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What's up my Beardos and Weirdos!
today we're diving into Trans Memes! a lot of these are from r/traa but i have a feeling some of these were crossposted!! i was scrolling fast so i don't remember which may have come from other subs but i really enjoyed reading each of these. a lot of silly trans memes, as well as wholesome educational content, as well as tackling some transphobe posts because transphobes can't help but post.
Do one thing for yourself today that makes you happy. Much love. 💜
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As a trans woman I can assure you that losing your beard is chilly
Layfe's a really pretty name..
I prefer my trans women with beards.
I don't care if I'm cold if it means my face is smooth
"I look and feel so pretty, but HOLY SHIT MY FACE IS COLD NOW!!!"
@@brothersandsistersofvalhalla but beards are scratchy and uncomfortable
As a trans boy, I cannot possibly explain the amount of joy I get from being called by my name or called 'he'. Even now, I still get all excited when it happens
Pronoun euphoria is sublime. I melted the first time my partner called me her wife 🥰
Seriously though, I almost cried from sheer joy the first time that my best friend called me he and I still get so happy every time !!
It never goes away ^u^ I still get giddy when I get ma'am'd in Ubers
Dude the happiness felt is like second to none, I always smile like a goof afterwards lol.
Hope i can supply some joy, brother!
Using “Hearing your voice when it’s recorded back on a phone” was such an amazing analogy for dysphoria.
While I am not trans myself, I can most certainly relate to that feeling of realizing that something you were always comfortable with isn’t what you thought it was like to other people in that way.
I understand dysphoria very much more clearly now.
Another explanation I use is “wet socks”
@@-.LUCIAN.- I’d love to hear that
Idk. Being trans myself, that doesn't ring true at all. Hearing my phone voice does evoke this weird feeling because I sound different, but it's nothing like how I felt about my then-male body. I was just apathetic and unhappy. It didn't feel like it was "not mine" (even though my expression was and is so feminine, many people thought I was gay growing up, which hilariously enough, is correct, just... Not a gay man)
I am cis, but this is the analogy I use - let me know if I got it right! Put your hands together and interlace your fingers. Now interlace them the other way (so the other thumb ends up on top). There is no logical reason, but it just feels all wrong and you will immediately want to switch back so your preferred thumb is on top.
Seriously.... Esp bc mine is so freaking deep compared to how I hear it normally.... Like wat. Makes me sympathize so hard.... It freaks me out. And almost as much as the stuff I still struggle with with asd and adhd *takes a long drink*
As a cis male Norwegian... my viking beard definitely helps in the winter months.
Had to shave it for surgery once... it felt like I'd suddenly removed a scarf keeping me snug and warm.
You shaved your beard? Disgraceful.
@@brothersandsistersofvalhalla I felt breathing during surgery was valid, as they needed to fit an oxygen mask on.
@@VampyrMygg I'm just messing with you cause Norse valued beards. That's the joke.
My sister is married to a Norwegian. But he doesn't have a beard.
@@jennoscura2381 The audacity!
As a trans man, I would like to say that I now worship the stingray. Transfemmes have blåhajs, and I personally will be buying a stingray plushie at the next available moment. Thank you for coming to my TedTalk
Oo i like this idea
I already have one
Highly recommend getting a little stingray that has suction cups on the fins so you can hang it on your window or mirror. (Or magnets to put it on the fridge.)
I really like stingrays :3
hey bro, if anyone calls u by a deadname just tell me where they live if you know. i just needa talk with them. :3
@@Crisjola oooh I will!
For anyone who didn't get the number one, the second value is Euler's Constant, commonly abbreviated as "e"
Thank you
I'm literally doing stuff with e in class rn. I should know this
I recognized it was Euler’s Constant, but I still don’t get the joke?
thank you, i was looking for this ^-^
@@nikonosurname1823 e is sometimes used to refer to estrogen
One thing I saw on tumblr recently that put transitioning and being trans into perspective for me is,
That instead of going "am I really a man? Do I really belong to this gender?"
To go "Would I be happier living as a man right now?"
And like... I think I am random internet user. I think I would.
So, keep that in mind for when the impostor syndrome hits. If it makes you happier then it's worth it. If it makes your life better you deserve to go for it. Let yourself.
Correction "would I be happier being sterilized and living as a fake man" and the answer is no
@@BASED877 wrong channel, go back to your alpha male podcasts and your ben shapiro videos
@@BASED877that name and pfp combo is all I need to know you're a kid
@@idk72. I'm 28 yo whether you like it or not reality dictates my age not your feelings get used to it
A friendly reminder to everyone that you are valid, you are valued, you are loved, your opinion is valid and valued, and you are appreciated. Don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise, and I hope you have an amazing rest of your day because you deserve it 💜
unless ur opinion is hate and bigotry
Thanks
how do u know?!?!?!? :0
I like to think that, but becouse more people have a diffrent opinion than me, they think I am wrong. They mock me becouse of my beliefs.
I'm a transmasc and i was at a resturant with my mom and the waitress looked at her and said "what a handsome son you have" the waitress apeered to be around 60. But that was the best moment of my life.
More awesome moments are coming your way, my man!
LETS GOOOOO
Even as a born guy, that would be awesome.
compliments from the elderly really do hit different
Cringe
Being called the Broom is 1,743% better than being called a Gride. I would LOVE to be called a broom.
Gride sounds like a twin to Grom (owl house reference)
@@illegallynamedAYY OWL HOUSE
I just came out as trans male and my friend who was just ok with int yesterday got mad at me and said "why can't you just be a girl? Why can't you just be normal? God made you a girl so that's how it's supposed to be." I've told him before about how I'm confused about my gender and how I'm scared of people telling me that. I broke out in tears and my friend Alex comforted me. These videos help me alot on days like today❤
I'm really glad your friend Alex was there for you!!!
yeah fuck people that say "god" made you whatever
Jan, dude... I'm sorry that your "friend" was a transphobic piece of shit.
