I hate that we as guys have to look up tutorials and guides for online dating, and meanwhile girls could literally use a picture of a cat and get 5 times as many matches as the avg guy
Sometimes all we can do is focus on maximizing the things that are inside our control and letting the chips fall where they may. Dating apps are definitely easier for women, but that’s why most men don’t put in the effort. The ones that do are rewarded for it 👍
I'm at a loss with tinder. I've been on it for years and I get basically no matches, and then the other day I finally did. I messaged her and we talked for a good while. We had common interests and she was very easy to talk to and everything was going great. Then out of the blue she stops responding and unmatches me. I just don't even know anymore.
Happens to most of us. Tinder girls will talk to multiple guys at once and always go for the little boys. Honestly bro, see it as a win for you. Those type of girls are low quality in reality. In today's society/culture she is a queen but to the men looking for a quality woman and relationship, garbage.
Just uninstall and meet girls irl, I saw basically many spending lot of many paying professional photographers to get the best pics posing like models. So having a pic with phone cant get you anywhere. Tinder girls judge you by the picture. Nothing else matter
Yeah. I’m just done dating. It’s too easy to find my flaws and it’s either rejection or no response because it was a validation match. I’m starting to think I’m too old for dating and not meant for anyone.
I know the feeling brother. Just keep your head up and get out and do stuff rather than online dating. Online dating really seems to just be for people that are young, dumb, and full of you know what. Getting out and being active I’ve found is a much better way of meeting people. You’re much less likely to be rejected by someone you have a good face to face interaction with.
People like this attempting to sell courses to men who obviously are struggling in life for one reason or another and push problems which in actual fact essentially aren't the main reason or a reason at all why they're struggling and probably are the reason why so many of his "followers" struggle with mental health. You're not getting matches on tinder for any of the above reasons. Fact is most women don't give a shit what's in your bio, how you pose or what the quality of your photos are lol Facts are that tinder used to be a free for all where good looking people matched good looking people and vice versa. From personal experience anywhere from 3-5 years ago I would create a profile and on the same day receive 200-300 matches (Not likes) and countless superlikes (I live on a tiny island btw not even In a busy city or area). The women would range anywhere from 7s to 9s (You'll never find 10s on dating apps) and I wouldn't spend more than 20minutes on it that same day. Fast forward a couple years and whenever I make a profile I receive anywhere from 20-30 matches on day 1 and average 2-3 a day for the remainder of time I spend on the app. I don't look any different, if anything I wear nicer clothes, drive a more expensive car and look better than I did a few years ago. It's tinder that changed. It's essentially a pay to play game nowadays, it's over saturated by inactive profiles and you don't even show up for most of the women you like nowadays. It doesn't necessarily mean youre ugly, Uninteresting or doing anything wrong. It's just the app that's changed. Again this is coming from someone whose dated countless super models and models alike (Miss Italy included), high-end escorts, TV & Radio personalities, Artists who average millions of views per song release... In general just some very in demand, beautiful women.
Exactly. I've had enough if grifters such as this guy who claim there's some tricks you can use to get more matches. All that matters is having a good face. If you fit that criteria than you'll do well on dating apps.
@@VeniVidiVandaliAuz”Good face” guy here.. it does certainly help, but you still can’t just post anything no effort and get quality/any matches. “Ugly guys” can get women’s attention in other ways, humor, art, talents, money, etc.
It’s the same thing when getting a Girls number at a gym. Do something you enjoy, helps when you and her have same hobby of interests, everything becomes natural then. Your over thinking about this.
*A clear, high-quality profile pic that shows you doing something you enjoy (like hiking or cooking) instantly tells a story and makes you stand out. No need to look like a model - just show a bit of your personality!*
Literally going through my tinder as your video played. I'm a semi driver over the road...I keep myself healthy and active. I'll get more pictures as you indicated might help. Thank you.
I think it's 3:1 but either way the numbers are worse than the ratio implies with all the trannies out there. There's no women massively signing up to be dudes when we have such harder lives. The real reason men say they want to become women is because it's an easier life.
The only thing I disagree with is the bio... I went from 1 match a week to 5 to 10 matches a day by expanding my bio to the maximum 500 character limit.
