Make Body Language Your Superpower
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- Опубліковано 21 лис 2024
- Body language, both the speaker's and the audience's, is a powerful form of communication that is difficult to master, especially if the speaker is nervous. This video will teach you how to use your body language effectively, read the audience's body language and what to do when they look bored or disconnected. Use these tools to enhance your nonverbal communication abilities and better connect with your audiences.
Presented by Stanford graduate students Matt Levy, Colin Bailie, Jeong Joon Ha, and Jennifer Rosenfeld. Created as an exemplary final project in Lecturer JD Schramm's Strategic Communication course. Learn more about communication techniques and best practices on "Think Fast, Talk Smart: The Podcast." www.gsb.stanfo...
"It may not feel the most comfortable, but it looks the most comfortable to your audience." *THIS* is what so many people need to hear.
These guys are basically telling people to be dishonest and not being themselves. Great for sales jobs. Bad in real life.
@@eltoro969 what?😂😂
@@eltoro969 what are you smoking. Those guys are basically telling you how to use basic human psychology and social cues to be more engaging and effective. Guess what, real life includes public speaking for many jobs, such as an educator. I suppose you'd be content being a really awkward looking Michael Bay then?
@@asneakychicken322 you didn't get what he ment.
@@eltoro969 good irl
I think the most important thing is self confidence, not being afraid of being laughed at, despised, or rejected once you are used to it nothing can bring you down when you’re doing presentations. A person that has nothing to lose is the most dangerous.
I'm a college professor now but in my previous professional incarnations, I was a business analyst who had to spend a lot of time standing up in front of client audiences sometimes telling them things they did not want to hear, which isn't easy. Although I was nervous in my new life as a professor, mentor and guide, I realized that 1) it was only a matter of time, perhaps just minutes, before I somehow managed to do something or say something that will embarrass me, so I decided to own it before it ever even happens. Every time I get up in front of a class, I tell myself, statistically speaking, there's an 70% probability that at some point during the lecture I'm going to make myself look like an idiot, so don't worry about something I can't control. 2) I'm the most knowledgeable person in re the subject matter in the area code. Both thoughts go along way to helping my self-confidence and now I actually find that I love getting up in front of the students and getting the dialogue ball rolling back and forth.
@@CaesarInVa I always count (2/3)×100=66.66% mistake rate🤣🤣
Don't get into road rage incidents with the 1982 ford held together with duct tape and oil.
Faxx
yes, but this comes from competence and not from body language.
I did everything they said, and now I have eight jobs.
Exaa...aagration
congrats pal
dammn man that's bad, if that's true then practice more to get one job, eight jobs is like a joke and u will end up loosing a life for nothing. Unless u wanted to say that u got 8 workshops or 8 projects, in your job, or you got proposal from eight different companies to join them or work for them.
😆😆
i hope noone thinks he's serious
I really appreciate the entertainment value Jeong brings to the table.
U look so pretty anna katharina
@@Kabilk4123 lolwut this is the most random reply I think I’ve ever read on youtube
@@Kabilk4123 I think it's an actress from Mamma Mia
Jeong is the only one that looks natural up there.
Jung*
As a teacher from France, we NEED to have some classes about this. This would help so many young teachers.
Salut 👋🏻
salut
En tant qu'étudiant, je ne peux qu'être d'accord!
It's true. C'est vrai. Excuse mon english
sah quel pleasure
Once again, the algorithm has brought us together.
hi
Algorithm beckons and we assemble
@@alexm2845 ř
Indeed
you made me laugh :)
Let's face it, these guys are probably so stressed trying to give a speech to an audience about body language while being aware that their body language will be judged more than anyone else
Yep maybe that’s why they’re overly gestural
This is just some loosers thinking they are smart, a bunch of weak weirdos that have made up this lession and they think they are succesfull. What a complete waste of time
@@xx-og9kg Bruh that was litterally just their final presentation for a communications class. i dont think they even wanted to be there. chill.
@@xx-og9kg not wrong lmao
You prob thought of that while watching the girl 😂😂😂
The fact that there's room for improvement in the presenters' performance does not make the message wrong. Thank you for putting yourselves out there and using whatever tools you had at the time to help and educate us!
