I once had a dentist tell me " I bet your spit taste like honey " the assistant quickly came back with " probably more like venom". That lady is my hero til this day.
You know, I used to hate the swedish dentist I had, constantly making jokes I could only halfway follow because a norwegian teenager in a dentist chair isn't going to be that good at following swedish mumbling. Looking back, I am very glad I had a dentist who wanted to be funny instead of one that was creepy.
People always talk like the LGBTQIA+ has some headquarters and functions as an actual organization.Who would the head of the organizations even be?Elton John?
How much do we want to bet that the guys who are like "if your gf has male friends, she's cheating on you" are the same guys who complain about being friendzoned because none of their female friends want to have sex with them.
I'm bi and even if I really love my friends (juste like friend but like doesn't sound enough to describe my feelings and don't exist in my mother language) not only I can't see them that way but I think is like dating your brother
You guys complain about the friend zone because their female friends won't have sex with them. But it's probably because their female friends know they're in a relationship and are also friends with the girlfriend. And he's angry that they won't help him cheat on her.
I'm pretty sure they always hit ace videos because it's "asexual" and they target anything with the word s3 x in it. (Just censoring it in case they hit this comment lmao). As always too scared of s3 x even when it's talking about the lack of it.
yeah, officially he's the straight ally, but I love that it's just not a thing discussed at all. We don't think about his sexuality, no matter what it is now, because it's simply of no importance he's vibing, we're vibing and that is all we need to know
Definitely- He just kinda looks in, goes "Oh, You haven't changed! Keep up the good work!" Then goes off to find a new group to do that to- And the cycle repeats. But Everyone loves when he visits their group
I mean, it _is_ true that higher level of androgynous (testosterone) on women can cause heavier or longer periods, which is a classic characteristic of Polycystic Ovary Síndrome (POCS). What the post said wasn’t _technically_ wrong, since some of those symptoms listed are characteristic of POCS, but having higher level of andrógenos = being a man???? That dude was just using some surface level medical information with no context to shame women that are not 100% conventionally “feminine” just because of hormonal imbalance, Jesus Christ
It's giving peak level insecurity. My husband is a chief engineer and manager of a department of all women, like they've painted his nails at work. What am I supposed to make him quit? "OH NO his subordinate texted him about taking the day off but she can't reach HR AND HE DIDNT ASK ME IF THEY COULD TEXT FIRST ADGHSJKFF"!
"Girls are only allowed to have friends of the same sex, because if not they're cheating!" The girls who are bi, pan, or any other sexuality that wants to date more than 1 gender: Damn, guess I get no frie-
Ah I love Sylvia, she does comedy skits like that "pov you're on a date with me" thing all the time and it never fails to make me laugh, she knows exactly what she's doing and it works!
I think we're missing the forest for the trees here, considering that woman said a daughter is a biological co-wife for her husband. Plus OP is right in the sense that once you have a kid, they and their needs should come first.
I’ve realized something. Some people’s standards for relationships are all looks and physical appeal, and this leads to marriages that really should have been just hook-ups.
I’m pansexual so this doesn’t really happen to me, as the fact that idc what you are it’s personality. But I’ve seen this in a lot of other people and I understand where that is true
It’s really sad, honestly. My sixth grade math teacher, who, fully supports, wore nail polish last year. It was fun to come in every week and see what new polish he had on. Students in our grade kept calling him gay, even when we explicitly said he has a wife and 3 kids. He helped me through my trans journey, and he helped me become the person I am now. I ran into him today, and noticed his hair dyed blue! I was so excited! We got talking a little, and he showed me his hands… which were bare. He said last year and even this year it made kids uncomfortable. When he was talking, you could see the sadness on his face about how he found out about the rumors. Normalize boys with nail polish, long hair, and dresses. You did it with girls already.
"Normalize boys with nail polish, long hair, and dresses." Unfortunately, people just don't want to see that. They think "You're a boy, but you like pretty things? YOU MUST BE TRANS IN DENIAL! Just transition already or else you're transphobic!" and bully them. It happens to girls who like more masculine things, too.
This is so true, I’ve always wanted to wear nail polish but have been scared of what people will think and I lack the confidence to do it by myself. Someday maybe I will get there.
@@BloodrealmX that’s a good idea, definitely a good place to start, someday, I hope to have the confidence to wear full green on all fingers but idk if I’ll get there
That reminds me of my lecturer in college, he's a "fruity" guy and everyone assumes that he's closeted gay. He's still single and it doesnt help his case. Ig its good that he doesnt tone it down for anyone, but its just sad to see how the stereotype is still there
That applies to anyone who could have kids. If I said 'Bi people shouldn't have kids', I'd be shut out of 'normal' society. But you can hate Hetrosexual people and be accepted. Double Standards, no other way to put it.
I think the one at 10:18 is how "this woman always has an excuse to not want to have adult fun time with me" Well, Brad, maybe she wouldn't have to make up an excuse if you took "No" for an answer
Yeah. If your (potential) partner keeps coming up with excuses to not take the relationship to the next level, you're definitely a few steps further into it than they want to be, and you should back off.
I go to an incredibly safe school that is against sexism, racism, homophobia, and transphobia. One of my teachers looks like an average guy, with nail polish on. It made me so happy that nobody questioned it, and I really was in a safe environment that had people who didn't stereotype other people. :)
I'm an asexual dude, and used to be a member of a church leadership group that worked with teens. When a student needed a ride home, I offered, approved by their parents, whom I know, and called to verify it was ok. I was reprimanded by the leaders of the group that I, a male, offered a female student under the age of 18 a ride without someone above the age of 18 in the vehicle with me to prove my innocence. Like they assumed I would have done something to A KID THAT I HAD TAKEN CARE OF SINCE EARLY CHILDHOOD. No, the straights are not OK.
Sucks for a few reasons, the first obviously being the one you pointed out, the second being that we (as a species) even *have* to collectively worry about liability issues to that extent, and the third being that someone like you with no ill intentions found themselves reprimanded while so many other cases of grooming in religious spaces often get swept under the rug. :/
No, they are not. As a single dad, I often took other peoples' kids home - and called the parents of the last kid while the next-to-last was getting out of the car. I then had the last kid stay on the phone while I drove. I volunteered to serve, and die if necessary to protect them, but I won't go to jail for them.
I know that was an uncomfortable situation for you, but so many children have been sexually abused by church leadership, no child should ever be alone in a car with a church leader, regardless of gender. That policy was appropriate and should actually be even stricter.
19:18 "If your pride as a woman will not permit you to submit to a man then forget about marriage. No man wants to marry another man." Me, a lesbian: "I missed the part where that's my problem."
As an employee at LGBT. Corp (now subsidiary of [not sitting in a chair properly CORP]), I can confirm that we are very much shaking even though it's from laughter. - Max from HR (she/her - can't believe I forgot my pronouns lol)
Fun fact: I love my husband. Both of us are bi and have same and opposite sex friends. We usually hug our friends to greet them. Never once have we been sexually attracted to our friends or been upset about the other having friends, because love and trust each other.
Further evidence that people who think being bi “just gives you more options to cheat” should maybe pick better partners for themselves. So many people get so deep into their insecurities and toxic relationships that they think that everyone is out to get them, and they will never find true love with that mindset. I’m glad that you did ❤️
Weird! Some toxic worldview will be shattered! Or, more likely, they will not believe you, and suspect you either cheat all the time or just have not met someone hot enough to cheat with. Or will suspect you are ugly and therefore can't geht anyone to cheat with. So many ways to dismiss honest normalcy and stay toxic. :D
The woman who threw out her kids Halloween sweets reminds me of the marshmallow test. There was a long term theory that's been accepted by most people that whether the kids ate the marshmallows early or waited was due to a lack of self control. Turns out if you ran it a few times and showed them that's you were willing to go through with the promise and give them the other marshmallow then 100% would wait. They just needed to be able to trust the adult.
Yeah, and how it ignored that kids from low-income backgrounds might not want to wait for a chance to get more food when in there normal lives it is an uncertainty of if/how much they can eat
The couple at the end are so adorable. Especially how he's outraged the broke she pastas but still calls her "my love" despite berating her for it. That's so precious.
"Who hurt you... and why have you not grown up enough to get over it" that is the most amazing thing I have ever heard come out of a human being's mouth
"This person. And because it's still hurts. have you ever heard of weather pains or phantom pains? This is the reason I didn't "grown up" enough to... what, get over it, right."
18:22 A friend of mine is an ECE (early childhood education) and this was literally the policy somewhere she used to work when a child tries to hug you. I think it would scar the poor child, make them think their unlovable or gross or something, its meant to protect the workers from false accusations of bad touch but talk about overkill
I hate how many of those men treat relationships the same way you would get a car, shoes, etc. it’s like a transaction to them, and not, you know, love
Maybe they’re gay with internalized homophobia, and feel pushed to relationships they have no love in? Edit: Idk it’s really sucky but hard to address without knowing the cause
I think when people don't like themselves it becomes all too easy to think of relationships as transactional, that you have to do something prove your worth. And then they apply that standard to other people as well rip
@@iwatchthemooooon3002 I think it’s as grossly simple as “this is how it’s supposed to work, therefore this is how it must work, conveniently that just happens to benefit me,”
The woman who throws out all the candy is just going to teach her kids to gorge themselves on all the candy on the day they get it so that it doesn't get thrown out... thus making them sick. Great parenting there...
