This is what I found and I got out - I would be prefer to be alone and true to myself than be in a relationship, where I experience that every word and deed is being weighed up.
You may not want to hear this but...there are good people and good relationships to be had...they are out there just like you are out there. The reward comes with the effort.
A mirror of the shallowness that I have felt inside beside I distanced myself from my soul within and allowed the illusion of life to colour my true vision.
I constantly open up and try to go deeper than surface level and try to get away from the transactional aspects but I'm afraid it's not reciprocal. I had already been analyzing and devoting less time to them as of late but this video pretty much reinforced that the group I'm putting the most energy into lacks that true bond. I'm not going to cut them off but rather take a big step back and set boundaries.
Relationship advice from someone who is not married and lives out in the desert. Looking forward to vids with your friends, family in them. I guess everyone has their wisdom to spew. Good luck.
Thanks. Your negative assumptions are interesting...maybe reflect on them..you may learn a lot about how you view yourself. To understand this try watching this video. ua-cam.com/video/GgzFtrgolNc/v-deo.html
@@theheroformula-org "negative assumptions" is the premise of this channel. Just trying to fit in. I am old and have no outflows causing me mental maturation over who I am. I am good to go. Good luck.
@@theheroformula-org "assumptions" can be linked to the Ten Fetters (dasa saṃyojanāni) that bind beings to the cycle of suffering (samsara). Winter always turns into spring. This is the message is get from your channel. You address the natural states of humans based on your assumptions. Although neither good nor bad I just choose a side for the sake of statement.
Have you read the book: “The value of others” written by Orian Taraban? In relationships incomparable goods of comparable value are exchanged. The timelines of the unseen settlement may also differ. We would like to think of our relationships as non transactional but unconsciously they still are.
@@edwinvanderknaap3445 if they are incomparable goods then there is no transaction like that of commerce. It is in this imcomparable realm where the deeper part of a relationship is found and felt.
Excellent content. Thank you!
i enjoyed this content. keep up the great work
This is what I found and I got out - I would be prefer to be alone and true to myself than be in a relationship, where I experience that every word and deed is being weighed up.
You may not want to hear this but...there are good people and good relationships to be had...they are out there just like you are out there. The reward comes with the effort.
Great video Steve!!
Brilliant Man.
A mirror of the shallowness that I have felt inside beside I distanced myself from my soul within and allowed the illusion of life to colour my true vision.
We sometimes lose ourselves believing that someone else has to feel a void within - thats when the illusion gains power. Its always an inside job.
I constantly open up and try to go deeper than surface level and try to get away from the transactional aspects but I'm afraid it's not reciprocal. I had already been analyzing and devoting less time to them as of late but this video pretty much reinforced that the group I'm putting the most energy into lacks that true bond. I'm not going to cut them off but rather take a big step back and set boundaries.
Good video
Relationship advice from someone who is not married and lives out in the desert. Looking forward to vids with your friends, family in them. I guess everyone has their wisdom to spew. Good luck.
Thanks. Your negative assumptions are interesting...maybe reflect on them..you may learn a lot about how you view yourself. To understand this try watching this video. ua-cam.com/video/GgzFtrgolNc/v-deo.html
@@theheroformula-org "negative assumptions" is the premise of this channel. Just trying to fit in. I am old and have no outflows causing me mental maturation over who I am. I am good to go. Good luck.
@@busherstudios ooh, interesting! i am curious what negative assumptions you feel are the premise of this channel? Please do tell?
@@theheroformula-org "assumptions" can be linked to the Ten Fetters (dasa saṃyojanāni) that bind beings to the cycle of suffering (samsara). Winter always turns into spring. This is the message is get from your channel. You address the natural states of humans based on your assumptions. Although neither good nor bad I just choose a side for the sake of statement.
Have you read the book: “The value of others” written by Orian Taraban?
In relationships incomparable goods of comparable value are exchanged. The timelines of the unseen settlement may also differ. We would like to think of our relationships as non transactional but unconsciously they still are.
@@yayyay3060 sounds fine on my end. What do you mean precisely?
@@edwinvanderknaap3445 if they are incomparable goods then there is no transaction like that of commerce. It is in this imcomparable realm where the deeper part of a relationship is found and felt.
@@yayyay3060 well hello!