Girls only swipe right if he is looking above Average and wearing expensive clothing. lotta women are very materialistic they are looking for that provider 😒
Hunter this is some top quality content. You're giving guys some invaluable advice on how to fix their profiles and get matches and get girls. I'm surprised it's free. I know the channel is kinda small now, but keep putting out stuff like this and you're gonna blow up for sure.
I barely downloaded tinder, hinge, and bumble like a week ago and I got matches quickly. And I feel like I’m an average looking guy. Don’t know what I’m doing right but sh** I’m not complaining😂. Sum of my photo’s are a little blurry too😅
aye thank you for all the advice in all your videos. I hook up with a girl and had s*x and now have a fwb😏. U out here helping the bois🙏🏼 Really appreciate it brother keep up the good work👌🏽
Not just that but if you're more than above average looking, you're allowed to have the worst personality possible. 'pedo tinder experiment' proves this.
I get matches but it’s not the type of the girls I would go after/have had irl I’ll say lol. Maybe because my best attribute is my height which online doesn’t really matter to girls as much
Oh yeah cos as a guy the only thing i do all day is take selfies in my car... Why tell men not to take selfies when its ok for women? Why two different rules? I get the "put in more effort" thing but i dont think its as deep as changing your entire outfit style, getting a professional photographer or an overpriced phone to take photos of you in the way you showed. To me that seems inauthentic, i dont go around posing like that irl. I feel like if i did all these things my chances would improve like 5% and most of the videos i have watched on this topic generally have a masogyny problem. The dating problem needs to be fixed as a society as a whole, not just introspectively. While I agree that some of the advice you gave is helpful, after putting in all this effort, for the majority that will still get rejected purely because of an algorithm, this will be crushing to self esteem. I think the best dating advice i can give is just be kind, be patient, improve yourself not for tinder but for you. Just stick with it, dont let rejection and the algorithm bog you down. Or just delete all the dating apps and try find dates through people your friends know or hang out with. Not that I get much success but id rather stick to that advice than "try to make myself look better for tinder" this whole thing sucks and I hate it. Dating has been turned more and more into some sort of game and we forget we are trying to make genuine human connections. The current zeit geist doesnt favor that at all.
As a woman, we have no interest in seeing group photos. Anymore than one group photo, it’s an immediate no and I know my female friends all say the same.
Is men having friends an 'ick' or a red flag or something? I know it's all about you and what you want but my god surely he's allowed to have some form of friendship other than you.
Everyone has friends and some kind of social life. It’s irritating having to work out which one we’re trying to match with. As a rule, my friends and I don’t match with anyone with more than one group photo as inevitably the profile is for the ‘uglier’ one- we want to see what you look like with a proper clear, non-filtered photo (yes, men use filters) not what your friends look like.
Many women actually don't care if you're a loner or if your social life is small, because mysterious and adventurous guys are also a huge turn on for women.
For whatever reason after I get 20 matches, I stop getting matches. I have to then delete all my current matches, before I get brand new ones. Does this happen to anyone else? I got no new match for a week and literally just deleted all 20 of my matches, now I have 3 new matches today.
Tinder rations your Matches to pressure you to pay for Premium features on the promise of more Matches. But equally, they also don't want you rage-quitting and deleting the App if you have no Matches because they can't make money from disgruntled users who leave the App, so they'll eventually throw you a bone.
These are one of the best dating advice given to guys on here. Another one, can you tell them to stop taking photos with babies or children especially if they do not have any? We are less likely to believe it’s someone else’s kids. Why put them on there at all if they aren’t yours and you have none? I’ve never understood that and it needs to stop. It’s not cute. It looks quite creepy actually.😂
@@Edithae I find it hard to believe that Women that DO NOT have kids will post a photo of them WITH kids? 👀Why would they???? Most guys already make it clear that they do not want ‘single mothers’ to the point that even the ‘single mothers’ are told to lie about having kids. So why would they do that? 👀 however?, I saw a video by some UA-camr who told men to put photos of kids up on their profile because it makes women feel ‘some sort of way’ 👀😂 I had to tell her to stop telling men that. It’s bad advice. We DO NOT want to see men with children on their profiles (if they have none). It’s creepy 😂😴
I’ve gotten 86 adds in 2 weeks and to be honest, it’s easier to find girls in real life. I can make conversation online but it’s just not as easy and doesn’t flow like it does in person.