I hope that you're doing okay now and that you and Alex are having a good day today 🫂
@@eboone No, no. Fuck people who use god making you as an excuse to be transphobic, or homophobic, or use it for any kind of discrimination. If god made him, god made him to be trans.
"God made me trans"
I just asked my boyfriend (laughing) "Would you love me if I was a worm" and he said dead serious "No. But I would put you outside in some good soil and feed you with food leftovers" and I feel like that is the ultimate answer 😂😂
Fun fact. Worms mainly consume dirt and shit it out to fertilize it. They can eat rotting dead things too sometimes but their diets are usually 90% or more just dirt.
@@brothersandsistersofvalhalla Worms love compost (=food leftovers). That is how good and healthy soil is created. :)
Aw, what an honest answer that still conveys that he cares for your well-being. Seems like a keeper ^__^
@@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos We are currently renovating a house / farm sooooo I HOPE SO 😂😂🙈 (but I agree with you 😊)
@@Tasmetu Yes I did say they sometimes eat that. They'll also eat corpses. :)
This previous thanksgiving, one of my cousins came out as trans at the family dinner (female to male) His dad looked at him and said
"You are no longer my daughter."
We all froze, thinking it would get ugly but just a few seconds later he followed up that statement with a calm and collected
"You are now my son."
Feels good man
I wish my parents said that to me
Me too bro
Welp, I now know what to say if my kid comes out as trans.
Honestly, this is so sickly sweet. Love it.
That guy knows how to stop everything in a given room at any time
If I had a kid that came out as a trans man. I would do my best Kratos impression and say *”Boy”*
3:03 As a trans enby, I must say I do not summon demons on the bathroom. I only summon demons at the beach, where there's more space to them to arise.
Edit: Turns out I'm a trans boy, BUT THE POINT STANDS.
THIS COMMENT
I can’t believe the amount of people who don’t understand our logic! Who cares if we want to colonize the whole New England coast?! Pansexuals get Poland, Asexuals get Denmark, why can’t we get New England’s coast!?
@@Stardust_0fficial as an aroace enby, do you trust me with two territories
@@Stardust_0fficialwait. I didn’t know about Poland. That’s interesting!
@@m_affiliates Can I trust you to help with the cause??
I’m 15, figured out I was trans at 12. My parents think I’m “choosing” to be trans because it’s trendy and always speak w me about how evil and bad trans ppl are, ignoring the fact that I am. My friends are extremely supportive and I have had some amazing adults in my life. I just wish my parents would learn to love me, not for being their sweet little girl, but for being their son. My father has hinted to a possibility of him being so uncomfortable about me transitioning that I wouldn’t be involved in anything family related once I move out. Including seeing my little brother (turning 6 in march) who he’s already pushing his ideals onto.
Hang out with your brother as much as you can, I hope even when you can't see him anymore, he'll have a positive image of you despite your parents influence. Really hope you two can be like Barney and his little brother from Dead End.
Wtf are you my clone? This is on point of what’s happening in my life, I have an older brother though who has in a sense been through less so he is like a younger brother to me, very good dude though. I agree with the other person, enjoy the time you can around your brother and if he knows you are a good person he might ask to visit in the future or stuff like that! I wish you luck!
Honestly, I can understand them. I wouldn't want my kids to transition until they aren't underage anymore, when I look back and think about the things I considered reasonable a few years ago I can just shake my head in disbelief.
Detransitions do happen, but by that point the damage is already done and it's not possible to restore everything fully as far as I know.
@@lucad9667 Not letting them see their brother again seems out of character if the parents' concern was their older son's health in the future though. Plus we have professionals who make sure it is dysphoria and is unrelated to trauma, depression etc.
@@MillyKKitty Even professionals can be wrong, even moreso psychologists as they can only work with second-hand-evidence.
19:13 the little story there really get me... I (cis woment) was the first one to take my (trans)girlfriend shopping for more female outfits. I was NOT LIKE THAT AT ALL, because I would hate that my fear block her from doing stuff, but I was really worried that we'll have bad reaction around us... In the end, it was quite nice ^^ We had a waistress (?) measuring her to help her find bra her size that did absolutly no comment. One that went "how the dress lady and gents?" to which I answer "Perfect, it really fit the other LADY ^^ !" and she just went "oh sorry, I should have pay more attention!"
But yeah... Hate the transphobia cause I just want her to be safe (and not feeling afraid for us when we're ouuuuut)
15:09 2.71828 is called Euler's number, and it's marked (idk words) as e. So in the context of this subreddit it's estrogen. I'm fun at parties :D
Transdentical number, baby!
You are fun at parties
You, my friend, are the best at parties
I'll love you at parties
yea the fuck you are
talking about the partys
Voice dysphoria is such a real thing. I'm so glad voice analyzer exist. It helped me out so much in the early days of my transition.
Voice analyzer? Is there a convenient link?
Would you please provide a link?
Link? Please? 🥺
please, where can we find this? please, I beg of you
Where and what please
The pickles thing does make so much sense now. Before I transitioned (FTM), I used to get horrible, horrible cramps and I used to easily go through 3 or more jars of pickles a week. (I never did get an actual diagnosis but we think that it was PCOS.) It was literally a running gag in my family because when we'd go to the store, I'd literally put an absurd number of jars in the cart. There were so many "well, if we ever forget to buy you a present, we can always get a Costco sized jar of pickles" jokes. A few months after I started T, my, uh, monthly visitor stopped visiting and, literally that same month, I stopped craving pickles all the time. Now I have one family member (who is accepting) who is trying to get a new running joke started that too many pickles will make you grow a, well, "pickle" and I have another family member (transphobe) who thinks, for some reason, that if I just start eating pickles again, I'll "grow out of this phase" even though I'm almost 30... Those two family members are siblings too so that's fun lmao. Totally gonna share that fact with my family just to see how it changes the pickle dynamic because I enjoy the chaos.
