Here's, a gist of the video for you folks. Cheers!! • Standing - one foot forward showing your inner thigh. Hands : both could be back, or one in pocket and other near waist or thinking position or similar Commanding position. • While standing, Face up, Shoulders & back down, chest out. • While turning - always turn using the inside leg. Turning left, left leg out first not right and vice versa. • Men should use shoulders to present masculinity While walking. Also, have a focal point in distance to seem determined While walking • Sitting - starter's position. One hand on thigh and other on face or hip. Same for desk as well. • Legs crossed - 4o clock, one over other. Expansive body language. Take extra space. • Hands While sitting - steeple Hands. All or some fingers touching others. Higher position near chest, means leading and lower near abdomen, means listening. Ref: American psycho • Hand Movements - sweeps, cuts, frames and points. Use them effectively since nearly 50% comm. Is non verbal.
01:19 Body language and posture can have a significant impact on a person's life. 02:21 Body language plays a crucial role in projecting confidence and masculinity. 04:28 Proper body language for men involves a combination of hand placements and good posture. 06:30 Walk with a slight sway in your shoulders to accentuate masculinity. 08:34 Different sitting positions convey different meanings and have social implications. 10:48 Adopt the starter's position for an attentive yet masculine pose. 12:53 Don't be afraid of expansive body language. 14:58 Non-verbal communication is crucial for effective communication. 17:03 Hand movements add depth and impact to communication 18:51 Effective speakers use body language to amplify their message.
• STANDING • 1:21 #1 The String Theory 5:15 #2 Put a Piece of Tape on the Back of Your Neck 5:33 #3 Model Walk 7:31 • DIFFERENT TYPES OF SITTING POSITIONS • 9:29 #1 Narrow Stance 9:33 #2 Wide Sitting Position 10:23 #3 Starter's Position 10:50 #4 Legs Crossed 12:06 • COMMUNICATING • 15:04 #1 Posture 15:51 #2 Facial Expressions 16:06 #3 Hand Movements 17:00
For men who can't figure out how to stand upright. Move like you have the world's coolest music in your head and see how they react to your presence. Their eyes will tell.
This is very true as to how people will treat you. I always thought to myself, walk like you own the place, even if you don't, and people will treat you as thoughbyou dp. Very cool video. Ive been doing some of these without even knowing I just always stand up straight and whatever room I walk into I make sure I stand tall and proud.
Brett, im so thankful for your content. It real does help me with my looks, and personalitly, you're the reason why i am even talking to girls now and always feeling so confindent.
Body language is so right because one year ago i slouched intensely but after i corrected my posture i made friends with a bunch of popular kids without even intending to and a bunch of other kids just trying to talk to me even when i am closed off
I. Posture's Impact on Perception - Standing Postures: - Exploring formal, informal, and dominant stances. - Walking Postures: - Emphasizing confident strides and subtle masculine cues. - Sitting Postures: - Analyzing narrow and wide stances, including their implications. II. Hand and Arm Gestures - Hand Positions: - Detailing various hand placements and their interpretations. - Effective Sitting Poses: - Highlighting expansive body language and attentive yet relaxed positions. III. Communication Through Non-Verbal Cues - Facial Expressions: - Discussing the impact of facial cues on emotional expression. - Hand Movements in Speech: - Exploring the significance of gestures in amplifying speech impact. IV. Practical Applications - Application in Social Dynamics: - Relating body language to social interactions and influence. - Enhancing Communication Skills: - Emphasizing the role of non-verbal cues in effective communication strategies.
I'm definitely going to rewatch this video, there is so much information in it. Also a great protip for posture is to pretend you are pointing your nipples at the other person's neck/face (don't make it look ridiculous tho), makes you pull your shoulders back and get your head up automatically
This is my first video of yours- I really like the direction you’re taking the channel :) I filtered through most popular, and I am more interested in your newer things- you seem to be headed in the right direction! Really enjoy these vids thanks
Brett brother I am following you for my skin and body.. but for lifestyle and routine I follow josec zuniga... There is no non islamic things in you 2's lifestyle. you 2 just changed me from an introvert shy lonely guy to an introversial extrovert self depeded and loneliness enjoyer type sigma guy. May Allah guide to the right path and bless you 2 guys with more success. Zazak Allahu khairan. Salam
POSTURE: -feet wide apart -no crossing arms. balanced pose -head up chin down -chest out -shoulders back n down and moving -wide sitting position (expansive and comfortable body language) FACIAL EXPRESSION: -steady forward gaze HAND MOVEMENT: -open/steepled hands to send positive vibes, clenched hands assert negative emotions -hands on face: on your side with weak posture means boredom, on your mouth embarrassment, on your chin it means thinking, close hand on cheek means interest in the other. a good starter is hand under the side of your face with the index pointing upwards --don't move too fast -sweeps, frame, points and cuts
Disclaimer: if you're thinking about all of these things constantly, you are an overly-analytical hyper-critical psychopath and you are going to be more miserable.
