I checked on my exes who left me social medias for a long time, during that time I was trying to get her back. Then one day, I stopped, I moved on, I got happy again and realized how awful she was to me. Didn’t see/hear from her for over 6 months. Knew nothing about her and I still don’t, but she’s been around lately, showing face almost daily, drives past me, near my house, she drives by my work. I am dating again and met someone that I get along with very well. With me dating and my birthday coming up in a few days, I expect she’ll come back into my life somehow, she’s always gotta try to ruin anything good I got going. I do love her, god do I love her but I can’t be with her again.
I blocked my husband and his new gf everywhere except phone and email. If he wanted to contact me, he can. He doesn't get to throw me away after 17yrs, go to the streets and then thinks he can see what I'm doing on social media. He was the one who didn't want to be part of my life so I dropped off the face of the planet.
I've seen rebounds go almost 1.5 - 2 years. Sometimes, the limerance can go a while. I've been in NC for 14 months - told my ex no friendship, reach out if you want to work on things. If they didn't care, why watch? Every day, every story. Almost every one I've dated has returned at some point. Some even 5-10 years later.
Coach Craig, I just want to thank you for all that you do for people. I was dating a woman, that I was crazy about and she always seemed so crazy about me. Her kids and family crazy about me too. Both kids by terrible fathers. One that was abusive. I went with her on a 13 hour trip, to go to court, to get full custody of her child and after we got back, she pushed me away. I was really confused, because everything was so good and then suddenly she’s pulling away, saying she’s not ready for commitment. I never begged, but I did reach out several times and tell her how I feel about her. I still hurt sometimes, because I do love her and those kids, but I’m so much better. I did everything I could and she will regret losing me one day, because I am the exact opposite of those abusive and cheating men, she was with prior to me. Plus, she knows I was there for her and supported her through very strong storms. No contact and your videos have helped me tremendously, and I can’t thank you enough.
Seriously, I see stories of some old colleagues on a daily base and because I'm not interested in their lives anymore, I JUST DON'T CLICK on them! I choose to ignore them for good. But my ex goes out of her way and watches my stories, the most recent one late at night. Y'all can talk as much as you want but THIS DOES MEAN SOMETHING! Just don't be the one to reach out. What they are doing is partly breadcrumbing. Let them cook and see what happens.
Almost one year later and I still get that one public profile viewing my stories on fb... come on babe if you still got feelings reach out because I can't. 😅😅😅😅😅😅🙏
You do what me and my ex did. Unfollow eachother and you won't have these 'problems'. They are called exes for a reason. Otherwise it's just keeping yours or their hopes up for nothing.
She firstly started to watch my story in September, then liked my photo, then she unliked the photo 1 month later, then her father wished me for Christmas and New Year, few days later, she did the same, texted me, and told me she is single, and told me to text her when I move to Germany, then after this, few days later she followed me in Instagram and now she always watches my story, but I didn't follow her back so I don't see her insta stories and things she do
@@kiwi-moon After the break up, nope, she didn't trust in me, and thought she can do better, now I want her to see me having success, and that she realizes how terribly she messed up everything
@@grilledcheese9297 Lol yes, I had great relations with her family, while her friends were against me, too bad she valued more her friends than her family
my ex left me about 2 years ago.. it really hurt when it happened but now idc anymore.. I still watch ur videos 😂❤ love the channel! Sending all you “ heartbroken hotel “ people love and healing!!! It gets better!!
I have blocked him on all my social media in order to make my life easier. But he found my TikTok. I blocked him for my own sanity , so I can move on. He left me after a 30 yr marriage and I’m still coping.
I deleted all my social media accounts bc I got tired of trying to analyze why he was looking at my stuff daily. It was just easy for me to heal afterwards… I left him bc he was abusive and a cheater
The guy that I was dating for almost 3 months broke up with me last night, but the next morning he was watching my status on WhatsApp until I posted the pictures of two handsome men that invited me to go out…
Couldn’t you consider posting on social media as breaking no contact if you know they are watching ? I wondered if you should stop posting or even make it so they can’t see your posts
It depends on what you’re posting. I only post every few weeks/few months. When i post, it has nothing to do with them or the situation. I only post good pictures from traveling, new selfies after upgrading my style, updates on the metal band i started, updates on my trade school education. Things that represent the good in my life since they decided to leave me. And dont do it because you want them to see it (maybe you want it a little bit) but post these things because you are genuinely creating a better you and you’re proud of it.