Make sure you still check in with a doctor about your "visitor" since there can be complications. I know that cis women shouldn't go more than 3 months unless there's hormonal therapy (like birth control) but it's still worth checking that you're healthy. Not sure how T affects it. Just be careful and healthy!
@ppleeatpple That's not usually a concern in the case of T, but I appreciate the concern! If you're interested in learning about it, one of the very expected (and usually anticipated) changed with T is actually that the cycle stops completely. Usually, within a couple of months to a year, but the time range can vary from person to person. It's very similar to the effect of birth control because T is also hormonal therapy, just with a different goal, lol. There definitely can be complications or problems, but that's more case-by-case and not general rule, though. It's still recommended to get the appropriate exams (like PAPs, etc), at least unless a doctor recommends otherwise or you've had surgery that means not needing them. A lot of times (depending on where you get it,) the same place that prescribes the T will also do those exams so watching the health of those body parts is kind of baked into the whole treatment plan. How often the exams are needed can also change after T, but I can't speak for everyone's cases, obviously. I know that for me, they initially did the exams yearly, but after my last exam, they said 5 years until I needed another. I'm planning on having surgery before then, though, in which case, they've said no more exams will be needed (obviously lol. It'd be like asking to get the oil changed in an electric vehicle) There are myths/assumptions that say that HRT or any gender affirming care is just "here's some meds/surgery/letters (for legal documents). Have fun," but it's far more in-depth than that. I get bl**dwork done every 3-6 months (3 for the first year every time I have to change docs, 6 months after that, until I change docs again) and they keep track of a lot of different things. The doctors and nurses are keeping a good eye on us, so don't worry about us! Like I said, though, I appreciate the reminder/concern!
@@wolfoftheages The effects of T on menstrual cycles are so weird. My friend had a period for like 4 weeks straight when he was 1-2 months on T and he's good now but damn.
I also have PCOS and what he went through was what I was like before I went on birth control for it. I've met so many transmasc people who have PCOS, though! Like the "masculinising" effects of PCOS actually affirm our body image, even before we realise we're trans. I'm kinda wanting to get off of the pill because I like my hairy self, but that would involve explaining my transmasc intentions behind that want. It would also sound like I'm "choosing to be infertile" or something to my older relatives so that's a no.
I love your pickle story, too. Stay awesome and good luck with your future transition goals! :)
Wait…I love pickles. I’ve eaten them a lot since I was a kid. And after running out for years I started feeling gender dysphoria and having worse and worse cramps. Huh. I didn’t know that.
Or am I getting that backwards? I’m probably getting that backwards. 😓
Me at 16: *Wears girly clothing but constantly says I'm cis guy*
Me at 26: *Frantically runs to my husband* I HAVE TITTIES!!!!
My husband: *Blank stare cause this is the billionth time I've said it*
this is already my girlfriend and I to each other
That's like a meme deserving to be in the video. Thank you for this cute laugh ✨🩷💖
THE EUPHORIA (and it was cute af)
I (a trans girl) looked up "wholesome trans memes" to stop myself from spiraling, I was on the verge of a full breakdown do to dysphoria and this video really really helped, I don't know what that 22 minutes would have looked like but I know it would have been much darker, thank you.
hope you’re doing better.
Confused person (?) sending you love and support from afar ! Hope you're doing better !
Personally these trans memes are making me spiral in a rabbit hole of "oohhhhh maybe that's me" all over again (last time being back when I discovered asexuality a few years ago)
I hope you're doing better now, know that we all love and support you here!! ❤
not a good idea to share these things on the internet
Haha, 7:50
I’m trans nonbinary, and I realized theres no nonbinary word for aunt/uncle, so I told my cousins (lived with them as a foster kid for years) to just tell there kids to call me gruncle like from gravity falls. Love it.
thats an awesome fursuit head you have.
Auncle
I've been asking myself the same question about how to call myself in french now that my bestie has a baby ! Between Tata & Tonton I chose ....... Tonti :D
My uncle (who is gay) after I told him I was gender fluid he realised there were no niece and nephew equivalents so he came up with nieve for nieve/nephew and aunk for uncle/aunt
Omg! I love that.
Hi everyone! It was a math joke, and I can’t see anyone else explaining it so: The number 2.71828 is an irrational number similar to pi. This number is denoted with the letter e, hence it’s presence on the trans subreddit. The use of the variable e is created from the guy who discovered it, Euler, which is why it is also referred to as Euler’s number. E is often used in solving logarithms/logarithmic equations. Thanks for letting me babble about math!
Thx ! I searched for your comment, and I'm happy I found it ^^
I've heard that Euler just already had an a, b, c, and d, and didn't actually name it after himself
*me knowing what e was and still not getting the meme*
Ironically for transphobes, it's used in the natural log.
My sibling in mathematics, I found you. Good to see one of us outside of math videos.
I'm FtM. My name is Devin. The amount of joy I have been given from 20:28 and ot thanking Devin has brought tears to my eyes.
Good on you Devin
Devin is a cool name, dude.
Devin is an awesome name. I remember before I realised I was enby and I thought I was transmasc, I went by Devin for a while!
Epic name, and I hope you're able to start transitioning at your first opportunity
Yo what’s up Devin
I have a brothr named Devin, too!!
even though i haven’t even started transitioning, some people call me sir, (i dress in only boy clothes lmao). and when those sweet elderly ladies call me “young man”, my heart just melts!!
