • @jduke93
    @jduke93 Рік тому +8

    All I get is the more heavy chicks liking me on tinder…. I don’t discriminate but they aren’t my type

  • @ReformedJerry
    @ReformedJerry 2 роки тому +19

    I get matches but it’s not the type of the girls I would go after/have had irl I’ll say lol. Maybe because my best attribute is my height which online doesn’t really matter to girls as much

    • @ethanporto1745
      @ethanporto1745 Рік тому +1

      I know what you mean. I’m pretty sure most my matches are from girls that just like that I’m tall or swiped right for my dog 😂😂

  • @Nidra-Ipsita87759
    @Nidra-Ipsita87759 8 місяців тому +1

    Had to recheck my profile after this, yikes no surprise the crickets. Solid advice man 👌

  • @Shukti-Manjyot601
    @Shukti-Manjyot601 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for posting man definitely helped up my tinder game, the matches are rolling in now ya feel

  • @samanshakya3848
    @samanshakya3848 Рік тому +18

    Step 1 : Be attractive

    • @portman8909
      @portman8909 Рік тому +6

      Step 2: It's over.

    • @hellomikie92
      @hellomikie92 Рік тому +1

      Even attractive men gets swiped left hundreds of times.

  • @Cezzlina
    @Cezzlina Рік тому +8

    As a woman, we have no interest in seeing group photos. Anymore than one group photo, it’s an immediate no and I know my female friends all say the same.

    • @o0JamesJutsu0o
      @o0JamesJutsu0o Рік тому +11

      Is men having friends an 'ick' or a red flag or something? I know it's all about you and what you want but my god surely he's allowed to have some form of friendship other than you.

    • @wildberrycrush3901
      @wildberrycrush3901 Рік тому +2

      We're all different. I personally think group photos are nice.

    • @gregkareem9824
      @gregkareem9824 Рік тому

      As a man myself I don't want someone who's 500 pounds hitting me up if I want to date them as a man I don't want a gf who has a high body count

    • @kjdaniels3267
      @kjdaniels3267 Рік тому

      How is it that men having a group of friends is a red flag? Wouldn’t that be a good thing to see that a guy has a social life.

    • @Cezzlina
      @Cezzlina Рік тому +1

      Everyone has friends and some kind of social life. It’s irritating having to work out which one we’re trying to match with. As a rule, my friends and I don’t match with anyone with more than one group photo as inevitably the profile is for the ‘uglier’ one- we want to see what you look like with a proper clear, non-filtered photo (yes, men use filters) not what your friends look like.

  • @freegender930
    @freegender930 11 місяців тому +13

    Like literally are girls even worth this😂

  • @donlive2758
    @donlive2758 9 місяців тому +9

    The biggest mistake men make on tinder is actually being on it at all

  • @MichaelBredy
    @MichaelBredy Рік тому +23

    Rule number 1.
    Never trust a dating coach.
    Rule number 2.
    Never trust a dating coach.
    Rule number 3.
    Never trust a a dating coach that's wearing a hat.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому +2

      It’s giving “Just keep being yourself and eventually girls will notice you”

    • @sl_721
      @sl_721 5 місяців тому +2

      @@WingManPlusfind God

  • @MrSodaBelly
    @MrSodaBelly Рік тому +39

    If you’re above average looking you can break all these rules. Don’t forget that boys.

    • @o0JamesJutsu0o
      @o0JamesJutsu0o Рік тому +1

      Not just that but if you're more than above average looking, you're allowed to have the worst personality possible. 'pedo tinder experiment' proves this.