Yeah so I'm a 15 year old boy, Already 6 feet 1 inch, but I don't really have the muscle right now, but still being 2-3 inches taller then almost every other boy in my country at this age and even beyond does make me stand out a bit, Your video was really helpful, I'll definitely try to implement the postures and gestures in order to make my personality and aura more significant, and hopefully in by the time I'm 22-23 I can put on some muscle as well eh. Great video.
As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.
literally just workout and stretch and you will naturally have "confident" posture. You'll quickly learn that looking attractive just means looking healthy.
The video is about body language. It is a guide for men on how to improve their body language. The video covers a variety of topics, including how to stand, walk, and sit. It also discusses how to use facial expressions and hand gestures to communicate effectively.
The more videos I watch about self improvement the more I come to the conclusion that all these guys are looking at the world from a level of inferiority and they only improve by competing By still putting the person in front above them Through out my life I ve seen only 2 guys at the other spectrum and it’s magical This type of people never compare themselves to no one They always do what feels natural to them They re not alphas in the real sense nor sigmas or any other type out there They re just perfectly chilled in their own skin and don’t care about these social games or how people see them They attract with kindness and openness
Standing:- Feet Placement: Wide: Dominance Close or Crossed: Submissive/Formal PERFECT: Forward Foot Position - for masculine pose Hand Placement: Pockets: Insecurity & Submissive PERFECT: Mixture of both energies Walking:- Swaying: Shoulders - Masculinity Hips - Femininity Leading Feet: Outer - Directed Inner - Confused Sitting:- Space Occupied: More - Powerful Less - Weak Leg Spread: Outward or Wide - Dominant Inward or Close - Submissive Hand: Up - Asset Down - Receive Fingers touching each other Hand on Face: Over Mouth -Embarrassment On Chin - Thinking On Cheek - Boredom Closed Hand on Cheek - Interest don't use these as support
Great content! I'm a long time subscriber and definitely have noticed the depth of the material you have been presenting lately. I was kinda thrown off by the abrupt ending though.
When it comes to attraction, it's mainly subconscious, especially for women. Yes, try to implement these little pointers, but do not rely on them too much for attraction.
For those who dont understand: people cover their genetals when they're feeling tense or nervous, it's like an automatic response. It's a way our bodies try to protect themselves when things get a bit stressful or nervous situatios. Examples can be crossing leg, cover genitals with hand. This can be a way of decreasing confidence.
I think the biggest single thing you can do is head up, chest out and shoulders back and tall spine. This alone in IMO is the one thing that you can think about and well never hurt
The pursuit of superficial confidence only delays your inner confidence development. Just because you succeed in faking your confidence to get by certain situations, doesn’t mean you gained confidence.