Im in such a tough position. Im 35 going through a divorce after 17 years together. Aside from having zero dating experience I had to delete like 17 years of my life. I don't use social media and most of my photos that aren't way to old and irrelevant are with her. And many of them are really good. Im 35 but people think like 27. My network is all spread out all over the place and most are married. I got alot of cousins I to spend time with but its like I have zero photos now and no dating experience and I’m bot wealthy or anything. I got a decent job and all but off one income in unaffordable canada its difficult. I got so much to overcome now.
@@WingManPlus They don’t have to know though, and once they get to know me they’ll just realise that I’m confident but introverted and that I value alone time. At least I’m hoping anyway, thats how it went with my last date and she still made out with me etc
This is by far the best video I've seen on this. Most advice out there sucks, but you explain it clearly: women are picky and entitled and that's that.
7+ years of trial and error, thousands of matches, hundreds of dates, asking hundreds of women about their preferences, etc. But when you get to the point I’m at it just becomes common sense.
Rule number 1. Never trust a dating coach. Rule number 2. Never trust a dating coach. Rule number 3. Never trust a a dating coach that's wearing a hat.
Downvoted once I heard “to show girls you’re not a loner”. Such an egotistical thing to say. Some people are loners, and they like it that way. Me personally I have one real friend and that’s all I need. However you point out that you think there’s something wrong with that. So I’m not interested in finishing the video. Even beside this comment, you sound really cocky and act like you’re an all-knowing God in general. Peace out man. I hope your soul can go through some much needed growth.
Sounds like you heard something that cut deep. My channel isn’t about being a yes-man to make people feel better. It’s to keep it real and show guys how women perceive the image you put out there. If that’s not for you no worries buddy best of luck 👌
@@WingManPlus no one said you had to make anyone feel better - I think the point is just not putting out your negativity onto a platform like UA-cam where people go for positivity and entertainment lol. Yeah some girls do think that, and you probably think the same honestly don’t kid yourself. You could’ve said something like “it’s good to have photos with friends to change things up about the first impression” without mentioning the loner stuff lmao. No hate I’m just always being real too buddy 👌
In today's day and age you can't come across as a social outcast. You can get away with it if you have the looks but if you're below a Chadlite you need social proof.
I gotta comment on this because around 2019-2021 I would have 99+likes match with thousands of women and since 2022-2024 all these dating apps keep catering towards women and now I barely match with maybe 1 person every other day 😂😂it has nothing to do with looks the algorithm is fucked they only care about money
So I spent the past 2 days swiping on woman and I didn’t get one I know I’m not ugly maybe woman’s standards have gone up or is tinder not meant for everyone
This video is freaking nonsense because you can do all these not and yet not getting matches. And honestly bio this, bio that, photo with dogs bla bla bla.. as if women really care if you are with your buddy in a photo or not.
Wrong! Women are concerned about their reputation... They won't admit they're extremely shallow and personality means almost nothing. They tell you what they believe makes themselves look good and genuine.
How to get girls on tinder: Step 1: Be good looking Step 2: Don’t be subhuman tier male In the end, obviously it’s all about looks. Nothing for me there…
You know why? Because on these apps you are COMMODITY. You are bought and sold. They hoist up the best advertised and throw out the average. Just like the supermarkets and fruit. GET OFF THE MATCH GROUP APPS. It's degenerate. Very few people find long-term relationships on them. They are abusing the human psyche. Spare yourself. Get out there in the real world.
im not gonna lie, this might sound like some depressed ahh quote but trust me its not, you said "its becuase guys often dont show themselves at their best" but to me its more important for a girl to like me even at my worst
@@WingManPlus fair enough, I would count myself as a very competitive person but only in things I'm good at, and I'm not exactly good at "looking good"😂 But great video non the less I'm sure this helped a lot of people!
Definitely not. Nobody wants to read a poem someone wrote about themselves. The part where you describe what kind of girl you're looking for sounds original and appealing though
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I hate that we as guys have to look up tutorials and guides for online dating, and meanwhile girls could literally use a picture of a cat and get 5 times as many matches as the avg guy
Sometimes all we can do is focus on maximizing the things that are inside our control and letting the chips fall where they may. Dating apps are definitely easier for women, but that’s why most men don’t put in the effort. The ones that do are rewarded for it 👍
My guy speaking facts!