  • @Allin1Xavi
    @Allin1Xavi Рік тому +11

    First step when going on Tinder: Don’t

  • @toamastar
    @toamastar Рік тому +3

    Oh yeah cos as a guy the only thing i do all day is take selfies in my car... Why tell men not to take selfies when its ok for women? Why two different rules? I get the "put in more effort" thing but i dont think its as deep as changing your entire outfit style, getting a professional photographer or an overpriced phone to take photos of you in the way you showed. To me that seems inauthentic, i dont go around posing like that irl. I feel like if i did all these things my chances would improve like 5% and most of the videos i have watched on this topic generally have a masogyny problem. The dating problem needs to be fixed as a society as a whole, not just introspectively. While I agree that some of the advice you gave is helpful, after putting in all this effort, for the majority that will still get rejected purely because of an algorithm, this will be crushing to self esteem.
    I think the best dating advice i can give is just be kind, be patient, improve yourself not for tinder but for you. Just stick with it, dont let rejection and the algorithm bog you down. Or just delete all the dating apps and try find dates through people your friends know or hang out with. Not that I get much success but id rather stick to that advice than "try to make myself look better for tinder" this whole thing sucks and I hate it. Dating has been turned more and more into some sort of game and we forget we are trying to make genuine human connections. The current zeit geist doesnt favor that at all.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому +5

      Imagine a teacher giving you the answers to the exam and then getting upset by the answers.

  • @epicfuturehouse
    @epicfuturehouse 2 роки тому +5

    I appreciate the video quality. Keep on going!

  • @BeautifullyGolden26
    @BeautifullyGolden26 2 роки тому +18

    I’m a woman and these points are super valid!

    • @freegender930
      @freegender930 11 місяців тому +2

      The point is 80% of men are on attractive and out of that there's only 4% that women will swipe on😂

  • @weho_brian
    @weho_brian Рік тому +3

    For whatever reason after I get 20 matches, I stop getting matches. I have to then delete all my current matches, before I get brand new ones. Does this happen to anyone else? I got no new match for a week and literally just deleted all 20 of my matches, now I have 3 new matches today.

    • @Edithae
      @Edithae Рік тому +2

      Tinder rations your Matches to pressure you to pay for Premium features on the promise of more Matches. But equally, they also don't want you rage-quitting and deleting the App if you have no Matches because they can't make money from disgruntled users who leave the App, so they'll eventually throw you a bone.

    • @ultra.based.27
      @ultra.based.27 Рік тому +1

      The only way to win in tinder is not to play

    • @Voyajer.
      @Voyajer. Рік тому +1

      Is that why it feels like it caps out at 20-21?

  • @mktary434
    @mktary434 Рік тому

    5:55 this is why photos in cars mostly look good - you got windows on every side so there is light from every side and you look good

  • @JustinRyan-ct7tq
    @JustinRyan-ct7tq 3 місяці тому

    Im in such a tough position. Im 35 going through a divorce after 17 years together. Aside from having zero dating experience I had to delete like 17 years of my life. I don't use social media and most of my photos that aren't way to old and irrelevant are with her. And many of them are really good. Im 35 but people think like 27. My network is all spread out all over the place and most are married. I got alot of cousins I to spend time with but its like I have zero photos now and no dating experience and I’m bot wealthy or anything. I got a decent job and all but off one income in unaffordable canada its difficult. I got so much to overcome now.

  • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
    @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 2 роки тому +5

    I don’t really have any friends, is that a dealbreaker with girls? I’m a good looking guy but I just stopped talking to my friends a while ago

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +5

      It's a massive red flag bro.

    • @gunsmokegaloreyt6840
      @gunsmokegaloreyt6840 2 роки тому

      @@WingManPlus They don’t have to know though, and once they get to know me they’ll just realise that I’m confident but introverted and that I value alone time. At least I’m hoping anyway, thats how it went with my last date and she still made out with me etc

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +2

      @@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 it’s not always about getting a short term win. Having no friends is a sign you have a lot of room for improvement in life 👍

    • @rivabutte4818
      @rivabutte4818 Рік тому

      Hello

  • @Lucas-pk8xq
    @Lucas-pk8xq 2 роки тому +4

    after the first few minutes i realized why im bot getting matches
    thats because my youtube profile is also my tinder profile pic

  • @HunterxLewis
    @HunterxLewis 2 роки тому +10

    Fix your tinder kings 👑

  • @mcconvey12
    @mcconvey12 2 роки тому +8

    I’m not paying money to have pictures taken of myself. I’m considering the tripod tho

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +9

      Other guys are

    • @mcconvey12
      @mcconvey12 2 роки тому +1

      @@WingManPlus good point man. I gotta start putting in the effort.

  • @istandwithjkrowling3098
    @istandwithjkrowling3098 Рік тому +4

    The two pictures of James Franco perfectly illustrate how much of a difference a good picture makes.