German summary: Full Body Language Guide Haltung im Stehen: Größe spielt keine Rolle, Breite der Haltung zählt Parallele Füße: Unterwürfig und respektvoll, leicht umzuschubsen Breiter Stand: Maskulin, sportlich und bedrohlich; vielleicht feindselig oder zu dominant (stabile Haltung) Überkreuzte Beine: Unterwürfig und schwach Forward-Foot-Position: Inneres Bein wirkt attraktiv; Kombination aus Maskulinität und Attraktivität; Studien zufolge beste Haltung Arme nicht kreuzen, wirkt protektiv und defensiv Arme an der Hüfte: Maskulin; kann bedrohlich und dominant wirken Eine Hand in der Tasche oder Hüfte, andere Hand hängt oder ist aktiv (optimal) Kopf hoch, Brust raus, Schultern zurück und runter Fadenmethode mit gutem Gefühl (Lat) Haltung beim Gehen: Verkehrte Sanduhr, mehr Schultern und weniger Hüfte Lat breit, Kopf hoch, Hals gespannt, Brust raus Leichtes Schulterschwingen, inneres Bein bestimmt die Richtung Nicht zu angespannt, lockerer, dominanter Gang Inneres Bein dominant, Äußeres wirkt unsicher Haltung beim Sitzen: Schmaler Sitz biologisch feminin; Maskuliner Sitz biologisch breiter Nicht zu breit, wirkt lasch und schwach „Starters position“ ist maskulin und aktiv, wirkt attraktiv und sympathisch, nicht arrogant Linker Ellbogen und Unterarm am oberen Oberschenkel, rechter Arm auf rechtem Oberschenkel und Finger zeigen nach innen; Rechter Ellbogen nach außen Viel Platz einnehmen wirkt dominant, keine Angst davor haben sich breit zu machen Gestik: Desto zusammengekleisterter die Hände sind, desto negativer, ernster und angespannter wirkt die Lage Wissenschaftlich: Elitäre Persönlichkeiten lassen Fingerspitzen einander berühren, was sie mächtig und einflussreich wirken lässt Desto höher desto arroganter und mächtiger Desto tiefer desto eher wirkt es, als ob man zuhört Patrick Bateman (Bale), Andrew Tate Hand überm Mund signalisiert Sprachlosigkeit sowie Überraschung, Hand am Kinn ist Indikator für Entscheidung oder Nachdenken Kommunikation: 55% non-verbal 38% stimmlich 7% verbal (nicht bestätigt, aber kein Zweifel an Wichtigkeit) Haltung, Gesichtsausdrücke, Handbewegungen wichtigste Säulen Emotionen werden durch Mund, Augen und Augenbrauen ausgedrückt Weniger Gesichtsausdrücke und ruhigeres Verhalten sind stoischer und mysteriöser, können in vielen Situationen bedrohlich sein Handbewegungen: Machen mehr als 50% des Eindrucks aus 4 Säulen sind Points, Sweeps, Frames und Cuts Points erregen Aufmerksamkeit (Hör zu!) Dominant und zurechtweisend Sweeps verbinden Sätze (Aber ich will mich klar ausdrücken...) Frames bestehen aus 2 Händen, signalisieren Mengen, Zeitabstände Cuts verstärken Aussagen und vor allem Fakten
I Really Appreciate Your Channel and points i have a good and aesthetic body but i still look small but with the posture and jaw i look Better than ever! Thanks!
Crossing your arms doesnt say that your protecting your belly for everybody, to me its just a comfortable stance to have my arms rested/relaxed. Body langauge doesnt always say what we think it does. Most of times its a projection of our feeling at that moment. Why hide who you are?? why all the difficulty on how to act??? Be who your are, feel who you are, it doesnt matter what your stance, walk or projection is. We're all trying to act the same, be the same, to project what we dont have, confidence. We're not all the same, nor can we be. Be true to yourselfs, honest and brutally. Then confidence and peace will follow
I just think (based on my experience) body language just express what's within that's why I think it's something you don't learn but happens naturally depending on how confident and comfortable you feel.
The wide masculine standpoint reminds me of the infamous nyc subway manspread, those people were the absolute worst. I enjoyed the swipe examples though
So with this video I realized my body language transmitted "confllict" or "anger" (not masculine). Now I understand why some people told me they thought I was always mad or I disliked them LOL. I look so insecure it makes people think I'm constantly on the verge of conflict. I'm gonna change it and see how it changes my social life. People rarely approach me, and sometimes when they approach me they are kinda "scared", like if I was some kind of mafia boss. That ain't nice lol, I want to feel like the cool guy, respected but not "feared". I'm not even ugly, I'm just above average and girls I met said I'm indeed very hadnsome, but they didn't expected me to be that funny and stuff lol.
as a man I learned all of that just by nature instics. My problem is couple of my female friend tell me my posture was too aggresive sometime, I have to learn to hold it back.
Sweet video. Nicely produced for sure, but what really stands out, to me at least, is how your presentation style is perfectly consistent with the confident-yet-approachable masculinity you're teaching to express with body language. I do have some well-intentioned constructive criticism. Because of it's relevance, there's nothing at all wrong with pointing out the physiological differences in the sexes. But I personally would stop short of adding the "child-bearing" part. It could be uncomfortable for people who are childless or child-free, or those raised around toxic paternalism. Plus, it doesn't really add anything useful in this context. I'd just say something about how broad shoulders signal a man's attractiveness in the same way that women's wider hips do, and let the anthropologists in the audience to work out the why. Otherwise, liked, commented, and subscribed.