I am a transwoman and regularly watch cishet people just full decide to be the problem for no reason other than insecurity. It honestly is fun to watch and sad at the same time
@@joannelewis9231 well you could take testosterone and use beard supplements and see how that goes but I'd run it by your partner also you'd need to give it like 3-5 years to start looking really good
I have coarse facial hair on my face due to a hormonal imbalance when I was a teen. To hear men go on about, "only men have facial hair" makes me realize how much they live under a rock. They dont seem to be aware that PCOS exists.
These videos just always remind me of how my parents tried to convince me that 'there is no friendship between men and women, it's always about sex'. When I pointed out the various family friends that come over fairly regularly, my dad said 'that's different, cuz all of us are married already'. Oh how much I wanted to tell either of them to go and touch grass. Seriously.
this gets even funnier wehn you know people who were part of the 68-generation ... like - Once I was told a story how this person as a small boy came into his parents room at niht to found them ... well - having funtime with some family friends ... because for some people that was just normal
@@KaliqueClawthorne honestly that’s also an acceptable way of seeing friends even if you’re already in a relationship. Monogamy isn’t always for everyone
Honestly, that husband who was a hundred percent willing to go spelunking for that tampon to help his wife is genuinely wholesome considering how most men treat things like that.
My sister's boyfriend recently had his nails painted, and he seems to like it. My mom told me that she thought it was weird for a guy to have his nails painted. It wasn't until she said that that I had the strange urge to get my nails painted.
@@C00K13-Z_9 No. I think it's probably because I've never known anybody who paints their nails. I do like wearing colorful dresses... or at least, dresses with intense colors.
16:14 for anyone confused, there's an episode of peppa pig where a polar bear kid draws a picture of her family and explains that she has two moms. It's a small scene in a five minute episode that somehow spawned a 45 minute rant from a very angry man.
I thought I might be trans but it turns out I'm actually Bi-gender. Something I never would have been able to figure out growing up but thanks to the evolution of society and the buildup of a welcoming accepting community I've not only managed to help myself but helped others who were struggling with LGBTQ identity issues as well.
I'm glad you found the label you feel like fits you best, but I do wanna point out that anytime you identify as a gender that differs from your assigned sex at birth, you are, by definition, trans 💜
@@DasSpaceAce it more or less depends on the label you want. If they don't want to be considered trans, then they aren't trans. If they'd like to be considered trans, then they are trans.
EDIT: The game is called Entropic Float I actually played a game that had a bi-gender character in and he didn’t even realise until a transfem character helped him out with it~ This comment just reminded me of it so much :)
My mother in law was flabbergasted when my girlfriend hung out with a friend of ours without me because did I really just "trust her like that ???" Which yea, not cheating is literally so easy
I just love how that one guy, who is convinced any woman with male friends is being intimate with them, doesn't seem to understand that they could be intimate with other women.
14:47 She must not: -Be more than 5’4” -Be smaller than a C cup -Weigh more than 120 pounds -Have long or heavy periods -Have acne -Have a lot of body hair This is basically describing a kid, but with boobs.
I thought something seemed off about that It did seem like he was just... describing a... "well-endowed" child (which is just disturbing to think about)
It’s really aggravating that a concerning amount of people believe that the purpose of life is “Find sexy object, own or be owned by them by marrying them, reproduce, have your offspring marry and reproduce, continue the family genes”
That's literally base survival instinct at work. Also the purpose of "life" as you put it is different to every being in existence; it's like snow flakes you don't get repeats. Seriously look into nature, a majority of wildlife from all corners of the earth normally have this type of goal. Be born, learn the basics of life, eat, drink, sleep, shit, don't die until you can't, shack up with some pretty opposite (or same sex) creature that can produce offspring, have kids, abandon or raise next generation and then die. Simple as
@@recap1843 I think ur forgetting the fact that we're human's and are much more beyond that.we have a population of 8 billion,wars are becoming less & less frequent, we've come up cures for almost all plagues/illnesses, the need for human manual labor is decreasing as technology evolves & we have more then enough food/ supplies for EVERYONE on the planet
@@recap1843 That is the life cycle I think, and we are talking about humans in a civil society, not animals who fight tooth and nail so they can survive the next 24 hours
17:37 "posts like this makes it seem like it's a choice" You mean the post saying that her tastes fluctuate and lamenting that she doesn't have a choice in the matter?
FOR ANYONE WONDERING ABOUT THAT VIDEO IN THE BEGINNING ABOUT VOICE FEMINIZATION!!!! the channel is transvoicelessons and she's AMAZGING. The way she explains things is so great and it feels like it isn't going to be a big daunting task!
@@koiinobori Unfortunately I don't there's that many resources for voice masculinization. However, Z's videos (TransVoiceLessons) go over the mechanics behind how we tend to gender voices, and basically doing feminization in reverse will result in a masculine voice. She often says in her videos "doing it this way will result in a feminine voice, and this way will result in a masculine voice." So worst case scenario I'd recommend watching some of her videos to start with. Maybe someone will be able to provide a voice masculinization video
That's also the same channel where the r/egg_irl meme originated, when someone commented on that same video, "I'm just here to voice female D&D characters I swear!" Now that was a funny thread.
I'm italian, I DIED when I heard "Sarah, ma tu sei pazza!!" (Sarah are you crazy?!) I can confirm that unless you break the spagetti into little pieces and eat them in a soup, it is indeed illegal in Italy XD
imagine being a pastor and admitting in public that you want to break someone's finger because they wear nail polish 😀 like wow, that religion really is about love in the end !
Won't lie, nailpolish is so pretty on men. I'm not even sure why it just looks so good, subtle eyeliner too I'm 100% for this 'nailpolish November'. You do you guys! Feel pretty! you deserve it!
While I love grunge, grunge ending the glam-rock era was a mistake. I'm a lesbian but even I can admit that male musicians were never prettier than during that era. Its also such a weird thing, that it didn't really established itself in broader community, name me one single Rockstar who wouldn't wear nailpolish, make-up and at least in some stage of their career long hair.
@@aquabluerose7734 I think Emo has kinda make a come back since 2020, at least online. But yeah, I would love a return of glam and general classic rock. I also have to say, as an oldie enjoyer I feel like there is undeniable just a fall in quality and overall hype that music induces since rock musicians stopped dress up like a bunch of queers during a pride parade, its undeniable. I mean, sorry, call me old-fashioned or narrow minded but how am I supposed to take somebody like Ed Sheeran seriously when he is running around like that and hasn't even legally canged his name into a girls name yet? As much as I complained about Grunge before, Kurt Cobain at least had the common decency to run around like a lesbian in public.
So the spaghetti one reminded me of a pretty funny story with me and my grandmother. I was cooking with her about a year or two ago and I tried to break the spaghetti in half, she proceeded to smack the back of my hand and take the spaghetti away. As she was doing all this she noticed my nails which I had painted red and green, she then looked right at me with a stern expression and said “If you’re going to paint your nails like an Italian then you need to cook like one!” Completely went over her head that I actually painted them those colors because it was Christmas Eve… My grandma could care less how you dress or who you’re into but you do not screw up Italian cooking in her household!
Not Italian (like either side of the family for at least 5 generations), but even I cringe at breaking spaghetti... somehow I got trained up, just don't ask me how 😅
As an Italian I share the horror reaction of that guy. The way to do it is this: you gotta align the spaghetti vertically inside the pot of boiling and previously salted water and then you twist them with both hands in opposite directions so that when you release them they will fall in a pretty wheel shape. Then, after just a few seconds they will have become soft enough to push em in the water without breaking them. Great content, OT.
I’m a trans girl and my wife a cis girl and I play games together all the time. Over my work weekend we were playing Mario party 1 and 2 together and had a great time laughing. Women play games too. 😊
Men know that women play games and can be/are good at it but it hurts some of their egos so they refuse to acknowledge it or it destroys their personal perception of manliness
As a Catholic who was raised with a devotion to the Virgin Mary (due to having been afab), the Waria meme had me doubled over with laughter! I had to put my tea down so I wouldn't spill it!
17:45 "how dare you call me biphobic just because I said [biphobic thing]?" Anyway, yes, it's completely normal for bi/pan/queer/multisexual people's attraction to go through stages like this (tbh especially if you're trans and/or nonbinary with a fluctuating gender (genderfluid, girlflux, boyflux, etc); for some people their gender can affect how they experience attraction). BPQM people talking about experiences like this should absolutely be normalized and destigmatized. *Just because your gender or sexual/romantic orientation isn't static, doesn't mean it's a "choice" or is somehow less legitimate than static genders and orientations are.* (Also, even if it were somehow a "choice," "choosing" to be LGBTQ+ should be allowed, and shouldn't delegitimize those orientations/genders either, or make it okay to discriminate against or abuse people within those communities... but apparently society still isn't ready for that conversation.)