FA reache out bcos they get anxious if they feel they lose u (if U move on with NC only this happens ), my FA bf did few times. DA wont reach out much.
We aren’t talking and I’m blocked on WhatsApp but she’s watching everything I post, she liked one of my stories the other day but I didn’t react to it. Everyone’s telling me it’s for the best and I should move on but I just don’t know. I’m in NC for a second time but feel like this could be permanent even though I still want her back
I love watching your videos and they are very motivating. But currently I am struggling because of a break up due to religion and I need some help please. I saw lot of videos where you talk about getting over her and dealing with breakup but the thing is we have decided to stay friends as we are going to see each other almost everyday because of same work place and at the gym. I am Hindu and she is Christian. Our relationship was perfect and we never ever faced any challenges or problems apart from small disagreements that are a part of life but we always imagined as a perfect couple, in a very healthy relationship because we ever not dependent on each other. But suddenly last week after 10 months of relationship, she came to a realisation that she is not supposed to be with a non Christian because it is written in the bible that it is wrong and you are not suppose to be unequally yoked with non believers of Christ and things won't work out for us in the future. Please, your videos always motivate me, and can you please give me some guidance if is this a right decision by her or what should I do or any chance we can work things out or should we just go no contact because religion is something that cannot be resolved. Just some tips to help me overcome it please. I need help.
Mine does it from another faceless profile despite blocking me from her main account. I know she is because she’s mirroring everything i’m doing, which is pretty bizarre.
I am in no contact for two months. The last he will call me sometimes but waiting in vain. He do likes my pictures and views my WhatsApp status but not contacting me 😭
Okay im totaly confused. She broke up with me, I tried to talk to her after, Some weeks pasted and reached out. Got told it was a bad idea. Then I a week pasted and I made a voice chat to her where I told her I need clarity, I got it. And decided to remove her from all social apps, she then blocked me and I was fine living with the idea of not being able to see her or contact her. About 2 months has passed now and I got unblocked on FB and Insta. Still not friends or following each other. She has her profile on private and mine is open, I post a story yesterday. She watched it. She walk out of her way to go onto my account and watch my story. This is so weird behavior. Tell me someone has experienced something like this cuz I seriously don't get it
She was viewing my TikTok page every few days and I know because it showed in my profile views. Then she disappeared from my profile views for the last month.
I hope you see my question and guide me to an answer but he was looking at first but now he's not viewing my stories at all anymore, however he's posting more often on one social media platform.
He was being mean and trying to stroke his own ego- and see if you would tell him not to leave and stuff.. obviously an insensitive move, my ex did something similar- but they are all relieved and we are broken, they’re just thinking of themselves and their possibilities at this point.
My ex started. Watching my social media and texting. Me not to do the things I was posting after a few months of not wanting to see. Me. I never replied. Because I was hurt still
My boyfriend and I have no contact for 34 days, we are in no contact, he is not contacting me in any way, what should I do now? He lives far away from me, I live in Bangladesh and he lives in Germany. I love him very much. miss you so much Should I call or message him? Or should I wait for a few more days? I don't have enough money to visit him in Germany, please help me.
Anyone reading this please reply Me and her broke up 4.5 months ago after 22 days of breakup she went for rebound she was still stalking me time to time during her rebound and now recently she broke up with her rebound of 3 months she stopped stalking me 1 month ago should i reach out or should i wait I want to add one thing when we were together we promised eachother that we will meet every year on feb 6 so should i go there?
I checked on my exes who left me social medias for a long time, during that time I was trying to get her back. Then one day, I stopped, I moved on, I got happy again and realized how awful she was to me. Didn’t see/hear from her for over 6 months. Knew nothing about her and I still don’t, but she’s been around lately, showing face almost daily, drives past me, near my house, she drives by my work. I am dating again and met someone that I get along with very well. With me dating and my birthday coming up in a few days, I expect she’ll come back into my life somehow, she’s always gotta try to ruin anything good I got going. I do love her, god do I love her but I can’t be with her again.
I blocked my husband and his new gf everywhere except phone and email. If he wanted to contact me, he can. He doesn't get to throw me away after 17yrs, go to the streets and then thinks he can see what I'm doing on social media. He was the one who didn't want to be part of my life so I dropped off the face of the planet.
My ex does it everyday and he went into a rebound over a year ago. It's interesting for sure.
How long were you together
Almost 8 years
is it a rebound if its been a year?