Well they're all students of the university who are doing a final project. They are likely nervous and not natural public speakers. They do come across robotic at times however, I will say that they were easy and interesting to listen to which means they are deffo doing something right so i think this presentation is spot on.
I wasn’t listening to his argument because I was too focused on analyzing his posture and movements
Yea this guy is insane
@@wentworth9399 people just want to over analyze everything nowadays
@@jamesp2408 facts
It's not just me, huh?
Well you're not smart are you
I watched this video several years ago when I was super lack of confidence to speak publicly. I took this as lessons deeply and practiced them everyday. Now, I'm a lecturer in a university and will be a keynote speaker on a webinar called "Public Speaking". Ready to share the lessons! Thank you so much 💕
There is this saying "The first step to becoming very good at sth is to suck at sth" and it rings true to me.
@@theverhohnepeople8934 Thank you... I love that! 😍
congrats!!!
Wow amazing. Good luck with that!
Arw those webinars for free? Or you charge for it? Where can I join?
I did everything they said. Zoom meeting went kinda weird.
Did you look like the wacky wavy inflatable armed flailing tube man ? Passing the savings on to everyone.
Haha
🤪
LOL
I am guessing this Lesson was directed more to face to face engagement rather than online meetings,
I love how others look so proud and happy when their team mate speaks.
It's literally 4am in the morning, I don't even attend school anymore and here I am learning something That I can't even use at home or work😀
As opposed to 4am in evening?
@@jcee8493 where I’m from we call that nighttime
You can use this anywhere even though the presenters are pretty stiff. People can tell if you're relaxed and approachable just how you are standing. There's a millions ways to be standing up.
You're not the only one
4AM in the morning? I thought you meant 4 AM at night.
Me: *spends 12 years in school and doesn't learn anything about body language*
UA-cam: "modern problems require *7 years old* solutions"
Ah, you are just old enough to use youtube I see
@@lribbonkhe literally said he spent “12 years in school” are you even old enough for UA-cam?
@@Joeysaladslover probably not look at their profile pic
@@Joeysaladslover oh shit. Might be 23 and uni graduate but apparently I have brain damage
@@nathanshortlifts hey that’s mean, i can’t have a girly pic of my favorite character past a certain age? How unfun of you
“I’m not sure what to do with my hands”- Ricky Bobby Taledega Nights
I just want to know, was the ending real😲
Body language is a symptom of confidence. Confidence comes from within. Mindfulness, exercise, healthy internal dialogue and a healthy internal relational system is what leads to confidence. Body language comes second. Prioritizing so heavily on how you physically present is incongruent with how you feel if the motivation for it is a lack of confidence. True confidence is accepting that you don't have confidence, and you don't care how people perceive you. Once your self talk and internal dialogue is healthy, your presentation changes and there won't be a need for this akwardness. Imo, most people versed in psychology can probably see through the inauthentic way these two present themselves.
Great analysis
You are a very well spoken person
Sounds like you are using Stoic principles - well explained 👍
Although I fully agree with the principle of what you say, how people perceive you is the only focal point of the video. It does not talk about other elements of giving a presentation, like confidence or for example the structure of a presentation.
You should care how people perceive you in the sense that it should align with the perception you want them to have in order to absorb what you are trying to tell them. As an example, I experienced a presenter that messed up his hair to divert attention from him being nervous. It clearly allowed him to relax more and present his story with confidence. I remember nothing from the story, only his hair. He was confident, the presentation failed due to a lack of physical presentation.
Long story short: confidence is key, body language too
Wow!! What a great comment! Thank you so so much. I fully agree. This made my day. 😊
I don't know why this was in my recommended but I definitely learned something.
RIGHT AHAH
Maybe you talked about language and googled picked it up..
Same.
Me too, but this is hardly a science. It's closer to astrology.
You were teached by yourself.No need for them🤗
6:04 "it may not feel comfortable but it looks comfortable to the audience" thank you!!! thank you so much. I've been looking for this for 15 years.
I would like to thank you for the underlining 🤝👍
@@sarahc00kies 👌🏻
I Would like to thank you for thanking for underlining it
@@yourstore166 you're welcome
@@yourstore166 and I would like to thank you for thanking the person who thanked the underlining!