Wonderful way to put it! I am both bisexual and genderfluid and I definitely feel this way! Some days I feel like I like men more than women, other days the other way round. Sometimes I go between male and female gender and on other days I don't care about gender and don't feel the need to label myself or to be female or male. Thank you for standing up for this side of the LGBTQ community as bisexuality is strangely also discriminated against because people make it seem we can't "pick a side" because we genuinely can't!
It's always made me so uncomfortable when people proclaim with their WHOLE CHEST that every person views every other person through a purely sexual lens. My first bf had a major jealousy problem, because he thought every dude I interacted with was just waiting to "steal" me from him, and accused me of flirting when I was literally.....just talking to another person in a friendly way. I simply don't see other people this way! I can't help but think that people who have this worldview are projecting hardcore - they see every interaction like this and so they assume everyone else does too. The straights are not okay!!
OT flipping off a Homophobic pastor was the equivalent of my very nice art teacher cursing out shity homophobic people in the cutest softest voice. Justified, wholly unexpected, and very badass.
Seeing LGBTQ+ memes has really helped me discover who I am. I went through a really wild adventure, but I'm so happy to have landed on genderfaun and transmasc for my gender. I've started presenting more masculine within the last couple of months and I've never felt happier with who I am. My mom has accepted me - my dad probably won't, but I don't like him anyways - and my friends and partner have been great as well.
"but I don't like him anyways" 😂😂😂 love that energy since I have no bond with mine and he isn't willing to create one. I'm trans masc too but I still present myself feminine from time to time ^^ (my gender is.. yes, it is.. 😄)
Were they trying to get him to marry his niece?? Or was I just reading it wrong? I seriously hope it's the latter because...seriously WTF? Hell, even if I'm wrong, wtf?!
@@mangaanimefan89 that is exactly what they were trying to do... i hope he got out of that and got far away since then, his parents and family sounds absolutely horrible
I'm a Christian and, yeah, those "don't be alone with the opposite sex" things are absolutely taught in some circles. I heard it plenty because I was a teenager, so it starts well before marriage. Your spouse and family members are the only opposite-sex people you're allowed to be alone with. It's so weird.
Not weird as such, I think. -Just... futile :) "Traditional christian" sexual values demand abstinence and monogamy, so the rules do make sense. They are doomed to fail, though, because biology is stronger than any god we can think up :D Note: I don't condone substituting such rules for good sex ed and contraceptives for teens. Screaming ABSTINENCE at them won't work anyway, so we need to teach them to be careful and respect each other. And married couples really should be able to trust each other.
@@graydanerasmussen4071 Humans are not dogs, and claiming that the human sex drive is stronger than our ability to follow our own morality is actually an incredibly dangerous myth that is a foundational aspect of rape culture. (I know that you're not attempting to condone rape culture or anything, for the record.) The "don't be around people of the opposite sex" rule IS weird, because both you and fundies have a mistaken understanding of humans' capacity of self control. See, if you were right about "biology" being "stronger than any god we can think up", then staying away from people we have potential to be attracted to would be the only possible way to be monogamous or abstinent, at least for allosexual people. But in reality, people who have a healthy understanding of others, regardless of gender, as people; a robust sense of their own morals and the reasons behind them; and practiced self-control as opposed to fear and avoidance, won't have much trouble just not sleeping with people if that would be cheating on a marriage or whatever.
@@Iamtk777 I think you overestimate us humans :) Statistics tells us otherwise, sorry. Consistently, a fair bit of cheating goes on, also in enlightened, otherwise healthy marriages. "It just... -happened!" is the most frequent explanation. And teens? Overwhelmed with new, strong urges, biological imperatives, not to mentioned peer pressure, a sexualized culture ect. I am not saying most people are overcome, but life teaches us that a good few are. Mind, consentual but "immoral" sex is way different from rape! People who give in to a temptation are not equal to people who violate others! Don't we agree that a robust sex ed (including the very sensible advice to wait) in middle and high school, and access to contraceptives, no questions asked, is a good thing? Statistics show that areas with "Abstinence only" sex ed do way worse than more progressive, as far as teen STDs, pregnancies, rape and teen suicides.
(15:00) Women below 5'4, less than 120 lbs, doesn't have body hair (or very little), haven't gotten any periods or acne. That's a pre-pubescent child. Don't people realise how creepy this is?
@@Liggliluff why did you leave out the part where he said he wanted a minimum of C-Cup? The man is sexist, demanding an unreasonable, unrealistic, near impossible ideal for a woman who probably woudnt give him the time of day if she did exist, and all KINDS of messed up in the head... but the one thing I would say he ISN'T is a pedophile... and I find it kind of weird that you are going out of your way to misrepresent him that way? He seems to be doing a good enough job of ruining his own reputation without your help...
My family has been showing their true colors lately and have been saying increasingly prejudice things and ganging up on me when I don't agree with them or say something "liberal" so this really helped me a little. Thank you, OT.
Oof. My dad was the same way. I told him "either we don't talk about [these subjects], or I will leave and go home today". I could only do this once I moved out, though. And not everybody has the social option to just hit the bricks. In the end, you gotta do what you gotta do to protect yourself. Hang in there.
@@AroundTheBlockAgain Thanks. I’m not old enough to move out so the only thing I can do is stay in my room, but even that seems to make them mad. Hope you’re in a better environment now.
@@Krow_Kid yeah, when my siblings and I stayed in our rooms, our parents demonized us for that, too. But we protected ourselves in this way. We did what we had to do. I even took my dinnerplate and ate in my room sometimes when my dad tried to start fights at the dinnertable, and boy did that make him mad! He wanted to bait me into another fight! But my mom wanted a peaceful dinnertime so she wouldn't let him escalate it from there, or let him deny me food. This was a safe strategy for me. The most important thing is keeping yourself safe and protecting yourself from harm and distress. They may just want to see you take the bait, and get stuck in another fight that they can "win". I hate it when people say this about bullies but... if this describes them, don't give them the satisfaction. They're not worth it. There may be a time in the future when they'll be open to listening to you, but now is probably not that time. Keep yourself safe, and hang in there. And yes, it is such an amazing experience to get out of that kind of situation. For me, living away from them is still like Christmas every day. In fact, I spent this past Christmas with my "adopted" aunties from my queer-friendly church. It was wonderful. Definitely worth it.
I agree. if it works for them, then fine. its none of my business in that case. but they cant claim that it makes sense. what if they have to text a boss? how about a coworker? a doctor? a client? a parent? a tech support hotline? a repair guy? a child?? any one of the other 4 billion things that you cant ask for someone of a specific gender? I mean... okay, you can do it, but dont claim it makes sense
No lie that one about 'men don't need to feel loved' smacks of bad coping mechanisms. If feeling 'loved' makes you feel hollow or unfulfilled maybe it's because *you aren't getting enough love*
OT, as a trans femme,that intro was amazing. I’m so glad to have an ally like you sticking up for us. We sure as hell need it. 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️ #NailPolishNovember
@@OneTopic AHHH WHAT A HEART AND REPLY BRO THANK YOU SO MUCH! THIS MEANS THE WORLD TO ME. THANK YOUUUUU. ALSO WHAT THE LIKES ON THIS- I do not deserve these. Thanks all of you
21:37 "clearing the house" is a phrase used checking or "clearing" different rooms in a building of any potential threats just thought I'd try and clear that up
"I didn't find any hair on your shirt!" "..and?" "DID YOU LIE ABOUT HAVING A CAT?!" "NO, SHE'S A SPHINX AND HER NAME IS BASTET LIKE THE GODESS SHE IS" "Good" There, I fixed the joke
The raising of your fist after the 'Well guess what preacher?' Was such a badass move. I thought you were gonna say 'try to break these fingers if you think I'm weak.' You're awesome.
Yeah. How bewildering is it that OT can get slapped for having "sexual content" for talking about aces(???) but raise a middle finger in a video? Fortunately, awesomeness happens.
I got a year milestone on being sober from self harm a couple days ago and I cried because I've been having urges again but I didn't give into them. Mow I'm here watching your amazing content and feeling happier than I have in a long time. Thankyou OT for making your channel a safe space for me and many others. Thankyou for making me know that I can share this and I won't feel unsafe.We love you so much for what you do and who you help.
Congrats! I myself got to two years in october, and although i still get urges, they are much more infrequent. As cliché as it sounds, it gets better :)
Your an incredibly strong willed person, I'm sorry you had to go through that but also proud you didn't give in. Addiction is probably one of the worst things people can deal with. I wish you best of luck on your continued sobriety. Stay strong king and or queen. 👑
When I started watching OT's "Are the straights ok?" videos I always thought I'm ok and I'm straight. I have now realised that's yes, I am ok but I'm not straight! 😂
I made a genderfluid friend today and we immediately clicked,it was amazing we are 3 LGBTQ+ people in an all straight group one of the LGBTQ friend is completely oblivious about gay jokes and so are our straight friends so while we were dying, crying and laughing they were wondering if we were mentally okay- We also read hearts stopper and we listened to girls in red so amazing ! One best day of my life
That husband in the tampon video was READY. You'd think he was laying his life down for her in some high fantasy romance movie. So dramatic, A++ theatre
I love the wholesome energy OT brings to my day. It's always a joy to watch their videos because I know I'll come out of it smiling. He's like the LGBT community's Uncle Iroh
When One Topic showed his fingers, i nearly screamed that we have the same one :3 I recently started painting my nails and now I actually feel very comfortable with it. OTs and Click's videos really help me, express myself however I want :3 Thank You OT, Click and the Community :3 Also wanted to add: Y'all are awesome and valid
Ngl, your Spanish would still be better than mine, since i don't know any Spanish xd My first language is German btw Greetings from Germany and have a wonderful Day :3
@@VertyTHPS I was just using Spanish as a comparison for knowledge of a second language. Have a good day, sir! (I know a light smattering of German phrases, but nothing that works for this context)
Nailpolish November 💜
*Nailpolish Novenber 💜*
I am going to paint my nails the SECOND I get back from work #nailpolishnovember
@flocreeper1 I WOULD CRY!