I've seen rebounds go almost 1.5 - 2 years. Sometimes, the limerance can go a while. I've been in NC for 14 months - told my ex no friendship, reach out if you want to work on things. If they didn't care, why watch? Every day, every story. Almost every one I've dated has returned at some point. Some even 5-10 years later.
Coach Craig, I just want to thank you for all that you do for people. I was dating a woman, that I was crazy about and she always seemed so crazy about me. Her kids and family crazy about me too. Both kids by terrible fathers. One that was abusive. I went with her on a 13 hour trip, to go to court, to get full custody of her child and after we got back, she pushed me away. I was really confused, because everything was so good and then suddenly she’s pulling away, saying she’s not ready for commitment. I never begged, but I did reach out several times and tell her how I feel about her. I still hurt sometimes, because I do love her and those kids, but I’m so much better. I did everything I could and she will regret losing me one day, because I am the exact opposite of those abusive and cheating men, she was with prior to me. Plus, she knows I was there for her and supported her through very strong storms. No contact and your videos have helped me tremendously, and I can’t thank you enough.
Seriously, I see stories of some old colleagues on a daily base and because I'm not interested in their lives anymore, I JUST DON'T CLICK on them! I choose to ignore them for good. But my ex goes out of her way and watches my stories, the most recent one late at night. Y'all can talk as much as you want but THIS DOES MEAN SOMETHING! Just don't be the one to reach out. What they are doing is partly breadcrumbing. Let them cook and see what happens.
Almost one year later and I still get that one public profile viewing my stories on fb... come on babe if you still got feelings reach out because I can't. 😅😅😅😅😅😅🙏
Right thet get very stubborn
You do what me and my ex did. Unfollow eachother and you won't have these 'problems'. They are called exes for a reason. Otherwise it's just keeping yours or their hopes up for nothing.
She firstly started to watch my story in September, then liked my photo, then she unliked the photo 1 month later, then her father wished me for Christmas and New Year, few days later, she did the same, texted me, and told me she is single, and told me to text her when I move to Germany, then after this, few days later she followed me in Instagram and now she always watches my story, but I didn't follow her back so I don't see her insta stories and things she do
You don't want to be with her?
Even the dads reaching out lol
@@kiwi-moon After the break up, nope, she didn't trust in me, and thought she can do better, now I want her to see me having success, and that she realizes how terribly she messed up everything
@@grilledcheese9297 Lol yes, I had great relations with her family, while her friends were against me, too bad she valued more her friends than her family
@@michaelshollaj6428 How long where you broken up for?
Strange, it happened that my ex started liking my FB posts two and a half years after we stopped seeing each other!
my ex left me about 2 years ago.. it really hurt when it happened but now idc anymore.. I still watch ur videos 😂❤ love the channel!
Sending all you “ heartbroken hotel “ people love and healing!!! It gets better!!
I have blocked him on all my social media in order to make my life easier. But he found my TikTok. I blocked him for my own sanity , so I can move on. He left me after a 30 yr marriage and I’m still coping.
What if they are checking my socials when they’re posting pics of a person they’re dating? (even if they’re not official)
I deleted all my social media accounts bc I got tired of trying to analyze why he was looking at my stuff daily. It was just easy for me to heal afterwards… I left him bc he was abusive and a cheater
The guy that I was dating for almost 3 months broke up with me last night, but the next morning he was watching my status on WhatsApp until I posted the pictures of two handsome men that invited me to go out…
the next morning???
When I see their names as a person of interest, I block them immediately my ex’s Family check all the time and I have since block them
Couldn’t you consider posting on social media as breaking no contact if you know they are watching ? I wondered if you should stop posting or even make it so they can’t see your posts
It depends on what you’re posting. I only post every few weeks/few months. When i post, it has nothing to do with them or the situation. I only post good pictures from traveling, new selfies after upgrading my style, updates on the metal band i started, updates on my trade school education. Things that represent the good in my life since they decided to leave me. And dont do it because you want them to see it (maybe you want it a little bit) but post these things because you are genuinely creating a better you and you’re proud of it.
What if they're fearful avoidant? I know she wont reach out even if she wants to.
FA reache out bcos they get anxious if they feel they lose u (if U move on with NC only this happens ), my FA bf did few times. DA wont reach out much.
Should I block her so she can’t see?
We aren’t talking and I’m blocked on WhatsApp but she’s watching everything I post, she liked one of my stories the other day but I didn’t react to it. Everyone’s telling me it’s for the best and I should move on but I just don’t know. I’m in NC for a second time but feel like this could be permanent even though I still want her back
Update?