Same bro
“young man” and “buddy” make me feel warm inside
Be the best sir that was ever a sir out there and be more of a sir than anyone else ever has
In my best Alastor impression. “You are doing wonderfully. My good fellow.” 👍
When I (trans ftm) was at a gas station with my (cis male) friend, we went to check out and the clerk said “will that be all for you boys?” And that literally made my day..
So I recently made the decision to start HRT. I’ve known since I was a toddler that I was trans (even if i had no idea there was a word for it until I became a teen). Now at 24 I’m ready to make the leap. I’m thankful for the LGBTQA community for being such a loving bunch. Thanks for helping me feel like I belong.
I’m so happy for you!
I wish you the absolute best! Lots of love to you and may your future be a happy and fulfilled one!
Good luck!
congratulations!
Good luck on your journey! Reading this made me smile💖
I started transitioning a year ago despite my family. It's been rough living on my own, but these past 12 months have been the best days of my life and I would not change a single thing.
Hell yeah, live your best life 💙💖🤍💖💙
I had an argument with someone about trans stuff, and they made a metaphor about how its like being shorter than you want to be, that just because you want to be 7 feet tall instead of 5, doesn't mean you're going to get surgery to fix that. I was, so confused, do they even know about platform boots???? Plus its just a dumb argument to make, like idk man, we live in the modern era, make ur body how you want it. If you've ever heard the lemon demon song "modify", thats the vibe. Do you want to rip all your skin off to replace it with metal? Hell yeah, go wild. Trans? Yes, yes, yes! Boobinator beam 5000! Want to be specifically 7.3 inches taller? Doable and fun!
May nothing get rejected, may nothing get infected!
@@andistansbury4366_banger 7/4 chorus here_
I don't think cis people understand just how hard it is to hear your deadname constantly. no one irl calls me by the name I chose, despite knowing it. but when I started using Joey online, it was such a mood lifter to see people start calling me joey, to the point that I was crying from how good it felt. I've always liked J names so I don't understand why it took me this long to realize that one was perfect for me.
also, you know it's bad when someone on a game, a complete stranger, stands up for me and tells the lobby to use the correct pronouns for me. and when I tell her that I'm used to not being referred to with the right pronouns, she (once again a STRANGER) had to remind me that I shouldn't be used to it. even though I'll probably never talk to her again, I'm really glad that she reminded me that
that is really cool!
i am a cis girl but changed my name because of family trauma reasons. still getting "deadnamed" by my family and most of the students in my year.
i can understand how hard it must be to deal with always being called by a name you don't feel comfortable with, and it really sucks to hear that you are getting deadnamed by others despite them knowing it.
my name change is not connected to gender dysphoria but i guess i can understand a part of the insecurity connected to it.
i guess i was able to see how hard it already was for me even though i only changed my name. with dysphoria on top of that, it must be really painful.
whatever you are going through, you are not alone and i hope it will become better concerning whatever you will become.
from a random stranger on the internet.
My birth name starts with a J, and you're right that J names are the best, so I'm thinking Julia for when I come out
Yeah a hundred percent. I relate so hard to this.
Just hearing the right name and pronouns is such a difference. Like your body slowly realising that it doesn't have to expect a punch every time.
That it does get some rest.
I was so numb to how much pain I was constantly in because of this. Like, hearing my correct name over and over again allowed me to notice that pronouns do cause pain too and then having people refer to me with my chosen pronouns helped me realise how much that was hurting me in my everyday life.
It's... It's a gutpunch. And the body and brain are slowly learning that they can relax. So even if misgenders hurt more now, it also means I'm in so much less pain ususally.
Hold on to these positive experiences. And hold your ground with your family and friends (if that's a possibility for you, as always safety comes first). Especially my dad had problems with getting my name and pronouns right until I literally told him I had enough.
I feel the pain of correcting people but it's so much better than not standing up for yourself. The people around you take direction from you, they'll let it slide if you let it slide.
(I say, mostly to myself because I too have problems with this. Nothing hurts more than having to correct someone and draw attention to it)
Hi Joey
You poor poor soul. I hope things get better for you❤️
As a Swede, it always amuses me that people pronounce Blåhaj as "blah-hah" because Google Translator doesn't realize there's a space missing between the words. They sound nothing alike and yet it fills me with such joyous glee much like hearing a toddler say "shawk-vets" instead of chocolate.
Thank you for teaching me how it's pronounced!! :)))))
@@Randomusernamehandle Glad to be of help! Thank you for giving it a read and wanting to learn! :D
J is just a replacement for Y most of the time if you're talking about English vs Swedish pronunciations.
Also Click is Swedish and pronounces it almost the same as OneTopic so like... I think you might wanna reconsider your comment.
Wait, why would the J make the sound of like 'gem' or 'jeans' when that's normally a Y sound in Swedish (like German), like the Y in yellow. As far as I can tell Swedish 'haj' is pronounced basically like what it looks like, which'd sound similar to 'high' in English.
Is it a dialectal pronunciation you're meaning?
@@wilhelmseleorningcniht9410not sure what you mean. I speak Swedish and the letter J and the letter Y sound nothing alike. We don’t use Y as a replacement for J, we do however some times use G, gj, hj, dj, lj depending on which letter comes after (vowel or consonant). Like for example: gift (married/poison), gjort (done), hjärta (heart), djur (animal), ljus (light/candle) - all starts with a J - sound.
The "Tall people don't realize the benefits of being short" ExcUUUUUUUSE ME, Short people don't realize how bad it is to be tall sometimes! I've hit my head against a low doorframe two times today! That is two times more than I have bargained for.
Grass really is always greener. I just want to reach the top shelf of my kitchen cabinets without tempting fate. And I could do without being infantilized by strangers and coworkers, though I think that part is more about misogyny or maybe a combination of the two.