Yes!!!!
I should get some nail polish to celebrate my one month on HRT
Nice Nails November! 💜
I never thought I would live to see OT flip off a pastor while wearing glittery nail polish. My life is complete, bury me now.
it made me so freaking happy! flip yeah
@@broblerone413 more like 'flip off'(to the pastor)? ;3
@@glasscardproductions4736 Good pun. Good pun.
OK
*shoves you into a open coffin*
@@nathanjereb9944 *accepts my fate, satisfied with life because I've seen ot flip off a pastor while wearing glittery nail polish*
“I’m cis but I want to cause problems at family gatherings” this dude is a legend 🤣
I came here to say this, but you already did.
We love a problematic ally 😘
Legit thinking about doing this now. Lol
this is the chaotic good ally we need
precisely
I once had a dentist tell me " I bet your spit taste like honey " the assistant quickly came back with " probably more like venom". That lady is my hero til this day.
she saved it, she saved the scene!
What the fuck was he thinking. You at The Dentist, clearly it will taste of toothpaste/mouthwash... Sersiously though, that's just gross and weird
That's such a weird thing to say... Either they had a brain fart or their brain contains all the substance and nuance of a fart.
Omfg that's creepy ._.
You know, I used to hate the swedish dentist I had, constantly making jokes I could only halfway follow because a norwegian teenager in a dentist chair isn't going to be that good at following swedish mumbling. Looking back, I am very glad I had a dentist who wanted to be funny instead of one that was creepy.
People always talk like the LGBTQIA+ has some headquarters and functions as an actual organization.Who would the head of the organizations even be?Elton John?
god ofc :33333
Sappho?
😂😂😂
@@SerialNumberK2AR4A0YY2I4S. More like the founder
Plot twist: It's the arch-bishop of Canterbury.
How much do we want to bet that the guys who are like "if your gf has male friends, she's cheating on you" are the same guys who complain about being friendzoned because none of their female friends want to have sex with them.
Same dudes who accuse you of cheating then you find out they are cheating 🙄
I'm bi and even if I really love my friends (juste like friend but like doesn't sound enough to describe my feelings and don't exist in my mother language) not only I can't see them that way but I think is like dating your brother
@@Nixmeri2411 that's called projecting lmao it's very common. If you get accused of something ridiculous.... be suspicious.
You guys complain about the friend zone because their female friends won't have sex with them. But it's probably because their female friends know they're in a relationship and are also friends with the girlfriend. And he's angry that they won't help him cheat on her.
Yes, because they think men and women can only like each other for sexual reasons. That's the foundation their stupidity is built on
It's kind of stupid that youtube is demonetizing the ace videos. Like, this is the complete opposite of what you're trying to accomplish lmao
Yeah, that's so funny to me
Btw i'm loving your profile picture
First fantastic pic! Second yes! I mean UA-cam don't want sex... So why are they against ace people?
I'm pretty sure they always hit ace videos because it's "asexual" and they target anything with the word s3 x in it. (Just censoring it in case they hit this comment lmao).
As always too scared of s3 x even when it's talking about the lack of it.
@@inkbright_ just realized when I saw your comment lmao-
@@inkbright_ the best hunter :)
I love how OT doesn't group himself in with any sexuality, he's just peeking in at them and vibing or making fun of them
First comment so I'm a dinosaur
yeah, officially he's the straight ally, but I love that it's just not a thing discussed at all.
We don't think about his sexuality, no matter what it is now, because it's simply of no importance
he's vibing, we're vibing and that is all we need to know
Definitely- He just kinda looks in, goes "Oh, You haven't changed! Keep up the good work!" Then goes off to find a new group to do that to- And the cycle repeats. But Everyone loves when he visits their group
Bro manages to have both ace and bi energy. It is incredible!
@@davitdavid7165 he has all the energy
That thumbnail makes being trans look like the coolest, most magical shit ever lmao
man,trans dnd campaign
Ngl not hating your life is pretty cool and magical shit
@@deadbobomb6445 indeed
@@deadbobomb6445 Indeed, i can prove it.
@@gangstalkedindividualUmU.
Ahh, yes long and heavy periods. The peak of masculinity.
The masculine urge to expel one's endometrium(...?)
I mean, it _is_ true that higher level of androgynous (testosterone) on women can cause heavier or longer periods, which is a classic characteristic of Polycystic Ovary Síndrome (POCS). What the post said wasn’t _technically_ wrong, since some of those symptoms listed are characteristic of POCS, but having higher level of andrógenos = being a man????
That dude was just using some surface level medical information with no context to shame women that are not 100% conventionally “feminine” just because of hormonal imbalance, Jesus Christ
@@lepetitmonster8737 then being pregnant = being a man?
"I got a masculine urge to start bleeding on a monthly cycle thats how ALPHA I am 💯💪💪💪😎😎😎"
as a trans man i agree
"No alone time with the opposite sex." "No texting one-on-one with the opposite sex" Okay but like- Siblings?? Parents?? Family in general??
Reminds me of “there is no reason for anyone over the age of 25 to be talking to a kid EVER”
@@52flyingbicycles parents be sweating rn
It's giving peak level insecurity. My husband is a chief engineer and manager of a department of all women, like they've painted his nails at work. What am I supposed to make him quit?
"OH NO his subordinate texted him about taking the day off but she can't reach HR AND HE DIDNT ASK ME IF THEY COULD TEXT FIRST ADGHSJKFF"!
sweet home alabama
@@SaintShion Your king of a husband is, indeed, the big bro of every single one of them if they paint his nails
"Girls are only allowed to have friends of the same sex, because if not they're cheating!"
The girls who are bi, pan, or any other sexuality that wants to date more than 1 gender: Damn, guess I get no frie-
EXACTLY Lmao. Am I just supposed to have no friends?? 😭
@@KathiEOSp Probably lol
What if they’re aroace? Does that mean you’re friends with everybody?
@@noitsnot5085 Probably
me, a pan without friends in the first place: im always one step ahead of you-
Ah I love Sylvia, she does comedy skits like that "pov you're on a date with me" thing all the time and it never fails to make me laugh, she knows exactly what she's doing and it works!
I was looking for this comment!!!!! Sylvia’s shorts are hilarious!
@@CassidyQueso YESSS SYLVIA FANS, ASSEMBLE!
MAY WE CAUSE CHAOS!!!!!
"The baby took all her father's attention"
That is... that is a good thing
The people who need to most hear the message to not get fucking married and have kids are the ones who will least want to hear it sadly.
I think we're missing the forest for the trees here, considering that woman said a daughter is a biological co-wife for her husband.
Plus OP is right in the sense that once you have a kid, they and their needs should come first.
7:10 this guy literally said "if the gays are so oppressed, why did my wife leave me"
IF THE GAYS ARE SO OPPRESSED 😡 THEN WHY DId my wife leave me 😭
she took the braincells in the divorce
@@kijushiro teach me how to roast.
@@kijushiro damn. 💀
I used to have a wife but the gays took her in the divorce
5:36
_"God really made me 5'6 wtf"_
"He put the 6 inches somewhere else."
_"No he did not."_
AS A TRANS PERSON I HAVE NEVER RELATED MORE LMAOOOOO
just the (what I imagine to be) monotone "No he did not" KILLED me lmao
oh same… i’m even shorter at a wopping 5’4”😂
@@Me-wx1mt I heard it more as "personally and deeply offended"
@@rollingthunder1043 lol
put these 7 inches into a dagger that ill use to fight god for why he made me afab
The "I'm cis but I want to cause problems at family gatherings" thing is amazing.
thats just awesome.
👍👍👍
Its iconic
I’ve realized something. Some people’s standards for relationships are all looks and physical appeal, and this leads to marriages that really should have been just hook-ups.
Yeah, it's...something alright..
That's a good point in most cases
💯
I’m pansexual so this doesn’t really happen to me, as the fact that idc what you are it’s personality. But I’ve seen this in a lot of other people and I understand where that is true
Thank you, Wingding Gaster, very cool
It’s really sad, honestly. My sixth grade math teacher, who, fully supports, wore nail polish last year. It was fun to come in every week and see what new polish he had on. Students in our grade kept calling him gay, even when we explicitly said he has a wife and 3 kids. He helped me through my trans journey, and he helped me become the person I am now. I ran into him today, and noticed his hair dyed blue! I was so excited! We got talking a little, and he showed me his hands… which were bare. He said last year and even this year it made kids uncomfortable. When he was talking, you could see the sadness on his face about how he found out about the rumors.