I've swiped until I've run out of profiles to swipe in a 10 mile radius in a suburban area. 2 matches, no responses.
@@AroundTheBest same brother
@@AroundTheBest Same, ffs what do these chicks WANT
“Girls only need one reason to swipe left, and you just gave them like 15” fuck you’re right lmao
Someone had to say it
I'm at a loss with tinder. I've been on it for years and I get basically no matches, and then the other day I finally did. I messaged her and we talked for a good while. We had common interests and she was very easy to talk to and everything was going great. Then out of the blue she stops responding and unmatches me. I just don't even know anymore.
They have literally thousands of options.
that's every girl bro. Keep your head up king
Then she wasn’t the one. Not the biggest L brother you’ll get there eventually. I promise
Happens to most of us. Tinder girls will talk to multiple guys at once and always go for the little boys. Honestly bro, see it as a win for you. Those type of girls are low quality in reality. In today's society/culture she is a queen but to the men looking for a quality woman and relationship, garbage.
Just uninstall and meet girls irl, I saw basically many spending lot of many paying professional photographers to get the best pics posing like models. So having a pic with phone cant get you anywhere. Tinder girls judge you by the picture. Nothing else matter
Yeah. I’m just done dating. It’s too easy to find my flaws and it’s either rejection or no response because it was a validation match. I’m starting to think I’m too old for dating and not meant for anyone.
Speak to people in real life. Lots of people. Join clubs and communities, Tinder is rubbish.
I know the feeling brother. Just keep your head up and get out and do stuff rather than online dating. Online dating really seems to just be for people that are young, dumb, and full of you know what. Getting out and being active I’ve found is a much better way of meeting people. You’re much less likely to be rejected by someone you have a good face to face interaction with.
Also consider: with everything we are hearing, what are you really missing out on? That's what I have started asking myself.
People like this attempting to sell courses to men who obviously are struggling in life for one reason or another and push problems which in actual fact essentially aren't the main reason
or a reason at all why they're struggling and probably are the reason why so many of his "followers" struggle with mental health. You're not getting matches on tinder for any of the above reasons. Fact is most women don't give a shit what's in your bio, how you pose or what the quality of your photos are lol
Facts are that tinder used to be a free for all where good looking people matched good looking people and vice versa. From personal experience anywhere from 3-5 years ago I would create a profile and on the same day receive 200-300 matches (Not likes) and countless superlikes (I live on a tiny island btw not even In a busy city or area). The women would range anywhere from 7s to 9s (You'll never find 10s on dating apps) and I wouldn't spend more than 20minutes on it that same day. Fast forward a couple years and whenever I make a profile I receive anywhere from 20-30 matches on day 1 and average 2-3 a day for the remainder of time I spend on the app. I don't look any different, if anything I wear nicer clothes, drive a more expensive car and look better than I did a few years ago. It's tinder that changed. It's essentially a pay to play game nowadays, it's over saturated by inactive profiles and you don't even show up for most of the women you like nowadays. It doesn't necessarily mean youre ugly, Uninteresting or doing anything wrong. It's just the app that's changed. Again this is coming from someone whose dated countless super models and models alike (Miss Italy included), high-end escorts, TV & Radio personalities, Artists who average millions of views per song release... In general just some very in demand, beautiful women.
Fix the flaws. Seriously, that’s the key
All that was wrong was my bad photos and boring bio. Now Im matching like crazy, thanks dude!
You have to be good looking, Tinder is all about looks no matter.
Yep
Exactly. I've had enough if grifters such as this guy who claim there's some tricks you can use to get more matches. All that matters is having a good face. If you fit that criteria than you'll do well on dating apps.
@@VeniVidiVandaliAuz”Good face” guy here.. it does certainly help, but you still can’t just post anything no effort and get quality/any matches. “Ugly guys” can get women’s attention in other ways, humor, art, talents, money, etc.
Not true I'm hot and don't get a whole lot of quality likes.
@@addictivealternativeshow the fuck do you show your “humour” in a picture? Common my guy
I’m 5’ 8” 132lbs. Problem with my group photos is I’m usually the smaller looking dude
You can frame photos so you’re closer to the camera then use an upward angle
@@jcransome5616 shut upppp
Gotta hit the gym ma boi
I’m 5’7/5’8, go get some 3 inch increase trainers, super good and discreet, il only wear them now these days.