  • @Tapasi-Wamika7488
    @Tapasi-Wamika7488 8 місяців тому

    No wonder my mom was the only one swiping right lol needed this guidance for sure.

  • @Blazer1408
    @Blazer1408 2 роки тому +4

    Where does he get his insight into the women's selection criterion on Tinder?

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +6

      7+ years of trial and error, thousands of matches, hundreds of dates, asking hundreds of women about their preferences, etc. But when you get to the point I’m at it just becomes common sense.

    • @Blazer1408
      @Blazer1408 2 роки тому +2

      @@WingManPlus thanks for your response. I really appreciate the videos. They really make compelling points.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +1

      @@Blazer1408 my pleasure 👍

  • @anyaashcroft1944
    @anyaashcroft1944 13 днів тому

    😂 im a girl watching this. Absolutely correct, everything said in this video. I swipe and look for faults 😢

  • @Oceanz08
    @Oceanz08 11 місяців тому +5

    Ironic because 90% of all chicks have all their photos be mirror selfies

    • @Turbo_Toad
      @Turbo_Toad 5 місяців тому +2

      Exactly. No effort on their part and they barely swipe right and even respond.

  • @gailainsley6939
    @gailainsley6939 Рік тому +4

    These are one of the best dating advice given to guys on here. Another one, can you tell them to stop taking photos with babies or children especially if they do not have any? We are less likely to believe it’s someone else’s kids. Why put them on there at all if they aren’t yours and you have none? I’ve never understood that and it needs to stop. It’s not cute. It looks quite creepy actually.😂

    • @Edithae
      @Edithae Рік тому +1

      Applies to women too really.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 Рік тому

      @@Edithae I find it hard to believe that Women that DO NOT have kids will post a photo of them WITH kids? 👀Why would they???? Most guys already make it clear that they do not want ‘single mothers’ to the point that even the ‘single mothers’ are told to lie about having kids. So why would they do that? 👀 however?, I saw a video by some UA-camr who told men to put photos of kids up on their profile because it makes women feel ‘some sort of way’ 👀😂 I had to tell her to stop telling men that. It’s bad advice. We DO NOT want to see men with children on their profiles (if they have none). It’s creepy 😂😴

  • @bearieroblox6451
    @bearieroblox6451 Рік тому +1

    Bro why the hell am I making every single one of these mistakes. Except for the dress well one.

  • @sushilover3206
    @sushilover3206 2 роки тому +1

    I just downloaded tinder to meet people while traveling and don't know why I'm watching this video xD

  • @TomorrowGaming99
    @TomorrowGaming99 2 місяці тому

    Dude i did everything wrong, going back to change it, thanks bro

  • @_tyleake
    @_tyleake 8 місяців тому +1

    I gotta comment on this because around 2019-2021 I would have 99+likes match with thousands of women and since 2022-2024 all these dating apps keep catering towards women and now I barely match with maybe 1 person every other day 😂😂it has nothing to do with looks the algorithm is fucked they only care about money

  • @MoonlightGraham0
    @MoonlightGraham0 Рік тому +1

    So I spent the past 2 days swiping on woman and I didn’t get one I know I’m not ugly maybe woman’s standards have gone up or is tinder not meant for everyone

    • @Ludo045
      @Ludo045 Рік тому +3

      This video is freaking nonsense because you can do all these not and yet not getting matches.
      And honestly bio this, bio that, photo with dogs bla bla bla.. as if women really care if you are with your buddy in a photo or not.

  • @Sulalita-Kapila285
    @Sulalita-Kapila285 8 місяців тому

    When he mentioned group photos I felt attacked 😂 hope my boys dont see this video now haha

  • @jad1910
    @jad1910 2 роки тому +1

    I'm doing all this still not getting any. Do you offer any promos for your Tinder profile review?

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +1

      Use promo code “baddie” 👍

  • @hellomikie92
    @hellomikie92 Рік тому +1

    Many women actually don't care if you're a loner or if your social life is small, because mysterious and adventurous guys are also a huge turn on for women.