This so funny and you explain it in a very clear way. I guess I would only do this if in a Job interview or somethimg like that. I dont want to walk into a place and get all the looks, for instance. Why should I need that unless I were a model? Guess Americans and Europeans are different here. Very interesting 😊
@ferred3056 I am totally fine with people not talking to me. If it's important to you, please go ahead and meet as many people as you want. And I don't think it's weird or strange. But that's just my idea.
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
3:45 this isn't how crossed arms position usually looks like. Forearms line should run below the chest, so that if your physique is good - it exposes it further. Also hand should only rest on your biceps with fingers (shaft starting slightly on the inward arm part) so that it's drawn attention to instead of covered, not wrap it around like taco as if you were freezing. It looks miles more masculine (and admittedly douchy too) than the silly sizing up position.
Us people of the south of france or even Italy or maybe is it just latin in general, speak a lot with the hands but also use or facials traits, expressions to sort of captivate the attention of the listener, it is very well explained here and but don t force it, you either born a leader or born a follower.
13:50 it’s called a scholar’s cradle. There are MANY different ways to do it, and a decent bit of study in the psychology of what each one means. Lindybeige has a good video on them
I used to think men being able to completely cross their legs was gay… but I found recently it just wasn’t possible to do before due to immobility due to heavy bilateral exercises. Now that I can move better with different training. It is kinda like a flex. I will put myself in this compromised position because I know I don’t need to take you seriously.
Where I live, "hand movements" are natural. We call them "french hands". We are very descriptive with our speech and often use our hands unconsciously.
Here's, a gist of the video for you folks. Cheers!!
• Standing - one foot forward showing your inner thigh. Hands : both could be back, or one in pocket and other near waist or thinking position or similar Commanding position.
• While standing, Face up, Shoulders & back down, chest out.
• While turning - always turn using the inside leg. Turning left, left leg out first not right and vice versa.
• Men should use shoulders to present masculinity While walking. Also, have a focal point in distance to seem determined While walking
• Sitting - starter's position. One hand on thigh and other on face or hip. Same for desk as well.
• Legs crossed - 4o clock, one over other. Expansive body language. Take extra space.
• Hands While sitting - steeple Hands. All or some fingers touching others. Higher position near chest, means leading and lower near abdomen, means listening. Ref: American psycho
• Hand Movements - sweeps, cuts, frames and points. Use them effectively since nearly 50% comm. Is non verbal.
Too much masculinity 😮💨💪
Summery : take as much space as you can while being comfortable
01:19 Body language and posture can have a significant impact on a person's life.
02:21 Body language plays a crucial role in projecting confidence and masculinity.
04:28 Proper body language for men involves a combination of hand placements and good posture.
06:30 Walk with a slight sway in your shoulders to accentuate masculinity.
08:34 Different sitting positions convey different meanings and have social implications.
10:48 Adopt the starter's position for an attentive yet masculine pose.
12:53 Don't be afraid of expansive body language.
14:58 Non-verbal communication is crucial for effective communication.
17:03 Hand movements add depth and impact to communication
18:51 Effective speakers use body language to amplify their message.
Thanks, basically it’s nothing special here
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Thanks a lot dude you save my time 🙏🙏
I hate to break this to you, but synerology or body language is a pseudoscience. Just like astrology, palm reading and graphology.
I make videos like this. I made a video “how to find your own business”. I will be glad to your criticism and evaluation. video on the channel
I’ve been doing all the dominant poses for years without knowing this video lol. It starts in the mind first and how u dress plays a great factor too
Bro really said I am a born psychologist
@@natural-highlights7897not related tbh
Same with me and it happens naturally. Even the energy of masculanity.
All knowledge achieved through experience. - Aristotle
Samee
I see some Hamza inspiration here👀 seriously though your content is great and the quality is superb
Jimmy more like adonis
• STANDING
• 1:21
#1 The String Theory 5:15
#2 Put a Piece of Tape on the Back of Your Neck 5:33
#3 Model Walk 7:31
• DIFFERENT TYPES OF SITTING POSITIONS
• 9:29
#1 Narrow Stance 9:33
#2 Wide Sitting Position 10:23
#3 Starter's Position 10:50
#4 Legs Crossed 12:06
• COMMUNICATING
• 15:04
#1 Posture 15:51
#2 Facial Expressions 16:06
#3 Hand Movements 17:00
ty save so much time
bro actually called it string theory just to be "cool" 😂😭
We need people like u
Truly the best video I’ve seen on this topic. Keep up the great work
Putib
For men who can't figure out how to stand upright.
Move like you have the world's coolest music in your head and see how they react to your presence. Their eyes will tell.