This is more work, I gave up trying so hard on dating apps and just started approaching chicks in real life lol. A lot easier, no more BS.
Where do you go to approach women?
@@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 They are all over lol. Trails and campus terraces lol.
@@bouchser000 Isn’t it kind of weird going up to random women trying to get somewhere? No hate but I’d just feel kinda weird doing that
It’s the same thing when getting a Girls number at a gym. Do something you enjoy, helps when you and her have same hobby of interests, everything becomes natural then. Your over thinking about this.
@@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 goes without saying, but if someone is in a small town, they need to move to New York, Miami, Vegas, or similar
sized city
*A clear, high-quality profile pic that shows you doing something you enjoy (like hiking or cooking) instantly tells a story and makes you stand out. No need to look like a model - just show a bit of your personality!*
Did chat gpt write this comment 😂
This guy gets it! I was swiping right all day with no luck til I watched this.
Literally going through my tinder as your video played. I'm a semi driver over the road...I keep myself healthy and active. I'll get more pictures as you indicated might help. Thank you.
I cracked up the moment you said mirror selfies and specifically shirtless mirror selfies, literally just cancelled 2 out of my 5 photos😭😭
Remember guys the male:female ratio on tinder is about 9:1 that's how much competition we have!!
And 90% of guys have no idea what they’re doing. Makes it easy for us to stand out :)
I think it's 3:1 but either way the numbers are worse than the ratio implies with all the trannies out there. There's no women massively signing up to be dudes when we have such harder lives. The real reason men say they want to become women is because it's an easier life.
The only thing I disagree with is the bio... I went from 1 match a week to 5 to 10 matches a day by expanding my bio to the maximum 500 character limit.
Girls only swipe right if he is looking above Average and wearing expensive clothing. lotta women are very materialistic they are looking for that provider 😒
Hunter this is some top quality content. You're giving guys some invaluable advice on how to fix their profiles and get matches and get girls. I'm surprised it's free. I know the channel is kinda small now, but keep putting out stuff like this and you're gonna blow up for sure.
I just want to see kings winning 👍
@@WingManPlus we appreciate you king👑
Step 1 : Be attractive
Step 2: It's over.
Even attractive men gets swiped left hundreds of times.
Fucking true. I gave up on online dating to be honest. I started going out IRL and meeting women so much easier like waaaayyy easier.
Where tf do u go @@firexallst4rz277
The biggest mistake men make on tinder is actually being on it at all
All I get is the more heavy chicks liking me on tinder…. I don’t discriminate but they aren’t my type
Are you Jewish?
I barely downloaded tinder, hinge, and bumble like a week ago and I got matches quickly. And I feel like I’m an average looking guy. Don’t know what I’m doing right but sh** I’m not complaining😂. Sum of my photo’s are a little blurry too😅
aye thank you for all the advice in all your videos. I hook up with a girl and had s*x and now have a fwb😏. U out here helping the bois🙏🏼 Really appreciate it brother keep up the good work👌🏽
Liar.
Had to recheck my profile after this, yikes no surprise the crickets. Solid advice man 👌
If you’re above average looking you can break all these rules. Don’t forget that boys.
Not just that but if you're more than above average looking, you're allowed to have the worst personality possible. 'pedo tinder experiment' proves this.
Like literally are girls even worth this😂
No.
No
First step when going on Tinder: Don’t
Lol
5:55 this is why photos in cars mostly look good - you got windows on every side so there is light from every side and you look good
I get matches but it’s not the type of the girls I would go after/have had irl I’ll say lol. Maybe because my best attribute is my height which online doesn’t really matter to girls as much
I know what you mean. I’m pretty sure most my matches are from girls that just like that I’m tall or swiped right for my dog 😂😂
I’m a woman and these points are super valid!
The point is 80% of men are on attractive and out of that there's only 4% that women will swipe on😂
Thanks for posting man definitely helped up my tinder game, the matches are rolling in now ya feel
Oh yeah cos as a guy the only thing i do all day is take selfies in my car... Why tell men not to take selfies when its ok for women? Why two different rules? I get the "put in more effort" thing but i dont think its as deep as changing your entire outfit style, getting a professional photographer or an overpriced phone to take photos of you in the way you showed. To me that seems inauthentic, i dont go around posing like that irl. I feel like if i did all these things my chances would improve like 5% and most of the videos i have watched on this topic generally have a masogyny problem. The dating problem needs to be fixed as a society as a whole, not just introspectively. While I agree that some of the advice you gave is helpful, after putting in all this effort, for the majority that will still get rejected purely because of an algorithm, this will be crushing to self esteem.