  • @adamsaldana5462
    @adamsaldana5462 Рік тому +1

    This is fantastic advice

  • @TheMasterGamer94Meck
    @TheMasterGamer94Meck Рік тому +1

    I just realized I had too many selfies and a long ass bio lol

  • @gabeclark3684
    @gabeclark3684 Рік тому +1

    So pretty much. I’m just ugly☠️ thanks bro

  • @keybone87au
    @keybone87au 2 роки тому +2

    My photos are HD and lifestyle portraits. And hardly get worthy matches what's up

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +2

      Time for a profile review buddy

    • @KaziKami
      @KaziKami 2 роки тому

      1 you need a glow up
      2 idk

  • @Ballcheese289
    @Ballcheese289 2 роки тому +6

    Bro giving all this advice literally don’t be ugly

  • @DavidPutraØP
    @DavidPutraØP Рік тому +1

    I want a tinder profile to just get a real friendship. I don't trust relationships😢

  • @StaerkYT
    @StaerkYT Рік тому +3

    In short - "what you look like"

  • @TheJackFlash
    @TheJackFlash Рік тому

    Solid advice

  • @fhdb6296
    @fhdb6296 2 роки тому +1

    Is this a good idea to put poems in my bio,which i wrote about myself,and what kinda girl i am looking for?

    • @Snoflakes_1
      @Snoflakes_1 2 роки тому +4

      Definitely not. Nobody wants to read a poem someone wrote about themselves. The part where you describe what kind of girl you're looking for sounds original and appealing though

    • @brendanmullen5813
      @brendanmullen5813 2 роки тому +3

      That’s so cringey

    • @gregkareem9824
      @gregkareem9824 Рік тому

      No

  • @itsViirtueYEAH
    @itsViirtueYEAH 2 роки тому +5

    pro tip: go listen to women about what they looks for on dating profiles

  • @matteobenda7028
    @matteobenda7028 9 місяців тому

    Should I link my insta account with my tinder?

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  9 місяців тому

      Not a good idea. It gives her way more opportunities to see something she doesn't like & reject you

    • @matteobenda7028
      @matteobenda7028 9 місяців тому

      @@WingManPlus appreciate it thanks

  • @ShootingStarsAstrology
    @ShootingStarsAstrology Рік тому +5

    Downvoted once I heard “to show girls you’re not a loner”. Such an egotistical thing to say. Some people are loners, and they like it that way. Me personally I have one real friend and that’s all I need. However you point out that you think there’s something wrong with that. So I’m not interested in finishing the video. Even beside this comment, you sound really cocky and act like you’re an all-knowing God in general. Peace out man. I hope your soul can go through some much needed growth.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому +3

      Sounds like you heard something that cut deep. My channel isn’t about being a yes-man to make people feel better. It’s to keep it real and show guys how women perceive the image you put out there. If that’s not for you no worries buddy best of luck 👌

    • @TheosLogos
      @TheosLogos Рік тому +4

      i like how he replies with even more ego lol

    • @ShootingStarsAstrology
      @ShootingStarsAstrology Рік тому

      @@TheosLogos lmao

    • @ShootingStarsAstrology
      @ShootingStarsAstrology Рік тому

      @@WingManPlus no one said you had to make anyone feel better - I think the point is just not putting out your negativity onto a platform like UA-cam where people go for positivity and entertainment lol. Yeah some girls do think that, and you probably think the same honestly don’t kid yourself. You could’ve said something like “it’s good to have photos with friends to change things up about the first impression” without mentioning the loner stuff lmao. No hate I’m just always being real too buddy 👌

    • @VeniVidiVandaliAuz
      @VeniVidiVandaliAuz Рік тому

      In today's day and age you can't come across as a social outcast. You can get away with it if you have the looks but if you're below a Chadlite you need social proof.

  • @kevinbergman8532
    @kevinbergman8532 7 місяців тому +1

    This is by far the best video I've seen on this. Most advice out there sucks, but you explain it clearly: women are picky and entitled and that's that.

  • @carsonperrine2914
    @carsonperrine2914 Рік тому +3

    Suggests cheap clothes then proceeds to list h&m and zara

  • @sleepingcoconut7164
    @sleepingcoconut7164 8 місяців тому +3

    This video just shows how lonely men are and how common it is. Very sad. Also great video.