But sorry about your head. Hope you didn't hit it in the exact same spot.
DUDE! The voice thing is SUCH A GOOD EXAMPLE! I'm not trans, but I know EXACTLY what it feels like to hear my voice and get embarrassed because it doesn't sound like how I hear it.
Hi! Trans man here! I am 15 and not on hormones or anything at all because my guardian is transphobic. But I remember when I was sick and my voice went REALLY deep. I recorded it on my phone and I remember the euphoria of when I heard that I sounded like a cis boy my age. Being sick is the best thing ever. And I ruined my voice by singing in a Kermit voice for 3 hours. So now it it permanently deeper. Makes me really happy :)
You sound like someone my mom knows. My mom is always half joking about adopting them, because there guardian will literally kill them if they find out their under the rainbow. I hope you can find someone like that to help you out of the situation your in.
I also haven't started anything because my family is religious. :(
Hope you have a great day, though, bro
There are UA-cam videos of vocal exercises to deepen your voice. Use a private browser if you're concerned about your history being viewed
Is your guardian afraid of you?
Be careful with your voice work, it's entirely possible to damage your vocal cords if you do it wrong... Try looking up some voice training guides for trans mascs, they'll guide you through it safely...
I'm cis, but I was asked the question 'What would you do if you were a man for a day?' (which... you know what they mean) and I think that's the closest to dysphoria I'll ever get. It made me really uncomfortable.
When I said as much, I got the response 'wow, you must really hate men', like, no, I just would be very uncomfortable in a different body.
People really weird me out when they relate being trans to being sexist, it's like saying I hate plus sized people because I want to lose some weight.
Or like, 'gosh i hate being poor'
'Oh, so you hate poor people?!'
Doesn't make any sense :l
that weirdness is becoming all too common lately, it sucks
Personally as someone who was morbidly obese for 5 years until losing 70+ pounds in a few months after I cut out a toxic family member, I don't hate fat people, but I do hate when people try to normalize obesity by calling "plus size". It's actively harmful because being fat by choice is retarded. I know because *_I was_* fat by choice.
I corrected my mistake after watching my step dad (who was the only father figure I ever had) spiral into obesity, which turned into diabetes, which then caused neuropathy, which caused him to become paraplegic and blind. All the while he'd blame others for his problems, and then say things "I'll put a whole cake away! You know I'm a fat kid at heart!"
He literally ended up going from being my jolly step dad who would've taken a bullet for anyone in my family to abandoning me and my brother, not telling us when he was put in a nursing home until it after he'd taken himself off the lease of the house we were renting together.
Meanwhile, my mother, light of my life as she is, and always has been, has _always_ been fat. Yet she always seeks to keep it under control. She's tried many times to lose her excess weight entirely, but for biochemical reasons that just isn't an option for her. Regardless she always makes it her priority not to gain any more weight so as to minimize her health risks.
I don't hate fat people. I hate Obesity, and anyone who would see to normalize it, because that's what turned my dad into a sad sack of shit, and what will always threaten to do the same with my mother.
ALLY 100 :)
IF ANYONE HERE HAS THE SHINIGAMI EYES EXENSION
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO
Stop saying plus sized people. The correct word is american.
@@gryf2diams 💀 prety funny tho
My dude, I finally started in on T on Monday and the next day I felt so boyish and energetic and EUPHORIC, and I’m just so glad that you’ve been a part of my journey so far. Thank you for being such a stalwart ally, OT!
Hell yeah dude, testosterone is a helluva drug!
Yo Mondays are my shot days too! Great boost at the start of the week
@ Ms. Aelanwyr Ilaicos. It can be. But being born with it. When you don’t want it. Is the worst thing. I hope it goes well. 👍
Also. Enjoy the extra pocket spaces 👍
@@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicostell that to a transfem person
i've found a helpful way to describe dysphoria as something like
"It's like how you need glasses to be able to see, or a hearing aid to be able to hear, but in this case you need treatment to be able to not feel like a stranger to yourself."
I came out as nonbinary to my dad this week, and he outright said that if I change my name he will always deadname me on purpose. I went home and cried in bed for 2 days without even getting up to eat...
That is so tough. You are so awesome and brave to come out and your dad is absolutely powerless to change who you are inside. I hope you are eating now. 🍎
Oh, to hell with that guy, then. Fellow enby sending love
I’m so sorry. That’s awful. If you need anything, I’ll be here
If your dad doesn't show you respect and love for expressing your true self, he's a sh*tty dad and doesn't deserve you!
I'm so sorry about your dad, but for what it's worth, there are many people out there who will accept you. I hope you can find some and surround yourself with them if you haven't already.
15:12 - I case anyone was confused like @One Topic, the number 2.71728 is an approximation for the irrational number "Euler's Number" represented in formulas as a lowercase e.
It is not quite as famous as the number π, but it shows up in nature a lot, especially when dealing with logarithmic expressions.
Fnoahdjfit thanks for explaining I was flipping my mind all over because of this
E! E! E!
E.E.e.E.
Thanks, I was extremely confused!
e^(πi) + 1 = 0
@@John_Weiss - ikr? That has to be the most incredible relationship between "special" numbers that show up all over nature that I have ever seen.
I've read through the proof that demonstrates the truth of the equation too, and it is amazing that someone discovered this relationship.
I'm decent at maths, but this was some serious big brain thinking to even consider this relationship true.
the best Christmas present i could ask for
im featured at the start of a trans video, and im trans. i love it
OwO
Definitely
@@acaithefuzz3770 theres an option. under that that says translate to English and it turns into Money
@@evilos1712This sandwich costs 5 OwOs
People: would you love me if I was a worm?