This is very true as to how people will treat you.
I always thought to myself, walk like you own the place, even if you don't, and people will treat you as thoughbyou dp.
Very cool video.
Ive been doing some of these without even knowing I just always stand up straight and whatever room I walk into I make sure I stand tall and proud.
This video is just crammed with so much research, humor, and useful information I can literally start using the second I go outside. Thank you!
pls take a shower
@@JahvdjybejhehdvhdzxuduwiksjdYou go take one
Brett, im so thankful for your content. It real does help me with my looks, and personalitly, you're the reason why i am even talking to girls now and always feeling so confindent.
I truly love Brett's videos love your hardwork and research♥️
happy to help!
My favourite standing position is rear double biceps and front lat spread while talking to strangers.
Body language is so right because one year ago i slouched intensely but after i corrected my posture i made friends with a bunch of popular kids without even intending to and a bunch of other kids just trying to talk to me even when i am closed off
Great
@@itsok5188 thx
noice
Good job. Now learn how to punctuate the things you write.
@@TVC15ohoh way to ruin the vibe
I'm impressed by how accurate and detailed this videa is🙌
I. Posture's Impact on Perception
- Standing Postures:
- Exploring formal, informal, and dominant stances.
- Walking Postures:
- Emphasizing confident strides and subtle masculine cues.
- Sitting Postures:
- Analyzing narrow and wide stances, including their implications.
II. Hand and Arm Gestures
- Hand Positions:
- Detailing various hand placements and their interpretations.
- Effective Sitting Poses:
- Highlighting expansive body language and attentive yet relaxed positions.
III. Communication Through Non-Verbal Cues
- Facial Expressions:
- Discussing the impact of facial cues on emotional expression.
- Hand Movements in Speech:
- Exploring the significance of gestures in amplifying speech impact.
IV. Practical Applications
- Application in Social Dynamics:
- Relating body language to social interactions and influence.
- Enhancing Communication Skills:
- Emphasizing the role of non-verbal cues in effective communication strategies.
Be genuine. This was written by Chatgpt or Bard
Great video Brett. There's power in gesture. Some considered them as magic, like the STEEPLE HAND POSITIONING, some say that is the MUDRA for success.
Another good example for hand gestures and body language is Keanu Reeves. He's got a friendly and appreciated vibe because of it.
This video is a life saver ,I forgot how to stand and walk properly,now I have a lot to catch up
Bro... this guy is making me love him more and more by the video. LOVE U MAN
He said not to act fruity
I'm definitely going to rewatch this video, there is so much information in it.
Also a great protip for posture is to pretend you are pointing your nipples at the other person's neck/face (don't make it look ridiculous tho), makes you pull your shoulders back and get your head up automatically
This is my first video of yours- I really like the direction you’re taking the channel :) I filtered through most popular, and I am more interested in your newer things- you seem to be headed in the right direction! Really enjoy these vids thanks
This man born for to change you.We have to respect him...💛💛
Ayy Ayanokouji! My favourite character ever!!
Brett brother I am following you for my skin and body.. but for lifestyle and routine I follow josec zuniga... There is no non islamic things in you 2's lifestyle. you 2 just changed me from an introvert shy lonely guy to an introversial extrovert self depeded and loneliness enjoyer type sigma guy. May Allah guide to the right path and bless you 2 guys with more success. Zazak Allahu khairan. Salam
It’s jazak Allah not zazakollah
Please correct ✅
@@MotivateXpress6031thank you brother. But if you pronounce together, it sounds like this. But I will remember always
When your silence and success speaks with a little smile it will be a deadly combination of calm and composed body language❤❤
POSTURE:
-feet wide apart
-no crossing arms. balanced pose
-head up chin down
-chest out
-shoulders back n down and moving
-wide sitting position (expansive and comfortable body language)
FACIAL EXPRESSION:
-steady forward gaze
HAND MOVEMENT:
-open/steepled hands to send positive vibes, clenched hands assert negative emotions
-hands on face: on your side with weak posture means boredom, on your mouth embarrassment, on your chin it means thinking, close hand on cheek means interest in the other. a good starter is hand under the side of your face with the index pointing upwards
--don't move too fast
-sweeps, frame, points and cuts
Disclaimer: if you're thinking about all of these things constantly, you are an overly-analytical hyper-critical psychopath and you are going to be more miserable.