Honestly, try to tell me these guys don't seem like robots imitating human body language
very rigid huh, the 3rd speaker had the most personable part tbh, most laughs and wasn’t just regurgitating his speech (didn’t feel like it at least)
...i'm pretty sure they are just trying to get us to sing up to ZORGON.
@@PeakSwaiizy Agreed, out of all the speakers I felt like the 3rd speaker was the most engaging.
I thought it was me alone notice it
Very unnatural movement
body langguage 2:30
position withiut distraction 3:25
stand gesture 4:16
hand gesture 6:30 • 9:25
develop observational skill 11:25
Thanks
Muito Obrigado, amigo💪📚
You forgot the chop😅
nice
Thanksfor saving my time
I feel like I'm being recruited into a cult of charismatic weather forecasters. I'm listening and learning but I'm still creeped out.
More worrying is that your comment has received 10 likes per hour on a video that's 7 years old. Where are these people coming from?!? Why did i like it?!
Why did I even watch!? I've not even got a presentation to do!
Please somebody, anybody... Help us!! :)
@@Skijumptoes nah he tweakin
@@Skijumptoes it's ok man, I'm scared too. We'll get through this together.
@@Jellyfish146 call 911!!!
I got sucked in as well. Watched the whole damn video lol!
The weird smirk they all have really freaks me out.
They are like fn aliens trying to look like humans... LMAO
You right
@@daylen577 That makes no sense.
@@daylen577 what does that even mean?
Serial killers 🤔
The Korean guy, was the best out of all of them. Very engaging but smooth and natural.
@Paul Cho Not necessarily accent, but uniqueness. They all presented pretty much the same way, like presentations we are used to. The korean guy one was different and also he brought in comedic lines that made him more likeable.
@@profbfc him being able to do the "hands over the family jewels" + the exaggerated chopping probably made him more memorable, funny and thus likeable.
made me laugh a couple times hahaa
All the others shouldn’t speak in public
I thought it was Jackie Chan
The key to gestures: make them look natural. You aren't a robot giving a speech, you're a human. Act like a human! As a former instructor in the Navy, they teach us these concepts during Instructor School. We constantly get evaluated throughout our tenure as instructors and we constantly improve until we become Master Training Specialists.
Great video showcasing proper gestures, moving around the room naturally, and using pauses/inflections to get your message across!
as a former kind of "door to door" salesman, we were trained that first 30 seconds when you meet someone counts the most.
basicaly you are selling yourself, not the product. if you dont make good impression in first 30 seconds. you wont make a sale, however people will buy the product if you manage to sell yourself.
thank God I don't work as a salesman or I'll starve to death.
I love selling myself to strangers
@@williambenedictblythebigcock goddamnit William have you forgotten your meds again
You can't recommend me any product if I just close the doors slowly without breaking eye contact...
@@sirwavy3614 as a salesperson you dont recommend product to people.
your goal is that people end up recommending your product to themselves.
people who start their sales talk, talking about their product already failed.
key is to ask questions, and lot of open ended questions.
you guide the questions so that the person will come to conclusion that he needs your product.
its a job full of deception and psychological tricks. it doesnt work all the time. but when it does, you amaze yourself
"and DON'T underestimate the importance of . . . . BODY LANGUAGE! HAH!"
- Ursula (The Little Mermaid)
😄
Perfection.
This should have way more likes lol I live for it
Poor unfortunate soul
👍👍👍👍👍👍sokokko
you can tell the girl is really stepping out of her comfort zone for this presentation. Impressive
Yes, and she almost said 'look at how your butt....how your audience members are sitting' I guess she visualized sitting so started to say the word 'butt' and quickly changed it to correct herself..or maybe she said 'about'.
How can you tell
@@MattGarcyaDC jump to 11:52
@@mreverybody1150 she was going to say "body"
Public speaking is stepping out of the comfort zone for 99% of people, so...not saying much. But ok
*Some of you all need to stop being negative* . Pick what works for you, and keep it moving. No one's forcing you to look, stand, or talk a certain way. *These are suggestions* to help us. *Good speakers are flexible* , and not critical. Never know what you are going to get in an audience, so it's nice to welcome speaking improvement tips. *I appreciate this video* .