Normalize boys with nail polish, long hair, and dresses.
You did it with girls already.
"Normalize boys with nail polish, long hair, and dresses." Unfortunately, people just don't want to see that. They think "You're a boy, but you like pretty things? YOU MUST BE TRANS IN DENIAL! Just transition already or else you're transphobic!" and bully them. It happens to girls who like more masculine things, too.
This is so true, I’ve always wanted to wear nail polish but have been scared of what people will think and I lack the confidence to do it by myself. Someday maybe I will get there.
@@jamsistired Try a subtle colour, then. It looks better than high-contrast colours anyway. There's also clear nail polish, too, of course.
@@BloodrealmX that’s a good idea, definitely a good place to start, someday, I hope to have the confidence to wear full green on all fingers but idk if I’ll get there
That reminds me of my lecturer in college, he's a "fruity" guy and everyone assumes that he's closeted gay. He's still single and it doesnt help his case. Ig its good that he doesnt tone it down for anyone, but its just sad to see how the stereotype is still there
“Straight people should not have kids” I mean, I feel like it would solve a lot of problems about overpopulation…
That applies to anyone who could have kids. If I said 'Bi people shouldn't have kids', I'd be shut out of 'normal' society. But you can hate Hetrosexual people and be accepted. Double Standards, no other way to put it.
@@Marcus-nn6js you are salty as fuck 😂
@@cherrycolareal I know.
@@cherrycolareal i kinda agree with them though.
you shouldnt say stuff like that either way
I think the one at 10:18 is how "this woman always has an excuse to not want to have adult fun time with me"
Well, Brad, maybe she wouldn't have to make up an excuse if you took "No" for an answer
Yeah. If your (potential) partner keeps coming up with excuses to not take the relationship to the next level, you're definitely a few steps further into it than they want to be, and you should back off.
I go to an incredibly safe school that is against sexism, racism, homophobia, and transphobia. One of my teachers looks like an average guy, with nail polish on. It made me so happy that nobody questioned it, and I really was in a safe environment that had people who didn't stereotype other people. :)
where’s your school and how to I sign up
thats awsome
@@SeraphicSorcerer1 Lol, though I can’t say WHAT school it is, I can say it is a Montessori school. It’s an incredibly ADHD friendly school kind.
@@DakotertYesss, Montessori schools are really nice (usually)
Lucky my school is the opposite of yours and I am severely hated :)
I'm an asexual dude, and used to be a member of a church leadership group that worked with teens. When a student needed a ride home, I offered, approved by their parents, whom I know, and called to verify it was ok. I was reprimanded by the leaders of the group that I, a male, offered a female student under the age of 18 a ride without someone above the age of 18 in the vehicle with me to prove my innocence. Like they assumed I would have done something to A KID THAT I HAD TAKEN CARE OF SINCE EARLY CHILDHOOD. No, the straights are not OK.
Wow thats gross... Sorry that happend to you.
Makes you think how many in that group have to be creeps for them to be worried about getting caught
Sucks for a few reasons, the first obviously being the one you pointed out, the second being that we (as a species) even *have* to collectively worry about liability issues to that extent, and the third being that someone like you with no ill intentions found themselves reprimanded while so many other cases of grooming in religious spaces often get swept under the rug. :/
No, they are not. As a single dad, I often took other peoples' kids home - and called the parents of the last kid while the next-to-last was getting out of the car. I then had the last kid stay on the phone while I drove. I volunteered to serve, and die if necessary to protect them, but I won't go to jail for them.
I know that was an uncomfortable situation for you, but so many children have been sexually abused by church leadership, no child should ever be alone in a car with a church leader, regardless of gender. That policy was appropriate and should actually be even stricter.
14:51 As a trans man, who is 5’5, weighs like 136 pounds, and doesn’t shave my legs, this is extremely gender affirming! 🥰
As a trans woman, who is 5’11, weighs like 200 pounds, and can’t afford to shave my legs, this is fine 🥲
@@heatfromsapphire hey you’re a queen and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise >:)
I guess i have some % of man in me then
Same here but I’m pretty sure I’m well below 130. Working on it tho
As a fellow trans man, I agree 🥰
19:18 "If your pride as a woman will not permit you to submit to a man then forget about marriage. No man wants to marry another man."
Me, a lesbian: "I missed the part where that's my problem."
that's the best part, it's not
But would you submit to a dom mommy tho?
@@_extrathicc i mean i dunno about them but I certainly would tbh
@@_extrathicc why wouldn't you?
Ask him to explain why guys tend to be all over tomboys nowadays then.
As an employee at LGBT. Corp (now subsidiary of [not sitting in a chair properly CORP]), I can confirm that we are very much shaking even though it's from laughter.
- Max from HR (she/her - can't believe I forgot my pronouns lol)
there should really be an LGBT+ corp. we'd become rich by scamming queerphobes
As a fellow employee I can confirm
@@broblerone413 That's exactly what the PR team does, you should send in your resume, you'll fit right in
Amazing
As the IT person I can confirm this
Fun fact: I love my husband. Both of us are bi and have same and opposite sex friends. We usually hug our friends to greet them. Never once have we been sexually attracted to our friends or been upset about the other having friends, because love and trust each other.
Same here, just not married yet :D
Further evidence that people who think being bi “just gives you more options to cheat” should maybe pick better partners for themselves. So many people get so deep into their insecurities and toxic relationships that they think that everyone is out to get them, and they will never find true love with that mindset. I’m glad that you did ❤️
@@urszularudzinska8188 .....yet ;)
That’s it. 😊 have a good day.
Imagine having healthy relations with other people couldn't be me
Weird! Some toxic worldview will be shattered! Or, more likely, they will not believe you, and suspect you either cheat all the time or just have not met someone hot enough to cheat with. Or will suspect you are ugly and therefore can't geht anyone to cheat with. So many ways to dismiss honest normalcy and stay toxic. :D
We should normalize showing affection to our friends
Y e s
❤❤❤
The woman who threw out her kids Halloween sweets reminds me of the marshmallow test. There was a long term theory that's been accepted by most people that whether the kids ate the marshmallows early or waited was due to a lack of self control. Turns out if you ran it a few times and showed them that's you were willing to go through with the promise and give them the other marshmallow then 100% would wait. They just needed to be able to trust the adult.
Yeah, and how it ignored that kids from low-income backgrounds might not want to wait for a chance to get more food when in there normal lives it is an uncertainty of if/how much they can eat
Oh that makes a lot of sense.
Kids are very smart. They learn stuff like this quickly.
Trust, once lost, will need to be earned.
I never heard that second part of the study but wow am I glad I know about it now :)
The couple at the end are so adorable. Especially how he's outraged the broke she pastas but still calls her "my love" despite berating her for it. That's so precious.
I loved the tampon guy as well, he had such "I am not sure how but I am 100% committed to help you" energy
“Who hurt you, and why have you not grown up enough to get over it” it such a raw fckn line. Omg.
thanks for reminding me to paint my nails 💜
of course 💜
I should redo mine
I peel the paint off my nails so don’t paint them often
@@ignitedember343 same
I need to start painting my nails
Straights: "No friends of the opposite sex"
Homosexuals: "Okay"
Straights: "Wait, that's not how you play the game"
Is that supposed to be a joke?
@@MetaKnight964 yea
I was literally thinking the same thing. I swear they're all historians.
But i am straight, and i am friends with girls...wtf.
@@MetaKnight964no. duh.
"Who hurt you... and why have you not grown up enough to get over it" that is the most amazing thing I have ever heard come out of a human being's mouth
Talk about insensitive.
i get what you're tryna say but that taken outta context is just-
"This person. And because it's still hurts. have you ever heard of weather pains or phantom pains? This is the reason I didn't "grown up" enough to... what, get over it, right."
Oops wrong place never thought this would happen to ME
18:22 A friend of mine is an ECE (early childhood education) and this was literally the policy somewhere she used to work when a child tries to hug you. I think it would scar the poor child, make them think their unlovable or gross or something, its meant to protect the workers from false accusations of bad touch but talk about overkill
I hate how many of those men treat relationships the same way you would get a car, shoes, etc. it’s like a transaction to them, and not, you know, love
Maybe they’re gay with internalized homophobia, and feel pushed to relationships they have no love in?
Edit: Idk it’s really sucky but hard to address without knowing the cause
@@stardewofpyrrhia4381 I think it’s as simple as bad people being raised by other people with the same disregard for women
I think when people don't like themselves it becomes all too easy to think of relationships as transactional, that you have to do something prove your worth. And then they apply that standard to other people as well rip
They're probably afraid of being vulnerable (being in love) because they see that as a weakness or they've suffered from a heartbreak before
@@iwatchthemooooon3002 I think it’s as grossly simple as “this is how it’s supposed to work, therefore this is how it must work, conveniently that just happens to benefit me,”
The woman who throws out all the candy is just going to teach her kids to gorge themselves on all the candy on the day they get it so that it doesn't get thrown out... thus making them sick.