  • @charliestrohm9919
    @charliestrohm9919 Рік тому +1

    Don’t have tinder. Just wanted to know

  • @jellyfish4424
    @jellyfish4424 2 роки тому

    What's a good one liner

  • @t-lo3707
    @t-lo3707 2 роки тому +3

    I’m into thrifting and bathing ape sneakers from 2007

  • @ZBooneBeats
    @ZBooneBeats Рік тому +1

    I never knew women were looking for reasons to reject guys. I thought they were more forgiving I guess

  • @Vilify3d
    @Vilify3d Рік тому

    Bro where was this video when I was 17-20 Lmfao💀😂

  • @Subrata-Manjusri71168
    @Subrata-Manjusri71168 8 місяців тому

    Cant hurt to give kahma a whirl. My blurry bathroom selfie aint doing it - maybe their AI can cook me up a winner.

  • @rodbelding9523
    @rodbelding9523 2 роки тому +2

    Thing is I'm bald and not the good kind of bald, I need to wear a hat.

  • @masonhiggins5437
    @masonhiggins5437 Рік тому +2

    If I smiled then my teeth would be a red flag

  • @Smortthspeaksenglish
    @Smortthspeaksenglish 9 місяців тому +1

    TLDR anyone, i really dont wanna go through a 12 minutes video

  • @andre3k658
    @andre3k658 2 роки тому +2

    Can listing my height be an issue. I’m 5’6

    • @hazelbell6984
      @hazelbell6984 2 роки тому +1

      I wouldn’t

    • @someguy752
      @someguy752 2 роки тому +7

      I think you should, I'm 5'4 and it's best to weed out the girls who hate short guys sooner rather than when they see you in person.

    • @dionafeworki2387
      @dionafeworki2387 Рік тому

      Best too get a short girl 5 foot 3 5 foot 2
      5 foot 6 want tall dudes 6 feet

    • @VeniVidiVandaliAuz
      @VeniVidiVandaliAuz Рік тому +1

      Face is more important than height.

    • @gregkareem9824
      @gregkareem9824 Рік тому +1

      Ah yea no offense but your screwed

  • @sbrensbeve2388
    @sbrensbeve2388 Рік тому

    im not gonna lie, this might sound like some depressed ahh quote but trust me its not, you said "its becuase guys often dont show themselves at their best" but to me its more important for a girl to like me even at my worst

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому +5

      I get that bro but unfortunately dating apps are unforgiving. It’s too competitive for you not to put in the effort.

    • @sbrensbeve2388
      @sbrensbeve2388 Рік тому +1

      @@WingManPlus fair enough, I would count myself as a very competitive person but only in things I'm good at, and I'm not exactly good at "looking good"😂
      But great video non the less I'm sure this helped a lot of people!

    • @imprwikiimprwiki6898
      @imprwikiimprwiki6898 Рік тому

      But they will later. You don’t show the worst at the start, be a mystery

  • @Keys879
    @Keys879 Рік тому +2

    You know why? Because on these apps you are COMMODITY. You are bought and sold. They hoist up the best advertised and throw out the average. Just like the supermarkets and fruit. GET OFF THE MATCH GROUP APPS. It's degenerate. Very few people find long-term relationships on them. They are abusing the human psyche. Spare yourself. Get out there in the real world.

  • @garryk5820
    @garryk5820 Рік тому +1

    I have none of these mistakes and i still get no matches

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому +1

      you sure you're putting your best foot forward? Most guys take the 5-6 "least crappy" photos from their camera roll and understandably get nothing

    • @garryk5820
      @garryk5820 Рік тому

      @@WingManPlus mine r all from photoset. I can send them u privately

  • @kingnate4382
    @kingnate4382 Рік тому +1

    How mirror selfies bad

  • @noamozeri5057
    @noamozeri5057 2 роки тому +1

    “All you need to do is make a good impression ypu know make me laugh make me smile or at the very least make me say ph this girls cute (:”
    Bio done ✅

  • @Gustavo-gy3dq
    @Gustavo-gy3dq Рік тому +1

    Man said grooming is so important 😂

  • @davycrockett8886
    @davycrockett8886 Рік тому +1

    This is advice for meeting girls, but not putting info about yourself will just result in you meeting incompatible people.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому

      The algorithm doesn't work for tailored profiles. It shows the top men to all the women, while 80% of men are invisible. Need to play the game to win

    • @jhfdhgvnbjm75
      @jhfdhgvnbjm75 4 місяці тому

      @@WingManPlus Then F! the game, its not worth playing or paying for.