Me: I would feed you to crows and smile as they fight over you and eat you like a peace of meat.
i approve
As an aroace lunatic (unrelated concepts) I can confirm I would do exactly that
I love the voice recording example. I'm a performer and also trans, and I promise you all that you *will* hate the sound of your own voice at least the first time, even if you aren't trans.
It comes from the fact that we hear our voices differently from everyone else because we're the source of the noise. It's also why it's important for anyone doing voice training to hear themselves in recordings.
I'm a non-trans person, and that example makes a lot of sense.
My voice sounds so squeaky! (-_-)
thanks for that advice, I will start voice training because my vocal cords are effected from my muscle tone weakness and my voice sound a bit strange from it.
Somewhere, I forget where, I came across an explanation that most people will think their own voices are deeper than others think they are. And it's all because your voice causes extra vibration in your skull that distorts how the bones in your inner ear perceive your own voice. When you hear a recording of yourself, you don't get the extra vibration, so you hear yourself as other do.
Closeted Gebderfluid/Enby here. Re-realized my gender this past year (after realizing and then repressing it as a teen cause my mental health was too abysmal to deal with it) and it’s been rough being closeted again. Thank you for this sustenance in this trying time OT. Much love and hugs (if you want hugs) to all my LGBTQ+ peeps who are struggling this time of year. We’ll get thought this!! ❤️💚❤️💚❤️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️💛🤍💜🖤🥰
Hello fellow Genderfluid person!
@@thestarsailor972 hell fellow genderfluid person maybe I have no idea what my gender is and I’m still trying to find out
@@iambadatcomingupwithcomeba2060 Sadly I have noticed that to be part of the gig
I am also genderfluid and have this same mentality. I'm glad you were able to realize more of yourself and are able to accept yourself more. You got this and keep going ❤💪 I am semi closeted. Out to some and shut off to others, as I am just tired of having the same conversations about my identities of genderfluid and pan over and over. Let alone the silent workplace discrimination. That said, I am so happy to be at peace with myself even if I have to be cautious around others.
To all others in a similar situation, just learn to love yourself. You are truly the only person that will 100% always be there for you. Friends and family come and go. They have their own lives and realities to deal with. But you are there. Always. You're there when you feel alone. You're there when you don't know what to do. Embellish yourself in self love, take a deep breath, and keep on keeping on. You got this. The world can be a beautiful place sometimes, you just got to stick around to see it ❤
@@matthewdovidas4213 thank you
As a trans woman, when I shaved for the first time, I remembered what it was like to be cold.
I love that Bowsette isn't even (currently) cannon. It's just the fans running wild with the concept of Toadette turning into a copy of Peach because of a crown. I truly hope that it does become cannon in the future, though.
6:24 i can't believe, that you did just call wario Waluigi.
HOW DARE HE🤬🤬🤬🤬
I can’t express how much your videos mean to me. This makes me feel so valid and seen in a world where I feel invisible and invalidated every day.
You are extremely valid and a wonderful person.
We see you and we know you are awesome! You are not alone.
same ;-;
8:33 Same for being a trans man. If you're okay with expressing "feminine" interests, people just accuse you of faking your identity, but if you try to be more masculine, people will say you're "trying too hard" or something similarly stupid.
yea you either get blamed for failing to pass or if you pass then you are a tryhard and a fake trying to fit in too much where you shouldnt. but you should fit in there cuz you aint a fake, and that goes for any kinda situation where you have to prove yourself "worthy" of having a _self assigned title_
Double-standards.
15:21 that’s Euler’s number or e btw. (Euler is highly underrated and I completely understand anyone who doesn’t know him) (also he basically created the basis of all of modern mathematics)
omg the meme with freya to fred at 17:00 AHHHHHHHHHH i’ve told people my name is Elliot and they go “cool! good to meet you Ellie!” and i wish they’d just call me a slur
Hi friends! I have something I want to share with everyone because it gives me gender euphoria! I came out to my grandma as nonbinary (they/he) a while ago and now, when she accidentally calls me a girl, stops a moment before saying "I mean, my little boy." I may not fully identify with being a boy but it makes me so happy that she's making an effort.
Love seeing the effort. Love seeing people go out of their way to make you feel you belong
So happy your grandma is supportive
I’m a genderfluid demiromantic and bisexual and this channel has really helped me be more comfortable with myself :)
I love your username.
@@coena9377 thanks!
Same! It's so nice to be able to find other queer people here and to be in such a welcoming space
69th like 😎😎😎
I'm ace and panromantic. Happy Holidays, fellow multiple gender enjoyer!! 😄 😆
I’m absolutely flabbergasted that he called Wario… “WALUIGI”
My friend was confused about her identity, so I instantly showed her one of your eggirl videos and she realised she was trans. Thanks OT!
the agenda
@@synctrox9679I'm disgusted that someone with otherwise good taste would have a take this sh¡tty. We're in the middle of a very dark time for trans people. You should be ashamed of your complicity in the spread of this kind of conspiratorial misinformation. Reported.
Yeah, for universal happiness
I installed shinigami eyes, and it's nice seeing who's trans friendly or not. The way the rating works seems to be that once a certain number of people have voted and there's some level of agreement (like if it was 50/50, too inconclusive for a rating), then the rating voted for is applied.
It's weird seeing who on youtube the extension marks as trans-friendly, because apparently almost no one has either enough votes or enough agreement to be marked either, so like I scrolled through my home page and only saw three channels marked by it (all trans-friendly): Tom Scott ("There are folks who don't fit into, or don't want to declare as, either of those categories, and if that surprises you, you need to get out more. -source: the outside world"), Hbomberguy ("Gaming" channel, really only does video essays, raised over $370,000 for the transgender charity Mermaids), and Technology Connections (Nice person, don't think I've ever heard them say anything about gender)
Might I recommend Philosophy Tube? Very good channel tries to do a similar thing like here, make a safe environment to talk about stuff, very inclusive.