Green shirt guy really just said "it may not feel the most comfortable, but it looks the most comfortable to your audience" while being in the most uncomfortable looking stance
i guess that was because of the energy inside him, it's fair to say that the 2 other guys shared the same posture too, but created a different feedback
The only time I gave a presentation in my school life in my final year I watched all these videos and practiced a bit and got top grades 😭 I was so proud cuz I have anxiety and it's very hard for me to be in everyones attention :')
@@mr.skeleton3190 this should be a t-shirt lmao
@@mr.skeleton3190 🏆
Same, army
Benzos
@@_Genji_Shimada_ I recommend you watch idubbbz' video called something along the lines of "Cheugy design 101"
I remember when I was in College, my professor recorded everyone so they could see how they look and sound. I think that was the most helpful thing anyone could do to help show and teach someone. This video was helpful as well 😎
hello how are you doing?
I took a public speaking class in college and this was one of the methods that we used, SUPER helpful.
@@sixuals Are you on Hangout or telegram so we can chat better?
That’s illegal, he’s probably struck off now or depressed or something else
@@banksyiilbaby8877 what do you wanna talk about?
This would be such a challenging topic to speak about because, with this topic of body language specifically, you're basically bringing all of the audience's attention and discussion to your body language, so I feel like I would have to have perfect confident body language throughout. They did an amazing job! Thanks for sharing. ❤
I immediately knew that Jeong was going to be hilarious for some reason.
Sometimes I do
👍👍👍👍👍👍sokokko
thats cos you generalised by race - stereotypical, discrimination, casual racism. Not your fault it needs to be unlearned behaviour/thinking.
@@mrbass1310 Or it's the fact that he chose to wear a t-shirt. Similar to the message in the presentation, this signals to the viewer/audience that they have a more casual/laid back presence thus more likely to be a joking around type of person.
@@mrbass1310 not a single thing you just said was true about what I did. The way Jeong spoke and his body language just told me he was going to have a very deadpan type of humor, I didn’t think I’d find him funny just because he was asian.
I was thinking “why does everyone look happy in this video”? Then I looked at how old this video was and it said 2014 and I’m like “ohhhh that’s why”. Gosh what a great year:(
Yes
why 2014 was great?
But still they are maintaining social distancing 😂
@@i5c5e5n8 probably because it was before 2020. Haha
Man smh
Damn Jeong pulling up with the best presentation skills in that room
I agree
Oh shut up.
@@noneofyourbusiness1199 ?
@@noneofyourbusiness1199 why the hostility?
He ate the whole presentation. Had us laughing and focus
The Asian guy is my favorite human being
same
😂
Your mom is mad at you.
Why?
@@billwinch492 because he is
Jeong really made me focus and he was probably the most interesting with how calm he was and he didn't feel like a robot trying to persuade me. And his jokes made me laugh so hard and really made me remember the lessons a lot more firmly.
I agree! I feel like he tried the most to convey his part of the speech most to the audience. instead of focusing how well he was performing, he focused on the audience
He was my absolute favorite. I could listen to him for two hours straight
He was by far the best presenter here.
Relaxed, natural gestures and specific practical advice.
On point
he was the only one who actually said something useful and practical
…and yes - the delivery was the best out of all of them
jeong joon was definitely the best speaker... a real teacher
It's the first time I see a group presentation so well coordinated and intentional, great work
Have to appreciate the fact that this is just a presentation done by some students, and it almost got 10million views.
I'd watch that asian dude for hours, he had the best jokes and most articulate argument.
Asian magic man. If I am running a business all employees will be Asians.
I’d watch the dude demonstrating the postures for hours, he had the best jokes and most articulate arguments.
@@Chlrintruc can I have some Asians and balls too pls?
He was the one that seemed more natural on stage and that’s what people want to see and relate to.
mashallah
Have good posture
Use gestures to communicate what you're saying (give/show/chop)
Face who you're talking to rather than your visuals
Stand in the center of stage/room
Don't stand near anything distracting
Be open with your arms/don't keep your hands together
Don't put your hands in your pockets or on your hips
Never point your fingers and keep your palms up when gesturing
Ask questions to keep audience engaged/captivated
Thanks!
And knowing is half the battle ✍️GI JOE.
Blinkist Moment.
Glad I don‘t have to pay for the service of summarising and stating the obvious.
nice choice🙂
I should invite you to my classes so you take notes for the rest of us!