I love watching your videos and they are very motivating. But currently I am struggling because of a break up due to religion and I need some help please. I saw lot of videos where you talk about getting over her and dealing with breakup but the thing is we have decided to stay friends as we are going to see each other almost everyday because of same work place and at the gym. I am Hindu and she is Christian. Our relationship was perfect and we never ever faced any challenges or problems apart from small disagreements that are a part of life but we always imagined as a perfect couple, in a very healthy relationship because we ever not dependent on each other. But suddenly last week after 10 months of relationship, she came to a realisation that she is not supposed to be with a non Christian because it is written in the bible that it is wrong and you are not suppose to be unequally yoked with non believers of Christ and things won't work out for us in the future. Please, your videos always motivate me, and can you please give me some guidance if is this a right decision by her or what should I do or any chance we can work things out or should we just go no contact because religion is something that cannot be resolved. Just some tips to help me overcome it please. I need help.
What if you dont have social media but they are still watching your family members social media and my friends??
Mine does it from another faceless profile despite blocking me from her main account. I know she is because she’s mirroring everything i’m doing, which is pretty bizarre.
I am in no contact for two months. The last he will call me sometimes but waiting in vain. He do likes my pictures and views my WhatsApp status but not contacting me 😭
Okay im totaly confused. She broke up with me, I tried to talk to her after, Some weeks pasted and reached out. Got told it was a bad idea. Then I a week pasted and I made a voice chat to her where I told her I need clarity, I got it. And decided to remove her from all social apps, she then blocked me and I was fine living with the idea of not being able to see her or contact her.
About 2 months has passed now and I got unblocked on FB and Insta. Still not friends or following each other. She has her profile on private and mine is open, I post a story yesterday. She watched it. She walk out of her way to go onto my account and watch my story. This is so weird behavior.
Tell me someone has experienced something like this cuz I seriously don't get it
She was viewing my TikTok page every few days and I know because it showed in my profile views. Then she disappeared from my profile views for the last month.
What does it means when your watches your stories but in new relationship?
Please just hide your stories from your ex. I hope someday i will get there. It just hurts you and confuses you further.
If they broke up with me, is it a good idea to view their stories as well? Or no?
no. don‘t.
Interesting!
I hope you see my question and guide me to an answer but he was looking at first but now he's not viewing my stories at all anymore, however he's posting more often on one social media platform.
He never blocked me or anything like that not by phone or ANY social media platforms
@@aprilavila9282I think he already decided to move on
After my guy broke up with me he texted me a couple of days later and Said Happy Hunting. What does that mean
He said good luck trying to find another man as good as him.
He was being mean and trying to stroke his own ego- and see if you would tell him not to leave and stuff.. obviously an insensitive move, my ex did something similar- but they are all relieved and we are broken, they’re just thinking of themselves and their possibilities at this point.
My ex started. Watching my social media and texting. Me not to do the things I was posting after a few months of not wanting to see. Me. I never replied. Because I was hurt still
My boyfriend and I have no contact for 34 days, we are in no contact, he is not contacting me in any way, what should I do now? He lives far away from me, I live in Bangladesh and he lives in Germany. I love him very much. miss you so much Should I call or message him? Or should I wait for a few more days? I don't have enough money to visit him in Germany, please help me.
give him 3-6 month❤
@@Swiss_Girl We now broke up forever , He cheated on me. every night i suffering panic attack. I really love him. But now everything ended so badly.
@@ayaindrilamou3367I am so sorry😔 life has someone better for you. 💯%
Where's coach Margaret?
She passed away, there’s a video dedicated to her and what happened ❤
@@SebLucas1998 I can't find the video I looked and looked
What i dont understand is what does this mean? Does she expect me to do something now? surely there a more discreet ways to stalk lol
Anyone reading this please reply
Me and her broke up 4.5 months ago after 22 days of breakup she went for rebound she was still stalking me time to time during her rebound and now recently she broke up with her rebound of 3 months she stopped stalking me 1 month ago should i reach out or should i wait
I want to add one thing when we were together we promised eachother that we will meet every year on feb 6 so should i go there?
No, DO NOTHING. Stay in NC. And let her feel the lose. Stay strong.
@@Cornelius1212 thanks for suggestion 🤝
Do nothing bro, know your worth and stay strong. She'll come around. And if not you should be at the point where you're ok with that not happening.