@@willing1043also leadhead (who was actually mentioned in this video) and contrapoints
Dear Mr. OneTopic I don't know if you will ever see this, but if you do I hope this letter finds you well. I just want to say thank you. I started watching your videos a few years ago, with a few of the older bi_irl videos. As I explored your videos, you gave me the courage to try on more feminine clothing. Skirt does indeed go spinny. You helped me explore my gender and sexuality. I cannot thank you enough. Thank you for helping me, thank you for raising so much money for the Trevor project, and thank you for sharing laughs across the internet. Thank you for granting me the joy of being a roommate of the channel. May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, The rains fall soft upon your fields. Happy trails and thank yous as big as the sky. Your weirdo and beardo, Wolf
I love that song, makes me cry.
he seen it :)
As a trans (mtf) I find these memes very funny and calming and they kind of help with the fact that I can’t take hormones because of my transphobic family
I love how genuinely supportive OT is. Whenever I’m feeling down his videos always brighten my day and give me hope.
"Clothes do not denote gender" is accurate because Jesse and James' costumes.
I’m pretty sure James rivals ash at putting on feminine things.
@@shadowking278 based
Hey OT, the number 2.71828… is the equivalent to the mathematical symbol “e.” Just like pi is 3.14159265, e is 2.71828
Also, very excited about a video every day! Should make the first holiday when I’m coming out to the family a bit easier to bear.
Oop
oh my god
@@OneTopic you are the embodiment of "hip" dad energy
As a 6'3 Trans woman, i do understand the benefits of being short in fact i think its superior cuz you can always wear heels or platforms to get that extra height, when i hit the doorframe if i wear heels
I am so glad Brooke’s comics made it into this video. I have absolutely been loving them over the past couple months and am glad they’re getting more spotlight
Perfect! Makes my little transfem heart happy ❤️
I'm having to spend Christmas with my conservative family and I've been deadnamed and misgendered so many times, thank you for posting this when you did
I offer you an imaginary sea creature of your choice (stingray or blahaj or otherwise) to swim around you and shield you from nonsense.
5:07 Personally, I headcannon her as Bi/Pans/anything that means you’re attracted to multiple genders, since the original comic that inspired Bowsette (that is shown 5 seconds later in the video) has her as Bowser being dumped by Peach, but then after she takes the super crown, she’s with Mario. And possibly to make Peach jealous
Validation from OT about your sexuality or gender identity is like warm sunshine for the soul. I was having a pretty crappy day Cus I’ve been sick for 3 days now, and this video gave me the motivation to get out of bed. Thank you OT, thank you for your positivity and soothing voice!~
Honestly the Trans colours are a really nice combination wich transmits a rather soft and welcoming nature.
it looks like candy honestly, it's actually one of my favorite flags
Canada made a Blahaj in trans colours which is the most adorable thing ever!!!
As a transmasc/nb, OT calling his audience beardos and weirdos makes me so happy for no reason. Thank you for doing what you do ❤
Love how you went from not knowing at all what "heat from fire" meant, to actively recommending it.
We all learn from you, including you!
For the math joke, 2.71828 is an approximation of the number e, which for the purpose of this joke is also referring to estrogen.
Before I admitted to myself I wasn’t cis some kids in my theater class asked me my pronouns and apparently I seemed unsure because they didn’t gender me for the whole year. It always made me happy and I didn’t even know why
They knew you were trans even when you didn't really know it.
You always had trans vibes
Wish I could crack eggs this well.
2:53
As I transmasc, I can confirm, I summon Satan with the other transmascs in the room
i dunno who needs to hear this but if there’s anything you’re doing that you’re nervous about (trying a new hairstyle, working on a big project, talking to people you don’t usually talk to, whatever) you totally got this!! A lot of times your brain will be dumb and insist that things are gonna be way harder than they really will. And even if things don’t go so well, you did make the effort to do it, and that means a lot
Thanks, I needed this. I recently realized which pronoun best fits me and am nervous about telling family about it.
@@charlespentrose7834 You got this friend
Thank you for the positivity!! I needed this!!
As a trans boy I can confirm I get very excited inside when I’m texting my besties and I’m the only trans person they’ve met and they just casually go “so Nick and I committed arson today” they don’t make it weird and it’s like passing a vibe check from the gender lords
Fellow Nick person!?
I went with a different spelling (Nikk c:) but your name is exquisite I'd say
18:04
Vent warning sry
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Omfg my dysphoria was so bad last Monday that it made me think all my favorite gay characters would say that to me
❤ that must feel shitty.
You are valid and I hope you can find a place that is safe for you to be yourself. You deserve better than the world is giving you
I am a flat, 5’9 transmasc who has come out to one person who is also trans, this channel is like heaven for me, keep it up please ❤
I honestly was having such a hard week, with impostor syndrome, dysphoria, and all around wondering if I was just a pretender or whatnot, and these videos made me feel a whole lot better and so much more sure of myself :) TY!!!
Оу, чувак, я сочувствую тебе! Надеюсь сейчас всё хорошо
@@AlexMiller-mt9de thank you! (I had to use google translate lol) I am doing far better now ty
@@13ubs40 oh, really? I'm very happy about this! I won’t force you to use the translator anymore and will do everything myself😅 I hope that in the future everything will be even better
@@AlexMiller-mt9de thank you!!! I hope it all works out for you too! And thank you for the translation lol
OMG A MEMBER! I WISHHHH 💕
17:50 as a genderfluid AFAB who prefers being perceived as masc, height dysphoria is really bad, but then there's people like you, OT! You always somehow manage to make me not feel so terrible about things like that. You're an incredible ally to the community and an amazing person. Thank you so much for existing 💖
Hey, I'm also an AFAB transmasc genderfluid! You're doing great, my friend! OT is amazing, and with his support, we will prosper :)
Ah! Same for me!
right? I get down about my height a lot because I'm barely above five feet and even where I live that's pretty short for a guy. but being short is great. I can body-check most people with no worries, squeeze into small places easily (and impress people that way lol), and fit into most beds everywhere. also, I get more coverage when hugged or cuddled.