Even girls told me my postures are bad..hope this video will help me
The "string theory" is widely used in ballet, also string theory is used in physics, so it can cause misunderstandings
Thank you bro for this. Some people take for granted how important body language is
Yeah so I'm a 15 year old boy, Already 6 feet 1 inch, but I don't really have the muscle right now, but still being 2-3 inches taller then almost every other boy in my country at this age and even beyond does make me stand out a bit, Your video was really helpful, I'll definitely try to implement the postures and gestures in order to make my personality and aura more significant, and hopefully in by the time I'm 22-23 I can put on some muscle as well eh. Great video.
Just turn on cc in 0:29 , You will be surprised
Lmaoo I got shocked for a sec 😂
😂😂
Wow 😂😂😂
You weren’t lying 😂
@@sunilhembram9851 At first I got jumpscared 💀
0:32 with captions, try it
Blocked my whole screen 😂😂
13:02 also
As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.
came here to be a great leader, bro is talking about attracting women
Charisma is just so important. Good video!
literally just workout and stretch and you will naturally have "confident" posture.
You'll quickly learn that looking attractive just means looking healthy.
The most important thing to add is that if you are forcing these positions and behaviors, it is obvious to those who do it without thinking.
Another great analysis video mate. Much respect🔥🔥
An introvert going to a convention soon , I am here to learn 😂
yo, bro got that courage
brett, man I love ur content u really changed my life
The video is about body language. It is a guide for men on how to improve their body language. The video covers a variety of topics, including how to stand, walk, and sit. It also discusses how to use facial expressions and hand gestures to communicate effectively.
Thank you so much bro love form india 🇮🇳🙏
The more videos I watch about self improvement the more I come to the conclusion that all these guys are looking at the world from a level of inferiority and they only improve by competing By still putting the person in front above them
Through out my life I ve seen only 2 guys at the other spectrum and it’s magical This type of people never compare themselves to no one They always do what feels natural to them They re not alphas in the real sense nor sigmas or any other type out there They re just perfectly chilled in their own skin and don’t care about these social games or how people see them They attract with kindness and openness
Standing:-
Feet Placement:
Wide: Dominance
Close or Crossed: Submissive/Formal
PERFECT: Forward Foot Position - for masculine pose
Hand Placement:
Pockets: Insecurity & Submissive
PERFECT: Mixture of both energies
Walking:-
Swaying:
Shoulders - Masculinity
Hips - Femininity
Leading Feet:
Outer - Directed
Inner - Confused
Sitting:-
Space Occupied:
More - Powerful
Less - Weak
Leg Spread:
Outward or Wide - Dominant
Inward or Close - Submissive
Hand:
Up - Asset
Down - Receive
Fingers touching each other
Hand on Face:
Over Mouth -Embarrassment
On Chin - Thinking
On Cheek - Boredom
Closed Hand on Cheek - Interest
don't use these as support
Great content! I'm a long time subscriber and definitely have noticed the depth of the material you have been presenting lately.
I was kinda thrown off by the abrupt ending though.
just be yourself as you are in your home, people will feel comfortable around you, and feel you are representing their simplicity
When it comes to attraction, it's mainly subconscious, especially for women. Yes, try to implement these little pointers, but do not rely on them too much for attraction.
Truly the best video I’ve seen on this topic
Jesus dude, this is good content! I’ll have to use this in my day to day and post my results on my channel!!!
For those who dont understand: people cover their genetals when they're feeling tense or nervous, it's like an automatic response. It's a way our bodies try to protect themselves when things get a bit stressful or nervous situatios. Examples can be crossing leg, cover genitals with hand. This can be a way of decreasing confidence.
I think the biggest single thing you can do is head up, chest out and shoulders back and tall spine. This alone in IMO is the one thing that you can think about and well never hurt
I think just being yourself with decent decipline is much better instead of being following everything that doesn't suit everyone
The pursuit of superficial confidence only delays your inner confidence development. Just because you succeed in faking your confidence to get by certain situations, doesn’t mean you gained confidence.
Sometimes, when people know what they are doing wrong and know what is right, they gain confidence.
I love this video
I learned a lot...thanks so much
my mentality matched properly with everything
i'm blessed
Most important is to show them you are ready to fight, thats all.
Yeah, I'm not going to worry about someone trying to gaslight me with 'misogynist' aka 'the West hurt feelings'. Great video, learned quite a bit.