Great parenting there...
The better solution is to help the kid eat it responsibly. Perhaps making sure they eat their vegetables before they get to eat some of the candy.
@@MissCaraMintYeah and obviously place a huge emphasis on brushing teeth after they eat a bunch of sugar
That boyfriend, on his knees, phone out, flashlight on, ready to help his girl get his tampon out what a real one. I am in love with that man.
I was fucking dying at "Its not a cavern", the earnest love and concern is great
It was so cute. His heart was in the right place and he was *DETERMINED* to help.
I am a transwoman and regularly watch cishet people just full decide to be the problem for no reason other than insecurity. It honestly is fun to watch and sad at the same time
As a cis woman in a "straight" relationship, I wish I could grow a beard just to spite these fools
Never say never.
You know they get really itchy right?
@@blackwing3629 I have heard! But they still look good
@@joannelewis9231 well you could take testosterone and use beard supplements and see how that goes but I'd run it by your partner also you'd need to give it like 3-5 years to start looking really good
I have coarse facial hair on my face due to a hormonal imbalance when I was a teen. To hear men go on about, "only men have facial hair" makes me realize how much they live under a rock. They dont seem to be aware that PCOS exists.
These videos just always remind me of how my parents tried to convince me that 'there is no friendship between men and women, it's always about sex'. When I pointed out the various family friends that come over fairly regularly, my dad said 'that's different, cuz all of us are married already'. Oh how much I wanted to tell either of them to go and touch grass. Seriously.
this gets even funnier wehn you know people who were part of the 68-generation ... like - Once I was told a story how this person as a small boy came into his parents room at niht to found them ... well - having funtime with some family friends ... because for some people that was just normal
@@KaliqueClawthorne 😀😀😀
@@KaliqueClawthorne honestly that’s also an acceptable way of seeing friends even if you’re already in a relationship. Monogamy isn’t always for everyone
@XxxGxshBxnnixxX Wrong context lol
When your parents admit their friend group is secretly a polycule and they use “family friends” as the excuse
Honestly, that husband who was a hundred percent willing to go spelunking for that tampon to help his wife is genuinely wholesome considering how most men treat things like that.
Fr. I love that video so much, lol
I got a transphobic PragerU ad on this 💀
💀
I want mommy, I want milk,
👁️🕳️👁️
😂😂😂
God imagine being upset that your partner actually wants to spend time with their kid, like imagine being so pathetic you’re insecure over a baby
My sister's boyfriend recently had his nails painted, and he seems to like it. My mom told me that she thought it was weird for a guy to have his nails painted. It wasn't until she said that that I had the strange urge to get my nails painted.
It feels a bit weird to me, but it also feels a bit weird to me when women paint their nails.
@@henryfleischer404 thats odd lol
@@henryfleischer404 at last, equality 💀💀💀
@@henryfleischer404 You hate colors or sumthing?
@@C00K13-Z_9 No. I think it's probably because I've never known anybody who paints their nails. I do like wearing colorful dresses... or at least, dresses with intense colors.
16:14 for anyone confused, there's an episode of peppa pig where a polar bear kid draws a picture of her family and explains that she has two moms. It's a small scene in a five minute episode that somehow spawned a 45 minute rant from a very angry man.
1:08 AMAB here, wearing nail polish in public. And it looks fabulous.
I thought I might be trans but it turns out I'm actually Bi-gender. Something I never would have been able to figure out growing up but thanks to the evolution of society and the buildup of a welcoming accepting community I've not only managed to help myself but helped others who were struggling with LGBTQ identity issues as well.
:)
I'm glad you found the label you feel like fits you best, but I do wanna point out that anytime you identify as a gender that differs from your assigned sex at birth, you are, by definition, trans 💜
@@DasSpaceAce Bi gender is being comfortable as both male and female though. Which I am. So I guess you could say I'm half trans. :)
@@DasSpaceAce it more or less depends on the label you want.
If they don't want to be considered trans, then they aren't trans.
If they'd like to be considered trans, then they are trans.
EDIT: The game is called Entropic Float
I actually played a game that had a bi-gender character in and he didn’t even realise until a transfem character helped him out with it~ This comment just reminded me of it so much :)
My mother in law was flabbergasted when my girlfriend hung out with a friend of ours without me because did I really just "trust her like that ???"
Which yea, not cheating is literally so easy
IKR it's so easy to not, trusting your partner is like, a core foundation of a healthy relationship
As a straight dude, I think I speak for most normal straights when I say that we do not claim these or any other crazy straights.
I second the motion
I third that notion
I fourth that notion
All in favor? Motion carried.
Based
4:05 I FREAKING LOVE SILVIA! HER CONTENT IS SO FUNNY, ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE DOES CONTENT WITH VICKY!
I just love how that one guy, who is convinced any woman with male friends is being intimate with them, doesn't seem to understand that they could be intimate with other women.
14:47
She must not:
-Be more than 5’4”
-Be smaller than a C cup
-Weigh more than 120 pounds
-Have long or heavy periods
-Have acne
-Have a lot of body hair
This is basically describing a kid, but with boobs.
When they admitted they like kids with early puberty
I thought something seemed off about that
It did seem like he was just... describing a... "well-endowed" child (which is just disturbing to think about)
…That description fits me. I’m 30.
@@MissCaraMint feel the need to follow you with a stick so I can whack this man if he comes near you
Meanwhile when I saw that list in the video I was thinking something more along the lines of "isn't that just describing an anime girl?"
It’s really aggravating that a concerning amount of people believe that the purpose of life is
“Find sexy object, own or be owned by them by marrying them, reproduce, have your offspring marry and reproduce, continue the family genes”
Toxic evolution
That's literally base survival instinct at work. Also the purpose of "life" as you put it is different to every being in existence; it's like snow flakes you don't get repeats. Seriously look into nature, a majority of wildlife from all corners of the earth normally have this type of goal. Be born, learn the basics of life, eat, drink, sleep, shit, don't die until you can't, shack up with some pretty opposite (or same sex) creature that can produce offspring, have kids, abandon or raise next generation and then die. Simple as
@@recap1843 it’s not the meaning of life. We are beyond that.
@@recap1843 I think ur forgetting the fact that we're human's and are much more beyond that.we have a population of 8 billion,wars are becoming less & less frequent, we've come up cures for almost all plagues/illnesses, the need for human manual labor is decreasing as technology evolves & we have more then enough food/ supplies for EVERYONE on the planet
@@recap1843 That is the life cycle I think, and we are talking about humans in a civil society, not animals who fight tooth and nail so they can survive the next 24 hours
17:37 "posts like this makes it seem like it's a choice"
You mean the post saying that her tastes fluctuate and lamenting that she doesn't have a choice in the matter?
UA-cam demonetizing your ace videos is honestly aphobic. Thanks for continuing to do them even though youtube wont pay you for your good hard work.
Ikr
FOR ANYONE WONDERING ABOUT THAT VIDEO IN THE BEGINNING ABOUT VOICE FEMINIZATION!!!!
the channel is transvoicelessons and she's AMAZGING. The way she explains things is so great and it feels like it isn't going to be a big daunting task!
She really is an angel.
The Metatron, specifically.
do u have any channel recommendations for voice masculization?
@@koiinobori Unfortunately I don't there's that many resources for voice masculinization. However, Z's videos (TransVoiceLessons) go over the mechanics behind how we tend to gender voices, and basically doing feminization in reverse will result in a masculine voice. She often says in her videos "doing it this way will result in a feminine voice, and this way will result in a masculine voice." So worst case scenario I'd recommend watching some of her videos to start with. Maybe someone will be able to provide a voice masculinization video
That's also the same channel where the r/egg_irl meme originated, when someone commented on that same video, "I'm just here to voice female D&D characters I swear!" Now that was a funny thread.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150 It really was. The totally masculine urge to chase gender euphoria through femme role-play.
I'm italian, I DIED when I heard "Sarah, ma tu sei pazza!!" (Sarah are you crazy?!) I can confirm that unless you break the spagetti into little pieces and eat them in a soup, it is indeed illegal in Italy XD
imagine being a pastor and admitting in public that you want to break someone's finger because they wear nail polish 😀 like wow, that religion really is about love in the end !
Won't lie, nailpolish is so pretty on men. I'm not even sure why it just looks so good, subtle eyeliner too
I'm 100% for this 'nailpolish November'. You do you guys! Feel pretty! you deserve it!
While I love grunge, grunge ending the glam-rock era was a mistake. I'm a lesbian but even I can admit that male musicians were never prettier than during that era. Its also such a weird thing, that it didn't really established itself in broader community, name me one single Rockstar who wouldn't wear nailpolish, make-up and at least in some stage of their career long hair.
@@shizachan8421 indeed, glam rock needs to make a comeback, and I'll also add that so does 2000's emo. The vibe is just glorious.
@@aquabluerose7734 I think Emo has kinda make a come back since 2020, at least online. But yeah, I would love a return of glam and general classic rock.