I think the best dating advice i can give is just be kind, be patient, improve yourself not for tinder but for you. Just stick with it, dont let rejection and the algorithm bog you down. Or just delete all the dating apps and try find dates through people your friends know or hang out with. Not that I get much success but id rather stick to that advice than "try to make myself look better for tinder" this whole thing sucks and I hate it. Dating has been turned more and more into some sort of game and we forget we are trying to make genuine human connections. The current zeit geist doesnt favor that at all.
Imagine a teacher giving you the answers to the exam and then getting upset by the answers.
As a woman, we have no interest in seeing group photos. Anymore than one group photo, it’s an immediate no and I know my female friends all say the same.
Is men having friends an 'ick' or a red flag or something? I know it's all about you and what you want but my god surely he's allowed to have some form of friendship other than you.
We're all different. I personally think group photos are nice.
As a man myself I don't want someone who's 500 pounds hitting me up if I want to date them as a man I don't want a gf who has a high body count
How is it that men having a group of friends is a red flag? Wouldn’t that be a good thing to see that a guy has a social life.
Everyone has friends and some kind of social life. It’s irritating having to work out which one we’re trying to match with. As a rule, my friends and I don’t match with anyone with more than one group photo as inevitably the profile is for the ‘uglier’ one- we want to see what you look like with a proper clear, non-filtered photo (yes, men use filters) not what your friends look like.
after the first few minutes i realized why im bot getting matches
thats because my youtube profile is also my tinder profile pic
😂😂😂
Awesome content Hunter, really good advice and to the point. Thanks for your work!
I appreciate that!
The two pictures of James Franco perfectly illustrate how much of a difference a good picture makes.
In short - "what you look like"
I appreciate the video quality. Keep on going!
Fix your tinder kings 👑
Many women actually don't care if you're a loner or if your social life is small, because mysterious and adventurous guys are also a huge turn on for women.
For whatever reason after I get 20 matches, I stop getting matches. I have to then delete all my current matches, before I get brand new ones. Does this happen to anyone else? I got no new match for a week and literally just deleted all 20 of my matches, now I have 3 new matches today.
Tinder rations your Matches to pressure you to pay for Premium features on the promise of more Matches. But equally, they also don't want you rage-quitting and deleting the App if you have no Matches because they can't make money from disgruntled users who leave the App, so they'll eventually throw you a bone.
The only way to win in tinder is not to play
Is that why it feels like it caps out at 20-21?
These are one of the best dating advice given to guys on here. Another one, can you tell them to stop taking photos with babies or children especially if they do not have any? We are less likely to believe it’s someone else’s kids. Why put them on there at all if they aren’t yours and you have none? I’ve never understood that and it needs to stop. It’s not cute. It looks quite creepy actually.😂
Applies to women too really.
@@Edithae I find it hard to believe that Women that DO NOT have kids will post a photo of them WITH kids? 👀Why would they???? Most guys already make it clear that they do not want ‘single mothers’ to the point that even the ‘single mothers’ are told to lie about having kids. So why would they do that? 👀 however?, I saw a video by some UA-camr who told men to put photos of kids up on their profile because it makes women feel ‘some sort of way’ 👀😂 I had to tell her to stop telling men that. It’s bad advice. We DO NOT want to see men with children on their profiles (if they have none). It’s creepy 😂😴
I’ve gotten 86 adds in 2 weeks and to be honest, it’s easier to find girls in real life. I can make conversation online but it’s just not as easy and doesn’t flow like it does in person.
Bro why the hell am I making every single one of these mistakes. Except for the dress well one.
Dude i did everything wrong, going back to change it, thanks bro
Glad I could help
No wonder my mom was the only one swiping right lol needed this guidance for sure.
I’m not paying money to have pictures taken of myself. I’m considering the tripod tho
Other guys are
@@WingManPlus good point man. I gotta start putting in the effort.