German summary:
Full Body Language Guide
Haltung im Stehen:
Größe spielt keine Rolle, Breite der Haltung zählt
Parallele Füße: Unterwürfig und respektvoll, leicht umzuschubsen
Breiter Stand: Maskulin, sportlich und bedrohlich; vielleicht feindselig oder zu dominant (stabile Haltung)
Überkreuzte Beine: Unterwürfig und schwach
Forward-Foot-Position: Inneres Bein wirkt attraktiv; Kombination aus Maskulinität und Attraktivität; Studien zufolge beste Haltung
Arme nicht kreuzen, wirkt protektiv und defensiv
Arme an der Hüfte: Maskulin; kann bedrohlich und dominant wirken
Eine Hand in der Tasche oder Hüfte, andere Hand hängt oder ist aktiv (optimal)
Kopf hoch, Brust raus, Schultern zurück und runter
Fadenmethode mit gutem Gefühl (Lat)
Haltung beim Gehen:
Verkehrte Sanduhr, mehr Schultern und weniger Hüfte
Lat breit, Kopf hoch, Hals gespannt, Brust raus
Leichtes Schulterschwingen, inneres Bein bestimmt die Richtung
Nicht zu angespannt, lockerer, dominanter Gang
Inneres Bein dominant, Äußeres wirkt unsicher
Haltung beim Sitzen:
Schmaler Sitz biologisch feminin; Maskuliner Sitz biologisch breiter
Nicht zu breit, wirkt lasch und schwach
„Starters position“ ist maskulin und aktiv, wirkt attraktiv und sympathisch, nicht arrogant
Linker Ellbogen und Unterarm am oberen Oberschenkel, rechter Arm auf rechtem Oberschenkel und Finger zeigen nach innen; Rechter Ellbogen nach außen
Viel Platz einnehmen wirkt dominant, keine Angst davor haben sich breit zu machen
Gestik:
Desto zusammengekleisterter die Hände sind, desto negativer, ernster und angespannter wirkt die Lage
Wissenschaftlich: Elitäre Persönlichkeiten lassen Fingerspitzen einander berühren, was sie mächtig und einflussreich wirken lässt
Desto höher desto arroganter und mächtiger
Desto tiefer desto eher wirkt es, als ob man zuhört
Patrick Bateman (Bale), Andrew Tate
Hand überm Mund signalisiert Sprachlosigkeit sowie Überraschung, Hand am Kinn ist Indikator für Entscheidung oder Nachdenken
Kommunikation:
55% non-verbal
38% stimmlich
7% verbal
(nicht bestätigt, aber kein Zweifel an Wichtigkeit)
Haltung, Gesichtsausdrücke, Handbewegungen wichtigste Säulen
Emotionen werden durch Mund, Augen und Augenbrauen ausgedrückt
Weniger Gesichtsausdrücke und ruhigeres Verhalten sind stoischer und mysteriöser, können in vielen Situationen bedrohlich sein
Handbewegungen:
Machen mehr als 50% des Eindrucks aus
4 Säulen sind Points, Sweeps, Frames und Cuts
Points erregen Aufmerksamkeit (Hör zu!)
Dominant und zurechtweisend
Sweeps verbinden Sätze (Aber ich will mich klar ausdrücken...)
Frames bestehen aus 2 Händen, signalisieren Mengen, Zeitabstände
Cuts verstärken Aussagen und vor allem Fakten
I love the frequent uploads, great video!
I Really Appreciate Your Channel and points i have a good and aesthetic body but i still look small but with the posture and jaw i look Better than ever! Thanks!
Crossing your arms doesnt say that your protecting your belly for everybody, to me its just a comfortable stance to have my arms rested/relaxed.
Body langauge doesnt always say what we think it does. Most of times its a projection of our feeling at that moment. Why hide who you are??
why all the difficulty on how to act??? Be who your are, feel who you are, it doesnt matter what your stance, walk or projection is.
We're all trying to act the same, be the same, to project what we dont have, confidence. We're not all the same, nor can we be.
Be true to yourselfs, honest and brutally.
Then confidence and peace will follow
Hamza Style intro. love it. it makes the video relatable
It starts with feeling comfortable in your own skin.
The better you feel about yourself the more natural the bodylanguage comes.
i feel like it rather works both ways, this idea that feeling good about yourself isnt tied to the material reality is ridiculous
I just think (based on my experience) body language just express what's within that's why I think it's something you don't learn but happens naturally depending on how confident and comfortable you feel.
posture comes from mentality, no posture you learn is helpful.