Sex isn't assigned, it's observed. Unless you born with some mutation. But thanks for admitting that you don't actually believe gender is separated from sex.
@@jamesmcdonnell2455bruh what mutation?☠️☠️
obsessing over Wednesday and deciding that Xavier is trans in my headcanon and then coming on youtube to find something to watch while I draw that and seeing OT’s just posted a trans memes video?? the stars have aligned ✨✨
I’m very interested in how it will turn out, sounds rlly cool tbh
I hate transphobes. Every time one makes a video I comment, "Get your transphobic a** off this platform. :)"
the average height makes my dysphoria worse because I'm a 5'9" trans woman. people say I'm a carbon copy of my dad, who is an extremely muscular 6'3½" man. I'm pre transition and in ohio. though these videos help greatly, thank you OT! have a happy holidays with those you consider family
Ohio? my condolences
idk if this helps but you’re the perfect height to be a female fashion model
@@milolee it does help a little, thank you! happy holidays and enjoy time with those you consider family!
Only in Ohio, my sista.
Idk sounds like a good height, people like tall women.
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As a genderfluid person having people who take the time to notice my pronoun pins and use the current pronouns just gives me such a boost.
Also, I love my blåhaj so much but that stingray blanket is Extremely Good
Hdfhsb seeing another genderfluid person on here makes me feel good because I feel like I never get to meet other genderfluid people!
@Me hello friend. Thought I'd add one more to your list of genderfluid people you met online. Always remember that you are loved
They have pins for that!?! Just always thought you had to guess and get corrected later....
@@randomguyontheinternet5030 pins, bracelets, jewelry, lots of stuff!
@@Me-zz5zy yo i could get behind a nice pair of gender identifying bracelets. pink/red gems and a little carved fem. symbol for female, and then like a black (maybe volcanic rock beads?) and blue sapphire one for male. I like it! ^-^
As a fish enthusiast, I am extremely excited to tell you that the little fins on the stingray blanket are called claspers, and are one of the main ways to differentiate male skates, rays, and sharks from female ones. Male skates, rays, and sharks have claspers, which are used to hold on to (or clasp!) females while mating. Have a great day!
Well there you have it, Blåhaj doesn't have claspers, Raymond Blanket does. Tracks with femmes and mascs.
Every time I feel bad about being trans I come to this specific video Every single time
I just wanted to say. I started my journey to figuring out I was trans through your videos back in March of this year. I started HRT a few days ago. Thank you for everything you do. You changed my life for the better and probably saved my life.
Grats! I hope HRT is everything you hope it'll be 💙💖🤍💖💙
I love that for you, friend! I wish you well on your journey!
Your videos have been helping me become comfortable with myself as I accept myself as genderfluid
That's awesome!
Mf drank the gender fluid
Hi fellow liquid! Welcome to the best state of matter 😉
Whenever I get height dysphoria I just remind myself that Asta is also 5'1 and it makes everything better
bro i am a trans girl and i got my first skirt without my parents knowing and ive worn it whenever they aren't home and i love it!!
This is wholesome I hope you have a good life
5:57
Now I'm imaging a worm with purple/blue hair, sunglasses and a beard... I love it. TO THE ART STATION!
Post it.
@Pride Salad I actually forgot about this, so I did it and posted it to the subreddit
14:42 Shinigami Eyes is Awesome. If you've ever seen a UA-cam video show a transphobic tweet, and the person's name was red, that's Shinigami Eyes. Or if they are a trans activist, they'll show up green.
Sadly it isn't available for mobile last I checked.
I'm trying to remember who I've seen use it, JammiDodger or Shaba maybe, I'm 3-9s confident I've seen it used by Cass Eris.
16:26 No flippen way! Alien franchise is one of my favorite horror franchises and I never knew this. This blows my mind. My love for Alien quadrupled.
I love how OT prevents himself spoiling Alien... from like 40 years ago
17:18 honestly I thankfully don't get height dysphoria
The key? MOMMY FETISH
The "hearing a recording of your voice as an easy to understand way to explain dysphoria" hits close to home 🥺🥺🥺 I remember cringing really hard in, like, 4th grade because my classmate recorded my voice and played it to me. also, that stingray plushie is so cool! (Also, yes, шприц means syringe in russian)
my transphobic teacher told me to go to a town meeting, so i went in my bob hiding hoodie. i got called little guy and young man and it was AMAZING ❤
OneTopic wholesomely pulling up the Bowsette comic blissfully unaware of the damage it did to the internet will never not be wholesomely hilarious
The parents misgendering/gendering correctly memes reminded me that the way I got my mother to consider how she refers to me (especially in private), is by comparing it to if I refered to her by her name rather than "mom".
5:26 _My mom's not anti-lgbtq+, but the other day she told me that homosexual was a slur 😭😭😭_
I've used the analogy of hearing your own voice to describing what it is like to be a semi verbal autistic person. I've practiced a lot of public speaking in order to be able to talk to people and also to help me in my goal to become a teacher. I love your videos and if by any chance could you cover Ace memes again. Have a great holiday!
My voice is so god damn weird i don't get uncanny valley from it.
AND ITS BLO-HAI
15:08
To explain the joke, you were right the first one is pi but the second one is known as eulers number, or more commonly written... e