If you are reading this at night, you should get some sleep, and don't stress about everything going on in the world, or what you are going through. Don't dwell on things from the past, don't stress on your future. Just live your life, because you only get one. Do whatever makes you happy, not what other people want from you. For me, I'm gonna wake up tomorrow morning, get hit the gym, and cherish life for the amazing blessing that it is. I hope you do the same and have an amazing day as well!
Your a king
thats really nice of you, thanks
@@TheGamingMainland ❤
I always feel like people who write these type of comments are the best kind
Tell me how to get a loving well-paid job and I promise you that I will be taking it easy 😂
Not even kidding: I improved my presentational body language by watching Robert Downey Jr. as Tony Stark. He does all of this, even when he's not in front of an audience. I just pretend I'm Iron Man.
For me its craig ferguson. His idgaf attitude kind of developed in me so i developed confidence.
I pretend I'm Robert Downey Jr. in the movie Less Than Zero 😞
You are iron-man, you are a superhero
@@IswearIwasBatman never thought I would read an actual big ups in youtube comments for mr Ferguson! You just made my Sunday evening, bro!
excellent! now that's what I call operating from strength!
I love how everyone is getting this video recommended to us 7 years after it was uploaded
Is it to take up space, distract, or is there a motive? I watched it and learned something that reinforced some former training.
This feels like a seminar run by robots explaining to other robots how to be human
Ha! They practiced this way too many times. The next thing to focus on is the natural flow of conversation and learning to improvise.
lololololololol Thank You
So Mark Zuckerberg was in the audience lol or he was a guest speaker and they cut it out lol
Spot on. It's like someone doing a colour by numbers and calling themselves an artist. Body language is picked up on intuitively and we can always tell when someone is trying to do it as opposed to just being themselves. There probably is a way to become someone who uses confident body language but it might be more about working on how you feel about yourself and what you tell yourself as opposed to how you move your arms and body around.
well its a business schol hahaha
One tip I’d like to add when engaging your audience is the use of pauses in your speech. A little surprised they didn’t mention this one.
A pause after an important statement helps emphasize a point you’re trying to make and the longer you wait, the larger the emphasis. It also helps re-engage those members of the audience who may have tuned out or stopped paying attention.
Truu
That's true, but I believe the demonstration was focused solely on body language, and not much on speech. Hence the reason they missed it
just pause instead of saying like or ummm. so many people struggle with the pause!
Its about body language not about speech techniques...
Obama was great at using pauses to emphasize his message.
to be honest, this presentation seems like steve jobs revealing his iphones
a body language master
Facts
Agreed
That's so true!
apparently, Steve got the same class
As much as this guy put effort into this, this body language reminds me of the evil businessman in the story, pitching a cover up of his evil plan.
Lol
Like he said. Make your body language your super power. Maybe he wanna make a supervillain squad or smth
15hours ago
I didnt notice that while watching so I didnt think about it but now I see it
@@kasyfi5546 like some kinda suicide squad?
This was amazing. It didn't feel like a 13 minute presentation at all, since I was completely engaged during the presentation
Uranus is better
@@69metersbelow25 You're right. I was having dinner in my work and I left my dinner get cold and exceeded my dinner time.
I actually had to check if the video lasted 13 😅mins
👍👍👍👍👍👍sokokko
its so different compared to now, in college, people barely laugh at jokes. Well done.
The deliberation he gives to his hand movements per word is mental, it's almost like his own interpretation of sign language in a way.
mirror practice
Ironically enough, for me all of their body languages and gestures look extremely uncomfortable and forced. Makes me think on how congruency is important, that is: it's not only about what is the "correct" body language but also about the need that we have to express ourselves and our personalities through or body.
I often see great public speakers and teachers that have technically "wrong body language" but they feel much more comfortable and natural. Something to take into account.
@@tyqwe45qe The movements are exaggerated cuz this is a teaching context, they are just trying to show easy to understand example
If you watch with no audio it does come across like a version of sign language.
I lived for almost 25 years and now I finally know how to stand still.
Imagine doing a school presentation and knowing over 4M people were going to be viewing it. I'd be nervous AF.
5
I don’t think they knew that though right
5.8
Wisdom eliminates
Yeah, i had to replace my camera becasue it didn't have AF.
Just when I mastered these concepts, we're all doing virtual presentations now.