  • @manojsundararajan6166
    @manojsundararajan6166 2 роки тому +1

    golden advices

  • @Pluto_060
    @Pluto_060 3 місяці тому

    "show that your not a loner"
    but i am a loner, like full time 😭🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @thekekronomicon590
    @thekekronomicon590 Місяць тому

    I have 2 friends and they are absolute dog shit at taking pictures should i just hire a photographer?

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Місяць тому

      Yeah but if you’re going to, you should hire one who specializes in dating photos for men.

  • @philophobia9417
    @philophobia9417 Рік тому

    Dude says "red flag" every 5 seconds feels like I'm talking to a 14 year old girl

  • @tonirrolquimiguitau745
    @tonirrolquimiguitau745 9 місяців тому +1

    How to get girls on tinder:
    Step 1: Be good looking
    Step 2: Don’t be subhuman tier male
    In the end, obviously it’s all about looks. Nothing for me there…

  • @jholmes9154
    @jholmes9154 Рік тому

    I'm actually the same way about group photos lol

  • @austinlohmann4008
    @austinlohmann4008 9 місяців тому

    Is tinder platinum really worth the money?

  • @djohnsveress6616
    @djohnsveress6616 Рік тому +1

    Came here half expecting it to be a douchey alpha like commentary on how to get bitches. Yeah actually really good tips man. The only thing that bothers me deeply is the photo, of having others shoot photos, like at the end it says to basically just hang out with friends so your expressions, such as happiness will be authentic wich makes a lot of sense but then.. In practice..
    I mean.. In practice you just pay enormous cash to get something reasonable shot by professionals .

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому

      I’ve taken so many 10/10 photos on iphone. Super easy

  • @vytorbrb3568
    @vytorbrb3568 Рік тому

    8:07 because there is no benz man

  • @BeatenTrackUK
    @BeatenTrackUK Рік тому +8

    lol umm seems easier to just go out meet women then,,,
    I harly ever go out but women always show their interest, not long ago 2 girls on the street shouted at me: "daaaamn baby you look good!!! and just 2 days ago women were saying how good looking I am at a bar... my gf was 10/10 in my books (sadly she passed away)
    But I cant get a match on Tinder at all.

    • @petel252
      @petel252 Рік тому +3

      My condolences; mine did, as well, same issue. Just watching to get ideas since I’ve never done this prior.

  • @vanyadavydov2403
    @vanyadavydov2403 2 роки тому +4

    Only one reason. You don’t pay and you don’t get matched. Simple

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  2 роки тому +5

      Bro this is such a bad take. Just fix your profile and stop making excuses

  • @firestarterman6889
    @firestarterman6889 Рік тому

    Why would I care If women think something is a red flag. Im a red flag and In women I like only red flags.. Im not looking for a decent woman.

  • @lastskywalker2481
    @lastskywalker2481 11 місяців тому

    You need to maximise your uniqueness... you will not qualify to 80%, 50% or even 10% of women if you put your true slef out there, but to the ones that matter.

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  11 місяців тому

      Nice theory, but dating apps don’t work that way. They show the top profiles to every women and the rest of men who are “being themselves” are invisible. To win the game you need to build a broadly appealing profile or the algorithm will wreck you. Gg

    • @lastskywalker2481
      @lastskywalker2481 11 місяців тому

      @@WingManPlus as i don't want kids, my profile will not hit a remarkable large audience. my pics are good. tested via photofeeler. Text is short. But I am below 180cm ... so I am out of luck if any girl uses filter.
      If the algorithm is so shitty I might just stay away from apps.

  • @kostastoliopoulos938
    @kostastoliopoulos938 Рік тому

    I haven't made any of these mistakes so I am just ugly lol

    • @WingManPlus
      @WingManPlus  Рік тому

      Your Profile photo is literally a tourist pose bro

  • @comradeautukov977
    @comradeautukov977 Рік тому +1

    Alright so it's looking like I'm going to have to do shit the old fashioned way its going to be easier and cheaper