I also have to say, as an oldie enjoyer I feel like there is undeniable just a fall in quality and overall hype that music induces since rock musicians stopped dress up like a bunch of queers during a pride parade, its undeniable. I mean, sorry, call me old-fashioned or narrow minded but how am I supposed to take somebody like Ed Sheeran seriously when he is running around like that and hasn't even legally canged his name into a girls name yet? As much as I complained about Grunge before, Kurt Cobain at least had the common decency to run around like a lesbian in public.
I saw a guy do white nail polish with a little shimmer (I think it was a glitter topcoat) and he looked fresh as hell. Nail polish is so flattering
I couldn't agree more, nail polish on guys do lool amazing!
So the spaghetti one reminded me of a pretty funny story with me and my grandmother. I was cooking with her about a year or two ago and I tried to break the spaghetti in half, she proceeded to smack the back of my hand and take the spaghetti away. As she was doing all this she noticed my nails which I had painted red and green, she then looked right at me with a stern expression and said “If you’re going to paint your nails like an Italian then you need to cook like one!” Completely went over her head that I actually painted them those colors because it was Christmas Eve… My grandma could care less how you dress or who you’re into but you do not screw up Italian cooking in her household!
that sounds like one badass of a grandma
_omg your grandma sounds so cool_
there are like 50 different videos of people cooking weird in front of their Italian husbands why are we torturing Italian husbands like this
Not Italian (like either side of the family for at least 5 generations), but even I cringe at breaking spaghetti... somehow I got trained up, just don't ask me how 😅
Your grandma sounds epic
As an Italian I share the horror reaction of that guy. The way to do it is this: you gotta align the spaghetti vertically inside the pot of boiling and previously salted water and then you twist them with both hands in opposite directions so that when you release them they will fall in a pretty wheel shape. Then, after just a few seconds they will have become soft enough to push em in the water without breaking them. Great content, OT.
As an American, just put it in the water. It will become soft and fully submerge shortly.
@@henryfleischer404 I own a big pot
... Who says they want to break someone's fingers in church?!? Especially a pastor???
and my family wonders why im afraid to go to church
I’m a trans girl and my wife a cis girl and I play games together all the time. Over my work weekend we were playing Mario party 1 and 2 together and had a great time laughing. Women play games too. 😊
That's so cute, may you be happy.
^^ That's sweet
Thats so sweet :)
Aww, that's so wholesome ❤️
Men know that women play games and can be/are good at it but it hurts some of their egos so they refuse to acknowledge it or it destroys their personal perception of manliness
As a Catholic who was raised with a devotion to the Virgin Mary (due to having been afab), the Waria meme had me doubled over with laughter! I had to put my tea down so I wouldn't spill it!
17:45 "how dare you call me biphobic just because I said [biphobic thing]?"
Anyway, yes, it's completely normal for bi/pan/queer/multisexual people's attraction to go through stages like this (tbh especially if you're trans and/or nonbinary with a fluctuating gender (genderfluid, girlflux, boyflux, etc); for some people their gender can affect how they experience attraction). BPQM people talking about experiences like this should absolutely be normalized and destigmatized. *Just because your gender or sexual/romantic orientation isn't static, doesn't mean it's a "choice" or is somehow less legitimate than static genders and orientations are.*
(Also, even if it were somehow a "choice," "choosing" to be LGBTQ+ should be allowed, and shouldn't delegitimize those orientations/genders either, or make it okay to discriminate against or abuse people within those communities... but apparently society still isn't ready for that conversation.)
Wonderful way to put it! I am both bisexual and genderfluid and I definitely feel this way! Some days I feel like I like men more than women, other days the other way round. Sometimes I go between male and female gender and on other days I don't care about gender and don't feel the need to label myself or to be female or male. Thank you for standing up for this side of the LGBTQ community as bisexuality is strangely also discriminated against because people make it seem we can't "pick a side" because we genuinely can't!
Tbh I don’t care about anyone’s gender or sexuality as long as they aren’t obnoxious just so your thing and let me do mine
@@timmcguire653 I would say the about the people who spread hate because I don't think the same way they do
PREACH
What's BPQM? Just want to learn more.
Cyberpunk is HELLA dystopian, but it's still so much better than the real world in a concerningly large number of aspects
"who hurt you, and why have you not grown up enough to get over it" 11:34
raw line oh mi god
Man's needs a hug from Mummy and Daddy.
OT goes HARD
It's always made me so uncomfortable when people proclaim with their WHOLE CHEST that every person views every other person through a purely sexual lens. My first bf had a major jealousy problem, because he thought every dude I interacted with was just waiting to "steal" me from him, and accused me of flirting when I was literally.....just talking to another person in a friendly way. I simply don't see other people this way! I can't help but think that people who have this worldview are projecting hardcore - they see every interaction like this and so they assume everyone else does too. The straights are not okay!!
He might have an obsession
OT isn't just, a straight ally, he is THE straight ally. I love this guy.
As a straight ally he’s my role model
People like ot give me hope for the world
OT flipping off a Homophobic pastor was the equivalent of my very nice art teacher cursing out shity homophobic people in the cutest softest voice. Justified, wholly unexpected, and very badass.
Seeing LGBTQ+ memes has really helped me discover who I am. I went through a really wild adventure, but I'm so happy to have landed on genderfaun and transmasc for my gender. I've started presenting more masculine within the last couple of months and I've never felt happier with who I am. My mom has accepted me - my dad probably won't, but I don't like him anyways - and my friends and partner have been great as well.
"but I don't like him anyways"
😂😂😂 love that energy since I have no bond with mine and he isn't willing to create one.
I'm trans masc too but I still present myself feminine from time to time ^^ (my gender is.. yes, it is.. 😄)
@@Daesma999 fr lmao, except I love my dad
@@Unidentified952 good for you, then
genderfaun, eh? you good with pan pipes? /j
Random stranger on the internet here to say I'm proud that you've found an identity that makes you happy :D
I feel so sorry for the guy that’s going to have to come out to the family that tried to marry their 19 year old daughter to him who’s a 34 years old
Were they trying to get him to marry his niece?? Or was I just reading it wrong? I seriously hope it's the latter because...seriously WTF? Hell, even if I'm wrong, wtf?!
@@mangaanimefan89 That's what i was thinking.
@@mangaanimefan89 that is exactly what they were trying to do... i hope he got out of that and got far away since then, his parents and family sounds absolutely horrible
@@mangaanimefan89 he said MY SISTER'S DAUGHTER, so. nah much as I hate it I doubt you're wrong.
I'm a Christian and, yeah, those "don't be alone with the opposite sex" things are absolutely taught in some circles. I heard it plenty because I was a teenager, so it starts well before marriage. Your spouse and family members are the only opposite-sex people you're allowed to be alone with. It's so weird.
Not weird as such, I think. -Just... futile :) "Traditional christian" sexual values demand abstinence and monogamy, so the rules do make sense. They are doomed to fail, though, because biology is stronger than any god we can think up :D Note: I don't condone substituting such rules for good sex ed and contraceptives for teens. Screaming ABSTINENCE at them won't work anyway, so we need to teach them to be careful and respect each other. And married couples really should be able to trust each other.
@@graydanerasmussen4071 Humans are not dogs, and claiming that the human sex drive is stronger than our ability to follow our own morality is actually an incredibly dangerous myth that is a foundational aspect of rape culture. (I know that you're not attempting to condone rape culture or anything, for the record.)
The "don't be around people of the opposite sex" rule IS weird, because both you and fundies have a mistaken understanding of humans' capacity of self control. See, if you were right about "biology" being "stronger than any god we can think up", then staying away from people we have potential to be attracted to would be the only possible way to be monogamous or abstinent, at least for allosexual people.
But in reality, people who have a healthy understanding of others, regardless of gender, as people; a robust sense of their own morals and the reasons behind them; and practiced self-control as opposed to fear and avoidance, won't have much trouble just not sleeping with people if that would be cheating on a marriage or whatever.
@@Iamtk777 I think you overestimate us humans :) Statistics tells us otherwise, sorry. Consistently, a fair bit of cheating goes on, also in enlightened, otherwise healthy marriages. "It just... -happened!" is the most frequent explanation. And teens? Overwhelmed with new, strong urges, biological imperatives, not to mentioned peer pressure, a sexualized culture ect.
I am not saying most people are overcome, but life teaches us that a good few are. Mind, consentual but "immoral" sex is way different from rape! People who give in to a temptation are not equal to people who violate others!
Don't we agree that a robust sex ed (including the very sensible advice to wait) in middle and high school, and access to contraceptives, no questions asked, is a good thing? Statistics show that areas with "Abstinence only" sex ed do way worse than more progressive, as far as teen STDs, pregnancies, rape and teen suicides.
There's an Alabama joke in there somewhere.
@@TheSpeep Ssh! It doesn't count if it´s your sister! :D -That one? :D
"Women don't play video games"
Me over here who spent the whole day in my bed playing the new legend of zelda game
(15:00) Women below 5'4, less than 120 lbs, doesn't have body hair (or very little), haven't gotten any periods or acne. That's a pre-pubescent child. Don't people realise how creepy this is?
i think we all do
@@genericyoutubecommenter589 Well, I guess it's obvious, just weird that I don't see people point it out when reacting to it
@@Liggliluff why did you leave out the part where he said he wanted a minimum of C-Cup?