LMFAOO
*Evil Morty theme song plays*
😂😂😂
😂
Me, an italian: "how dare you use my spells against me, Potter???"
I didn't understand!!
HAHAHA that’s perfect 😂
@@thgephte947 same here!!!!
@@asifishan1221 We Italians are famous for how often we move our hands while talking
Bro ho riso di gusto
I am from Italy, the gesture part just comes naturally 😂
A lot. Italians look like they're directing traffic
I thought that was Italian sign langauge.
Who died and left you boss
Lol Lebanese too
and your last name is Lopez? and name Pedro. and Italians main dish is *Paella*
This was entertaining and educational at the same time.
fr
Presencial classes in university be like
@Manny Solve how is this forcing anyone? It’s a college course you pay for yourself buddy. Theyre choosing this.
@Manny Solve Very real perspective. I appreciate that insight.
Wow. It’s not forcing people to live or act a certain way, it is a fact that people maintain interest far more with expressive body language. Get over it. This also does not mean people judge others at all, again it is just a communication tool for public speaking.
Thinking back, I can now see why I was able to listen to certain instructors more than others. They had friendlier and professional body language! This was very helpful and I will implement these techniques!
i'd study everything irrelevant to my field if Jeong Joon Ha is teaching me
Yep
Fr 😫
Dude made me question my sexuality
Fake comments.
@@zappbrannigan4170 cause i don't have a profile pic ?
“So far we’ve focused on the audience,
And now it’s time to focus on you, the audience.”
Lol 😂 I I know . That got me
Their body language is textbook but it’s too textbook that it doesn’t look natural.
They got some stiff robot arms
Right
@@LordBelakor lol right when I read that he fixed his belt
Was like they memorized their body language beforehand but it's still very educational
@@meridadonbroch3509 I agree, well put
I've given hundreds of presentations over my career incl. to small audiences, intimate powerful audiences, and to as many as 7,000. I learned "how to speak" from one of the largest companies in the world, while they were in their "early days," and the one thing I learned that I employed in EVERY presentation was not discussed or used here. In fact, watching each of these presenters, incl Dr. Bailie, Ph.D., I felt as though they were terrified because they did NOT hold eye contact, make a point, then move to the next set of eyes. If you want to appear in command and hold the attention of your audience, before you start a word of your presentation, find a person in the audience, look them in the eye and make your point without moving your gaze. Your stare should not last longer than your breath... Then, as you need/take another breath, pause your speech, move your gaze to another person, look them in their eye and speak. Do this the entire presentation and you will average over 4 stars, will be an "in demand" speaker, and you will love public speaking. It disarms and warms the audience (of course, you must have a command of your material).
Edit: I edited this comment so you don't know what i got the likes for
i got this recommendation today XD
@@mominawan739 just now for me xD
Do you not realise it’s permanently recommending it to different people? It’s not like it just suddenly recommends a random video to every single person.
🤣🤣🤣
No shortage of bullshit artists on UA-cam. It's run by crap people.
He actually shows the gesture to raise a crowd at 5:20 so effortlessly.
OMG yes 😲
Just ask for it. That's all,tell them a joke and ask em to laugh or else "I will press the remote".
That's amazing. It's like he's just raised his hands up but somehow he's actually acticulating can you get up whilst saying the same thing. 😂
Love when people say "just look straight at the audience" as if the problem is that you don't know where you're MEANT to be looking and not that you're too anxious to maintain looking in that direction. It's the condescending equivalent of saying "just have self confidence" or "just don't be anxious".
The problem is that the audience is this weird amorphous direction and presence when you are presenting to them, in my limited knowledge my advice as a teacher would be to find a direction in which to rotate your gaze, like front-right -> front-left -> back-left -> back-right -> repeat, make eye contact with different people as you go through as to engage them. obviously this doesn't solve the issue of being anxious while giving the presentation but it can help to have a mental direction to follow
"look straight at the audience" is a great advice, because it's something very practical one can actually apply right away, whereas saying "don't be anxious" isn't. Anxiety is much more difficult to control than one's glance.
@@streawkceurseL I'm really not sure you understand how anxiety works. In my eyes both phrases border on being the same thing.
@@classymuffin4589 One is an action, and the other is an underlying reason for not wanting to do said action. Frankly, controlling anxiety is something that takes work, looking your audience in the eye is an action you can take during a presentation to controll anxiety.