Im in such a tough position. Im 35 going through a divorce after 17 years together. Aside from having zero dating experience I had to delete like 17 years of my life. I don't use social media and most of my photos that aren't way to old and irrelevant are with her. And many of them are really good. Im 35 but people think like 27. My network is all spread out all over the place and most are married. I got alot of cousins I to spend time with but its like I have zero photos now and no dating experience and I’m bot wealthy or anything. I got a decent job and all but off one income in unaffordable canada its difficult. I got so much to overcome now.
I don’t really have any friends, is that a dealbreaker with girls? I’m a good looking guy but I just stopped talking to my friends a while ago
It's a massive red flag bro.
@@WingManPlus They don’t have to know though, and once they get to know me they’ll just realise that I’m confident but introverted and that I value alone time. At least I’m hoping anyway, thats how it went with my last date and she still made out with me etc
@@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 it’s not always about getting a short term win. Having no friends is a sign you have a lot of room for improvement in life 👍
Hello
Ironic because 90% of all chicks have all their photos be mirror selfies
Exactly. No effort on their part and they barely swipe right and even respond.
This is by far the best video I've seen on this. Most advice out there sucks, but you explain it clearly: women are picky and entitled and that's that.
😂 im a girl watching this. Absolutely correct, everything said in this video. I swipe and look for faults 😢
I just downloaded tinder to meet people while traveling and don't know why I'm watching this video xD
Where does he get his insight into the women's selection criterion on Tinder?
7+ years of trial and error, thousands of matches, hundreds of dates, asking hundreds of women about their preferences, etc. But when you get to the point I’m at it just becomes common sense.
@@WingManPlus thanks for your response. I really appreciate the videos. They really make compelling points.
@@Blazer1408 my pleasure 👍
I just realized I had too many selfies and a long ass bio lol
Rule number 1.
Never trust a dating coach.
Rule number 2.
Never trust a dating coach.
Rule number 3.
Never trust a a dating coach that's wearing a hat.
It’s giving “Just keep being yourself and eventually girls will notice you”
@@WingManPlusfind God
Downvoted once I heard “to show girls you’re not a loner”. Such an egotistical thing to say. Some people are loners, and they like it that way. Me personally I have one real friend and that’s all I need. However you point out that you think there’s something wrong with that. So I’m not interested in finishing the video. Even beside this comment, you sound really cocky and act like you’re an all-knowing God in general. Peace out man. I hope your soul can go through some much needed growth.
Sounds like you heard something that cut deep. My channel isn’t about being a yes-man to make people feel better. It’s to keep it real and show guys how women perceive the image you put out there. If that’s not for you no worries buddy best of luck 👌
i like how he replies with even more ego lol
@@TheosLogos lmao
@@WingManPlus no one said you had to make anyone feel better - I think the point is just not putting out your negativity onto a platform like UA-cam where people go for positivity and entertainment lol. Yeah some girls do think that, and you probably think the same honestly don’t kid yourself. You could’ve said something like “it’s good to have photos with friends to change things up about the first impression” without mentioning the loner stuff lmao. No hate I’m just always being real too buddy 👌
In today's day and age you can't come across as a social outcast. You can get away with it if you have the looks but if you're below a Chadlite you need social proof.
This is fantastic advice
I gotta comment on this because around 2019-2021 I would have 99+likes match with thousands of women and since 2022-2024 all these dating apps keep catering towards women and now I barely match with maybe 1 person every other day 😂😂it has nothing to do with looks the algorithm is fucked they only care about money
So pretty much. I’m just ugly☠️ thanks bro
Bro giving all this advice literally don’t be ugly
So I spent the past 2 days swiping on woman and I didn’t get one I know I’m not ugly maybe woman’s standards have gone up or is tinder not meant for everyone
This video is freaking nonsense because you can do all these not and yet not getting matches.
And honestly bio this, bio that, photo with dogs bla bla bla.. as if women really care if you are with your buddy in a photo or not.
I want a tinder profile to just get a real friendship. I don't trust relationships😢
Dude I'm a loner and have zero group photos except the ones from work. I barely get any matches.
When he mentioned group photos I felt attacked 😂 hope my boys dont see this video now haha
I’m into thrifting and bathing ape sneakers from 2007
Don’t have tinder. Just wanted to know
This video just shows how lonely men are and how common it is. Very sad. Also great video.