The wide masculine standpoint reminds me of the infamous nyc subway manspread, those people were the absolute worst. I enjoyed the swipe examples though
So with this video I realized my body language transmitted "confllict" or "anger" (not masculine). Now I understand why some people told me they thought I was always mad or I disliked them LOL. I look so insecure it makes people think I'm constantly on the verge of conflict. I'm gonna change it and see how it changes my social life. People rarely approach me, and sometimes when they approach me they are kinda "scared", like if I was some kind of mafia boss. That ain't nice lol, I want to feel like the cool guy, respected but not "feared". I'm not even ugly, I'm just above average and girls I met said I'm indeed very hadnsome, but they didn't expected me to be that funny and stuff lol.
08:37 "Those are the fundamentals of walking" Thanks Brett
as a man I learned all of that just by nature instics. My problem is couple of my female friend tell me my posture was too aggresive sometime, I have to learn to hold it back.
Sweet video. Nicely produced for sure, but what really stands out, to me at least, is how your presentation style is perfectly consistent with the confident-yet-approachable masculinity you're teaching to express with body language. I do have some well-intentioned constructive criticism.
Because of it's relevance, there's nothing at all wrong with pointing out the physiological differences in the sexes. But I personally would stop short of adding the "child-bearing" part. It could be uncomfortable for people who are childless or child-free, or those raised around toxic paternalism. Plus, it doesn't really add anything useful in this context. I'd just say something about how broad shoulders signal a man's attractiveness in the same way that women's wider hips do, and let the anthropologists in the audience to work out the why.
Otherwise, liked, commented, and subscribed.
A perfect of example of what Brett said in this video is Tristan Tate. The way he carries himself in public is so fascinating.
Your mind is the foundation.
This is the best video to become a better men 👏
This so funny and you explain it in a very clear way. I guess I would only do this if in a Job interview or somethimg like that. I dont want to walk into a place and get all the looks, for instance. Why should I need that unless I were a model? Guess Americans and Europeans are different here.
Very interesting 😊
I wonder why people give so much importance to these external things. What's inside that matter
you might be an angel inside but be socially awkward and weird. Who's going to talk to such a strange person?
@ferred3056 I am totally fine with people not talking to me. If it's important to you, please go ahead and meet as many people as you want. And I don't think it's weird or strange. But that's just my idea.
@@hiteshc2718 of course. And just clarifying by "You" I didn't mean you specifically I meant people in general. I didn't want to insult you.
Very helpful , all the points are really relatable
“Communication works for those who work at it.” - John Powell
Brett back with another video‼️
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
About time you posted this! Good job 👍
3:45 this isn't how crossed arms position usually looks like. Forearms line should run below the chest, so that if your physique is good - it exposes it further. Also hand should only rest on your biceps with fingers (shaft starting slightly on the inward arm part) so that it's drawn attention to instead of covered, not wrap it around like taco as if you were freezing. It looks miles more masculine (and admittedly douchy too) than the silly sizing up position.
Please make a video on how to get your hairstyle ❤
Love your content ❤
Us people of the south of france or even Italy or maybe is it just latin in general, speak a lot with the hands but also use or facials traits, expressions to sort of captivate the attention of the listener, it is very well explained here and but don t force it, you either born a leader or born a follower.
Really helpful, thanks again Brett! I'm 15 on Self-Improvement and Looksmaxxing and all of your videos are helpful! Thanks!
Love the way you explained. Thanks a ton!!
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
Superb vid info. Thank You.
Don't on the subtitles in small text. It can cover the whole screen 😅 1:21
13:50 it’s called a scholar’s cradle. There are MANY different ways to do it, and a decent bit of study in the psychology of what each one means. Lindybeige has a good video on them
Watching this with subtitles on
I used to think men being able to completely cross their legs was gay… but I found recently it just wasn’t possible to do before due to immobility due to heavy bilateral exercises. Now that I can move better with different training. It is kinda like a flex. I will put myself in this compromised position because I know I don’t need to take you seriously.
I always wanted a body language like that.
Great... Just learned how to walk!
Very impressed with your gist. A follower of Alan Pease ❤
Where I live, "hand movements" are natural. We call them "french hands". We are very descriptive with our speech and often use our hands unconsciously.
Where do you live?
Not in a weird way I just want to meet you and your family and just hang out
@@daneperry2762 hahaha 😆 Close to the Quèbec border.
thanks man nice content very detailed
really solid video my man!
ps: great cta this time ;)
its funny how spiderman is the example of what NOT to be 😂
Lel
I am not impressing anyone by these all
this should be lean by all just learning correct ways of walk, stand, talk and many more 😊
🎉 Thank you brother ❤❤❤