@@legendsofmichael4315 I would much rather have a less impactful presentation than incur a panic attack due to forcing myself to maintain eye contact...I have a strong feeling you don't understand anxiety considering you just recommended to do something that amplifies anxiety in order to control it. Looking literally everywhere EXCEPT at the audience's eyes controls anxiety.
I actually just watched this entire video like im gonna use these skills…
I found it useful
This video came at litterally the perfect time for me as I have a huge meeting Friday in front of many important people. 🙌 🙏 🙏
Is this where The Zuck learned how to human?
he didnt really learn it he downloaded human software
Yes, it is important to use body language while smoking meats.
I like how their own body language becomes the antithesis of their own presentation.
😅
I felt that too.
But it is okay. They aren't advanced yet. They need more training.
The first one is definitely the best one, he is beautifully charismatic and his body language can make everyone comfortable and trust him. Well trained politicians express like him, so this skill is like a knife : useful and mortal at the same time depending on your secret agenda.
@@mightyr9721 I think you’re conflating his skill with his good looks. Jeong is without a doubt the most effective communicator.
It may not feel the most comfortable, but it looks the most comfortable to your audience.
1. Base posture. Stand in the center, not behind counters.
2. If you use gestures, the audience will remember twice as much.
3. Always re-engage with the audience.
Jeong was the only one I believed whilst watching this. He seemed pretty comfortable up there whereas the others just felt like they were trying way too hard to not look like they were trying too hard. Also Colin, yo, why you got a shirt 2 sizes too large and pants 2 sizes too small? Your frankfurter needs to not be announcing itself homie.
Totally agree
The audience looked exactly like I thought they would
Keep in mind this is 7 years ago
7 years ago that was the drip 🤣
😂 right
This is the best comment😂
@Azael
It’s funny that your account is the same age as this video and your asking that question 😂
Italians: "Look at what they need to do to mimic a fraction of our powers!".
Must say, I am south Somalian we don't communicate without hand gestures.. colonized by Italians, franch, British and American and yet the hand gestures never left.....
Who else read this comment with a stereotypical Italian accent?
me an Arab: amateurs!
@@KramF10 I read it in the Omni man voice
Anche se così è decisamente troppo... sembra vecchio teatro.. meglio avere contenuti (qualcosa di interessante da dire) voce chiara e NON gesticolare troppo. Distrae
I do not remember when it was the last time I was listening to a presentation like that. 10/10
I just walk around and dry hunch the air. It’s amazing how many doors this technique has opened for me!!! True, most lead outside but open they do!!!
explain what this means dry hunch the air sir ?
@@1yungez Glad you asked!!! In the words of Forrest Gump “I was a girating ma hips”......
I literally laughed out loud at this comment 😆😆😆🤣🤣
I would summarize this by saying; Be in the present moment when you are expressing thyself, you'll realize that body language is quite a natural phenomena.
yeah most people pick up on it naturally, and forcing it comes across as unsettling.
@@nickn7939 true!!
I know my Drill SGT’s took this class. I’ve seen the “chop” more than I ever wanted to….”Do you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth?”
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Standing guard at the border during this pandemic we quickly saw the difference between directing traffic with finger pointing versus using the knife hands. Extending arms outside you body mass makes an easily seen body profile and it's message to a driver 50 metres away. Simple, yet so few think about it.
“Private Joker, are you trying to offend me?” - Gunnery Sergeant Hartman
This is why iida chops his arms so much. Makes a ton of sense now why he does.
LMFAO
The fewer gestures at the right times will be more meaningful. Direct eye contact with every person you can get to is also good because it pulls them in one by one. Also, memorizing your PowerPoint so you can refer with a gesture to it instead of looking works. At work sitting around the conference table, this seems to come naturally because whatever everyone says is important to us. Nobody cares about a school presentation but when you’re paid to present work stuff to your coworkers, every person cares. Just IMO ❤️🤟🏻
no matter how many times i watch this, as an anxious introvert i still can't learn a single thing
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As someone who’s knees would shake and I still sweat profusely but somehow always did well on oral presentations, I find most helpful is just being in the moment, aware of what your doing, if your believing what your saying and if the audience is paying attention. GL
Man I will say, even if there are nuggets of truth in what they are saying, if you are so aggressively aware that you are using these techniques it'll come across as how they do in this video, which to me is overacting and very offputting, it's really odd and makes me instantly distrust a person who is like this.