The man is sexist, demanding an unreasonable, unrealistic, near impossible ideal for a woman who probably woudnt give him the time of day if she did exist, and all KINDS of messed up in the head... but the one thing I would say he ISN'T is a pedophile... and I find it kind of weird that you are going out of your way to misrepresent him that way? He seems to be doing a good enough job of ruining his own reputation without your help...
I thought the same thing 😰
ya, as a women that is the opposite of all that, I found it very creepy that their saying they want 10 year old girls.
you videos are so comforting for me! im a trans masc person and this has finally broken my fear of painting my nails
Yes!! You paint those nails bro!! NAIL POLISH NOVEMBER!!!
Nail polish is great on anyone! Don't let anyone stop you!
nailpolish AND make up belongs to everyone! If you want it GO for it. Wear and do whatever you want! ❤️
Paint them dude
Painted nails can look good on any gender if you want to , do it brother
My family has been showing their true colors lately and have been saying increasingly prejudice things and ganging up on me when I don't agree with them or say something "liberal" so this really helped me a little. Thank you, OT.
Oof. My dad was the same way. I told him "either we don't talk about [these subjects], or I will leave and go home today". I could only do this once I moved out, though. And not everybody has the social option to just hit the bricks. In the end, you gotta do what you gotta do to protect yourself. Hang in there.
@@AroundTheBlockAgain Thanks. I’m not old enough to move out so the only thing I can do is stay in my room, but even that seems to make them mad. Hope you’re in a better environment now.
@@Krow_Kid yeah, when my siblings and I stayed in our rooms, our parents demonized us for that, too. But we protected ourselves in this way. We did what we had to do. I even took my dinnerplate and ate in my room sometimes when my dad tried to start fights at the dinnertable, and boy did that make him mad! He wanted to bait me into another fight! But my mom wanted a peaceful dinnertime so she wouldn't let him escalate it from there, or let him deny me food.
This was a safe strategy for me. The most important thing is keeping yourself safe and protecting yourself from harm and distress.
They may just want to see you take the bait, and get stuck in another fight that they can "win". I hate it when people say this about bullies but... if this describes them, don't give them the satisfaction. They're not worth it. There may be a time in the future when they'll be open to listening to you, but now is probably not that time. Keep yourself safe, and hang in there.
And yes, it is such an amazing experience to get out of that kind of situation. For me, living away from them is still like Christmas every day. In fact, I spent this past Christmas with my "adopted" aunties from my queer-friendly church. It was wonderful. Definitely worth it.
5:24 In their defense, they agreed on that, its not our business to tell them how to make themselves miserable
I agree. if it works for them, then fine. its none of my business in that case. but they cant claim that it makes sense. what if they have to text a boss? how about a coworker? a doctor? a client? a parent? a tech support hotline? a repair guy? a child?? any one of the other 4 billion things that you cant ask for someone of a specific gender? I mean... okay, you can do it, but dont claim it makes sense
No lie that one about 'men don't need to feel loved' smacks of bad coping mechanisms. If feeling 'loved' makes you feel hollow or unfulfilled maybe it's because *you aren't getting enough love*
"men don't need to feel loved because it leaves them feeling hollow and empty" bro maybe you just... need your desire for love to be fulfilled?
OT, as a trans femme,that intro was amazing. I’m so glad to have an ally like you sticking up for us. We sure as hell need it. 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
#NailPolishNovember
We the majority, stan Ot for president, as he's the most just and chaotic leader around
Hate yt making the trans flag white on emojis..
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@@OneTopic AHHH WHAT A HEART AND REPLY BRO THANK YOU SO MUCH! THIS MEANS THE WORLD TO ME. THANK YOUUUUU.
ALSO WHAT THE LIKES ON THIS-
I do not deserve these.
Thanks all of you
Being called a woman because I shave is so validating. Thank you!👏
Genuine ewphoria moment
at the same time being called not a woman for having body hair is very validating lol
I love when people create accidentally supportive messages
can confirm, shaved yesterday and my dick immediately fell off 👍
Loving the accidental ally vibes here peeps ❤
I don’t and i still am one.
14:34 (deep breath) you sir are literally describing a child
I feel so bad for that 60 yr old woman who has a husband she doesn't like
14:45 short, light, no body hair, no periods, no acne...
this sounds like a child.
Or a pre t trans man
@@draalttom844 Is it common for pre-t trans guys to have no body hair, no periods, and no acne? If so, I sure missed the memo lol
21:37 "clearing the house" is a phrase used checking or "clearing" different rooms in a building of any potential threats
just thought I'd try and clear that up
I'm sorry... That's not normal?
That seems worse
@@bleepblock2177 it doesent seem bad when you lookbat it through the prespective of just preparing youre kids for the worst case scenarios
9:55 as a lesbian who has mostly male friends I see this as an absolute win
"I didn't find any hair on your shirt!"
"..and?"
"DID YOU LIE ABOUT HAVING A CAT?!"
"NO, SHE'S A SPHINX AND HER NAME IS BASTET LIKE THE GODESS SHE IS"
"Good"
There, I fixed the joke
I LOVE SPHYNX CATS SO MUCH YESSSS
OT: shows nailpolish then flips the bird
Me: Sir I'm platonically in love with you
My ace brain just went
DID SOMEONE SAY *PLATONIC LOVE* LNFKEJVOECOEJ GIVE ME YES
I need more sleep😭
@@phoenixthings go to sleep
@ lamb sauce
I can’t, because as long as it’s light outside, my body refuses to sleep :’D
@@phoenixthings not even if it's really dark in your room?
That had the same level of (platonic) hotness as a man holding kittens, which is top male hotness for me.
The raising of your fist after the 'Well guess what preacher?' Was such a badass move. I thought you were gonna say 'try to break these fingers if you think I'm weak.' You're awesome.
Yeah. How bewildering is it that OT can get slapped for having "sexual content" for talking about aces(???) but raise a middle finger in a video? Fortunately, awesomeness happens.
As a transgender teen these make me happy
I got a year milestone on being sober from self harm a couple days ago and I cried because I've been having urges again but I didn't give into them. Mow I'm here watching your amazing content and feeling happier than I have in a long time. Thankyou OT for making your channel a safe space for me and many others. Thankyou for making me know that I can share this and I won't feel unsafe.We love you so much for what you do and who you help.
Congrats on the milestone! Keep up the good work and remember that you're worth it
That’s amazing!
Congrats! I myself got to two years in october, and although i still get urges, they are much more infrequent. As cliché as it sounds, it gets better :)
Your an incredibly strong willed person, I'm sorry you had to go through that but also proud you didn't give in. Addiction is probably one of the worst things people can deal with. I wish you best of luck on your continued sobriety. Stay strong king and or queen. 👑
OMG GOOD JOB IM ONE YEAR SELF HARM FREE TOO
When I started watching OT's "Are the straights ok?" videos I always thought I'm ok and I'm straight. I have now realised that's yes, I am ok but I'm not straight! 😂
Welcome to the rest of the world! I hope you find someone who gives you the warm fuzzies and who you can give the same feelings back to~
good on you for realizing that you are not straight!!
I’m still straight and i’m just fine lmao
I made a genderfluid friend today and we immediately clicked,it was amazing we are 3 LGBTQ+ people in an all straight group one of the LGBTQ friend is completely oblivious about gay jokes and so are our straight friends so while we were dying, crying and laughing they were wondering if we were mentally okay-
We also read hearts stopper and we listened to girls in red so amazing ! One best day of my life
That husband in the tampon video was READY. You'd think he was laying his life down for her in some high fantasy romance movie. So dramatic, A++ theatre
Me, fully bearded wearing my favourite sparkly deep purple nail polish:
"Bring it on, bitch."
oh I bet you look gorgeous with these ^^
Niiice
19:31 "have you *met* MEN''???!!"
truly a statement
certainly one of the statements of all time, that's for sure
I love the wholesome energy OT brings to my day. It's always a joy to watch their videos because I know I'll come out of it smiling. He's like the LGBT community's Uncle Iroh
Lgbt community uncle iroh... Omg...
The click is zuko then?
@@phoebedarker either Zuko or Toph, with his sense of humor and sarcasm
@@madbrown960 and 'colour' blindness /s
Oh my, this is so wholesome. I definitely support this idea, it made my day!
the "POV you're on a date with me" is sylvia I love her stuff she is SO funny
When One Topic showed his fingers, i nearly screamed that we have the same one :3
I recently started painting my nails and now I actually feel very comfortable with it. OTs and Click's videos really help me, express myself however I want :3
Thank You OT, Click and the Community :3
Also wanted to add: Y'all are awesome and valid
Your English is really good! Way better than my Spanish (the only other language I know to any significant degree)
Ngl, your Spanish would still be better than mine, since i don't know any Spanish xd
My first language is German btw
Greetings from Germany and have a wonderful Day :3
@@VertyTHPS I was just using Spanish as a comparison for knowledge of a second language.
Have a good day, sir! (I know a light smattering of German phrases, but nothing that works for this context)
Your English is great, honestly there are people whose first language is English that write worse than you do
I can make you scream.