Solid advice
Should I link my insta account with my tinder?
Not a good idea. It gives her way more opportunities to see something she doesn't like & reject you
@@WingManPlus appreciate it thanks
I'm doing all this still not getting any. Do you offer any promos for your Tinder profile review?
Use promo code “baddie” 👍
If I smiled then my teeth would be a red flag
pro tip: go listen to women about what they looks for on dating profiles
Wrong! Women are concerned about their reputation... They won't admit they're extremely shallow and personality means almost nothing. They tell you what they believe makes themselves look good and genuine.
My photos are HD and lifestyle portraits. And hardly get worthy matches what's up
Time for a profile review buddy
1 you need a glow up
2 idk
golden advices
Cant hurt to give kahma a whirl. My blurry bathroom selfie aint doing it - maybe their AI can cook me up a winner.
How to get girls on tinder:
Step 1: Be good looking
Step 2: Don’t be subhuman tier male
In the end, obviously it’s all about looks. Nothing for me there…
Man said grooming is so important 😂
Caught in 4k 📸
Thing is I'm bald and not the good kind of bald, I need to wear a hat.
Embrace it, King!
@@TheSneezinPanda No chance, Rod....no chance
I'm actually the same way about group photos lol
Bro where was this video when I was 17-20 Lmfao💀😂
You know why? Because on these apps you are COMMODITY. You are bought and sold. They hoist up the best advertised and throw out the average. Just like the supermarkets and fruit. GET OFF THE MATCH GROUP APPS. It's degenerate. Very few people find long-term relationships on them. They are abusing the human psyche. Spare yourself. Get out there in the real world.
What's a good one liner
TLDR anyone, i really dont wanna go through a 12 minutes video
I have none of these mistakes and i still get no matches
you sure you're putting your best foot forward? Most guys take the 5-6 "least crappy" photos from their camera roll and understandably get nothing
@@WingManPlus mine r all from photoset. I can send them u privately
How mirror selfies bad
You know your down bad when you look for a tutorial on how to do a damn tinder profile.
im not gonna lie, this might sound like some depressed ahh quote but trust me its not, you said "its becuase guys often dont show themselves at their best" but to me its more important for a girl to like me even at my worst
I get that bro but unfortunately dating apps are unforgiving. It’s too competitive for you not to put in the effort.
@@WingManPlus fair enough, I would count myself as a very competitive person but only in things I'm good at, and I'm not exactly good at "looking good"😂
But great video non the less I'm sure this helped a lot of people!
But they will later. You don’t show the worst at the start, be a mystery
Can listing my height be an issue. I’m 5’6
I wouldn’t
I think you should, I'm 5'4 and it's best to weed out the girls who hate short guys sooner rather than when they see you in person.
Best too get a short girl 5 foot 3 5 foot 2
5 foot 6 want tall dudes 6 feet
Face is more important than height.
Ah yea no offense but your screwed
I have 2 friends and they are absolute dog shit at taking pictures should i just hire a photographer?
Yeah but if you’re going to, you should hire one who specializes in dating photos for men.
“All you need to do is make a good impression ypu know make me laugh make me smile or at the very least make me say ph this girls cute (:”
Bio done ✅
Is tinder platinum really worth the money?
Is this a good idea to put poems in my bio,which i wrote about myself,and what kinda girl i am looking for?
Definitely not. Nobody wants to read a poem someone wrote about themselves. The part where you describe what kind of girl you're looking for sounds original and appealing though
That’s so cringey
No
8:07 because there is no benz man
Dude says "red flag" every 5 seconds feels like I'm talking to a 14 year old girl
"show that your not a loner"
but i am a loner, like full time 😭🤷🏽♂️
This is advice for meeting girls, but not putting info about yourself will just result in you meeting incompatible people.
The algorithm doesn't work for tailored profiles. It shows the top men to all the women, while 80% of men are invisible. Need to play the game to win
@@WingManPlus Then F! the game, its not worth playing or paying for.
I never knew women were looking for reasons to reject guys. I thought they were more forgiving I guess
Lol
Suggests cheap clothes then proceeds to list h&m and zara
Your point?
wake me up when he misses 😴
🎯
I haven't made any of these mistakes so I am just ugly lol
Your Profile photo is literally a tourist pose bro
Man’s forgot winners