I'm also an introvert, but I have no problems dealing with presentations. Maybe you confound self confidence and being an introvert?
if you ask me you should force yourself to interact with other people and stop using the cellphone.. i know many people that are outright afraid to talk to someone they dont know even its just on the phone..
4:24 The guy on the left though. I feel his confidence through my screen.
He wants to shhow you something
Exactly lmao
And the most important thing for anything in life: PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!
I got it on the first try, I now have super powerful body language.
I liked the guy how he is presenting himself and talking about body language and using too.
As a public speaker in my profession these are great points to be reminded of.
To those who are “creeped out” you're focusing on the wrong thing. The content is where the real lesson is. FOCUS!
I’m taking a speech class, this video is going to be helpful.
Good luck brotha :)
May the speech Gods be with you
Me too. 😭
all Italians:
we are the land of super heroes
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Hi from Italy!
@@ParoXXIV ciaooooo
@@firegun3010 ciao, sei italiano?
@@ParoXXIV si sono di Spezia
Good to see everyone practising what they learnt from the video, commenting using gestures 👏🏾💯
When I do a presentation, I usually forget I even have a body lmao
Too relatable
Sameee!! 😂
Same hehehe
nice joke.
A great example of awesome education. You learn, have fun, and being motivated, even if it seems boring.
I was awestruck with all their skills. It was on another level that I've seen on youtube.
"Make Body Language Your Superpower"
Me being Italian: hold my beer.
Hold my pizza* 😂
Another italian i see
Hold my gelato
@@jakeevans9746 lol
Italian stalian
This was definitely helpful. To summarise:
1) Know your posture and make it most natural.
2) Know your gestures and always use gestures with your palms up.
3) Know your audience and have the ability to interact with them wherever needed.
"This is the best class I've ever taken" **Slaps desk with added filth.
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***Contemplates life with existentialist angst
Lmao
I bet everone in the room is gonna remember this
Imagine taking a class like this... what’s next a class on how to blink properly..
Was finding best C++ course for my tomorrow exam, and now here i'm am learning how to speak confidently.
I despise (with a passion) presentations. I would literally skip classes whenever I had to do them. In college I had B’s and C’s because I would skip class and lose up to 50+ points because of the presentation. Then sophomore year I had to take a communication class as a prerequisite for my major and I failed the class with an “F” (just I have an F on my college transcript) so I decided to stop running away and took the class again (passed with a “B”). In summary it may be hard to face your fears but you’ll have to face them one way or another. Why not facing it sooner rather than later?
P.s.
I still hate doing presentations and hopefully I don’t have to do it again
C-
Good job facing your fears.
When I went to college with some friends we all had our generals together. One class we had was Speech. We would go home mentally exhausted. The best part was listening to each other make up shit, fuck up, and act very abnormal and insecure.
It was hell, but man it was funny. Now the worst part, is that we had to film ourselves and put it on UA-cam. I forgot my student email and so it's still on here. lt also happened to be my worst performance.
You did good to just go for it and face your fears. I too used to have a lot of fear in public speaking. I learned to embrace it in a fun way and now it's enjoyable.
I'm with you...I absolutely hate presenting and same thing. College made me take communication class for my major ....did it help me with presenting, No lol
I can use this in more than just speaking, this is good for communication in general. Love it
All the years of theater, I’ve learned where to stand, and how to project, but no one ever told me what to do with my hands! Thank u!
Lol giving a presentation is not the same as giving a performance of an character. What have you learnt now?
I'm an undergrad student and next week I'll be having my 1st ever class presentation, well as the team leader of my group, learning this is very helpful . Thank you 😊
This was reccomened everyday for a month straight, I think I'm meant to watch this
“Body language can also distract”
Me: *distracted the entire time by the body language of this body language expert*
hello how are you doing?
Same
I felt that too. They aren't experts yet. But they got the soul. They just need some more training.
I wonder if that dude could move his lips if he were handcuffed
See you guys in a few years when we get recommended this again.
Cya bruh! Have a good life
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for some reason i feel like this rlly will blow up again in a few years ^^